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Hey church.

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How are we doing?

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Oh, we gotta do that again.

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Good morning church. How are we doing?

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It's good to be with you all this morning.

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We have so much to celebrate already in us in the service.

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And can we just give it up again for those who are baptized and just thank God for what he's doing?

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It's a privilege to be the student pastor here at Valley View Church.

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My name is Colby Flowers.

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And I'm delighted to serve with our students and our young adults.

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But from time to time, I get up here and say a few syllables.

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And so I'm thankful for the opportunity to share God's Word with you this morning. In fact, we took a little break hiatus from the Book of Proverbs, but now we're back in it to wrap it up this summer, we're going to be heading into another book of the Bible here in the fall, but we are finishing up our Book of Proverbs series.

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And today, as we started to, we're covering topics or ideas that we see as really important and fundamental that come from the book of Proverbs.

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And so today we're going to be talking about future decisions, making decisions, and how to discern, what that looks like.

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But last Sunday, I bravely took a group of our boys, students to kayak and canoe in Prospect, Kentucky.

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So we went up there.

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We rented some kayaks.

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And don't worry, I did take a couple leaders, would make sure that we had eyes on everybody.

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But, I don't know if you ever been to Fort Harrod's Creek.

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Or Harrod's Creek. I'm sorry.

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It's pretty cool place I've never been before, so I was going in, not having an expectation of what it looked like, how deep it was, or anything like that.

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And so as I'm getting the canoes rented, I asked the person who I was getting the kayaks from.

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You know, which way do I go?

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Because there is two ways I could go left.

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I could go right.

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So she explained to me, if you go right, you're going to go to the river.

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If you go left, that'll be, the creek and you'll see some cool places.

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In fact, she said, you will find a park on the left as you go down.

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And that's a good spot to stop.

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And then turn around and come back, because we're only allotted a certain amount of time.

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So we didn't want to go too far and then not have a time to get back.

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So I was like, all right, great.

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So before I finished talking with them, boys were already strapped in in their kayaks and they're going towards the river.

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Okay, I had to call out to them “boys, that way, left.” So they eventually they turned around.

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And then of course, if you know boys and I'm sure some of you do, they start paddling as hard as they can straight ahead.

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And it's kind of like this, paddle now, ask questions later type of thing.

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They just were paddling and they had no idea where they were going, and I didn't even know where they were going.

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So I took some concern to that, I had to get out in front of them.

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And, I don't have as much energy as them.

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But it took me a little bit, but I get up out in front of them to kind of help navigate as best I can, but then we come to a fork in the creek.

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She never mentioned anything about a fork, so I had to use my best judgment in that moment to discern where to go.

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So I'm looking.

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I'm seeing what's in front of me as best I can.

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Well, I said, all right, we're just going to stay right.

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Well, luckily it was a good decision as I'll get to in a second.

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So we stay, right.

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We keep on going to the creek.

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And we've already, at this point used up half of our time.

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So now we got to make a decision.

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Do we just keep going full head of steam and possibly not be able to get back in time?

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Or do we actually have to make a decision to stop and figure out where to go?

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Well, we find a limb that's hanging over the creek, and then we notice that there's little footholds and pieces of wood attached to the tree, and we notice a big old rope swing.

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This was our sign from God that we needed to stop here.

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So we stopped.

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The boys put their kayaks out on the side.

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One by one they're climbing up there and bravely jumping off.

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I say bravely.

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A couple of them took a little bit.

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They were a little scared, but all of our boys got on there, jumped off.

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In fact, one of them got on the rope swing and I swear I thought he was going to die when he let go of that rope.

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But he survived, I promise.

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No, everybody came back, okay.

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But it kind of reminded me and gave me this feeling of it's hard to make decisions in the unknown, is it not?

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Sometimes when we're facing a situation where we don't have all the facts, we don't have all the details.

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We can't see that far into the future unless you all know how to tell me, because I love I really benefit from that.

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But we we sometimes really struggle to make decisions for something that we don't know.

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We're unknown to it.

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And so the book of Proverbs helps us discern that process of making decisions.

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So here's what we're going to see.

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There's the question that I'm going to ask and answer this morning is how do we discern God's will for the future?

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How do you discern your will or God's will for your life, for the future?

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That is the immediate.

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That is the long term.

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How do I go about making these decisions when I don't have all the answers?

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The picture is unclear and I don't know what to do.

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The book of Proverbs certainly helps us, and I'm hopefully going to break down some misconceptions about how we can discern God's will.

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Because I sometimes I've gone about it the wrong way.

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My life is written with ways in which you're not supposed to go.

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So I'm going to hopefully share with you from God's Word the Book of Proverbs today.

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I believe the best way to make decisions in discerning God's will. Amen?

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So here's our main idea.

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Our big point that we're going to accomplish today.

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Okay, so to discern God's will for your life, your future decisions, we must receive God's wisdom.

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We must build and receive a godly character.

