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You know what a great song to take us into a new year.

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Here we are, post-Christmas, just before the new year, and I think most people, when they're looking forward to the new year, are wanting to see God do some new things in their life, to see him provide in some new ways.

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It may be financially, maybe you're hoping that in the coming year, you'll see some breakthroughs in your finances, or maybe be able to put aside some debt that's been lingering, or oftentimes some of the big ones are.

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I hope to shed a few pounds this coming year., or focus on my health.

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We have some hopes and dreams for the coming year, and I hope they're always rooted in my God will provide.

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He's where I'm looking to for provision.

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In fact, as I thought about today's message, I thought, what if, as we're dreaming for things of the new year, as we're dreaming of our our hopes and what we want to see God do in our lives, what if for every one of us in this room, for every person, our greatest dream, our greatest hope, our greatest desire was to see God work in our lives with an increased intimacy with him, a depth of relationship with Christ like we've never had before.

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For that to be our greatest hope, our greatest longing, our greatest desire more than any financial goals, more than any fitness goals, more than any of that.

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And those are great. I have those too.

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But for my relationship, my growth with Christ to be the thing I'm longing for in the coming year more than anything else.

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Imagine if that were the case here.

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If every one of us were overwhelmed with that longing more than anything else, what could happen in this church, in our community, in our lives?

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I think that's what we all really want.

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That's why you're here.

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If you didn't want that, you'd be at home watching Friends reruns, sitting on the couch, just chilling, wondering what's going on with my life.

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There's times maybe you need to do that.

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I get that, but you're here because that's what you want.

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I want to know Christ more than ever before.

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That's what I'm longing for, isn't it?

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Isn't that true?

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Amen. Really?

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Is that what you want?

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That's what I want.

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That's what I want more than anything else.

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Now, as I say, that that's not easy to say, because I know what that means.

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It's exciting to say, and it's a little scary to say, because I know that requires living a little differently, making some different decisions.

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I know that will require maybe Christ making some changes in my life that maybe I'm kind of comfortable with.

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I kind of like how things are.

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I don't really want to change that, you know what I mean?

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It's exciting and it's scary at the same time.

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But listen, there's no other way to live than to live with that kind of excitement, that kind of joy, that kind of forward looking hope.

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That's my prayer for Valley View going forward.

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In fact, when I came here three years now, three years ago, and I thought about Valley View and I thought about how much it meant to me growing up here.

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I can't tell you how much Valley View has meant to me, the way that this church poured into me as a kid, as a kid, the way I could look around the room and see some of the folks who intentionally invested in me and all that God did in my life as a result of that.

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You know, I want that for every person who walks in here to experience the fullness of all that God can do in your life.

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And I want Valley View to be a key part of that.

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I mean, if you're here, my hope is that you go.

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My life is different because of Valley View in a good way, by the way, my hope is that everyone would be able to say that God has moved in my life.

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And I look at this person, I look at that person.

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He's used them to invest deeply in me.

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I mean, imagine if that's what this next year were about.

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When I first came, I sat and I thought, okay, what would that look like for that to be the case, for that to happen, what needs to be true at Valley View?

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And I came up with this three level or three layer vision for every member of Valley View.

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If all that were true, if God was working in our lives, if we were growing incredibly, if he were at work in my life, what would that look like for every member?

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And I'm going to walk through that today.

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I think that will set us up for this coming year.

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There's this three part definition.

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We're going to walk through it.

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I'm just going to read the whole thing to start with, and then we'll break it down piece by piece.

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But if you are flourishing as a member of Valley View, here's what I hope will be true.

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Because of how Valley View Christ has worked in your life through Valley View. Here it is.

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This should be up on the screen.

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My prayer for every member of Valley View is that they would be first a fully devoted follower of Jesus Christ.

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And I'm not going to read off the references right now.

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I'm going to unpack those when we get to each of these.

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A fully devoted follower of Jesus Christ who is flourishing and growing spiritually, personally and emotionally.

