How to Improve the Parent-Coach Relationship with J.P. Nerbun

Raising Elite Competitors

Raising Elite Competitors
How to Improve the Parent-Coach Relationship with J.P. Nerbun
Nov 21, 2023 Season 2 Episode 168
Coach Bre

Have you ever wondered how to best support your child in sports without unintentionally causing hurdles? Today, let’s dive into this important topic with J.P. Nerbun, a coach’s coach. We’ll break down the coach-parent relationship, discovering simple ways you can be a solid ally for your child on the field!

In this episode, we talk about:

  • Supporting athletes’ mental game and confidence.
  • Sports parenting and coach dynamics.
  • Coaching culture and parent-coach relationships.
  • Coaching and parenting perspectives.
  • Parental involvement in youth sports teams.
  • Coping with abusive sports coaches.
  • Coaching, playing time, and communication in sports.
  • Athlete development and communication between coaches and parents.
  • Athlete development, coaching, and parent-coach communication.

Ready for more insights? Listen to the full podcast episode and discover how you can play a vital role in your child’s sports journey.

Come hang out with J.P. on social @‌J.P. Nerbun and learn more about his newest book: The Parent Solution.


Episode Highlights: 

[00:00] Supporting athletes’ mental game and confidence.

[02:24] Sports parenting and coach dynamics.

[05:15] Coaching culture and parent-coach relationships. Exploring the parent-coach relationship and how it can be improved.

[10:40] Coaching, accountability, and father-son relationships.

[13:15] Coaching and parenting perspectives. The importance of coaches and parents seeing each other as human beings, rather than just labels or roles.

[20:13] Parental involvement in youth sports teams. Parents can support team culture by taking initiative to introduce themselves and their child to the coach and other parents.

 [23:30] Coping with abusive sports coaches. The challenges of dealing with difficult coaches in sports, particularly in terms of emotional abuse and building resilience.

[26:37] Coaching, playing time, and communication in sports. The complexity of dealing with perceived favoritism in sports, considering factors such as age, level of competition, and job security for coaches.

[32:55] Athlete development and communication between coaches and parents. The importance of recognizing a coach’s strengths and weaknesses in communicating with athletes.

[35:39] Athlete development, coaching, and parent-coach communication. The importance of clear communication between coaches and athletes, particularly when it comes to role expectations and player improvement plans.

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