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And last but not least, we need to receive wise counsel.

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These three things the Book of Proverbs helps us underline.

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Also the book.

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The Bible as a whole also does the same thing.

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But this morning we're going to be running around the book of Proverbs a little bit.

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So if you've got the handout, that will be helpful.

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If you don't, the words will be up here just to help you.

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But we're going to be first in Proverbs chapter 24 verses 13 and 14.

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And this is God's Word this morning.

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And it says, my son, eat honey, for it is good.

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And the drippings of the honeycomb are sweet to your taste.

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Know that wisdom is such to your soul.

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If you find it, there will be a here's our word future and your hope will not be cut off.

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So in these two verses, the writer of Proverbs right here is comparing wisdom to honey Honey's good for you.

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Honey is sweet to the taste, and like honey, wisdom is for your soul.

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Wisdom to your soul is sweet.

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Wisdom to your soul is good.

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It benefits you.

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And not only that, the result.

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What the verse says is that you will have a future, a good future with hope.

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Wisdom helps you navigate the future so that you can make the best decisions for you, your family, your communities and so on.

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So understand here that biblical wisdom.

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It secures us a hopeful future.

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But here's why.

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Because it leads us on God's path.

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That's what biblical wisdom will always do for you.

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The wisdom that we find in the Bible will always lead you on God's path.

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And as we're going to see, it doesn't lead you on your path.

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This is so crucial when we talk about this whole idea of making decisions, because I am the foremost example of what not to do.

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I remember growing up and playing baseball my whole life in my one dream, my path, my will, my decision, my plan was I wanted to play baseball for the rest of my life at any cost until I started getting injured.

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Here comes God's plan.

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I had four shoulder injuries, ended up having surgery in college, did not.

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But eight months later I hurt my other shoulder to have surgery on that one.

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So two shoulder surgeries within a year.

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Then God was telling me, hey, baseball is too big in your life.

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You need to make a change.

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Instead, in that moment, God led me to the gospel I heard.

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I believed, I accepted Christ, and from there he slowly started drifting and changing my path to follow him into ministry.

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If I were to live and go after my own path, I assure you I wouldn't be here in front of you today.

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I don't know where I would be, but it was God's path through biblical wisdom and God working in my life that I'm here today.

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And I praise God every day for that.

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But here's the problem we sometimes get locked into our path, our plan, our decisions.

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You want me to share with you what the Book of Proverbs says about that?

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<v Proverbs 19>21 - Many are the plans in the mind of a man, but it is the purpose of the Lord that will stand.

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<v Proverbs 19>You may have a lot of plans up here intellectually, logically, scheming, planning, even budgeting.

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<v Proverbs 19>Those things aren't bad.

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<v Proverbs 19>But if we are solely relying on what's up here, God will straighten your path out really quick.

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<v Proverbs 19>It is the purpose of the Lord that will stand.

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<v Proverbs 19>We can plan as much as we want, but ultimately it's what God wants that will happen.

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<v Proverbs 16>1- the plans of the heart belong to a man, but the answer of the tongue is from

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<v the Lord. Proverbs 16>1.

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<v the Lord. Proverbs 16>So it's not just an intellectual planning, it's your desires.

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<v the Lord. Proverbs 16>It's your emotions, it’s your feelings.

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<v the Lord. Proverbs 16>I feel like I should go this way.

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<v the Lord. Proverbs 16>I have this urge, this desire to go this way in life.

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<v the Lord. Proverbs 16>But listen, it's really God who controls what happens in the tongue, in your life, in your body.

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<v the Lord. Proverbs 16>It's his plan that will ultimately come to fruition.

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<v the Lord. Proverbs 16>And we've got a decision.

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<v the Lord. Proverbs 16>We either go with God or go against God.

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<v It says here in Proverbs 16>9, the heart of man plans his ways way, but the Lord establishes his steps.

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<v It says here in Proverbs 16>Maybe some of you have come this morning and you feel like your steps are not established.

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<v It says here in Proverbs 16>Ground shaky beneath your feet.

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<v It says here in Proverbs 16>Things aren't working out the way that you want them to.

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<v It says here in Proverbs 16>Maybe that's a time to say, okay, God, am I walking in your path or my path?

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<v It says here in Proverbs 16>Have you established my steps or am I trying to establish my own steps?

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<v It says here in Proverbs 16>Even the song we sung today that I will build my life on God, the foundation under my feet that will never be shaken.

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<v It says here in Proverbs 16>Or you can choose your own foundations.

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<v Last but not least, Proverbs 20>24-- A man's steps are from the Lord.

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<v Last but not least, Proverbs 20>How then can can man understand his way?

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<v Last but not least, Proverbs 20>This is interesting.

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<v Last but not least, Proverbs 20>If your steps in your life are actually God's will and God's path for your life, then how can we even understand them?

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<v Last but not least, Proverbs 20>It's very interesting.

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<v Last but not least, Proverbs 20>So my four year old likes to play board games.

