WTFU S2:E2 Living From the End Result

Season 2, Episode 2 – Living From the End Result

What if the life you're dreaming about doesn't begin when your circumstances change... but when you do?

In this episode of WTFU (Wake the F Up!), Lori and Stacey explore what it really means to "live from the end"—to become the version of yourself who already embodies the life you want to create. They discuss the power of intention, conscious co-creation with the Universe, and why waiting for external proof often keeps us stuck exactly where we are.

This isn't about pretending. It's about aligning your thoughts, choices, and actions with the future you're calling into existence.

Join us for an honest conversation about manifestation, identity, possibility, and the small daily shifts that can completely change the direction of your life.

In this episode:
• What "living from the end" actually means
• Co-creating with the Universe through intentional action
• Practical ways to begin living your future today

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Wake the F Up... because the life you're waiting for may be waiting for you to become the person who can receive it.

Transcript

SPEAKER_02 0:00

Hello, everybody, and welcome to the podcast. Here we are, season two, episode two. This is Lori. I'm here with Stacy. And today we are going to talk about living from the end result. And this isn't really a fake it until you make it type of thing. But at the same time, there is some immersion that would need to happen. So the question would be basically: if if your dream were already true, and I know that we kind of touched on this last time, but how would today be different for you? Like not next year, not after the money arrives or the person shows up or whatever. But today, how would your life be different? And what does living from the end actually mean? Because so, you know, most of us we we say, okay, so I need for X thing to happen so that I can become Y, you know, the letter Y, so that I can finally feel Z, right? So I need more money so I can be secure, so I can finally feel peaceful or whatever. But, you know, if you're living from the end, that can kind of flip that on its head. So it's like you're choosing the version of yourself who already has what you're seeking. And so then your questions would become like, how would that version of me think? How would they make decisions? What would they stop worrying about? And so, you know, it's not like you're pretending that you already have millions of dollars in your bank account, but you're just practicing becoming the person who naturally creates that life. And so for me, the analogy would be an actor. So when they play a role, they're not walking around saying, I'm pretending, right? They actually immerse themselves, they think differently, they walk differently, speak and react differently, like because they're being the person that they are going to be portraying in this movie. And so the more that they do that, eventually it becomes effortless. And one other thing is that some of these actors they immerse themselves so deeply in that role that they refuse to come out of it when they're not on set, like they stay in there, you know what I mean?

SPEAKER_01 2:56

And that's how, like, uh was it Keith Legger? That's where he was immersed in the role for the Joker. Yes.

SPEAKER_02 3:07

Yes.

SPEAKER_01 3:08

And when you talk about that, like, that's immediately where I go, and I'm like, oh yeah. Remember how his life was at that stage, and he was still playing, quote unquote, the role. And when you think of immersing yourself in the world that you are trying to project outward and attract inward, right? Yeah. I think how it's supposed to go. Um doing all the dudes that you can do, being in action.

SPEAKER_02 3:48

Right. Exactly. And you you touched on that last the last episode about being in action. And I think that you know, manifestation in many ways really does ask us to do that same thing, not to lie, but to actually rehearse our future until it feels familiar instead of impossible, you know, to live from that space as much as we actually can. And I I think that you know, an important distinction would be the difference between acting as if, like that you are pretending, and living from the end, because I think that acting as if can become performative, where you know, I'm smiling because I'm supposed to, I'm pretending everything's okay. But I think that living from the end is different in that it is an internal knowing. Like I don't need to chase this thing, I know where I'm headed. I'm the one who fucking created the vision for it, and so I can enjoy today because my future isn't in doubt. I know where I'm headed.

