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Well, good morning Valley View.

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It's great to be with you today.

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I was traveling last week.

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I went with Julie to a conference.

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She was going to a conference about teaching and I went to support her by mountain biking while she was in the conference.

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It was a very helpful thing for her.

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So we had a few days away together.

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That was good.

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And thank you to Colby for bringing the word last week.

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Really grateful for him.

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Does a great job.

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Yeah.

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And I also want to say thank you to our veterans.

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I know yesterday was Veterans Day, but for those who have served, thank you so much for serving.

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When I think of veterans, I think of a verse we covered a couple of weeks ago.

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Greater love has no one than to lay down his life for a friend.

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And many of us have signed up to difficult jobs.

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But rarely do we sign up to lay our life down in that job.

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And those veterans have and so thank you for that.

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And when I think of the military, I also think of something that I think relates to today's passage.

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One thing that is really important for the military is to deal with truth.

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If you're going to confront a hostile enemy, you've got to deal with the truth of the situation.

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Winston Churchill, no perfect man, but he was known for being one who was fastidious to get the facts.

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World War Two, Prime Minister of England.

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How many planes does the other side have?

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How many tanks do they have?

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What are their fuel reserves?

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Where are their bases?

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We've got to know the facts.

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We got to know what we're dealing with.

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We can't just be oblivious to it so that we can prepare for what might come.

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And in today's passage, I think we're going to just see a hint of that with Jesus saying to the disciples, We're in John chapter 16.

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We've been working through the Book of John.

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In fact, we've been working, maybe some might say slowly through the Book of John, but we're going to start to pick up speed.

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We're in chapter 16 and each chapter is going to move along a little more quickly.

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We're in really the final hours of Jesus's life, even though there's six or seven chapters left.

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But in this passage, we're going to see two things.

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First, we're going to see Jesus give the disciples a warning.

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Here's what's coming.

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Here's what you need to deal with.

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Here's the reality of the situation.

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Here's truth.

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He doesn't try to soft pedal to make it sound better than it is.

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Here's what's coming.

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But he doesn't leave him just with the warning, but he also gives them the work of the Holy Spirit.

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You're not left to figure this out on your own.

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There's a warning.

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But then we have the work of the Holy Spirit to guide us, to get us through the difficult situation to come.

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This was relevant to the disciples then, and I think it's going to be relevant to us today as well.

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So if you have your Bibles, turn to John, Chapter 16.

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John Chapter six.

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So we're going to start by reading just these first couple of verses here,

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<v verse one>I have said all these things to you to keep you from falling away.

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<v verse one>They will put you out of the synagogues.

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<v verse one>Indeed, the hour is coming when whoever kills you will think he is offering service to God and they will do these things because they have not known the Father nor me.

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<v verse one>But I have said these things to you that when their hour comes, you may remember that I told them to you.

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<v verse one>Here we have Jesus speaking to the disciples, and we're in this long section called the Upper Room Discourse or the farewell discourse, kind of his final sermon or message to them that goes across chapters 13, 14, 15, 16, 17 long section of Jesus just investing in his guys right before he leaves.

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<v verse one>But here he gives them this warning.

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<v verse one>He says to them, Here's what you need to be mindful of and what is coming.

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<v verse one>He said, The first thing I've said all these things to you to keep you from falling away.

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<v verse one>That's the warning he gives to them.

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<v verse one>Now, why does he need to warn them about that? In particular?

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<v verse one>Why does he need to warn them about falling away?

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<v verse one>Jesus, we've been here with you through all this.

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<v verse one>Up to this point.

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<v verse one>Well, they don't know what it's about to come.

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<v verse one>They think they do, but they don't know all that's about to come.

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<v verse one>And by the way, we got to keep in mind that just probably a few minutes ago, one of their own fell away.

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<v verse one>You know, again, many, many weeks we're talking about a few verses, but in real time, 15, 20, 30 minutes ago, Judas walked away.

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<v verse one>He was there with them this whole time.

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<v verse one>He saw the same things they saw.

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<v verse one>He walked away.

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<v verse one>What makes them think they're any better than him?

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<v verse one>Well, there's still the temptation to think I didn't walk away.

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<v verse one>I'm better than that guy.

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<v verse one>But, man, they're facing the same challenge that Judas did.

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<v verse one>They are not better than him.

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<v verse one>I shared with our Wednesday night group we're working through the topic of forgiveness.