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And then number three, they are passionate about serving others and proclaiming Jesus.

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When I thought about someone who is experiencing the fullness of all our church has to offer, I felt like those things should be true of us.

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Now, of course, we'll have our ups and downs.

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None of us are going to be perfect Christians.

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We say all the time, just come as you are.

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We don't expect perfection.

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We just hope that you are coming and growing and seeking to grow.

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This isn't a place where we want people to be perfect, but we do also hope to be growing and attaining and growing in our relationship with Christ and moving forward.

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And when I think about each of us, my hope is that each of those statements would be true of us over time, eventually, year by year, growing in the truth of those.

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So let's talk about each of those.

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That first one was a fully devoted follower of Jesus Christ.

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I spent the first few sermons

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<v I did here walking through Luke 9>23 that unpacks a bit of this idea of what it means to follow Christ.

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<v I did here walking through Luke 9>If anyone wishes to come after me, he says, let him deny himself, take up his cross daily, and follow me.

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<v I did here walking through Luke 9>And if we are going to fully experience devotion to Christ, that means that we need to say no to ourselves.

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<v I did here walking through Luke 9>That means that we need to die to self daily.

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<v I did here walking through Luke 9>We need to submit to Christ and what he has for us.

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<v I did here walking through Luke 9>And my hope for everyone here is that Christ is not just something I've tacked on the side of my life that I lean on when I need to in the hard times, but that Christ is at the center of everything.

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<v I did here walking through Luke 9>Every aspect of my life is shaped by him.

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<v I did here walking through Luke 9>In fact, my life, everything about it is different and new and greater and better because he is at the core of my life, fully devoted, follower of Christ.

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<v I did here walking through Luke 9>So that's the first layer.

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<v I did here walking through Luke 9>But the second, we'll see.

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<v I did here walking through Luke 9>Second is that you should be.

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<v I did here walking through Luke 9>And my hope is that everyone would be flourishing and growing spiritually, personally and emotionally.

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<v I did here walking through Luke 9>And each of those words- and that sentence are very intentional- flourishing,

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<v John 10>10 is listed there.

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<v John 10>That's where Jesus says, I have come that they may have life, and life abundantly.

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<v John 10>And you all know what this is like.

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<v John 10>There's regular, everyday life.

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<v John 10>I'm just surviving.

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<v John 10>I'm just making it, yada yada.

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<v John 10>Everything's going along as normal.

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<v John 10>But then there is abundant life where you feel like I am alive.

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<v John 10>I am most alive in this moment.

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<v John 10>That's what Jesus wants for you day by day, moment by moment is the abundant life in him where you're flourishing, in him where every day you can't imagine that you could get any closer to him.

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<v John 10>And yet you do.

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<v John 10>I don't know why this is, but it seems like in a lot of churches and a lot of Christian circles, people often have a quick spurt of growth as a young Christian and then just kind of hit cruise control.

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<v John 10>But growth should continue year by year, day by day, over and over again.

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<v John 10>And it should continue and grow and flourish.

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<v John 10>Now there were three words in particular there I added to be very intentional.

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<v John 10>And by the way, let me pause here and say growth and flourishing.

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<v John 10>I want to be careful not to say then.

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<v John 10>Therefore you should, for instance, always be happy.

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<v John 10>Look, we all hit hard seasons.

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<v John 10>We all have seasons where you go, I don't know how this day is going to go.

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<v John 10>I'm not enjoying this day.

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<v John 10>And yet, I promise you God can still be working in your life.

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<v John 10>You can still be growing and flourishing through the midst of that.

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<v John 10>But it doesn't mean we always put on the fake happy face.

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<v John 10>There are times where we go, yeah, no, actually, I'm not doing very well.

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<v John 10>And that's okay to say that's a part of growth.

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<v John 10>Acknowledging that, not ignoring that.

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<v John 10>But there's three words in there.

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<v John 10>We chose very particular growing spiritually, personally and emotionally.

