I know. But it's like, how do you ex how do you expect yourself to get into this world? You're you're putting all of your opinions on the internet, and now it's like, oh, well, don't judge it so hardly.
SPEAKER_05I'm gonna turn off my comments.
SPEAKER_02Like the Christians are the most judgmental people. The church are the ones that are commenting. Well, yeah, because we're trying to live out a Christian life or their standards.
SPEAKER_06Hello, and welcome to another episode of the Family Business with the Alesssies, where family is everybody's business, though today we're not necessarily talking about family, Stephanie Munya. Or Stephanie Alessi Munya. We are talking about something. I'll launch it in a second, but this is going to be fun. I think you're going to like it. All right. So if you're joining us, listen, you want to be updated via text. We'd love to be able to keep you informed of what we're doing. So you can go ahead and text the word family, F-A-M-I-L-Y, for our all our Latinos. F-A-M-I-L-Y. Family to 302-524-0800. Did you know, Stephanie? We are over. Hey, hey, over here. We are over. Look, 5500.
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SPEAKER_06So here we are. I'm with you.
SPEAKER_02Yes, you are then.
SPEAKER_06My oldest daughter, Stephanie.
SPEAKER_02How long has it been since the last time you invited me on a podcast?
SPEAKER_06I invited you. You know, the door is always open. The door to your dad is all the way online.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, it's been like over a year. I'm happy to be here.
SPEAKER_06I am too, because we're gonna be talking about we really should call this bubba business. Bubba business.
SPEAKER_02Yes, bubba business.
SPEAKER_06Praise and worship in church. So here's the thing: uh, you're a worship leader here at our church. So you're in um the business. I am you work uh with us, uh, you do a great job at it.
SPEAKER_03Thank you.
SPEAKER_06Musical. Uh, you've done some of your own music in the past. You write songs, uh, your own songs. You had some a nice uh contract and arrangement with integrity music. That was very cool.
SPEAKER_03Yep.
SPEAKER_06Uh as a writer, one of their writers. So you're uh excellent songwriter.
SPEAKER_03Thank you.
SPEAKER_06And um you and your mom do a lot together with the writing of songs, uh, collab together.
SPEAKER_04Yeah.
SPEAKER_06Uh you also do our Metro Worship. All things metro worship is with you, and you and Alan Paul, who's in the podcast booth with us. Uh, you work together. So being that this subject today, it's gonna be all about worship and what's happening on the uh national scene.
SPEAKER_05Gossip scene.
SPEAKER_06Okay, gossip's good. Yeah, whatever. The national scene, we we were just gonna hit some topics. So here's the three that we're gonna hit. Yeah, and we're even gonna have a visitor join us later to get his take on it. We're gonna talk about Brandon Lake, who makes a comment with regards to the Bubba in the crowd. Bubba sitting in the crowd, so the worship in the church, songs you're singing, has to be able to connect with Bubba.
SPEAKER_02Yeah.
SPEAKER_06Uh we've had this singer, Mike Tate of the Michael Tate. Michael Tate of the Newsboys.
SPEAKER_03Yep.
SPEAKER_06Um abruptly uh resigned from his post as a lead singer early in the year, only now to find out there's some uh stuff going on there, and he's come out and he's admitted to his sin.
SPEAKER_02Yep.
SPEAKER_06Uh which has to do with drugs, has to do with alcohol, and has to do with um inappropriate sexual relations. All right. So these guys both heavy hitters, and then maybe the heaviest hitter of all, especially back in the day in gospel music, is um Kirk Franklin. Kurt Franklin. And he was called out by comedian Kevin Hart at the B.E.T. Awards.
SPEAKER_03I have it right here.
SPEAKER_06And they said something uh accused him of twerking. So we got some good fodder, we've got some good stuff to talk about. It's crazy today. So you want to start with Bubba first? What do you want to do? What are you thinking?
SPEAKER_02I I'll start off with Bubba because I'm half Bubba. I don't know if you know this. No, I'm kidding. Um, yeah, that was interesting. So I actually have a hot take on that.
SPEAKER_05Yeah.
SPEAKER_02I partly agree with what Brandon Link was saying.
SPEAKER_06Okay. So why don't we explain those? Let's explain. Go ahead.
SPEAKER_02So, because a lot of people put some words in Brandon Lake's mouth, I would say, because I watched the the podcast he did with Bryce Crawford. I don't know anything about Bryce Crawford, I don't know anything about that world, but I watched the podcast and what he said was kind of right. He was talking about how um in when it comes to worship songs that we do on Sunday mornings, and when it comes to worship, we have to keep in mind the simpleton in the crowd. And he he named him and referred to him as Bubba, as the Bubba, the guy who is just coming off of work, and his wife, Brandon Lake said, his wife dragged him to church. He doesn't really want to be there. How to how do you relate to him? How do you make worship applicable and digestible to someone like him?
SPEAKER_06Doesn't know anything about the church world, doesn't really care about the church world. No, but he's there and his butt uh as uh Brandon referred to it, you're we're speaking Christianese in the music.
SPEAKER_02Yeah.
SPEAKER_06So continue.
SPEAKER_02And I think maybe the bad thing about what he said was he referred to a song he quoted, Holy, holy, holy is the Lord Almighty, which is not that Christianese, but then I think that's what took his his comments out of context. Something you have to know about Brandon Lake is that he started off with Bethel and then with and then he went over to Maverick City and then he went to Elevation. So, and I don't know who he started with before. I think it was actually Maverick and then Bethel. Anyway, he started off in the heavy, heavy spiritual church worship teams where they're like the gold clouds of dust kind of people. Like they're doing worship sets for hours on end on a regular Sunday. They're soakers, they're soakers, like unnecessarily, they go hard in the paint. And whether that's like your type of worship doesn't matter. He his background is heavy soaking worship, and then he blew up with his song Gratitude. I think that's what it's called. And then he started immediately moved to Nashville, got really close to Phil Wickham. And Phil Wickham is the number one CCM artist, like tours every year for CCM. And he did a tour with Phil Wickham and was on a massive tour singing into the masses, very radio hits. So those are two huge different demographics. You go from your people that have been in church all their life, they are obsessed with soaking worship, they're obsessed with um theological kind of worship. They love to sing about the throne room, they love to sing about holy holy. They're waiting to see the dust cloud of gold to appear.
unknownYeah.
