Closing The Chapter On Mr. 2025

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Closing A Chapter

SPEAKER_00 0:00

Hi everyone, welcome back to MySheik Intuition. On this episode, we are closing a chapter. Not because I'm heartbroken, not because I'm confused, but because I believe in documentation. And today's case study is a man I will be referring to as Mr. 2025 because that is exactly where I left him.

The Case Of Mr. 2025

SPEAKER_00 0:21

In that year, in that energy, in that level of emotional development, we do not bring out data software into a new operating system. So let's start from the beginning.

Promises Without Action

SPEAKER_00 0:33

Mr. 2025 was giving good morning text, future plans, I want to see you, consistency in theory. And you know when a man speaks in bullet points instead of actions, yeah. He was very much, I'm going to take you out, I can't wait to see you, we should plan this. Sir, this is not a vision board, this is dating. And I, as a former over-romanticizer, was like, okay, we listen, we observe, we collect data. Because we are no longer in our clown era, we are in our research era.

The Canceled Date

SPEAKER_00 1:19

So we make plans, real plans, time, location, outfit, mentally prepared. Ladies, you know when the outfit is already in your head, the hair has a concept, the makeup has a direction, the fragrance has been selected. Emotionally, I had already arrived, and then the cancellation text. Last minute, not even 24 hours, not even uh let me reschedule this properly. And in that moment, I realized this man does not understand the value of a woman who had already planned her lip combo. So after he cancel, he comes back, and then suddenly he's like, I'm so sorry. I want to be consistent, I'll make it up to you, you deserve better.

Apologies And Performances

SPEAKER_00 2:06

And this is where it becomes Broadway performance. Because now you're not going to be consistent, you're delivering a TED talk about consistency. Why are you giving me a mission statement? Why does this sound like a company rebrand? I don't need a speech, I need you to show up at the restaurant.

Baseline Consistency

SPEAKER_00 2:26

And here's the difference between old me and current me. Old me, oh, he's trying, people make mistakes. Let me understand. Current me, consistency is not a personality trait you unlock after fumbling. It is a baseline requirement to access me.

Building With Patterns

SPEAKER_00 2:46

Because what I've learned, especially being on my disciplined journey, if a man cannot follow through on a simple plan, he cannot follow through on a life. And I'm not building with potential, I am building with pattern. Mr. 2025 was very much emotionally available in paragraph form, romantically interested in theory, consistent in apologies. He loved a good next time. Sir, there is no next time. This is not a Netflix series. You do not get renewed for another season. You have been canceled after the pilot.

Choosing Detachment

SPEAKER_00 3:21

And the real reason I'm telling the story is not to drag this man, it's to show my growth because I did not over-explain, overreact, overinvest. I observed, I detached, I archived, and I moved forward. And that is the glove up, not getting the date. But no longer being emotionally affected by the cancellation. So,

A New Era Of Standards

SPEAKER_00 3:43

Mr. 2025, if you're somewhere out there giving another woman a speech about consistency, we wish you healing, we wish you growth, we wish you a calendar app that sets reminders. But over here, we are in a new era. An era where my time is respected, my energy is protected, and my plans are not theoretical.

Sign-Off And Mindset

SPEAKER_00 4:03

This has been another episode of My Chic Intuition where we do not chase, we analyze, and I'll see you in the next one.