Watch Girls Watch P0rn Creator My Sex Coach Interview and Sex Chat

Ep 251: Watch Girls Watch P0rn Creator My Sex Coach Interview and Sex Chat. Kaitlin, My Sex Coach, is a Sex and Relationship Coach, Sex Educator, content creator, and the creator of the popular Watch Girls Watch P0rn show on porn hub (search wgwp or click through in the link below to easily access the show). As a stripper for 8 years, and with a degree in counseling, she not only coaches people with an open mind but creates content that is open about discussing different types of sexuality and fantasies without judgment. She created Watch Girls during the pandemic on a whim and it's really taken off! Watch her show to see the reactions of different women, dancers, porn stars, and more, as they watch and comment on porn videos alongside Kaitlin. We chatted about different types of porn available, the many kinks that exist, and sex videos including Czech porn, Giantess and voraphilia, milking, panty-wearing, and unusual kinks, and how there's someone out there with your same kink, no matter what it is. The more curious we are the better!

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Transcript

Hello, this is Ruan Willow with the, oh, fuck yeah, with Ruan Willow podcast. I'm so pumped you're here today. I have the most amazing guest. She has created the show, Watch Girls Watch Porn on Pornhub. Woohoo! So if you're under 18, baby love, it is time to leave the podcast now because this is what we're talking about and she's got this amazing show. I talk about sex on my podcast, Sexuality. Tips to help us have better sex. I have experts on. I have people who know what the fuck they're talking about with fucking with sex, with making love, with doing it, whatever you want to fucking call it, that's what it is. 

And I also have a lot of erotica on my podcast. My own that I create, that I write an erotic improv and others and I like to interview authors as well. Okay, so this is My Sex Coach on Instagram. She created the show, Watch Girls Watch Porn. She has a Watch Girls Watch Porn live taping and she's also a coach. She's a sex and relationship coach. She's on YouTube, Instagram and of course Pornhub and Twitter. So she's in those places and you can find her on Instagram at My Sex Coach. She's an individual and couples sex coaching person. 

We had such a great chat. I really enjoyed talking with her and you got to check out her show. She created it during the pandemic. Sounds like it was kind of on a whim and she was like, well, hey, let's see what happened. And it grew into this amazing thing and now it's a known show and she says all these amazing things and it's so exciting. So you got to stick around and listen. It's amazing. 

Check down the podcast notes for all of her links and mine. I'm an erotica author and I have a lot of audiobooks out there. The one that's coming up real soon. I narrated with the guys from the 69 Whiskey podcast. 

Ruins Beach Get Away is coming real soon. We've been working on this for a while. They narrated it with me. It's really sexy and hot. And I also have a hide and seek sex challenge. My fourth book in the sex challenge series is now in pre-sale coming out on the 30th. You can find that in Amazon and I'll put the links down in the podcast notes. 

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Check them out. Okay. I'm going to shut the fuck up and we're going to get into this because she's amazing. I had a great time with her and it was just so much fun. 

Okay. Listen to fucking this. This is awesome. Hello, everyone. I'm so pumped to talk to this person. We're going to love this. What she's created is just, it's just fucking amazing. Okay. 

Her name is Caitlin Kate and she is on Instagram as my sex coach, same as Twitter. And she is a sex and relationship coach, educator and creator. And she has created an amazing show on porn hub called Watch Girls Watch Porn. 

Welcome, Caitlin. How are you? I'm, I am perfect. I'm happy to be on. Fuck yeah. Hell yeah. I'm happy to have you. Yeah, definitely. You're amazing. So tell us your journey and how you created this show and what you do. 

Yeah. So I am a sex and relationship coach. So that, that is, that started, well, actually, let me go, let me restart that is what I just said. So I went and I got my masters in counseling. And when I did that, I realized that I actually didn't really like counseling that much. I kind of, you know, and so I was doing it and I was like, oh man, I kind of don't really know what to do with myself. And I became a stripper for a while. Like I ended up doing it for eight years, but. 

Oh, wow. Good for you. That's amazing. Oh my God. I bet you have so many stories just from that. So many, so many stories. Well, the thing that is mostly amazing from it is the fact that I just quit a year ago and I got old. I aged out at 32. Man, my own wake up. I would wake up every night and my body was like, I, you, I, you, like my back was aching, my feet were aching. 

The fact that the fact that there's anybody who is older and still as a dancer is like, they're a fucking Olympian. It's an amazing thing. Something to be admired and applauded. Oh my God. Absolutely. 

I have, I have a whole different understanding of that now. But anyway, while I was, so while I was dancing, I heard about the, the profession of being a sex and relationship coach because they didn't tell me about that in graduate school. Probably not. 

Nobody was mentioning that. Fucking fruits. I know, I know. And, and so I found out about it. I was like, Oh my God, that's 110% up my alley. 

And I, you know, I'm currently kind of like with, with the, with the, with the training I had, I was already lightly overqualified. I just needed to get some additional training around like, like human sexuality and all that kind of stuff. And yeah, I jumped into it and it was really fun. So I started my own practice and from there I started doing all of these different things to advertise, right? Because all of my stuff is working from home. And also like, I never, I've never worked for a company as what I do because they're really, it's too, it's too niche, right? It's too, I don't, I have not seen, I have not seen a company say, Hey, I want a sex coach. How do you? Yeah. 

I never thought of that before, but you're right. That's fucked up. It's, well, nobody, nobody knows. Nobody knows about it, right? And, and of course we're not going to, we're not going to talk about like things that could help you with sex. Nobody, that's too much. It's too, also I live in Texas, so definitely no one around here is out of the game. 

Sex doesn't exist, right? That's the way they are. Everybody comes from, you know, the stork, immaculate conception. And yeah, I like to say we all came from fucking, so get over it. We did, we all came from fucking. We did. 

