"Prophetess to a Unique Goddess!! She-Him-Her

 features a candid and in-depth conversation with Unique the Goddess, an exotic entertainer, actress, and entrepreneur. Unique discusses her journey from being a 19-year-old entering the strip club scene to becoming a successful performer known for her unique talents. She reflects on her personal relationships, struggles, and the dynamics of the exotic entertainment industry, emphasizing the importance of self-worth and the challenges of maintaining genuine connections. Unique also shares a personal anecdote about a public altercation at the Atlanta International Airport, explaining the emotional and metaphysical context of the incident. Throughout the conversation, she delves into her spiritual beliefs, her role as a light worker, and her understanding of energy and karma. Finally, Unique discusses her experiences with dating, her preference for financial independence, and the complexities of her polyamorous relationships.

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donald perattis 0:18

A very special person that's near and dear to my heart. Now, let me tell you a few things about her. One thing she's beautiful than a motherfucker. Sexy, pure chocolate melanated. She's talented, as in, she's already been on TV screens, rocking the stage in multiple movies, as well as, uh, she actually has a, a few things coming up, but I ain't let you tell about, we're gonna let you know. But she's also an exotic preneur. She's a actually exotic entertainer as well. She, uh, she has, she coined, when I was coming up as a photographer, she had coined the poles that made her extremely unique and turned her into a goddess. Hey, man, without show to do, I want to introduce you some and let everybody else know you need the goddess. My first episode of Love Of Us From The Mind Entrepreneur and we going to take a pause right there then. Uh, we still made it happen. Now we mess. It was

unique the goddess 1:08

crazy.

donald perattis 1:09

I know, I know, I know. Today was

unique the goddess 1:11

really crazy.

donald perattis 1:12

Today was, it is one of things where that when intention meets Destiny, it's almost like

unique the goddess 1:18

how bad you want it.

donald perattis 1:19

Yeah.

unique the goddess 1:19

It's like how bad you want it. Yeah. Do you really want it? Did you gonna push through or you gonna give it?

donald perattis 1:24

Yeah. And that, and that's the case and that's the, you know, that's the minor entrepreneur, but that's the one of the key success, uh, key principles of success off the bail because that one, so I know I was, I was, it was so, I was not trying my best not to hear it because I was like, I was so, it was like, it was so, I was so thrown off that, you know, it always be like that. 'cause anytime there's something riff worthwhile. 'cause remember back in the day when we were, uh, shooting and every time we would set a schedule, it'd be like, hey. Uh, Don. So, hey. So hate soup. Yeah. You, you gonna kill me? I was always a hate, so kill me. Yeah. And, and, and at that point it's like, all right, well cool. I already accounted for that. So you gonna be late, right? But you ain't coming. You coming though. I'm coming. And that was the main thing. And, and that was the thing that, um, solidified, um, our relationship, our bond. It was like, well, at the end of the day, she gonna make it happen. No matter what goes in the way, no matter what pops off. So first thing, first, first and foremost, tell her what, like, who are you? Because I know you as unique the goddess, but I also know you. Well, I ain't gonna say your government. You can say it if you want to. If you wanna let people know how many versions and layers it is. But when I met you as unique, it was before the goddess. It was just unique. And she and you came in Lil, lil Little, little something, something lil waist. Well, you, you'll see the intro on that fl, that motherfucker. Ooh, Jesus. We talking about apple, peach, watermelon, all the fruits that give you that, walked in the door owning it. And I was like, damn. Yeah. Okay, let's, let's make something happen. Let's, let's get it together.

unique the goddess 3:19

So who am I? That is the grand question that everybody wants to know. Well, I say, watch the fucking show.

donald perattis 3:32

Well see. So if you don't watch the show, then how would you know? Because I can tell you I'm, I can tell you I'm not. Mm-hmm. But not since I 10. Y'all gonna tell me I'm not. It's gonna be like black, black. Like, nobody really believe what you say you are until you actually show who you were. So I'm talking less and I'm showing words. So, okay. So now you, now you kicked off, well I met you as an entertainer. Mm-hmm. So what, first of all. How old were you when you got in the game? Like what made you even wanna pop off and, and started showing and started shaking what your mama gave you? For real, for real.

unique the goddess 4:07

That's a good question.

donald perattis 4:08

So I was 19. Mm-hmm. And I went to the strip club for the first time and I was like, wait, that's all they gotta wear is swimsuits and heels. I said that, that, that's some throw throw back because nothing, what, what? I can, I can do this. Yeah, I can do that. I, I,

unique the goddess 4:32

I said, okay, cool. I seen them make all that money. I was like, Ooh, that's a whole lot of money. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah. I was like, dang. Yeah. How you doing that too? Oh yeah. So the next day I went back up there, I said, Hey, that's when I met.

donald perattis 4:52

Oh my God. Drove back. So what side of town was you? East side or West side? East side.

unique the goddess 4:58

I'm from Denver. Oh seven.

donald perattis 4:59

Ooh.

unique the goddess 5:00

Oh my God. Seven girl. Shut out. Shout out to double oh seven.

donald perattis 5:05

Oh, so much love. So much love over there. Yes. I'm a

unique the goddess 5:09

double oh seven girl, you know?

donald perattis 5:10

Yes, yes. Yeah. Semi out and out

unique the goddess 5:12

drive. Why? One that

donald perattis 5:15

the pop off and the pop out sign. East side fighting, you know? Ooh. The way they look,

unique the goddess 5:24

baby.

donald perattis 5:25

Mm,

unique the goddess 5:25

baby. When I tell you, I made so much money

donald perattis 5:31

that I didn't even know other strip clubs existed. I was so, yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I was so other strip club illiterate that I didn't even know it was another bar. Yeah. The way our bars slapped

unique the goddess 5:43

as cheeks together, man, I wouldn't even know. Yeah. That it was other places like it, like I didn't, I would never know,

donald perattis 5:52

like I, I, I would say, uh, they always used to make the saying east side to where money at. They wasn't lying on it when they, because when they're. When it, that was, that was a for real thunderstorm when, like, when you got in there and they got the messing with you. When you doing what you doing. Woo.

unique the goddess 6:09

That's where we had, we had the, um, battle of the band.

donald perattis 6:13

Mm-hmm. You know, we started that,

unique the goddess 6:15

you know what I'm saying? Uhhuh, you know, battle of the Bands, uh, started at Dub Blow. Mm-hmm. So it was like, like a big thing. Very big thing. You got the East versus the West. Mm-hmm. So they used to come through, they used to shut it down. But of course the East Side always, yo, shout out to street life. That was my guy. Shout out to Flame Man one time. Shout out to Slave. Hey y'all, are y'all at the same sign? Me and Flav? No, because you,

donald perattis 6:43

uh, I went to school with him, but no. Snap. Snap. Okay. Haw fla. That boy, he showed me a lot of love. He, he, he showed me a lot of love.

unique the goddess 6:52

No, not that.

donald perattis 6:54

Who's

unique the goddess 6:54

that FLA that passed the east side?

donald perattis 7:00

I always call him cash out because he would cash them girls out. Boy, that boy with 10 as motherfucking boy, not my bad. That's a Detroit thing. 'cause it's the cash out. Oh boy. But I'm like, you know, but it was flavor. But I always would call him cash out because like when, when I say he and ki when he was like, what you need, what you want cash you out quick, like boop, it was like money on the floor. Never a question, never a hesitation. It was always support. He was, he was very supportive and, um, caring person, you know what I'm saying? And he made sure that the, he made sure the girls eat. But if he was in his crew, if you was in his crew, y'all, everybody was eating. Not just someone, but everybody was eating. That was my dog. He was a double O legend. Yeah. You know? Yeah. Yeah. You gotta give him his flowers as all the time. Every time. You know. Uh, uh, uh, then his, uh, mo Big Mo, you know, you know, he opened the Do all of us get on everybody. You feel. Forget about Mo b, you know what I'm saying? Mob B was that guy. Now he got, now check you out. He, he done, you done We, we rocked that bad boy and opened up the, uh, opened up the, uh, hibachi. Yes. Yep. You know what I'm saying? Because he was a big boy businessman. Mm-hmm. And, and it was crazy height. Next thing you know, he popped out and I was like, what you got going on next? He like, man, I got this hibachi stuff. So he stayed in the food game real heavy. So shout out to Mo b and Absolutely. And hibachi, uh, grill. You know what I'm saying? If y'all know, man, find out. Hey, we got, I don't know how many locations, but it is in Detroit and I think they out and has he got a couple locations? Yeah, he got a couple locations. So these are shameless free plugs, you know, 'cause you know, if you, if I mess, if we mess with each other, we mess with each other long term, not short term. You feel me? Yeah. So that's how that's popping. All right. Let go and do a slight pause real quick. I'm paying yo white shook foot the one I need right there. That's pretty, Hey, I'm not sponsored by them himself. Shake, shake. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. You can do a turnaround too. Share know biscuit. Beautiful, beautiful, beautiful. Yeah. How we look at that? It is walking, walk, walk, walk, walk. You can just work that motherfucker. Look at that. Look at that. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. Frontier. Fucking him up. Okay. And all I seen was gang signs and yo no. And then I said, the fuck is you doing all that crazy? Like what was, what was the motivation? Like it was like you, I was trying to figure out like, well what, what was actually happening? It's like you was trying to get somebody or you was looking for somebody. But then on the same fact, I'm like, then she just, just start turning gang, what y been waiting for to the gang? Gang Aint what y'all been waiting for. Y'all been waiting for this, y'all been waiting for this question. I'm, lemme move this out the way 'cause I'm trying to understand what the, please help the, let the people know. Help me understand. Okay, so everybody really wanna know about what happened at Frontier at the, in, in, at the Atlanta International Airport on October the 14th, around 6:30 PM Yeah, exact dates. People, yes, exact dates. 'cause I need them to understand what happened because I, I, I've seen so much, so many different stories. I haven't told my story, I haven't really spoke out on it. Mm-hmm. I haven't really said too much about it.

