Your Extraordinary Life & Dating After Divorce
Extraordinary Life & Dating after Divorce is a podcast for divorced women that explores the divorce journey and teaches real strategies for moving through a hard marriage, recovering from a divorce, rebuilding your life, dating and getting happily partnered again.
Your Host, Sade Curry, is a Life Coach for women working through difficult marriages, divorce and dating after divorce.
I help you see your relationships clearly and process the hard emotions, so you can make powerful decisions and create the best outcomes for yourself and your children.
Sade holds certifications in trauma-informed coaching, feminist coaching, and life, career, and relationship coaching. Her philosophy centers on helping women practice personal leadership and autonomy in their lives, work, and relationships.
Visit http://sadecurry.com to learn more.
Your Extraordinary Life & Dating After Divorce
221. Is Dating A Waste of Time?
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In this deep-dive episode, I explore our complex relationship with time in dating after divorce, challenging the common belief that dating is a "waste of time." As part of my three-episode series about time, we examine how this mindset affects your dating journey and what to do about it.
Key Concepts Explored:
What Actually Wastes Time in Dating:
- Dating without a strong "why" or due to external pressure
- Pursuing someone who clearly stated they don't want what you want
- Trying to convince uninterested people to date you
- Fantasy relationships and passive dating
- Repeating the same dating patterns without learning or growth
Common Questions Addressed:
- What if I'm truly too busy to date?
- How do I know if I'm investing time wisely in dating?
- When is it okay to stop seeing someone to "save time"?
- How can I date efficiently without compromising on what matters?
- What's the difference between being selective and over-filtering?
Ready to Transform Your Dating Journey?
If you're ready to shift your relationship with time and dating, let's talk. Book a consultation call to explore:
- Your unique dating patterns and time-related concerns
- How to create an efficient, values-aligned dating strategy
- Whether working together could help you find love in 2025
- Specific steps to move from passive to intentional dating
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The Dating After Divorce Academy provides:
- Clear strategies to date efficiently
- Support in overcoming mindset blocks
- Tools to evaluate potential partners
- A process for authentic connection
- Community of like-minded women
Additional Resources:
- Episode 219: Thoughts About Dating at Your Age
- Episode 220: Dating Older and Younger Men
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