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Resistance Reduces Your Options

John Morgan Season 5 Episode 214

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If you want to limit your options in life, keep resisting and stay in your hole.

Grasshopper Notes are the writings from America's Best Known Hypnotherapist John Morgan. His podcasts contain his most responded to essays and blog posts from the past two decades. 

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Transcript

Resistance Reduces Your Options

Famed Swiss Psychologist Carl Jung said: "What you resist persists."

Have you ever braced yourself against a cold wind? That's resistance. Did it make you any warmer? If you pay attention when you automatically do that, you'll notice that you actually get a bit colder than you were before you braced, yet we do it all the time. When you let go of the muscle tensing and accept the wind, you won't feel as cold. Pretend I made that up and test my claim the next time it happens and validate it for yourself.

We resist more than the wind. We are resistance machines cranking out an assembly line's worth of opposition. What do we resist most? The reality of anything we don't like.

When our preferences aren't met, we brace rather than embrace. That's not to say that we should like everything that’s presented to us; it's more of a reminder to offer consideration to what's being offered. 

And when we observe reality rather than react to it, we find that resistance needn't be our first choice. This practice of observation and consideration has the potential to open doors of opportunity that we didn't even know were there.

We know what resistance will get us - more of the same and then some. Resistance becomes a way of life that makes us colder with each repetition.

Observation and consideration warm us up to possibilities. Resistance slams the door in its face. 

Will Rogers' reminder comes to mind: "When you find yourself in a hole, stop digging."

Resistance has us dig deeper into ways that aren't working. Suggestion: Persistently notice your resistance, and consider opening up to more options that life has to offer.

All the best,

John

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