Very real thing. Could you imagine erotica stories for people who are really nervous about fucking? Is there erotica stories about that actually? Well, there might be people like someone trying to get someone into it, but it would be someone who then all of a sudden opens up to it. Because otherwise, who'd want to read it? You know, it would be like, they aren't open to it. So it would be sexy to read, I think, and I do think this happens in some erotica, where one partner gets the other one to try new things. And then that's sexy, right? Then they open up and do shit. But the other way around, like then that one probably, maybe that's just a drama then, if they don't want to do it. Right. It's not erotica anymore. 

Right. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Or they just happen to like, it's the only thing that they play on the American Airlines airplane. Like, they don't have any other movies except for erotica. 

Haha. You guys, you should have done it. That would be so fucking funny. So that's the airplane, like, here's your show, here's your movie, you have to watch this. That's fucking hilarious. It sounds like a skit for like a comedy show or something like it. 

Yeah. I love it. Anyway, we totally got derailed. Yeah. Yeah. You so you're creating your business, right? Yeah. Yeah. Okay. 

So I had to, I had to create it on my own because there was nothing out there, right? And from there, one of the pandemic hits, right? And me and my husband got bored as you do. And we were thinking about like, wouldn't it be interesting if we just reacted and like talked about porn with me and it was me and a friend and then we uploaded it to Pornhub. And personally, I did not think it was going to do well at all because on everything on Pornhub, not everything on Pornhub, I'm actually realizing there are a lot of things on Pornhub that are not necessarily sex-based, but I just had the assumption that has to be porn if it's on Pornhub. 

Right. And we were, we were not porn, we were more, we were like a talk show format. Right. Commentary. Yes. 

And I uploaded it and it did surprisingly well. And I was like, oh shit, this is, this is a thing. Plus, it's just hilarious. It's fun to make. Oh yeah. It's ridiculous. 

And so I started making more and more episodes. We started doing them monthly and from there, you know, I started, I actually partnered with Pornhub because I started doing so well and then also they reached out to me about being a sex educator for them and. Awesome. Yeah. It's super, it's super fun. 

All, these are all, like this is honestly everything I'm doing right now is surprising to me that I'm doing it. Does that make sense? Yes. Absolutely. And I think that's fucking awesome. Yeah. Yeah, it is. 

It's, it's like, I just, I had no idea that this is what was going to be available to me and that Watch Girls, Watch Porn was, was going to take off the way that it did. And I've actually got my very first live event that's happening in two weeks and it's going to be. I saw that on your link tree. Tell me about it. 

You're going to say LinkedIn. I was like, oh, my LinkedIn. Sexuality LinkedIn, that'll be the day, right? Oh, right? Why don't we could, we could brand that. We could definitely make that happen. There you go. I think it's called Tinder. 

Oh, okay. Maybe, maybe, maybe. Yeah. Okay. 

So, yeah, so the event is happening in a couple of weeks. I'm super excited about it because it's going to be a live taping. So people can come in and watch us tape the episode. Cool. 

It's going to be four different episodes. It's very exclusive. So it's going to be at our production studio. Okay. 

So we wanted to feel basically like, like kind of like an exclusive private party. So we're actually only selling 10 tickets. Oh, yes. Very intimate. Yeah. Very super intimate. 

And so we only have 10 tickets for guests, but then we have a bunch of people in the industry who are going to be there. So there's going to be different dancers from Dallas or last performers, different, you know, Pornhub models, things like that. You know, we're going to have, it's going to be like a bunch of like hot, beautiful women who are basically either been on the cast or interested in being part of the cast, something not the cast, the lineup of guest host. 

Okay. Yeah. Guest host. 

Got it. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. So the people who buy tickets to view are going to get to hang out with all the sports women and also watch us film. That's pretty fucking cool. 

It's like an event, right? Are you calling it an event? It seems like an event. It's an event. Yes. Yeah. You got it. 

That's awesome. And how fun for those people that can buy those tickets, because not only they get to watch us and be a part of that, then to see all the other people. And so then, so then this will go obviously on Pornhub as an episode. Now, will the people that are in there, will they be seen on Pornhub? Like will they be in the video? Do you have to like have like a release? No. I feel like it would be harder to get people to attend in that event. There I am on Pornhub, honey. 

Although some people might like that. People actually might. Some people might actually like that and be like, hey, fuck yes, I'm on Pornhub. You know what? That could be an upgrade ticket. 

Actually, I thought that I was talking about this ruin. This is like our episode one time, you know, like come be on Pornhub. I actually, you know what? That's a really smart idea. I kind of love that idea. 

Well, because I have people reach out to me all the time about asking if they can request a porn to watch. And I'm like, of course, of course you can if you pay a certain amount of money. I'll watch any genre you want. 

I mean, as long as it's in such a role, right? Yeah. As long as it's within reason, it's something that's already available on Pornhub. Yeah, it can be on Pornhub worthy, exactly. Yeah. Right. I've had people ask if I can react to their home-made porn. 

And I love that. That is an interesting idea. How fun. Yeah. And I'm like, yes, send it over. Send it over. 

So many different things you can do, right? Like just ideas right there. That's fucking awesome. Yeah. Yeah, totally. And so I think that that is a fun option. 

One of the cool things that have come out of uploading these episodes is I really love getting to see people's reactions and comments to reacting to porn, especially to the ones that are kind of marginalized, right? Yeah. So we've got, OK, so there's porn that is seen as kind of like vanilla, right? Yep. Yep. So I think that's sexual or maybe the most risqué thing would be like, hey, step bro, that's one of the most common porn out there. Right, exactly. Taboo. Yes. 

But then we've got the stuff that is a little bit less well-known. And then people may feel shame around liking those types of porn. Right. So that's the thing. Yeah, definitely. 

