Let Go

We challenge the idea that control equals strength and break down why gripping outcomes is often fear in disguise. We show how surrender creates space, restores alignment, and helps you take action with more trust and less resistance. 
• circle versus square as a model for spirit-first alignment then structure 
• control as overcompensation for fear of uncertainty and not being enough 
• the river-to-the-ocean metaphor for letting life carry you while you steer 
• why forcing clients, relationships, or success creates resistance and burnout 
• how to spot the fine line between pushing through discomfort and forcing outcomes 
• surrender as releasing resistance rather than giving up 
• creating space to access creativity, freedom, and higher-quality decisions 
• rebuilding after breakdown seasons and extracting the lesson from repeating patterns 
• trust as presence, faith, and action without guarantees 
• alignment as a feeling you remember and resistance as the real problem 
• what is yours is yours and why comparison is scarcity thinking 
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Transcript

Infinite Self And Opening

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Once you see what you actually are, that you're an infinite, limitless being, you'll see that nothing exists outside of you. I'm your host, Derek Grant, and this is the Pathway to Your Results Podcast.

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Bro.

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Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the Pathway to Results Podcast. It is your boy, your brethren. DG, we're here. We're here. You know we are. Question is, where are you? Where are you at? Because we're here. This message today, this podcast today, if you are a control freak, I advise you to stay on or get off. One of the two.

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Okay?

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Well, it depends on what level of control freak you are, okay? I've never really won. Let me just say this. I do. I do have parts of me. There are parts of me

Circle Versus Square Mindset

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that I am a control freak. Okay. But for the most part of life, I've been like, I've always had this kind of detached state, right? So here's the here's the analogy I want you to think of, okay? Are you a circle or are you a square? I'm naturally a circle, okay? Circles are, there's no edges. There's no like really, it's just, it's just free-flowing, it's rounded, it's visionary, it's yeah, let's just go. That's the way I am for the most part in life. Some of us I know though, are squares, not in a disrespectful way. Not that, you know, you say call somebody, oh, you're such a square. No, you're a square in the sense that you need the structure, you need the certainty, you need the knowing. So ask yourself right now, am I a circle or a square? Okay. Why is this important? Because you have to understand the nature of circles and squares. So think of it like this circle is the spirit, square is the head. Circle is the spirit, square is the ego. If we have the square first and then try to put a circle on top of it, that won't work. It won't work. We have to be able to make a circle that's big enough so we can put the square on top of it on the inside. Can you visualize that? So as I'm sitting in my sauna the other day, I was just sitting there, I was just visualizing how life is a balance of circles and squares. But the key was to make sure that we allowed spirit to guide us and take us where we need to. And that's what we call alignment. And then we can go ahead and apply the square. See, the square comes in second. You bring the head in second. That's why logic, if you look at the six faculties of the mind, it was uh imagination, memory, intuition, reason. Intuition comes before reason, the spirit comes before the ego. Do we see how this works? So the reason why I'm saying this, because people say, well, I feel stuck, and I feel a lot of times, sometimes it has to do with strategy, but a lot of times it has to do with you won't let go.

The River Lesson On Letting Go

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You won't let go. Imagine this: you floating down a river of life, and you won't just float. We know that all rivers will eventually lead to an ocean. This river may lead to another river, and your goal was to get to the ocean. You're like, wait a minute, let me hold on this branch on the side. Why? And now you got thorns in your hand, you ain't going anywhere, the water's going in your mouth. Just visualize with me. I just need to get to the ocean. How am I gonna get to the ocean? I'm on this river. This river doesn't even look like climbing the mountains. How am I gonna get see? You see? And the river of life's like, how about this? Beat him up. Go ahead and go ahead and wash him around, throw him around. White river. Go ahead and go ahead and let him steal all the rapids, and then he'll surrender. Then she'll let go. So it just shows you that letting go is actually a part of the mechanism of the universe. I'm not gonna get into manifestation really about this, but when you start understanding, don't think because you try to control everything that that's being po that's using power. You know what control is? This is where you're gonna get off. This is where it's gonna be triggering. I know it is, so I apologize in advance.

