The Limitless Game: Sports, Inner, & Mental Performance Podcast

The Voice in Your Head Is Costing You Performance (Here’s How to Fix It)

Coach Jack Season 3 Episode 41

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In this podcast episode, Coach Jack leads a session on mental performance in sports, emphasizing the difference between reality—what actually happens—and the stories athletes tell themselves. Through examples, group exercises, and discussion, participants learn how inaccurate narratives can fuel anxiety and self-doubt. Coach Jack highlights the importance of aligning stories with reality to reduce mental struggle and improve performance. Mindfulness techniques, such as meditation and self-reflection, are encouraged to help athletes become more present, observe their thoughts, and respond more effectively to challenges both on and off the field. 

Defining Reality vs. Story (00:00:00) Explains the difference between actual events and the narrative athletes create about those events.

Aligning Story with Reality (00:01:13) Emphasizes the goal of making the story match reality for better mental performance.

Volleyball Serve Example (00:01:32) Uses a volleyball scenario to illustrate how athletes create inaccurate stories about mistakes.

Impact of Inaccurate Stories (00:02:19) Discusses how most mental struggle comes from believing inaccurate stories rather than facts.

Sports and Identity (00:04:01) Explores how athletes tie self-worth to sports performance and the importance of mindfulness.

Assignment: Identifying Stories (00:05:09) Assigns participants to reflect on personal examples of getting caught in a story versus reality.

Group Work Instructions (00:06:30) Pairs participants to create and share examples of separating story from reality.

Group Sharing: Examples (00:07:36) Participants share examples, such as thinking teammates are upset after a mistake.

Fear and Classroom Participation (00:08:37) Discusses how fear of judgment in class is often based on imagined stories.

Emotions and Stories (00:09:45) Connects emotional experiences to the stories we tell ourselves.

Solution: Closing the Gap (00:10:46) Introduces mindfulness and meditation as tools to observe and close the gap between story and reality. 

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