Grasshopper Notes Podcast

Who's Kidding Who?

John Morgan Season 5 Episode 109

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If you're kidding yourself, the joke's on you. Find out more in this mini podcast.

Grasshopper Notes are the writings from America's Best Known Hypnotherapist John Morgan. His podcasts contain his most responded to essays and blog posts from the past two decades. 

Find the written versions of these podcasts on John's podcasting site: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1628038

"The Grasshopper" is the part of you that whispers pearls of wisdom that  seem to pop into your mind from out of the blue. John's essays and blog posts are his interpretations of these "Nips of Nectar." Others have labeled his writings as timeless wisdom. 

Most of the John's writings revolve around self improvement and self help. They address topics like:

• Mindfulness
• Peace of mind
• Creativity
• How to stay in the present moment
• Spirituality
• Behavior improvement

And stories that transform you to a wider sense of awareness that presents more options. And isn't that what we all want, more options? 

John uploads these podcasts on a regular basis. So check back often to hear these podcasts heard around the world. Who wants to be the next person to change? 

Make sure to order a copy of John's new book: WISDOM OF THE GRASSHOPPER – 21 Days to Creativity. These mini-meditations take you inside where all your creative resources live. And you'll come out not only refreshed but recommitted to creating your future. 

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Also, download John's FREE book INTER RUPTION: The Magic Key To Lasting Change. It's available at John's website  https://GrasshopperNotes.com

Who’s Kidding Who?

Putting on a false front isn’t new—it’s been around long before Hollywood. But here’s the thing: you can’t live an authentic life reading from someone else’s script.

About ten years ago, my son was watching the NFL draft. I walked into his room and saw a newly selected player being interviewed. I didn’t know who he was, but within seconds, I told my son, “This kid’s got trouble.”

Sure enough, as he spoke, his history of bad decisions unfolded. He said all the right things—promising his past was behind him—but something felt off. His words and demeanor didn’t match. He wasn’t just trying to convince others; he was trying to convince himself.

And that’s the bigger issue. We’ve all said things with authority that we had no real authority to say. It’s not just failing to walk the talk—it’s not even believing the talk.

So, what are you saying that you don’t truly believe? Here’s a clue: it’s usually a defense of something you know is indefensible. Some say if you lie to yourself long enough, you’ll start believing it. Not true. That uneasy feeling never goes away—it just builds until it breaks you.

No matter how polished your script, you can’t fool yourself. And just like you can sense when someone else is faking it, others can sense it about you.

The fix? Simple, but not easy. Stop lying to yourself. When your words and beliefs align, your message becomes real–You’re congruent.  And you stop speaking the language of deception where you once were quite fluent.

All the best,
 John


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