Control Is Fear In Disguise

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All control is, is fear in disguise. That's all it is. You think that because you're in control, you you got strength. Oh, I got power, I know what's going on. No, that ain't it. So you got a fear of uh uh losing, you got a fear of uncertainty, you got a fear of not being big enough, you got a fear of not being seen. So guess what you do? You start overcompensating, trying to control everything. And now you're squeezing life around his throat. And life's like, I can't operate like this. So here's the key. It's not about you controlling life, it's about you jumping on the current of the tailwinds and allowing yourself to feel the flow of it and then steering and leaning and guiding. That's why you had to have a balance of being able to let go. You're not powerful when you are gripping life, you're actually moving in the energy of force and you're scared. And I know, I know what you're thinking. Yeah, but when I when I have control, when I have certainty, it feels safe. Do you need to go back to the episode before? Do we need to go back so you can remember that you being safe and comfortable is actually a pseudo-illusion that the ego's created so it can control? And the reality of it is is you don't have certainty for anything, and that's the beauty of life. That's the beauty of this experience. And you understand how we manifest everything, you understand how that works, you controlling everything. All you're doing is pushing everything away. That's how you're doing. So you think if you push more, you know, let me just let me just force this and grind this, then it'll happen faster. No, well. Universe is like, how in the world are we gonna let your little immature self get to where it is that you say you want to go? Because you're not even accountable, mature enough to know that you need to let go. Let's just look at everything from a child's perspective. It'd be like your you're you let your eight-year-old run the house. Let your eight year eight, let your eight-year-old run your whole household. The finances, the groceries, the laundry, the cleaning, let them run the whole thing. We laughing right now. Can you just imagine little Sandy? Imagine little Billy sitting here running everything. I'm just saying that Billy's a kid's name. I don't know. I never heard a kid named Billy in my life, but that's what they do in the movies. But just imagine them running every part of your life. Hmm? You'd be like, why are you doing that? Why'd I try to teach my kids how to cook, right? You know you start off with something easy. Maybe it's not easy. Maybe my eggs aren't easy. I started with eggs. Here we're gonna learn how to cook eggs.

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Let me tell you something.

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My son burnt them eggs to a crisp. Burnt. He said, Are they edible? I said, yeah, they're edible because you won't eat them. Yeah, they're edible. Yeah. So Carly came home. She's like, Dad, he's like, Dad, dad was teaching us how to cook. He said, but the eggs were they were overdone. They were cooked too much. I said, Well, guess what? You learn now. You learn now. I can't use it, can't leave them on the heat that long. But here's my point. Can you imagine if we let our kids do everything for us? Because they don't have the experience, they don't have the wisdom, they don't have the life experience, the knowledge. But yet we will do that as children. We are children in comparison to the infinite knowledge that exists in this universe. We are children. And we over here trying to control everything. Can you imagine this universe, God Source, Creator, the absolute, the all-a-what do you want to call it, Brown? He looking at you like you heart. This motherfucker, he over here telling me, look, he over here worried about whether or not he's gonna get there, she's gonna make this, or when it when is it gonna happen? Oh, please, please, but if you don't sit your, sit your butt down. You over here, you don't even, you, you just a baby right now. You over here thinking that you, if you don't sit your in, you don't even know how this thing on the outside is affecting you on the inside. Look, he over here talking about I'm gonna be successful and get to the top. You don't even realize that your inside world comes first before the outside. How in the world are we gonna give you that? Hmm? This is what the universe is saying to you. Imagine I'm doing a little role play. I suggest you figure out you first before you start coming to me and getting in my business. True story. True story. Yesterday we were in a game, right? We were in a basketball game yesterday, and I'm assisting coach. In the head, sometimes, you know, this is part of the game. You they they say it's an I don't say much to the ref, but some coaches say a lot to the ref, right? So this coach was just getting on the ref. The ref said, let me ask you something. How come I don't come to your job and tell you how to do your job? You don't see me telling you how to do your job. So why do you keep getting on me how I'm doing my just sit back and I was just standing up, I was like, dang, isn't that how life works? Why is it we try to tell the creator, the absolute, the all of this infinite consciousness, this infinite intelligence. We try to tell

Force Creates Resistance In Life

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it how to do its job, how we think it should go. We try to squeeze our finiteness into its infiniteness. This is us forcing. So then here's what ends up happening. And and and energetically, we gotta understand how this works. All you're doing is creating more resistance. All you're doing is moving in complete misalignment with this universe. This universe didn't know nothing. I'll sit and watch animals. Animals don't force nothing. They don't, they don't force, they just keep they just keep it moving. It is what it is. So why do you think every time that you chase after clients, they don't never call you back? Oops. I'm sorry. Why do you think every time that you force a relationship, it feels heavy? Why do you think every time that you uh try to rush your way up the club the ladder and try to be successful, you always get burned out?