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<v verse one>We meet on Wednesday nights after the meal and have a Bible study, kind of an open service, sing a hymn together, study the topic of forgiveness.

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<v verse one>And there's this really powerful story, post-World War two.

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<v verse one>So World War two, obviously, America, a number of other countries when beat the Nazis, in particular in Germany.

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<v verse one>But a lot of the Nazis went on the run, went into hiding.

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<v verse one>One in particular, probably the most high profile guy they hadn't captured was hiding in Argentina.

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<v verse one>It's 1962 when they finally find him, track him down.

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<v verse one>And Israelis, they extricate him, take him back to the country, put him on trial.

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<v verse one>His name was Adolf Eichmann.

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<v verse one>And of course, they're bringing in people in particular from Auschwitz, the death camp there.

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<v verse one>And there was a guy they bring in, Yehiel De-nur.

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<v verse one>They brought in a number of different people to testify. Yes.

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<v verse one>That's the guy. Yes.

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<v verse one>This is what I went through.

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<v verse one>They bring him in.

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<v verse one>He's testifying.

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<v verse one>But in the midst of his testimony, he just collapses on the ground in a puddle, sobbing uncontrollably, body convulsions he can't even stand.

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<v verse one>They have to grab him by his arms.

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<v verse one>In fact, here's a picture.

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<v verse one>After they had got him set back up, they just had to drag him out.

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<v verse one>He was in just this uncontrollable state of emotion, understandably so.

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<v verse one>And afterwards, he was interviewed.

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<v verse one>Mike Wallace interviewed him 60 Minutes and said what was going on there?

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<v verse one>I mean, clearly, you were overwhelmed with emotion.

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<v verse one>Was it just the craziness of the moment?

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<v verse one>Was it all the memories of what happened before, maybe lost loved ones and family members?

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<v verse one>And he said, no, it was none of that.

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<v verse one>None of that.

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<v verse one>In that moment, I'm staring at a man who I thought was some god of a general who had control over people's lives.

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<v verse one>And he did.

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<v verse one>But in that moment, I saw him for the very plain, ordinary, boring-- in fact, they use the word banal-- man that he was.

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<v verse one>And here's the quote that he said, what that did to him.

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<v verse one>I'm going to put this on screen for you to read as well when he saw him that way, if you can put up that quote.

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<v verse one>Here it is. It's coming.

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<v verse one>That's the right one.

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<v verse one>I was afraid about myself.

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<v verse one>I saw that I am capable to do this.

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<v verse one>I am like him, the guy who seems so plain, so boring, so normal.

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<v verse one>If he was capable of that in that moment, he said that that must that be inside me too.

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<v verse one>I'm ultimately no better than that guy.

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<v verse one>Maybe I didn't end up down the same path.

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<v verse one>And I think the disciples in this moment, Jesus is saying, You think you're better than Jesus.

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<v verse one>Be careful, Judas.

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<v verse one>Sorry. You might think that too, Be careful.

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<v verse one>Be careful.

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<v verse one>Watch out.

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<v verse one>Troubles are coming.

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<v verse one>Struggles are coming.

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<v verse one>Don't fall away.

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<v verse one>That word for fall away has this whole idea of stumbling over something.

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<v verse one>Tripping over something.

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<v verse one>It's the we get our word scandalized from it.

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<v verse one>It sounds the same in the original language.

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<v verse one>Scandalize. And we even use that today.

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<v verse one>If someone is in a public scandal, you know, they had a fall from grace or what we like to say kind of euphemistically, they fell into sin like they didn't have a part in the problem or something, just fell into sin.

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<v verse one>Nooo, well, there may have been a choice there as well.

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<v verse one>Scandalize, don't fall away.

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<v verse one>Don't be drawn away.

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<v verse one>Tough times are coming.

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<v verse one>In fact, he says a couple of other things to them here about what is on the way.

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<v verse one>The reality of it. Look at verse two, they will put you out of the synagogues, which doesn't seem like that big of a deal to us.

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<v verse one>You go find another church here, but there that meant complete ostracization.

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<v verse one>Your life was utterly changed.

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<v verse one>They'll put you out of the synagogues.

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<v verse one>Indeed, the hour’s coming when whoever kills you will think he's offering service to God.

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<v verse one>That's messed up, completely upside down.

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<v verse one>But we've seen this in Scripture that that was Paul.

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<v verse one>He was passionate about killing these Christians who are ruining my faith, my belief in God.

