How haters can help you

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Don P. The Gentlemen 0:18

Hey, Don P here. Welcome. Welcome. Welcome. So today's episode, I was looking to literally just get into the zone of. Haters. And. Why they're hating. So the psychology about that is simple. You can't do nothing great without catching hate. Like someone's going to be, feel some type of way about you doing something that is. Adding value to someone else's life. Someone's going to feel some type of way. When you start getting into their perceived lane, as if they was the only one to do it, like they was the first person to make some gym shoes or the first person to Become a photographer or they was the only one I was making fragrances or colognes, like, like where do they. Pretend to believe that they have. Absolute authority over. One particular lane C. And we know that as being a selfish energy and a regressive energy, because they want everything for themselves and don't care if don't. Basically give a fuck if. You have to feed yourself. But see, in a sport of good success. Iron sharpens iron diamonds. Sure. Are, are, are, became. Diamonds because of the pressure. See competition is good. Those that are a week. R runs away from competition. But if you know what, you know, if you're talented, if you're gifted, if you're, if you know, yo shit. Then competition don't exist. You just do you and you going to get what you deserve. If you don't do you, because you worried about the other man, then you're not going to get it. It's called step your shit up. My baby. That's all it is. Step your shit up. You know, well now, so. Let me tell you a story. So when I first started in his outdoor industry, You know, I was a, nobody. And only people that was shooting photography at the time. Was Two guys. And they were really good, but they really didn't have no real competition. One was more focused on the models and the pretty girls name was really traveling. The other one, he was a little bit more pervy, so he was just trying to get paid a little bit, but he really was just trying Get on a sideburns. You know what I mean? But, so when I came in the game where that I had that ambition, but I had the talent. It disrupted the entire industry because now I'm bringing the same quality. Actually a higher quality of work without the prejudice. Being all over the place. /Me and I was accessible. And I didn't have the. Erraticness of not being disciplined, meaning I was trying to leverage. There Assets without proper context. So because of that, I became easily. Successful. I made people, people were comfortable. Trust me because I had no intentions. On doing nothing, but my job, which is what you hire me to do, because I value my talent. I value. Giving you a quality product that was going to help you make money and become successful, then focus it on me being great. And by default. The law of reciprocity when you give good stuff. Without. Recourse Yukon ever see gusta. That's also the law of karma. I've got karma like you do right by you do unto others as you want them to do unto you. If you do right by people, they're going to do right by you. But understand that when you are doing these good things, you got regressive energy, you got negative energy. You got. People that now become envious of your success because they're thinking that you're doing some magic alchemy. You're doing some Voodo Hoodo. They all know what you doing to them. That's making them want to choose. You them. Choose you over them. And I'm going to tell you What the secret. It was because we add more value. Russell Simmons. Russell Brunson the creator of ClickFunnels said it real quick. When he was in his network marketing business, the reason why he was getting more sales, because everybody was selling the same thing. It's like in the crack cocaine epidemic, the drug epidemic everybody's selling crack. Everybody's on cocaine. What makes them want to buy yours over Is it simply because of the value, like if I cut it a different way at whether they get a better high. And they get more for the same price that they was getting. Then the other person, then they're going to feel better because now they're going to talk about it. They're going to say, Hey look, this person given great quality and great product for this price versus another price. They added value. You When they lose doing a network marketing products. I offered combinations. So instead of selling one I put two products. And give them a combination because people like the value of choice. So things like that is going to make people want to do business with you versus doing business with somebody else, because the more value add, the more service that you create for them. You know, two. In exchange for their hard earned money. The easier it will become. For you to become successful. Right. But on the same fact, be mindful that there that the. As you become successful. They're going to be Hammond. So now here's the, here's a side note You can also teach them what, you know, With it now they're in power now. I've learned real quick Is that. Haters that you know, are known haters. If you teach them what to know, they're going to try and stab you in the back. It's the, it's the parable of the. Frog and the scorpion. It's their nature. Those that don't know what the frog and scorpion parable is, is. Frog and the scorpion came to a pond. And upon was so deep that the Scorpio can pass without, you know, cause he don't know how to swim. So scorpion says, listen, I need you to help me get across. This a pond. And I exchange you know, I help you So the frog was like, Hey man, you're my friend, but I don't want to let you, I don't want to help you pass because. You know, you're going to sting me with your thing. The scorpion says, listen, I can, I w I promise I will not. Stinky with my tail because I want to get to the other side of this, of this pond. And you're the only one who can help me do it. I don't want to die. Frog was like, okay, well I'm a virtuous person and I like helping out our friends. So I'll do it. So So the scorpion climbs on the frogs backs and then gets all the way to the middle of the pond. But because of Scorpio, nature was so strong. The Scorpio ended up stinging the frog anyway. And the frog surprised, shocked, and feeling betrayed. Look back at scorpion and say, Hey. You stung me anyway. I cannot. Why did you do it? And the Scorpio said, I. I couldn't help it. It was just in my nature. And they both died. Moral, the story is that even though you try to do good by people, they're going to haters on you and the hate is going to hate regardless. So, you know, let them congratulate you, but that'll help the people that want to help themselves. And by helping people that wanna help themselves charge them price. Charged a premium, so they didn't keep the bullshit. You know what I said, Hey, look, I need y'all to stay healthy. Let's get wealthy Don P out.