SPEAKER_01 5:04

And let me just put this out there for everybody. When we're talking about this, like I'm on the opposite end, I'm in my stuck, I'm being stuck right now. So I I can't see and project the end result. I can, and it's funny because the whole conversation between Lori and I on the topic before we started hitting recording of like we record, right? I I I'm totally on the track bus right now. I am trying to figure out my crap. And you know, just being cool and just, you know, being real about our experiences and where we're at right now, and you know, immersing ourselves, and then it dawned on me. Once you can't record, and as we're talking about this, um we I'm sorry, I, at the beginning of the year, my word was immersing. And I'm like, oh my goodness, are you serious? That was coming as we're talking about this, and I'm like, this is what I'm supposed to be doing right now. Okay, this is like another smack in the head. Wake up, like, like this is what you're really supposed to be doing right now. So just uh record, right? I'm just gonna put this out for everybody so you can understand my struggles and where I'm at, is I am on my second week of being super slow at the office, and I'm starting to like pedal, right? Because I'm like, oh my god, I'm not good enough, or I'm comparing myself to other people. Why are they working? Why are they busy and I'm not busy? Do I have to move? Do I have to create something else? Do I have to, you know, I'm in that mindset, right? And then like, okay, just slow down, take a breath, yeah, think about what's going on, and then how can you focus on the things that you're really good at, right? Instead of like making all these ripple effects.

SPEAKER_02 7:35

Well, yeah, I mean panic in that state of mind, right? Yeah, when you when we get in that place, we we really are creating actually more chaos because we're panicking. We're you know, we're stuck in that place of fear, which I love the I love that fear is actually false evidence appearing real. It's just bullshit. It's just shit that your mind is creating that it it isn't true. And and I think if we can actually go back and remember and look at other times that we've been in in situations like this, and the fact that you're here today tells me you've been in the shit before and you've made it out because here you are today. So you've been through everything, you've made it through every little thing that you've been through in your life, no matter how big or small, because here you are today. And so, you know, even if it's let's just say somebody wanting better health, right? I'll start living my life fully once I lose 50 pounds. Fuck that. Instead, like ask yourself, like, what would a healthy person do today? So, you know, maybe you're just drinking more water or you, I don't know, take a walk, or you stop criticizing yourself, you know, you choose to nourish your body over punishing it, and and not because you have to, but because that's simply who they are, like that's who you would be if you were already living from the end result. You know what I mean?

SPEAKER_01 9:23

Yeah, and even this conversation has made me okay, I was at like 0% not thinking, you know, in my box and struggling and like the ripple effect and creating fear, and now I have like moved to the halfway point, and I'm thinking, oh, how can I create what can I do right now to help the situation to help emerge myself into that person of the end result? Who can I what actions can I take to again? I I just feel like be in action, be in action, right?

SPEAKER_02 10:10

Well, but also remember too that thinking is also an action. So you can all about the mindset right exactly. So you can look at okay, well, what does an what does an abundant person believe? What does somebody that doesn't have issues with money think? Well, they stop obsessing over every penny, they stop assuming that disaster's coming. You know what I mean? Like they invest in themselves, they make decisions from possibility instead of fear. That's okay. Life happens, right? Yeah, yeah, but I just I I just think that if we can God, I don't know. I mean, I I don't I don't know how to get people to trust. I don't know how to other than to remind people, like go back through your life and look at all the times that shit worked out. And even when you thought in the moment that it wasn't working out, how you know hindsight's 2020. So you you have the ability to see later, wow, if this thing that I wanted so much had actually happened, my life would be absolute shit right now. Like if I wound up with that person, you know, he's in jail, or you know what I mean? Like you you can see how things in the past actually did work in your favor and how the trajectory of your life was changed because something didn't happen.

SPEAKER_01 12:09

You know, resurrection. It's resurrection of the energy.

SPEAKER_02 12:16

Yeah, absolutely. And you know, even even that relationship-wise, you know, instead of thinking that I need someone to complete me, that it's bullshit, you know. Jerry Maguire was all you know sweet and everything, but no, Tom, you know, Tom Cruise does not complete you, you know what I mean? It's like you're you're whole already on your own. And so instead of looking for something outside of yourself, treat yourself as if you already felt deeply loved, and then love yourself enough because I'm telling you, it's it's never gonna be something external, everything comes from within you.

SPEAKER_01 13:02

So changing buying yourself flowers, right? Taking yourself fancy, yes, yep.

SPEAKER_02 13:12

Well, and even so, uh a question to ponder would be like, let's just say if we won half a billion dollars tomorrow, what would like how would you be different? Like, I don't want to know about the actual money, I want to know like what would you actually do? Would you, you know, would you sleep better because you have you know you're more peaceful because you don't have to stress anymore? Would you laugh more? You know what I mean? Like, what would be different for you? Would you stop trying to prove yourself to other people? Would you become more generous? You know how would how would life be different?

