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And the separation in time"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":485.22,"endTime":488.90999999999997,"body":"between those two events is so"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":488.90999999999997,"endTime":492.75,"body":"long, that your body and brain"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":488.90999999999997,"endTime":492.75,"body":"actually learn very little."},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":493.01,"endTime":497.12,"body":"So what can we as educators do,"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":493.01,"endTime":497.12,"body":"rather than pick up the pieces"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":497.12,"endTime":501.43999999999994,"body":"after these messages are sent?"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":497.12,"endTime":501.43999999999994,"body":"Well, we need to be actively"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":501.43999999999994,"endTime":505.66999999999996,"body":"teaching our students to imagine"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":501.43999999999994,"endTime":505.66999999999996,"body":"the other person's face and"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":505.66999999999996,"endTime":509.87,"body":"reaction when we send that"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":505.66999999999996,"endTime":509.87,"body":"message before we hit send,"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":510.04999999999995,"endTime":513.83,"body":"encourage the student to get"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":510.04999999999995,"endTime":513.83,"body":"into the routine of asking the"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":513.83,"endTime":518.96,"body":"question, if I send this text,"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":513.83,"endTime":518.96,"body":"what will be the result? 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How would this"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":536.15,"endTime":539.6,"body":"change their opinion of me? And"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":539.6,"endTime":542.54,"body":"also another important question"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":539.6,"endTime":542.54,"body":"to get them into the habit of"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":542.54,"endTime":545.9,"body":"asking is, Have I written"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":542.54,"endTime":545.9,"body":"anything in this message that"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":545.9,"endTime":550.34,"body":"could be misinterpreted? The two"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":545.9,"endTime":550.34,"body":"word message \"you're mad\" could"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":550.34,"endTime":553.52,"body":"be interpreted by the person"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":550.34,"endTime":553.52,"body":"getting that message in a number"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":553.52,"endTime":556.97,"body":"of different ways. Depending on"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":553.52,"endTime":556.97,"body":"the relationship between the two"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":556.97,"endTime":559.91,"body":"people the conversations they've"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":556.97,"endTime":559.91,"body":"been having previously, they"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":559.91,"endTime":563.57,"body":"might interpret it in a positive"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":559.91,"endTime":563.57,"body":"way or a negative way. If the"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":563.57,"endTime":567.71,"body":"child means you're mad, in the"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":563.57,"endTime":567.71,"body":"sense of you're funny and cool"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":567.92,"endTime":571.64,"body":"that it might be best for them"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":567.92,"endTime":571.64,"body":"to slap a happy face emoji at"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":571.64,"endTime":574.55,"body":"the end of that sentence. If"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":571.64,"endTime":574.55,"body":"there's a chance the person"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":574.55,"endTime":577.16,"body":"reading it might take it a"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":574.55,"endTime":577.16,"body":"negative way."},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":576.35,"endTime":581.12,"body":"And interestingly, if you see"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":576.35,"endTime":581.12,"body":"any emails I send out personal"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":581.12,"endTime":584.3,"body":"or professional, they're"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":581.12,"endTime":584.3,"body":"plastered in emojis, not because"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":584.3,"endTime":586.61,"body":"I have the emotional"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":584.3,"endTime":586.61,"body":"intelligence of a five year old"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":586.7,"endTime":590.45,"body":"though that is debatable,"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":586.7,"endTime":590.45,"body":"because I want to make sure the"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":590.45,"endTime":594.26,"body":"comments in my emails don't get"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":590.45,"endTime":594.26,"body":"misinterpreted by the person"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":594.26,"endTime":598.31,"body":"reading them. This is a"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":594.26,"endTime":598.31,"body":"rethinking and evolving how we"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":598.31,"endTime":601.85,"body":"teach empathy for the modern"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":598.31,"endTime":601.85,"body":"world. I mean, teaching empathy"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":601.85,"endTime":605.1800000000001,"body":"is nothing new. It's something"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":601.85,"endTime":605.1800000000001,"body":"we already do in schools. But"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":605.1800000000001,"endTime":609.32,"body":"it's about adapting this"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":605.1800000000001,"endTime":609.32,"body":"teaching into a new context and"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":609.32,"endTime":613.46,"body":"new media. Doing this"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":609.32,"endTime":613.46,"body":"systematically in schools will"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":613.46,"endTime":617.66,"body":"help our kids embed positive"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":613.46,"endTime":617.66,"body":"routines and habits, reduce"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":617.8100000000001,"endTime":622.34,"body":"unnecessary hurt and conflict"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":617.8100000000001,"endTime":622.34,"body":"and hopefully improve their use"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":622.37,"endTime":624.65,"body":"of social media for life."},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":624.71,"endTime":628.37,"body":"And that's my take on students"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":624.71,"endTime":628.37,"body":"sending unkind messages on"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":628.37,"endTime":631.7,"body":"social media. I hope you found"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":628.37,"endTime":631.7,"body":"it useful. If you haven't rated"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":631.7,"endTime":634.85,"body":"and reviewed us, then what are"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":631.7,"endTime":634.85,"body":"you waiting for? Open up your"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":634.85,"endTime":638.78,"body":"podcast app now and give us an"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":634.85,"endTime":638.78,"body":"honest rating and review. And"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":638.78,"endTime":642.1700000000001,"body":"that tells the algorithm gods to"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":638.78,"endTime":642.1700000000001,"body":"share school behaviour secrets"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":642.38,"endTime":644.72,"body":"with other teachers, school"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":642.38,"endTime":644.72,"body":"leaders and parents who would"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":644.72,"endTime":648.6800000000001,"body":"find this information useful or"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":644.72,"endTime":648.6800000000001,"body":"helpful. It's another quick fire"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":648.71,"endTime":652.7900000000001,"body":"episode next time have a"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":648.71,"endTime":652.7900000000001,"body":"brilliant week. I can't wait to"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":652.7900000000001,"endTime":656.0,"body":"see you on the next episode of"},{"speaker":"Simon Currigan","startTime":652.7900000000001,"endTime":656.0,"body":"school behaviour secrets"}]}