unique the goddess 11:13

Mm-hmm. Because it was

donald perattis 11:13

just like, you know, I guess now is the moment. Mm-hmm. Let's, let's talk about it.

unique the goddess 11:17

Yeah.

donald perattis 11:17

So what happened was, you know, I had locks. Yeah. And I was doing a retwit. Okay. And, um, I had a flight to catch running late and I'm like, fuck it, I'm leaving from Detroit to go back to Atlanta. Mm-hmm. You know how, you know? So I'm like, fuck this, I need to do something to my head. So I had, um, my clips still in my hair.

unique the goddess 11:36

Mm-hmm.

donald perattis 11:36

So I'm going through the airport, my minding my business, my, my business that mm-hmm. My bubble.

unique the goddess 11:42

Mm-hmm. So I

donald perattis 11:43

go, we get on a plane next, you know, we land, we land in Atlanta. It's like two fat bitches and I'm gonna say fat bitches. 'cause at first fucked them house, but it was two fat bitches, maybe in like three or four seats back behind me. Mm-hmm. All you heard 'em saying like. That shit T as fuck. Oh, you, you hood red ass. Like, she a hood red as fuck, and da da da da. So I looks back and she like, yeah, you bitch, I'm talking about you. Oh, you come outside. You might as well should have had a bonded on you gonna have those hair clips in your hair.

unique the goddess 12:15

Mm-hmm.

donald perattis 12:17

Oh, you doing the mo? Oh, oh, let's go. So I'm like, what you wanna talking to? Like, that's what you talking about. So I'm like, fuck. Like people can fly in peace. How they wanna fly in peace. They like, oh, you know, the girl's still, you know, waving, talking her shit per usual. So now the girl got a camera out. Like when I look back, I don't know if they, I don't know if this, um, aunt took thing or mm-hmm. Like the new wave thing or the new content creator thing. Mm-hmm. Where every time you, something happened, a loud noise, a pin drop. Mm-hmm. You look up, it's 15 cameras in your face. Right, right, right, right. So now I'm being antagonized. So I look back, everybody got their phones out. I'm like,

unique the goddess 12:55

mm-hmm. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

donald perattis 12:57

No, that's not a fucking head. Why the fuck are you recording me? So now at this point, I'm. Even more irritated. 'cause what the fuck? So basically you anticipated on this conversation, this argument to transpire the way it was because you are antagonizing somebody. Not only are you antagonizing them, you're coming at them in a very disrespectful way.

unique the goddess 13:17

Mm-hmm. Why

donald perattis 13:17

you monitoring their business and what the fuck they got going on? Why does what my hair clips has any concern about you? Mm-hmm. Okay. Boom. That's the plane. So now I'm pissed. Mm-hmm. So on the video, they're like, oh bitch, we here beat your ass. Da da da. We got the plane, we whooping your ass. Okay. So when I got off the plane, now I wanna fight. So that's where it transpired. Now I'm popping my shit, right? So now I'm popping my shit and everybody minding my business again. Uhhuh, that's what happens. Don't mind my fucking business. Like you minding my business. I'm cussing you the fuck out. 'cause why the fuck are you minding my business? Yeah, yeah, yeah. So at that point, that's when I started really turning the fuck up. Like, you know what? Fuck this, fuck that. Now you got a frontier. Fucking workers, I mean, everybody that fucking worked there, first off, it's a, it's a, a, um. Code of conduct where, you know, no phones allowed on the floor when you work there, right? Yeah,

unique the goddess 14:04

yeah, yeah, yeah.

donald perattis 14:05

Frontier workers, they all recorded me doing what they doing. I did. So the girl, so they, so they gonna risk it all. They risking it all for, they risking all the, for content, for content to go viral on TikTok. Like they really risking everything. And you fucking with me like it's me. We talk about. Yeah. Yeah. And you fucking with me for some fucking content and people and what they gotta know. They don't, they don't even know. Don't even know. Like, I will fuck you up type shit. Mm-hmm. So with that being said, okay, moving forward from now, so I noticed that one of the girls was from Frontier mm-hmm. Was, um, recording me. Mm-hmm. So once I seen her recording me, I ran over there and I jumped, I bitch, I jumped on top of the fucking counter knife bitch. Are you recording me, bitch? Mm. Delete your bitch. I want to snatch her fucking phone on her here. 'cause who the fuck is you playing with? Fuck is you talking about? And the lady was like, oh, we're gonna cause the, we going, you're not bigger than the, the government shit. That's why I said the fuck there. I said, you wanna see?

unique the goddess 14:57

Hmm?

donald perattis 14:57

You wanna find out?

unique the goddess 14:59

Hmm.

donald perattis 14:59

Okay. So after that happened, now I'm sitting on top of the counter and I'm throwing clips at everybody. Bitch, fuck you, fuck you, fuck you, fuck you. I'm having a feel that, because where y'all help at, you know, it took the police 45 minutes to come. Mm. Literally 45 minutes to come. That's how torture. And then not only just 45 minutes to come, they were there for a good 20 more minutes while I acted alum, fool.

unique the goddess 15:27

Mm.

donald perattis 15:28

They did not fucking touch me. You cannot, don't fucking touch me.

unique the goddess 15:31

Mm-hmm.

donald perattis 15:31

I don't give a fuck if I'm going off, don't fucking touch me.

unique the goddess 15:33

Mm-hmm. So once I talking

donald perattis 15:35

No, no. I mean, I was throwing threats. They was dying. Okay. I was saying, I was saying like, lethal, lethal shit. Like, you're gonna die. Everybody's gonna die. You're gonna die, die, die, die, die. And you there, you there, you there, you there, you there? Everybody dead. I was popping my shit. I was popping my shit. But they couldn't touch me because at the end of the day. Who I am and what I am is, is no longer concealed. Mm-hmm. It's no longer concealed. The veil is off, just like everybody got, they mask off and like, oh, you know how you got these secret errors? Or nobody really knows until the time come like, mm-hmm Hey, you gotta come serve the world. So it's kind like that type of light situation with me in my life to why I am allowed to do whatever the fuck I really wanna do. For real? Mm-hmm. Now people wanna know about did I get arrested? No, I did not.

unique the goddess 16:22

Mm-hmm.

donald perattis 16:22

I did not. What the, the lady cop said, Sheika, are you ready to go? I said, y'all. She said, well, do you have a ride to where you're going? I said, yeah. She said, no. Do you have a ride to the airport? I said, no. Why you gonna take me? She was like, yes. Come on, grab your stuff. And that's what happened. So when y'all see me put my code and stuff on, grabbing my things, that's me leaving with the police officer to drive me 15 minutes around the airport to drop me off at my ride share. Got into Uber and I left. Now far as any gang signs that I've thrown up, I mean, anybody know what time it is? Y'all know what it, what it is. I mean, it's big bees around here, baby. Mm-hmm. Nothing small. Big, big, big, big over here. You know? It is what it is. Um, I'm affiliated with a lot of things that it is what it is. I was born into a lot of shit. Um, had a whole lot of gang shit. It is what it is. But, um, a lot of that was me throwing daggers. Mm-hmm. If you know anything about witchcraft, a lot of that was me throwing daggers. I was cursing a lot of people. Mm-hmm. And that airport, pretty much anybody that thought it was funny, pretty much anybody that thought it was, um, a key or anything like that mm-hmm. To humiliate me to like mm-hmm. Um. A definition of character. Mm-hmm. You know, just a antagonize me anything that anybody that felt okay from either the people from the airport, from the peers who was sharing it from everybody. So y'all sharing something and y'all laughing at something and then y'all don't even know it can wipe out your whole blood lot. Mm. Wipe out your whole blood lot. So that's the story behind the Frontier Airport. 'cause a lot of people really wanted to know, I am the biggest of the biggest ika prophet, and that's what it is.