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Hmm?

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Why you think every time that you the new year's hit and you're motivated, I'm ready to go, and you're over here training hard, you always end up with that injury around February. It's not because the universe is against you. It's because you're creating resistance through force. And hear me when I say this: there is a fine line between moving in alignment and forcing something. I'm telling you from firsthand example. I did this. There's a fine line between resting because that's what's needed and making an excuse to cop out. There's a fine line between you pushing because this is uncomfortable and you forcing something. There is a fine

The Fine Line Between Push And Force

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line. So here's the key because people are gonna ask, well, how do I know the fine line? It's about the energy behind it. It's about your inner state. Am I doing this out of fear right now? Am I doing this out of fear? Because here we gotta understand. This universe does not do well with fear. It doesn't. It don't want to have nothing to do with it. Matter of fact, I told you one thing I have figured out about ayahuasca, you drink it enough times. I probably drank over the course of my lifetime 100 cups of ayahuasca. When you drink enough of it, you start to realize, oh, it can't, it can't operate with uh uh fear. It can't, it doesn't get down. So it ain't even gonna do what it needs to do until you get that out of you. And here's the key. Here's the key, here's the key. It really ain't gonna do what it needs to do until your butt surrenders, until you stop trying to control and force everything. See, that's what we don't realize. You'll say that you trust the outcomes, you say that you trust, no, I trust that life is gonna work out, but you over here always digging up the seeds. You always sitting here, you warding around the house. When is it gonna happen? When are they gonna call me? Whatever done. You'll sit here and say, No, I'm abundant, I know it's gonna work out, but you stress over money daily.

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Hmm?

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You see how this works? See how that control comes in, right? Or we'll do this. I wanna be, I wish somebody would just love me, but yet you won't open yourself to be loved. You won't put yourself in a position to be vulnerable enough to experience love. Or we'll say, like, oh, I'm confident, but you always need validation. And now you will do things to create validation. You see how you control things? And then what ends up happening is when we live in control, do we not here we want to say this? When you try to control everything, you are living in complete contradiction of this universe. We're the only creature who will do this. And please understand, please understand, because I know what all my grinders out there are gonna say. All my grinders are gonna say, Well, what do I just give up? Surrendering is not giving up. Surrendering is not giving up. People think when you surrender, you quit. No. Surrendering is releasing resistance, it's releasing the need for you to dictate the outcome. If you need to dictate the outcome, the reason why you need to dictate the outcome is because you put yourself worth in the outcome. So here you are trying to make sure that you are enough, and you were the you validated, you approved of, and you try to control the outcome. It has to happen. This has to happen. I gotta do this, I gotta make this money, I gotta get to this level, I gotta do this, I gotta do it. No, you don't. Matter of fact, the universe is like, oh no, you don't. Oh no, you really don't. You ain't gonna get it. You can't. So letting go