Well, in people, actually, one of the most common things that I personally work with as a sex coach is people who have a desire. and then they feel uncomfortable with that desire. So they're calling me saying, hey, I just saw my wife get fucked and I had a giant boner. 

Like I didn't know I was gonna react to that. I didn't know that I was gonna like it. Right, exactly. 

I didn't know he was gonna turn me on. What do I do with this information? Or, you know, or somebody who's like, hey, I had a heterosexual male and I play sports on Sundays and not play sports, watch sports. That's showing how much I know about sports. I do sports things, but also I like to wear women's nylons. I like to wear soky panties. 

Something like that, yes. Mm-hmm, yes. And so I love working with that and I love being able to provide a safe space for somebody to talk about that, where, you know, when they talk to me about this, I'm like, hey, as long as, like, first of all, it's not that pretty, pretty damn common. And, you know, here's the other thing that can be mind blowing to other people is your desire that you think is unique or so different or so radical or that makes you strange, right? There are people out there who want that same fetish or desire or kink or what have you, they want it and they feel the same way as you because they're like, oh my God, I don't think anybody's gonna, you know, I don't think anybody's gonna, like I'm really into men who wear panties, but I just, I think they're gonna feel weird if I ask them to do that. So your desire is a perfect match for somebody else out there. So the more open and honest and transparent we can be the better, right? Oh, absolutely. 

That's like, I hate it when people talk about what's normal, I absolutely hate the word normal. Is there any fucking normal? There is no fucking normal. There is no such thing. 

Okay, so there is in terms of the bell curve, right? There's average, right? That's average in terms of like statistics, right? That's a better way to put it, average, not normal. Which is a shaming word. Normal is a shaming word for sure. And, you know, if we just talk about it in terms of like literally a bell curve of what is, what is the most typical for what a person enjoys or desires or something like that. 

And then there are some outliers, but yeah, I agree. Normal can be very shaming. It can be. 

And being an outlier shouldn't be called abnormal. So let's just get rid of the words fucking normal and abnormal and move on. But also I really appreciate, I really appreciate your continuous use of fucking, like the word fucking. I love the word fuck. It's like the best word in the English language. I'm telling you. 

How many other words have that many meanings either? I mean, there isn't such a word. Fuck's the only one. Oh man, you're completely right. 

Cause you can fuck. You can fuck. You can be, you can use it in a negative way. Like you're fucking an idiot. Yes. Use it in a great way of, yeah. 

Oh fuck yeah. That's fucking awesome. Yeah. Look at this fucking shit. I mean, you can use it in so many different ways. Hey, that's fucked. 

I mean, look at. Yeah. Yeah. So now, okay. 

So you are on Spotify, I guess. Spotify doesn't have any type of, like there's no, what's the word I'm looking for? They don't have any censorship stuff, I guess. Well, you know what? I've had one episode censored from Spotify and have no fucking idea why. 

It actually is a story that's kind of sweet and these two people meet and they hook up at a pond and they fuck, right? And that, I'm like, and I'm like, how in the fucking world, this is sort of almost like an innocent sweet story of people just like randomly hooking up and they're both like, you know, scared at first. They see each other, he sees her first and then they fuck. And I'm like, what in the fucking hell? Why is this one get rejected? It makes, it made no sense to me. They gave me any explanation, they're just like, sorry, this violates and they got rid of it. And I'm like, huh? Interesting, but then you have stories that are more explicit and they don't get something. Oh, contest. Exactly. Fascinating. 

Isn't that odd? In fact, when people have read the story, because I turned it into a novella, because it's the beginning of a series, I'm turning it into a series of novellas for like, you know, make a longer book. People have been like, oh, this is a really sweet story. And I'm like, yeah, and Spotify banned it. I'm like, huh? Weird. Weird. I can think of it as that she's like, he's peeping Tom at her and she's masturbating and she doesn't know he's there at first. But that's not anything crazy. You know what I mean? Like, whatever. 

And he offers to leave. He's like, oh my gosh, I'm so sorry. I'm sorry I did that. I shouldn't have done that. But she wants to. Very thoughtful. Wow. 

And then they explode and they fuck on the shore. I mean, I don't know. Whatever. Man, I am so upset at Spotify because now that you're talking about it, I need to listen to it. 

I don't know. So bizarre. I have no explanation for it. I just, I don't know. I'm just going to move on. Whatever. I thought about like pushing back and I'm like, fuck it. You know, I just. You could upload it to Pornhub. 

Yeah. Well, I do have it on other apps. No other apps have banned it. So I don't know. I have no idea why they would ban something that some people have actually called a sweet. Adorable. Adorable. 

Like they're like meat and then they just hook up. I mean, that's what's so bad about that. I don't know. Not kinky enough for Spotify, apparently. I know, right? That one's not kinky enough. Get rid of it. Sorry. Yeah, Spotify has only taken me explicit. Thank you. All right. 

So funny. I always wonder if I like didn't put explicit on there if they like come after me and be like, you didn't put yourself in the right category. We're kicking you off. So I always put explicit, but I always wonder if I like hyper about that kind of shit. You know what? I don't know. So I am particularly wary about being overly cautious when it comes to uploading anything on social media because I have a particular horror story with my TikTok account. I had a TikTok account and it was uploading content and it was explicit. Like I had, there was a video where I was like, was me going on a journey trying to find my vibrator and I've got my vibrator in my hand. 

Nice. Right. Yeah. Vibrators, you can't just have out on any type of social media that has children on it. 

Right. That makes sense. So you can't just have vibrators out there. 

Wait, hold on. I feel like I've seen them. I've seen them all the time. But they usually show them like you're holding them. Like nobody's like using one. They're just like holding and talking about it. 