SPEAKER_02And then he jumps from that to singing to the masses in stadiums and arenas with Phil Wickham to people that just listen to his music on the radio and are that maybe they go to church on Sunday, but they just like to listen to Christian music so they don't listen to secular music.
SPEAKER_03Right.
SPEAKER_02So I kind of see where Brandon Lake's coming from because he's looking at the people in the crowd that were dragged there by their family, probably don't want to be there. They have no idea what it is to sing about let incense arise, um, let the the entering into the throne room of heaven, the veil was torn, let's lay down our crowns. Even though those things are beautiful and biblical and we need to learn about it. You like, have you ever sung to somebody? Have you ever seen somebody's face when they don't know what that stuff means? They can't really worship. They don't even know where to start.
SPEAKER_03Right.
SPEAKER_02So, you know, like you said, I I help lead worship here every single Sunday.
SPEAKER_03Right.
SPEAKER_02And we're in the heart of Miami. And in Miami, you have no idea what people's backgrounds are. You have no idea where people, what they did just the night before. And they don't, you don't have any context. And worship, something else to consider, in every contemporary service today, in every, in every church service, worship is the first thing that a guest is going to see when they come to church. Those are the first words they're going to hear that a church speaks. And thank God for that because we're putting our eyes on God in those first 20 minutes. But also, if I'm singing a song that's about day and night, let incense arise, and that person that's in the crowd just came, was at the club the night before, or they came from a Catholic background, they came from an atheist background, they came from a Buddhist background, whatever it may be, they have no idea what we're singing about. No idea. So I kind of get it. Like I, when I'm putting together a set list, I have to be very mindful of where these people are coming from. And I was talking to Chris about it. Like, it's it's good to remember that it's part of the formula. Like what Brandon Lake said, he's right because it's just part of the formula of a set list. I get four songs on Sunday to worship God. So I like to include something that's very, very simple, like goodness of God, I thank you, God. I I want to just worship you, God. Then I can do something that is a little bit more Christianese, so they say. But I like to lean more towards simple things because you have to make the worship digestible to the very general mixed crowd that's in your church on a Sunday.
SPEAKER_06Very good. All right. So what then do you say about that mindset watering down the church environment? Because now you're saying, I don't want to make it too holy, too spiritual. Then the opposite of that is, well, that means we're gonna make it worldly. And if you're gonna make it worldly, then you're watering down the potency of worship in the environment. Do you think there's something to be said about that?
SPEAKER_02Yeah, of course. Of course. You know, it is tough when we'll be in the middle, like we're singing that song, Made for More. I wasn't made to be tended in a grave. I was called by name.
SPEAKER_03Powerful.
SPEAKER_02Born and raised back to life again. I was made for more. And it's the worst when you sing that song after a really good worship song. So, like a couple weeks ago, we did um This is the day that the Lord has made. I will rejoice and be glad in it. And it's all about like this is the day God has made. The song put our eyes on God. It was very God focused. And then, uh, oh, and then I think we did I thank God right after that. So again, God focused. And you could tell people had their hands raised and they were singing about God. Well, then we did made for more right after that. That was very me focused. And even me personally, I was like, oh, that was a weird switch. Like the focus now is on me. And I could see why some people might say that dumbs down your worship. Because, like, I mean, as a worship leader, you want to take people higher and higher in the set list. You only want to take them deeper. And when, and you have to be strategic in that. So when you throw in a song that is a little bit more shallow, like a made for more. Um I can't think of another reference now, but you do feel that hard left turn, and you're like, oh no, I hope I didn't just mess up all that the Holy Spirit was trying to do here for the sake of just pleasing the crowd.
SPEAKER_05Right.
SPEAKER_02Um it's tough, Dad, because I've also seen God use some of the worst songs to bless people. Like, I really have. I I I think that when I mean if you're singing bad songs that just are bad, sure, it can dumb it down, but I don't know. I I I think that if the culture of your church, if what the pastor, if what you are singing a line with, aligns with what the pastor is preaching, and if you are standing under your covering with your pastor and the pastor is speaking God and he's speaking word doctrine and he's speaking sound things, I really don't think you can go wrong. Like we've sung some go wrong by what? By shallowing the experience. Yeah. Because I'm sorry, there's some people in the crowd that are shallow.
SPEAKER_06Right.
SPEAKER_02That need those shallow songs.
SPEAKER_06Okay, so the argument there on the other side of that is that they are shallow, but why go down to their depth or their level? Why not? I mean, if we're gonna sing to God, about God in the environment, then uh there's some scripture references to if I am, if I be lifted up, I will draw all men to me. That's that God is making that reference. So that then means if we lift him up, then men, Bubas, uh will be drawn to him.
SPEAKER_04Yeah.
SPEAKER_06Uh so that that's the argument from the other side that people are saying, well, if we dumb this down, we water this down, then there's no power, no juice in the environment. So then there's no drawing to God. So they look at a a Brandon Lake and they're like, you know, you you're shallow, dude.
SPEAKER_02I know, but I don't think he was advocating for a dumbing it down. I think he was advocating for take these big topics of truth and make them digestible. Psalm 23, the most popular psalm ever.
SPEAKER_05Right.
SPEAKER_02I I can't believe I can't quote it right now. He leads me beside the Lord is my shepherd, I shall not what? He leads me beside still waters. It says me a lot. Yeah. It's very me focused, it's very simplified. Um, even Psalm 91, he lifts up my the I will strike my foot, I will, I won't strike my foot on the rock. The angels are around me. I think that people have a wrong definition of shallowing because I've seen some shallow songs, and it's just to me, shallow is just your you your image of your team. I okay. We have time to to like work out these opinions on this podcast as we're going longer. So let's take some time here. I think that our definition definition of shallow might be off.
SPEAKER_03Okay.
SPEAKER_02Because I've seen a lot of worship teams, I've seen a lot of worship bands just write bad songs and they get glorified because of their image and because of their TikToks and because of the style that they use. That to me is shallow because the songs are just bad, they're just not good. Like, but then you have these worship teams, like goodness of God is a very simple song. Yeah, all my life it's simple, and people is that shallow though? It's not shallow because you're singing about the goodness of God, simple and shallow. It's two different things. Yeah, to me, shallow is a team that is trying to blow up their worship songs because of the image that they have and of the trendiness that they have. But the depths are maybe what if the depths are simple?