Surrender Creates Space And Creativity

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doesn't mean that you stop. It means you stop forcing. And here's the deal: when you surrender, you create space. Say that with me. When you surrender, you create space. See, I've created I see I've surrendered, I've created space. There's days when I ain't got nothing to do. And there's a time when I'll find something to do. But now, if I ain't got nothing to do, let me do what it is that I want to do that makes me happy. See, I've made space now. And now, because I'm moving in a higher frequency, I got more access, I got more access to the infinite. You ever notice that you're most creative when you feel free? You ain't gonna feel free feeling locked up controlling something, bound to something, bound to an outcome, bound to uh this this one way that it has to happen. So when you surrender to something, this is you actually exercising your power. This is you actually walking in your divinity. Hmm? Surrender. Here's what I tell myself. I'm gonna just tell you what I tell me. I know I'm gonna get to where I'm going. Sometimes I gotta remind myself. I gotta remind sometimes I forget. Because it's hustling, bustling long days and tired, and then sometimes you gotta take a step back and remind yourself. I'm gonna get there. I'm gonna get there. That's one thing I'm going to do. You know why? Because I ain't gonna quit. And I'm gonna know when to just sit back and relax. And sometimes the water on that river of life, sometimes it's not choppy, sometimes it's calm. And you can swim now. Just start swimming. And then sometimes I just gotta let the current take me. You see how this works? So I don't know what season of life you're in. But sometimes life has to like rough you up a little bit. Sometimes life is gonna break you down because it's just trying to say, let go. Let go. I'm not trying to punish you, I'm just trying to free you. You over here wanting an outcome, you over here forcing everything. Pass the ball, bro. Pass the ball. Think about it like that. You know how it is. We have a saying with the AAU team. It's we over me. It's we over me. Now I'm trying to get some 13-year-olds to buy into that. That has been a challenge, right? Because they think, oh, I gotta do it all myself. No, you don't. Imagine if the organs in your body did this. Oh my goodness. Now y'all ain't imagine if your heart tried to do all the work. If your heart was trying to do all the stuff that the lungs does, if your heart was trying to do what the kidneys do, if your heart was trying to do what your feet do. Imagine that. Imagine if a heart was just this control freak and it's like, I'm controlling everything. I was the first one in this body. You guys are gonna do whatever I say. Imagine that. Do we not do this with the universe? We do this with life. We over here trying to try to force everything. Sometimes, sometimes, you will have to push. Sometimes you'll just have to allow. And that's why I tell you, trust is so important. So if you find yourself, you keep running into the same pattern, the same thing happens over and over and over again. Extract the information. There's a part of you that needs to heal. But know that life is trying to break you down because you are unaware of what you are holding and gripping. So

2019 Breakdown And Rebuilding Trust

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I look at it like this. I don't ever lose anything. I look back on my life when I went through this tough time back in 2019. I know I got tougher days on the way, but I got the tools now. I know they're coming. I got tools though. But I think back then, all this stuff left me and all this stuff. It wasn't leaving me. It wasn't leaving me. It was just making space. It was making space. You see, and I can look back. Good God Almighty, y'all stay with me. I can see now what life was doing. Life was just trying to get me to let go. I didn't even realize I was trying to control everything. I had all these dreams and all these goals and everything I wanted to accomplish. But I didn't know how. And I was so caught up in my head because I didn't realize that I felt so unworthy. I felt so little. This was all stuff I had such low self-esteem. I had so many things that I'd carried that I didn't even know. I had no idea. I didn't have the self-awareness. So life finally said, we're going to take everything. We're going to take everything. So you don't even have to try to hold on to nothing no more. The only thing that you're going to have left to hold on to is yourself. That's all you're going to have left. And from that moment, from that moment, from that moment, it was the rebuilding. It was the Phoenix rising from the ashes. It was, we're going to have to figure this out because we ain't got no choice but to figure this out. And all I had was my perspective. And I had my work ethic. And I had just a glimmer, just a glimmer of positivity. Sometimes that's all you need. I don't need to see all the light. I just needed to see that there was something at the end of the tunnel. I needed to know that there was an end. You see what I'm saying? So now I look at life, and I say, if I went through that, and I didn't know how I was going to get through that, but I can tell you how now I went through that, I know that life moves in patterns. It's going to have to repeat itself. It may look different on the service, but it's the same. It's a tear down, let go, increase awareness, change perspective, heal the wounds, move through it, apply, integrate. Oh, wait, life is starting to change. And don't start to get the hang of it. Don't start to now. Now you can now. Here's here's why I look at life now. I see it's a game. I see the patterns. I see it. I already know how it works now. I see it. Oh, I'm in that season right now where I got let go. This is uncomfortable right now because I'm so used to gripping. I'm a gripper. I'm a young gripper. I gotta let go of this right now. I gotta stop trying to control everything. Yeah, they told you they would call you back. Don't be trying to text them saying, like, hey, what's going on? Just want to make sure we're still good. They told you they would call you back. Why don't you trust? Because there's a lot of things that are moving that you can't see. There's a lot of things, I like this word. There's a lot of things that are coagulating, right? You over here trying to get this in the line, but you only see in part of the picture. I try to tell my kids that. Y'all stop worrying. Well, when are we gonna don't you stop worrying about that? You know how many other things I gotta figure out and move around that you'll never see? Trust me though, when I tell you it's gonna get done. That's what this universe is saying. Trust when we tell you you're gonna get there. But before you get there, we have to make sure that you are ready. So we got to move some things around. We got to take some things out of your life. We got to create some resistance so you can start to grow and evolve. Because right now, honestly, the pace that you move it at, you ain't gonna be able to get there and stay there. We want you to stay there. So now you start to see that control is not power. Good God Almighty. Y'all stay with me when I bring this home. Control

