Do the sex Think fun , honest and feminist as fuck , and always with the goal of fighting the patriarchy . One female orgasm at a time . Welcome to the locker room . Today's topic is harder , healthier , longer . What your erections say about your heart . With Dr Elliot Justin .
Speaker 1Erections aren't just about pleasure although that is what I have primarily focused on , for sure but they are also a powerful indicator of cardiovascular health , and in this episode , me and my guest are going to dive into the health indicator side of what's going on in your pants , but also we're going to tie it all into pleasure and performance . This is the power trilogy . We're talking about all the important things that have to do with the erection . So you're going to want to stay tuned for this podcast because it's going to change how you look at your dick and take care of your health . But before we dive in , I want to remind you guys that I have recently launched an OF page where you can find my intimacy , how to , to's demonstrations and guided meditations . You can also find some of that content over on my sub stack . Now you can find me in both places with the handle at TalkSexWithAnette , and of course , I will be putting all of those links in the description of this episode . Now , the good news is for those of you who aren't into spicy sites , I've also launched an online store where you can download this content . You're going to go to TalkSexWithAnette and you're going to find all of that there for you to download and have , because you deserve content that improves your intimate life .
Speaker 1Now let's get into it . My guest today is Dr Elliot Justin . He is a physician , entrepreneur and the founder of FirmTech , a pioneering company at the intersection of sexual wellness and cardiovascular health . With a background in emergency medicine , he has seen firsthand how erectile dysfunction can be an early warning sign of heart disease and other serious conditions . Through FirmTech , he's leveraging innovative sex tech to help men track their performance , optimize pleasure and gain critical health insights , all while enhancing their sex lives . Welcome . I would love for you to tell my listeners a little bit more about you before we embark on this incredible conversation that I'm very excited about .
Speaker 2Thanks for the opportunity to be here . Yeah well , unlike most doctors , I've always been to sex and from an early age it got me into trouble . I think I'm probably the only doctor I know whose mother took them to a urologist when they were a teenager , not once but twice , because she was worried that their masturbation habit would mean they would not get into college . Anyway , here I am , mom . So that's deep background . I live in Montana and I own horses and I sometimes have the illusion that I'm a centaur , that I'm one with my horse , which can be a dangerous illusion . And several years ago it led to my crashing into a tree and breaking six ribs and six vertebrae . And that got me interested in what's been done to rehabilitate men or women who have spondylitis injuries , rehabilitate the sexual function specifically . And that led to my having a urology professor at the University of California , san Francisco , implant an electrode by my pudendal nerve , my cavernous nerve , everyone's two favorite nerves that most people haven't heard about . But the nerves are responsible in men and women for arousal and orgasms . What I want to do is see if I could neuromodulate human sexuality like a cardiac pacemaker only sex pacing , it didn't work .
Speaker 2But a urology professor at the University of Utah heard about this experiment , which I call Project O for obvious reasons , and he said he wanted to count the number of nocturnal erections that men have because they're a leading indicator of man's cardiovascular health .
Speaker 2And I said , really I never heard that and we all know about morning wood and none of us want dead wood , but I was unaware that the average man at that time I think he was four , four to five erections , actually three plus erections , and three to plus erections per night . And if that number goes down significantly , if I man goes from three to one or two to zero , that man has a 50 chance of having heart attack in the next two years . So this is truly a vital sign . We and so this this really excited me and this doctor , like most doctors , unfortunately , is what I call a cock ring version . He had no experience with cock rings . So my thought was let's not just count nocturnal erections , let's embed sensors into a cock ring and measure not just nocturnal erections for their significance about cardiovascular health , but let's measure erections while guys are fucking , which is what they really care about .
Speaker 1Right , right , that gives a lot of information . So that , my friends , is what we're going to be talking about , all of that , what that means . We're going to talk about the health aspect . We're going to talk about the indicator aspect and the performance aspect and how you can track it , how you can improve your health , improve your performance . So there's your reason to stay to the end . Plus , I've got a little surprise for you at the end . So you're going to want to listen to this all the way through . It's going to be packed with information that's vital to your health , if you're a man or someone with a penis , or you love someone with a penis , right . So tune in , and I want to just dive in . Let's get ready to talk about dicks . Can we do that ?
Speaker 2Let's do it , I'm ready .
Speaker 1Yes , cheers , cheers . All right , I want to kick off with a big question how exactly are erectile function and cardiovascular health connected ?
Speaker 2Well , you can't get an erection without blood flow . So the incidence of erectile dysfunction goes up 10% per decade after age 40 . And as men get older they get diabetes , hypertension . And as men get older , they get diabetes , hypertension , atherosclerosis and other conditions that have an impact on both the pump , the heart and the arteries that come out of the heart . And now , with our device , we've learned that it's not just those two things that are important , it's also the other side of circulation , the venous return , and also all three of these three . If someone has erectile dysfunction , all three of these areas need to be looked at . Is the heart pumping enough blood ? Are the arteries putting enough blood into the penis ? And are the veins , specifically the smooth muscles around the veins , holding the blood in the penis ? Or are they weakening Mm-hmm around the veins holding the ?