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<v verse one>Before he knew Christ, he thought what he was doing was the right thing.

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<v verse one>They don't know this is about to come.

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<v verse one>And he says to them, Watch out, be careful.

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<v verse one>Be mindful.

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<v verse one>Not only will they think they are offering service to God when they kill you, there's a reason why they do that.

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<v verse one>Look at verse three.

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<v verse one>They will do these things because they have not known the father nor me.

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<v verse one>There is a reason why they act the way they do.

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<v verse one>They don't know Christ.

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<v verse one>And I think it's really helpful to take a step back and recognize that because I don't know about you, but it's easy to get angry.

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<v verse one>Maybe it's something you saw on Social media or something you see in the news.

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<v verse one>It's easy to get upset with non-Christians for being non-Christians, but we shouldn't be surprised by that.

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<v verse one>In fact, our natural bent before knowing Christ was to reject him.

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<v verse one>I mean, we're all that way going back to Yehiel De-nur, who am I to say I'm so much better that I've figured it out?

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<v verse one>Nah, that should cause us to just pause and yes, we should have sorrow.

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<v verse one>Yes, there is a part of maybe righteous anger of wishing that things were right as God intended them.

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<v verse one>But yet also there's a measure of I shouldn't be surprised that people live out full rejection of God, and that should give us pause to we should be aware of that as well.

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<v verse one>Be careful, be watchful, be mindful.

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<v verse one>There will be those who fall way.

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<v verse one>I think a practical takeaway of this for us that's really important, something that each of us needs to be mindful of.

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<v verse one>What Jesus is warning the disciples of is that problems will come.

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<v verse one>This isn't going to be an easy problem, free life and we shouldn't try to sell Christianity as being problem free.

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<v verse one>In fact, I would say there's a chance you might have more problems if you follow Christ.

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<v verse one>We have friends in Phoenix, they grew up Mormon, their families, both sides Mormon.

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<v verse one>They come to know Christ, they become Christians.

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<v verse one>They turn away from the Mormonism and their family disowned them and never spoke to them again on both sides Their life didn't get easier.

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<v verse one>And so we don't sell them on that.

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<v verse one>I'm not here selling Christianity to you based on the benefits.

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<v verse one>Come be a Christian, and here's all the good things that will happen to you.

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<v verse one>No, here's here's what we want you to experience is the person of Jesus Christ.

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<v verse one>Come to know him, fall in love with him, the person of Jesus Christ, and then everything else will follow from that.

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<v verse one>You, I hope you see the radical difference between the two approaches.

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<v verse one>I don't hang out with my friend because of his boat.

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<v verse one>He's my friend.

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<v verse one>I love him. I care about him.

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<v verse one>I care deeply about our friendship.

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<v verse one>And if he gets a boat, I like him a lot more after that.

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<v verse one>Right?

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<v verse one>Maybe.

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<v verse one>You see the difference.

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<v verse one>We don't come just-- here's what I will get from Jesus, this is why I follow him.

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<v verse one>I follow him because I love him.

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<v verse one>Because there is nothing better than him.

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<v verse one>And hard times will come and we don't soft pedal Christianity based on the benefits to people. There’s a person, Jesus Christ, God in human flesh, who we follow.

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<v verse one>And this is the warning He gives to the disciples.

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<v verse one>Hard times are coming.

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<v verse one>Now, here's the beautiful part of this passage.

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<v verse one>He doesn't just leave them with the warning-- hey, hard times are coming.

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<v verse one>Good luck.

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<v verse one>No, he doesn't leave them that way.

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<v verse one>He's going to tell them that I have given you a power to get through what is coming.

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<v verse one>In fact, the warning is what is coming.

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<v verse one>But here is the power.

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<v verse one>It is the work of the Holy Spirit.

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<v verse one>And in these next few verses, we're going to see four key ways the Holy Spirit works in our lives to help us through the challenges we face.

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<v verse one>He doesn't leave us alone just to figure it out ourselves.

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<v verse one>The Holy Spirit is at work.

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<v verse one>If you know Him, he comes alongside you.

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<v verse one>He works in your life.

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<v verse one>We're going to see that in these next few verses.

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<v verse one>In fact, turn look back down at verse four, depending on your Bible, there's a paragraph break there around in the middle of verse four, and I'm going to start kind of in the middle of verse 4-4b- I did not say these things to you from the beginning because I was with you, but now I'm going to him who sent me.

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<v verse one>And none of you asked me where are you going?