Trust Requires Presence And Uncertainty

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is not power. Trust is the real power. Trust is the real power. Trust, though, requires presence. Presence. Trust requires you being where your feet are. Trust requires uncertainty. That means you're gonna have to let go of the quote-unquote guarantees. Trust means you don't really know how. Trust means you're okay with not knowing. You hear what I'm saying? And now, now, now, now, now, you start to realize this stress. Trust is actually the highest form of strength. Trust is actually the highest form of power. Why do you think you look back and you read the Bible, you look at the Old Testament, look at the New Testament, look at everything was always built around faith, faith, faith, faith, faith. Is faith not the little sister of trust? Is it not? The two come intertwined together. So trust is you choosing, choosing, hear what I say, because we're gonna have a we have we're gonna always have a choice. Trust is you choosing peace, it's you choosing abundance, it's you choosing prosperity, it's you choosing positivity when there's no proof. There's no proof of it. There's no proof that I'm gonna get to where I'm going. Good God. There's no proof that I'm gonna figure out how to make these ends meet. When I'm down and out, I told my son I woke up on Christmas morning 2019 and had a negative. $135 in my bank account. I swear to you on everything. It was a negative $135 on a bank account. I got an alert from Chase Bank. Even in that moment, right then and there. I had to trust that I was still gonna be alright. I had to trust. I'm gonna get to where it is that I want to go. I'm gonna get there. I'm gonna get there. And here's what I realized in my 43 years. Ain't never gonna be there. There is no there. That was the illusion. There was no there. There's no there. Because guess what? I'm quote unquote here, but now I look and say, man, if I can get there, there is no there. So now that's why you gotta have trust. You gotta trust that each moment was exactly where you were supposed to be. And now here's what ends up happening. When you trust, good God Almighty, y'all stay with me. When you trust, time stops being your enemy. Time ain't gonna be your enemy when you start to trust. I'm not worried about when. I'm really not really worried. I'm I'm I could couldn't be concerned less with more with when. There's no pressure. I got no pressure. There's zero. If I get there, cool. If I don't, cool. But I know I'm gonna get there. Well, what if you don't? Well then I guess I didn't. I guess I wasn't supposed to be there. I guess you weren't supposed to marry that supermodel. I guess you weren't supposed to make it to the NFL. I guess you wasn't supposed to- I guess I guess not. But look at your life, it still worked out, didn't it? It still worked out. It's still working out. So here's the here's here's the deal. Okay. Take action without knowing the outcome. Just try it for once in your life. Just try it. I don't know how, and I don't know when, I don't know where. Just try it. Just take action. There's no certainty. Let things unfold without micromanaging.

Take Action Without Micromanaging

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Ground yourself in those moments of uncertainty. Stop trying to rush this divine timing. Divine timing does not operate on human time, just to let you know, if you haven't already figured it out. If you hadn't already figured it out. So therefore, if I know that, we won't go ahead and get rid of time. I just have to remind myself each day it's gonna be good. It's gonna work itself out. I know it will. It always has, it always will. Always has, it always will. It always has, it always will. Someone asked me, they said, What do you think about all this stuff going on? And I ran and all that and all that. I said, Well, I think it's unnecessary, but it's necessary. I think it's humans, just being humans, low awareness, bunch of people in positions of quote unquote power, but they the weakest ones. They have the least amount of self-awareness, they have the most heat wounds to heal. Now you're seeing the physical manifestation of it. I'm gonna go and bomb your country and tear you up and do this because you ain't doing life the way I want you to do it, blah, blah, blah, blah. You see how this works? Right? So they were asking me, what do you, what do you, well, do you handle it? I said, well, here's how I handle it. I make myself better. I make myself better. Simple. I'm not gonna let all that stuff uh pull me down, too. What good is it to do that? We just go ahead and pull everybody down? No. So I don't give energy to it. And I make sure I bring more light to the world. I make sure I go just a little bit harder for me. You see what I'm saying? Yeah, no, maybe it's not a big light, but it's a light. And that light matters. So, Epstein files, Iran, uh, doesn't matter what's going on. This is this, this. When you see negativity, let that be a prompt for you to turn your light up. You see how this works? And now here's what ends up happening. When there's enough light, the darkness can't exist. But we get wrapped up in the darkness. I'm about to go on untanged. Y'all about to take me on a whole nother podcast. I'm not gonna let you do it. You see, you always have my squirrel