Speaker 1blood in the penis or are they weakening ? So what are some of the conditions that might be at play if a man starts to have erectile dysfunction ? Like most of the time , when men start to have erectile dysfunction , their first concern , of course , is intimacy , but it can be an indicator of so many things , correct ? One of them is obviously your heart health . But what else ?
Speaker 2Well , it's also medications we doctors prescribe I call them the cock and click killers and they are antiphypertensives and necessary antidepressants For women . There's also birth hormones as well too , and these medications , often in combination , have a significant impact on a man's ability to get an erection , sustain an erection or or have an orgasm . And we doctors don't ask we , you know , we doctors in general uh , delicate , you know . Sex is the least important , least important body system . We don't , we don't ask people what's what's going on . So then there's obviously other things as well too . There's alcohol , drug use , performance , anxiety . All these things can interact with each other . But I like to break the doctor's group . A man who can't sustain direction can't excuse me . I'd like to say that a man who can't , uh , stay hard enough to penetrate , that's , that's this dysfunction . I'd like to break it down a little bit more than that for your viewers especially . There are men who can't attain an erection . That's the minority of men with erectile dysfunction . A man who can't attain an erection is not getting enough blood into his penis or is neurologically dysfunctional . Those men need a cardiologist and need a urologist . They need to work up . But that's not most men's problems . The 85 percent of men who are classified as having rectal dysfunction . Most of them actually have rectal disappointments . Their issue is they get an erection and then they lose it .
Speaker 2Now how do you figure out why you're losing it ? Now ? We you know , so you can . Is it psychogenic or performance anxiety ? Is it alcohol ? Is it medication ? Is it a disease like diabetes or hypertension ? And this is where our device is a game changer for medical care and for research , because you can't hack it unless you can track it . So without data , we're lost . And we live in this incredible age of healthcare wearables , smart watches , smart rings , smart bands , smart scales and this gap which is sex . And that's the gap that we fill , and I think it's the area of probably most interest to men and women . What do men care more about ? How many steps they took yesterday or what's going on while they're trying to have sex ? So we need to deliver data to men , just the way we do in other areas of health . You and I are both of different genders , different ages .
Speaker 2If we went to a doctor with a complaint that hey , my pulse feels irregular when I work out , and the doctor said , oh , annette or Elliot take this pill , it would be the same pill for both of us , because that's how dumb we are on medicine . Take this pill and come back in three months . We would think what the fuck is this ? Uh 1900 ? You got electrocardiogram in the office . You got a blood pressure cuff . You're going to take some blood tests ? Have my little proteins . We would expect that the health , their decision making , to be data driven . When it comes to men and women's sexual health , the decisions made by doctors , the recommendations made by doctors , are based upon conjecture , not upon data . And when there is data , it's generalized data , it's one size fits all . Hey man , you have ED , you need Viagra or Cialis , as opposed to hey Elliot , what is really going on ? What is your data showing about you ? And , by the way , if we can give you something , you now can monitor it with a device , just the way we do with blood pressure or weight reduction , etc .
Speaker 1Right , right , you want to actually get specific data about an individual person which is going to help you figure out what exactly like more than generally , is happening in their body , especially if it could be life-threatening , correct . And I think that it's hard for people to equate what's going on with a dick with overall health , which blows my mind . I'm like , well , I've been beating this drum . I'm like your sexual what's going on with you sexually indicates what's going on with you physically and in your mental health , all of it . It's like a thermometer for all of that . So what does a healthy erection look like from a medical standpoint ? What is like when a guy gets this hard on ? He's like I'm in good health , look at my cock .
Well , there are several parameters . One is the number of nocturnal erections that a man has . A healthy man has three plus nocturnal erections per night . Well , without the device you wouldn't know that , and you just alluded to something earlier that's really important for your listeners , which is you can detect heart disease or deterioration in your diabetes or hypertension with your dick because the number of erections goes down . That's significant that we're aware of the cardiac catheterizations because of the device , because they are the they . They got the device and they had one . Guy had no nocturnal erections and the guy went from three down to one and then he went to a doctor and got a cardiac catheterization . So what's going on with your dick ? And the urologist called the penis the canary in the coal mine of cardiovascular disease , and so people need to pay attention to it .
Speaker 1Your dick can save your life . Your dick can save your life .
Speaker 2Listen to your dick , especially on the night shift . So the number of nocturnal erections is important and also how hard they are is important . So if a man has three-plus nocturnal erections per night and we rank nocturnal erections on a one-tenth scale in terms of firmness , we rank nocturnal erections on a one-tenth scale in terms of firmness . And if his average firmness of his nocturnal erections is over 7 or 7.5 , and that man is having difficulties in bed , the issues are likely to be psychological or situational . Psychological in the sense that he has performance anxiety , or situational in that , okay , at night you're fine , but when you're drinking too much or smoking too much pot or doing something when you're having sex , that's interfering with your performance and that's really important for people and for the partners to understand , because there's a lot of shame and guilt and embarrassment that goes on between couples and data can really shed light on what the issue is .
