Seek First to Understand

LoveWork: Skills for a Relational Life

LoveWork: Skills for a Relational Life
Seek First to Understand
Mar 08, 2025 Season 4 Episode 8
Jerry Sander, LCSW & Kristy Gaisford, LCSW

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Identifying your feelings and then talking about them isn't enough. There is another person present in the relationship and reaching to understand THEM is the very challenge that we have to master in order for any progress to take hold. Kristy and Jerry consider how the search for understanding of "the other" usually presents itself -- either in its presence or its absence and show you how this often breaks out in fights. Alternatives are identified and practiced.