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We've been working through this series on building spiritual habits in our lives.

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Ten Spiritual Habits for Life is what we've called it.

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And of course, the idea behind that is what we just saw on screen.

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How do you make small changes in your life that over time, sometimes imperceptibly lead to big results eventually?

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One example I've heard shared about that is take a block of ice.

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A block of ice that's in a room that's at 29 degrees.

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And you began to raise the temperature of the room just a 10th of a degree every hour or so.

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And at first, nothing is different.

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Another hour goes by, many hours go by 30 degrees.

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No difference.

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31 no difference, 32, 33.

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Now, all of a sudden, seemingly out of nowhere, that ice begins to melt.

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Small, almost imperceptible changes over time.

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And of course, we want to apply that to the spiritual habits in our life.

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What are the things we do that help us grow spiritually over time?

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That's what we've been focused on and we've been talking through the word habit, and we're up now to the letters T and S to kind of wrap up our series today on the ten spiritual habits we want to develop in our lives.

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So today we're going to be looking at the letter T to start with, and we've been in Romans chapter 12.

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That's been our base passage as we've unpacked this, as we've pressed into this because I love having one passage to come back to over and over again.

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Hopefully even in your own personal spiritual growth, in your own quiet time, you're able to come back to this passage day in and day out afterwards and see some of these spiritual truths and habits that you want to build in your own life.

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And so today we're going to be looking at Romans chapter 12, and we're going to be in verse one, Romans chapter 12, verse one.

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We've looked at most of the rest of the other chapter, but I skipped over verse one to begin with because of what we're going to talk about today.

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And if you have a church Bible that's on page 891, if you don't have a Bible, we'd love to put one in your hands- they are free for you. They’re out in the connection corner, those page numbers on the screen tie in specifically with that Bible that we have here for you.

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So slip out any time, grab one, slip back in.

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We'll be reading from that Bible.

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ROMANS Chapter 12, verse one because of the topic.

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We're going to start by unpacking.

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First thing we're going to talk about is the letter T- treasure the savior in worship.

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That's the eighth habit you want to develop that we talk about in this list of ten treasure, the savior in worship.

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Let's look at Romans chapter 12, verse one and and read about this.

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I appeal to you, therefore, brothers, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, wholly and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship.

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All right.

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First couple of words here to address and talk about.

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The first one is just the word, therefore.

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And if you've been in church any amount of time, you may have heard this phrase you ask when you're studying the Bible, what is the therefore, there for?

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Why is it there?

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What is it pointing toward?

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Usually it's the previous verse, the previous idea, maybe the previous couple of verses.

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But it's interesting in this passage, combined with the word appeal that only shows up a few other places.

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Also in Ephesians chapter four, which is a key transition verse for the book of Ephesians here, Many believe that this therefore is pointing to the entirety of the rest of the book of Romans.

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Therefore, because of Chapters one through 11, which walks through God's sovereignty and salvation, his greatness in salvation, his greatness in overcoming our rebellion against him, his greatness in loving us.

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Therefore, because of all of that, I appeal to you.

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And what does he say? What's his appeal?

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How should we live? What does it say?

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Present your bodies as a living sacrifice.

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Now that word living is an important distinction.

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Because if you look at the history of sacrifices, that wasn't usually the case.

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We go back to the Old Testament.

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What was the role of a sacrifice?

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It was to die.

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So what's a living sacrifice?

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How is that different?

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It's an important distinction.

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We want to know that that's what we're called to do, is to live in a way that is sacrificially.

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We're giving our lives to Christ in a way that our life is not our own.

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We're living it for him as we live.

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We live in a way that honors him.

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And all of this here leads us to this treasure of the Savior in worship, this phrase he uses as a living sacrifice wholly acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship.

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We need to talk about that phrase a little bit, because those those two words are interesting to use together, and it seems a little redundant to call something spiritual worship.

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I mean, isn't that what we were doing this morning worshiping?

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Isn't all worship inherently spiritual?

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Well, yes, at one level maybe.

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But you've certainly heard some of the quotes out there about our nature.

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The nature of our hearts is that if we don't worship God, you will worship something.

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We are hardwired for worship is how I've heard it said and understanding that word worship really just the English word worship.

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You could break it down into worth ship assigning worth to something, ascribing value to something.

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And so that's kind of what we're doing here in the mornings when Andrew leads us in worship.

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That's one aspect of how we worship as we sing.

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And when we're doing that, we're ascribing worth to God.

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We're telling him how great he is over and over again in dozens of different ways.

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And and of course, we also talk about ourselves.

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We say, Here's what we need, here's what I'm feeling.

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But overarching above that is how great he is.

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Here's how great you are.

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Now, we don't do that because he needs to hear it.

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He knows.

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Who needs to hear it more than God?

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We need to hear over and over again how great he is. That's why we worship.

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That's why we cry out, God, you are the greatest.

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But our temptation is to worship other things.

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If you've read the story.

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Picture of Dorian Gray.

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It's an old novel, over 100 years old.

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Oscar Wilde wrote it.

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In that story Dorian has his portrait painted.

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Young man, attractive, well-known, well-liked, kind of aristocratic, moving in those circles, has his portrait painted, and the artist finishes, turns it around, and he sees his own portrait and he falls in love with his own portrait.

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He begins to worship his own portrait because he sees in that moment the beauty and youth that he so longs for and he recognizes I will not always be this way.

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This is a snapshot of just a moment in time, and from here on out, it's all downhill.

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And so what he does is he vows to himself, I will do whatever it takes to stay in that state, to stay just like that picture.

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I'll do whatever it takes and the story goes to some dark places and really ultimately, absolutely decays his soul.

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We're called to worship God alone.

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Other things vie for our affections, but he's the one we're called to worship above all else.

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There is nothing else we're called to worship.

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That's a daily battle.

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That's a daily struggle.

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One of the things that helps us understand what it means to worship is that word spiritual worship.

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If you look back at verse one, living sacrifice wholly acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship, that word for spiritual, there's not our normal word you would see for spiritual the word behind it in the original language.

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It's not the normal one.

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You see for spiritual in fact, it only shows up in Scripture one other place.

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And prior to this it was mainly used by philosophers in Greek history.

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Greek philosophers would use this to mean something like, That's a true argument, That's a worthy argument.

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You made a valid point, a logical point.

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In fact, where it shows up in Scripture, The other place it shows up, it says the pure milk of the word.

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<v 1 Peter 2>2 It is the pure, the spiritual, the right, the accurate, the trustworthy word.

