Mama Making Podcast

Kate Scholtes | Redefining Success & Alignment: Permission to Pivot in Motherhood + Business

Jessica Lamb, Kate Scholtes Season 4 Episode 150

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What if success didn’t mean more — but meant peace?

In this episode of The Mama Making Podcast, Jessica sits down with Kate Scholtes — founder of Your Behind-the-Scenes BFF — to talk about building businesses that support motherhood instead of competing with it.

Kate shares her journey from classroom teacher to network marketing to virtual assistant mentor — and how becoming a mom completely reshaped what ambition, alignment, and success look like for her.

They unpack:

  • Letting go of hustle culture
  • The evolution of identity through motherhood
  • Setting real client boundaries
  • Social media and “forced authenticity”
  • The power of permission — to pivot, to change your mind, to redefine the dream

If you’ve ever felt like your goals shifted after becoming a mom — or wondered if it’s okay to want something different than you used to — this conversation will feel like a deep exhale.

Main Topics Covered

  • Leaving teaching and starting in network marketing
  • Becoming a mom and experiencing a complete identity shift
  • Alignment vs. hustle culture
  • Moving from accolades to peace as a success metric
  • Building a VA business during pregnancy
  • Setting client boundaries that protect family life
  • Social media burnout + intentional stepping away
  • “Forced authenticity” vs. real authenticity
  • The flexibility myth in entrepreneurship
  • Giving yourself permission to pivot
  • Why changing your mind isn’t failure

Resources & Links Mentioned

How to Connect with Kate

This episode is sponsored by Collabs Creative - a boutique digital marketing company helping small business owners and creatives tell their story.

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