Turn Darkness Into Personal Light

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brain going down a whole nother, I ain't gonna do that. You get what I'm saying though. It's about you trusting that everything is supposed to be exactly the way it's supposed to be. Everything is aligned, everything. And when it's not aligned, guess what? It's still aligned. That misalignment was still a part of alignment. So that's why you don't have to force anything. You got to understand what's yours is yours. You ain't gotta force nothing that's yours. Do you hear me what I'm saying? Everything that comes to you was divinely, uniquely made, tailor-made for you. It was made for you. You ever go in to men's warehouse? You know men's warehouse, all my women, maybe you haven't been to men's warehouse. But you go to men's warehouse and you go buy a suit and they do that thing where they they put those pins in your shirts and everything, right? And they measure you and everything. When you put that suit

Alignment Is A Feeling You Remember

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on and they finally make it, that suit is made for you. That suit ain't made for nobody else. Nobody else. This goes for everything: your body, your mindset, your perspective, your parents, your upbringing, all of that was tailor-made divinely for you. So stop trying to force everything. Instead of trying to force, instead of trying to chase, ask yourself, am I aligned? And only you will know what alignment feels like. Alignment is a feeling. Do you see how this works? So now you ain't gonna do things out of uh desperation anymore. You ain't gonna do things out of scarcity. You're gonna do this out of trust now. I'm gonna do this because this feels right. Yeah, but you were just doing this yesterday. I know, but things have changed. The winds have changed in my life. Yeah, I was going that way, but now I want to go this way. And guess what? I might turn around and go back the other way here tomorrow. I don't know. But here's the deal: I'm following what intuitively feels aligned to me. And I suggest you do the same thing for you and get out of my business. Do you hear how this works?

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And now you'll start to see that alignment isn't built. It's remembered.

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It's remembered. You were always aligned. Your soul came with its own unique fingerprint, it already knew where it needed to go. And then you'll start to see this river, this current of life. You don't have to actually get in the flow state, man. I gotta get in the flow state. People always say, man, I gotta get in the flow state. Ain't gotta get in no flow state. You already are in the you already are in the flow state. You gotta remove the resistance, knucklehead. Get rid of the resistance, get rid of all these things that you hold on to. Do that, and you'll see like, dang, I was already in alignment. Mother Aya tried to tell me, all you got to do is get out the way. All you got to do is let go. That's it. Just let go. She yelled at me. I told you in the episode, she said, I control everything. Dang, okay. Okay, you got it. You got it, it's yours. I'm letting go. Okay.

A One Day Challenge To Let Go

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So for all my control freaks, just try for a day. Let go of the needing to uh the need to know. You don't need to know when. You need to know wow, you don't need to know none of that. Let go of needing it to happen right now. Let go of needing people uh uh to understand you. They don't need to understand you. You asking people to understand you, you want people to understand you, but they don't even understand themselves. So how they gonna understand you? I feel so misunderstood. Well, of course you're gonna feel misunderstood. You got a bunch of people who don't understand themselves, and you don't understand yourself, and you seek it for them to understand you. Why don't you understand yourself? Do that first. Do that, okay? You see how this works. Let go of feeling the need to control the outcome. Focus on the income, focus on the interstate, focus on the interior. You don't need to control, you need alignment. This will be key in your life. So I just wanted to say this because there is a fine line of you pushing versus aligning.