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<v verse one>But because I have said these things to you, sorrow has filled your heart.

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<v verse one>So he's recognizing the situation.

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<v verse one>I'm about to leave you.

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<v verse one>I talked openly about it before.

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<v verse one>They did ask him about it before.

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<v verse one>Now they're not asking anymore.

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<v verse one>And I know you're full of sorrow in this moment, but you're full of sorrow, nevertheless, verse seven, I tell you the truth, it is to your advantage that I go away, for if I do not go away, the helper will not come to you.

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<v verse one>But if I go, I will send him to you.

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<v verse one>So this is the first way the Holy Spirit works right here.

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<v verse one>Jesus is saying to them, I've got to go away so that you can have the presence of the Holy Spirit around you.

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<v verse one>This is the first way.

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<v verse one>Just His presence is with us.

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<v verse one>Go and put that number one up presence.

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<v verse one>Now, here's what's kind of strange about this.

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<v verse one>Jesus says, If you look back, it is to your advantage that I go away.

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<v verse one>If you're the disciples, even now, you've got to wonder, is it you're saying that the Holy Spirit's better than Jesus?

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<v verse one>It's better to have Him than Jesus around?

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<v verse one>You know, if you ever hear these quizzes where they ask people if you could have a dinner with anyone dead or alive, who would it be?

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<v verse one>Jesus is always on that list, right?

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<v verse one>But no one ever goes, well, the Holy Spirit.

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<v verse one>I'd really love to have dinner with him as well.

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<v verse one>Well, but he's with you.

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<v verse one>That's why we don't we don't say it, They didn't know that at the time.

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<v verse one>Why would it be an advantage to them that Jesus, who's there with them in the person-- his physical presence there-- why would it be an advantage for him to leave?

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<v verse one>I've got to do just a quick pause down on the Trinity short topic to address it here in church for everyone.

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<v verse one>Probably the most complicated topic in the history of Christianity.

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<v verse one>But I'll quickly say this Father, Son, Holy Spirit, they're all equally God.

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<v verse one>It's not like God, the Father, he's really God.

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<v verse one>Then there's Jesus-- he's closer, but still mostly God.

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<v verse one>Then there's the Holy Spirit who's kind of like junior God.

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<v verse one>It's not like that.

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<v verse one>In fact, one guy wrote a whole book called The Forgotten God about the Holy Spirit.

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<v verse one>Kind of tend to tack him on after, know, they're all three are equally God, but they play-- there's a lot of different words you could use here, and I need to be careful-- different roles, different persons in the way that they live out life, in the way they relate to us.

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<v verse one>And so here when we see Jesus, here's one thing that Jesus did different.

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<v verse one>He took on human flesh.

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<v verse one>He came into the world, both God and man, which, by the way, he put on himself a physical limitation.

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<v verse one>He chose to limit himself.

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<v verse one>It feels really weird to say that Jesus had limitations, but on earth in a physical body, he chose to take limitations upon himself.

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<v verse one>And you've all experienced this.

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<v verse one>It doesn't make him less God, by the way.

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<v verse one>So when you had your first child and that toddler finally stood up and in them you saw a future NBA basketball star.

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<v verse one>In that moment, you knew greatness was in your genes, and so you ran out and bought one of those basketball goals that goes about this high, the plastic ones.

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<v verse one>It's somehow adjustable but never works.

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<v verse one>You know what I'm talking about?

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<v verse one>And you immediately got them playing on that goal.

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<v verse one>Now, when you played with them, you didn't come up to them and dominate and block their shot and dunk on top of that.

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<v verse one>I hope you didn't.

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<v verse one>But that's a temptation.

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<v verse one>I know.

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<v verse one>Take it while you can. Right?

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<v verse one>They're going to grow up.

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<v verse one>No. Here's what you did.

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<v verse one>You you got down in front of them on your knees and you got down to their level.

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<v verse one>Let's play.

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<v verse one>I tried.

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<v verse one>I missed. You got down where they were.

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<v verse one>And when they got a little older, you changed it up.

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<v verse one>Maybe you only played left handed, kept your arm behind your back.

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<v verse one>Maybe they got two points to your one.

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<v verse one>Does that make you less of a parent?

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<v verse one>I'd say it makes you more meeting them where they are.

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<v verse one>And Jesus came and chose to limit himself.

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<v verse one>And here's the advantage.

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<v verse one>His physical limitation.

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<v verse one>He left.