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<v 1 Peter 2>And so when we think of our act of worship as true, as right, as pure, all of this is pointing to the reality that worship is not just the words we say or the words sing, but it's really part of who we are.

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<v 1 Peter 2>It's part of what's going on in our heart.

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<v 1 Peter 2>And ultimately it's how we live sacrificially, as it says here in this passage.

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<v 1 Peter 2>So letter T, the first habit, spiritual habit we want to develop today.

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<v 1 Peter 2>And by the way, you should have got a handout when you were coming in today.

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<v 1 Peter 2>This has all the spiritual habits we've covered and are going to cover today, plus some of the habit building tips, plus a couple of questions for you to process.

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<v 1 Peter 2>I'm going to talk about this more at the end.

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<v 1 Peter 2>But over four weeks, you may not have remembered everything we've covered. That's okay.

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<v 1 Peter 2>I might not either, but it's on here for you to refer back to.

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<v 1 Peter 2>And so the first one today that we discussed was treasure your savior in worship.

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<v 1 Peter 2>Now the next spiritual habit, actually the other two to wrap up the series that we're going to address flow from that.

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<v 1 Peter 2>If we're called to worship, if we’re called to treasure the savior in worship.

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<v 1 Peter 2>I want to talk about two things related to that.

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<v 1 Peter 2>How do we do that?

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<v 1 Peter 2>And then what does worship produce in us?

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<v 1 Peter 2>How do we worship?

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<v 1 Peter 2>What does worship produce?

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<v 1 Peter 2>So what we're going to address as we deal with the other two spiritual habits we want to develop.

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<v 1 Peter 2>So first, how do we worship?

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<v 1 Peter 2>I'm just going to talk about one aspect of worship that I think is underutilized in our age.

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<v 1 Peter 2>Yes, we gather here.

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<v 1 Peter 2>Yes, we sing.

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<v 1 Peter 2>Yes, we worship through God's word.

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<v 1 Peter 2>Yes, we worship also through giving and serving.

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<v 1 Peter 2>But I think we need to embrace safeguarding the Sabbath.

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<v How do we worship>Safeguard the Sabbath.

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<v How do we worship>That's letter S in our habits words, safeguard the Sabbath.

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<v How do we worship>Now, why is that important for worship?

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<v How do we worship>The Sabbath, interestingly enough, I read in a, John Mark Comers his name, He wrote in-- he was talking about the Sabbath and he said the Sabbath command in Scripture.

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<v How do we worship>It's longer than any of the other commands.

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<v How do we worship>You know, some of them are just three or four words, whereas this one's 130 words, long command, one of the longest it is the longest command.

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<v How do we worship>And it's interesting, this command is the only one that gives you kind of the reason why you should-- not the results, but the reason why the basis for why you should observe the Sabbath.

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<v How do we worship>And it simply says because the Lord rested.

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<v How do we worship>Now, we don't view the Sabbath as a legalistic thing, as New Testament Christians.

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<v How do we worship>It's not a legalistic thing, but to deny the need for rest based on the pattern that was set with God when he created the world in six days and rested on the seventh to ignore that.

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<v How do we worship>That's a dangerous thing.

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<v How do we worship>So it's not a legalistic thing, but it's an important thing.

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<v How do we worship>What does observing the Sabbath, safeguarding the Sabbath, keeping the Sabbath look like for you today?

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<v How do we worship>One thing's for sure if you don't make it a priority, it won't happen.

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<v How do we worship>We've got too much else screaming for time and attention.

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<v How do we worship>How do you make it a priority?

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<v How do we worship>I want to give you three things to prioritize on the Sabbath.

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<v How do we worship>Three things and this will help set the tone for how you spin the Sabbath.

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<v How do we worship>Go and put those up on the screen.

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<v How do we worship>Three things to prioritize on the Sabbath, rest, worship and relationships.

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<v How do we worship>Start by just asking the Lord, Lord, how can I prioritize rest, worship and relationships?

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<v How do we worship>Too many times after church on Sunday, we fill up the day with all the normal activities of life.

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<v How do we worship>But pick just a window of time in your life and, look-- again, not a legalistic thing.

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<v How do we worship>I don't know what your life looks like.

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<v How do we worship>I know some people have to work on Sunday. I get that.

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<v How do we worship>I don't really.

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<v How do we worship>I promise I don't look down on you for that.

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<v How do we worship>I work on Sunday.

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<v How do we worship>Okay.

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<v How do we worship>So do what you can, but carve out the time.

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<v How do we worship>What does your Sabbath look like?

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<v How do we worship>Be intentional with it.

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<v How do we worship>How can I  be more intentional to rest, to not just be driven along by all the needs and desires of the world, to say no to some things that I might normally say yes to to rest?

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<v How do we worship>How can I be intentional to worship, to turn off some things that might distract me from worship, to read things that draw me toward worship?

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<v How do we worship>How can I focus on relationships?

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<v How do we worship>By connecting with my loved ones that we've probably neglected each other throughout the week, and rightfully so.

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<v How do we worship>We have busy lives.

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<v How do we worship>We have things we have to tend to.

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<v How do we worship>How can I focus on rest, worship, relationships on the Sabbath?

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<v How do we worship>Begin to just ask him, Lord, what?

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<v How do we worship>How can I safeguard the Sabbath?

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<v How do we worship>What would you have me do?

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<v How do we worship>Just start by simply asking him and see what he says.

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<v How do we worship>You don't have to change everything all at once.

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<v How do we worship>What's just one simple change you can make to begin safeguarding, observing, keeping the Sabbath.

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<v How do we worship>I'm not going to list out a bunch of things for you to do because we really don't want to make it a legalistic thing here.

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<v How do we worship>We don't have a list of TV shows you can or can't watch or places a TV can't be, or whether you can own one or not, or what devices you can have or or can't.

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<v How do we worship>We don't.

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<v How do we worship>We don't do that.

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<v How do we worship>Now.

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<v How do we worship>I have strong feelings about what I think you could do, but it's my opinion.

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<v How do we worship>It's not a legalistic thing.

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<v How do we worship>Rest, worship, relationships, safeguard the Sabbath for worship.

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<v How do we worship>That's one of the ways we begin to keep the Sabbath.

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<v How do we worship>And actually, I heard one guy say it's an act of resistance against our culture.

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<v How do we worship>I love that phrase.

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<v How do we worship>All of the world says, Do more, be more active.

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<v How do we worship>Go, go, go, go, go.

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<v How do we worship>And everybody's burned out and anxious and tired and frustrated and disconnected from one another and disconnected from the Lord.

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<v How do we worship>Safeguard the Sabbath.