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_02Like we're doing an internship right now with some musicians at the church, and last week I told them print out all of the biggest songs from the early 2000s till now. All of the big songs. So they found All I Need Is You by Hill Song, Oceans by Hill Song, Um, Holy Forever, Worthy of It All, Good Good Father. And all of the songs are simple. All of them. That was, and I said, line them all up and find one correlation between all the songs. All of them had repetitive choruses and repetitive bridges. All of them. None of them got into Christianese. None of them did. They the most Christianese they did was quoting scripture. So, goodness of God, your goodness is running after me. That's scripture. Your goodness will run after me all the days of my life. Trust in God, I sought the Lord and He answered. Blessed is certainly like it quoted scripture. That was as Christianese as it got.
SPEAKER_06Right.
SPEAKER_02But they all were simple. And I think that's what Brandon Lake was trying to advocate for. Just simple worship. That, like, yes, we need the holy holies. We need the liturgical worship. We need that.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_02But there's also room for the simple. And no, I if you are balancing out your worship set, there's no way to make it shallow. I think that you are inviting those shallow people to go into the depths if you do it right. And yeah, I think you need to meet them in the shallows for one song.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_02For one song.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_02And maybe you singing about the goodness of God, like it's simple, just like he was advocating for, but it's not shallow. Does that make sense? Am I making sense?
SPEAKER_06Yes, yes. Uh, I think that's kind of a a good phraseology for it all. Well, here's the example. Um Jelly Roar.
SPEAKER_04Yeah.
SPEAKER_06Okay. Yeah. Uh I don't know where he's at in his walk with God, but he heard uh Brandon Lake Lake sing that song. Um praise Hallelujah.
SPEAKER_02Hard fought, hallelujah. Hard thought, hallelujah.
SPEAKER_06Hallelujah. Great song.
SPEAKER_02Yeah.
SPEAKER_06And I I don't know the whole story, but he was interested in um connecting with Brandon. And actually, I think it was his idea, if I'm not mistaken, I could be wrong.
SPEAKER_04Yeah, I don't know the story.
SPEAKER_06That caused them to say, Hey, we want to do this song with you, Brandon. So here's a guy when you look at a jelly roll, uh, tattered up, big as his room, not the guy, I think he came out of prison.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, yeah.
SPEAKER_06Uh definitely searching for God. He he would be the Bubba in the room.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_06And now he is on this one song with Brandon Lake, and it's a beautiful, moving moment of a song that that does it the focus of it is more testimonial. I, because of God and his strength, uh his faithfulness, his goodness to me, my life was such a mess, but I have this hard fought, hallelujah, this this victory that I'm able to have today, that I can look up into the heavens, lift my hands up and say, Yeah, hallelujah. I'm here, I've done it. Yeah, I'm connected with God, I'm I'm still living, I'm alive. It's a lot of me focused, it's a lot of flesh focus, yeah, but it does show you the power of uh a testimony to what God could do if you do your part, God's gonna do his part. So you could almost say that that would be a shallow, me focus kind of a song. But yet when you listen to it, you connect with it, because all of us are on this journey. All of us are trying to fight our way out of some challenges and battles that we have in our life. We know ultimately God's the one that's gonna help us get through it, but we got to do the fighting as well. Greater is he that's in you than he that's on the in the world. We we gotta get him out of us. We gotta fight while while he's with us.
SPEAKER_04Mm-hmm.
SPEAKER_06So what Brandon uh really was showing us is even through his own life, all right, the songs that he sings uh is attracting. The Bubas of the world.
SPEAKER_04Yeah.
SPEAKER_06So if your mom was sitting here today, here's what she would ask. Because there there was uh, I guess one um one person came out and just went on a rant about how this was wrong and that it was sin for Brandon Lake to talk like this and even consider dumbing it down and watering down the gospel, just going off. So much so that your grandma, Faith, went on there and blasted her. It's crazy because grandma got worked.
SPEAKER_0280-something-year-old, grandma.
SPEAKER_06Yeah, 84-year-old, grandma, 82-year-old. She got all worked up, more or less told her stuff. You know, just stop your blabbering mouth. She went at the girl.
SPEAKER_02That's me though. Oh my god.
SPEAKER_06I will be that person. I was proud of her. She went at her. But mom was like, okay, uh, let me ask that girl. When's the last time she brought anybody, any Bubas to church?
SPEAKER_02That's what I'm talking about.
SPEAKER_06Now, you know, if you're gonna sit there and raise the finger of judgment against something like that, yeah, then okay, who have you brought to church lately or put in an environment where the lack of Christianese would have, you know, been offensive or the Christianese would have been offensive to the people that you would have brought in. But when was the last time you've done that? You've done that. And you know, you you've got to go back. I I we know that the Brandon Lakes of the world, the for them to even be on a podcast that's talking about worship at that level, they have been around some people.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_06And they've seen the good and the bad and the ugly. Yes. Of what that worship environment can sometimes become when stages are so big and the bright lights are so bright. He's been there. And he's probably, like you have, uh, one of the hardest parts of our day on Sunday is the start of the service.
SPEAKER_02Yeah.
SPEAKER_06Right, Alan? It's the hardest part.
SPEAKER_02It's the hard yes.
SPEAKER_06Y'all have to get up there with your instruments, with your teams, and you're looking at people who's walking in exhausted, just drop kids off at the kids' ministry, running in late.
SPEAKER_02Have their coffee in their hand.
SPEAKER_06Have their coffee in their hand. They're they're tired. It's been a long week. They've bat fought some battles, they're they're having some challenges. They come in, they're not ready to sing their hard-fought hallelujah just yet. They're they're not. Yeah. And y'all have to, as we say, prime the pump. You gotta get in there.
SPEAKER_02Yeah.
SPEAKER_06And when you do that, we all know this. Sometimes it's the music. Yeah. Sometimes it's a song. The words of a song can pull people up. Most of the time it's not.
SPEAKER_04Yeah.
SPEAKER_06Most of the time you have to create an environment, okay, that is now drawing people in to go somewhere.
SPEAKER_02Yep.
SPEAKER_06Because your job is hard.
SPEAKER_02Yep.
SPEAKER_06And I think, you know, back in the day for me, well, even to this day, I don't come out at the beginning.
SPEAKER_02No.
SPEAKER_06I don't because it's half full. And I don't want to get my heart all messed up and my head all messed up seeing half of the people there. And then when you're doing your music, people are coming in late, so it's distracting. And that drives me crazy is all get out. Y'all don't have that option. You got to get out there. You had to choose a song list, choose the right kind of singer that's going to be a part of that song list. And most of our churches don't have full-time what Maverick City or what some of these other churches, elevation and so on, bring to the table with all their worship people. You guys are in most churches, 95% of the churches are running on volunteers. So they're getting there late. They're they're trying to now, you know, learn a song. So you're pulling a set list together.