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<v Last but not least, Proverbs 20>So one of the games we like to play a lot is Candyland.

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<v Last but not least, Proverbs 20>Anybody play Candyland? Anybody?

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<v Last but not least, Proverbs 20>It's a good it's a good game. It's solid.

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<v Last but not least, Proverbs 20>So premise of the game is you have your little game token, you're on the board and you flip a card and that gives you a color and that tells you what space to go to.

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<v Last but not least, Proverbs 20>But my daughter has the habit of flipping over that card, seeing that color, but then going to the color she wants to go to.

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<v Last but not least, Proverbs 20>And so I as a parent, I can easily say, okay, fine, you can go to the spot you want.

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<v Last but not least, Proverbs 20>It's not that big of a deal, but if you all know anything about me, I am a rule follower.

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<v Last but not least, Proverbs 20>If there is a rule in a game, it's being kept.

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<v Last but not least, Proverbs 20>So I don't care if you're 4 or 34, okay, the rule’s being kept.

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<v Last but not least, Proverbs 20>So I have to tell her.

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<v Last but not least, Proverbs 20>Honey, sweetie, darling, that's the wrong space.

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<v Last but not least, Proverbs 20>You need to go back.

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<v Last but not least, Proverbs 20>And sometimes she sells herself short.

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<v Last but not least, Proverbs 20>So I say you need to go forward.

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<v Last but not least, Proverbs 20>But it's sort of like this where we think we are to go to this space.

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<v Last but not least, Proverbs 20>But God wants us in another space.

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<v Last but not least, Proverbs 20>And sometimes he has to do the hard work of getting you there.

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<v Last but not least, Proverbs 20>And that hurts sometimes.

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<v Last but not least, Proverbs 20>Amen.

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<v Last but not least, Proverbs 20>My wife is full of it.

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<v Last but not least, Proverbs 20>When I thought I was in the space I needed to be, but God knew it would need to be different.

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<v Last but not least, Proverbs 20>His path and plane were different, so he has to move me.

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<v Last but not least, Proverbs 20>Friends, this is almost like saving God time in a way.

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<v Last but not least, Proverbs 20>I want to go where you are, God.

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<v Last but not least, Proverbs 20>I want to go on the space and path that you have for me. So.

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<v Last but not least, Proverbs 20>So listen to this point this morning.

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<v Last but not least, Proverbs 20>You're scheming and planning alone will only get you so far, because it is God's purposes and plans that are going to stand.

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<v Last but not least, Proverbs 20>It is God's plan and purpose, this cosmic purpose that he has for your life.

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<v Last but not least, Proverbs 20>You and I may be playing chat or checkers, but God's playing chess on a cosmic, eternal level.

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<v Last but not least, Proverbs 20>God sees things from beginning before there was nothing, and to the end when there will be nothing.

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<v Last but not least, Proverbs 20>God has all of this figured out and planned out and for us to say it's alright God, I got this.

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<v Last but not least, Proverbs 20>You're going to end up in a place that you don't want to be.

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<v Last but not least, Proverbs 20>First point for you this morning, if you want to discern God's will for the future, you must do this- delight in God's wisdom and plan for your life.

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<v Last but not least, Proverbs 20>You've probably heard it, heard it that it was said.

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<v Last but not least, Proverbs 20>Some of you have probably experienced it.

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<v Last but not least, Proverbs 20>But God's plan for your life is much better than your own plan.

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<v Last but not least, Proverbs 20>So we should take delight in God's plan for our life first, and his wisdom that he's given to us.

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<v Last but not least, Proverbs 20>We should trust in God's wisdom.

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<v Proverbs 3>5 right?

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<v Proverbs 3>Y'all know the verse.

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<v Proverbs 3>We shouldn't be relying on our own understanding.

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<v Proverbs 3>This isn’t a life that we should be navigating on our own.

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<v Proverbs 3>But it is God's wisdom that will get you where you need to go.

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<v Proverbs 3>So as we consider this idea of how to discern God's will, the first thing is you have to go with God's wisdom in his plan first.

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<v Proverbs 3>Some of you this morning may be trying to go about it according to your plan, but maybe God has you here for a reason.

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<v Proverbs 3>This morning, folks.

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<v Proverbs 3>Maybe he has a has you here for a reason because he wants you to turn to his plan and not yours.

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<v Proverbs 3>But as we think about this too, the question begs to be asked, well, okay, Colby. It's good.

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<v Proverbs 3>You know, I want to discern God's will for the future.

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<v Proverbs 3>Well, why doesn't God just tell me exactly what I need to do?

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<v Proverbs 3>Why doesn’t he give me, like, a clear, exact answer of exactly how I'm supposed to live?

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<v Proverbs 3>Well, let me give you something here this morning, because I think we might know this, but sometimes we overlook it.

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<v Proverbs 3>But even in the Bible, God's word, God's wisdom is not always prescriptive, meaning God's Bible, God's word doesn't always give you exactly step by step how to do something, but what it does give you is principles to live by.

