When "The Fix" Won't Fix It

There's a difference between fixing something and resolving something. Find out what it is in this mini podcast.

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Transcript

When “The Fix” Won’t Fix It

Have you ever noticed how we throw around the words “fix” and “resolve” like they’re the same thing . . . but they’re not.

“Let’s fix the bike tire” — that's crystal clear. “Let’s resolve this ongoing issue” — whole different ball game.

A “fix” usually means putting it back the way it was. Resolve? That might mean accepting it’s never going to be the way it was again . . . and figuring out what’s next.

And let’s be honest — in relationships, fixes are often short fixes. You patch it up . . . until the next time it breaks. When you keep fixing the same thing over and over, maybe it’s not a fix you need — maybe it’s a resolution.

To me, resolving is the long-term fix. It’s the grown-up version of “kiss and make up.” Nothing wrong with making up — but if most of your time is spent making up instead of making plans for something that works long-term, that’s a problem.

Short fixes have their place. “My water heater just broke. Can you spot me the cash? I’ll pay you back next week when my tax refund hits.” Sure, that works.

But . . . if every Monday someone borrows 20 bucks and pays it back on Friday, suddenly your money is gone four days a week. That’s not a fix — that’s a situation begging to be resolved.

So here’s my final thought: If you’re always in a fix, maybe it’s time to find some resolve. Otherwise . . . you’ll be pedaling through life on flat tires.

All the best,

John