Paradigm Shifting Books
What if 40 books could completely change how you see the world? Join brothers Stephen H. Covey (business) and Britain Covey (NFL veteran), grandsons of renowned author Stephen R. Covey, as they explore the most essential reads in personal and professional development. With insights straight from the authors, you’ll discover how timeless principles apply everywhere - from the boardroom to the locker room. These are the paradigm shifts that unlock growth, purpose, and lasting performance.
Paradigm Shifting Books
Why Being Proactive is the Ultimate Superpower (Replay)
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In this episode of Paradigm Shifting Books, hosts Stephen and Britain Covey explore Habit 1, Be Proactive, from their grandfather Stephen R. Covey's The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People. Featuring archival audio clips of their grandfather teaching in the 1980s and 90s, this "Power Principle" episode reveals the difference between proactive and reactive living. Dr. Covey shares Viktor Frankl's discovery of the "last human freedom," the power to choose your response to any circumstance, and the story of a nurse who realized she had chosen her own misery and could therefore choose otherwise.
In the second clip, Dr. Covey introduces the Circle of Influence vs. Circle of Concern through the story of Ben, an employee who transformed his organization by focusing on what he could control. Stephen and Britain reflect on why taking responsibility is not daunting but deeply empowering and why this timeless wisdom is more urgent than ever.
Tune in to hear Stephen R. Covey's own voice teach these powerful principles and discover how one simple shift in focus can change everything.
What We Discuss
- [00:00] Introduction
- [00:40] What makes this episode different
- [01:58] Habit 1 explained
- [02:26] The opposite of proactive
- [03:18] Viktor Frankl and the last human freedom
- [05:20] The nurse story: from prison to liberation
- [07:26] Why taking ownership feels daunting but is ultimately empowering
- [08:56] The circle of influence and circle of concern
- [09:19] Where proactive vs. reactive people focus their energy
- [12:00] The story of Ben
- [14:24] Conclusion
Resources
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Book
- The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen R. Covey
Stephen R. Covey
Britain Covey
Stephen H. Covey
Mentioned Episode
- Viktor Frankl – Man’s Search for Meaning