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<v Proverbs 3>That's the entire book of Proverbs.

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<v Proverbs 3>For instance, I'll give you an example.

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<v Proverbs 3>God commands us to work.

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<v Proverbs 3>It is a good thing to work, but God's not going to lay out in the Bible exactly where you need to go to get a job.

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<v Proverbs 3>Yes, God restricts us from certain things, like being a thief or being a prostitute, but God is not going to lay out, hey, you need to go into mechanical engineering.

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<v Proverbs 3>You need to go work at Big O Tires.

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<v Proverbs 3>You need to go work at chick fil A, although that's a good place to start with God's will. But.

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<v Proverbs 3>But God isn't always going to lay out exactly, perfectly step by step what you're supposed to do.

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<v Proverbs 3>But he gives us guiding principles.

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<v Proverbs 3>And there are times in Scripture where God gives a prescriptive, perfect, step on how to do that.

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<v Proverbs 3>Sure.

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<v Proverbs 3>But when we're talking about some things, how do I make a decision when God is not perfectly giving me every step and every clear answer?

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<v Proverbs 3>I'm glad you asked.

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<v Proverbs 3>Let's look at the book Proverbs, verse 11 or chapter 11, verse three.

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<v Proverbs 3>Look what this says.

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<v Proverbs 3>The integrity of the upright guides them.

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<v Proverbs 3>Notice what that says.

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<v Proverbs 3>The integrity of the upright guides them.

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<v Proverbs 3>What guides them, their integrity.

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<v Proverbs 3>Another word could be character.

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<v Proverbs 3>This word literally means perfect, complete, pure.

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<v Proverbs 3>It means something like your moral compass is perfect.

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<v Proverbs 3>So to have a moral integrity on the inside, it guides you how to live.

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<v Proverbs 3>Does that make sense? Other part. Other.

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<v Proverbs 3>The opposite end is also true, but the crookedness of the treacherous destroys them.

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<v Proverbs 3>The word here for crookedness literally means someone who takes things and twists them to get what they want.

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<v Proverbs 3>A treacherous person is someone who looks at their life and wants to twist and turn moral, moral things good and bad so that they can get what they want and they can navigate how they want.

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<v Proverbs 3>You see that?

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<v Proverbs 3>This is what these verses mean, that your character on the inside matters.

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<v Proverbs 3>When you're making decisions, what's on the inside matters a lot.

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<v Proverbs 3>Look at this in Proverbs 12 verse five.

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<v Proverbs 3>The thoughts of the righteous are just.

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<v Proverbs 3>What does that mean?

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<v Proverbs 3>A just person has righteous thoughts on the inside.

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<v Proverbs 3>They think right righteously after God.

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<v Proverbs 3>But the counsels of the wicked are deceitful.

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<v Proverbs 3>Those who are wicked have deceitful counsels and advice and directions.

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<v Proverbs 3>So if you can just see from these two verses alone, here's what this means.

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<v Proverbs 3>Our internal character will guide our decisions, actions and words.

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<v Proverbs 3>Meaning who you are internally will guide your actions, your choices, your words.

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<v Proverbs 3>Because I think sometimes what we do is let me fix the outside.

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<v Proverbs 3>Let me worry about making better decisions on the outside.

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<v Proverbs 3>When really we need to focus on what's going on in the inside, because that's what it comes from.

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<v Proverbs 3>Does that make sense?

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<v Proverbs 3>We need to fix the inside before we go to the outside.

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<v Proverbs 3>But there's also this idea, I think too as Christians, as we sometimes will pray this God, give me a sign, give me a sign, God, so that I know what I need to do.

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<v Proverbs 3>Put it on a billboard as I'm driving by and I see it --go here.

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<v Proverbs 3>Got it. That's where I'm going.

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<v Proverbs 3>Or God, give me this clear, obvious, big miraculous sign.

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<v Proverbs 3>Does God do that?

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<v Proverbs 3>Has he done that?

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<v Proverbs 3>Of course.

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<v Proverbs 3>How did God appear to Moses?

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<v Proverbs 3>In a burning bush.

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<v Proverbs 3>That's a pretty big sign, right?

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<v Proverbs 3>How did how did Jesus reveal himself to Paul?

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<v Proverbs 3>Jesus came down and literally stood in front of him in his blazing glory and blinded him.

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<v Proverbs 3>That's a pretty big sign.

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<v Proverbs 3>So does God do that?

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<v Proverbs 3>Of course he does.

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<v Proverbs 3>Is that what he normally does?

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<v Proverbs 3>No.

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<v Proverbs 3>I think sometimes we get into this, frame of thinking that if I just pray for a sign that God's going to give me this miraculous sign right here, right now, and he may.

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<v Proverbs 3>But often that's not how God operates.

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<v Proverbs 3>God intent actually operates through your internal character, your integrity.