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<v verse one>He's leaving the scene.

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<v verse one>The disciples don't know it. With them now will be the presence of the Holy Spirit who will be with them, guiding them all the time, anywhere, everywhere.

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<v verse one>And look, I wish day to day I really realize that.

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<v verse one>I mean, imagine how differently you would live life if every day you were overwhelmed with the reality that the presence of the Holy Spirit is with you every step of the way.

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<v verse one>I would change everything.

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<v verse one>None of us do it.

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<v verse one>But the more we grow, the more we come to know him, the more we connect with him and the more aware we become of the Holy Spirit in our lives, in His presence.

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<v verse one>So that's the first one, his presence.

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<v verse one>But let's keep reading.

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<v verse one>Look secondly, at how the Holy Spirit works, verse eight.

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<v verse one>And when He comes, he will convict the world concerning sin, righteousness and judgment.

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<v verse one>That's part of the Holy Spirit maybe we could do without, right?

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<v verse one>We don't really need that conviction part Lord, especially not around sin, righteousness and judgment.

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<v verse one>I mean, just keep piling it on.

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<v verse one>Well, let's unpack these a little bit.

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<v verse one>Look at what he says concerning sin, because they do not believe in me, concerning righteousness, because I go to the father, you will see me no longer concerning judgment, because the ruler of this world is judged.

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<v verse one>So the second way the Holy Spirit works is through convicting, through conviction.

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<v verse one>We're going to talk about each of those.

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<v verse one>What does that mean?

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<v verse one>Of course, first is sin.

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<v verse one>Look back at verse nine concerning sin, because they do not believe in me.

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<v verse one>This is the first way the Holy Spirit convicts.

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<v verse one>And it's the first one in this list because that's the starting place.

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<v verse one>Sin blocks belief.

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<v verse one>Sin builds barriers between you and God.

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<v verse one>Sin undermines truth.

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<v verse one>And so if you don't believe, you're not going to know Christ.

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<v verse one>You're not going to want to follow him.

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<v verse one>And so there's got to be conviction of sin.

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<v verse one>There's got to be this place where you become aware that the way you think, the way you live is against following Christ.

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<v verse one>And coming back to that same issue of we don't make Christianity easy, try to sell it easy to people.

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<v verse one>And it's the same way with sin.

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<v verse one>We don't soft pedal on sin.

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<v verse one>If someone asks you, Hey, does does the Bible teach?

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<v verse one>And by the way, this is an important difference.

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<v verse one>Does the Bible teach that this is whatever behavior is sin, not just do you think?

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<v verse one>Well, let me show you.

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<v verse one>Here's where scripture says that this is not what God has planned for people.

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<v verse one>If someone asks you that answer faithfully from Scripture, point them and do it graciously.

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<v verse one>It's not in a condemning way.

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<v verse one>But look. Yes.

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<v verse one>No, this is what Scripture says.

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<v verse one>We don't we're not trying to hide that.

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<v verse one>We don't kind of go, Yeah, I hate to say it.

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<v verse one>I think we try to hide that from everyone else.

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<v verse one>But no, it does say that what you're talking about is sin.

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<v verse one>And here's why we don't.

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<v verse one>Tim Keller, who is a pastor in New York City, passed away recently, very influential.

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<v verse one>He had a lady come up to him in church after he talked about following Christ.

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<v verse one>And she said to him, I really like what you're saying.

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<v verse one>I like some of where Christianity is heading.

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<v verse one>I like this Jesus guy.

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<v verse one>But let me ask you, if I were to follow him, does that mean I'd have to put aside my romantic relationship with this other woman?

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<v verse one>And he said, I can address that directly and I will.

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<v verse one>But let me tell you, if you follow Christ, there's all kinds of things in your life that will change, not just that one thing.

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<v verse one>You know, we don't bargain with God.

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<v verse one>I'll follow you.

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<v verse one>But let me let me let me just hang on to this.

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<v verse one>No, If you follow him, everything will change.

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<v verse one>And here's what he said and you'll want to change.

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<v verse one>Look, if you've got life perfectly figured out, you don't want any change in life.

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<v verse one>Everything's good.

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<v verse one>I'm good to go.

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<v verse one>And if you meet that person, I'd love to meet them as well.

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<v verse one>None of us have life figured out, even if it appears we do.

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<v verse one>Where are you going to find hope?

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<v verse one>Where are you going to find purpose?

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<v verse one>Where are you going to find meaning in life?