SPEAKER_01 14:01

Gosh, it's just uh you don't you wouldn't have to worry. It would just have that whole piece being like sucked out of you. If you could just take a vacuum and suck that part out of you and not have to worry about it and just be in the now and just be in the present.

SPEAKER_02 14:24

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 14:25

And then carry on doing whatever you're supposed to be, you know, doing.

SPEAKER_02 14:33

Yeah. Well, and that that right there brings me to the fact that we are currently in a one year in numerology. So, you know, whether you believe in numerology or not, the a one year is really it's first of all, it's the beginning of a nine-year cycle, but it's seed planting energy. It's about new beginnings, new identities, new choices. And, you know, like I said, whether you believe in numerology or not, every single day gives us the opportunity to begin again. So, you know, who are you creating yourself to be today? And and what can you do to live from that end result? First of all, I think that if you don't already have a vision for that end result, you need to get one.

SPEAKER_01 15:34

That's for sure. And the funny thing is, is that I can see it in myself. I can already see the person I am becoming. I can see the clients coming, I can feel the clients coming towards me and helping with their mental health and helping with their healing or quantum healing, hypnosis, and soul work. Like I can feel that. All in the experience of the feelings of who that person really is, how you would take on that role, how do you get the clients? Not really how to get the clients just yet, but like training your mind to think, I'm already there, I am already that person.

SPEAKER_02 16:32

Well, and I think that that really does go back to what I said earlier about remembering all the times that things worked out for you, because if you can remember any of any of them, really, truly, any of them, and remember how things actually did work out, and and that you were like, I don't know, you were able to pay the bill or whatever, or even because in my circumstances many years ago now, but I ended up having to file bankruptcy. I lost my home. And I know that it all happened. I mean, oh my god, it sucked. And I still to this day miss that freaking house. But I understand that it had to happen the way that it did in order to bring me to the place that I am today. I get it, and and that is that is me acknowledging that it it did in fact work out for me, it worked in my favor. Because not only would I not be where I am, I wouldn't be the person that I am today if I hadn't gone through everything that I went through. Because let me tell you, it took I I became so much stronger in that period of my life because of all the shit that I went through. So I don't know. I I think it really comes down to having faith, trusting in the process, trusting that the universe has got your back, the universe knows what you want and is trying to guide you in the direction of the manifestation of that, whatever that is for you, because obviously we all have our own unique path and things that we signed on to do here. And I think if we just trust the the nudgings of our soul and pay attention to whatever's coming through for you, just get out of your mind, you know, get out of your head about it. That's the biggest thing. Get out of your head about it.

SPEAKER_01 18:48

Because it's more of a and the one thing that you did say, and I believe it to the core, is trusting the process. Oh my gosh, it's so frustrating, it's so like Jesus on a screen because you're just like, oh my god, I'm in it right now. The pressure is building. But then if you just trust the process and just trust the universe that the universe has your back and the universe will provide, I mean, it comes on a die. It turns on a die. It's funny because I just want to plug this really quick. I saw for July, how July's energy was gonna go. And I literally, everything's gonna turn on a die. You might be going one way, and then all of a sudden you get a feeling. You're like, okay, I gotta pause. I gotta turn directions because something's not working, or I'm not supposed to be doing this right now, or I'm not supposed to be having this friendship right now, or I'm not supposed to be creating this project right now. I need to put it on pause, or I'm editing it. And it's like turning on a time, and then it's like, oh, okay, trust the process, right? Trust and have faith that the universe will provide as you are becoming this person and the end result of having, you know, getting back to who you want to be. How does that feel? What does that look like? What state of mind are you in? What what furniture what furniture is do you have around yourself? Or it's not even the material material things, it's just like how would it feel? How would it feel?