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<v Proverbs 3>And he does that over external signs and miracles, because there's something about God's Word being pressed onto your heart that becomes powerful, because you may go down the street and look at a billboard and see something that you think is God, but it's actually not.

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<v Proverbs 3>Verse John four says, test the Spirit's test what you hear.

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<v Proverbs 3>Test what's on your heart to make sure it's from God.

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<v Proverbs 3>And friends, how do you test those things?

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<v Proverbs 3>God's word.

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<v Look at this in Jeremiah 17>9-- The heart is deceitful above all things.

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<v Look at this in Jeremiah 17>Yikes.

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<v Look at this in Jeremiah 17>And not only that, and it's desperately sick.

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<v Look at this in Jeremiah 17>It's because of that.

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<v Look at this in Jeremiah 17>The question is asked who can understand their heart?

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<v Look at this in Jeremiah 17>Meaning your feelings, your emotions, your planning, your scheming.

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<v Look at this in Jeremiah 17>They aren't bad things, but they're not a God thing.

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<v Look at this in Jeremiah 17>Because they're desperately sick.

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<v Look at this in Jeremiah 17>You and I are are still dealing with the issue of sin in our practical life.

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<v Look at this in Jeremiah 17>It's still an issue as we walk because we're still going to struggle with it.

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<v Look at this in Jeremiah 17>But if I can say this this morning, your emotions can be a passenger to your decisions, but it can't be the driver.

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<v Look at this in Jeremiah 17>Your emotions are good, but they should not be the primary vehicle to get you to where you need to go.

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<v Look at this in Jeremiah 17>Your emotions are highly subjective and even signs and other things can be highly subjective.

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<v Look at this in Jeremiah 17>That's why they cannot be the driver, they only the passenger to your decisions. Does that make sense?

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<v Look at this in Jeremiah 17>So we've got to be careful.

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<v Look at this in Jeremiah 17>Can God use your your emotions and feelings to guide you in your life?

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<v Look at this in Jeremiah 17>Sure.

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<v Look at this in Jeremiah 17>But should that be the primary way you make decisions? No.

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<v Look at this in Jeremiah 17>Emotions and feelings are God given.

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<v Look at this in Jeremiah 17>Signs can bring a powerful means for God to work in your life, but God normally will work through your character.

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<v Look at this in Jeremiah 17>And here's the danger, friends.

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<v Proverbs 16>25.

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<v Proverbs 16>If this doesn't scare you, I don’t know what will.

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<v Proverbs 16>There is a way that seems right to a man, but it's end is the way to death.

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<v Proverbs 16>Think about that.

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<v Proverbs 16>You may be on a path in your life right now that you think is right, but it's not.

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<v Proverbs 16>So the question you got to ask yourself, how do I know the decisions in the path of my life right now are good?

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<v Proverbs 16>Well, here's what I would say.

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<v Proverbs 16>What does your character on the inside in God's Word say?

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<v Proverbs 16>So if I could bring this to a point, your compass for making decisions, that is this internal compass of how you make decisions, it should come from the godly character that God is slowly impressing on you.

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<v Proverbs 16>Does that make sense?

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<v Proverbs 16>God is impressing on your heart, on your internal soul, his godly character, so that you can make wise decisions.

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<v Proverbs 16>That is your compass.

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<v Proverbs 16>It's your compass for making those decisions.

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<v Proverbs 16>Otherwise, we're working off of very subjective things.

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<v Proverbs 16>God delights in putting his character on your heart, friends, and he does it through the word.

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<v Proverbs 16>And we're going to get to that in just seconds.

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<v Proverbs 16>So here's my second point for us this morning to pursue a godly character or insight to discern God's will for your life.

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<v Proverbs 16>We need to pursue a godly character.

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<v Proverbs 16>Instead of worrying about all the external things, what if you started working on your heart and letting God do the heart work?

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<v Proverbs 16>What if you daily got in the word, spent time in prayer and let God shape you inside so that the decisions on the external, the outside don't make a lot more sense.

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<v Proverbs 16>Here's a beautiful quote from Tim Keller I couldn't say it any better than than him, and this point.

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<v Proverbs 16>Says the more we know God, ourselves, the human heart, the order of creation, the times and seasons, the more we will have the wisdom to good decisions, to make good decisions.

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<v Proverbs 16>Does that make sense?

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<v Proverbs 16>The more you know God, the more you know yourself, the more you know how creation is ordered.

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<v Proverbs 16>What is good and bad?

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<v Proverbs 16>The more you know the culture and the times, and the seasons, and how things work, you will make better decisions.

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<v Proverbs 16>And you know where those things are shown to you?

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<v Proverbs 16>God's word.

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<v Proverbs 16>So that's why we're so passionate about God's Word, about you.

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<v Proverbs 16>That's why I want more scripture mentioned in a sermon and on the screen that I say in my own words, because if it's not coming from God's Word, I'm giving you really bad advice friends.

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<v Proverbs 16>God's word has the answers for you.