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<v John 10>All three are very important.

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<v John 10>Of course we want you growing spiritually.

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<v John 10>That's what the church is primarily about.

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<v John 10>I hope that you are growing, and your understanding of what it means to follow Christ, that you're growing in holiness, that you feel him working in your life.

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<v John 10>And you're saying no to the things of the past and yes to the things of him that you're growing in your understanding of God's Word.

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<v John 10>I mean, that's the central part of what we do as a church is we try to teach God's Word faithfully.

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<v John 10>We want you in God's Word reading it.

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<v John 10>In fact, each year we go through a Bible reading plan together.

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<v John 10>And you might have seen in the lobby if you were looking, because now's the time to start into our Bible reading plan for this year.

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<v John 10>We have copies out in the lobby.

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<v John 10>We rotate through three different plans and now it's time.

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<v John 10>I know some of you have been a little nervous.

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<v John 10>You knew it was coming back around.

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<v John 10>We're going to read through the whole Bible again this year.

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<v John 10>And if that's too much, look, do what you can, all right?

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<v John 10>It's better to have a little Bible than no Bible.

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<v John 10>Do what you can.

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<v John 10>Read a day, read a little bit, read a verse, read something, pick up this plan, look at it.

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<v John 10>If it seems too intimidating, decide you know what I can do every other day, or I can do one day a week, or I can spread one day.

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<v John 10>Just be in God's word.

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<v John 10>That's what we want for you more than anything, just about other than knowing Christ, loving him personally, being in His Word is one of the most powerful ways you can grow as a Christian. In fact, if you are a Christian, there should be a hunger for God's Word within you.

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<v John 10>There should be a hunger to know His Word.

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<v John 10>I remember when Julie and I first married, we went.

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<v John 10>Sometimes we'd go and visit her church.

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<v John 10>We had some folks there who were partnered in ministry with us, and I remember meeting this guy there early on.

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<v John 10>And he he was a young guy, newly married, and we were in marriage ministry.

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<v John 10>So we were talking some about that.

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<v John 10>And as we were getting to know each other, he just asked me, hey, John, what what what are you into?

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<v John 10>What are some of your hobbies?

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<v John 10>And I said, I just have one hobby that's reading.

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<v John 10>And he said, that's weird, but okay.

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<v John 10>It's weird because I've never read a full book in my life.

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<v John 10>And I loved hearing some of the groans there. That was nice.

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<v John 10>And I said, really?

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<v John 10>How is that possible?

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<v John 10>I know you went to college.

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<v John 10>You graduated college.

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<v John 10>You played basketball in college.

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<v John 10>How did you get through college without reading a single book?

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<v John 10>And he said it.

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<v John 10>It was hard, but I did it, I made it, I persevered.

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<v John 10>He had, like, this personal commitment to actually get through college without reading a book.

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<v John 10>And so I thought, okay, you know, whatever.

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<v John 10>I can't really relate to that.

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<v John 10>But we went our separate ways that day and I thought, I need to be praying for this guy. You know, like we come back around a year later and we had talked, we had dialogued, I had given him some resources and he could not get enough.

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<v John 10>Something had switched in him and books that would have been doorstops before he was. Now give me more.

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<v John 10>Now, look, you don't have to be a big reader to be a Christian, all right?

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<v John 10>I'm not saying that, but there should be a hunger for for learning about the Bible, knowing the Bible, studying the Bible.

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<v John 10>If there's none of that there, if you go, I can't really find the strength to even open the Bible.

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<v John 10>I spent some time praying, God, would you stir up in me a hunger for your word?

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<v John 10>I want your word hidden in my heart.

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<v John 10>It's His Word that he will bring to mind when you need His Spirit moving in your life.

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<v John 10>But we've got to invest His Word into our lives, and that's a key part of growing spiritually as a church.

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<v John 10>That that's my hope, is that each of us are growing spiritually.