unique the goddess 18:06

Mm-hmm.

donald perattis 18:06

That's me. Hmm. So the fact that you were able to, I guess, take the spells away from you and throwing back at 'em? No, not necessarily. Mm-hmm. It was more so it was me conjure. Okay. Hmm. I don't know. See, because see, because I'm, it was a straightforward blank look. Like you, you saw that it was like the, the openness, openness to the portal that you was able to see, like, yeah, yeah, yeah. Because, you know, I'm, I'm a, I'm a, I'm would say that I, I'm, I'm not ignorant to it. Mm-hmm. Because I'm aware. Mm-hmm. Um, I, I did connect with a lot of people who work in this strong spiritual energy and Yeah. And, uh, effectively, you know, um, you know, doing that, uh, spiritual work that, uh, conjuring in that, uh, that, uh, dark magic and white magic. So, the fact of the matter that, uh, you know, you, you moving into, you moved into that space. Like what possessed me to move there? Yeah. Under attack. I was under attack. Okay. I'm by myself. Mm-hmm. There's hundreds and hundreds of people around me. Humiliation. I'm angry. I'm pissed. Right, right, right. I'm fucking mad. I'm mad. I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm pissed. So. The only thing I knew what to do was to dig deep and go inside of me. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. Instead of, you can't, if you can't handle it on the outside, I go with them.

unique the goddess 19:27

And the only

donald perattis 19:28

thing I knew what to do was to tap into my true identity. Okay. And go from what I know. So I don't do dark magic. So dark magic is something I do not do. I am dark magic, I am karma herself. I was born into a family where it's hard to really explain, but, um, we are prophets, P-R-O-P-H-E-T, that's my government last name. Mm-hmm. So I'm actually born into the prophet family with the prophet blood.

unique the goddess 19:49

Mm-hmm.

donald perattis 19:49

So a lot of us can do a lot of different things that some speak on it, some don't. Mm-hmm. However, um, I'm not ignorant or I don't deny my gifts. I don't shy away from my gifts. Mm-hmm. I don't like hide 'em because the world is ignorant to 'em because I can pull up on you right now in your bedroom if I wanted to. Mm-hmm. Hypothetically. But even if I reveal myself to the world, how many people were really accepted and tell to be okay with that. Mm-hmm. What was it? What, what really would it matter if I don't present that side of me? What would you really get? A fake, a phony, something that makes you comfortable with, of your own understanding of knowledge of my

unique the goddess 20:29

existence. Lack of intelligence.

donald perattis 20:33

Right, right. So that's interesting because, you know, by you understanding the physical, the metaphysical and, and the spiritual. Exactly. How does that translate to your personal interactions, your dating life? How does that translate? Because, um, we, it's like, it's like, it's like when you, when you, you know, um, data, it's like if you know somebody is dangerous but you still love them, how do, how does that translate? Uh, give your, um, a lot of people are very sensitive about this topic because a lot of people hide. Behind mass and, and, and the idea of people pleasing.

unique the goddess 21:18

Mm-hmm.

donald perattis 21:19

And I don't, people please, I'm not a people pleaser.

unique the goddess 21:22

Okay.

donald perattis 21:23

I'm not someone who I once was. I once was, I wanted friends. 'cause this piggyback on your question where you said, um, there's nothing wrong with, I mean, I've been to that. How do you still mm-hmm. The question pretty much was how do you still love someone? Basically? Genuinely, yeah. But knowing they're extremely dangerous. Right Now, my friends and my family and my peers struggle with that. Mm-hmm. Like, so I'm not gonna say I'm alone, but most of the time I be by myself. Why? Because I get angry. I get upset, or I feel some kind of way. And the people around me don't know how to withstand that. They don't know how to balance it. They don't know how to shift it. They take it in a, they make it about them. Right. Versus it's not about you. Be a friend or be a loved one. Mm-hmm. And, and, and make the situation better. Yeah. Don't add onto something. Mm-hmm. Take it, take things away from it and try to understand. Yeah. You know what I'm saying? Like, don't be like, oh, you, you are crazy, or you gonna pop up and you're gonna do this. No, no, that's fine. That's perfectly fine. Mm-hmm. But at the end of the day, how do you redirect my energy? Mm-hmm. Do you add onto it? Mm-hmm. So once you add onto it, I'm gonna slap you too. So, I mean, what, what you say? What, what? Pause, you said slap at too. So we going, so we saying, are we saying putting the pause on 'em for real? Yes. Literally slap you. Oh my. Oh my. And it's like I have to, like, that's why I stop being around people because that's where I'm at. Like, mm. I'm slapping you. Like, I'm no longer letting nobody touch, talk to me crazy. Mm-hmm. I don't give a fuck. 'cause we've been friends for 10, 15, 20 years. Mm-hmm. You don't get to disrespect me. Mm-hmm. You don't get to talk to me. You don't get down. Talk to me if you not talk about how you can help me change my situation or how you can help me overcome my anxiety mm-hmm. Or overcome these things that I feel around people. Mm-hmm. If you can't help me do that, then what are you around for? All you doing is attack. You're, you're, you're adding onto my bullshit. Antagonizing me. Mm-hmm. Yeah. No, I'm gonna stop you because I, I feel like at that point you don't want the best for me. Mm. You don't care about my mental Okay. You don't care about my mental, you only care about what you can do to inflict pain on, on. Right, right. You, you love to see me act the fool transfer. Say,

unique the goddess 23:47

see, I told you she's crazy, y'all. Mm. But you'll say

donald perattis 23:50

some dumb shit and be like, damn. I'm like, bitch, fuck. Now you like, see, see? She crazy. Not, not ignoring the fact that they, they invited that like, because invited me into that space, you know? And you trying your best to open up that door to to, to not give 'em that. And how, so what is your process to level one? Is it a, is it levels before you get it or is it more of a like the, I think it's more to, all right, bitch, I'm already saying. Right Bitch, give the warning. You give him the warning. All right, bitch. So it is a fair warning. Like, all right, bitch, we ain't gonna do that. So chill out. So understand that it is a fair warning. Uh, uh, uh, it is like a body language. It's a all right, now it's a, all right, now pause. Listen. You giving him another, I think you need to get like two, like, all right now, then I'd be like, oh. Bitch. What the, and once I go like that, when you say something else, it just, I'm smacking you. It's just, it is the hands. It what? It's, it's just the hands. Scars, bruises. That shit heal. But what, what never will heal mm-hmm. Is to be humiliated by people you consider your friends and family.

unique the goddess 24:58

Mm.

donald perattis 24:59

That hurts you the most. Holding something in. Right. Allowing people to hurt you. Mm-hmm. No. Mm-hmm. I will physically hurt you before I allow you to internally hurt me ever again. No, I don't love you that much. I love me. I don't, I don't. I just don't. I don't. Yeah. No. Now, uh, I don't know. I know, right. I saw a message earlier. That's interesting that you say that because my father's a Scorpio too. Mm. And that's the main thing that he said to me on a regular basis. He was like, I love me. I love myself more than I love you. To the point. Uh, I'm not about to let you take me out of who? My greatness for your bullshit. You know what I'm saying? I'm not doing that. And then by me in a, um, conceiving a Scorpio, I'm seeing it play out full circle. Yeah. So I, it's just like, I get it. It's like, no, like mm-hmm. At some point, when do, when do the people stop? Mm. It is not about when do you stop. Mm-hmm. When do you change, when do the people stop and when do they change? Mm. Because I'm changed.

unique the goddess 26:14

Mm-hmm.

donald perattis 26:15

I've grown. I prosper. I grew. Mm-hmm.

unique the goddess 26:17

I,

donald perattis 26:18

I sat with myself. I sit with myself. But see people don't, nobody like positivity. They love to see me be a little demon.

unique the goddess 26:27

Mm.

donald perattis 26:27

They don't like when I get on here and talk about the Orishas mm-hmm. And the chakra. And I love that. That's the part I love. I love, that's the part that I love the most about you. But the thing is. They'd rather see me like

unique the goddess 26:42

Mm.

donald perattis 26:43

At my lowest and my scorpion.

unique the goddess 26:45

Mm-hmm. Because, you know, it st through levels. They want st sting me

donald perattis 26:48

with my stinger up, but you ain't gonna see me if I sting you though. Right. It's like a lose lose situation. Mm-hmm. Only they gonna feel it. You gonna feel it. We have a six sense, a Scorpio have a six sense. Mm-hmm. So we know how to utilize all of them. Most of them, I don't, I can't really speak for all of them because a lot of 'em are still bird brain. They still live in a world of illusion of what they mama told 'em, who they was and what they was. Mm-hmm. You know what I'm saying? A lot of us branch off and, and grow into our true identity. Mm-hmm.