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<v Proverbs 16>So the question is asked too, well, how do I pursue a godly character?

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<v Proverbs 16>How do I get it?

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<v Proverbs 16>Two ways, ready for this?

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<v Proverbs 16>Number one, I can't say it enough.

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<v Proverbs 16>It's through his word.

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<v Proverbs 16>Friends, this morning, if you want an answered the decisions you have to make in the future and even in the immediate begin the heart work right now in God's Word.

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<v Proverbs 16>God can turn your heart and give you wisdom and give you discernment more and any more than anything.

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<v Proverbs 16>Then in God's Word, get in the Word of God.

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<v Proverbs 16>And as I say, I'll get the Word of God in you.

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<v Proverbs 16>And here's a couple examples for cross references.

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<v Proverbs 16>I can spend a lot of time on this, but just just for our time this morning.

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<v Proverbs 16>Proverbs two verse six, for the Lord gives wisdom from his mouth.

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<v Proverbs 16>That is, his word come knowledge and understanding.

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<v Proverbs 16>He stores up sound wisdom for the upright.

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<v Proverbs 16>He is a shield to those who walk in integrity, guarding the paths of justice and watching over the way of his saints.

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<v Proverbs 16>And look what verse nine says.

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<v Proverbs 16>Then you will understand righteousness and justice and equity.

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<v Proverbs 16>Every good path you're praying right now.

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<v Proverbs 16>God, where do you want me to go?

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<v Proverbs 16>You want understanding?

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<v Proverbs 16>Get in God's Word and get it in you.

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<v Proverbs 16>It will equip you.

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<v Proverbs 16>It will strengthen you.

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<v Proverbs 16>It will transform your mind.

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<v Proverbs 16>It will put you in the place where God wants you, because it's working on your heart, and it's transforming you to be more like Jesus.

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<v Proverbs 16>It starts there.

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<v Proverbs 16>Number two, second way through godly habits.

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<v Proverbs 16>How does God build a godly character in you?

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<v Proverbs 16>It's through forming godly habits.

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<v Proverbs 16>Second Peter one is is a cross-reference.

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<v Proverbs 16>You can look at later.

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<v Proverbs 16>But look at this in second Timothy three.

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<v Proverbs 16>It's on the screen.

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<v Proverbs 16>But as for you, continue in what you have learned and firmly believed, knowing from whom you have learned it.

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<v Proverbs 16>Paul spent a great deal of time teaching Timothy.

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<v Proverbs 16>Timothy had a mom and a grandmother who were faithful believers who taught him.

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<v Proverbs 16>So what Paul saying here is keep going.

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<v Proverbs 16>Build habits to grow and to learn.

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<v Proverbs 16>And as he says in another part of the book, fan into flame the gift of God.

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<v Proverbs 16>Keep going.

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<v Proverbs 16>Some of you, I think this morning, just need to reestablish good habits with your relationship with God.

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<v Proverbs 16>Look at this quote from Ralph Waldo Emerson.

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<v Proverbs 16>This is a great quote as well.

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<v Proverbs 16>Sow a thought and you reap an action.

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<v Proverbs 16>Sow an act and you reap a habit, sow a habit and you reap, as we talked about, a character.

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<v Proverbs 16>Sow a character and you reap a destiny.

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<v Proverbs 16>It starts with your thoughts.

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<v Proverbs 16>It starts with your desires.

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<v Proverbs 16>It starts with your day by day, giving God the room to mold you into being Christlike.

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<v Proverbs 16>And eventually you know where it ends up?

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<v Proverbs 16>In your destiny.

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<v Proverbs 16>So if I can put it this way, character is won or lost in the little things.

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<v Proverbs 16>Your character is being built each and every day.

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<v Proverbs 16>In fact, every decision you make is putting you on a path just for just for, just for fun.

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<v Proverbs 16>Think to yourself how many decisions does the average person make every day?

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<v Proverbs 16>And don't Google it.

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<v Proverbs 16>Don't you be cheating.

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<v Proverbs 16>I'm watching your hands.

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<v Proverbs 16>Think to yourself, maybe even say to the person, to your left and to your right, how many decisions does the average person make every single day?

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<v Proverbs 16>Go and tell them.

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<v Proverbs 16>Tell your neighbor.

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<v Proverbs 16>Go and tell your neighbor.

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<v Proverbs 16>Because I want to make sure we get some accountability on this, okay?

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<v Proverbs 16>And Pastor John can't say it because he's already he already knows.

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<v Proverbs 16>Or do you forget? Okay.

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<v Proverbs 16>All right, all right.

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<v Proverbs 16>You ready?

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<v Proverbs 16>35,000 decisions every day.

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<v Proverbs 16>That is decisions you make habitually like it's decisions you make.

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<v Proverbs 16>And you don't even have to really think about them.

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<v Proverbs 16>Things that you make quickly.

