do the sex . Welcome to Masturbation Monday with me , annette Benedetti , your host for Locker Room Talk and Chats . This is your invitation to join me for coffee in bed and a candid conversation about the masturbation practice I'm developing to support my mental , physical and emotional health and help manifest my dreams . Masturbation Monday is a guide to self-pleasure , better sex and using the power of the pussy to open new doors to a better life . Today's Masturbation Monday topic is sexy essentials for your hoe on the go bag .
Speaker 1Now it is that time of year . We are traveling , sometimes home to see our family and hoping to hook up with that ex of ours . We are going to see lovers who are out of town . We are going out to Christmas parties where we may be hoping to hook up . So I have put a call out to all of my friends as well In order to put together the sexy essentials you can pop in a bag and take with you , whether it's an overnight trip , you're traveling or you're just going out for the night . So you are ready to have incredible sex , no matter where you are . Now these are sexy essentials that are easy to fit into a small bag , a gym bag . These are not just geared towards women . This is not just a woman's responsibility . Guys , you can have a gym bag in your car , you can have a suitcase if you want to put these in there , but you also can really impress a woman by being prepared not only to take care of your mutual needs and cover the bases there with some typical stuff that's probably popping in mind , but to go the extra mile in order to be ready to please her and take care of her needs that typically pop up during sex .
Speaker 1Now , before I dive in , I want to let you all know , as a creator who is covering sexual wellness , sexuality , all things kinky , all things juicy that help improve your sex life , you can imagine I struggle to get content up and not have it taken down or be penalized , whether it's on a podcast outlet or YouTube or anywhere else , and so I have decided to embark on a new platform where I can not only include some of the content that makes it appear and does not get taken down , but I can do more in-depth videos . I can share my own personal stories . I am going to be providing audio erotica , guided meditations for your self-pleasure , to help you explore your own sex life , explore your sex life with your partner , and I have tried many platforms over the last three years and I finally landed on the only one that would allow me to do what I want , how I wanted to , without having to worry about it being taken down or shutting down entire accounts . So I am launching my first OF page . Well , it's live right now , but I will be adding content over the next couple of days and weeks and I will be giving a discount to my first subscribers . The subscription rate is really low it's $6 a month . So if you want to join me there , know that whatever you're seeing here I will dive into so much more deeply . You will be getting more content , better content . I won't have to edit everything I say when you want those instructionals to be more instructive . That is going to be happening there , and I'm also going to be providing you with tools that will truly help improve your intimate life . This platform is also going to give me the opportunity to answer your questions more in real time and more directly , because many of your questions I cannot answer on this platform or I will receive a strike and lose my count . This is a message to my YouTube subscribers , but to my audio podcast listeners , I hope you'll also join me there . You send me lots of questions as well and , again , I'm very limited in how I can address them on any of these other platforms . So I hope you'll join me there and we'll have an opportunity to get to know each other better . You can find me at OF , and my name there is the same as it is everywhere else TalkSexWithAnette . I am going to be putting a link below in the show notes . You can hit that link and come over and check me out . But for now , guys , let's dive into my hoe on the go bag Cheers . So I'm just going to dive
in .
Speaker 1Number one on my list is always have an extra pair of underwear . This is for people of all genders . There is nothing sexier or more uncomfortable than wearing a pair of underwear that well got a little wet during the excited moments of your life , whether you are a woman or a man or a non-binary person . Putting back on those underwear that got messy during your play is incredibly unsexy , and also you just want to feel fresh and rejuvenated after your sex session with whoever you go home with Next is not going to surprise you at all .
Speaker 1My number two is , as I say , always bring lube . Now there are so many different types of lube . I always pack a basic water-based lube , but depending on what kind of play you're going to be getting into if this is a partner you know well and you know you're going to be getting into some anal play you're going to want to have a gel-based , silicone-based lube . You can get . This is a water and silicone-based lube , so it's just a little bit thicker , which allows for it to last longer . I also love I get sometimes these little packets . When you buy your sex toys , you often get these little packets of lube . It's a great place to stick those packets in case of an emergency . These have definitely saved me . You just pop them in that hoe on the go bag . But make sure you have lube . If you don't bring lube , it really it is one of the number one signs that you are not a skilled lover , regardless of gender . Bad sign Number three specifically for the girls and guys with long hair , I am going to suggest a rubber band to pull back your hair or a hair clip .