unique the goddess 27:18

And

donald perattis 27:18

we actually understand ourselves. Like, if I can't hear you

unique the goddess 27:22

mm-hmm. I

donald perattis 27:22

promise you, I can feel you. If I can't see you, I can taste the, the illness on my, on my, on my throat, on my tongue of the venom that's spitting out your spirit. Oh wow. I can feel that. Mm. So. Would that consider you like, uh, a empath or what is that in the, in the, in the world? Definitely. I mean, energy world. Okay. So in the energy world mm-hmm. It will be an empath, but for me, I am a light worker. Okay. You know what I'm saying? Okay. I'm just a sphere in humanity form. Right. It's here to enlighten other people how to be just as great as I am.

unique the goddess 28:04

Fair enough.

donald perattis 28:04

Like, light up the way so people can have a place to go. Mm-hmm. You know what I'm saying? Yeah. Like everybody don't always have, uh, a guide or mm-hmm. Someone who they follow. That's true. You know? Yes. People believe in God, you know, of those things, but most people need a physical fragment or even a, a figure

unique the goddess 28:22

Yeah, yeah. Of

donald perattis 28:23

something. Mm-hmm. To follow. They don't have their own, they don't wake up in the morning and say, Hey.

unique the goddess 28:28

Mm-hmm.

donald perattis 28:29

I'm gonna make me some eggs and greets and this, this, and that. They be like, damn, I'm hungry. Let me call such and such. Mmm. They might not think about what they really want, they just know they're hungry. Right. Okay. And and is that what you, is that your calling to feed them? Hell, fuck yeah. Whoop they ass. Uhhuh whoop them. I mean, because you got some buns with that meat. So listen, listen, it's so fire. Like my world, my spiritual world, it, it is so fire. Like it kept me outta so much trouble when I just stayed true to my own spectrum versus like getting back with my homegirls or hanging out with certain people. They don't, they don't believe what I believe. They don't see what I see. Mm-hmm. Even though I believe in God, just like everybody else, I'm just not religious. I'm not, yeah. I'm non-religious. I definitely believe in God. I mean, how can I not believe in God when I'm a God myself? Like, how can I not believe in myself? Make it make sense? You know what I'm saying? Yeah, yeah. Yeah. And it's like, you know, a lot of people are. Shy away from these topics, but these type of topics is something that need to be spoke upon because

unique the goddess 29:34

mm-hmm.

donald perattis 29:35

These, it, it is books on this. Yeah, yeah, yeah. So they erase history mm-hmm. To replace it with these black and white, what they want you to be like. Mm-hmm. Because the real knowledge come from the spiritual realm. Yeah, yeah, yeah. That's where the real dollars come from. Mm-hmm. Which is the hillers, the South Africa practice. Mm-hmm. Everything and so on and so on. Come from a natural sense where you get natural vibrations. Yeah. Natural sunlight. Yeah. Natural minerals for the water and this and this and this and that. Everything, everything we have on this earth, we have everything we need. We just greedy.

unique the goddess 30:08

Mm.

donald perattis 30:08

We're greedy.

unique the goddess 30:09

Yeah.

donald perattis 30:10

Okay. I'm grateful when we greedy,

unique the goddess 30:12

we

donald perattis 30:12

have all elements to make everything that we need.

unique the goddess 30:15

Mm-hmm.

donald perattis 30:18

Blissful. Mm-hmm. But yet, here we are. We wanna, we want this, we want that, we want this, we want that, we want this, we want that.

unique the goddess 30:25

Mm-hmm.

donald perattis 30:26

Which caused the world to become extremely selfish. Hmm. They is definitely spoiled. I, I agree with that. They, um, it, it, it's interesting the direction that, you know, you see the, the, the world going into outside of the universe when you see things from afar. So from the mind of an exotic entrepreneur. 'cause you know, we live in that shadow world. We make our living, but we also see the light and the dark of not only other people, but also within ourselves. So the navigating that part is, is amazing. Oh, that's a good one. You know, you just touched on the topic pretty much. Were like, basically when I was, when I was a exotic entertainer.

unique the goddess 31:10

Mm-hmm.

donald perattis 31:11

Now you can fall very, very, very deep down the rabbit hole of being a exotic entertainer. Mm-hmm. You have to mentally, physically, and emotionally be prepared for that game. How. How in the world could you do it? 'cause like, just like you, you know, I was new and we were young. I had a daddy shout out to the daddies. I had a daddy wait one time, shout out to the daddies daddy. Shout out to the daddy. I had a daddy. You know? And, and it's sad because a lot of, a lot of women, when I realized that, like, being in that, in that game, that's why I became, um, fix your crown. Mm-hmm. Because I became a mentor, a life coach, because I, I noticed a lot of people, uh, a lot of women has fell very short of their, of themselves. Mm-hmm. You know, and, um, it, it just so sad. Like most women, like, you know, you know, they get out there, they do what they do, they selling, they selling it. But where I feel like most women go wrong at is a lot of women did not have that father, father figure in their life. Mm-hmm. So when you get in the game, you get a daddy. You get a sugar daddy, you get you a little pimp daddy, you get you some assistance to assist you on your journey. Mm-hmm. And a lot of women don't have a mind of they own, so they think they need a daddy, they think they need that type of protection. They think they need that type of assistance.

unique the goddess 32:36

Mm-hmm. But

donald perattis 32:36

the whole time you getting raped, beat and abused, not even realizing, yeah, you out here making your money, but you making him rich and he giving you $5 to take care of you barely even giving you anything.

unique the goddess 32:46

Mm mm mm

donald perattis 32:48

So in that game, a lot of women have to, it's like a red pill, blue pill. Okay. You gotta know what you doing it for. You get in the game, gonna do this. See me? I thought it was just all about wearing swimsuits and high heels and V and VC outfits and see, I just thought they was mm-hmm. Bathing suits and high heels. And I just saw 'em throwing money. So I'm like, I don't wanna do that. But I do remember it. Is my auntie on here? Is my mom on here? Because I know they know y'all. I found about to go dead. But y'all remember that one time? When I made all y'all sit down in the living room and we did a talent show with all the kids, and I told y'all was gonna be a stripper. I did it. Mama, mama. I did it. You let 'em know. For real, for real. So that was, that was the unload. So that was the unload. You just sat 'em down and just gave him a Yeah, I was, I say 14, 15. I was young. You already knew that you was lying. I was still gonna be a stripper. You knew you, you knew that you had what it takes to, to navigate that chaos. Thank you mama. I was, I was double join it. Okay. I was on a trillion team. Mm-hmm. Not only did a trillion team, I was majored, I did gymnastics, I did everything. So doing the split. So you was built to this like pulling in between your legs? I could like, mama, look, I could do that. Look ma, I could do that. So at, at, at that young age. I always admired a pole dancer. Mm-hmm. Here you go. So let wait, wait, wait. Let me get that. So we going have her walk in here.

unique the goddess 34:24

There you go, sweetie. You

donald perattis 34:26

can I give you okay for

unique the goddess 34:27

it?

donald perattis 34:28

I'm gonna get my little, my little, that look amazing. Yo don't see my mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. Y'all ain't eat, y'all ain't eat like I'm here. Damn. She, she went all in. Oh yeah. I need that. I need, you want another one? Yes, ma'am.

unique the goddess 34:40

Okay.

donald perattis 34:40

That's, Lord Jesus. You got a

unique the goddess 34:43

portable charger.

donald perattis 34:44

Of course I do.

unique the goddess 34:45

I know you do.