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<v Proverbs 16>Like you're in the drive thru and you want to know if you want the number one or the number two, the decisions to how am I going to pay my bills, how am I going to disciple my kids?

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<v Proverbs 16>The decision to turn on the TV or get in God's word?

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<v Proverbs 16>Like we make up to an over 35,000 decisions a day.

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<v Proverbs 16>You know what that means.

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<v Proverbs 16>You have 35,000 opportunities to put yourself on a path.

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<v Proverbs 16>Do you hear me this morning, church?

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<v Proverbs 16>You have 35,000 opportunities to put yourself on a path either to Christlikeness or worldliness, to trusting your path or God's path.

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<v Proverbs 16>Every decision you make puts you somewhere, even the small ones.

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<v Proverbs 16>Which is why if you have godly habits formed in your life, which is a never ending process, you will make better decisions.

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<v Proverbs 16>Do you hear me church?

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<v Proverbs 16>Character is won or lost in the little things.

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<v Proverbs 16>This is so crucial for us to understand.

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<v Proverbs 16>It's not based off of big external signs.

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<v Proverbs 16>It's not based off our emotions.

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<v Proverbs 16>It's based off of God slowly pressing into you His character.

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<v Proverbs 16>So last third point I've got for it this morning.

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<v Proverbs 16>I want to give you a couple verses and wrap it up with some advice.

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<v Proverbs 16>But here.

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<v Proverbs 16>This I think, is sometimes overlooked.

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<v So Proverbs 15>22.

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<v So Proverbs 15>Here's a third way that we can discern God's will-- without counsel plans fail, but with many advisors they succeed.

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<v So Proverbs 15>If you are trusting on your own personal, individual, intellectual counsel, plans often fail.

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<v So Proverbs 15>I mean, it's small.

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<v So Proverbs 15>Something going to YouTube to learn how to fix something is is adding counsel to your life.

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<v So Proverbs 15>But when we bring other people's voices and wisdom and experiences into our life, we are a lot more likely to make wise decisions. Amen?

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<v Proverbs 12>15-- The way of a fool is right in his own eyes, but a wise man listens to advice.

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<v Proverbs 12>In other words, this is a hard headed person.

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<v Proverbs 12>That's what a fool is.

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<v Proverbs 12>They hear what is good, but then they do the opposite because they want to keep going in this direction.

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<v Proverbs 12>But wise people, they pause and listen to advice.

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<v Proverbs 12>They welcome advice, they seek for advice.

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<v Proverbs 12>And I can't tell you how many times we probably talked about this in the series in the book of Proverbs.

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<v Proverbs 12>But it's important definitely here when we're making decisions.

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<v Proverbs 12>So think to yourself, who are the people that I go to for advice?

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<v Proverbs 12>And if that list is less than three, look around.

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<v Proverbs 12>You have some godly people in this room.

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<v Proverbs 12>You have people I hope in your life groups.

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<v Proverbs 12>If you don't have a life group, that's what life groups are for.

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<v Proverbs 12>When you're concerned about your children's spiritual health, when you're concerned about how to make ends meet, when you're concerned about how to balance life, I can tell you where there's some answers.

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<v Proverbs 12>It's probably in the room that you could be sitting in as you're looking at God's Word.

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<v Proverbs 12>It's in your life groups, it's in your families, it's in your friends, those who are wise.

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<v Proverbs 12>And you got to be careful about that, too.

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<v Proverbs 12>You got to know who to get advice from.

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<v Proverbs 12>Here's my third and final point.

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<v Proverbs 12>If you want to discern God's will for the future, you need to seek wise counsel.

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<v Proverbs 12>Notice I didn't say seek counsel.

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<v Proverbs 12>There's plenty of counselors out there.

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<v Proverbs 12>Just go to TikTok.

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<v Proverbs 12>Go to YouTube.

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<v Proverbs 12>Go to my students.

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<v Proverbs 12>Don't don't do that.

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<v Proverbs 12>I'm just kidding.

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<v Proverbs 12>They're really smart.

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<v Proverbs 12>Sometimes.

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<v Proverbs 12>There are plenty of good, wise counselors in this church that want to pour into your life.

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<v Proverbs 12>So let me give you three pieces of advice.

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<v Proverbs 12>These are really practical pieces of advice for you this morning.

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<v Proverbs 12>Three pieces of advice.

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<v Proverbs 12>If you're struggling with this issue, as I have, I have had to grow in a lot of these areas.

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<v Proverbs 12>But I want to give me three pieces of advice. Okay. You ready?

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<v Proverbs 12>Everybody ready?

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<v Proverbs 12>Pray more than you plan.

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<v Proverbs 12>I think I spent more time trying to plan my life than pray to the God who who gave his life for me.

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<v Proverbs 12>I need to pray more than I try to scheme.

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<v Proverbs 12>So what if you prayed first then you planned?

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<v Proverbs 12>God help me understand this.

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<v Proverbs 12>Then help me make these decisions.

