Ep. 121: How Toxic Shame Heals

The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}

The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}
Ep. 121: How Toxic Shame Heals
Mar 21, 2023 Episode 121
Robyn Gobbel

Part 3 of a 3 part series on toxic shame discusses how toxic shame heals and gives parents a map for how to be with kids who experience toxic shame.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • There is no technique or tool to heal shame
  • What toxic shame really needs in order to heal
  • The role of memory reconsolidation in healing toxic shame
  • Why holding the truth for our kids matters

Resources mentioned in this podcast:
Robyn's Book: https://robyngobbel.com/book/
The Club: RobynGobbel.com/TheClub

Previous Podcast Episodes:
Trauma, Memory, and Behavior Part 1
Trauma, Memory, and Behavior Part 2 (includes a F R E E download)
What Our Kids Really Need (and Us, Too): Moments of Healing

Read a summary or the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/toxicshame3

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Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE)
eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE)
Ongoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The Club
Year Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: Being With

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