do the sex . Welcome to Masturbation Monday with me , annette Benedetti , your host for Locker Room Talk and Chats . This is your invitation to join me for coffee in bed and a candid conversation about the masturbation practice I'm developing to support my mental , physical and emotional health and help manifest my dreams . Masturbation Monday is a guide to self-pleasure , better sex and using the power of the pussy to open new doors to a better life . Today's topic is think women don't want sex . Well then , these five kinks that they are absolutely crazy about
are going to blow your mind . Most men have no idea just how kinky women really are . They think women only want soft , slow , romantic sex . Or , even worse , they think women don't even want sex at all . Let me be crystal clear that idea is outdated , boring and flat out wrong . Women are not only horny , they are into some wildly hot , creative , unexpected kinks , and in this episode I'm going to be breaking down
the five top kinks women love that most men never see coming . We're talking about the kind of kinks that wake the body up , make her wetter , louder and more insatiable than you've ever seen . And , the best part , every one of these can totally transform your sex life if you're bold enough to try them . In fact , studies show that couples who explore together have higher sexual satisfaction , more frequent orgasms and a stronger emotional connection and intimacy than those who don't . So if you've been stuck in a bedroom routine that feels more meh than mind-blowing , this is your invitation to get curious , get turned on and get way more connected . This episode isn't just about her pleasure . It's about unlocking a whole new level of pleasure you can both enjoy together . Oh , and if you're looking for sexy , non-awkward ways to bring up kink with your partner , just send her this episode and say which one of these turns you on . Boom , easy , instant conversation . But before I dive in , I want to remind you that I'm over on OnlyFans , sharing hot intimacy and sex demonstrations and how-tos
, along with audio guided self-pleasure meditations and so much more , all designed to help you along your own self-pleasure and sexual journey , whether you are solo or partnered . You can find me there by my handle at TalkSexWithANet . You can also find me over on Substack , where I'm doing a lot of the same , and again , you can find me there with my handle at TalkSexWithANet , and you can always scroll down where I'm going to be providing you with all of the links you need to find me wherever you want to find me .
Speaker 1So let's get into it guys . So let's get into it , guys . Top five kinks that women are really into and that you need to give a try , starting tonight , cheers , all right , let's dive right in . Get ready to unleash the beast , because Primal Kink is our number one kink we are going to cover today that women are crazy about , and primal kink is more than you think . Primal kink is all about unleashing your raw animal instinct in the bedroom . We're talking growls , possessive grips and that sweaty , intense physicality that comes with tapping into your wild side . It's less about softness and romance and more about giving into that ferocious energy . Why women love it .
Speaker 1According to research from the Kinsey Institute , 25% of women report enjoying primal play . Tapping into that ferocity and the intensity during sex , it's like letting go of control for a moment and diving into something that is deeper and more visceral . So fro tip for him . Take charge , but always check in . Whether you're guiding her body or using possessive language , the key is to make her feel safe in that vulnerability . A little growling in her ear , gripping her waist firmly , can elevate the experience . Just keep communication clear , especially if it's your first time exploring this kink . So pro tip for her Look , ladies , I know that you love that raw desire and feeling it coming from your partner . If you're into primal play , let go of any inhibitions . Tap into your inner wild side , whether it's a primal growl , aggressive kiss or playful biting . This kink is all about fully embracing that animal energy . Number two want to bring the heat Impact . Play will get you there . It is our number two kink that women are really into .
Speaker 1So what is it ? You've heard about it spanking , slapping or light impact on the body . It's all about giving a little sting to enhance sensation and release those feel-good endorphins . A little pain can actually increase pleasure by triggering physical responses like arousal and deep sensitivity , why women love it . According to the Journal of Sexual Medicine , 40% of women report that a little bit of pain mixed with pleasure intensifies their orgasms . The idea here isn't to hurt
but to enhance that tingly pleasure you feel when your body experiences different sensations .
Speaker 1Pro tip for him start with gentle taps and pay attention to her body language . Lightly tap her ass or thighs and gradually increase intensity based on her responses . Do not go from zero to 100 . That's bound to turn her off . A bit of teasing in between strikes or hits or slaps , like soft caresses or kissing , helps balance the sensation and keeps things sexy . Pro tip for her communicate your comfort level . Spanking can be incredibly pleasurable and sexy , but it's all about knowing your limits . Let your partner know if you like a firm hand or prefer something lighter , or you like something like a spoon or a flogger or a paddle . Spanking is personal , so don't be afraid to guide the tempo and the intensity . Folks consider safe words here . Even if you don't plan on it . Safe words here , even if you don't plan on upping the intensity to an extreme level . It's always good to have safe words in place so you know when to go , when to stop and when to just slow down .
Speaker 1Moving on to our number three , kink that women love . Power play is where it's at . So what is power play ? This one is about exploring control in the bedroom . Whether it's domination or submission , power dynamics bring a thrill and intense intimacy that makes the sex hotter . It's not about who's in charge . It's about discovering what turns you both on in those moments , why women love it . Research published in the Journal of Sex Research shows that 60% of women report having more intense orgasms when they engage in power play , whether through submission or dominance .