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<v John 10>Of course, now the other two words added very intentionally, because if you're growing spiritually, I also hope you're growing personally.

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<v John 10>Meaning if that if Christ is in your work, if Christ is at work in your life growing you closer to him, then I should also be growing as an employee.

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<v John 10>I should be becoming a better employee.

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<v John 10>I should be someone who is better at serving others around me.

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<v John 10>If I'm a boss, I should be becoming better at leading the people who serve under me that they can say because he, he or she is my boss, I've become a better person.

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<v John 10>I should be growing as a spouse.

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<v John 10>My spouse should be able to say God is at work in their life.

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<v John 10>They're becoming more tender and kind and loving and caring and listening.

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<v John 10>I should be grow as a child.

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<v John 10>Everybody here has parents and I, if they are still alive, I should be growing in my ability to interact with them, to love them, to serve them.

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<v John 10>I should be growing as a student.

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<v John 10>I should be growing as a neighbor.

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<v John 10>My neighbor should say, that's someone.

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<v John 10>I don't know what all is going in their life.

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<v John 10>That's someone who I'm glad they live here.

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<v John 10>When we were moving away from little Rock to move here, our neighbors threw a going away party and in fact, one of my neighbors, Leo, the neighborhood mayor, presented us with a trophy as the best neighbor.

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<v John 10>I say us actually go ahead and put the image of that trophy on the screen.

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<v John 10>It was only to Julie Julie Majors, world's best neighbor.

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<v John 10>I was like, Leo, I'm right here.

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<v John 10>Like, where's my trophies?  He’s like John, you know why you didn't get a trophy.

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<v John 10>Leo, the neighborhood mayor.

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<v John 10>There's something about us.

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<v John 10>If I'm growing in Christ, I should be growing as a neighbor.

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<v John 10>I should be growing personally.

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<v John 10>I should be growing.

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<v John 10>Here's the phrase I love.

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<v John 10>I should be growing as a life giver.

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<v John 10>When people are around me, I should be giving life again.

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<v John 10>Not a fake happy thing where I've always got to be perfect.

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<v John 10>But in general, I should be a life giver, not a taker.

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<v John 10>This world is full of takers.

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<v John 10>People just want to take, take, take.

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<v John 10>And even if you don't have much means, you can still be giving life to people.

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<v John 10>So there's personally, I should be growing spiritually.

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<v John 10>I should be growing personally.

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<v John 10>And this word I'm especially burdened for.

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<v John 10>I should be growing emotionally.

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<v John 10>You.

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<v John 10>You've seen this in churches.

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<v John 10>Churches that give a heavy emphasis to learning, growing in theology, growing in Scripture.

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<v John 10>And I hope our church has a heavy emphasis on that.

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<v John 10>I hope you feel the emphasis on knowing God's Word.

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<v John 10>Sometimes what happens, though, is things get out of bounds where we put so much emphasis on that.

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<v John 10>You'll meet someone who can quote Scripture at length, who has read great depths of theology, can argue with, argue with you about the finest details of theology, and yet they're unkind, unloving, difficult to be around, divisive.

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<v John 10>Always have a sour face.

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<v John 10>Can never smile.

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<v John 10>Those two should never be true of each other.

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<v John 10>If I'm really growing and knowing God's Word, if I'm really growing and knowing Christ, I should become more loving, more approachable.

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<v John 10>I should be growing in character as well.

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<v John 10>We're not dividing those I've grown spiritually, but not in character.

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<v John 10>Those two, if you are truly growing spiritually, you are also growing in love.

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<v John 10>You are also growing.

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<v John 10>I become I should be becoming more approachable, less defensive.

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<v John 10>I should be more quick to forgive.

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<v John 10>I should be someone who receives forgiveness more easily.

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<v John 10>I should be less quick to anger.

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<v John 10>Someone who has more self-control.

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<v John 10>Maybe of of my words and what I say.

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<v John 10>More self-control over what I consume, whether that's visually and this one's going to hurt in the Baptist church, but also the food I consume at certain times of year.