donald perattis 34:46

Yeah. But charger you in that because the rest, they gotta tune in. I know, but you, I still tried to that 1%. No problem. So, as y'all could see this plate, but this was enough for everybody because look at that. A lot of people, a lot of people want, really wanted to know about that airport situation. Mm-hmm. And I really have not spoke on it. So you really, you, you cracked the egg. Hey man, you crack the air. 'cause a lot of people been like, get me to talk on it. Even people try to get me to do interviews on it. And I just was like, no. Well I appreciate the tea on that one and the, and the breakout. And we made it all the way to the UK with it too. Wow. I'm in the UK Daily news. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I'm in the UK daily news. Yeah. And I'm, yeah, you could see me. There's a picture of me. Mm-hmm. Yep. In there. Couldn't believe it. That was the first half of what's going on. Mm-hmm. Stay tuned. Make y all tap in. It's gonna be Let's talk. So, so we got a question. So what's the question? Dating Now? I know we said some things off camera, but, you know, um, said dating. Right? All right. What's up? You know, I, so, I mean, I, I know that you, you, you played both sides of the street for a while. Oh, yes. You know, 'cause I know you, I know you loved up, then I started seeing you at the, at the girly bars. Turning them out more, more as a feature. Then, um, anything, you know, definitely was a feature, you know, I mean, you, and you stayed in that motherfucker to the, to the level where that, you know what I'm saying? Uh, it it, you was a showstopper. Headliner. Showstopper period. I'm the queen of the LGBT community since 2014. Nobody came and took my title yet. Facts. So, um. So what's your preference? I love women. I love like what? You, okay. Are you talking like preface for meaner women or are you talking like even about like a woman? Like what's my preference when it comes to that too? Or like break it down? We could do with all the above. It's so broad. It's so broad. It's so, we could go with all the above because So I mean, like, I mean obviously there has to be some type of affinity for men due to the fact that you make you earn a good income off with them. I wouldn't say off 'em because I wanna disrespect, uh, customers and clients who enjoy your show even though fuck them. Okay. Stop. Uh, because I know whatever. It's great. It it is a great show. Great. It's a great one. It's a great show. Okay. I mean, you can work the pole, you can dance, you can actually move And wh and you feel me? Uh, natural African. Everything. I mean, if you wanna give 'em a little sample how I, Hey, I'm just saying, hey, no, I'm not against it. Um, on top of that, then there's the fact of the matter that you do put on a hell of a show for the, uh, for the community, for the, you know, the Rainbow Coalition and, uh, you know, shout out to them, no hate, uh, and, and they support you. Well, you know, they do, you know, um, 'cause they consistent on the bookings. Uh, where, where that is not a more of a, um, not a preference, but more of a, like a style of like, okay, who rock with you the most. Yeah. It's kind of like, it know, like, uh, the gays been going crazy though. Yeah. Like the gay, it's like the gays came and stole me from the heterosexual and it was like, I didn't even want to dance at the bars no more because it's like, the bookings was so, like, they didn't stop. They were so, it was just phenomenal. Just kept coming, coming, coming, coming, coming. So it's like, am I really a common dancer? No. Right now, I, I went from a regular exotic entertainer to a legendary, um, exotic, uh, performer.

unique the goddess 38:53

Yeah.

donald perattis 38:54

So, you know, it, it's a difference between being a, a dancer and a performer. Yeah, true. What, what I'm saying the difference between a stripper and not an entertainer. Yeah, yeah. Yeah. It's so weird how it's like, it's broken up, but it it is. Yeah. So like with me, my talent has took me to so many places, opened up so many doors to where I didn't have to go, um, pay to work at a bar mm-hmm. To make no money. Mm-hmm. I was getting paid to work at a bar to make the money. Mm-hmm. So, you know, it, it went from me paying tip out mm-hmm. To them paying me. Show to come show up, be a part of their show. I mean, that's progress. That's the Yeah, that's where, that's where I would, I would expect, yeah. Most entertainers. Yeah. Or at least starters Yeah. Graduate to like, instead of you being the, the supporter, you the, the feature. Yeah. Yeah. You know, so I went from, you know, just regular coming to work, paying my money, you know, you know, you gotta pay your rental fee. And it, and it literally went through the roof. I wanna say it didn't take me long to blow up. It took me, honestly, maybe about six months if that. I blew up so fast. Yeah,

unique the goddess 40:15

yeah, yeah.

donald perattis 40:16

I became one of the hottest dancers in the game. Mm-hmm. Yes. Immediately. Like it was only three of us. Like really? I'm gonna say four, like during my time it was what? Me, mocha C chocolate. I love her. And maybe another brown skinned girl, you know, that some hot chocolate, her married dad. And you know, back in the day we didn't, our us brown skinned girls really, we didn't really get, we didn't get praised much, you know what I'm saying? During the era, I love y'all. That's the crazy, in the era that we were in. Yeah, yeah, yeah. It was only by that five to seven of us. Mm-hmm. That literally made money, like mm-hmm. Consistent. Uh, yeah, consistency. You know how you got the, you know, the guys, this is strictly just like letting no people know. Like in the era where I started dancing in, if you didn't have no talent and you had no ass, you ain't had nothing like that. For real. You wasn't doing shit. Especially if you was brown skinned. Yeah. You was brown skinned. It was over expectations top back then the expectations of a dancer was. Light skin, big booty. I mean, let team know. I mean, that's all the guys wanted. They didn't care about if you were ugly. They didn't care if you was cross-eyed. They didn't give a fuck. If you had hair. Know they didn't give a fuck if their toes was Crip walking. Oh my goodness. They did not care. They didn't care about nothing. Only thing they care about that big old butt, big old donkey, and your color was this color. If you was not this color, you'd, you better be kind. A better. You didn't get no play. You was fine. You didn't get no play. But then you came in. Then I came in, hot chocolate came in and we changed. We literally, and y'all brought attention because shut the game up, you know? But hot chocolate was there before me. You know? Chocolate was in the game before me. Heavy curves. Yep, heavy curves. She was in the natural face before me. Mm-hmm. No, no, no. She didn't require nothing. Natural. Natural hair. I say natural. She barely even wear lashes. If I could think about it, like if I were to think about at the time mm-hmm. She just had her natural hair. Yeah. Very cute. But in her own world, you know what I'm saying? She stayed in her own world, made her own money, whatever the case may be. When we off that, when we back to the idea of um, just being a dancer, um, he asked a question about what's my preference? I like money. I like money, okay. You a girl. I like money. You a guy. I like money. Um, I don't think I'm gonna like you if you don't have no money. I don't care about your day. I don't care about what you got going on. I don't care about none of that because you gonna have five bitches caring about the same thing. I'm the one that's gonna be different. I don't give a fuck. You wanna go out? Have some drinks for some money. No, don't call my phone. I'm gonna be different. I'm gonna be the bitch. I don't give a fuck about you. So you think I'm about send her phone and you told five girls your story not supposed to be like number six. Like, damn babe, did you just talk to Alicia earlier? That's what's wrong with women. We get these niggas way too much for what? But the girls do the same thing. Like what they be, they play a game. They game is way more diabolical because they understand the psychological of the long of the, of the, of the tongue. Like guys gotta automatically come with paper. The girls do too. I mean, you did say that girls playing too. I mean, girls, I mean, you did say that, but then there's the point, I'll get

unique the goddess 44:04

money all around the world.

donald perattis 44:06

Girls playing too. Right, right, right. Okay. What I mean, you gotta check my resume. I guess we maybe, because what I'm saying, what I'm saying, like I ain't going to do 'em like that, but fuck the Mo. I drop all Y bitches names. Fuck all y'all. But realistically, everybody ever dated. Mm-hmm. Yep, yep, yep. Fuck you. Me, because I, all right. They gotta, I mean, they gotta pair their cost to be with a boss. Fair enough. Fair enough, fair enough. A a. Fair enough. Fair enough. Because I don't care, like, I feel like I didn't always be this way. Mm-hmm. I think giving a fuck too much led me to not give a fuck at all. Mm. How did that happen? Um, realizing that we care about other people more than they care about themselves. Mm. Forcing them to want to level up even when they stuck on it, or is it, or just believing in them more in believe in themselves. Believ. Yeah. Yeah, yeah. You see, you see what they, you see that greatness, but they haven't seen it in themselves. And you're trying to Will 'em bully 'em? Force some. I know I used to drag 'em, but, or try to at least, and before you know it, it ended up drag draining me and distracting me from my own blessing. You know what I mean? Because I spent more time working on you when I coulda just doing this for myself. And then, then show you that, Hey, you could level up to me because I can't, that's water.

unique the goddess 45:49

Yeah. Yeah, yeah.

donald perattis 45:50

Drink some water. Good. Healthy. I need water. Yeah. I mean, you already hydrated, but you can stay more. I said what I used, so, okay. So you like money, like money, you prefer money over everything? Mm-hmm. MOE. Mm-hmm. Momo.

Speaker 3 46:09

Mm.

donald perattis 46:10

Okay. I love this son.

Speaker 3 46:12

Mm.

donald perattis 46:16

Alright. Because it's like, I don't dislike men. It's just not my preference. I don't hate 'em. I just don't love them. Mm. I never love them. I don't love us. We do though. They don't. No, don't believe that lie. You don't. I love you. Yeah. Not, not on that, in, in that sense, you know, would not, we love each other but in a different sense. Yeah. I'm talking like on a Okay. To, to one man. Okay. So let just say that, lemme break this down. Y'all listen. So this is something for y that so.

