SPEAKER_00 0:05

I have two things. Number one, I love listening to Anderson Cooper. He for the longest time has just been one of my he's been my silver fox, okay? So he just he just did something on his show that I have done all the time. And Scott, I think you have, and I think other people have this happen to them too. Randomly started choking.

SPEAKER_01 0:24

Oh it does keep things real. Why? Why is it all of a sudden I'm like, uh, water. Yours is all your your problem is water is your enemy. Although you drink gallons of it, it will hit the wrong pipe at the wrong moment. And I've had to endure you doing newscasts, literally gagging your way through it.

SPEAKER_00 0:46

Yes, or I will randomly choke. I will sometimes wake myself up from a dead sleep because I'm Oh that's called sleep apnea. Yeah, I think I I think I do stop breathing. Yes, I do.

SPEAKER_01 0:59

That's probably what that is.

SPEAKER_00 1:01

The other thing is the awesome wet.

SPEAKER_01 1:04

Or Zach's quietly putting the pillow over your head because he's like, I can't keep telling her no. She's just not gonna take it. So maybe this is the other round.

SPEAKER_00 1:11

Oh my god, I said something to him yesterday. And it was very it was a little passive aggressive. And shocker! Wait, wait, but hold on. So he knows in past relationships I wasn't really great at creating healthy boundaries. And in this one, I'm like, I'm gonna be myself no matter what, and I'm gonna set boundaries and I'm going to just be uh approach this in a more healthy way. So after I said my very passive thing, he goes, What happened to like that that quiet alley that you claimed that you were in these other relationships? What is that like? Well done. What is that like? Well done, sir.

SPEAKER_01 1:55

You spun that lazy Susan right back at her.

SPEAKER_00 1:59

Okay, let me tell you this wedding guest book idea. You make a calendar. You know how you'll go on uh what's that what's that website where you make calendars? Uh shutterfly, shutterfly. So you go on like a shutterfly or any of those websites, and you make a calendar with, let's say, you and Tiffany's picture. January, it's you guys in the snow. February, it's you guys uh with some heart roses. Okay.

SPEAKER_01 2:24

Yeah, and come on over Saturday for the family vacation video.

SPEAKER_00 2:27

Well then after you make it a full after you make it yes, after you make it a full calendar, that's your wedding guest book. People have to sign on the day of their birthday. So when you after you get married, you have that calendar and you can look and go, oh my gosh, it's Allie's birthday today.

SPEAKER_01 2:45

Oh, and that's how I remember.

SPEAKER_00 2:47

Yes, isn't this a great idea?

SPEAKER_01 2:49

It's not a terrible idea.

SPEAKER_00 2:50

It's a great idea. And then you can just randomly text me, hey, happy birthday, girl.

SPEAKER_01 2:55

Because one of the Because that's what you would say. That's where it comes right back to. You just want to make sure. But there one of the best gifts I did receive, this this is years ago when I was married. I think it was my sister-in-law. I think Paula put this together. It was a calendar of specific dates of certain things. And it was very helpful to know. I mean, because look, we're all living our own lives, and we all, if you have your own little family unit, you're living that. So I can't remember it's Uncle Jim's birthday.

SPEAKER_00 3:26

No, and I had a friend who had a birthday on Sunday. The only reason I realized it was his birthday, he had posted something on social about his birthday. Yeah. So that's when I was gonna.

SPEAKER_01 3:35

I don't even have that with my brother Gary. He's 71 years old. I know his birthday's this month, and I just can't remember the day. Don't you think that's the S. What if it's today?

SPEAKER_00 3:44

Oh my gosh. I have this with my friend Emily. I'm like, is she the ninth or the tenth?

SPEAKER_01 3:49

Yeah. My brother Jim's the fourth. That's easy to remember. Gary? Happy birthday today, maybe? Uh maybe. Or the twenty fifth. I oh well.