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<v How do we worship>We all need margin in life.

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<v How do we worship>Look, even at a secular level, studies have shown if you work more than about 50 hours a week, productivity goes down, errors go up.

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<v How do we worship>We're not above God's created order.

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<v How do we worship>When we served as missionaries in the South Pacific, we lived in this harbor town and it was kind of the main port city for all of the South Pacific.

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<v How do we worship>Many people would come there and there was a number of different places that would work on ships, repair, restore, So they would come park there, enjoy the island area and have their ship worked on.

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<v How do we worship>But you couldn't really see what was going on in the shipyards from the main road that passed them all.

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<v How do we worship>You just see these big buildings.

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<v How do we worship>One day we take a boat out on the trip into the harbor and we go past all these buildings on our way out of the harbor and you could just see, here's one boat up out of the water on stilts.

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<v How do we worship>Here's another up out of the water, another up out of the water, boat after boat after boat after boat, up out of the water, because, yes, they were having repairs made, but every once in a while you got to stop.

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<v How do we worship>You've got to shut that thing down and have all the barnacles cleaned off the bottom of your boat, because if not, it literally can make your boat almost useless, just the animals growing along their boat.

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<v How do we worship>And if you don't pause and stop and clean that stuff off, eventually you won't be able to go.

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<v How do we worship>And I think some of us have been there.

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<v How do we worship>I went til I couldn't go no more, but the daily, weekly activity of Sabbath will restore your Soul.

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<v How do we worship>So that's how we worship.

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<v How do we worship>One way we worship, safeguard the Sabbath.

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<v How do we worship>And then now what does worship produce in us?

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<v How do we worship>What does worship produce in us?

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<v How do we worship>For this last habit, when we think about worshiping and what it produces in us?

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<v How do we worship>The letter T, the final thing we're going to cover is trust.

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<v How do we worship>When I am worshiping God, I learn to trust His sovereignty more and more and more.

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<v How do we worship>Now, I think that plays out in two ways in this passage that we're going to look at, at the last section of the chapter versus last eight verses 14 through 21 sets up this whole idea of how worship produces trust in his sovereignty two key ways.

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<v How do we worship>In fact, the first one is it produces kindness towards our enemies.

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<v How do we worship>Look at this here in verse 14, when we're trusting in his sovereignty, it produces kindness towards our enemies, Verse 14 Bless those who persecute you, bless and do not curse them.

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<v How do we worship>Rejoice with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep,  live in harmony with one another.

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<v How do we worship>Do not be haughty, but associate with the lowly.

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<v How do we worship>Never be wise in your own sight repay no one evil for evil, but give thought to do what is honorable on the side of all.

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<v How do we worship>If possible, so far as it depends on you live peaceably with all.

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<v How do we worship>When we worship, we trust in God's sovereignty and that produces kindness towards our enemies.

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<v How do we worship>I love this opening verse.

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<v How do we worship>Bless those who persecute you, bless and do not curse them.

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<v How do we worship>You know, it's one thing to bless someone who's just difficult.

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<v How do we worship>I mean, you've probably had that angry neighbor, crotchety old neighbor who is hard to love on. By the way, not any of my neighbors.

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<v How do we worship>I'm not talking about my neighbors.

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<v How do we worship>But you know what I mean.

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<v How do we worship>You've lived in some other neighborhood where that's happened and it's hard to love on that person.

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<v How do we worship>But you figure it out.

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<v How do we worship>You maybe do go out of your way to do something for them, something small.

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<v How do we worship>But how do you bless those who aren't just difficult but are persecuting you?

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<v How do we worship>They aren't just hard to be around.

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<v How do we worship>They hate you, they hate the sight of you.

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<v How do we worship>They would never be happier than if you didn't exist.

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<v How do we worship>Bless those?

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<v How do we worship>It's sad to say, but we lived almost 20 years in Little Rock, and I never I'd heard of the story of the Little Rock Nine.

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<v How do we worship>Are you familiar with that?

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<v How do we worship>The first group of African-Americans in Little Rock who were integrated into the school system, 1957?

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<v How do we worship>I'd heard that that happened.

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<v How do we worship>I'd seen pictures.

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<v How do we worship>I've shown photos of that of white people yelling at the black one black woman as she's walking in.

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<v How do we worship>But I'd never actually read their story until this week.

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<v How do we worship>I read the book of one of the ladies who went through that and what she endured every single day as a 15 year old black girl, every single day show up to school and someone sprays ink on your clothes every day between every class, someone is behind you stepping on your heels till they bleed and someone is in front of you tripping, you stepping on your feet between every class, every day and every time you go down a stairwell, someone is pushing you, trying to get you to tumble down the stairs every time, every day, every hour, and in every class.

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<v How do we worship>Everyone is calling you lovely names.

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<v How do we worship>You can imagine many of the words that were used all through class.

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<v How do we worship>Teachers aren't standing up every day.

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<v How do we worship>The author of this book in particular said it was her family that continue to say to her, bless them, bless, bless, but you don't know what I'm going through. Bless be a peacemaker.

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<v How do we worship>And reading her story, how she became the best actor of all time in terms of being able to say thank you.

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<v How do we worship>When someone throw a golf ball at her.

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<v How do we worship>Thank you.

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<v How do we worship>I've never had a golf ball before.

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<v How do we worship>Thank you.

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<v How do we worship>As someone shoves the door on her, she can't get out. She's stuck in a room.

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<v How do we worship>Thank you.

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<v How do we worship>You've caused me to exert extra energy and thus strengthening my arms.

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<v How do we worship>I needed that today.

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<v How do we worship>Thank you.

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<v How do we worship>Who does that?

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<v How do we worship>Bless those who persecute you.

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<v How do we worship>That's the call When we worship him that rightly orders our lives.

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<v How do we worship>Bless those who persecute you.

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<v How do we worship>Here's how else this looks.

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<v How do we worship>Look at the next verse.

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<v How do we worship>Rejoice with those who rejoice.

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<v How do we worship>Weep with those who weep.

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<v How do we worship>Now, this is a hard one because how many times is it the opposite?

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<v How do we worship>Even with some of your closest friends?

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<v How do we worship>How many times?

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<v How do we worship>Well, that good friend does just a little bit better in school and you're upset about it because they're doing better than me or that other friend maybe gets the boyfriend or girlfriend that you really wanted and you really want to see him fail.

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<v How do we worship>You want to see that relationship fall apart instead of rejoicing with those who rejoice, weeping with those who weep, sharing in their joy together and weeping with their sorrow.

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<v How do we worship>And the hard part of this, the context here is even with your enemies.

