Your Body Remembers Pleasure
Your Body Remembers Pleasure — with Rahi Chun
What if your body already knows the way back to pleasure, intimacy, and wholeness? Your Body Remembers Pleasure is a podcast devoted to sexual embodiment, relational intimacy, and the body’s innate intelligence to heal, feel, and remember pleasure. Through intimate conversations with leading somatic therapists, sexologists, sexological bodyworkers, and holistic practitioners from around the world, we explore what actually supports embodied sexual awakening — not in theory, but through lived, hands-on experience. This is an invitation to listen beneath performance and technique…. to the organic wisdom of your body,
the truth carried in sensation, and the quiet intelligence of your erotic life force.
Explore more writings, courses, and resources at RahiChun.com.
Your Body Remembers Pleasure
Ecstatic Belonging: Sacred Intimacy, Erotic Community & Life After Retirement with Caffyn Jesse
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What if belonging wasn’t something you had to earn… but something you could feel in your body?
Explore erotic embodiment and conscious community:
https://rahichun.com/podcast/ecstatic-belonging-caffyn-jesse
In this return conversation, I welcome Caffyn Jesse back to the podcast two years after retiring from the Institute for the Study of Somatic Sex Education, the pioneering training program they co-founded.
Instead of slowing down, Caffyn’s life force has only expanded.
With fewer roles, fewer responsibilities, and more spacious mornings, their work has distilled into something even more potent: ecstatic belonging, peer intimacy, and community-based erotic healing.
Through their new platform EcstaticBelonging.com and the online Intimacy Educator training, Kain has curated decades of somatic sex education, trauma-aware touch, nervous system science, and sacred sexuality into a living, accessible body of work.
This episode explores what becomes possible when we move beyond hierarchy, beyond performance, and into authentic, peer-to-peer connection.
We talk about:
• Life after “retirement” — and why stepping down created more creativity
• From teacher/student to peer intimacy and co-creation
• Distilling 12+ years of teaching into the Intimacy Educator online course
• Erotic embodiment as belonging — to self, community, and Earth
• The window of tolerance & neural learning zone in sexual healing
• Why safety alone isn’t enough (we also need bravery)
• Reclaiming voice, choice, and authentic consent
• The “Outlaw’s Journey” — trusting your inner truth over cultural norms
• Creating conscious erotic community with friends and lovers
• Touch as neuroplastic re-patterning and trauma integration
• Office hours, accessibility, and making this work available to everyone
• Psychedelic-supported bodywork — potential, caution, and ethical boundaries
• Integration, power dynamics, and the pace of trust
This conversation feels like sitting with an elder by the fire — honest, grounded, and deeply human.
Not about technique.
Not about performance.
But about learning how to belong — in your body, in your truth, and with each other.
Explore Caffyn’s work:
Ecstatic Belonging + free resources: https://ecstaticbelonging.com
Intimacy Educator training: https://intimacyeducator.com
More somatic sexual healing resources about touch and being touched:
rahichun.com/turnedonbytouch
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