Speaker 1That's fascinating . I want to re-summarize that because if you and we're going to get to the device that can help you track what's going on with a penis at night in a minute , but and I know so many people that are wearing the watches I did for a while , or the rings that track the quality of sleep , their steps during the day , so they can see what's going on so this isn't a device that can be worn at nighttime . But here's what's interesting I never thought of it Because you get hard-ons at night . That sort of takes out the whole performance anxiety side of it . So that's just the physical function of it .
Speaker 1Now , during the day , if you're having problems with an erection , but at night you're getting hard , like hard as can be , it is a great indicator that , hey , you're healthy , but something's going on as far as anxiety or , like you said , drinking before sex , which can really ruin it . And that's a great way to rule out , because I know a lot of men , the minute they start to have dick problems , they're like I'm worried about you , know what's wrong with me , what's wrong with me physically , and they can't tell if it's anxiety or something physical . And this is a great way to like know , like get that answer right that's right .
Speaker 2By the way , annette , how many wrecks did you have last night ? I have no idea there's no idea , because women women have them as well too , and we can talk about that later on , but we're assuming that they're just as significant women as they are men , right ? So we've made two really important discoveries . The thought among doctors and the treatment protocols for ED were based upon research done in the 90s that involved just a couple hundred subjects . We documented 57,000 erections , so we have this enormous database . So the thinking was this Dick , database .
Speaker 1Call it what it is it's a dick database .
Speaker 2Dick database and doctors should be minding this and I'm minding this for information . And doctors should be minding this and I'm minding this for information . So the thought was the incidence of erectile dysfunction goes up 10% per decade after age 40 . And therefore the doctors are thinking the number of nocturnal erections should go down because , as more men get diabetes , hypertension , atherosclerosis , have problems , the number of nocturnal erections should go down and the firmness , hardness of sex erections should go down and the firmness , hardness of sex erections should go down as well too . Well , that's not what the data shows , why ? So what's really going on ? Why is the function going up but men are staying just as hard ?
Speaker 2No , I don't want to derogate heart disease . I want to exclude from these two findings . If a guy's had a heart attack , if he's had a stroke , if he has congestive heart failure , these are men with significant problems and these are men who utilize my technology will quickly realize . I don't have three plus nocturnal directions per night , I only have one . But for the vast majority of men , ed goes up and hardness remains pretty much the same . Well , that means that the doctors are approaching this the wrong way . The doctors are thinking it's the pump or it's the arteries that are coming out of the heart . So we try to make the heart pump stronger . Or we give men the PD-5 medications , which are Viagra and Cialis , the two big cells and they put more blood into the penis but they're not good at keeping there .
Speaker 2And a man who can attain an erection which is the vast majority of men but loses it . They're getting blood into their penis and putting a little more blood in their penis is nice , but it's not solving the problem . The problem is on the other side of the circulation . So as we get older , our microvascular , our small veins and muscles around the small veins , gets weaker . So you're quite young . You might not have experienced this yet , but you might have . But I'm 70 , I'm going to be 72 next week . If I sit on a plane for five or six hours , my socks get a little bit tight , my rings get a little bit tight . Didn't happen to me when I was 30 years old , 20 years old . Why ? Because as we get older , the venules , the little veins get stiff and the muscles around them get weak . Now every erection ends in blood leaving the penis . Every erection ends in a leakage , of a venous leak . The solution is not a pill , because the pills put blood in . They're not keeping the blood there . The solution is a mechanical solution .
Speaker 2That's a cock ring , and I didn't . When I got involved in this I got . When I was challenged by a urology professor to do this , I was thinking about data , and the data is really important to figure out what could be causing dysfunction . But the solution became obvious as we looked at the data and spoke with our customers and our patients , which is that men benefit from a ring . Now , guys don't get this so , and when a man is worried about losing his erection , he gets anxious . Even you met my wife a little while ago . We've been married 37 years . We have a lot of sex , but I can have performance anxiety . Oh , I've had a little bit too much to drink or I'm preoccupied by something going on with work . Maybe we should make love tonight , but I really could make love if I were more confident . Well , the ring is a profound confidence builder because it is putting the right amount of our rings designed for comfort . It's putting the right amount of pressure on the veins coming out of the penis to hold the blood in the penis , to hold the blood in the penis . We've even discovered that the ring a cock ring , for most men is as effective , if not more effective , than 10 milligrams of Cialis to Delafil .
Speaker 2Well , that's a game changer for the way in which doctors are approaching erectile dysfunction , and I don't want to call it dysfunction anymore , I want to call it disappointment . The guys who can't attain erection , can't get an erection . That's dysfunction . Can't get an erection , that's dysfunction , their organ is not working . But guys who can attain an erection and lose it is that dysfunction or is it just something that's easily correctable is going on , and I want to change the male mindset too , because , look , you're quite young , but I'm old , I'm .
