The Tracey Coates Show
Some couples grow together. Some grow apart. The Tracey Coates Show helps you take the next steps. We tackle all things relationships - not just what to do when divorce is on the horizon but the practical tips, advice, and information you'll need to possibly save your marriage, rekindle that spark and put your relationship back on track. Get the emotional, financial, and legal information you'll need to begin your journey - no matter the destination. We'll help limit the overwhelm, frustration and worry so you can effectively prepare for the road ahead. Each episode will guide you to make informed decisions that will benefit you & your family so you can stop spinning your wheels and getting lost in the process.
The Tracey Coates Show
Navigating the Legal and Emotional Aspects of Divorce
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Show Notes:
[03:57] The realism of divorce and the emotional toll that comes with divorce.
[04:82] How emotions get in the way of making good legal choices when you are stuck in emotional turmoil.
[06:37] Letting emotions get in the way of making decisions about your children.
[08:34] Advocating for clients and giving them a reality check to make sure the client understands the process.
[10:43] Looking at the facts and law when creating your divorce decree.
[11:54] The cost and process of litigating a custody case.
[15:32] Kate’s emotional attachment to her home and why you shouldn’t fight for your house.
[17:75] Considerations when budgeting for two households instead of one household after divorce.
[19:72] Collaborative divorce as an alternative to litigation.
[21:82] DIY divorce and the loopholes associated with handling your divorce on your own
[23:47] What you need to know before you file for divorce.
[26:42] The list of what’s important to you in your divorce.
[28:47] Meeting people where they are emotionally.
[29:62] Some jurisdictions require a waiting time when you are separated.
[31:37] Choosing how your relationship looks after your divorce.
[34:72] Giving time to catch up with the emotional shock of divorce.
[36:57] Being flexible and not shattering your partner.
[37:42] When a partner could be physical, make sure to have another person present when talking to your spouse
[39:57] Basic checklist of what you will need to consider during your divorce.
[42:32] Do the emotional work to create a better you to not pass on personal trauma to your children and break the cycle.
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