SPEAKER_02 20:50

That's honestly that right there is the most important question because it if we can tap into the feeling that we think we're going to feel once the manifestation of whatever, fill in the blank, shows up. If we can tap into that feeling now, if you can look at your life and say, okay, so let's just, I'm gonna take money for instance, because the that's the biggest challenge for so many people. It is because we want that stability that we want to be able to fucking exhale for once, you know, and not have to worry about every little thing. How are we gonna afford to pay rent? How are we gonna be able to feed our kids? How are we gonna be able to maintain the car, take care of our pets, you know? If we can find something in our lives right now, already that gives us a feeling of that expansiveness, of that peaceful nature. That we're looking for with the manifestation of financial abundance and feel into that, that feeling can transfer. It doesn't have to be about the money, you know what I mean? And I think that when we get to that point where we're so freaked out about shit, we start trying to force a square peg into a round hole and make something happen when that will never ever ever be the way. I mean, yeah, you can you can force shit to happen, but I'll tell you right now that something else will fall by the wayside, or you know, something else is gonna be off, thrown off because it was always a nominal effect. Yeah. Yes, absolutely. So, you know, that's why it is trusting the process and understanding that what's going on right now is exactly what needs to happen, it's exactly what you know, you are where you're meant to be, even if it feels like in the moment, like, oh my god, this is terrifying. No, stop, take a breath, you know, exhale and just look at the other areas of your life that are going as you would like them to. I've almost said as planned, but you know, plans are uh a freaking joke, you know. I mean, if you can just look at the other areas that are actually working out and you can feel into that peace in those areas or the joy, love, harmony, especially peace and harmony, you know, because that's what we all want. So if you can find the areas that are already working out and focus on those and just relax, you will get the intuitive hit for what to do next. You just have to be in a space to to allow it to come through, not so much up in your head about oh my god, what what am I gonna do? How am I gonna fix this thing? You're not chill the fuck out.

SPEAKER_01 24:21

That is so true, and then it brings me back to uh, you know, trusting and allowing and listening to your inner voice.

SPEAKER_02 24:35

Yes, absolutely, and and I think too that you know, if if we can do that, if we can quiet our minds and we can just kind of ask the question, like, you know, what future version of me is trying to influence the decisions that I'm making today? You know, try and tap into that person and say, you know, what are you trying to show me? And what would you like me to do? What steps would you like me to take to get there? Because wherever you are, that's where I want to be. That's where I that's you know, that's where I'm headed.

SPEAKER_01 25:11

And so if there's that whole portion of what you just said, yeah, I encourage everybody to whoever is listening to this podcast today, take that section of what Lori just said and make it a journal prompt. Or if you are just jotting something down, Spirit will talk to you. Either you'll know it, or if you just jot it down, you'll start writing some little lippets here and there, or you'll actually start writing stuff from your heart. And I feel like that is a really good journal prompt to have for today.

SPEAKER_02 25:57

Absolutely. Well, and and not only that, I mean, if I were already living my dream life, what would I choose right now? Well, for me, it's this. I would absolutely be recording this podcast with you. That's literally what I would want to be doing.

SPEAKER_01 26:18

Right?

SPEAKER_02 26:19

Yep.

SPEAKER_01 26:21

And have hundreds of people listening to us.

SPEAKER_02 26:24

Yes. Yes, absolutely. Because, you know, I mean, it's it's not perfect yet. It's it's just it's honest. I mean, you know, I've been doing more readings, and I've been I just finished school like literally yesterday. I completed all of it. Yes, thank you. Thank God. I'm so I'm so happy to be done with it. I hated it. But, you know, it's just, I don't know. I mean, this is what I would be doing. I would be recording the podcast, I would be doing my card of the day. I and I actually would be doing more. I want to get back to doing my Zodiac Oracle readings and actually pulling by sign, at the very least for the monthly overview. And now that I'm done with school, that's absolutely what I'm gonna do. I mean, it's 12 videos, they can be however long, whatever the cards want to show. You know, I don't care if it's 15 minutes, I don't care if it's an hour, you know. I'll record whatever wants to come through for each sign and just getting back to that because it brings me a lot of joy to do it, first of all, because I love that that connection that I get when I'm doing a reading, but also because I think that it's helpful, you know. I watch other people's videos on the same thing, and it just it just gives me confirmation of what's coming through for me and what I'm also feeling that is shaping up.

SPEAKER_01 28:02

So I love I absolutely love that for you.

SPEAKER_02 28:07

I do too, thank you. So, yeah, I mean, you know, living from the end isn't about pretending that you've arrived, it's really about allowing the future that you're creating to become your compass instead of your reward. Like to, you know, to envision it and and allow the allow the steps to present themselves so that you can follow them and and move in the direction that you really want to go.