SPEAKER_02Yep. That's tough. It's so tough. And I there was, it happens all the time where I will be deep in worship. And I think that I'm having a moment with God and I open my eyes. And the people in the front row are just looking at me. Or they have their phone right up in their face, videotaping me. And I'm like, hello. Glad you're part of this. And I'll in my mind I'll think, okay, maybe I need to go deeper. Maybe we need to extend the song. Let's put on a hymn. The hymn will make them sing. Come on. And in my head, I'm like, just get off the stage. They just want to hear the sermon. I've told so many of the youth worship team, like, hey, if you feel like you need to go deeper, if you really feel like there's a night where you need to extend the song, try it. But nine times out of 10, they just want to hear the sermon. They're probably just going to get something from the sermon. Just get off.
SPEAKER_06All right. So, so I I do want to say to you, I'm in agreement with you.
SPEAKER_02Yeah.
SPEAKER_06Yeah. I think that was an overstep. Yeah, that was an overstep on somebody to sit there and judge that comment. Because the church environment is about God, yes, but it's about people too. Yeah. And if we can sing something that's going to say to the person out there, you're good. Um, you know, you're you're worthy of it. Uh, don't walk in shame. Yeah. It's good that you're here today. You're you're gonna get touched, you're gonna be encouraged.
SPEAKER_03Yes.
SPEAKER_06Um, then that's a good thing. And when you music, who's just it's a universal language, yep, it's gonna move people. And because we are so me focused, that is who we are. Yeah, part of that service has to be about the person.
SPEAKER_04Yeah.
SPEAKER_06So it's not dumbing down the environment, but uh where we start at the beginning of it, where there is that entry level, it can't stay at the entry level. Yeah, it's got to go deeper. Yes, or it's gotta go higher.
SPEAKER_04Yes.
SPEAKER_06And it's it's you know, my biggest complaint over the years was they talk about the seeker-sensitive crowd.
SPEAKER_04Yeah.
SPEAKER_06My biggest complaint over the years was that people were bringing secular music to the table and singing it in church.
SPEAKER_02Yes.
SPEAKER_06And that was ridiculous. Because now you're like, okay, you're gonna use a secular song to try to do something spiritual.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_06Nah. That that wasn't going to flow.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_06So that was a big difference between what Brandon was like Lake was saying. So, hey, we're pro-Brandon Lake. I am and what he was able to say was true. Let's keep a good balance.
SPEAKER_02No, and don't forget, Brandon Lake was the guy that went into all those prisons and led worship to thousands of prison members. Yeah. And something else to consider, one last thing about this is well, actually, it can apply to the rest of what we're going to talk about. Um, every worship singer and songwriter is called to different things. Are we gonna bring him in?
SPEAKER_06Bring in your brother. Keep going.
SPEAKER_02Oh man, bring in my brother. So um every worship leader is called to different things, every singer-songwriter is called to different things. Here he is. And I'm gonna get very music industry, which means you guys aren't gonna pay attention to me. You're not gonna really care what I'm saying. But if any listeners care about music industry stuff, this is for you. So you're gonna have your mainstream artists, and you're going to also have your non-mainstream artists. And the truth is the non-mainstream artists are probably better musicians, better writers, better singers than the mainstream, because the mainstream artist has to sacrifice a little bit of complexity in their instrumentation and in their music, musicality to appeal to the masses. Like that's just the fact of it. Like espresso from Sabrina Carpenter, that it's not that it was uh an easy song to write, but it is not an advanced song musically. So that if you if Brandon Lake feels called to reach the masses, like on the radio, but his face on billboards, he's going on tours, then he will have to sacrifice a little bit to appeal to the masses. Then you have like your David Binions, who wants to write an album about the revelation, the book of Revelation.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_02And that will not appeal to the masses. That's just not gonna happen. But it's gonna appeal to a niche group of people that love it, that want to go deep. So, and you have to just know as a writer, as a worship, leader, what you're called to do.
SPEAKER_06Well, you got your hair product in.
SPEAKER_02See, they don't care what I'm talking about.
SPEAKER_06There we go.
SPEAKER_01I didn't even say anything. You said great things. She's just a little bothered. I was promised a walk-in song.
SPEAKER_06And okay, you didn't get you. All right. So we pretty much beat up the Bubba comment and we favor on the side of Brandon Lake. Yes. We agree. Oh, yeah. All right. So do you have any input before I ask you a big Yeah, yeah.
SPEAKER_01No, we were just talking about it earlier. I just think that, you know, even the idea of appealing to the lowest, you know, common denominator, whatever it is. Um, C.S. Lewis wrote some of the deepest theological work that anybody can find. And yet he's kind of most known for A, his kids' books, or B, his book Mere Christianity, which was written for the purpose of what is the lowest common thread of Christianity that people can understand. You need all of it. You need the music for the bubbas, you need the music for the deepest moments of your life, you need all of that. I we were talking, you know, we actually are teaching people theology in our worship, and we're worshiping God at the same time. So in every room and every church, there's a first grader in the faith, there's a PhD student in the faith, and this one has the hard job of putting together a set list that can teach all of them, pull all of them, prepare all of them. And I just believe that if the heart is right, God is blessed by it all.
SPEAKER_03Yes.
SPEAKER_01Very good.
SPEAKER_06Well, we're all in agreement. Okay, so here's the other issue. And I maybe we should hit the twerking tab. This is hard. I'm very passionate about this one. Do you know? Would you like to explain the uh how this all came up?
SPEAKER_01Well, it's been years in the making. So Kirk Franklin blew up at first back in the in the 90s, and Kevin Hart, joking about Kirk Franklin. Uh, you know, and and he really wrote some great music. I grew up loving Kirk Franklin. Mom was even kind of loosely connected to the same people, same world. So she was always a big, big fan and friend of Kirk Franklin. But it just seemed like a few years back, it just really looked like he looked at artists of the world and decided I'd rather do what they're doing, but just keep singing my stuff.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_01And videos just started surfacing of the way he was performing. And I'm, I mean, the whole point of this podcast was hey, we're talking about things around the table. We should put a camera around it.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, right.
SPEAKER_01There were conversations around the table about what he was doing being downright disgusting.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_01And I know we want to be more careful with how we say it, but it really was it was appalling.