Intensity Means Aligned Action Over Time

SPEAKER_01 30:00

When you get aligned and then you push, now, now, now, and you can do this long enough for a duration, that's what intensity is. Intensity is when you are aligned and you push at the same time. When I have intensity, meaning I'm aligned and I'm pushing, and I can do this over a duration, you have just amplified the amount of quote unquote time it takes. You've just collapsed space and time on a quantum level. You hear what I'm saying? I'm just getting ready for the quantum retreat. This is how you do it. I'm so aligned from moment to moment, from day to day. And look at the winds. Look how the winds change direction throughout the day. They don't stay in the same direction the whole day, they change. The same goes for the microcosm of life in you. One minute you're here, the next minute you're there, you gotta give yourself permission to follow your soul's alignment because your soul already knew the wind's gotta change. We're going this way now because there's some things that are happening up there. There's a blessing that's waiting for you, but we gotta make sure that you're in the right frequency to be able to receive it. So we gotta shift you this way. We gotta take this out. We gotta take you down through the depths to the heaven, uh, through the valley of death, so you can feel the change that needs to take place. You can feel these wounds so you can start to change, and then you'll get there and you'll be like, dang, this was always mine. Yeah, it was always yours. So that's why you don't gotta be jealous of anybody. You ain't gotta worry about nobody else. What's yours is yours. It ain't going anywhere. It's yours. And know that whatever's yours in the quote unquote future, it's waiting for you. Ain't nobody else gonna pick it up. Ain't nobody else gonna take it. So that's why you ain't gotta rain on nobody's parade. I'm gonna celebrate when you do it. I'm gonna celebrate you. I used to think, oh well, dang, that was supposed to be mine. No, it wasn't. That's scarcity. Because what's yours is yours. There's enough for everybody. And here's the beauty of it you'll start to see that that suit that you had that was tailored. You ain't gotta look at nobody else's suit saying, dang, that fits good. How come? No, all you gotta do is put them arms out, let her go ahead and measure your end seam and all that good stuff, and the universe is gonna tailor make your suit. And when you put that mother, when you put that suit on, you better stretch your stuff. You better walk around and celebrate the way the suit feels. You can sit down and you know them pants ain't gonna slip. They ain't gonna slip in the back. They ain't gonna be no rip seams because it fits you. This is why you don't have to control nothing. Align yourself.

Tailor Made Life And Enough For All

SPEAKER_01 32:32

Now, I haven't been talking about it, but I got the ELC coming up here soon. The ELC, the Embodied Leadership Collective. I'm taking 23 individuals, 23 people on a journey who are entrepreneurs, who are business owners, who want to scale their business through scaling their inner business.

Embodied Leadership Collective Invitation

SPEAKER_01 32:48

They want to become the CEO of their life so they can grow the outer business. This is what this ELC is. This is this is uh mastermind like no other mastermind. 23 people is all I'm taking. Okay, 23 people in the world. I don't know how many people, 40,000 people are gonna listen to this episode in a month. So 23 of you all. You can click on the link in this in the uh in this podcast and you can get yourself. There's an application process. I'm not taking everybody who applies. You got 20 questions you got to take uh on the application you got to go through, but um this is 5D entrepreneurship. I can only tell you what I've experienced and what I've done. So if you're a coach, if you're a healer, if you're uh it doesn't matter if you're a fitness coach, an online coach, uh basketball coach, coaches coach, it doesn't matter what you are. If you have a business and you want to grow it, I'm gonna show you really how to grow it. And it ain't gonna be so much, there's gonna be some strategy. We're gonna talk about social media, marketing, and all that good stuff, but I'm gonna show you what the real business is. I'm gonna show you the real business. And then you'll start to say, dang, how did my business grow so quickly, so fast? And I did less quote unquote work. Yeah. So the ELC, the Embodied Leadership Collective. We're starting here uh in May. Uh go ahead and get yourself applied. Uh application process. We're gonna have a lot of applications to go through. So uh go ahead and get yourself signed up. And here's the deal: if you get selected, this is an investment into your future, into your lineage, into your your your your your uh your family, your business. It's an investment. See, investment I N. That means it starts on the inside first. So uh, as always, you know, you know, you know the TL. Keep going. And I wish you nothing but the best on the pathway to your results.