You know what I mean? It wasn't using. I wasn't using it. I was more, I was like playing with it in terms of that sounds like that sounds explicit. I was like, I was like dancing with it. Does that make sense? I was like holding it in my hands and I was like spinning around and like looking into the camera like, look at my vibrator. Me getting my vibrator. Like a cute story. Be my vibrator. 

Yeah. Yes. It was cute. And I kept doing stuff like that and just talking about sex without doing any type of censorship. And I got kicked off, which TikTok, that one makes like a TikTok and Instagram or the. most. They're the most horrible friend. 

Well, I also, I also get it, they're kid friendly, right? So they got to, they really, you know, they have to, they have to, you know, censor right? And, you know, and I get that. And so I was like, Okay, that happened. I kind of learned my lesson, did a little bit better, but clearly not good enough. And, you know, after then I tried to make another account, right? So what I made an account by just put it entering a new email address. But that wasn't working. So anything I was uploading, they, they could tell that it was coming from my phone. For fuck's sake, they knew it was coming from my phone. And it's almost creepy. It's it is. 

I bought a new cell phone. And I started uploading content again, and it still did not work. So I couldn't tell that it wasn't working because I just wasn't getting, I wasn't getting any type of views. And I was also immediately getting silenced. So my audio was being taken off. And I was like, Oh, shit, okay, I really need to like, I need to be as cautious as possible. Now, my Instagram account is, I have five violations on my Instagram account. 

Gonna get it's got like, I've I've made peace with the fact that it's going to get shut down. Any moment, like at any date, any moment. But that's okay. Because now I know better. I know better. Right? Really cautious. And, you know, the next time around. So you live in your right, you do, you do. And you know, they're so particular, especially TikTok. They're to me, they're a little bit, almost more hyper. 

But even what pisses me off. This is my story that just I'm sorry, were you done with your story? I don't mean to cut. I'm done. Yes, please go. I was so fucking pissed. So I was on Instagram. 

And there's this woman that she talks about, you know, vaginal, whatever floor repair and just health. She's a doctor, women's health, whatever. So she had this poll and it was like, Okay, what what particular body part helps you get off the strongest? And it was like, clit, tits, G spot, anal. I don't remember what the choices were, right? So she was able to write clitoris. So I went in to vote and I could not type in my reply, I got stopped for a while. I'm like, you fuckers, you're telling me my fucking body part is a bad word. Fuck you. 

And so and then this woman could do it because she's a much bigger account. I'm like, okay, so she can say that I can't fucking say that. And then I was so angry. 

I like, I said, I'm gonna try this again. So I went back to her account and tried it again. And I typed in the word penis. Nothing came up. You can type the word penis. Apparently, you can't type the word clitoris. 

Really interesting. That's shocking to me. Fucking livid. To be honest. Huh? I mean, seriously, so so men's body can be talked about their sexual organs, but the clitoris, which is a real fucking organ. Yeah, could you could you put vagina? No, but no, that I don't remember if I tried vagina, I was just so irate because I couldn't put clitoris, but they would accept penis. And I'm like, you fuckers. So yeah. 

And then, you know, I almost wanted to boycott Instagram at that point. But then I thought, well, there's a lot of, I don't have a lot of followers, but there's people who follow me and like to see what I do there. And they, they've left like Twitter because Twitter's fucked up. So they're still on Instagram. So I'm like, wow, I don't want to like, you know, not have my content in front of their eyes just because I'm pissed at Instagram. But easy fucking platforms and YouTube, fuck YouTube, man, I'm on my fourth attempt to try to stay on YouTube. I'm a fucking stubborn bitch, YouTube, but I'm gonna keep fucking doing it. So fuck you. 

Man, what happened? What happened to your YouTube's? Oh my gosh, the first one I was so mad, I had 50,000 listens, right? 50 fucking thousand. I went a year and a half. And then they gave the head first one, first warning, second warning, and the third warning, and then they just asked me. And I'm like, okay, you're fine with me for a year and a half. And all of a sudden, you're gonna complain. And so then I tried it again. And then I got kicked off again. And that time this pissed me off too. 

I got in trouble because I linked to a sex coach's website. Who is a therapist? Yeah, that's why they kicked me off. I'm like, and I didn't even get three warnings that time. They just kicked me right off. And then the third time. So now I don't put any links in my YouTube and I'm strictly kind of putting up interviews and not erotica stories on YouTube. 

And so so far it's been okay. But yeah, fourth attempt. Man, I'm so sorry that happened. It is really, I mean, it's really like a frustrating thing when you put a lot of work and time and creating something. And then they just, you know, acts it and I tried to appeal it and they just were like, no. 

Yeah. Yeah. And on the other hand, I don't envy the job of content moderators, right? Like, I don't envy, like, it's real, like you have to you have to have moderation. And there are things that are harmful out there. And there are so many people uploading things and just sheer volume of trying to filter through all that stuff. So that's why when you're a newer person, you're a smaller account, you don't get human interaction. What you get is a bot. A bot is scanning, you know, is scanning your your content or it's like, or it's, you know, somebody in another country who doesn't even really understand what's happening, but they're getting paid minimum wage, they're, you know, they're a low salary and they're, yeah. 

And so I think that they are doing their best, although it is still very frustrating. Oh, it is. I mean, you know, yeah, I guess what's frustrating to me is that other people are allowed with sexual content on YouTube and I'm not. 

Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Oh, even that, but you have it on there right now. 

Yeah, I am. I have my fourth one live right now. And it's still going. 

But you know, mine is just audio, but people still listen, you know, so it's another place for me to have exposure and offer to people like when my last one shut down, one of my fans was like, dang, I always listen to you on YouTube because it was just easy for them to listen. And so they just that's where they wanted to listen to me too. And so yeah, all the trials and tribulations because we talk about sex, right? Talk about sex. Yeah, that that is a whole ordeal. 