SPEAKER_03Yeah. Yeah.
SPEAKER_01The way that somebody who is a gospel artist would behave on the platform, sometimes even basically being shirtless.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_00And so recently, the world has noticed.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_00And so even this is kind of funny. Kevin Hart. Well, this was at the Grammys, right? This is at the BET Awards. At the B E T awards.
SPEAKER_02Kirk, do me a favor. When you get your award tonight, don't come up here from front twerking, okay? Don't come up here popping. Don't do it, Kirk. Don't do it. That's what Kirk be doing. He'd be trying to blame it on the Lord. The Lord didn't ask for that. Put it away, Kirk.
unknownPut it away.
SPEAKER_01It reminds me of when Joe Rogan years ago was talking about Carl Lenz. And it's like when the world notices that there's a breakdown between a Christian and what they're putting out into the world, and they're like what you always say, when their presentation is not matching their presentation. When the world notices that, it's crazy. It's like, oh I know, man.
SPEAKER_06That's what happened to Kurt. Nobody in the church wanted to point it out. It took Kevin Hart to joke.
SPEAKER_02It took Kevin Hart to joke about it.
SPEAKER_06I know. On the B E T stage. And you know the crazy thing is, I really like Kurt Franklin, Kurt Franklin.
SPEAKER_02I know.
SPEAKER_06I like what he used to do with his music. And uh he he was he was, I think, um, he was embarrassed if you watch footage. And then he in his acceptance speech of one of his awards, he uh he kind of let everybody know, you know, I don't always walk it and like I should. I don't always sing um like I could, you know, I'm not even that good at great of a singer. And he he looked like he was humbled quite a bit up on that stage and environment, which hey, if that's if that's what this will do, great. Yeah, because I like him. I I would hate for him to be that guy that at the end of his reign or the end of his career, he would be remembered for this, for twerking instead of all the great music that he brought to the church and the body of Christ. Because I know man, he he's he's a legend in that environment and his family. Good people. Yes, good people, just maybe, maybe the draw of that huge stage uh you know gets a little too Hollywoodish. Now it becomes more show, and and that that's not that that's not good.
SPEAKER_02No, and I I can't imagine what that must be like when you were number one for like a decade. And every time you'd put out an album, it was like everybody bought your CD, everybody came out, you signed all of those C like you were the the top dog only for a generation to pass, and now it's Maverick City is top dog, Hillsong. You've got these kids that are putting on this rock band, like that's gotta be really hard. And then the only way for you to be number one again is to make something viral, to have like a viral moment. And I think that honestly, I just think he kind of got caught up in the social media. I really just think it that's all it was.
SPEAKER_00Like so much nicer than me.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, I know. I know. Oh boy, please.
SPEAKER_01Why do you turn it red? Go.
SPEAKER_02No, but let me finish what I'm saying. Okay, because live by the viral, die by the viral. Like, if if you're gonna now be on center stage and you want peep people's attention and you love, you get the satisfaction of everybody raving about you online from all of your cool songs and the way that you're dressing. Okay, now you're in the spotlight. The gear, they're gonna come at you for those things. And I think that he just was like, oh man, I went too far into this. That was dumb. I need to back off. Because it just made him look like shallow, like all the rest of the influencers or like the rest of those social media heads.
SPEAKER_06All right, Bubba.
SPEAKER_01You know, Dad, to me, it's a struggle because it's the the length of time you're in the game, the more you should know.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_01And we can't come and say to he who has been given much, much is required. And then all of a sudden, you're right, when a guy is getting to the end of his life and he's clearly been given a lot, yeah, suddenly go, well, you know, uh, man, it just got to his head. It's like, well, look at the punishment all throughout scripture for the kings that looked at what God had done in their lives and said, you know what, this was me. And yes, if they repented, they were, they were all right.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_01But that that's the reality, that's the doorstep I think he's at, needing to show repentance. Yeah, it's not something tiny. It's man, you you got to this place in your head where you really thought when you got to a concert, your name is the one that needed to be on all the walls. Yeah. And that that I can understand how little by little by little you get there.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_01And I can even understand the need for brands in the Christian world. Like I get all that. But to get to the place where you're singing songs about God and you're doing things with your body, Kevin Hart wouldn't even do. There's something in your in, there's something that's gone really wrong.
SPEAKER_04Yeah.
SPEAKER_01And if he recognizes he's at the doorstep of repentance, like that's where he's needed, you'll get my you'll get my fandom back. Like, I think that would even even that would show any uh deeper level of somebody who is honorable that they'll go, shoot, I missed the mark there. But it's been a long time coming.
SPEAKER_04Yeah.
SPEAKER_01And a lot of people before Kevin Hart have had opinions on this. And he has not only doubled down, but he's allowed his team. If you go on his Instagram and you go through his reels, it is close-up shots of him doing these.
SPEAKER_02You're right, you're right.
SPEAKER_01And then followed by opinions that are much more here's what I think, and not, hey, here's what, here's what's wisdom, or here's what what God's doing. So it seems to be a sign, unfortunately, of pride. And I just think every aspect of this conversation needs to be represented. Dad, you're absolutely right. The church needs to be able to welcome him 100% back with open arms because no, especially as a young man, I don't want to hang this man by a noose that maybe one day I have to walk into because pride will come for us all. At the same time, if we're going to tell people to he who is given much, much is required, man. Kirk, it's hard to look at what God has given you and say that you're you he hasn't given you a lot more than he's given a lot of other people. Like you are required, he should be representing Christ at the BET Awards. And yet somehow he's a joke.
SPEAKER_02Yeah. Cece Wyans is doing it. She is she's representing God. And you know, Chris, I think you're absolutely right. And another aspect to it is the music industry in the Christian world in Nashville is really is having a massive identity crisis right now.
SPEAKER_06It always has stuff.
SPEAKER_02Always because it's trying to take kingdom gifts and God-given gifts and put it through a secular formula.
SPEAKER_06Yep.
SPEAKER_02And it's putting it through a secular strategy. And it never ever works. I mean, it it gets your name out there, gets you on a tour, it makes you super popular and it gets the albums out there. But for your longevity, for your character, for your commitment to to character and to just being a basic Christian, it does not help that out.