SPEAKER_01 28:45

So it's funny because last night I had a reading done and the compass came out, a merging came out, trusting and believing in the universe came out like it's more validation, it is a different way of hearing the information that your body and your soul needs to know.

SPEAKER_02 29:10

Yep, yep, absolutely, and you know, the the biggest thing, and I and I've been saying this for years because I I've been I've been hearing it for years. Actually, I first heard it from Mike Dooley. I don't know if anybody knows who he is, but he's uh from The Secret back in 2006, and well, I mean, he was doing things in this realm long before that, but um he does the notes from the universe, and um anyway, so Mike Dooley, he's the thoughts become things guy, and his thing is to stop focusing on what he calls the cursed house. That is not our business. We just set the destination on the GPS, which is the vision that you hold in your mind of what you want your life to look like, and then you put put the car and drive, and you go and you follow the instructions on the GPS. You turn here, you turn there, you you know. I mean, don't worry about how you're going to get there or what steps you're going to take. Don't force it, just allow it to naturally unfold and pay attention to what's coming through for you. I the the reading that I did yesterday, I've well, I did a a party, but I did a in just a one-on-one over the phone, and she had this physical sensation that was coming up in her body about something that she was considering, and she just like she knew that it that was the universe telling her absolutely yes, yes, yes, yes, move forward with this thing because this is the next step for you. But hers was an actual manifestation physically, and I love that, yes, oh my god, I would love oh, I would yeah, I would be overjoyed if I had something that was so obvious, you know what I mean? Right, because it's not always, you know, a lot of times it's just it's a very subtle thing, but you know, that's the nuances of life, and you I I think the more you get out of your head and get out of your own way, the easier it is to not only hear and and pick up on those little hints, but but the easier it is for you to follow them.

SPEAKER_01 31:50

Very much so. Yeah, so I absolutely love that.

SPEAKER_02 31:58

Yeah, I do too, and and I'm I understand, I mean, I'm not I'm sure as shit not saying this is as easy because trust me, I know I've been doing this for 20 years, and I know it is not. I still have healing to do and I still struggle with shit myself, like you were saying earlier. You know, you you kind of we have a tendency to just kind of get in the shit and and then it can be, you know, even though you know better, you you instinctively, intellectually know, even from a heart space, you know the universe has your back, but we get into our fucking heads and that monkey mind starts going, and then we're like scrambling for the answer when the answer is never going to come that way. So, you know, trust me, I I get it. I know it is easier said than done sometimes, but it's worth putting in the effort to keep trying to get out of your own way, to get out of your head about shit. You just have to police your thoughts, and you know, I there was a point where God, this was many, many years ago now, but when when I had this awful identity, I guess, I I mean I didn't like myself at all. Like, not at all. And really, oh my god, Stacy. When I was doing mirror work, uh the first time, like I I I never looked in the mirror ever. Oh, I only looked in a makeup mirror just to put on my mascara. I I didn't look in, I never, oh god, I would never look in a full-length mirror or anything like that. But I I started doing Louise Hayes mirror work and I set the timer on my phone five minutes and I stood in front of the bathroom mirror, and you're supposed to say nice things to yourself. Well, I couldn't even bring myself to fucking look at the mirror, let alone have something come out of my mouth that was was nice, and when I finally did, when I finally looked at myself in the eye in that mirror, I burst into tears. I just I lost it, and I well, I just I guess I at that time I hadn't known how much I don't even want to say disliked because it was so much more than that. I loathed who I was, and I just hadn't been aware of the depth of that hatred, and but once I finally got past all of that and I started cleaning up my own thoughts about who I was and what defined me as a person, um, because so much of that was based on other people's opinions of me. And um, once I once I realized that their opinion doesn't mean a fucking thing, and I yes, and then I was able to, you know, come to terms with who I am and and to recognize that I'm more than what other people saw me as. Um, I mean it's been a it's been a journey. Like I said, I've been doing this shit for 20 years, and it has taken me a very, very long time to get to this place of knowing without a doubt that I deserve love, I deserve joy, happiness, peace, abundance. And now that I'm here, there's not a damn thing that will ever get me to go in the opposite direction. So just being open and trusting that, you know, the what you want also wants you. And I'm gonna say this because you are the only you that there will ever be, and that you could have a twin, you could have like everything about you is the same, you know, but your perspective is going to be different, and so even if you have that identical DNA and all of that, the same likes, dislikes, all of that, your perspective is going to be different, and so there's only ever going to be one you who can live this life the way that you would live it, and you're here for a reason, and you're important, and what you have to create here is important, and the world needs it, and so you just have to do whatever you can do to live from that end result, and to allow yourself to receive.