Yes. So you do your show. Now you you're on the show too. And then sometimes you have a guest or two and sometimes it's just guests only right doing hosting the show. So so it is always me that is on the show. So I am always like like, main host and then I thought I saw a couple where you weren't. So I would. That's why I wanted to ask. 

Okay. Oh, I know. I know why you thought I wasn't in it because I was wearing a wig and I was under it. Oh, okay. 

She were being sneaky. I love it. I was being sneaky. I was being strip club sneaky. I like that. I love that. Let's go back and look and like, is that her? I guess I gotta like scope it out and be like, let me see if I can tell. Oh yeah. It's like, where's Waldo? Right. 

I love it. Yeah. I show it to people sometimes and they're like, are you in this? I'm like, oh yeah, I'm wearing, wearing fake hair and different. Oh, I love that. How fun is that? That's what's happening. Yeah. And I like to play around with identity and stuff sometimes and yeah, but you asked me, you asked me about guest host. 

Yeah. So it's always me. Yeah, yeah. 

Your guest host. And it's always me. And then I have had on comedians. So that's been really fun. So yeah, I'm on comedians. And then also I have had dancer friends come on. I've had, I've had adult content creators come on. So the newest, the newest kind of watch girls have a number of people who create their own content. And that is absolutely hilarious to watch. So like it's their porn, right? That you're watching? Yes. Yes. And the reason why it is very funny is because oftentimes people don't watch their own porn. 

I was just gonna, I was just wondering if that's where you were going. Oh yeah. They mostly don't watch it, right? Yeah, they like. Yeah. 

So, so they're watching it. And the couple of times I've done it is they're very squeamish and they're like, oh my God, this is so weird. So weird. 

That's some awesome content though. That's really cool. Oh, it's so fun. It's so fun to watch. And yeah. And so I love girls reacting to their own stuff. I also have the guest host. 

They pick genres that they love watching and then react to that. So I get to watch a bunch of really interesting things. Oh, yes. I can imagine. Yeah. 

One of my favorite actually was pregnant porn because I had a girl on you. She was a comedian and she had just had a baby and she was like, you know what? It's hot that like that there are people who are pregnant and then also having sex. I was like, yeah, let's fucking watch that. 

Well, yeah. And it, you know, your hormones are different when you're pregnant. And it's just all that. Yeah. That whole different body shape and all these different things. Yeah, for sure. Well, and that's what I've heard. 

It's so interesting that a lot of pregnant women get very horny, get very around, get very easily horny. Do you have any erotica around pregnant women? No, I see like little clips, but I haven't like watched like a full porn of one of those. But have you written any? Oh, no, I haven't. 

That would be it. That would be something to add to my list. I'm like, I'm kind of one of those writers who are like right all across the board. Like some people are just very niche and they write about one topic. And I'm like, fuck no, I'm like all over the fucking place because that's how that's how my sexuality is to I'm very fluid. I'm like all over the place. So I could never just like pick one thing. 

And one of the funny things that people think that just because I write something means I want to do it. No, I'm still writing fiction. You know what I mean? I'm going to write shit I don't want to do. I'm a fiction writer. I mean, you know, people think like you're writing things that you want to do. Well, and then I always say things like, you think Stephen King is a fucking murderer in the psychotic? I mean, right? Yeah, he's brain-duster. Yeah. 

And people who've done like people are like science fiction. They had fucking done that shit. It's fucking yeah. So funny. 

I think when it's about a sex, people think it's like immediately the issue. It's personal. It's personal. And I'm like, you know, there's one scene I'm first we were talking about on a podcast and I'm like, no, I don't want to do that. I said I wrote that scene, but that doesn't mean I fucking want to do that. I can't do that. 

Fascinating. I was thinking about like how interesting would it be if you were if you were like dating and then someone or you were like you were out there on a dating app or something and then the person finds your erotica stories and then immediately assume that like, oh, yeah, I know you look. I knew you wanted to fucking the park. So that's why I'm here. Exactly. 

It's so interesting though that people like assume these things just because you write it and I'm like, no, I'm still writing a story. It's still fiction. I don't write. I mean, I will say, you know, probably every female character I've ever written has a piece of me in her, but that doesn't mean I've done an everything and done everything and I have done some of the things, but I may take a little tiny piece, a little tiny nugget. Doesn't mean I've done the entire scene and the only person who knows that of course is me. I'm not writing a little bit. 

It's interesting to me though that people think I think it's because it's about sex and sex is so personal. So people assume that everything I write is my fantasy. Everything is something that I do and no, characters do this. I'm creating characters. I'm creating stories. You know, if you're writing memoir, that's one thing. No, but I'm not at this point writing memoir. I'm writing fiction. 

So it's interesting to see how people like get their brains all get like all tangled up and they're just like get confused. Yeah, it is interesting. And I was kind of thinking to myself also like why, why is it that it's different with sex? But I think you're right. It's just it's so it's not normalized to talk about. So immediately, honestly, I don't know, but it also reminds me about the fact that, you know, we have we have desires as humans that are that are desires that are just for our brains, right? They're just right. Bank bank, but they're not for they're not for something that we actually want to do out in real life. 

So absolutely. For example, rape is one of the most common fantasies. Yes. Myself, myself included. 

Do I want to be raped? Fuck no. No, right. But but there are there are plenty of ways. Plenty of times where where there's something going on in our brains that can be really sexy and really erotic, but we don't actually want that to happen. Exactly. I interviewed a man who's like studied sex his entire life and wrote about it his entire life. He's like in his like 70s or 80s or something. 