Speaker 1Now , this could be important during oral adventures , or , you know , if you're like me and you have long locks , sometimes they get in the way . And the last thing I want to do , if I have washed my hair that morning , is to have to do it that night . Also , if you are like me , you like to shower off after intimacy and you may not want to get your hair wet or wash it , so you're going to want to use the clip to pull your hair back . It's just an obvious essential , if you ask me . The next item on my list and this really does go for anybody of any gender is bring a toy , a simple toy . Show your partner that you are aware that her needs , especially if you're a penis owner or a man , sometimes are easier and better met if you add a little vibration Now you're a penis owner or a man sometimes are easier and better met if you add a little vibration Now . So for a penis owner , a great toy might be a vibrating cock ring to wear after you guys have played for a while and give her a little . Give her a little extra . You know something , during the play session , a sex session that is my new thing .
Speaker 1This is a wand that I like to stick in my bag . It's the one wand you can get it at good vibescom . You can get it for 10 off with my code . She explores gv . Um , but it's perfect for sticking in my bag . It's got a nice medium rumbly sensation , fits perfectly in . I just keep that . Guys , you want to check that wand out ? Do that . I also love to have a . If you have watched my reviews , this is the clit sucking part of the new OG3 from tracysdogcom . Tr . Tracy's dogcom put out this incredible dual vibe that comes apart . This is the clit sucking part and if you guys have watched any of my reviews , you know that I love this technology and this part is perfect , fits right on my finger , um . So this is a toy that I love to keep in my bag . Um , when it's at home I put the whole thing together , but seeing as I don't need necessarily the insertable part when I'm out or with a lever , this part does suffice and is perfect . It fits right in my bag .
Speaker 1Now , I'm not saying you have to have multiple toys . I'm just giving you some ideas for toys to pack in your bag when you are on the go . So bring a toy , regardless of the gender , something a little fun to mix it up , to show your lover that , hey , even if we're just having a quickie , it can be quick and exciting . So the next thing that is absolutely important Now , I always say that women and people with vulvas should have these , just in case , but I do think this is on a man's must-have list have condoms on hand . You are responsible for bringing condoms and bringing lube , at the very least , but , ladies , I also suggest you bring some , and I suggest the skin brand . This is the best brand's , all natural . If you have any latex allergies or issues or you're reactive to latex , this , this is the brand for you . It feels good , it doesn't have a terrible odor to it and , um , if you are sensitive , you are not going to be reactive to it . So , condoms , condoms , protection make sure you have it with you , because there's nothing that is going to kill the mood quicker than not having protection on hand . It's going to stress out the whole situation .
Speaker 1The next item I want to cover is deodorant . Deodorant I suggest having the travel sized version of this , especially if you don't have a big bag . You just get a little travel size version of it . If you have a bigger bag , pack the full size version . There's nothing that kills the mood more than really bad BO . Hygiene is super important . Your partner will thank you for this one .
Speaker 1My next item , which was unanimously voted for by the women in my group , is to have gum on hand and or mouthwash , if you want to get one of those little travel size toothbrush and floss kits and pop it in the bag . Not a bad idea . Bad breath will kill your opportunity for great intimacy at the first kiss . So make sure to have mouthwash or gum on hand at all times . Now , guys and girls , if you really really want to impress your partner one of my favorite things to have on me at all time for myself , for a partner , for a partner , for a friend , I don't care ph balanced wipes right . They're good to have , not only in the bathroom for post making love cleanup , because of course we don't want our partners to get utis or anything else that's going to disrupt their pH . But it's also nice if you are having an extended night of play and you want to make sure that , especially if any of your play includes anal touching or penetration that goes back to vaginal and oral and all that stuff . Being able to kind of clean up in between play sessions keeps things more sanitary . Ph balanced ensures that no one's going to be feeling bad the next morning or the next day I will put together a whole list of my favorite pH balanced wipes for , specifically , people with vulvas and women , but also for the people who love them and want to have sex with them . The next item that came up that I said . This again goes
for all genders .
Speaker 1It's always nice to have a little bottle of travel sized cologne to freshen up . So let's say , you've been at the bar and hanging out all night . Maybe people have been been smoking around , maybe it's a greasy bar and you smell a little bit like grease . You're going to go back to the bedroom to get sexy . A little spritz to freshen up and maybe clear out those other odors and set the mood . Little little bottle of clone this is , um , I have loves pheromone clone confidence . So men or women can wear it and of course , you can use my special code to get a 15% discount . My discount code at I have lovecom is LRT 15 for 15% off . I swear by the . Pheromone clones is all I wear anymore . Even if you have a hard time believing in the fact that it helps you attract people which I guarantee it does it definitely gets you in the sexy , ready to go mood . I love has tons of these little travel size options to all of their colognes and they have clones that are attract her , attract him and attracted them .