SPEAKER_06That's the business aspect of this music industry that's really not healthy at all. Yeah. Back when I came out of college, okay, in 84, I I had a little bit of money that one of my grandmothers had left all the grandkids. So I was gonna be a concert promoter when I came back from college. And Papa had his church, and I'm not on staff, but I'm working because I had uh uh dad my dad made me work construction when I came out of college. But I wanted to do concerts and I was had the zeal, and so my dad's like, yeah, you can do it, but church can't afford it. So if you're gonna do it, you gotta pay for it. Well, I all I had was that little inheritance, uh few grand from one of the grandmothers. And I'm like, you know what? I'm gonna put that money to use. I'm gonna use it for the kingdom. So I had a big concert, sold tickets. I'm thinking, okay, I'm gonna make money on this thing. This is gonna be amazing. We're gonna get on the radio. WMCU is gonna promote it. I'm all of 24 years old, and I have this drive. This is gonna, this is gonna blow up our city, and our church is gonna be known with this concerts. And so I I scheduled like four of them in a row and I'd signed contracts for all of them. Well, the first one ended up taking all the money of my inheritance because it was a terrible deal, couldn't get it done, and so on. Uh, but the the moral of that story, I mean the story in the long run was I lost all that money. But um what I saw when it started down the business side of it and what was happening behind the scenes back then, it was just so icky. It was not church work, it definitely wasn't ministry, it was all business. Yeah, and here these artists are getting up there with their band, and I'm thinking they're church guys. Yeah. No, man, they're out there smoking in the back, drinking, you know, and it's like, what is this? You're going into my church and they're cussing, dropping F bombs. Back then, it was like, whoa, what a rude awakening to that kind of world. And that's what it is. And the business side of it can get so fleshly, so carnal. It is what it is, right? So then you've got these guys in the middle of it. They're dealing with concert promoters, they're dealing with musicians, they're dealing with managers, they're They're dealing with having to fill an arena. It's easy to go carnal. So then when they're in the middle of that concert and all the lights are going and all this is happening, it's easy to go to the go in the flesh and stay in the flesh because now it moved and we got to be real. And those big environments like that, that's not ministry moments. No, those are concerts. They're just moving a crowd. Okay. So that moving in the crowd, you're going to do whatever you're going to do to entertain. If you're moving a crowd, you're in entertainment. And we should be very careful to not think the guys up there, Kirk or anyone else, in that moment, all right, they're ministers. Yeah. They may be in a church environment, but in that environment, they're entertainers. Yeah.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_06And not everybody sees the the dividing line there and can separate the two, which is why it just won't work. Yeah. Because you can't be a minister one day and then be an entertainer the next and and ride that line. Yeah. Because who's judging us? Is it the church that judged him harsher? Or is it the world?
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_06Because in that BET environment, it seemed like the world took their opportunity to make a comment and a statement that says, you know what, we want, we may not be Christian and we may not want to sit there under a minister's voice every week. But it seems like the world was saying, but come on, be a minister.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_06If you're a minister, be a minister.
SPEAKER_01Well, here's the here's the funny thing about that. I'm not going to speak to Kirk because I really don't know his motivation. But it would seem like somebody that would do exactly what you just said, get go carnal because of all of it, would want the satisfaction, would want the affirmation of the world and of that room, not even of the church, that they might use the church as a launching pad, but eventually they would want the world to acknowledge them. So let this be a lesson to all the young entertainers. The world's not going to appreciate you, even if you step away from some of the spiritual, godly stuff in order to cater to them because they will in that environment mock you.
SPEAKER_04Yeah.
SPEAKER_01So, you know, I you use the term entertainer. Well, let's think about a comedian, though. Okay. Let's say a comedian gets up there, they're a Christian. We brought a Christian comedian in Tim Hawkins years ago. Hilarious. The only reason we brought him into the church was because he was a Christian. We said, man, the church needs Christian entertainers. Yeah. That man was hilarious. He was clean. Nate Bargazzi, right now, probably the biggest comedian out there. Clean, family friendly, doesn't talk about anything inappropriate or use inappropriate words.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_01The minute a comedian that says he was Christian would talk about something inappropriate or curse, we'd all go, oof, that's that's a break in your game. Yeah. Why don't we look at musicians the same? I know. Why, why but but it's not about being a minister, it's about being a Christian. Yeah. Christians don't use words like that. Yeah. Yeah. Entertainers, uh, comedians are not in any way claiming to be pastors. Yeah. They're entertainers. But the Christians won't, the Christian ones walk the line. Not all of them in their personal life, but when they're on the platform, they walk the line. I'm a clean comedian. I know. My jokes are clean. I'm not talking about inappropriate stuff. And if they ever did step away, we would say, mm-mm. I know. But with singers, we just go, ah, you know, they're not worship leaders. It's not about being a leader, it's about being a Christian. I know. Yeah.
SPEAKER_02And you know what's so weird? I today, this next generation, because our whole life has been put out on the social media, you think now, oh, well, you can't judge them because you don't know them. And I heard this one TikTok or podcaster the other day. She was like, How could you judge these pastors and these speakers and these singers when you don't even know them? And I'm like, well, they put themselves out there. They're preaching out there. They put theirs their videos on TikTok. They put their message on YouTube for, and there's a comment section. This world requires judgment. This world is going, you're gonna take recruit, uh, you're going to take critique. But also, like the church, we aren't judging you just because we don't like you. We're trying to maintain a standard.
SPEAKER_01And by the way, the logic of that doesn't hold up because if that person actually believed you shouldn't be judging that person, they wouldn't be judging you for doing judging that person. I know.
SPEAKER_02But it's like, how do you expect how do you expect yourself to get into this world? You're you're putting all of your opinions on the internet, and now it's like, oh, well, don't judge it so hard.
SPEAKER_05I'll turn off my comments.
SPEAKER_02Like the Christians are the most judgmental people. The church are the ones that are commenting. Well, yeah, because we're trying to live out a Christian life where there's standards.
SPEAKER_06Yeah, standard. All right. So then this brings us to a really sad story. Okay, this Michael Tate.
SPEAKER_02Yeah.
SPEAKER_06Newsboys. Um, man, this is what ultimately happens, though, if you don't get spot checked.
SPEAKER_02Yeah.
SPEAKER_06All right. So if Kurt's not getting spot checked and Brandon's not putting it out there to, all right, let's challenge your thoughts here, or the whole idea of your statement, then you end up with a Michael Tate who is lead singer for Newsboys, and they've been around forever. But the guy abruptly resigns in January. Then only, and it just came out again today, more information about it, only then to find out that on their tours, in the tour buses, this guy's doing coke, this guy's doing uh drinking alcohol, as are others on the in the tour bus. But three gentlemen, young men come out saying that he sexually fondled them, messed with them during these uh tour rides and tour buses and and events, and even at his home and his jacuzzi and stuff. And it's it's really kind of sick that this guy who is so talented, I know, has this stuff going on. And this was not like for a year. This goes on for uh a few years, yeah, from what I understand. And nobody decades, decades, nobody called it out.
