SPEAKER_01 0:00

I told you, every office they got a ding dong. And this one came in from I won't even mention your name. I'll just give the I'll give the last two of your uh you normally we'd identify with the last four or your number. This is from 54. We'll leave it there. We have about two uh or three supervisors that will text uh let's say about 345 in the morning, but then they won't answer a single one during the middle of the day. What?

SPEAKER_00 0:25

You won't answer it while you're working and that's what you're supposed to be doing? I don't know. I know. And we'll circle back to that. Yeah, circle back to that. Yeah, well, I'll circle back to that. Let's come back to that.

SPEAKER_01 0:36

All right, how now I mean listen, I saw it coming a while ago. Oh, stop it. Well, it's not you thought it was a bad thing. I don't necessarily think it's all that bad. I think we all evolve eventually into realizing, hmm, you know, my parents, they weren't really that crazy wrong. And uh now I'm starting to pick up certain things.

SPEAKER_00 0:54

Oh no, I think Gil's soap, like she's really set me up for what could be a terrible situation, but I'm not sure if it's a terrible situation or if it's great because she raised me to be extremely independent, but that tends to lean a little selfish too. And here's what happened.

SPEAKER_01 1:10

I love how independence gets confused with selfish.

SPEAKER_00 1:13

And this is where I'm not sure. You this is where you gotta tell me, am I being very independent or am I being a little selfish? Now, my boyfriend does not live with me, but he will come over maybe a couple times during the week and we will have dinner. Like last night he came over, helped me with some yard work, and then we were gonna have dinner. But I went to I love it when you go to Wegmans and they got those those tin pans with the pre-prepped things.

SPEAKER_01 1:36

Oh, the meals that are never big enough for me? Yes, I know exactly what you're talking about.

SPEAKER_00 1:40

I'm glad you said that. I'm glad you said that because my favorite, they have this little salmon one with tomatoes and capers, and I buy one because I know I like it and I'm gonna eat it in the next day or two, right?

SPEAKER_01 1:54

He comes over and then wish you had another because there was never enough in the one tin pan.

SPEAKER_00 1:58

Well, he comes over, and I don't know if he's eating with me or not, that never got established. So then I'm like, Well, I'm gonna eat the salmon. And so I think he got excited, and then he looks, and like you say it's like the size of a thumb. Yeah, and he's like, Oh, okay. Um I guess I'll eat some hot dogs. And there's this part of me that's like, yeah, bro, eat a hot dog. Because you do it, eat a dog. Yeah, because first of all, I'm not here to make you a new meal every single night.

SPEAKER_01 2:32

Right.

SPEAKER_00 2:32

And and secondly, I don't have a secondly. I just I'm not a short order cook. And I didn't like I didn't know, so I didn't buy him one.

SPEAKER_01 2:42

And then I'm like, You're not you in your situation, not wrong at all. Okay.

SPEAKER_00 2:46

If the two of you live together, oh, I gotta buy him a salmon too. Oh, you sound bitter.

SPEAKER_01 2:52

No, it's not that I'm bitter. But I'm just gonna get it, they're small portions. Stop trying to force me into a diet, Wagmans. Cut me a piece of fish, will you?

SPEAKER_00 2:59

I just don't like making a new meal every single day. It's not my thing, which is why I let Danny do it for me. But um, yeah, I don't know if that's like I am selfish, super independent. No, you know, my mom would be like, I'm not a short order cook.

SPEAKER_01 3:15

It's not, yeah. Well, your mom's got the abrasive response to what really is happening, but it settles in your brain. See, here's the thing. No, in your situation, you live alone. He happened to be over. Right. You were, you know, you could have, you could have. Well, first of all, were you already starting to cook the salmon before he came over? No. Okay, so now it's becoming a little selfish. But they're still. You could have been in the oven and he showed up. Hey! And then you're like, oh crap, I've only got a thumb size slice of salmon.

SPEAKER_00 3:48

I got a whole bag of hot dogs from Memorial Day. Yeah, so eat those up. That's it. I'm eating salmon, he's eating hot dogs.