Speaker 3 46:50

Mm-hmm.

donald perattis 46:51

So we, men are outnumbered when it comes to women. It's way more women than there is a guy. Facts. And you die, right? So for the girls, you to like money like me, how many, how many niggas, how many men with money? Not many of them not. So think about it. And that's white or black. So we all that's white or black. Fuck we all, so you got the girlies that love money. You got the girlies that love the dick, excuse my French, and you got the girlies that just don't even know what they like. They confused, right? They don't, don't care if a nigga got a house, a car, just bring that dick here. That's all they care about, right? Cool. I'm not in none of those calibers. I'm where the money at? If it ain't got no money, I don't even care about what you're talking about. If there's no money, there's no conversation for real with me. Mm-hmm. Cool. Okay. So, but while you getting into that, why is it that. Like, 'cause we know that as a man, it's automatically, we know we gotta have some resources. You know what I'm saying? Just to even just to entertain any, any woman, any person on the planet. But why is that strictly with me? Because they get on my fucking nerve. What's the purpose? Purpose. Because they get on my nerves. They can't even afford my doctor Bill. You, you irritate me. You irritate the fuck outta me. You give me a headache. You can't even afford to fucking pay for my ibuprofen. You not doing shit. All you wanna do is keep calling my fucking phone. Mm-hmm. Where? So at that point, it's like, I need money because you're gonna piss me off. You're gonna gimme a headache and you're not buying me nothing to where's the solution? You not leaving me with nothing but irritation. You're not doing nothing. Fair enough. You know what I'm saying? So if a motherfucker got some money, not saying, don't listen to this, y'all, please don't say that. She said, I never said that. What I'm saying is if you gonna fuck with somebody and they fuck you over or try to piss you off, at least they can financially pick you up, make you happy. Right, right, right, right. Okay. So polygamy versus marriage, is there a difference or is there one of the same, or like, what's your, what's your, what's your preference? What, what do you prefer now, being in this game? 'cause I, I've interviewed a lot of women who are for it when originally they wasn't with it at first, but then as they progressed, they got into a more pool of a polyamory, like they wanted to be, be married and then have a sister. Or they be in Amory where that they're the head and they have their circle. They don't want that. They don't want that. I don't, a woman that can honestly open and tell you that they want, that has not yet accepted themselves because women are naturally, um, intimidated or, um, jealous or feel some kind of way when it comes to another woman. Mm-hmm. Or they're, they, they have habitat of, what is it? Uh, territorial. Mm-hmm. You say territorial. Their women are naturally territorial of what they call their shit. Their, their, their, their nigga, their they're woman. They're their hoo-ha, their penises, whatever, whatever they want to say. They're naturally territorial of that. Right. Cool. Mm-hmm. The reason why I say that is because I'm a Scorpio

unique the goddess 50:25

Uhhuh.

donald perattis 50:27

I didn't have orgies. I have threesomes. I didn't have time my fucking life. Okay, now love that shit, but. Am I? You tired from it? Um, no. Absolutely not. Amen. Absolutely not. But I am more aware of the emotions behind it. You didn't realize like what type of emotional damage or physical wreck you can cause in somebody else. Not realizing that a woman can love you so much and I don't give a shit about you, but yet the person that they love so much love you so much, but you don't give a fuck about the person that they love you so much. Mm-hmm. You know what I'm saying? Mm-hmm. So now the, the third party is feeling some kind of way because I'm loving on you, but yet you're chasing up on her and she don't want nothing to do with you.

unique the goddess 51:29

Mm.

donald perattis 51:29

So that's what caused an chemical balance.

unique the goddess 51:31

Mm-hmm. Being in

donald perattis 51:32

the polygamy relationship. Mm-hmm

unique the goddess 51:34

hmm. Because there's

donald perattis 51:34

always gonna be somebody who wants somebody else more.

unique the goddess 51:38

Mm-hmm. Or

donald perattis 51:38

it's always gonna be somebody that's taking one from the team.

unique the goddess 51:40

Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm.

donald perattis 51:43

See me, I won't say I'm probably, I won't say nothing. I got two wives. I live my life. So it's like, it's like two niggas sharing one bitch. We not together. I can do what I wanna do. I can have friends in between. I can do whatever I wanna do. They support me. They support me on my journey. They support me in what everything I do. They both love me. They need, neither one of 'em wanna go nowhere, and this is what it is. So I really don't know. So, so you, so you the queen bee? Yeah. Like they both, and they speak like, I could be with one and one can FaceTime me mm-hmm. And I could be like, Hey, they be like, who you with? And I'd be like, I'm on such and such. They be like, oh, what up though? What's up? No, bro. And they, they literally have a whole conversation with each other. So what is the trick? What is the secret that you got that so many others failed at keeping that together? Um, I mean, because it, it doesn't matter if it's male or female, it, it has a lot to do. You can have it, like, you can really have whatever you want. Like I got, I got men. That's still, I got plenty of men that's wrapped around the corner that's like, that's waiting to come and have a seat. So that's, that's, that's like, that's normal too. But when it comes to the women, I just gotta give a gab. I gotta, I got that energy, I got that, I got the come every bring. I got that energy, like, yeah, come talk to me. You know what I'm saying? Like, it is like, I don't, I don't chase, I attract. So it's like I'm attracted to everything though. It could, it's like a gift and a courtesy.

unique the goddess 53:19

Okay.

donald perattis 53:19

I could be, just because I attract don't mean I'm attracting everything. Because guess what? Flights and moths are attracted to light too. Mm-hmm. So it's like, everything want that light, but what are you really going to, what are you really going like, mm. Um, I'm looking for the right word for it. Like, what are you really gonna, like, which one are you really gonna like, anticipate on? Mm-hmm. Which one are you really gonna go for? Mm-hmm. Because it's like, it's crazy. I don't know. I don't know. I just don't, mm. I love women. I love my wives. Shit. Lit. Lit. It's just like, I don't even know what to say. And it's like, so, so. When did you, when did you know that you, that it was, it was the, it was the cu over over. It was like, I call it the tacos over the meat. Okay. So what happened was I was 23 years old and I always liked, I always say with girls though, I always had a girlfriend, always had a girl. Always, always been lick cat. Like I've been licking cat in middle school, high school, you know, I mean, team, turn 'em up. Turn em up, right. Eating up young. Yeah. I mean, I've been doing stuff like that, like, but I never identified myself as lesbian. Um, I had the niggas, I had your nigga, all y'all niggas, but it don't mean I was sexy, active, relax, relax, relax. Because, because I had your nigga low miles. It, it was, it was low. Very low. It was like low miles, very low, very low miles. But yeah, he still was looking at the car. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Miles on me was low, but the miles of yo nigga was high. He was chasing the fuck out of me. You need get a Christmas gift. Let me stop, but no, I'm not stopping, but for real. But, um, true. The guys, I had a boyfriend. Mm-hmm. And, um, I met a girl and she was just like a stud, like it was a stud girl. I was like, was she attractive, stud, or like a big back stud? She was attractive. Okay. She was attractive. And, um, what's that called? What's, what's the, what's the term for like, attractive studs? 'cause I done seen some scary ones. They just, just, I thought that was like a fud, you just call it fine. Shit. I know. Gonna call that fine shit. I don't wanna be disrespectful to know. Um, preference, you know, I just be trying to under say correctly. Ask them what's they, the number one thing is to ask them, what's your pronoun? I I What's your pronouns? So when you ask me what they pronouns you gonna know like my, my pronouns. Is she him, her? Yeah. I was born. She, I'm him, but I'm also her. Oh, she, him, her, I'm she, him, her. Oh, okay, okay. She, him, her born. She, but I'm that nigga. Okay. But I'm also her uhhuh, so I'm, she, him, her. Fair enough. That's my pronouns. Okay. Fair enough. So you said, so she, him, her, she, she got you, she got you while you had your ninja. Okay. Yeah. So, um, she was talking about some stuff and I was like, that sounds interesting, Uhhuh. But you can do that. Wait, you put that on there and do what? I'm like, y'all again, I'm like. Just like I was strip club oblivious. I was, I didn't even know they people can do that. I didn't, I didn't even know you can put, put the thing on, strap that motherfucker down. I, I You thought it was all, uh, fuck it. Uh, scissoring and pass. I, I, I just never, I never thought about, I, I never, my mind never explored to lesbian sex. I never even thought about it. Like, 'cause I, it just happened like, yeah. I'm still trying to understand because she like the same thing to me. But with boobies, right. She was the chicks with dicks. Yeah. Yeah, yeah. Pretty much. I said the same thing, like cheeks with dicks, but you know, with her, you know, and I didn't wanna be with her. It wasn't like I wanted to be with her or nothing. Uhhuh. It wasn't like, oh, we doing this. And I'm like, oh yeah, I wanna be with you. We gonna be hell, hell we gonna be in love. No. Mm-hmm. It wasn't like I'm doing this and all of a sudden I. I'm in love. No, it wasn't that. It was more so an experience. And that experience never went back. That experience. Experience, okay. It was a spirit. Okay. The experience turned into experience. Uhhuh. Yeah. So as you turned your ass out, I ain't go back. Called my boyfriend next morning. He probably watching. I don't care. You know I called you that next morning and said hello. He said hello? I said, what's up baby? I said don't call me baby. Said you don't watch. Can't call you baby. I said, I just got fucked last night. He said, what bitch? Bitch said? I said, not by no nigga. He told us, wait, what you talking about man? He hit her. You done hit her with a dang gone Drew Hill, dude. Oh my God. He said, wait what? Talking about, I said it was a girl. He said, what? What? I mean, y'all can hear from other phone. He's like,

unique the goddess 59:02

what? What, what, what? What?