SPEAKER_02I know, I know.
SPEAKER_01You know, yeah, um that's about it. It breaks your heart, you don't know what to say. If a Christian ever has to sign an NDA to be at a Christian event, you probably shouldn't be there. And the reason it doesn't get out is because of stuff like that. The reason that it randomly comes out all this time later is because those NDAs go out. And you know, that really does it really does draw a line between the church and the body of believers. Yeah. Right. One of the mistakes Christians make is the minute we hear someone shares our faith, we think they are they are Billy Graham. They are somebody who is just like us, would be in here talking like us. And that could not be further from the truth. And I, you know, one of the weirdest verses in scripture is okay, fine, be gentle as doves, but be wise as serpents. Yep. And it it this shows this is a reminder to the church, even when it comes to the music you're listening to, the people that you might be celebrating, be wise as serpents. There were there were tells with Michael Tate. We used to have a conversation. I actually stopped liking newsboys when he stepped into it because I'm like, there's something about this guy I don't like now. I never would have thought this. Not claiming that, but there were signs. Yeah, yeah. And it just shows the need for, you know, I know we use the word discernment, but that sometimes comes across like a spiritual gift. I can tell things no one else can. That's not what I'm saying. It's there are biblical principles that give give people away. Yeah. And I don't think you know, I don't know.
SPEAKER_02No, you're right. And one thing that I know about Nashville, I I only was there for a couple years going back and forth. But one thing I noticed is that Nashville talks. They talk. People know things. And if they gossip a lot over there, and they for sure knew about these things, for sure. Well, one of the guys came out and said that he realized that more people had experienced it, which means they were talking.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_02And the fact that not one executive, not one AR rep, not one booking agent, not one person sat back and thought he's leading these people in. What would people do if they knew that I was a Jesus freak? He did a whole movie about my God's not dead, he's surely alive, and he's living on the inside.
SPEAKER_01The videos we're showing our kids right now of them singing the old songs, like I'm in the Lord's Army, is sang by Michael Tate. And they came out in the last three or four years.
SPEAKER_02Not one, and maybe they did, we don't know. But why didn't anybody say, Hey, you need help? You are cocaine?
SPEAKER_05Yeah.
SPEAKER_02Cigarettes are one thing, but cocaine, and then to even allow a whole environment where cigarettes and drinking that hard is allowed on a tour bus, like is anybody a Christian tour? Yeah, I I don't understand. I don't understand.
SPEAKER_01You know, we we we we destroyed David because David did a terrible thing. I mean, murder, right? David did terrible things. The one thing you gotta give David credit for, no one had to come and tell him except the prophet. The minute the prophet told him, yeah, it was like I did this.
SPEAKER_02Yeah.
SPEAKER_01The minute the Lord came and told him, This whole plague's going on because you counted the people. Yeah, okay, I get it. Yeah, that was me.
SPEAKER_02You're right.
SPEAKER_01This is absurd, yeah, because of how long I it somebody had to have said.
SPEAKER_06I know, you know what I mean? Like, oh yeah. But that that's where dollars really talked, man. It's I know that that money is a it's a machine, that whole deal is a machine, and even in the Christian industry, um somebody's got to be making money. There's sponsors out there, those are expensive concerts. Uh, if you want to compete with the world to at least fill arenas, yeah, then you know it's kind of like when in Rome do is the Romans, you're gonna have a lot of that stuff that that is transpiring. That is not the way we do church work. No, and hopefully that stuff's not happening in church, though there's there's pockets of it. But this right here, uh that this happens because we promote gift over character. Yeah, yes, and it's a constant in the entertainment world. It's it is, and so you just don't look at the character of these people. And some of them are set up for failure because we do put them on a platform. Yeah, and the moment we put them on a platform or a pedestal, you that just means you're gonna come off that thing. You can't stay there forever. And the enemy wants to come in. Scripture says kill, steal, destroy. He's not our friend. So when we buy into his ways, he on the other side of that, of his ways, buying into the the the evil of it, the sin of it, the the the wages of sin is death. Yeah, there's death on the other side of it, and the enemy's gonna bring you so far that he's gonna, hey, you're not my bud. I don't care for you. I don't, he doesn't know love. Yeah, so he entices you in with something that feels so good, looks so good. Sin is always good for a season. Yeah, but when that season's up, get ready. Yeah, now comes the death. So you've got now a career that is destroyed. You've got other people who worked with you all these years and the other band members, what they know, who knows.
SPEAKER_04Yeah.
SPEAKER_06Now he did come out, you got to give him credit. He's come out, he's really repented. He he didn't try to cover his sin. He's been through therapy and he's been through treatment center to try to help him with the the alcohol and the drugs. And and he knows that you know he's pretty much ruined his life and his reputation, and he's very apologetic to those that he has hurt. So it's good to see that he's coming out in that way to say, man, I've sinned. You know, guys, forgive me. I I've hurt you.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_06It's good to see that. That's what ultimately we want, because we do know that we are mere human beings, we are flesh, and we we will make a mistake. We just, you know, we as a family. Yeah. I'd like to start to bring this thing in.
SPEAKER_04Yeah.
SPEAKER_06Because why are we even doing this today? We're we're we're having this conversation like we're together in our living room around the dinner table, having lunch after church on Sunday. We're having this conversation because it reminds us of what we can never allow to happen within our ranks.
SPEAKER_04Yeah.
SPEAKER_06And success is beautiful. We're thankful for the success, but we know that you know it's part of the three G's. We can't touch the glory of it. That's not ours. God is blessed. When God gives you a song, Steph, it's not, it may have your name on it, songwriting, but we know ultimately it came from God. Um when God gives you a message, Chris, and you're up there and you're speaking it and you're sharing it, and you're getting the applause of men, uh you know it's not ultimately you. And when we get up on that our stage, our platform to do what we do, we know there's a whole lot of people that are trusting that we are the same people off the stage as we are on the stage. So we're not judging these people that we bring to the uh table today. No, we we judge ourselves first.
SPEAKER_04Yeah, yeah.
SPEAKER_06And you know, we call each other out.