And he said, which was really made a lot of sense to me is that it's more about the passion of that. Like that person must have you to be that desired that they can't like lose control of themselves. So it's more about the passion than any remotely related thing to crime. And I'm like, that makes a lot of fucking sense to be desired. 

Yeah. I think I yeah, I think it's passion. I also I also think that it's it's being being being taken control of too. I think yes. The combination to that. Definitely. 

Oh, somebody else somebody else is doing this whole thing. But the guy who's like in his 70s or 80s and writing erotic stuff is so cool. Well, he does more nonfiction. He does more nonfiction. So he's written so many books across his whole life. But I mean, he's he started writing, you know, for like, what are those things called like way a long time ago, penthouse letters or something like that? Is that a thing or something? I mean, he started writing articles. Is that what that is? Like so. Yeah. 

Like he started writing about sexuality stuff like the beginning of his career. So he's been doing it even when it was way more taboo. So he's had quite the life and he's written all these books and he's just he was amazing to listen to and things I hadn't thought of. 

Like there's ageism with sex. Like people assume that when you're older, not having sex, he's like, no, we have sex all the time. He and his wife, it may not look the same, but it's still sex, you know. 

Yes. Yeah. definitely right. There is ageism and it's so cool when there are people who are older who are vocal about that. Yes, exactly. I love that 

too. So who has been your favorite guest or what is the most outrageous porn that you watched on the show that you're just like, oh my gosh. So it's always hard to discern if something is like most outrageous thing and because people ask all the time, like, what is the most outrageous thing that happened when you were dancing? And I'm like, oh, sure. Like every every night, like every night, somebody's with somebody's like, that's my crazy experience of like, this is the Tuesday. Wow. Yeah. So 

when it comes to stuff that I've been watching, I feel like probably one of the most interesting ones is Gigantus. Gigantus is a porn. I actually narrate for a woman a lot that writes that kind of porn. It really, I 

had never heard of it. Yeah. Yes. And it's also called Borism, V-O-R-E. I don't really, you know what, I should probably look up the difference. Yeah, I don't 

get what that was. I know Giant Test and like Size Erotica and you know, giant goddesses who are like 50 feet tall or you know, something shrinks down and becomes a human dildo, you know, low jobs are easy because a woman's growing and her mouth is getting bigger and the man is staying the same size. All these different crazy stories. So yes, I've narrated quite a few stories for her. She has a ginormous amount of content out there. Her name's Amber Collins. Yes. Cool. And 

do you know there's even websites for this like Giant Test City? No. Oh my God. What's on the 

website? It's just like a community forum. And so like there are so many people that are into this cake. Yeah, definitely. Yes. I mean, it's just interesting that you say that because when I was checking out your show on Pornhub, that was one of the ones I watched and it was an animated, an animated Giant Test that was growing and she had this like little dude in a cage and then she was like, yeah, kiddie fucking him and you know, and then she used him as a dildo in the cage. Right. Yes. So 

much. So fucking fun. Yeah. You were talking about like that, you know, it's a big, you know, there's a lot of people who are into it, right? And so just be, okay, so people sometimes think that because, you know, it's not average or because they're not, you know, they're friends at school or they're friends that, you know, at work or whatever, because they're not talking about it, then it must mean that they're the only ones, but there's communities out there. But you've got to find, right? So don't, don't, when somebody is, you know, dealing with kind of like an alternative desire, I always recommend to them like, go find your like people, right? Don't go on a normal dating site and try to like, and try to like wade through all of these different vanilla people and then try to think about how to, how to disclose this information that's so neuro frackin', right? There's, but if you find your people, then it's easy. It's easy. It's 

safe, right? And to have entire forums around, you know, giant stuff and then to have porn around giant stuff is, you know, is, is a very fun and very affirming thing. Right. And that's also what I've heard other people speak to about that is that's also a domination thing. Like, you know, for instance, someone is forced to do something, maybe, maybe they're trying to overcome shame. And so the giant test is like forcing them to have sex or be some kind of sexual object or bring them pleasure. So it's also, it's strongly for men from what I've, I've heard because I, you know, come in contact with some of them from narrating it and contact me is about wanting to be dominated by a woman. And that is, you know, to be guided by her, to be forced to enjoy because they're finding, you know, sex is shameful to them. But if they're forced into doing something, then they can get into it, you know, and get off. Yeah. That is, yes, they can, they can, they can release that. Okay. So I just 

found what is it called? So it's called Vorfilia. Oh, I have heard this now. Yes. Yes. It just hit me all of a sudden. I don't know why. Well, it's a, it's a weird word too. It's kind of like a visual word. Yeah. And so this is when, this is when they get off on being consumed by somebody else. Yes. Right. Yes. 

I mean, it's 

like being used or being, you know, because people have been used, like, and, you know, we talked about a little bit before, the rapes, you know, fantasy, people, people have the desire to be used. Yeah, absolutely. Humiliated, you know, stuff like that. Yeah. Eatin. It's 

eatin. Yeah. Eatin, I'm sorry. Actually eatin like crunched on their bones and swallowed down their throat, you know, like, like their food. Yeah. Oh yeah. 

And so it's like, it's, it's very fun. So I liked, I liked that porn. I'm trying to think about it if there are any other ones that I particularly like. Oh, I watched like a Czech glory hole porn. Like, or when I say, A, I mean multiple ones, right? I was in an episode where we did, where we did Czech glory hole. And my, so 

my, my partner in with Watch Girls, he looks up all of the porn. So is he's, he's Jamie on the show and he, he blacks all the porn ahead of time. And so I get to live, react to everything. But there was 

a Czech glory hole porn where the girls are in these, like, they're, they're in these kind of containers or rooms is a better word for it. And they, they have their, their pussy is open, but they play with, but they're, but the rest of their body is completely like, you can't, you can't get to it. And it is, it is just so funny watching, like, watching the girls be kind of bored while it's happening. Like they're on the phone because they're, they're in the rooms for like a while, but they're like enjoying it, but they're also on their phone. And like, and the guys are kind of like trying to get the set up and they like, they kind of suck at figuring out how to like stick your dick in correctly. And I, yeah, 

I just, I just love all of it. Oh, that's hilarious. So he's the one that like gets to get him the topic from the guest. And then he predict picks a particular video. Yes. Yeah. And 

he also, he also does commentary. Okay. Yeah. So 

he's the one's voice you hear when he's the man voice you hear during the episode. I love that. 