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<v How do we worship>Tim Keller talks about this.

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<v How do we worship>He, I think, a helpful word to summarize this is the word envy.

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<v How do we worship>In fact, here's how he defines envy.

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<v How do we worship>Envy is being unhappy at other people's happiness.

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<v How do we worship>Someone else has joy.

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<v How do we worship>Man, how dare they be so happy?

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<v How do we worship>Why didn't I get that?

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<v How do we worship>It's also the flipside of that and being happy at other people's unhappiness.

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<v How do we worship>You ever had that moment.

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<v How do we worship>Something doesn't go well for someone and you get happy about it.

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<v How do we worship>I was driving down the road one day.

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<v How do we worship>College student, this annoying high school girl was on my tail inches from me.

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<v How do we worship>I just gave her a nice little tap, just the lights out, just enough to say, Hey, back off.

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<v How do we worship>There's a kind of Christian tone to it.

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<v How do we worship>I think just enough.

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<v How do we worship>I wasn't worried.

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<v How do we worship>I was in my dad's car.

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<v How do we worship>It was okay, right.

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<v How do we worship>The LTD we nicknamed it the Valdez because of how much oil it spilled.

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<v How do we worship>And I'm pretty sure it had an I-beam for the rear bumper.

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<v How do we worship>It was so enormous she didn't like that.

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<v How do we worship>Rushes back up on me again.

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<v How do we worship>Another little tap, just a small one.

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<v How do we worship>Just enough.

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<v How do we worship>The road opens up.

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<v How do we worship>We go from one line to two.

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<v How do we worship>She comes flying up beside me.

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<v How do we worship>By the way, if you're here today, I'm sorry.

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<v How do we worship>I apologize in advance.

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<v How do we worship>That was 30 years ago.

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<v How do we worship>Comes flying up beside me and I'm thinking, oh no, what's going to happen?

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<v How do we worship>She is looking at me, not at the stop lane, the traffic ahead of her.

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<v How do we worship>And the last thing heard was a large crunching sound as I continued on straight ahead with just a hint of a smile in that moment.

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<v How do we worship>It felt good to see that happen.

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<v How do we worship>Unfortunately, it felt so good.

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<v How do we worship>Bless those not just who annoy you.

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<v How do we worship>Bless and do not curse.

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<v How do we worship>Rejoice with those who rejoice.

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<v How do we worship>I rejoiced with those who were weeping in that moment.

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<v How do we worship>How do we rejoice?

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<v How do we worship>How do we weep with those who weep?

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<v How do we worship>That's what we want to be moving toward.

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<v How do we worship>There is so much in this section.

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<v How do we worship>We could spend forever on it.

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<v How do we worship>One word I want to highlight here is the word harmony in verse 18,16, Live in harmony with one another.

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<v How do we worship>Live in harmony with one another.

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<v How do we worship>That's such a good word.

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<v How do we worship>It sums up the meaning behind that, which means actually what it says is think the same thoughts to one another.

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<v How do we worship>Work to align your thoughts together.

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<v How do we worship>But the interesting part about harmony, it doesn't mean conformity.

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<v How do we worship>In fact, I'm going to give you an illustration of harmony.

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<v How do we worship>Just listen to this illustration of harmony.

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<v How do we worship>We're going to hear it right now.

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<v How do we worship>I've got a couple of people who are kind of outside of this room or on the edge of this room who are going to sing us a little bit of harmony. Go ahead.

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<v How do we worship>Why did you stop?

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<v How do we worship>You know, I'm kidding.

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<v How do we worship>Big breath.

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<v How do we worship>Actually, I prerecorded that.

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<v How do we worship>Those are all me. No.

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<v How do we worship>Harmony, Here's the interesting thing about harmony.

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<v How do we worship>Each person sings a different note, but it's actually more interesting.

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<v How do we worship>That is, they all sing the same note.

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<v How do we worship>But to do that, you really have to work together.

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<v How do we worship>You have to be very intentional and actually you have to celebrate that the other person is a little different from you.

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<v How do we worship>Harmony. Live in harmony with one another, move towards one another.

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<v How do we worship>Worshiping produces that kind of heart, that kind of attitude.

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<v How do we worship>Now the other thing that worship does so look here, Harmony, bless those who persecute you also notice in verse 18, if possible, so far as it depends on you live peaceably with all.

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<v How do we worship>I love that phrase if possible, because there are times where you have done all you can and it's not enough.

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<v How do we worship>That happens.

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<v How do we worship>That's okay.

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<v How do we worship>If possible move towards forgiveness.

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<v How do we worship>We're called to be forgivers.

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<v How do we worship>In fact, as Christians, we've given up the right to harbor bitterness, anger, unforgiveness.

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<v How do we worship>We don't have that privilege.

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<v How do we worship>Christ didn't hold that towards us, and we're not called to hold it towards others.

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<v How do we worship>Now, forgiveness is complex.

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<v How do we worship>It's a very complex topic.

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<v How do we worship>Forgiveness doesn't necessarily mean reconciliation.

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<v How do we worship>Forgiveness is the first step towards reconciliation.

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<v How do we worship>It doesn't guarantee reconciliation.

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<v How do we worship>You can't control what the other person does.

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<v How do we worship>And I know we have some recovering control freaks in here, don't we? Right.

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<v How do we worship>Can I see a few hands who are my recovering control freaks? Now, I know the real control freaks didn't raise their hands because that would be giving up control in the moment.

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<v How do we worship>There's plenty we can't control.

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<v How do we worship>You can't.

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<v How do we worship>If possible.

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<v How do we worship>So far as it depends on you.

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<v How do we worship>Let it be known that I went to the fullest extent of what I could.

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<v How do we worship>So worship produces in us the ability to love our enemies, to pursue our enemies.

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<v How do we worship>And then here's the other thing it produces in us dependance that God will work it all out.

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<v How do we worship>He will work it all out.

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<v How do we worship>Trust that He will work it all out.

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<v How do we worship>Look at these last few verses.

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<v How do we worship>Verse 19, beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written.

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<v How do we worship>Vengeance is mine.

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<v How do we worship>I will repay, says the Lord.

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<v How do we worship>To the contrary, If your enemy is hungry, feed him.

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<v How do we worship>If he's thirsty, give him something to drink for by so doing you will heat burning coals on his head.

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<v How do we worship>Do not become or do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.

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<v How do we worship>We know when we worship, when we grow in our trust, in worship, we know God’s going to work it all out In the end, vengeance is his.

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<v How do we worship>He knows who really needs vengeance.