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<v John 10>Self-control is a part of my spiritual life.

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<v John 10>It's an important part.

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<v John 10>We should be growing in that we should be growing emotionally as a church.

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<v John 10>That's a key part of our growth.

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<v John 10>So that's number two that I would be growing emotionally, personally, spiritually, growing in love, growing in love for others.

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<v John 10>And then number three and number three is number three on purpose.

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<v John 10>Because the overflow of all that should be a passion for others, a passion to serve others, and then a passion for proclaiming Christ, that should be the overflow.

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<v John 10>If Christ is at work in my life, it should be a natural desire to also serve others.

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<v John 10>We'll talk about that one first, to pour into the life of others.

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<v Mark 10>45 Jesus said, The Son of Man did not come to be served.

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<v Mark 10>And I remember the day I was in church and we were in Phoenix, I was attending seminary.

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<v Mark 10>A guy from the seminary came and he attended the service, and I asked him afterwards, how did it go?

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<v Mark 10>What did you think?

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<v Mark 10>It was his first time there.

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<v Mark 10>And he goes, well, I just didn't feel edified this morning.

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<v Mark 10>And I thought, but you your immediate response was, serve me.

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<v Mark 10>And maybe it's okay if you don't feel edified at times, I get that.

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<v Mark 10>But that was the first thing out of-- serve me.

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<v Mark 10>The Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve and give his life as a ransom for many.

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<v Mark 10>And if Christ is at work in my life, the overflow of that, the excitement of that is to serve others, is to want to pour into the lives of others.

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<v Mark 10>And the way I think of service at church, my prayer, my burden.

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<v Mark 10>I'm not into guilting people into service.

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<v Mark 10>I have come around to some of the life groups and said, hey, we need help in the kids area because we have more kids come and we need help.

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<v Mark 10>We need just step in.

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<v Mark 10>The excitement of this is great with who will raise their hands and help out, and people do.

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<v Mark 10>But I'm not into guilting people into service because here's what I want for everyone here.

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<v Mark 10>Here's what I pray for often.

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<v Mark 10>I pray that when you wake up in the morning, you're thinking about the ministry you get to serve in, and you're thinking, I can't believe I get to do this.

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<v Mark 10>I feel like God has made me for this.

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<v Mark 10>I finally have found the thing where he's using me.

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<v Mark 10>I see him working in my life.

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<v Mark 10>I see people benefiting spiritually from the way God is using my gifts.

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<v Mark 10>I never thought I would find this and here I have found this area of service.

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<v Mark 10>That's my prayer.

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<v Mark 10>That's what I want.

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<v Mark 10>I want people serving from an area of strength and joy and flourishing, not guilt and condemnation because no one else would.

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<v Mark 10>I guess I have to.

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<v Mark 10>We have those seasons.

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<v Mark 10>But in general, I want to see you in a place where it is your joy and delight to be serving.

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<v Mark 10>Every week you wake up thinking about it every day you're sitting at the office filling out some paperwork, thinking, I can't wait to get to do the thing I feel like God has made me to do.

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<v Mark 10>That's what I hope.

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<v Mark 10>And I know some of us have that, and some of us don't.

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<v Mark 10>And some of us are going I have no idea what you're talking about right there.

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<v Mark 10>But my prayer is that over time, God would direct, and that's what service would look like.

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<v Mark 10>I was hanging out with Alan Johnson recently.

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<v Mark 10>He's one of our members here at the church.

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<v Mark 10>And Alan said, when I met Kelly, one of my prayers had always been his wife, Kelly.

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<v Mark 10>My prayer, one of my prayers had always been that we would be able to serve in ministry together.

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<v Mark 10>We would be serving alongside one another.

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<v Mark 10>And look, not that's not for everybody.

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<v Mark 10>Some people have.

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<v Mark 10>We serve separate for different reasons.

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<v Mark 10>We have different gifts.

