In a word...EVERYTHING.
I talk about regulation constantly. So let's take a moment (or 25 minutes) and really define what that even is.
This episode defines regulation and then defines why it even matters.
When we can see how regulation is underneath behavior challenges, we can prioritize supporting regulation and not just stopping a behavior. This leads to long-term change, not just a short term band-aid solution.
Seeing our children's behavior challenges as regulation challenges means we see them for who they really are. It allows us to stay more regulated and to see them as a child struggling with regulation- not a bad child.
Because changing how we see people changes people!!
To go further into the discussion on Regulation, head over to my free resources and watch the free, 45 minute video series on Regulation, Connection, and Felt-Safety.
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