Speaker 2You know , when I practice our practicing medicine late 70s and 80s , women were described as frigid , anorgasmic , hysteric , and the feminists said fuck those things . We're not going to talk about women that way . We're going to talk about them more , possibly . But we talk about men really negatively and this makes guys embarrassed to talk about it Limp dick , impotent , can't get it up , but ED , these are , so we need . I want to talk about things more positively . If you're having erectile disappointments , you can probably fix it . If you get an erection or losing it , you can fix it .
Speaker 2I'm going to give you an example of a patient I had , if you don't mind , like about a week ago two weeks ago got called up by a really wealthy guy in Missouri who just spent $16,000 trying to fix his erectile dysfunction , both on the conventional medical side and then the alternative medical side . He'd been red light therapy , laser therapy , prp injections , pd5 medications , testosterone . His dick wasn't working . I asked him and he told me no doctor ever asked this question . I asked him no doctor ever asked this question .
Speaker 2I asked him what happens when you're having sex with your wife ? Well , I , uh , I I get hard , then I go down on her and I lose my erection , and then she wants me to penetrate her um , he spoke more graphically than that word . But then he's like I want to penetrate her and then I get it hard again and then I lose it . Okay , so what do you feel when you penetrate ? Nothing ? Okay .
Speaker 2What about when you masturbate ? Oh , that's different . Well , what do you feel when you penetrate ? Nothing ? Okay . What about when you masturbate ? Oh , it's different . Well , why do you feel nothing ? I think the reason how many ? How many children did your wife have ? She had five kids and she's in her 60s . Well , of course he feels nothing . He's not getting the friction that he needs . He doesn't have erectile dysfunction , he just he needs support on the venus side . He he bought our maximum performance ring and was able to have sex with his wife pantry of sex three nights in a row . And so he did . If the doctors had asked him the right question , he wouldn't have had to spend $16,000 .
Speaker 1Right .
Speaker 2He needed to spend . He needed the doctors to help him figure it out , right ? He also bought our tech ring first , and he had nocturnal erections , so he realized that his penis was capable of functioning well . He had a psychological problem .
Speaker 1Right and a friction problem . So it was an easy , like a much quicker way to figure out exactly what was going on . Also , I would like to point out to my listeners my guest is 75 . I would not have guessed that 72 . 72 . I was like Jesus . What vitamin are you taking , sir ? And still has an aggressive , a fulfilling full sex life Aggressive ? I was just imagining how that might look , but yeah right .
Speaker 2Sure . Well , I think it's important to plan for pleasure , so I want to have sex every day , just the way I'd like to eat a good meal every day . So I think , once you get into the habit , it's relatively easy . You can't work out your smooth muscles , which are necessary for sex , in the gym . You got to work them out in the bedroom , either with yourself or with a partner .
Speaker 2I do take testosterone after two years and that's interesting too , because I don't really need it , but I was curious what would happen . Like many men , so several of my scientific advisors , who are urologists and prescribe testosterone regularly , they thought , because they don't have any data , they're guessing . Their conjecture was that I will have more nocturnal erections and they'll last longer and maybe they're harder . Well , that didn't happen , because I don't have any trouble getting blood to my penis . I don't have heart disease . What did happen , though and this is subjective and for men and your listeners who are considering TRT , they should think about this my upper body strength increased by 8% to 10% , and if a man is going to start on TRT one , I think you should get a tech ring because you want to see what's going on in your dick , but two , just put a tape measure on your biceps and your pecs and see what happens . Women should do the same thing too if they're taking TRT .
Speaker 1Well , I was going to say , because I know women are now taking testosterone . I take estrogen , which I think saved my life .
Speaker 2Why don't you ?
Speaker 1take testosterone . I don't think I under well , probably because I don't understand what . I haven't looked into it enough to understand why I would .
Speaker 2For almost all of my medical career . Until recently , there was skepticism and fear of HRT estrogen replacement therapy for postmenopausal women , and finally they realized , no , it's beneficial , but they're forgetting about one important hormone , which is testosterone . And postmenopausal women doesn't produce any testosterone . And in my prescribing testosterone to women and women who use it injection , not the cream , because the cream's absorption is irregular . But women who take injections , they get the libido of a 35-year-old back . That's a game changer , dude . I don't . I don't think I need more libido .
Speaker 1I don't know what's going on with my libido , but she is in overdrive all the time , like it's hard for me to get through a workday sometimes .
Speaker 1So I'm like but , but I do have that in my you know . Obviously I think it's so important . All of this information is new because in our culture we have shamed sex so much that in the medical world they haven't attended to sexual health from a pleasure perspective . And again , as we're talking here , the pleasure part of sex also is vital to your health , not only as an indicator but also as upkeeping your health , like especially well and I say especially women , because I'm in a woman's body , but I know how important for me that , like cortisone , bringing down the cortisol even for me penetrative , like masturbation or sex , it keeps my skin healthy down there . You know all of that stuff . I'm sure that it's similar for men , but of course I'm focused on keeping my stuff together .
Speaker 2Let's talk about pleasure , then , because I got into this for the data and that's this device , the Tech Ring that has Sensor , and it's also a really good cock ring and it can be adjusted and made tighter for guys' pleasure .
