Mindful Meeting
The Holy Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him & his family) said, “The best of you are those who are best to their family, and I am the best amongst you to my family.” Imam Ja’far al-Sadiq (peace be upon him) said, “May Allah have mercy on those who revive our affairs.” These powerful words shape the foundation of Mindful Meeting—a space where we strive to revive, reform, and strengthen ourselves and our families through meaningful conversations and personal growth.
I’m King Abu, your host. Originally from East Africa and now living in the States, I’m a full-time provider, student, and most importantly, a father to two energetic boys. Life keeps me busy, and let’s be real—Somali tea keeps me going.
But beyond the daily hustle, my journey led me to a painful realization: our communities are struggling with broken families, and no one wants to talk about it. After my divorce, I saw firsthand how unprepared many of us are for marriage and the responsibilities that come with it. Divorce rates in the Muslim Ummah are rising, and if we want to change that, we need to start at the root—by preparing ourselves and our youth for healthy, lasting relationships.
That’s why Mindful Meeting isn’t just about marriage. It’s about holistic growth—spiritually, financially, mentally, emotionally, and physically—because building strong families starts with becoming strong individuals. Every week, I sit down with experts and real people to uncover wisdom, share stories, and learn how to navigate life’s challenges with faith and intention.
This is more than a podcast. It’s a movement—one that calls us to revive the affairs of Ahlul Bayt, strengthen our homes and families, and become the best versions of ourselves. So, grab a cup of my Somali tea, as that’s my specialty, and let’s embark together on this journey.
Lastly, I am known for my Somali tea; it is my specialty!
Mindful Meeting
Imam Hasan’s AS Peace Treaty: A Strategic Victory or a Forced Compromise
Welcome to Mindful Meeting Podcast. In this episode, I sit down with Saad Al-Sikaafi to examine the peace treaty of Imam Hasan with Mu'awiya. We discuss why the treaty is one of the most controversial and questioned events in Islam, how Imam Hassan saved Islam, and the lessons from the treaty that we can apply to the modern world.
What You’ll Learn:
[00:00] Introduction
[03:43] The Personality of Imam Hassan
[05:32] How Was Imam Hassan Honored By Allah?
[12:21] Imam Hasan al-Mujtaba is Infallible
[16:09] What Led to The Treaty of Muawiya?
[19:13] The Difference Between an Imam and a Politician
[22:35] How the Treaty of Muawiya Helped Prevent an Islamic Civil War
[26:13] Modern Lessons From the Treaty of Muawiya
[31:32] Why Didn’t Imam Husayn Make a Peace Treaty?
[34:20] Yazid Was Determined to Destroy Islam
[37:58] Why Imam Hassan Made the Treaty with Muawiya
[43:35] Imam Hassan Must Be Followed and Obeyed By Every Muslim
[46:24] Put Yourself in Imam Hassan’s Shoes
[47:52] Saad’s Message to Humanity
[49:11] Parting Thoughts
Resources:
Dialogue in the Source of the Belief by Saad Hameed
Sulh al-Hasan: The Peace Treaty of Hasan by Shaykh Radi Aal-Yasin
Imam Hasan and Caliphate by Qurrat ul Ain Abidiy
Nahjul Balagha: Imam Hassan’s Bravery & Courage
Biography of Imam Hassan Ibn Ali by Sayed Ammar Nakshawani
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Enjoy! Thank you, and God bless you all!
And finally, remember to treat each other with kindness.
Quotes
“No one among all human beings has never lied, because we are human beings subject to mistake, to lies, to sin.” - Saad Al-Sikaafi
“Allah sent his messengers not to build empires. Some of the companions of the Prophet built huge empires. But this is not the purpose of Allah. Otherwise, the United States, the most powerful empire in history, would represent Allah's will?” - Saad Al-Sikaafi
“Anyone can be the head of the political system but an Imam has to be appointed by Allah. The Imam has to be infallible. He's not going to make any mistakes or do anything wrong.” - Saad Al-Sikaafi
“Imam Hassan is Imam, and he must be followed and obeyed by the muslims if they want to choose the true path of Islam.” - Saad Al-Sikaafi