donald perattis 59:04

A nigga was acting crazy. I'm like, it's over. He said, it's over. I said, click. Oh, that was me. Did you let him hear at least one more time before it was over? Fuck no. That was all she wrote. That's it. Damn. He ain't hit it. No. Damn. I like there ain't no more love, just lust. I like Cruz now. And that was it. It was like one, one hit wonder. It was over. Mm. It was like Eminem said you only got one shot opportunity coach once in a lifetime, baby. She knocked me out the park, but, and I was like, yep. Mm, I like it over here. So every time I seen the stuff I'd be like, in my head I'll be like, can you do what? That one stuff she was doing too? Mm-hmm. But luckily my damn, that's beautiful. My body count is, is low for guys and women, which is a good thing. Which is a blessing, especially at my seasonal age, but Right, because you know, they got the perception that they're thinking that everybody's out here in community that ran and, and is not true. They think I ran through 'cause I be, I be trolling though. I ain't gonna lie. I be trolling. Yeah. You see me, I be trolling. I be trolling. Yeah. I mean that's the nature of the game. The game is the selling, not, you know, giving into. The game have to be sooner talk. Right, right, right, right. Like, you know, I'm saying, I tell them all the time, I was like, they think I'm like the, the people probably the people probably think I'm so freaked out. Yeah. I mean, because you, and I'm not, but it's so cute because it's like, what fun would it be if I gave you my whole, if I gave you all of me, what fun would it be if I gave y'all all of me? Hmm. That's game right there. You know? 'cause that's the, um, you know when I put it, when I dropped the book and I, and I gave him that sauce and I let 'em know like, outta every girl that you thought only like two out, the whole crew is loose. Yeah. But you so focused. Like if you counted, if you counted, if you counted like 20 or 30, if. 10%, 8% really is outside, like, whatever, whatever. The rest of 'em. Nope. Especially, and the prettier, the higher the caliber, the harder. They gotta really, you know, you gotta genuinely like 'em or like whatever the, the, the appeal is 'cause you choosing not them. Exactly. You know what I'm saying? So I don't know. I just feel like, you know, in that world, in that industry, you just gotta have a really strong mindset. And as a young last, starting again in 19, like I said, would probably save me from being, I call it obnoxious. I call the girls obnoxious. For me being obnoxious like that is that I had a daddy. You know, that's like, that really plays a big factor in a lot of women lives, especially as entrepreneurs and especially as exotic dancers. Mm-hmm. Because. You running the game, the game is not being ran on you. Right, right, right, right. You going, you get in the game not knowing the game, not knowing the street game, not knowing anything about the streets. Mm-hmm. Don't you think that's like, they try to flip, they'll flip a dollar if they can, or they take 25, they take a dollar and give you 25% of it. Mm-hmm. But you thinking, you making a profit 'cause you don't know no better. Mm-hmm. So scars, wounds physically and mentally. Um, because seen that is a couple cuts. And then I remember back in the day you had broke your wrist on some shit. That was when I broke my hand. That was at floods. That was a, um, security guard being a obnoxious dick. Mm. And broke my hand at floods. That was like a couple years ago. Mm-hmm. Um, now these scratches on my neck, these are more so recent time. Um, this is more so a recent time of like a 12 year friendship relationship just went to shit because it was, like I said, I was about, um, just holding stuff in. Mm-hmm. Not seeing anything. And at some point we was intimate. This was somebody I was intimate with years ago.

unique the goddess 1:03:33

Mm-hmm.

donald perattis 1:03:33

But then we became friends and then like, even after we became friends, we probably was intimate maybe like once or twice after the years of it. And then prior up to the, the what's happening now. Um, it was like, it was just crazy because it was like, um, how could you be so obnoxious or be a certain kind of way verbally? To someone that you say you care about or someone that you quote unquote love or whatever the case may be. Like at some point you can't mentally or emotionally tear people down mm-hmm. And think that it's not going to get physical. Mm-hmm. So, um, yes. I can honestly say that I did hit first in that scenario. Mm-hmm. However, because at, like I said, I'm tired of people, um, freely humiliating me, and, and it's a gag in a laugh to them. You know what I'm saying? Mm. And I didn't like it. So, um, these scars is to show that bitch I'm not playing no more with nobody, however, and, um, I feel good about it. I don't feel bad about it. Mm-hmm. I have no regrets about it. Do I wish it coulda went a different kind of way? No. No. Mm, no. Okay. No Isha. Because if it, even if it were a different kind of way, I don't think the message would've still got delivered properly. Mm, that's true. I think certain ways that, uh, outcome go about you understand it differently. Mm-hmm. You know what I'm saying? Like, because it just keep walking away and keep walking away and like, oh, and you block 'em for a year or two and then y'all don't talk for a while. And, but guess what? The problem is still at hand. Fair enough. It never change, but yes, again, then another thing about that is like not knowing that someone could, like, like I said this, I mean, a fight is a fight. I'm not gonna go off into detail about like what really happened during the fight, because that's on another time. 'cause I am gonna talk about it 'cause it's, I don't give a fuck, don't do shit and think I'm not gonna talk about it. Mm-hmm. It's no secret that you shouldn't have did it. But long story short, um, I. What I wanna say to people is handle that shit right in there. Like mm-hmm. Don't try to keep the peace because you care about somebody. Speak on how you feel about yourself. Like, stand up for you. Like you only you care more about this person, but do you really care about yourself? No. Because you're steady trying to make this person feel better about whatever disagreement y'all got going on, but you, the person at hand that's pretty much suffering in silence because you want this friendship or you want this connection to work. That's not fair. You know what I'm saying? So this is a message to the people. Um, just handle that shit, handle that shit firsthand, handle that shit. Like, I ain't saying smack the bitch immediately. I ain't saying none of that. I'm just saying handle it like I. The fir the moment somebody says something to make you uncomfortable, just be like, Hey, yo, look, I don't like that. It's uncomfortable for me. Right, right. And if you can't talk to me on this level of respect, then you don't need to be dealing with me. And when they, they respond, say, I don't give a fuck, or girl, fuck you, and then you continue to sit there, then that's on you. It's on you. Because a person's supposed to be like, you know what? You right friend, or you right. You, you cool. You know what I'm saying? Let me check myself for a minute. Mm-hmm. I might have been a little obnoxious. I could have been a little crazy or whatever. Mm-hmm. But if your people don't pull back them at your people mm-hmm. Because they, they only want to see you in the uproar. Mm-hmm. And you know, the, the crazy part about the scenario that you act, you know, the scratches that you asked about once I went ballistic, I was labeled as demonic. A demonic force or something took over? No, I was just beaten ass. It's called a person that's tired and under pressure facts or anxiety or something. So now you wanna say, oh, that person was going crazy or she up under of some type of demonic. There's a snapping point. What? The camel that broke the, you know, the straw that broke the camel back. I feel it. I agree. And that's what that was about. And that was like you said, you know, we talk about a lot of shit and that that was, now we wanna talk about some painful shit. These scars was definitely, it was like, it wasn't painful because it was physical. Mm-hmm. It was painful 'cause it was emotional. Mm-hmm. Internal to somebody who I built things with and also lost relationships. 'cause I chose to keep this person as a friend. Mm-hmm. And it caused me to lose even people I was dating because I still chose you. And put you first. And you never put me there. You always put me last. And that's why I snapped out because it's like I done ruin relationships, I done did this, I done did that. And then yet you still wanna sit in my face and talk to me like I'm a piece of trash. Yeah, no, I need that. Okay. And I got that. I did what I did. They did what they did. Mm-hmm. And we gonna do what we gonna do because at the end of the day at there's no such thing as fair fires. Mm-hmm. There was a gun drawn during that moment. Me being stumped in the face as well. So what type of friend is that? Despite the fight? You tell me. Can't tell. I can't tell. I don't see, you know, you know, but realistically, in that moment of a, a fight. When you having a, a, a physical fight with somebody, which not saying that's normal as often that it happens, but like brothers, cousins, sisters, family, they fight all day long and then they go look stupid and fix their legs front or hey bro, you know, messing. You know what I'm saying? Like, you'll be sitting looking dumb, both of y'all holding an ice pick, taking a shot, like Right, right, right. Stupid motherfucker. And now you stupid, you know? Right. But when things go to the point where you gotta pull a weapon, that type of weapon out on somebody, it's not love. Mm-hmm. It's hate, it's a built up animosity that you really wanted to let out or you really felt some kind of way, because there is no way I'm gonna pull out a pistol, a firearm, and threaten to hurt you on that level. Based off a fight. I didn't have no weapons, so why are you trying to physically harm me in that way to where I can be nonverbal?