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<v Mark 10>And but one of his desires is that they'd be able to serve together.

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<v Mark 10>And so they started serving in AWANA together.

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<v Mark 10>AWANA is our scripture memory program for kids on Wednesday nights. It's great.

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<v Mark 10>It's really fun to be a part of.

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<v Mark 10>It's amazing to watch these kids work so hard to memorize scripture.

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<v Mark 10>And if you've helped with that, you're sitting there going, when's the last time I worked that hard to memorize scripture?

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<v Mark 10>I don't know, it's inspiring to watch them.

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<v Mark 10>Alan said.

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<v Mark 10>I didn't really think that would be where I would serve in ministry, but I loved that we were serving together and I watch these kids work so hard.

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<v Mark 10>I watch them struggle, I saw them, and I got to give thanks to God that I got to be a part of that.

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<v Mark 10>And he said, let me tell you, when it made it all worth it is when I saw on a Sunday morning where a couple of them were up here getting baptized, I said, man, that made it.

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<v Mark 10>That made everything so worth it to know God had used me in some way in their life to see them grow.

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<v Mark 10>The overflow of God working in my life is to want to serve and pour into others.

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<v Mark 10>And then lastly is proclaiming Jesus, passionately proclaiming Jesus.

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<v Mark 10>If you're excited about something, you can't not tell others about it.

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<v Mark 10>And if Christ has brought about a radical life change in your life, the natural overflow of that is to want to tell others.

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<v Mark 10>And we have different gifts, different abilities and that.

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<v Mark 10>So some of us that may look more like door to door evangelism, more active, engaged evangelism.

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<v Mark 10>Some of it might look like serving food to a neighbor over decades until the door opens to talk about Christ.

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<v Mark 10>We have different gifts and abilities when it comes, but there should be within us this desire to tell others about Christ, and part of that is because of the way Jesus talked to his disciples at the end of his time on earth.

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<v Mark 10>Some of the last words he left them with are in Matthew.

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<v Mark 10>And if you have your Bibles, turn to Matthew 28.

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<v Mark 10>It's Matthew's, the first book of the New Testament, and chapter 28, the last chapter of the book of Matthew.

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<v Mark 10>Go ahead and turn there.

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<v Mark 10>We're going to read that.

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<v Mark 10>Turn the Bible the right way.

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<v Mark 10>We're going to read these last couple of verses.

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<v Mark 10>These are some of the very last words he says to his people.

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<v Mark 10>This is why these words are important for us.

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<v Mark 10>If someone as they're leaving says, oh, by the way, do this parting words, it's called the Great Commission.

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<v Mark 10>He commissions them.

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<v Mark 10>He gives them a mission

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<v right as he leaving, Matthew 28>18 through 20, Jesus came and said to them, all authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me.

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<v right as he leaving, Matthew 28>Go, therefore make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the father, and of the son, and of the Holy Spirit.

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<v right as he leaving, Matthew 28>Teaching them to observe all I have commanded you.

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<v right as he leaving, Matthew 28>And behold, I am with you always to the end of the age.

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<v right as he leaving, Matthew 28>This is why missions is an important part of our church and Southern Baptists in general.

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<v right as he leaving, Matthew 28>In fact, Southern Baptists were actually started not as a denomination, but as a missions agency.

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<v right as he leaving, Matthew 28>A bunch of different Baptist groups came together and said, let's partner together so we can reach more people in missions.

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<v right as he leaving, Matthew 28>Let's pool our resources and and abilities.

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<v right as he leaving, Matthew 28>That's been at the core of our church from the beginning.

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<v right as he leaving, Matthew 28>How are we proclaiming Christ to those all around the world, to your neighbors, to your friends, to your family?

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<v right as he leaving, Matthew 28>My hope is that if you are excited about what Christ is doing in your life, that you're telling others and you all have that friend that when you're around them, they've got this thing that you know they're going to bring up.

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<v right as he leaving, Matthew 28>It's just a matter of time, right?