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<v Proverbs 12>Prayer is I didn't speak about it much in the message, but prayer is so crucial when making decisions.

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<v Proverbs 12>You should bathe your decisions in prayer, and we ought to always don't have time to make time for prayer, because life's hitting us really quickly and we have to make split second decisions.

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<v Proverbs 12>But for the most part, we can pray about those decisions that we have.

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<v Proverbs 12>So pray more than you plan.

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<v Proverbs 12>Second thing, consume God's Word more than your screens.

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<v Proverbs 12>We are in a epidemic today.

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<v Proverbs 12>I'm reading a book right now called Anxious Generation, and it details the destructive nature of phones and screens to our young people.

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<v Proverbs 12>But before I get to my young people, adults, we face that every day too.

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<v Proverbs 12>Your screen could be the death of you.

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<v Proverbs 12>Your screen can be the death of your relationship with Christ, to your family, to your marriage.

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<v Proverbs 12>How dare we say I'm going to plan my life and I'm going to keep on scrolling.

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<v Proverbs 12>But you know what?

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<v Proverbs 12>What if you formed a godly habit to put that phone and before you even picked it up in the morning, the first thing you did when you woke up, your knees hit the ground and you opened up God's word.

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<v Proverbs 12>And you looked and said, God help me navigate today the little and the big.

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<v Proverbs 12>Show me what you want from me in your word today, and I guarantee you he'll answer.

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<v Proverbs 12>Instead of the first thing you do when you get up in the morning.

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<v Proverbs 12>Check my notifications.

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<v Proverbs 12>Get in the word church.

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<v Proverbs 12>Third, listen to the Holy Spirit more than yourself.

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<v Proverbs 12>Scripture is clear do not quench the Holy Spirit.

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<v Proverbs 12>Don't operate in opposite direction of the Holy Spirit.

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<v Proverbs 12>Listen to the Holy Spirit in your life, and some of you are probably thinking how do I listen to the Holy Spirit?

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<v Proverbs 12>Great question.

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<v Proverbs 12>It’s by listening enough to God's Word, and then you listen to the Holy Spirit speaking in you.

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<v Proverbs 12>I've never heard the audible voice of God, but I hear the Holy Spirit daily, thankfully, because of God's Word.

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<v Proverbs 12>And here's something so true the Holy Spirit will never contradict the Bible.

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<v Proverbs 12>If you're listening to the Holy Spirit and it says, do this, you find it in God's Word.

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<v Proverbs 12>You shouldn't be doing that.

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<v Proverbs 12>That's not the Holy Spirit.

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<v Proverbs 12>If you're listening to the Holy Spirit and you confirm it with God's Word, you know who that is, Holy Spirit.

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<v Proverbs 12>So it's just another reason why you need to be in the word.

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<v Proverbs 12>You really can't listen fervently and honestly to the Holy Spirit unless you've got God's Word.

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<v Proverbs 12>So listen, friends, God's Word, the Holy Spirit in prayer will change the way that you make decisions, but it is the day by day push to become more like Christ.

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<v Proverbs 12>Here's your challenge this morning.

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<v Proverbs 12>Which of these things do you need to pursue harder?

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<v Proverbs 12>Which of these three do you need to pursue harder?

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<v Proverbs 12>God's wisdom, a godly character, or last but not least, wise counsel?

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<v Proverbs 12>Let's pray.

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<v Proverbs 12>Father, I'm up here today preaching about a topic and an and an issue that I don't have fully worked out that I stand before you as an imperfect man who needs your wisdom daily.

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<v Proverbs 12>God, I need your power to become a godly man.

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<v Proverbs 12>And I certainly need other wise believers, men and women of the faith to help me discern what's next.

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<v Proverbs 12>Without it, I am hopeless.

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<v Proverbs 12>But God, your wisdom is like honey that is sweet to my soul and will give me a future.

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<v Proverbs 12>And God, I pray this morning that we would be humble enough to say, God, I don't have my life figured out and I can't plan in my life, but today I'm coming to you.

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<v Proverbs 12>And even today, father, there may be people in this room who were living their own life and had never come to you for salvation.

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<v Proverbs 12>As we beautifully got to witness three young people who have given their life to Christ display it in baptism that today there might be someone who says, I've been walking my own path, but now I need to walk in God's path for my life. And the first place that begins, God, is to confess and believe in Jesus.

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<v Proverbs 12>Today I ask if there's someone in this room who has not confessed and believed that they today right now would do it, and that they would find someone before they leave to come and share it.

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<v Proverbs 12>God, I pray for everyone in this room that any decision that they have to make coming up big and small.

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<v Proverbs 12>God, the things that are scaring people, the things that keep us up at night, that you would give them wisdom, a godly character and wise counsel to take the next step.

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<v Proverbs 12>And we have a God who raised Jesus from the dead and you have the power to provide all that we need in our life.

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<v Proverbs 12>We pray this in the mighty name of Jesus.

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<v Proverbs 12>Amen.