SPEAKER_01 37:10

Yes, yes, yes, oh, I felt all of that. Yeah, every single word that you said, like that was oh gosh, that was so good.

SPEAKER_02 37:25

Well, yeah, it it's not, you know, it's not about the money. I mean, when we think about manifestation and and you know abundance, it's never about the money, it's about the life that we could live with that freedom. You know what I mean?

SPEAKER_01 37:46

So that comes with it.

SPEAKER_02 37:49

Yes. I mean, most of us don't think about, well, I want to see a 10 with six, you know, six zeros after it. You know what I mean? It's not, it's not like that. It's not about having $10 million in the bank. It's what is that $10 million going to do? How is that going to affect my life and the lives of the people that I love? So if you're focusing on the end result and you're living from the end, where you you see how that money is going to change your life and how it's going to affect, and it might not even be this big, you know, audacious dream. It could just be that I am able to take a vacation every year, that I am able to, you know, do the job that I trained for and not have to kill myself working 60, 80 hours a week. It could just be something you just want a normal, peaceful life.

SPEAKER_01 38:51

You know, you don't for some people, I'm able to drive a car and not have to worry about things breaking down on it. I'm able to feed my family and go to the grocery store and not have to check my bank account prior or get out to the checkout line and all right, five, you know, five dollars goes on this card, fifty dollars goes on that cart, whatever it is, split payments after split payments, where it's like you are living the abundant life. You are grateful for what you have, you are expanding in the relations that you're building with the other people around you. And I feel like the more that we are again get out of the monkey brain, get out of you know, the stress of everything, and live in that grateful heart, that's all part of it. It's like another piece of the puzzle, right? It's like working towards what you want.

SPEAKER_02 40:08

Yes. And you know, let's face it, uh what I mean, and I I hate that you know it it keeps going back to the money piece, but I feel like that's where a lot of people can really relate. And so that unfortunately, that might look like you have to cut back some places, you know. If your goal is to actually have a surplus of money, then quit pissing it away on stupid shit that you don't need. You know what I mean? It and and I'm and I'm not calling anybody out or anything, I'm just saying, you know, it might look like that for some people initially, you know, but that's living from the end result because if you're if you're financially abundant, I mean, okay, I guess technically you could you could piss it away on stupid shit if you wanted to, if you had it, if you had enough of it to go around, but would you need to? Would you want to? Especially if it's just stupid shit, you know? Right. So, I mean, it's gonna look different for everybody, but you know, maybe it is just taking practical steps in order to be able to live from the end result, you know.

SPEAKER_01 41:29

For real.

SPEAKER_02 41:31

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 41:32

Well, and it may it may not even be about money, it may be about the role that you just desperately want to have. Yeah, you can yeah, absolutely.

SPEAKER_02 41:50

Because that I you know, that's a huge thing for people too. I mean being somebody that is an inspiration or that is an educator, or I don't know, just being being somebody that people can can look up to or look up to respect. Sure.

SPEAKER_01 42:16

Someone that is a listener, but also a inviter.

SPEAKER_02 42:26

Yes.

SPEAKER_01 42:28

I love that.

SPEAKER_02 42:29

Yes, I do too. And yeah, I mean, I love I love where this conversation has gone. Yeah. Yeah, and and that's I think that's cool too. But you know, I I don't know. I just I just think that there's so much that you know there you there's so much you can unpack in a topic like this because it looks so different for every single person. But the the bottom line is to to be able to do whatever you can to live from that place. And and I that's why I really love the analogy of an actor because they do have a tendency to immerse themselves, maybe not to the degree that Heath did, but you know, that's you're becoming someone else for the role that you're playing. And I mean, this is this this role just happens to be the one that you call your life, right? So immersing yourself in that whole experience, yes, and there's not a higher calling either, you know, than to to actually step into the life that you want to live.

SPEAKER_01 43:50

So doing it one put or one task at a time.

SPEAKER_02 43:56

Yeah, absolutely.