Speaker 1Can we talk about that tech ring , because we've been mentioning it a little bit . Here are my listeners , listeners . I need you to tune in Because obviously we clearly are talking about a device that can clock your erections at
night . And this really caught my attention when I heard about this product , because I haven't heard of anything really like it before and it's like a combo . Right , it is a cock ring , yes , but it's also like kind of the Oura ring or the watches that you use to track your health . This tracks your sexual health , which tracks the rest of your health . So can you talk a little bit about this device ?
Speaker 2Sure . So when this professor of urology said he wanted to count the nocturnal erections but he hadn't figured out how to do it overnight , he was thinking about using conventional silicone . And I felt silicone , you know these here I have on my desk here , you know these O-rings , they're , they're , they're made the same way for a hundred less 150 years . And silicone is an uncomfortable material , it , it , it . It chokes off the penis , and who wants to put a noose upon their penis ? You know it . It cuts off the blood , the arterial flow . A guy has to have an erection for it to be effective , would be effective . So we moved away from silicone into a soft , stretchy elastomer , and I have to thank my wife for that . She had a stress ball on her desk and I thought , oh fuck , let's make a cock ring out of elastomer .
Speaker 1Then we'll embed sensors in it . So there's a pressure gauge here , yeah , so if you are not on my YouTube channel , you're not going to be able to see this . But he's holding up this device which has sort of the ring shape to it , but then it also has another part at the top of it where there are sensors , right , and it doesn't go on the penis the way most cock rings do .
Speaker 2It wraps around . I'll show you in just a moment . But the idea for the closure came from my wife's bra . I kind of joke , and I think it might be true that probably half the heterosexual sex in a committed relationship starts when a guy is scratching his wife or girlfriend's back when she takes a bra off at night , Because silicone is an irritating material . It's irritating to the skin . I saw a bra on the ground . I thought duh , A bra is a ring that opens and closes . Women don't put on bras over their head .
Speaker 1They have a closure .
Speaker 2So this is I mean I'm this is he's the only cocker in the clothes with a hook . A lot of guys . I'm 72 . I can look down and I can see my cock . I'm wearing pants right now , by the way , but most men my age look down and they see belly and these kind of rings , the old rings . They're hard for them to put on . This one goes on differently . I'll show you how . So . And man drops his balls into the loop . It then wraps around the loop and it's not tight , it's that tight , it's stretchy .
Speaker 1Okay , so now , listeners , if you want to see this demonstration , you can go to my YouTube channel , hopefully , and you will see how it is put on . But it basically goes over the base of the cock , under the balls , and then it wraps up and around to the top . So , and it has a , it has a little sensor on it . My question is this because with a typical cock ring , you're only supposed to wear them for a short period of time , right ? And I always think , of course , I grew up on a sheep farm .
Speaker 1I don't know if y'all know that I grew up on a sheep farm and we would cut off . People don't realize this . It's weird , weird , fun fact about me we would . You know , one of the things you do to the baby sheep is you dock their tails , you take their tails off with something that looks like a cock ring , you just put it on there and it eventually squeezes it right off until it drops off . Gross , I know , but I think about that all too often when I see cock rings . It's something I'll just never get out of my head .
Speaker 2You can do that to young bulls too , but let's talk about humans , right ? So this is the only cock ring . Because it's not made of silicone , because it doesn't block the arterial flow in and it only constrains the venous return . It can be worn for hours and hours and hours . What I do when I'm because I try to have sex every night is I tighten , I pull the loop through the hook to tighten up around the shaft when I'm having sex and I put it the other direction overnight , so it's a bit more comfortable . It's also designed to put pressure over the urethra and to put a little more blood into the balls . Why ? Because the balls are sensitive and the more if they hold a little more blood , they become more of a better secondary erogenous zone . My wife calls it a broth of balls . So we're in the google and apple stores . It's bluetooth enabled . The bluetooth is off when it's on the body to allay concerns about radiation .
Speaker 1All the data is anonymous and I can show you , if you like , what the app , what it looks like and the information people get . So the information , just kind of like your Oura Ring would , it goes to an app that you can have on your phone .
Speaker 2You can find FirmTech in the Google or Apple stores .
Speaker 1Yeah , and I will be getting you guys information , but go ahead . Yeah , all right .
Speaker 2We provide people with overall erectile fitness score because we want people to think about fitness , not dysfunction . We tell them about how hard their nocturnals are , how long they last , how hard their sex erections are , how long they last . I'll show you what a recording looks like .
Speaker 1Oh , this is fascinating . I like the idea of erectile fitness . So now , if you go over to my YouTube channel , you're going to be able to see sort of how it shows where , yeah , the erections have happened throughout the day .
Speaker 2These are two nocturnals over here , yeah , and then on this side is my wife and I having sex .