unique the goddess 1:10:43

Hmm.

donald perattis 1:10:45

But it gets deeper because a lot of people know that I lost my little brother 2023 from his best friend. One of his close friends shot and killed him. Wow. So how you think that would make my mama fail? Mm-hmm. Knowing that her daughter just got into a altercation with a friend that tried to do the same thing that would happen to her last, her first born, which is me and her last born, which is the boy. Mm. And how many siblings is there? There's seven of us. It's seven of y'all total? Yeah. So it's only six now 'cause one is deceased. Wow. Oh my condo for that. Yeah. You know, I, I, you know, I saw it and I reached out, you know? Yeah, you did. Yeah, you did. You know, I was like, but I know you wasn't trying to be out there, so I get it. But I was like, so that's younger at that, in that detrimental moment. And it's, it's sad to say this, but y'all listening, y'all gonna learn my life. You're gonna know more about it. Um, it wasn't the first time that I'd have been in a situation where firearms was pulled or things like that. Like, this shit ain't, that shit ain't shit. You can't, that shit don't scare me. It ain't shit. So I didn't, I didn't, um, get stuck with the backlash behind it. Like, yeah. Do I see it in my dreams when I open my eyes? Yeah, I do. Do I see that moment every day? Absolutely. But do I let it take over me? No, I don't. Do, I let it be like, oh my God, my life is, no, I don't. What I do is I use it as a reminder. To never have myself in a predicament like that or be around certain people that ever made me feel uncomfortable. Mm-hmm. Because that uncomfortable feeling that you be feeling within yourself is nothing but protection from God. Mm-hmm. And also your guardian angels to, to prevent from you harming yourself. Mm-hmm. And others around you. Fair enough. Fair enough. Fair enough. No, fair enough. Fair enough. This shit crazy. Yeah. So, you know, I mean, does that translate to your acting and because, you know, I seen you in a few mood, a few movies sound funny, sound funny, some serious sound funny. Yeah. Some serious. Yeah. So, you know, I feel like with every negative thing that happened in my life, something positive come jumping out the Woolworths. Mm-hmm. Like as soon as something goes to shit, like I got a phone call.

unique the goddess 1:13:03

Hey,

donald perattis 1:13:03

I need you to go on this TV show. Hey, I need you to do this. Hey, I need you to be the face of this modeling agency. Hey, I need you on this magazine. It's like, as soon as something negative happened, it's like my beautiful loved ones like you, my fans, my family, my peers. Like you guys, y'all always come in with a project. It is like, let's turn the negativity around and go boom. They say, wait, you hit 1.3 million views. Less than 16 hours on TikTok for going viral from that frontier. Shit. Help me sell my clothes. It's so much stuff like instead of being so negative all the time, y'all see me up there, watch y'all tear me down. What y'all should be doing is sending me clothes. Help me wearing this. Have me doing that, popping your shit. Use me as a platform so y'all can be better. Not talking shit about me while I'm still being better. Mm-hmm. Use me. Make it make sense. Use me. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Send me clothes. That's me as shoes I wear make me bracelets. Do something. If y'all got this girl that everybody talk about so much, why not put her own, your designer, like right now, I coulda had on somebody's shit right now doing this podcast every episode, every whatever the case may be, I could be wearing somebody else shit. Mm-hmm. I see y'all too busy wearing about the wrong shit. Mm-hmm. I'm your way out. Meal ticket. Yeah. Get in this game. But you know, and I think about it 'cause I'm so quiet and I've been so chill. Mm-hmm. I don't got this name like my girls Cash and Renee and all them, you know, it's out there doing the thing that, you know, as I look to my girls, but I don't sit too far back. I don't sit too far off. I don't sit too far off. Like I'm they pool side, I'm pool side, they on court side, I'm court side. I can sit in them same rooms and sit with the same motherfuckers that sit with right now to this day. You just ain't never heard about me. You just don't know my name like that. But at the end of the day, I can walk in a game with one of the hottest niggas and the hottest bitches in the game. And yet they still gonna be a little how she get in here through the front door.

unique the goddess 1:15:11

Mm-hmm. They

donald perattis 1:15:12

still wanna say, you not qualified. Why? 'cause you didn't qualify me. Who made, who made you the person to qualify people? That's what's wrong with people. Mm-hmm. This world, they can see you with Bill Gates right now and say she don't know Bill Gates, who's this? So that's where I'm at. In, in a, where I'm at in the world. I'm no longer proving a point. Yes, we talking out here, but off here I'm talking less and showing more. Mm-hmm. I talked a lot and I did a lot, but now I'm ready to. Do more and talk less. Fair enough. That's it. That's why I don't wanna do shit. I just wanna Fair enough. What do we gonna go ahead, get you to your, uh, destination and then, uh, because I wanna see some peoples, now that it is, you know what I'm saying? Like I've, I've been in a game. I'm knocking have 20, I'm knocking, gonna have 20, I be like 15. Was that same you? 15? Because I met, so I met you at 19. Mm-hmm. And you are seasoned now. Ain't gotta worry about your, but fuck. Yeah. You know what I'm saying? Do mad. But definitely, um, I've known you at least a decade. You know what I'm saying? So I've seen your progress. I've seen when you was a puck all the way up to you, turned the fuck up. You know what I mean? That's my jam right here. I know. I'm listen to that. You know? And now that you seeing the young, the new, the new entertainers that's coming in, the gang and the difference in, because we can say the money is different, but that's relative to the customers. It's relative to the customer. Because now their girls are online, you know, 2020, I got a car

unique the goddess 1:17:11

coming in.

donald perattis 1:17:12

Alright Paul, hold on y'all. I already put a hole in my sight stoop. These nail bad bitch. She can eat it. You know what? I got junk and. Wait, wait, wait. Uh, what's your socials? What's your stuff? You know, my Facebook is ate pro and my Instagram is, IM unique, the goddess. I, one of 'em, I had to get accepted. I was like, yeah, dang. Yeah. I was like, well, I gotta be, why? I gotta be private. It's not public, you know? And it still got the numbers on there. Mm-hmm. You feel so, you can't be a unknown, can't be a guessing. You gonna be stressing trying to get in that, in that blessing. So that's the name of the show, right? The fuck you thought, the Fuck you thought. Fuck. Thought, fuck thought. And that's gonna be okay. Now watch YI can't wait to watch today coming out. They can't wait to watch fuck thought. And that's gonna be on what platform? What platform you want to have on, how they, how they gonna be able to connect light? How do we spell it? How we doing when we need to look forward to it. Tell talk to me. It is FAW with five Ks U being thought. Spell it out. Talk with Barbie Banks. Mm-hmm Barbie Banks. Barbie Banks. Because all my bitches go to the bank, so, amen. That's it. Mm-hmm. And they allall barks. They all barbs. Uh, daddy barbs y'all Blue bar big bark that bark, that queen bark. Touch shade Lick bar, skinny bar Pipe bar. Gotta have at least gotta at least have one crazy bond. Yeah. That's me. I'm the, I wouldn't say I'm crazy, I'm more so a psychopath. I was go in, but I'm let I let the world find out on their own. So that means you know what you doing. I know exactly what I'm doing because crazy people know they're crazy. Psycho psychopath know they're crazy. Mm-hmm. What you say? They know what they doing. A crazy person know they're crazy, but a psychopath knows exactly what they're doing. It's a chess, not check. I always know them doing, it's chess, not checkers, but everybody wanna play trickers in that chess. They wanna keep jumping over shit. And then I just, so I'm like the, I'm like the chess board, but yeah, they want to play me like chess. To try to keep jumping over and shit. And that's why they keep fucking up. Mm-hmm. Because like, you have to like study me. Like chess is like, you know, I'm like a chess boy. It's strategy. You gotta know what you doing. Excuse me. How you doing it? What you doing? Then what angle you coming at in order for to get the best result, but you keep jumping over this. Jump, jump, jump. Skip, skip, skip. All you doing. You know how they say save later. Mm-hmm. Save later. Save later. So every everything you jump over, it's going straight to your safe letter pile. Mm. So if I imagine how much safe letter you got,