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<v How do we worship>He knows who really needs his justice way better than we do.

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<v How do we worship>That's part of the reason why this is so important.

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<v How do we worship>All of this bless your enemies talk, which, depending on where you're coming from, sounds utterly insane.

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<v How do we worship>Part of the reason is you have no idea where that other person is in their walk.

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<v How do we worship>You have no idea how close or how far they are from God.

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<v How do we worship>You have no idea if tomorrow God touches them in a radical way.

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<v How do we worship>We don't know what's going on inside of them and we could take some guesses sometimes, but that's the best it is.

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<v How do we worship>There's a guess.

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<v How do we worship>There are some who appear to be very close to God who aren't, and there are some who are very far from him but are a whole lot closer than you think.

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<v How do we worship>And our role is to follow what Scripture says, bless don’t persecute, love, forgive.

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<v How do we worship>If your enemy is hungry, feed him.

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<v How do we worship>The dependence on God that he will work it all out Is part of the overflow of worship.

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<v How do we worship>So those are the last three spiritual habits.

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<v How do we worship>Now, the other thing we've done each week is to talk about habit building.

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<v How do we worship>How do you build new habits into your life?

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<v How do we worship>And I've given practical tips on how to do that.

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<v How do we worship>Some of those are just general tips you can apply to any area of life.

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<v How do we worship>But I hope in the course of this study you focus it on how do I build new spiritual habits in my life.

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<v How do we worship>That's our hope.

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<v How do we worship>How am I growing spiritually through the little things I do?

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<v How do we worship>So let me give you just a few more tips for developing new habits.

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<v Here's the first one>Focus.

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<v Here's the first one>Focus on just one to begin with.

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<v Here's the first one>If you want to develop a new habit, focus on just one.

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<v Here's the first one>Do not try to even do two at the same time.

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<v Here's the first one>You've heard the saying If you try to chase two rabbits, you catch neither.

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<v Here's the first one>And it's so true of goals or habits. So true.

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<v Here's the first one>How do I develop just one new one?

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<v Here's the first one>Focus on just one new one.

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<v Here's the first one>If you want to have a chance, just pick one.

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<v Here's the first one>I know we all want to do ten new things at once, and none of those get done or not as well as they could have.

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<v Here's the first one>So focus. Number two, take some time to track what you're trying to grow in, track the habit, measurably track it somehow.

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<v Here's the first one>That's why we have the Bible reading plan with little check boxes on it.

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<v Here's the first one>I love the feeling of checking off a box.

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<v Here's the first one>If something is done, I want to track it.

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<v Here's the first one>I want to know where am I?

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<v Here's the first one>Am I progressing or not?

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<v Here's the first one>There is a story Jerry Seinfeld told a new-- He was well known comedian for many years, actor, and he told the story of a young comedian that came to him and said, How do I get better?

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<v Here's the first one>I want to be like you.

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<v Here's the first one>I want to be on the TV shows.

00:33:00.066 --> 00:33:01.333
<v Here's the first one>I want to be the famous comedian.

00:33:01.333 --> 00:33:03.099
<v Here's the first one>How do I get better?

00:33:03.099 --> 00:33:04.532
<v Here's the first one>And he says to him, Here's what you do.

00:33:04.532 --> 00:33:08.032
<v Here's the first one>You get one of those big wall calendars that you put up on the wall monthly calendar.

00:33:08.032 --> 00:33:10.266
<v Here's the first one>You see all the days. They're huge.

00:33:10.266 --> 00:33:11.965
<v Here's the first one>Takes a big part of your wall.

00:33:11.965 --> 00:33:15.032
<v Here's the first one>You get the fattest Sharpie marker you can get.

00:33:15.032 --> 00:33:19.566
<v Here's the first one>And each day you write just one joke, write one new joke a day.

00:33:19.566 --> 00:33:20.500
<v Here's the first one>That's it.

00:33:20.500 --> 00:33:21.900
<v Here's the first one>Make sure you write that one joke.

00:33:21.900 --> 00:33:23.965
<v Here's the first one>Write it as well as you can every day.

00:33:23.965 --> 00:33:32.465
<v Here's the first one>And when you finished writing that joke, take Sharpie and put a big X on that day and then do it again the next day and do it again the next day.

00:33:32.465 --> 00:33:39.400
<v Here's the first one>And he said, and this is the phrase that has stuck with me, don't break that chain, just keep doing it.

00:33:39.400 --> 00:33:41.633
<v Here's the first one>Now, part of you goes just one joke, really.

00:33:41.633 --> 00:33:44.432
<v Here's the first one>You're going to be some world changing comedian through that.

00:33:44.432 --> 00:33:47.400
<v Here's the first one>Well, at the end of the year, you have 365 jokes.

00:33:47.400 --> 00:33:48.865
<v Here's the first one>That's a full set.

00:33:48.865 --> 00:33:51.599
<v Here's the first one>And they’re quality, you've developed them.

00:33:51.599 --> 00:33:52.833
<v Here's the first one>Don't break the chain.

00:33:52.833 --> 00:33:53.766
<v Here's the first one>Track it.

00:33:53.766 --> 00:33:55.133
<v Here's the first one>There's a new habit you want to build.

00:33:55.133 --> 00:33:55.965
<v Here's the first one>Track it.

00:33:55.965 --> 00:33:58.232
<v Here's the first one>Am I actually doing it or do I think I'm doing it?

00:33:58.232 --> 00:33:58.865
<v Here's the first one>We've all been there.

00:33:58.865 --> 00:34:00.099
<v Here's the first one>You know what I'm talking about.

00:34:00.099 --> 00:34:00.465
<v Here's the first one>All right.

00:34:00.465 --> 00:34:02.532
<v Here's the first one>Number three, this aligns with that.

00:34:02.532 --> 00:34:07.865
<v Here's the first one>Assess your time in the midst of tracking the habits.

00:34:07.865 --> 00:34:09.900
<v Here's the first one>Assess your time.

00:34:09.965 --> 00:34:11.965
<v Here's the first one>Who are my Dave Ramsey fans in the room?

00:34:11.965 --> 00:34:14.199
<v Here's the first one>Many of you heard Dave Ramsey, Financial Peace University.

00:34:14.199 --> 00:34:16.099
<v Here's the first one>You read his stuff or listen to his radio show.

00:34:16.099 --> 00:34:18.300
<v Here's the first one>Yeah, I see a bunch of hands out here.

00:34:18.300 --> 00:34:27.000
<v Here's the first one>One of the quotes I love by him is he says, It's easy to be irresponsible when you don't know where you stand.