Speaker 1Oh , oh , look at that . That was like a little porn clip , yeah , no . So it looks like sort of what you would see on a heart monitor , basically that kind of graph . For my listeners it's like that kind of graph where you see the little lines that go up and down and you can see where they get higher and lower . So I like the idea of the erection fitness , like that's pretty , that's a pretty cool take on it , because it does tell you a bit about your fitness . So it's going to track overnight . One thing I want to dive into real quick too it also tracks performance correct , so you can wear this ring during sex , obviously .
Speaker 2Exactly , yeah , and actually most of our 57,000 erections we've recorded , the vast majority are during sex , and with that information men can assess the impact of diseases , medications , supplements , partners upon their performance .
We are all , men and women , on the road from fitness to dysfunction . Right , we all would like to know where are we on that road , and we all , ideally . If we have a problem , we'd like to reverse course . If we don't have a problem , we'd like to be able to stop going down that road . But we can't do it without data . Imagine driving a car without a dashboard . We're driving our sex lives without a dashboard . But now men can get vital information about their most vital organ and we give people notifications . In some cases , actually , we give a couple of wives notifications as well too , as in Annette , way to go , your husband or boyfriend , his erections are 20% harder than last month . Or you guys have had twice as much sex last month . You are amazing , or it could be . Hey , elliot , your erections are 20% less hard . Has there been any recent changes in your medications ?
Speaker 1Right .
Speaker 2So the information is really important If we can switch to pleasure .
Speaker 1Yes , I like that .
Speaker 2Once I came up with this and I realized that there was something special about the pressure over the urethra . Women have vibrators and men have shit . They have these strokers little something you can beat someone to death with , but in terms of enhancing man's pleasure there isn't very much . So my thought was well , I think if we can put the right amount of pressure over the urethra to increase the ejaculatory phase , we can produce a more intense orgasm . So that's actually a top selling product , which is the Maximum Performance Ring . So this ring was designed to increase the average man's ejaculatory phase by 50% . My ejaculatory phase goes from four seconds to seven seconds . That's an incredible orgasm .
Speaker 2My wife and I don't have sex without cock rings . Before cock rings were a novelty . Yeah , you go to a sex toy store . A couple of times my wife feels guilty because she just bought herself another vibrator , so she'll buy something for me . And these rings . You know she comes home with these rings and you use them once or twice . Because they pinch and they're uncomfortable , you throw them out .
Speaker 2You know we men start masturbating when we're like 12 years old . We think we're connoisseurs of our own orgasms and ideally , of course , we get involved with someone who's better than us ? I would say that my wife is , has better hands even than me , but saying but beyond , beyond , rock hard , there's cock ring hard . Nothing will get a man harder than a cock ring . No oral , manual , vaginal rectal stimulation will do that . Guys don't get . Guys need to understand this .
Speaker 2You , you know , with this maximum performance ring on , I accomplish several things . One I increase my girth by three to five millimeters . Well , that ain't a lot . No one's gonna walk by and say , oh , porn star , but that's more blood than I can get into my penis otherwise why wouldn't I want that ? If I'd be like telling a woman , hey , don't use a vibrator . So the ring increases my girth will hold . More blood in the penis increases more blood , more sensitivity . The ring also is designed to increase the ejaculatory phase . Well , if my orgasm is going to go from the ejaculatory phase is going to go four to seven , four to seven seconds , my sensation of orgasm is going to go . It's going to double . So my sensation , orgasm .
Speaker 2Again , men are inferior to women this way . If my orgasm , sensation orgasm , is going to last 90 seconds , to you know , two minutes , and now it's going to last three plus minutes , that's incredible and and guys need to get over their inhibitions about this . Because men are so straight men associate cock rings with fetish sex or gays , and they're embarrassed to take a cock ring at the bedroom lest the woman think less of them or whatever . Whatever pride issues are involved in this , uh , and they're making a mistake , and one of the jokes we have when we go to medical shows is how you tell the difference between a gay doctor and straight doc with one question do you use a cock ring , gay doctor ? Yeah , last night got a better one . And the straight doctor's oh , I don't need that . They go right to male pride . It's not about need , it's about want . If men want to rock harder , last longer , have more intense orgasm , be more confident , have their partner be more confident because that's important as well too Put a fucking ring on it Ours , of course . Put a fucking ring on it , ours , of course . Put a ring on it .
Speaker 2My wife and I make . We make love about 50% more longer now because we're I'm confident and she's confident . So she knows if I'm going to have the ring on that , I'm going to last 30 , 40 , 50 minutes . Well , that allows her to relax and focus on her own pleasure . She doesn't have to worry about me losing my erection . I'm not worried about losing my erection , and if my wife wants me to do something previously , I might have lost my erection Because , look , she's 71 . She's not as tight as she was when she was 22 , when we first met the first time .
Speaker 2And also , a lot of couples don't want to talk about this . We've made love in some positions thousands of times . It can be boring , and those can be confidence kills as well too . But with the ring on , hey , if you want to make love in the missionary position again before , I would have been irritated with her . I would have said , oh , I'm going to lose my erection . You know this . Why are you making me do this for more than a few minutes ? And now I don't care . I got a hard one , a guy with a hard on , as you know .