Speaker 1So , depending on your goals for the night , have this in your bag . It is a must have Something a little more practical . That came up is having a portable charger . Now you don't have to have one that's this big and this long , but you know , I think this is just a safety piece for anybody who is on the road or staying with a new lover or on a first date where they think it might turn into a spicy first date . Make sure your stuff is charged and if you lose charge , you've got a charger in the back . Also , this will serve to charge any toys that you maybe deplete during the night .
Speaker 1Next , kind of two similar one or the other or both things that you can pack . That guarantee to make your evening together even more exciting and fit perfectly into any bag , our little satin eye mask and even better than an eye mask would be a satin scarf or belt that you can tie around the eyes or use to , you know , tie up a willing partner . So if you want to go from a little vanilla to a tiny bit spicy and make things extra exciting . Just you know , have those in there . Now some final items that might be situational . Not everyone needs to bring them , but if you are someone who is a squirter or you are someone who likes to try to make your partner squirt , I suggest getting a sports sheet , having an extra towel there , just for your partner's comfort . Um , but if you really have a partner who squirts a lot or you're someone who happens to squirt or gush a lot , for your own peace of mind , so you're not self-conscious when you're with your partner and you feel uptight and like you can't really let go and get into it , there are splash pads out there , sports sheets put out , some great ones that are small enough that you can fit right into your bag and bring with you .
Speaker 1Now I'm going to add what I would call my sexy extras . First of all , something I love to have in my go bag is a little tiny toy bag . It's a bag inside a bag . If you will , and you can get these all over the place , I will put together a full article on some of my favorite tiny little sex toy bags , but these actually allow you to pack a few more toys , especially if you're someone who likes to get really creative , but I am a very creative lover . I like to have options depending on the mood and sometimes how I think intimacy might go at the beginning of the night shifts and changes as the date goes on or our time together goes on . So I love to have a bag like this . It actually allows me to put my lube in it and then my chosen toy for the night .
Speaker 1But some toys that I think are fun to always have on hand and you cannot go wrong with these are also available at Good Vibes . I mean , who doesn't ? Just in case , a little butt play ? And look , you all can say that that is going beyond vanilla play , but I don't know . I'm telling you , in the dating world , you guys , the first thing you ask about is anal play . I love these butt plugs . You can get them at Good Vibes and they come in graduating sizes . They're made out of silicone and you can use my code again , sheexploresgv for 10% off . I don't know , if you want to get spicy , bring these along .
Speaker 1Finally , and depending on how creative you are and what kind of play you want to get into , but just in case the mood strikes you , if you are into a little spanking , a little pain , with your pleasure . Why not bring along a small flogger this isn't exactly small , but it does fold up quite nicely and hides perfectly in my bag or a small paddle and that's only if you think that things might go that direction , or if that is your proclivity . Why not have a little paddle , even if you don't end up using it ? Declivity why not have a little paddle , even if you don't end up using it ? It could be a little exciting to like . Show it to your partner .
Speaker 1Very last notes , some things you might want to stick in if you have the time are a small water bottle and some snacks little snacks , maybe a little dark chocolate , maybe a little granola bar . If you have these things in a bag in your car or in your closet and you get that call you've been waiting for , or you're on the road visiting mom and dad and you've got your special purse off in the corner , you are going to be ready . You're going to be ready to be sexy and to have that dream experience you've been hoping would happen for years . If you're back visiting mom and dad and again that ex shows up or that guy from high school who now sees how hot you are , shows up , you're going to be ready for him and hopefully he's as knowledgeable as you are and it doesn't scare him off when you show up prepared for amazing sex . Again , this , this is a bag full of essentials for people of every gender . Now , if you think of things that I missed that should go in this bag , or you have an opinion on what I have put together for your travel bag , your sex experience bag , your sex essentials bag , please let me know . I'd love to hear what you guys would put in your sex on the go bag . So there it is . You are prepared for the holidays , for vacation , for that out of the blue call to meet up with somebody you've been dying to meet up with . Let me know how it works out for you .
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