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<v verse one>I couldn't do it on my own.

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<v verse one>I haven't met anyone yet that has.

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<v verse one>The Christ will give you that in him you will find.

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<v verse one>And that means conviction of sin.

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<v verse one>The Holy Spirit is the one who convicts.

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<v verse one>He does it for the world.

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<v verse one>That's who he's talking about here.

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<v verse one>He does it for us to.

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<v verse one>Thankfully, he does that for us.

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<v verse one>Doesn't leave us where we are.

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<v verse one>You're not to stay where you are.

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<v verse one>He doesn't leave us where we are.

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<v verse one>Come as you are.

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<v verse one>But don't stay where you are.

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<v verse one>So the first is he convicts of sin.

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<v verse one>Second is righteousness concerning righteousness.

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<v verse one>Because I go to the father and you will see me no longer.

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<v verse one>Now, this one's a little harder.

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<v verse one>It seems kind of weird.

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<v verse one>How do you convict about righteousness?

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<v verse one>Let's think about that word righteousness.

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<v verse one>For our purposes.

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<v verse one>I'll just say you might shorten it to the word rightness.

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<v verse one>How do I know I am right?

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<v verse one>How do I know that if I see God, that He will accept me, that I am living rightly in a way that He will accept me and he will convict the world concerning righteousness, There's a verse that I think is real helpful to understand what he's talking about here in terms of what is the right way to live.

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<v Look at Luke 18>9.

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<v Look at Luke 18>That's just one book back from John and it's on page 824 in the church Bible.

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<v Look at Luke 18>This is a parable where Jesus is contrasting

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<v two different people>a Pharisee and a tax collector and how they both see themselves before God.

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<v two different people>And I'm not going to read through the whole parable.

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<v two different people>But this first verse highlights the whole purpose he tells on the front end why

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<v I am sharing this parable. Verse 9>He also told this parable to some who trusted in themselves that they were righteous and treated others with contempt.

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<v I am sharing this parable. Verse 9>I think we all have the temptation to think and here's the phrase we use self-righteous, but I've got it figured out the way I live, this is how I justify myself before God, the way I live, the things I do.

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<v I am sharing this parable. Verse 9>This is why he will accept me.

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<v I am sharing this parable. Verse 9>This is why I am right.

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<v I am sharing this parable. Verse 9>And Jesus contrasts here, there are those who think, No, I'm good.

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<v I am sharing this parable. Verse 9>I got it all figured out and then look down on others.

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<v I am sharing this parable. Verse 9>The Holy Spirit came to convict of that kind of self-righteousness, and Jesus came to show the correct standard of righteousness.

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<v I am sharing this parable. Verse 9>Here is true righteousness.

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<v I am sharing this parable. Verse 9>It's him.

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<v I am sharing this parable. Verse 9>It's knowing him and following him.

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<v I am sharing this parable. Verse 9>So that's righteousness.

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<v I am sharing this parable. Verse 9>And then number three, I will convict concerning judgment verse 11, because the ruler of this world is judged.

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<v I am sharing this parable. Verse 9>This one is also a little tricky.

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<v I am sharing this parable. Verse 9>He will convict concerning judgment.

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<v I am sharing this parable. Verse 9>Even that phrase the ruler of this world is already judged is maybe kind of hard to swallow because there are times where it doesn't feel like the ruler of this world is already judged.

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<v I am sharing this parable. Verse 9>But we live in this in-between moment where he has been judged.

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<v I am sharing this parable. Verse 9>God allows sin to continue on Earth for a season, but it won't always be that way.

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<v I am sharing this parable. Verse 9>But conviction around judgment here-- what he's responding to-- Jesus came when he came,

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<v John 12>47, I did not come to judge, but to save.

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<v John 12>He didn't come to judge in the moment, he came at that time, You will later, but to save.

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<v John 12>But the problem was when he came to save, others were judging him.

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<v John 12>Others were saying, No, you're not the right way.

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<v John 12>No, you're, in fact, Satan himself.

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<v John 12>No, the Pharisees, don't follow him.

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<v John 12>Don't trust what he has to say.

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<v John 12>How do we get rid of him?

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<v John 12>There was judgment being heaped upon him, and the Holy Spirit came to convict those to judge rightly.

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<v John 12>So, the Holy Spirit convicts.

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<v John 12>The Holy Spirit brings different levels of conviction around sin, righteousness and judgment.