SPEAKER_04Yeah.
SPEAKER_06Our stuff don't stink. I mean, our stuff does stink.
SPEAKER_04Yeah.
SPEAKER_06We're not gonna let our mistakes uh cause all these precious people that are following us to ever be hurt. We don't ever want to fall into the hands of an angry God.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_06So we have these conversations. Someone says, Well, y'all are so judgmental.
SPEAKER_05Okay.
SPEAKER_06We we want to judge ourselves harshly. Yeah. We want to put the spotlight on ourselves. We want to be as transparent as possible. Uh so yeah, our views may come across as harsh, cold, judgmental. Well, uh, we're we're holding that same mirror that we're uh looking. It's uh it's it's more of a mirror than it is a window.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_06We're not looking into others, their sin. We're looking at ourselves, making sure we don't ever allow that to happen. And you don't want a pastor that's gonna sit back and be easy on that stuff. Because if they're easy on others, careful. They're gonna be easy on themselves.
SPEAKER_05So true. Yeah, yeah.
SPEAKER_01And you know, one of the reasons why we talk about it is because even talking to you and mom about it, you you bring a lot of perspective. Because I remember being raised and we'd be driving around, and you start telling us all about the guys that you used to look up to that used to be in the and how and how they fell and things that have happened. And some of them rebounded and figured it out, and it creates a grace in us to look at some of the people now kind of in our day where we say, Okay, hey, this is this is bad, but man, I pray that he can rebound.
SPEAKER_04Yeah.
SPEAKER_01It also helps us spot sheep, uh wolf in sheep's clothing.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_01It helps us make sense of, oh, that that that is not right.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_01There's something there that doesn't work. And so even you, you know, I think to label this conversation as judgmental is to be judgmental because there is teaching going on whenever we talk to you and mom about it. Um, and it helps us make sense of a lot of it. And like you said, helps us decide, man, I don't ever want to be that.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_01And so just to kind of end, I love, I love the verse in Colossians one. I pray you may be filled so you'd fully please God. Yeah. And, you know, that's what we're hoping for. This is really not about being pleased. It's like, but I just I want to please God. And and I know that might bring about it a certain level of success.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_01But I can't ever err on the side of all success pleases God. Yeah. Yeah.
SPEAKER_02So no, and I'm I'm glad we talk about it because there is a gray area in today where we have these spiritual gifts that need to use secular formulas to share with other people, to share with the masses. But I think that what we've seen in the past is that industry completely takes over somebody who has nothing to lose. They're single, they don't have a lot of family, they come from a small town, so they want a big life. And it's the perfect candidate to take on tours, to be the lead singer of a band, to travel the world and write songs, live in Nashville, because you've got nothing to lose.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_02Well, you've got nothing to lose. So you can make all the mistakes and there's no one holding you accountable. And a one great blessing and a great route to take if you are a striving writer, songwriter, artist is to actually seek out those people that would break your heart if you lost. Get married, have your kids, stay at home with your parents, live with your parents until you get married.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_02Be around your best friends that love you, hang out with your church family, have people to lose. Because if that ever happened, if God puts his hand on something, yeah, and you have to go, you have an anchor back at home constantly holding you accountable.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_02You have people that you're writing for, people that you're leading in worship for. And I'm I'm very grateful that that's how God routed my life.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_02That I am surrounded by you guys, that this is my life.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_02Because it makes me want to live up to something in everything that I do.
SPEAKER_06Yeah. We like Clarkston Farms, don't we?
SPEAKER_02Clarkston Farms, yeah.
SPEAKER_06I love it. Did you watch it? Yeah. Jeremy?
SPEAKER_02Yeah.
SPEAKER_06All right. So uh I love the characters, right? This is season four for them.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_06So whose is uh Caleb. Caleb. Caleb's on a comedy tour, so he's not in the picture, and he has this other blonde that comes in, and she's smart, but amazing. Yeah, she is. She knows how to drive those tractors, work those tractors, and then Caleb comes back in the scene. So you got uh you you've got the lead character who is Jeremy, and then you got his wife, right? She's sweet, and she loves oils, she's creative. I love her.
SPEAKER_02I love her.
SPEAKER_06Then you got Caleb, but then you've got this nerd that he hates. Oh, he knows everything, but he comes in and he does, he sees him, he calls him like, oh, Mr. Killjoy or Mr. No Fund, right? And the guy comes in and he lets him know, oh, you shouldn't have bought that tractor. Now it's too much money, and you're gonna go and oh, get ready. The you bought that building, but now you got zoning laws. We're not gonna be able to get it. What's done? He he always comes in with bad news, but he's like this nerd. Everybody else is cool, and but this guy is nerd. Can I tell you what I wish for you? I wish you two would be spiritual nerds. Cool is only cool for a little bit. Yeah, comes the applause of people to be celebrated and elevated is cool for a little bit. But being nerdy, it it pays in the long run. Because nerds sometimes end up being some of the solid, most solid people you ever get around because they they know how to outlast all the trends, the highs, the lows. They they they just are steady eddies. And we've got to be careful that we never think our light is that bright.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_06Our name is really that uh popular. We we don't have to live there.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_06Okay. There there is something about the humble servant in Jesus. Yeah that if we're to be Christ-like, we've got to somehow emulate that. Yes, as success comes, there's always gonna be challenges. And the higher you go, the fall higher the the fall, the farther it is down to fall. Because it it's gonna be it's gonna have its challenges and and we're gonna succeed because we do things right, we do things in a healthy way, but that's one thing we're just not gonna be able to compromise on, guys.
SPEAKER_04Yeah.
SPEAKER_06We live in a glass house, we can't compromise on our character, our values, our morals, and our spiritual principles.
SPEAKER_04Yep.
SPEAKER_06So, hey, we support every one of these people that we talked about today. We pray for them and their followers. And those that have been hurt, we pray for them, but we also want to encourage them.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_06Hey, let's let's keep our hand to the plow.
SPEAKER_03Yep.
SPEAKER_06And let's just keep doing what we know is right in our life and for the kingdom and for ministry. So hey, this has been one of our long plays. For those of you who are on vacation, you're traveling, you needed some time to just veg and listen while you're on the road. Well, we just hit our first uh rest area. We're done. We're gonna go take a potty break, and we'll come back with some more for the next portion of your travels in just a little bit. So thanks for joining us at the Family Business Podcast with Stephanie Alessi Willie, Christopher Aleste, and Steve Alesi. Take care.
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