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Samantha Ettus: it's funny because a lot of parents, Moms particularly will model things that they don't want their own kids to grow up and do. So they're sitting there and they really want their kids to be well educated and have successful careers and marriages. But then if they actually took a step back and looked at what their kids are seeing at home, it's more of a traditional view of marriage where they're asking for permission to go shopping or calling it daddy's money. 
 
And I think it's so important that we model the kind of life that we hope our kids will one day lead as well. Mm-hmm. .  
 
 Anne-Lyse Wealth: Yeah. So sometimes as parents we put more emphasis on what we say, and then like you said, modeling it is a bigger challenge. I read that to get your, I think it was your first book done. 
 
You did something. Most people wouldn't have the courage to do. Can you tell our listeners how you managed to get Barbara Cochran and Richard Branson and many more experts to participate in your book?  
 
 Samantha Ettus: Listen, you Cold called me to be on this podcast, right? You cold contacted me. I'm a big believer in cold contacting people, and when people say, no, I believe it's. 
 
slower path to Yes, you'll eventually get the yes if you keep trying. So in a lot of the cases of, you know, even with Barbara Corcoran, she said no a number of times before I finally convinced her to say yes. And I think that most people give up after one or two nos and they are not persistent. But if you are persistent, you usually will get the result that you want in the end. 
 
 Anne-Lyse Wealth: I love that. I think a lot of people. when they hear no, they think that it's the end all be all. But to get to your Yes or in life, if you want to try hard things, you're gonna hear if she  
 
 Samantha Ettus: knows. Absolutely. I think a lot of people look at other people who are successful and think, oh, they're so lucky. Or it happens so fast and there is no such thing as overnight success. 
 
I've never met someone who's super successful that hasn't worked incredibly hard to get where they are.