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<v John 12>And through this, you know, the Holy Spirit exposes-- we're talking about the world here with those terms-- and he says world, but the Holy Spirit also exposes in us the ways that we think we are saving ourselves.

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<v John 12>I do it too, right?

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<v John 12>If I just do this thing, if I say this thing, if I treat this person this way, God will have more favor shown upon me.

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<v John 12>And clearly there are right ways to live according to Scripture.

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<v John 12>But the only thing that justifies you is Jesus and His death, burial, resurrection on your behalf and the Holy Spirit comes to convict around that.

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<v John 12>Don't self justify, lean on Christ.

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<v John 12>So that's number two.

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<v John 12>Number three, we're going to skip to the end of the passage verse 14.

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<v John 12>Here's what the Holy Spirit does.

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<v John 12>He will glorify me.

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<v John 12>Jesus says of the Holy Spirit.

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<v John 12>He will glorify me, for He will take what is mine and declare it to you.

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<v John 12>All that the Father has in me is mine.

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<v John 12>Therefore, I said that he will take what is mine and declare it to you.

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<v John 12>The key phrase for us, and this is number three the Holy Spirit glorifies Jesus.

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<v John 12>The Holy Spirit points to Jesus, again, talking about the Trinity.

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<v John 12>There is a relationship between Jesus and the Holy Spirit and the Father that we see even in this verse.

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<v John 12>He will glorify me, takes what is mine that I got from the Father.

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<v John 12>There is this beautiful interaction between them where they're building up one another, encouraging one another, pointing others to each of them.

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<v John 12>And the Holy Spirit glorifies Christ.

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<v John 12>It's a beautiful picture that I think as a church paints a picture of what unity means for us.

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<v John 12>I'm looking to build up others around me.

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<v John 12>I'm not looking to tear them down so that I look better than them.

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<v John 12>If there is a difference between us, I move toward them, not away.

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<v John 12>I don't avoid them.

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<v John 12>I move toward them.

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<v John 12>If there's someone here that you have a big problem with or a small problem with, you move toward them.

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<v John 12>This is a radical difference between the church in the world.

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<v John 12>You know what I'm talking about.

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<v John 12>And I know where some of you work, some of your coworkers.

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<v John 12>It's all about the backbiting and it's all about, let me put you down so I can move up.

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<v John 12>I've experienced it, too.

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<v John 12>Not here.

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<v John 12>Okay.

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<v John 12>There's no comment on church staff, other places.

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<v John 12>You know what I'm saying?

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<v John 12>But when you're in a place where people move toward one another, push through conflict, love one another, build one another up, who doesn't want to be around that?

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<v John 12>That's what we all long for.

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<v John 12>And so the Holy Spirit glorifies Jesus.

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<v John 12>And then number four, the Holy Spirit guides us to truth.

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<v John 12>Look back at verse 12.

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<v John 12>I still have many things to say to you, but you cannot bear them now, which is wise.

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<v John 12>All right.

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<v John 12>We've all been in that place where that's all I can absorb.

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<v John 12>Jesus knows you're not going to get this till later.

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<v John 12>I can't tell you any more.

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<v John 12>Won't make any sense.

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<v John 12>But then verse 13, when the spirit of truth comes, he will guide you into all truth, for he will not speak on his own authority.

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<v John 12>But whatever he hears, he will speak and he will declare to you the things that are to come.

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<v John 12>The Holy Spirit guides to truth.

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<v John 12>We are called to be people of truth.

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<v John 12>Our standard of truth is up here.

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<v John 12>We move away from lies and falsehood in our lives, even though we're often tempted, even in the subtlest way, to move away from truth.

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<v John 12>But you have to start and at the beginning of this whole message today was start with reality.

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<v John 12>Start with where you are.

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<v John 12>Can't ignore truth.

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<v John 12>I wish I could remember who told me this.

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<v John 12>I know it's I'm pretty sure it's somebody here, but I can't remember who it is.

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<v John 12>But it was so funny I had to share it.

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<v John 12>One parent-- I can't remember who it is-- they said there was this day where one of their kids came into the room and just had chocolate all over their face, just everywhere, smeared and the parent was like, Johnny, have you been eating chocolate?

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<v John 12>No.

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<v John 12>Nope, not me.

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<v John 12>Are you sure?

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<v John 12>You know his hands are like, sticky.

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<v John 12>Can't hardly pull his fingers apart.

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<v John 12>Nope.

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<v John 12>Never seen chocolate, Deal with truth.