00:34:27.065 --> 00:34:27.800
<v Here's the first one>How true is that?

00:34:27.800 --> 00:34:36.365
<v Here's the first one>You're going to spend freely when you don't know if I should or not, or maybe eat freely when I don't know quite where I stand.

00:34:36.365 --> 00:34:39.199
<v Here's the first one>That applies to a lot of areas of life.

00:34:39.199 --> 00:34:43.565
<v Here's the first one>And how many times have we said, I just don't have time for that?

00:34:43.766 --> 00:34:48.333
<v Here's the first one>But if you actually take the time to assess your time, you'll find you have probably a lot more than you thought.

00:34:48.333 --> 00:34:51.666
<v Here's the first one>One writer-- throw that book cover on the screen-- this is a great book.

00:34:51.666 --> 00:34:55.432
<v Here's the first one>If you're struggling with Sabbath in particular, this book, it might be hard to read.

00:34:55.432 --> 00:34:56.000
<v Here's the first one>No you can read it.

00:34:56.000 --> 00:35:00.132
<v Here's the first one>The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry It's a great book.

00:35:00.132 --> 00:35:03.099
<v Here's the first one>So many tips in there written by a pastor.

00:35:03.099 --> 00:35:05.733
<v Here's the first one>It's heavily focused on spiritual life.

00:35:05.733 --> 00:35:07.965
<v Here's the first one>How do I ruthlessly eliminate hurry from my life?

00:35:07.965 --> 00:35:11.199
<v Here's the first one>But he talks about this in terms of measuring time.

00:35:11.266 --> 00:35:14.132
<v Here's the first one>Now, bear with me at first, this is going to seem a little overwhelming.

00:35:14.132 --> 00:35:16.132
<v Here's the first one>Bear with me, you'll see the point.

00:35:16.132 --> 00:35:21.000
<v Here's the first one>The average American reads 200 to 400 words per minute.

00:35:21.199 --> 00:35:35.099
<v Here's the first one>Those are kind of the average reading times at that speed, we could all read 200 books a year, nearly twice what he normally reads a year, and just 417 hours, which is just over an hour a day.

00:35:35.099 --> 00:35:37.733
<v Here's the first one>Now, again, that feels overwhelming.

00:35:37.733 --> 00:35:38.599
<v Here's the first one>Read an hour a day.

00:35:38.599 --> 00:35:40.000
<v Here's the first one>You got to be kidding me.

00:35:40.000 --> 00:35:41.333
<v Here's the first one>Are you kidding me?

00:35:41.333 --> 00:35:42.500
<v Here's the first one>I don't read a minute a day.

00:35:42.500 --> 00:35:44.900
<v Here's the first one>How am I going to find an hour a day to read?

00:35:44.900 --> 00:35:46.865
<v Here's the first one>Hang on.

00:35:46.865 --> 00:35:52.199
<v Here's the first one>Can you guess how much time the average American spends on social media each year?

00:35:52.199 --> 00:35:56.565
<v Here's the first one>The number is 705 hours.

00:35:56.632 --> 00:36:01.833
<v Here's the first one>That's got to be way low an hour a day, a little over hour and a half hour.

00:36:01.833 --> 00:36:03.632
<v Here's the first one>You do the math.

00:36:03.632 --> 00:36:06.465
<v Here's the first one>What about TV?

00:36:06.465 --> 00:36:13.233
<v Here's the first one>2,737.5 hours a year on average.

00:36:13.300 --> 00:36:14.099
<v Here's the first one>You see the point?

00:36:14.099 --> 00:36:16.766
<v Here's the first one>I don't need to give you a guilt trip on how you spend TV, social media.

00:36:16.766 --> 00:36:18.833
<v Here's the first one>You see the point.

00:36:18.833 --> 00:36:25.000
<v Here's the first one>Most of us allow, myself included, allow our time to be overtaken by other things.

00:36:25.000 --> 00:36:26.333
<v Here's the first one>How do we measure it accurately?

00:36:26.333 --> 00:36:30.965
<v Here's the first one>How do we put things in place to help us regain that time, not be led along by others?

00:36:30.965 --> 00:36:31.865
<v Here's the first one>Okay, that's number three.

00:36:31.865 --> 00:36:33.400
<v Here's the first one>Number four, I love this one.

00:36:33.400 --> 00:36:36.666
<v Here's the first one>A friend of mine, I saw him use this, point and state.

00:36:36.666 --> 00:36:40.465
<v Here's the first one>My friend Joey in the South Pacific, trying to lose weight.

00:36:40.465 --> 00:36:41.632
<v Here's the first one>He was on a good journey.

00:36:41.632 --> 00:36:42.699
<v Here's the first one>Trying to lose 100 lbs.

00:36:42.699 --> 00:36:43.599
<v Here's the first one>He had lost about 50.

00:36:43.599 --> 00:36:45.065
<v Here's the first one>Still heading in the right direction.

00:36:45.065 --> 00:36:49.865
<v Here's the first one>And we were at this banquet and they loved to have these big banquets in Fiji.

00:36:49.865 --> 00:36:56.500
<v Here's the first one>And he walks in and he sees this platter of all kinds of things he shouldn't be eating.

00:36:56.565 --> 00:37:00.365
<v Here's the first one>And he walks right up to him and he goes, I see that cream bun, I see it.

00:37:00.365 --> 00:37:03.833
<v Here's the first one>They're tempting me, but I'm not going to eat that cream bun.

00:37:03.833 --> 00:37:08.132
<v Here's the first one>I'm going to look at it, enjoy looking at it, and I'm going to walk out of the room.

00:37:08.132 --> 00:37:10.400
<v Here's the first one>That's what he did.

00:37:10.400 --> 00:37:11.333
<v Here's the first one>Point and state.

00:37:11.333 --> 00:37:13.865
<v Here's the first one>How many times do you just need to say it out loud?

00:37:13.865 --> 00:37:15.666
<v Here's the first one>I know this is and you can do it the opposite.

00:37:15.666 --> 00:37:17.465
<v Here's the first one>This is a thing I'm going to do.

00:37:17.465 --> 00:37:19.365
<v Here's the first one>I know I need to do it.

00:37:19.365 --> 00:37:20.766
<v Here's the first one>Everybody listen.

00:37:20.766 --> 00:37:21.766
<v Here's the first one>I'm doing it.

00:37:21.766 --> 00:37:24.400
<v Here's the first one>Point and state.

00:37:24.400 --> 00:37:29.300
<v Here's the first one>Lastly, and it's here at the bottom of the page number 19 tips for developing new habits.