SPEAKER_01 44:00

With the bigger picture, just take it small little bits each time.

SPEAKER_02 44:05

Yes, and don't do the square peg round hole bullshit. Don't try to force it to be something it's currently not, just allow it to unfold. But like again, going back to the vision, you have to have the vision first. So if you don't, it's time to sit with yourself and figure that out. Get out a pen and paper and and just shot jot down whatever and break it down by area of your life. You know, look at your career, look at your relationships, your intimate relationships, your familial relationships, those with you and your friends, you know, whatever, whatever. Break it down by every bit of it so that you get a nice cohesive whole. You get the whole picture of what you want the rest of your life to look like. And I don't, you know, I obviously if you're if you're 20, that's gonna be a far different thing than somebody that's my age, you know, 60, it's gonna look different for everybody. But I mean, the vision that I have is literally for the rest of my life. So yeah, that's that's what I'm working with.

SPEAKER_01 45:29

I feel so much better.

SPEAKER_02 45:31

Good.

SPEAKER_01 45:32

I feel like I want to do a Lori TED talk.

SPEAKER_02 45:36

I love that. I really do. I love that, and you know, and and honestly, that's the whole point of doing this podcast because my god, if you, the the host, can get something out of it, then my only hope is that some you know there are listeners who are getting something out of it as well.

SPEAKER_01 45:58

That is so true.

SPEAKER_02 46:01

So yeah, well, as always, Stacy, I'm so so grateful that you actually took time on your Saturday to come and join me and do this. I'm you know, I I love it. I I just think there's so much here, so much that we can talk about, and and um, you know, hopefully it helps.

SPEAKER_01 46:23

I think it does help. I think that we have impacted a couple people out there. This topic will spread its wings and the ripple effect, it will touch people.

SPEAKER_02 46:38

Good. I I really hope so. I I hope that it helps. I hope that people get something out of it, and even if it's just, you know, like we were talking about last episode, you know, just that one nugget or whatever.

SPEAKER_01 46:52

Um, you know, is there any way when we set out the recording that they can comment down below on any of the seeds?

SPEAKER_02 47:07

Uh I believe so. I think that they can do that. And and if they can't do it like on Spotify or Apple Podcasts or you know, the other ones, um they can certainly comment. I have comments open on on YouTube, so they'll be able to do that from from there. So if anybody wants to make a suggestion or comment about if they got anything out of the podcast, and if they did what they got out of it, that would be amazing.

SPEAKER_01 47:39

I'm gonna put that out there. So whoever feels inspired by this topic that we were talking about or was able to come away with a couple few nuggets that we were talking about or what we had said, please comment below. Please share and like and send it out to the algorithm wherever it may take you because you never know who we are impacting, you never know who is listening, and you never know who might need this um type of advice, or who might come away with an action plan. But I really do inspire the people that are listening to us today. If you could leave a comment, like, and share, or even if you could heart with an emoji, put something down so we know where you're listening from. Where is your location? I would just like to know how far are we reaching people.

SPEAKER_02 48:56

Yeah, that would be amazing. And you know, for me, I just I want I don't want this episode to really be about manifestation at all. I want it to be about identity because I think once people understand that you know, we're not waiting for life to happen to us, we're practicing becoming the person who can meet the life that we want. You know, and and so whatever you get out of this, I I would love to hear about it. So please, yes.

SPEAKER_01 49:35

That is deep. That that I can totally vibe with.

SPEAKER_02 49:41

Yeah, well, I mean, you know, the conversation, it's I I feel it's it is much bigger than goals, it's really about how we choose to show up today, and and that's really what it all boils down to. And it's 1111.

SPEAKER_01 49:57

Oh my goodness, good numbers, good numbers, good numbers. Yay!

SPEAKER_02 50:01

Absolutely. Well, thank you everybody who tuned in. As always, we really, really, really appreciate you being here. Stacy, thank you again.

SPEAKER_01 50:12

I'm thank you, Lori, for having me on the show today. Oh, I feel so much better.

SPEAKER_02 50:19

Good. I'm I'm really happy to hear that, and you know, that makes it all worth doing it, you know?

SPEAKER_01 50:26

It sure does. So next time, everybody. All right, wake the fuck up.

SPEAKER_02 50:34

Yes, let's continue to wake the fuck up, absolutely, and have a great day.