Speaker 1Giving or taking control taps into your desires , boosting sexual satisfaction Pro tip for either partner . If you're enjoying being in control , take the reins . Show confidence , guide each other during sex and let your desires lead the way . If you're exploring submission , embrace that feeling of giving over control and enjoy the sensations of being led . Trust is essential here , so make sure you and your partner are on the same page . Talk about what you're doing in advance . Talk about your boundaries , your hard no's , your yes's . Have that conversation up front . And again , let's go back to having
some safe words in place , just to make sure nothing goes off the rails .
Speaker 1Moving on to the next kink that women love , if you want to take pleasure to the next level , sensory deprivation will make everything feel more intense . What is it ? Sensory deprivation sounds intense right . When you take away sight , say with a blindfold , all of your other senses get a serious upgrade . The anticipation and mystery of not knowing when or where your partner is going to touch you makes every sensation feel electric . Why women love it . A study published in the Journal of Sex Research shows that sensory deprivation increases sexual pleasure and satisfaction by making touch more intense and stimulating . Not knowing what's coming next makes everything feel more exciting . Pro tip for him get a soft , comfortable blindfold Don't use flimsy fabric here and start with gentle strokes on her body , Slowly caress her arms , her neck or inner thighs to build anticipation .
Speaker 1Then switch it up with more intense touches or kisses . Make sure to check in and make sure she's comfortable with the experience . You can take this in all directions . You can play with temperature play , sensation play can include using feathers , or you can start to integrate that spanking , slappy feelings . Of course , all negotiated up front . Surprise her , surprise her with what's coming next . It's bound to get a reaction that you're both going to enjoy . Pro tip for her , going to enjoy . Pro tip for her .
Speaker 1Let go and embrace the mystery of the adventure . This is a journey . With a blindfold , you can be fully present in the moment and just feel . When your sense of sight is taken away , the sensation of a touch or a kiss could feel 10 times more intense . Trust your partner and let them lead the experience . Side note here sensory deprivation can also include things like taking away your sense of hearing and just generally disorienting you to what's going on in your environment . Now , taking away sight with a blindfold . That's a pretty simple entry-level take on sensory deprivation . So I decided to start you there . Entry-level take on sensory deprivation so I decided to start you there . But feel free to explore all of the options that this kink provides .
Speaker 1Now for our last kink that women love
. That might surprise men . Get ready to get creative . Role play can take your bedroom fantasy to new heights . That's right . Women seem to be particularly into role play .
Speaker 1So what is role play ? It's about slipping into a different persona or scenario without needing to buy a ton of costumes . You're creating a fantasy world where the boundaries of your usual selves get stretched and explored . It could be as simple as pretending to be someone new or acting out a different scenario . You've heard of the classic teacher-student , doctor-patient , nurse-patient . There are so many different takes on role-playing . This kink is boundless . You could be animals , you could be anything you want , and the more you do it , the more creative you'll get as time goes on .
Speaker 1Stepping into the role play kink can really help keep the passion and excitement in your relationship alive forever , forever . Here's a couple tips to get you guys started . Start small , maybe . Role play a stranger scenario , or act out a playful power dynamic . You don't need costumes and props at first . They can always come later . But getting into a new character and feeling that rush of anticipation can heighten the whole experience . Remember , be playful and embrace the fantasy .
Speaker 1Whether you're pretending to be a sultry spy or a daring lover , roleplay lets you step into different versions of yourself . Don't worry if you feel a little silly at first , everyone does . Just remember , it's all in the spirit of fun , exploration and enhancing your love life . Role play starter suggestion , especially if your sex life has gotten a little boring . Pretend you're meeting each other for the first time . How would you get each other into the bedroom ? Maybe do it different than you did the first time . You can even be totally different people . You're probably different versions of yourself now than you were when you met . Act that out , play it out . See what it would be like now if you just met and decided you wanted to bang . So there you have it . Primal play , impact play , power play , sensory deprivation and role play .
These are five kinks that can totally surprise you and add some serious spice to your sex life . The key to exploring any of these Communication . Always check in , keep things fun and be open to new experiences together . After all , sex should never be boring and with these kinks you'll keep things anything but predictable . So go ahead , start a conversation with your partner .
Speaker 1These kinks aren't just fun . They're a way to deepen your connection and explore desire together . Keep it sexy , keep it safe and get ready for some serious hot adventures in the bedroom . And remember , if you are looking for a cheerleader , a support person , a guide in your own self-pleasure journey or in your sexual relationship with your partner , I have my sex and intimacy coaching books open now . I love to work with singles and couples . I love helping people overcome the challenges they're facing in the bedroom or in their own personal intimate life . So if you want to find out more about my offerings , you can check them out at TalkSexWithAnnettecom or just shoot me an email at Annette at TalkSexWithAnnettecom . Until next time , I'll see you in the locker room . Cheers .