00:37:29.300 --> 00:37:32.266
<v Here's the first one>Do what you can and rest in that.

00:37:32.266 --> 00:37:42.599
<v Here's the first one>Any time the temptation, the challenge of talking about habits as a church is that you can end up feeling like if I don't change my whole life, I'm worthless.

00:37:42.599 --> 00:37:46.666
<v Here's the first one>No, look, do what you can and rest in that.

00:37:46.733 --> 00:37:48.666
<v Here's the first one>I had a person share with me this week.

00:37:48.666 --> 00:37:54.565
<v Here's the first one>Okay, I have been wanting to get back into working out, so I downloaded this workout app and I did the first workout.

00:37:54.565 --> 00:37:56.266
<v Here's the first one>It was 13 minutes.

00:37:56.266 --> 00:37:58.000
<v Here's the first one>Now I can't walk.

00:37:58.000 --> 00:38:01.266
<v Here's the first one>(Ha Ha.) 13 minutes.

00:38:01.266 --> 00:38:03.199
<v Here's the first one>I thought that wouldn't be any big deal.

00:38:03.199 --> 00:38:04.833
<v Here's the first one>It's like, Hey, you did something.

00:38:04.833 --> 00:38:11.766
<v Here's the first one>Do what you can, do what you can and rest in that The enemy wants to overwhelm me with guilt for not doing enough.

00:38:11.766 --> 00:38:14.965
<v Here's the first one>That's a great strategy of his. Do what you can.

00:38:14.965 --> 00:38:18.766
<v Here's the first one>Rest in that, when you fail, move forward.

00:38:18.833 --> 00:38:20.632
<v Here's the first one>Now, here's what I want to do as a church.

00:38:20.632 --> 00:38:22.932
<v Here's the first one>I want to do something we haven't really done before.

00:38:22.932 --> 00:38:24.099
<v Here's the first one>Since I've been here.

00:38:24.099 --> 00:38:31.132
<v Here's the first one>I want to do just a little bit of open sharing and that's why I put this in your hands, because again, we don't remember everything we've covered.

00:38:31.132 --> 00:38:46.800
<v Here's the first one>But what I want to hear from you is if over the course of this study you feel like God has put on your heart a spiritual discipline, you want to develop-- I’d like to stay focused on spiritual disciplines, if we can. A spiritual discipline you want to develop one of these on this list or could be another that I didn't cover.

00:38:46.800 --> 00:38:52.266
<v Here's the first one>And then if  there's also a method or a means that you want to share toward that end.

00:38:52.333 --> 00:38:55.532
<v Here's the first one>But here's the catch.

00:38:55.599 --> 00:38:57.865
<v Here's the first one>We've already heard one sermon, right?

00:38:57.865 --> 00:39:07.865
<v Here's the first one>And I've got people coming around with microphones and just basically read out your answer to these two questions at the bottom what is one spiritual habit I want to build in 2024?

00:39:07.865 --> 00:39:10.932
<v Here's the first one>I'm going to give you just a minute or two to answer these questions on your own.

00:39:10.932 --> 00:39:13.032
<v Here's the first one>What's one spiritual habit I want to build?

00:39:13.032 --> 00:39:16.865
<v Here's the first one>What is one thing I can do this week?

00:39:16.932 --> 00:39:21.733
<v Here's the first one>Something you can do this week to begin building that spiritual habit?

00:39:21.733 --> 00:39:21.965
<v Here's the first one>All right.

00:39:21.965 --> 00:39:24.800
<v Here's the first one>Take a minute and jot some down and then we're going to share.

00:39:24.800 --> 00:39:47.199
<v Here's the first one>I want to hear from some of you what God has put on your heart.

00:39:47.266 --> 00:39:47.965
<v Here's the first one>Okay.

00:39:47.965 --> 00:39:50.532
<v Here's the first one>Who's got one to share?

00:39:50.532 --> 00:39:52.300
<v Here's the first one>We got guys with mikes roaming around.

00:39:52.300 --> 00:39:54.199
<v Here's the first one>They're going to hang onto the mikes.

00:39:54.199 --> 00:39:56.199
<v Here's the first one>They're not going to give it over to you.

00:39:56.199 --> 00:40:00.800
<v Here's the first one>Okay Keeping control, control freak coming out who's got one to share?

00:40:00.800 --> 00:40:01.965
<v Here's the first one>Come on, somebody.

00:40:01.965 --> 00:40:03.365
<v Here's the first one>I know you talkers. Here we go.

00:40:03.365 --> 00:40:05.000
<v Here's the first one>Now I see some hands are shooting up.

00:40:05.000 --> 00:40:06.266
<v Here's the first one>Who can get up here?

00:40:06.266 --> 00:40:07.099
<v Here's the first one>Here comes Jim.

00:40:07.099 --> 00:40:08.400
<v Here's the first one>Thank you.

00:40:08.400 --> 00:40:10.599
<v Here's the first one>To save the day, we had another one back there.

00:40:10.599 --> 00:40:13.166
<v Here's the first one>If another mike wants to be headed over that direction.

00:40:13.166 --> 00:40:13.565
<v Here's the first one>Oh, sorry.

00:40:13.565 --> 00:40:15.432
<v Here's the first one>Also, there's probably five people raising their hands up there.

00:40:15.432 --> 00:40:16.666
<v Here's the first one>We got a mike upstairs.

00:40:16.666 --> 00:40:20.733
<v Here's the first one>Read the Bible more and worship more.

00:40:20.800 --> 00:40:22.565
<v Here's the first one>Read the Bible more and worship more.

00:40:22.565 --> 00:40:24.300
<v Here's the first one>Who else put that down out there?

00:40:24.300 --> 00:40:27.300
<v Here's the first one>I'm not going make you talk just who else relates to that?

00:40:27.300 --> 00:40:29.199
<v Here's the first one>Yeah, there's a few more.

00:40:29.199 --> 00:40:30.565
<v Here's the first one>Okay. Who who was next?

00:40:30.565 --> 00:40:32.400
<v Here's the first one>There was someone over this way.

00:40:32.400 --> 00:40:36.500
<v Here's the first one>We got Christy over here.

00:40:36.599 --> 00:40:40.833
<v Here's the first one>If you see a hand raised in the balcony, Nick, just move toward him.

00:40:40.833 --> 00:40:42.233
<v Here's the first one>Okay? Go ahead, Kathy.

00:40:42.233 --> 00:40:45.733
<v Here's the first one>Invite a Christ into every situation that I face.

00:40:45.733 --> 00:40:49.099
<v Here's the first one>And I started doing that about a month ago.

