Invest in your marriage just like your business/career
Weekly meeting with an Agenda- Treat this like you would a valuable client.
In a quiet place
Ask to scale 1-10
Where can i improve
What is going on in the business, the Vision of the business
Out of town this week?
Anything giving extra pressure this week
What is going on with the house, family, kids
What important activities are coming up
What important appointment are coming up
CREATE THE VISION OF YOUR UNION
Who do you see yourself as the significant other?
Think like premier Romantic
Cater directly to their love language in a big way on a regular basis
Look for others to emulate
Be with others that have marriage you want or others that want the same for their marriage (community)
ALWAYS HAVE SOMETHING GREAT TO LOOK FORWARD TO
Are you excited about the future
Give yourself something to be excited about.
Is there an annual trip you take?
Is this something you like to do together that you can do on a regular basis?
Make rules - If I am gone this many days, we do a quick weekend away. Never miss date night, pillow talk on Sunday nights etc. There are so many!! Coffee Day. Get in your 10!
It’s possible to have a great marriage and a great career or business. Yes you can have it all. Envision it, claim it.