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<v right as he leaving, Matthew 28>You know what I mean?

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<v right as he leaving, Matthew 28>For Julie right now in this season has been sourdough bread.

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<v right as he leaving, Matthew 28>If you're around her five minutes, she's going to want to talk about the intricacies of sourdough bread.

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<v right as he leaving, Matthew 28>If you run into Terry Young, it won't take two minutes before he's talking about the movie The Forge and how much men benefit from it.

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<v right as he leaving, Matthew 28>The funny thing about Terry is he'll he'll actually try to apologize for that.

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<v right as he leaving, Matthew 28>I'm sorry.

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<v right as he leaving, Matthew 28>I'm talking about this so much.

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<v right as he leaving, Matthew 28>We know you're not Terry.

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<v right as he leaving, Matthew 28>We know you're not sorry at all.

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<v right as he leaving, Matthew 28>Okay? Don't apologize, because I love the passion.

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<v right as he leaving, Matthew 28>I love it, keep bringing it, keep being excited.

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<v right as he leaving, Matthew 28>His burden deeply is for men to know Christ.

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<v right as he leaving, Matthew 28>And you have something like that.

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<v right as he leaving, Matthew 28>And if Christ has been at work in your life.

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<v right as he leaving, Matthew 28>There's so many people that want to hear that from you.

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<v right as he leaving, Matthew 28>Sometimes we feel like, man, no one wants to hear me prattle on about Jesus.

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<v right as he leaving, Matthew 28>And yet it's the very thing they need the most. You know them.

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<v right as he leaving, Matthew 28>You can think of a person right now that if Christ was at the center of their life, everything would be different.

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<v right as he leaving, Matthew 28>Be praying that God would use you as that person to introduce them to Christ.

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<v right as he leaving, Matthew 28>It's the very thing they need the most.

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<v right as he leaving, Matthew 28>And so, as I think of the coming year together as a church and how God might use us, man, that's my prayer.

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<v right as he leaving, Matthew 28>More than any other area of growth this year, and I hope he does bless you in all the areas that we all pray for going into a new year.

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<v right as he leaving, Matthew 28>But I hope more than any other that at the end of 2025 you go, man, Christ worked in my life.

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<v right as he leaving, Matthew 28>I know him more deeply and richly than I ever have before.

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<v right as he leaving, Matthew 28>That's my prayer more than anything else.

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<v right as he leaving, Matthew 28>In fact, we're going to take communion together now to launch us into the New Year.

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<v right as he leaving, Matthew 28>If you're a deacon who's going to help with that, go ahead and slip out now and prepare those elements.

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<v right as he leaving, Matthew 28>Here's what I want to ask that as we are taking communion together, that you would just spend some time praying for that specifically Jesus, would you keep it the forefront of my longings this year, a longing to grow spiritually, a longing to grow if I grow anywhere that it would be in knowing you more than anywhere else, while you're waiting to take communion, be be praying for that.

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<v right as he leaving, Matthew 28>And here's how we do communion here.

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<v right as he leaving, Matthew 28>It's open to anyone who knows Christ.

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<v right as he leaving, Matthew 28>If you've committed to following him, if you've accepted him as your Lord and Savior, you are welcome to take communion with us.

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<v right as he leaving, Matthew 28>The men will pass the trays down the aisles and there's two cups stacked on each other.

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<v right as he leaving, Matthew 28>Just take two cups.

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<v right as he leaving, Matthew 28>One has the bread underneath, one has the juice on top, and just hold on to those until everyone has them.

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<v right as he leaving, Matthew 28>And then we'll take them together.

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<v right as he leaving, Matthew 28>And while you're holding on to those in waiting, just pray.

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<v right as he leaving, Matthew 28>Pray for God to move and pray for growth in your life like never before in the coming year.

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<v right as he leaving, Matthew 28>And men if you would go ahead and start distributing those now down the aisles to everyone and spend time praying while you receive those, and we'll take them together here in just a minute.