Well, how about, how kind of, that's an awesome job. Hey, what's your job? I have to screen porn to find. Yeah. Everyone's jealous. 

That's your job. Yeah. Yeah. And 

that's, that's my husband. And so I know, like, I know if he's looking at porn, I'm like, Hey, baby, like, I really appreciate it. I'm like, Hey, what's your job? I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, Hey, baby, like I really appreciate you. That's awesome. I 

love that you guys. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. It's fun. It's 

really fun. That's very cool. So, and then 

if you had a favorite guest or just someone that was just like amazing or someone that would you just really got along with or anything like that? You know what? My guests are mostly then at the beginning, they were mostly just friends of mine. So I liked all of them. I picked them because I liked them. I was like, I like this person. How did I talk to you on camera about porn? That would be great. Yeah. I feel 

like this would really splitify our friendship. Yes. Do you feel close to a person when you watch porn with them? Oh, yeah. Yeah. Yeah. For sure. But in terms of, in terms of favorite, I feel like just because it's so funny, I really like watching people who are squeamishly watching their porn. Yes. Oh, I 

can see how that would be. Yeah. Just to see their eyes when they're seeing it for the first time and just their reactions. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. 

Yeah. Yeah. So more pie and autumn nights. Yeah. So some more pie. Yeah. Which her 

name comes from, because her signature move is Thorpe. Throat prize and her name is Morgan. It's like, oh, 

okay. Oh, I get it. Yes. Now I get it too. I was wondering too. I'm like, just like our last name or what does this mean? No, no. Yeah. It's a while to figure it out. Like, oh, oh, 

also that's the move. That is a move to have your signature move. Damn. Right. Yeah. That is a 

tough one to do. Can't say I've ever done that before. But I feel like on my bucket list for sure. Yeah. Sometimes when 

you search on Pornhub, I've like found some of like really crazy stuff or other sites. I'm like, what? You know, like craziest one I ever saw, which was really shocking to me was I kind of just sat there transfect staring at it like, whoa. It was like it made in Germany and there was, it was a farm, right? And so the farmer had a milking machine and he hooked it up to her tits. Yes. Yes. Have 

you seen this? Oh, no. And so she 

was getting milked and, you know, it was obviously it was arousing to her because it was playing with her tits. And then he dominated her and fucked her from behind as she was being milked by this machine. And then, and then. Was it milk? Was milk? No, it wasn't. Okay. Okay. I 

had to back up because, you know, of course I was fucking curious. So then I had to look at more. Right. Right. Yeah. I did find 

one where it was that way. And then there were some, then I've also found porn of where people were using like breast pumps. And then, so milk was like, you know, because that's a whole genre of erotica. I don't know if it's much in porn, but about a woman who has, you know, milk in her breast it's, you know, it's part of the porn or sexual experience in some way, shape or form. But that's probably one of the most shocking ones I've seen where I was just like, I had never would have even thought of such a thing. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. 

I actually didn't either. So when you 

said, when you said milking, I went ahead and went to like, like a male getting milked. Right. Because milking is for that. Yeah. I heard 

that. I heard that shit. But I have not. Like a machine 

for cows being hooked up to a woman. So that sounds fascinating. It was, it was just, it was just like, you know, and he was totally dominating her. And she, you know, she had these things on her. And I think she might have even been in like, what are those things called? Is it like stocks or something where your head's in there and then like your hands are in there and it's like a wood thing that comes down to your like trapped in. Oh, oh, the things that they put people into be had them back in the mid century. Yeah. So they like put people in a mis-punishment and threw tomatoes at their faces or something like that. I heard that's something they did too. Like, you know, you were like, in that. That's not bad. I'm being beheaded. Right. But if you think about that, if they really did that to people and they left them outside, you imagine how many people probably came and fucked them against their will. Oh, immediately. Yeah. 

Cause I just like in the middle of the night when nobody was watching, they probably got fucked. I got raped in the middle of the night and that I always think of these things. I'm like, oh, go ahead. How long did 

they leave these people in these things, you know, like way back when? Was it like a punishment? You're in the stocks for like three days or something. I probably got raped so many times. It brings a, it's, it's a different type of beheaded. Right. They be, they beheaded. Not in the better type. They had deflated. I don't know. 

I'm a baby headed. Kind of. I'm shocked. And all these crazy thoughts, but yeah, that was one of the most shocking porn I've ever seen where I was just like, what? This is a thing. Yeah. Yeah. It's so fun. 