Speaker 1Annette , the guy with a hard on thinks differently than the guy who's worried about losing his erection Absolutely , and I will say that's true too . As a woman , I have definitely been in partnership with men who it's like they's going to go limp . Then I need to work on getting him hard again and it's like in my own mind I'm like is it worth it , or should I just get to business ? You know , because I don't want to . You know , because then I'm trying to get him hard again and then I lose my likes , you know , all that juice I worked up so and not that I wanted to verbalize it .
Speaker 1I know I didn't you so , and not that I wanted to verbalize it . I know you know you don't want to verbalize it , you don't want to be like , but you will . Men , if you pay close attention and I have had men ask me this they'll be like I go down on my girlfriend and like after two seconds she's like saying let's just have sex . I'm telling you this is one of the reasons , because we're like fuck , if he does it too long , then we're back to square one , and that's just true . I've never admitted that before . I've never spoken that experience before .
Speaker 2And no man wants to tell his wife or his girlfriend or in one case it's a gay couple that I thought of the last . Hey , you're a pussy , I don't feel anything anymore . And no man wants to tell his partner I'm bored . No man wants to tell his partner I'm worried about losing my erection . Yeah , and in a ring ? It's just a profound confidence change . I mean , we laugh about it . My wife's like how come you didn't invent this 20 years ago ? Well , I just wasn't thinking about it .
Speaker 1Didn't know , didn't know . So yeah , the devices guys and I'm I'm going to share links and and stuff like that with you are interested , like really caught my interest because you know , obviously , if you've been around on my channel for any time or reading my content , you know I've , I've definitely had some cock rings I I've loved , but again , this is like a whole different level of of of what a cock ring offers . And because I do have so many men who listened to my podcast reach out to me asking about different ED issues and and how do you know this from this and how do I ? This gives you the ability to figure out some stuff yourself .
Speaker 1It's hard when you go to your doctor and you say I'm having this problem and , like you're saying here , you get this sort of box answer but they don't really know , they're not like with you when you're sleeping or when you're having sex . You literally have a way to measure what's really going on when you're sleeping , when you're having sex , whenever you want to , and you can take that information too then to your doctor and give them data . It's frustrating to have sexual problems but no way to really measure it and no solid information . And this is going to give you a lot of no way to really measure it and no solid information . And this is going to give you a lot of information so you can figure out for yourself and advocate for yourself .
Speaker 2And you get the information under real life circumstances , either when you're sleeping or when you're having sex , because if you go to a doctor , they can do an ultrasound on you in the office . But if you're like most men , when a technician snaps on their rubber gloves , approaches me , puts me some cold jelly on my dick , approaches me with a cold metal probe , that's not what's reproducing a real life situation and it's only one data point . It's not multiple data points .
Speaker 1Right , you do get a lot of data . I love the idea of this , like being in line with sort of the aura , ring the watch and you know we are all . I think it's very common now to want to be able to track what our health is and have control of that in our own hands , and this is this is like a whole new tool for you , and then on top of it , it's going to improve things during sex and give you pleasure during sex . There is a new add-on for it , for some of us .
Speaker 2Yeah , the add-on's cool . The add-on was my wife's idea , because once you take a ring and and you open it up , you can slide things on and off the ring . So we call it the ring mate , for obvious reasons . It sits like that . The vibrator is right over where the average clearance is , which is 3.5 centimeters away from the base of the dorsal penis . So the vibrator is not in the ring itself , because that's in a bad position . It only comes with three speeds , because that's what women want , and it's also designed to be taken off the device and used with the fingers .
Speaker 1Right , what do I ?
Speaker 2like .
Speaker 1So to make sure my listeners are keeping up with this , there is an add-on to the ring that is a vibrator that can be clicked on to this ring for during sex . That then provides vibration to the woman's clitoris . If you go to my YouTube channel , you can see how that all comes together , how it all comes together , and so now it , even like this device , goes beyond the measurement , the keeping you hard , providing him pleasure . It now can also provide her pleasure , so that's pretty cool as well .
Speaker 2Yeah , it makes . It makes I want to our female users it makes climaxing . Climaxing especially on top , women on top , you know very , very easy . But also can be taken off and used with fingers . So this is I'll get graphic with you If you're having sex with a woman from behind , this can get very fatiguing to a man , or to a woman for that matter .
Speaker 1You're missing the hand movement if you're a listener , but you know the reach around the good old reach around .
Speaker 2This turns you into a sex robot .
Speaker 1Right , so you add it onto your hands and now you've got , your hand becomes the vibrator . That's yeah , that's great .
Speaker 2And a lot , of , a lot of my wife demonstrated this for me a lot , you know . Like the wand vibrators , women complain about them too , because this is not . This is not a comfortable position for the wrist , and whereas if it's just being , you know , held in the fingers , it's really easy to use . It also can go inside the vagina itself , which we discovered , and then the vibrations are at the tip of the penis . It's intense for the guy , intense for me at least . So it's a multifunctional device . But this is what we're working on . This year we're going to come out with some Q4 . This is the world's first monitor of the health of the clitoris .