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<v John 12>Acknowledge the truth of where you are.

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<v John 12>The Holy Spirit convicts.

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<v John 12>But he also guides you to truth.

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<v John 12>He got you to a place where you're open to hear from him.

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<v John 12>You're open to hear from others.

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<v John 12>You're open for God to work in your life.

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<v John 12>This week, I got to visit with a number of friends when we were--we went back to Arkansas-- we had a number of friends there.

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<v John 12>That's where Julie was with the conference, and I was supporting her and I met with a number of different friends along the way, conversations that we had, catching up on how God has worked in our lives.

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<v John 12>And one of the guys, one of the guys I met with, he told me, John, I got to tell you, God has done some amazing things in my life in the last two years, and it all started with a conflict in their marriage.

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<v John 12>You can start to look at conflict in your marriage that way as an opportunity for God to work in your way-- in life in amazing ways.

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<v John 12>And he said, Here's what happened.

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<v John 12>My wife brought up an issue, he said, and I remember the phrase, it's seared in my brain, the exact words I used.

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<v John 12>I said to her, This problem is not my problem.

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<v John 12>It's your problem and you need to get work done.

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<v John 12>Great way to start a conflict confrontation in marriage.

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<v John 12>So she says, okay, whatever.

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<v John 12>She meets with the counselor.

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<v John 12>She says the counselor gave me this book to read.

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<v John 12>I'm going to read it.

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<v John 12>She was going away on a trip, already planned, when I come back, we'll talk through it.

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<v John 12>He says, good.

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<v John 12>Finally, you'll get fixed, right?

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<v John 12>I don't think he said that part out loud, but he was thinking it.

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<v John 12>But here's what happens.

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<v John 12>He was in this season, in fact, a few of us talked about this morning being recovering control freaks. Right.

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<v John 12>Working on that as well.

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<v John 12>He was in the season-- I better read the book before she reads it to make sure it's okay for her to read it, make sure that she is hearing the right information.

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<v John 12>He reads the book, and he said, John, I’m weeping throughout the whole book.

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<v John 12>Because I see in this book that I was the problem, not her.

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<v John 12>His heart was tender.

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<v John 12>He was open to hearing from the Holy Spirit.

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<v John 12>The problem for him was he had walked away from God and in that moment he had all the despair of realizing he was the problem, but none of the power of the Holy Spirit to work to guide Him.

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<v John 12>And so he had to turn back to Christ and watch him work.

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<v John 12>The Holy Spirit warns, He convicts, and Jesus warns them, hard times are coming, but you don't have to walk alone.

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<v John 12>The Holy Spirit is with you.

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<v John 12>The Holy Spirit will guide you.

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<v John 12>The Holy Spirit will protect you.

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<v John 12>You can lean on Him through everything.

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<v John 12>Let's pray.

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<v John 12>Jesus, we thank you for this morning.

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<v John 12>Thank you for your word.

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<v John 12>Thank you for your Holy Spirit.

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<v John 12>And we know problems come.

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<v John 12>We could go around to person after person after person and problem and challenge.

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<v John 12>And we have to be aware that those problems want to draw us away from you want to force us to turn inward, want to push us into self-reliance.

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<v John 12>Thank you for giving us the Holy Spirit that we can lean on.

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<v John 12>We don't have to depend on ourselves.

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<v John 12>I've failed myself over and over and over again.

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<v John 12>I don't want to lean on myself and yet I still choose to do so at times.

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<v John 12>Lord, help us to listen to your spirit moving in our lives today.

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<v John 12>Help us to hear from you in fresh, new ways today.

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<v John 12>In fact, right now I would ask wherever you are, just even quietly where you are, you would cry out to God and say, Lord, help me to hear your voice today.

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<v John 12>It’s what we all want.

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<v John 12>Every one of us wants that.

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<v John 12>Help me to hear from you today.

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<v John 12>Jesus, would you move? Holy Spirit would you stir?

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<v John 12>Thank you for how you are working in this church.

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<v John 12>Thank you for so many who love you. Lord, help us to love one another well so that the whole world looks at us and says, I want that.

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<v John 12>Whatever that is.

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<v John 12>I've been looking for that.

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<v John 12>I pray that kind of love and unity would just pour out all around us. This week.

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<v John 12>Thank you that we can gather freely.

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<v John 12>Thank you for so many who have sacrificed for us.

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<v John 12>We love you, Jesus.

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<v John 12>Amen.
