Your Body Remembers Pleasure

Rewilding Eros: Healing Shame, Grief & Reclaiming Your Erotic Nature with Victor Warring

Rahi Season 4 Episode 5

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What if your sexuality was never broken — only buried?

Explore rewilding eros and reclaiming aliveness:
https://rahichun.com/podcast/rewilding-eros-shame-healing

In this expansive conversation, somatic sexuality coach Victor Warring explores the process of “rewilding eros” — reconnecting with the innate erotic intelligence we’re all born with before shame, culture, and conditioning taught us to disconnect.

Drawing from his work in somatic psychology, grief work during the AIDS epidemic, and sexological bodywork, Victor shares why grief and pleasure are inseparable, how shame limits our erotic capacity, and why reclaiming your aliveness is a radical act of healing — and even activism.

We explore:

  • the connection between grief and eros
  • sexual shame and “upper limits” to pleasure
  • erotic sovereignty and owning your desire
  • how culture domesticates our bodies and sexuality
  • creating an erotically alive home and community
  • why healing is subtractive (removing conditioning, not fixing yourself)
  • erotic embodiment as activism
  • practical ways to expand your pleasure ceiling safely

This episode is an invitation to remember: your erotic nature isn’t something to learn — it’s something to uncover.

Learn more about Victor’s work at RewildEros.com

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