Speaker 1Oh , so you .
Speaker 2This is the world's first monitor of the health of the clitoris . Oh , so you're coming up with something , so women will be able to get the same health benefits . They'll have a vibrator . But the vibrator is not new . But there's no way right now for women to utilize to assess the health of the clitoris and the impact of diabetes , hypertension , atherosclerosis medications , antihypertensis , antidepressants , hormones upon the health of the clitoris .
Speaker 1Right . So for my listeners , he is holding up a device that he's working on right now that will be doing the same for vulva owners and people with clitorises .
Speaker 2You know , the vagina is being addressed by other companies . I mean , the Linus Vibrator can measure PCG muscle contractions , and we'll do that as well too , and the vaginal biome is fascinating
. But I'm interested in the health of the clitoris because no one has looked at that organ and it's the key organ to women's sexual health .
Speaker 1Well , we will plan that out for a future episode to talk about that . I'm curious . It's something I don't have a lot of knowledge about , but for my listeners , so you know we've gone over this episode to talk about that . I'm curious . It's something I don't have a lot of knowledge about , but for my listeners , so you know we've gone over this . This device that has been created has allowed him to have the biggest dick database out there , which covers hard-ons , what they look like , what's normal , what they indicate . We've gone over that in this episode so far . And this is important information for you Because obviously you want to take care of your health .
Speaker 1You also want to have a healthy sex life . You want to have solutions . I'm always asked about solutions . We've got some solutions here , so it's an option for you . It's an option for you . It's an option for you to check this device out .
Speaker 1I was so excited when I saw it and researched it that I wanted to partner with them to help my listeners out . So , whether you are someone with a penis , a man , a woman who loves someone with a penis , I'm hoping that you will take the time to check out the information that I'll be sending you , but also , if you decide you want to give this device a try , I have a special code . It's Annette15 , and it will get you 15% off the device . So you can take that code to the site . If you decide you want to try it out and start monitoring your dick health and your whole health , you can do that with my code . And kind of to sum this up , can you list off the different conditions that getting this information could expose to the user , could expose to the user what are kind of a list of conditions that users of this device will start to get information about , whether or not they may have the condition ?
Speaker 2Well , the big ones are psychogenic ED and performance anxiety , which are probably the leading causes of erectile disappointments or dysfunction in men , but also atherosclerosis , diabetes , hypertension , alcoholism , medication side effects , with the antihypertensives and SRI presence being the leading ones . So it's important Men now have the opportunity to harness data to stay healthy and hard for the lifetime of lovemaking that almost everyone aspires to .
Speaker 1Right , because you can have sex for your whole life , right , you just have to take care of your sexual health , your whole health , and this is going to be key to knowing where you are in that journey , and I think it's really exciting and important information for people to get , and I'm excited to share that with you . Also , it's going to make sex better for you , for the person you're having sex with . Like , I don't see the lose here . It's a win-win situation . I am going to be sending you guys lots of information on this . I'm really excited that there's a new tool . I'm always excited when there are new tools to enhance people's pleasure and their health and sex life , and this one really caught my attention . Tips , information you would like my listeners people who are listening right now to know about their dicks , erections and their whole health that you think at the end of this podcast , is most important for them to take away .
Speaker 2I think it's important for men to put a ring on it , to recognize that . Rings will enhance their pleasure , can give them vital information about their most vital organ , and also all men get fading erections as they get older . There's now an answer for that . You now can be confident , rock harder , last longer , have more intense pleasure , so I love that for them and I love that for the people who are having sex with them .
Speaker 1Right , that's wonderful . Can you tell my listeners where they can find you ? All of the products , also the information .
Speaker 2This product is exciting , but also the information that we are getting from it . Yeah , our website is myfirmtechcom . If you click on the science section , you'll see that we have seven published papers and a lot of other studies underway . We are looking at testosterone replacement therapy , shockwave therapy it's not we , other researchers are utilizing our tools to look at these things . You'll see exciting research about how our device is as effective , if not more effective , than than 10 milligrams of tadalafil . The research is . We're really proud of the research . Uh , so go to go to my firm tech m-y-f-i-r-m-c-c-hcom . Look , click on the science section . You can also reach me personally at elliot , at my firm tech .
Speaker 1Perfect . Thank you so much . This is important information and I love that you're also kind of giving a preview of what's to come .
There's a lot of information coming down the line and this device is going to allow people to make huge leaps forward in sexual health , in erection health and , apparently , clitoral health . I'm excited about that . I want to take care of my girl , that's for sure . So thank you so much . And for my listeners , of course , as you know , if you want a cheerleader , a sidekick in your intimacy and pleasure journey , I am coaching right now , so my books are open . You can always find out more about that at TalkSexWithAnnettecom . All the links are going to be below . Subscribe to my e-newsletter , because I will be sending out all of this information and more directly to your inbox , so you can start having better sex and more pleasure tonight , until next time . Thank you so much for joining me and listeners .
Speaker 1I will see you in the locker room . Cheers .