It's another thing that I really, that I really like getting to do with watch girls is normalize. Like when we're reacting to things that are, that are supposedly shocking, right? Like things that are like, wow, I've never seen that before. Our reactions are never, ew, gross. Who, what is that person? What are they, what were they thinking? It's a week like, it's always out of curiosity and genuine like interest and dialogue and wondering about the experience and, and talking about like, oh, interesting. I didn't know 

that that was hot, but now I'm kind of like, that's hot. Yeah. Exactly. I mean, reaction, I mean, some people may be uncomfortable and then they just back away from that, but as long as they aren't bashing someone, I think, yeah, I think curiosity is a big thing with most people. Yeah. Oh yeah, 

definitely. And, and so for, I really like when, when people who watch the show and then they have that type of fetus, they're like, oh, it's really nice. It's affirming to have somebody react in peace in a way that is, that is just not, not judgmental. Not judgmental. Yes. That's the 

huge thing. The non-judgmental. That's what's great. You know, for your show too, you're like putting things out there that, you know, like someone, yeah, like you said, someone may be ashamed that, you know, there aren't very many people that have their particular fetish, but then if they see it on the show, like, oh, well, I guess, you know, I'm not weird or, you know, it's, yeah, it's affirming. Yeah. Oh wait, 

hold on. Unless your fetish is being graded and being demoralized, then to you, sir, your... or a filthy piece of nothing. Your desires are disgusting and you'll never amount to anything. That's right. Which 

is a total kink too. Oh, you know, look at that. And then the dominatrix, you know. Oh yeah. Yes, oh totally. I just interviewed 

two people. That would be an interesting one for you to have on your show too, as someone who's a real life dominatrix. You know what? I have got someone who's gonna at least come to our next, our live tapings or event. Oh cool. And 

they'll come on it. I don't think they're gonna be like actually on the show but they're gonna be hanging out. So hopefully I can get them on another one. But yes. Yeah, that would 

be interesting too. Yeah, I just interviewed two for the podcast, two different ones. They're both over in Europe, but this is really interesting. The stories they've had too of the, they've both have had some very unusual requests from clients. Yeah, yeah. What was their 

most unusual? The one woman said, one of her most unusual ones was someone who was turned on by the low up like beach balls and blow up toys like that you'd play with as a kid in the pool. And you know, and her whole point was, probably something happened to him when he was a child. Somehow he ended up getting aroused around these things or something rubbed his cock when he was a child. It wasn't like, it doesn't have to be something malicious created this fetish for him. You know what I mean? But it was a true fetish and he needed something blown up to get him. So he just wanted to see her playing with naked with beach balls. That sounds amazing. 

Oh my God. So especially on the Dom side, because what a easy thing to do. That one's easy. Like if somebody wants to wrestle, that's just literally gonna be harder for her. Right. And that 

was arousing to him was just simple act of her playing with this blow up toys, you know? And they weren't blow up dolls. They weren't sex dolls. They were things like beach balls and like a blow up dog or something, you know? Like, fucking ice cream cone. I don't know. That's so good. Yeah. Here's the 

other two really weird ones. And one man contacted her and wanted to touch her tonsils. And that was his. Whoa. Whoa. She ended up turning. Did she let him? No, she didn't. That is a 

lot. I know. And then the other one was he wanted to touch and lick her high balls. Okay, okay. She didn't do that one either. Yeah. Yeah, yeah, 

yeah. It's like, I guess is a contact, is that the new type of protection in that situation? Yeah, I know, right? Yeah, but you gotta use protection, right? I only use protection. Sorry. Tongue condom. Did I make tongue condoms? No, I need some more. Oh my gosh, that would be funny. Tongue condoms, you can eat somebody out and wear a tongue condom. Oh my God, that would be so much better than, what are they, dental dams? Those are always kind of weird. Yeah, yeah, for 

sure. We have some good ideas on this podcast. I know, right? And like, things that come about just when you talk. I don't know, they've come across so many different things and they both have their specialties and it was really interesting to talk with them. So they live quite the life too, professional dominatrix. Well, this has 

been so amazing. Thank you so much for coming on my show. I just had an absolute blast with you. And is there anything else you wanna talk about and maybe mention your show and where people can find you? And if there's anything else you wanna add in, please do. Yeah, yeah, yeah. 

So find WatchGirlsWatchPorn on, you just go to Porn Hub and then look for WGWP. So I couldn't put in WatchGirlsWatchPorn as a username because it's too long. So WGWP, that's what you gotta look up. And then you 

can also go to my Instagram or my Twitter handles. They are at MySexCoach and I have links in all of those social media accounts where you can actually go to the Porn Hub site as well if you're having issues finding it. And I love answering questions from people. So if anybody has a question, please, I'm really responsive to my DMs and Instagram and Twitter. And yeah, if anybody wants some sex and relationship coaching, I do that also. I work with individuals and I work with couples and absolutely love it. Wonderful, you're doing 

an amazing thing and you're creating awesome content. So thank you for what you do. Thank you so much, Ruyn. And thank you for what you do. I really love that you are creating a space to be sexy on podcasts. I'm very much impressed. Absolutely, it's so much fun. Well, you have 

an amazing day and thank you so much. Thanks, YouTuber, and bye. All right, bye-bye. Thank you for 

listening. I hope you enjoyed that. I sure had a fucking blast talking to her. She's amazing. And check her out on Instagram, mysexcoach. That's how you can find her, mysexcoach on Instagram. And let me check out where she's called in other places. Let's see, come here, baby. I'm looking at 

her Instagram, YouTube. She has a Twitter account that she goes by mysexcoach as well. Oh, that's very convenient, good job. Now we can find you in multiple places. Mysexcoach, individuals and couples educators, sexual wellness, and she's a porn hub creator. Watch girls, watch porn. Pretty hot, right? I loved when she talked about how she has porn stars on her show and they watch their porn for the first time. Live with her. I mean, how 

freaking cool is that? They're probably just blown away because a lot of people create things. Sometimes they don't like to watch themselves or they just create it and they move on and they're doing so much, it's hard to go back and watch or listen, I get that. That happens to me too. And just in what I create, but it's so interesting to see their reactions and their faces are watching themselves fuck on screen. That's pretty fucking amazing. Okay, check her 

out. You gotta check her out. She's amazing and she has a degree. She's a therapist. Check her out. I loved also all of her stories and her history. So enjoy, I hope you enjoyed it. And there's my 

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