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Dr. Kim Van Dusen | Parenting Through Play: Building Better Behavior and Deeper Connection with Your Kids

Jessica Lamb, Dr. Kim Van Dusen Season 4 Episode 158

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What if the key to less defiance, fewer tantrums, and a deeper connection with your kids wasn't another parenting strategy — but play? 

In this episode, Jessica sits down with Dr. Kim Van Dusen, licensed marriage and family therapist, registered play therapist, and founder of The Parentologist, to talk about why play is one of the most powerful and underused tools in a parent's toolkit. From meltdown interventions to getting picky eaters to try new foods, Dr. Kim breaks down the practical, evidence-based tools from her new book Parenting Through Play — and makes the case that you don't have to be a "play parent" to use them. This one is for every mom who has ever felt like they're fighting their kid instead of connecting with them.

MAIN TOPICS COVERED

  • Dr. Kim's background in play therapy and how she accidentally found her calling
  • What play therapy is — and why it works when talk therapy doesn't
  • The myth that play has to mean sitting on the floor for 30 minutes
  • How playful moments woven into everyday life build the trust that reduces defiance
  • The sand timer meltdown intervention — Dr. Kim's tried and true strategy
  • Teaching emotional intelligence and regulation through play
  • Play as a tool for picky eaters, homework resistance, and chore avoidance
  • Why the connection you build through play makes consequences more effective
  • Solutions for the overtired, overworked parent who doesn't have the energy
  • Parenting Through Play — what's in the book and who it's for

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This episode is sponsored by Collabs Creative - a digital marketing company supporting makers, creatives, and small business owners with all things digital and design. 

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