00:40:49.099 --> 00:40:49.833
<v Here's the first one>Say that again?

00:40:49.833 --> 00:40:51.500
<v Here's the first one>I didn't hear it up here. I'm sorry.

00:40:51.500 --> 00:40:55.500
<v Here's the first one>Invite Christ into every situation.

00:40:55.565 --> 00:40:58.900
<v Here's the first one>And I started doing that about a month ago.

00:40:58.900 --> 00:40:59.532
<v Here's the first one>Awesome.

00:40:59.532 --> 00:41:00.965
<v Here's the first one>Invite Christ in every situation.

00:41:00.965 --> 00:41:02.000
<v Here's the first one>That's good.

00:41:02.000 --> 00:41:03.266
<v Here's the first one>Okay, go ahead, Christy.

00:41:03.266 --> 00:41:07.266
<v Here's the first one>I want to be listening more to God.

00:41:07.266 --> 00:41:11.032
<v Here's the first one>And I'm just going to spend time sitting in his presence.

00:41:11.032 --> 00:41:12.565
<v Here's the first one>Good. Presence.

00:41:12.565 --> 00:41:14.599
<v Here's the first one>Yeah. That's an important one.

00:41:14.599 --> 00:41:16.932
<v Here's the first one>I've been focused on this year, just sitting in his presence.

00:41:16.932 --> 00:41:18.065
<v Here's the first one>Go ahead, Nick.

00:41:18.065 --> 00:41:20.865
<v Here's the first one>I wish to serve more. Serve.

00:41:20.865 --> 00:41:23.900
<v Here's the first one>Finding places to serve more in the coming year. Good.

00:41:23.900 --> 00:41:26.132
<v Here's the first one>And I'm not. You don't have to.

00:41:26.132 --> 00:41:30.300
<v Here's the first one>But if you can say one specific action towards that you plan to take this week, that'd be great.

00:41:30.300 --> 00:41:35.000
<v Here's the first one>Josh, are you over here with anyone back there?

00:41:35.000 --> 00:41:36.000
<v Here's the first one>Okay. we got one here.

00:41:36.000 --> 00:41:37.333
<v Here's the first one>Go ahead, Michelle.

00:41:37.333 --> 00:41:40.333
<v Here's the first one>I want to start reading my Bible more.

00:41:40.565 --> 00:41:43.500
<v Here's the first one>Good. And talking with God.

00:41:43.500 --> 00:41:45.965
<v Here's the first one>All right, Josh who do we have back here?

00:41:45.965 --> 00:41:49.432
<v Here's the first one>I want to spend more time in prayer with my kids.

00:41:49.432 --> 00:41:52.632
<v Here's the first one>And we have been doing some Bible studies at home.

00:41:52.632 --> 00:41:55.266
<v Here's the first one>And I think we'll continue that.

00:41:55.266 --> 00:41:56.000
<v Here's the first one>That’s good.

00:41:56.000 --> 00:41:58.132
<v Here's the first one>More time in prayer with my kids.

00:41:58.132 --> 00:41:59.065
<v Here's the first one>Who else would say that?

00:41:59.065 --> 00:42:02.266
<v Here's the first one>Yeah, that's what I need that in our home, too.

00:42:02.266 --> 00:42:03.599
<v Here's the first one>Yeah.

00:42:03.599 --> 00:42:04.500
<v Here's the first one>Let's just take a few more.

00:42:04.500 --> 00:42:05.500
<v Here's the first one>Anybody else upstairs?

00:42:05.500 --> 00:42:05.965
<v Here's the first one>Here we go.

00:42:05.965 --> 00:42:12.000
<v Here's the first one>Go ahead.

00:42:12.065 --> 00:42:14.132
<v Here's the first one>I want more time in prayer.

00:42:14.132 --> 00:42:22.965
<v Here's the first one>And I have just been did a few moments are like 5 to 10 minutes in quiet time before God.

00:42:23.065 --> 00:42:28.032
<v Here's the first one>Okay, more time in prayer and 10 minutes in quiet time before God.

00:42:28.032 --> 00:42:30.865
<v Here's the first one>That's good. Okay, who do we have down here?

00:42:30.965 --> 00:42:39.932
<v Here's the first one>I started prayer journaling, and I'm not really a good writer, but I started writing about things that I didn't even know I needed to pray about.

00:42:39.932 --> 00:42:41.233
<v Here's the first one>That's good, Prayer journaling.

00:42:41.233 --> 00:42:42.333
<v Here's the first one>That's so powerful.

00:42:42.333 --> 00:42:45.699
<v Here's the first one>Who else here likes to journal to write down your prayers and thoughts?

00:42:45.699 --> 00:42:48.333
<v Here's the first one>Yeah, man, I find that so helpful.

00:42:48.333 --> 00:42:52.365
<v Here's the first one>It just slows you down, gets you focused on the Lord.

00:42:52.365 --> 00:42:54.932
<v Here's the first one>That's good.

00:42:54.932 --> 00:42:57.065
<v Here's the first one>All right, well, listen, not.

00:42:57.065 --> 00:42:58.233
<v Here's the first one>Excuse me. I got one more.

00:42:58.233 --> 00:43:00.300
<v Here's the first one>No, no, no. We're done Ray.

00:43:00.300 --> 00:43:02.632
<v Here's the first one>Not. I'm kidding. Go ahead.

00:43:02.632 --> 00:43:04.565
<v Here's the first one>I've got the face for radio and a gift for gab.

00:43:04.565 --> 00:43:08.599
<v Here's the first one>I'm sorry. I'm being more open as a Christian.

00:43:08.599 --> 00:43:17.400
<v Here's the first one>When you meet people, you know, I find even in my job, I can talk with someone and I can tell by their actions that they're a Christian.

00:43:17.400 --> 00:43:29.900
<v Here's the first one>And walking with them in conversation and not being afraid to ask and sometimes just saying and opening that door leads to so many conversations.

00:43:29.900 --> 00:43:32.199
<v Here's the first one>I mean, you can stand right there and pray with somebody.

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<v Here's the first one>You can hear their hurts, you can hear their pain, and I hear so many Christian people say that I'm so afraid of opening that conversation.

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<v Here's the first one>And I know in today's society that's wrong.

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<v Here's the first one>God wants you to express him and show people that the world is not the place to be.

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<v Here's the first one>It's to be in Jesus Christ, your Lord and savior.

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<v Here's the first one>Yeah. Thank you Ray. That's good.

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<v Here's the first one>All right, well, listen, it's been a good service.

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<v Here's the first one>Let's wrap up in prayer. I have a
