Is Love Really Dying? The Shocking Truth About Why People Are Staying Single! | CC Pod Ep160

Is Love Really Dying? The Shocking Truth About Why People Are Staying Single! | CC Pod Ep160
In Episode 160 of the Cancel Culture Podcast, the panel tackles one of the biggest questions in modern society: Why are people staying single? Is love dying? With casual hookups on the rise and meaningful relationships declining, the group unpacks the emotional, psychological, and cultural shifts behind the breakdown of romantic connection.

They explore how dating apps, social media, and shifting gender roles have turned dating into a high-stakes game of image, ego, and avoidance. The discussion dives into issues like ghosting, hookup culture, unrealistic standards, and emotional walls that make vulnerability nearly impossible. From the rise of "situationships" to why men and women seem to distrust each other more than ever, the episode highlights just how fragile modern dating has become.

As the debate unfolds, the hosts question whether love is still a goal or if it's been replaced by validation, independence, or fear. They talk about why men are opting out, why women are burning out, and how commitment is often viewed as a weakness rather than a strength. Whether you're dating, disillusioned, or done with relationships altogether, this episode of the Cancel Culture Podcast breaks down the realities of why people are staying single and asks if love is dying in the process.

Transcript

Why Are We All Single?

Speaker 1 0:00

Tell us why you're single first . I think for the first 30 years of my life I should just work hard , man . That's mad that you're saying that at 19, . You know Like , where did you get that mentality from ? The average 20-year-old girl has more experience than the average 20-year-old man , and I feel like a man's love is stronger than a woman's . If he loves you , he'll die for you .

Speaker 2 0:14

Like if I have a man , I believe that women were the trophy back then . I just don't think it's true now . How are you ever going to love a woman that ?

Speaker 1 0:28

is full of emotion . If just the word emotion just absolutely fucking puts you off , I give him literally the most grace . I say you're emotional , so you probably should be at home . You should be in a workplace . Should abortion be normalised ?

Speaker 3 0:39

The option's there if you want to do .

Speaker 1 0:40

What is the most expensive gift you have received ?

Speaker 2 0:43

Weed . My dad gave me like a bouquet of flowers with a bouquet of weed .

Speaker 1 0:46

Your dad gave you weed . What kind of dad is that ? The coolest dad that ever I know you like that , I know you like that . Yeah , so we're in an epidemic , you know guys .

Speaker 3 1:01

I want to talk to people . I want to talk to guys . Oh , okay , everyone's single Wow in an epidemic , you know guys .

Speaker 1 1:05

I want to talk to people . I want to talk to guys . Okay , everyone's single . Wow , majority of people are single . Yeah , and people are less likely to want to settle down right , so I was reading that for the average for guys now is 35 . Yeah , to settle down with kids yeah , I know so we're gonna play a game . Are you single ? You're the only one . Okay , so we're going to play a game , and the game's called why Am I Single ? Yeah , and we're going to start with you . Why are you single ?

Speaker 3 1:42

Why am I single ?

Speaker 1 1:44

Could you talk a good game on the plane ? Yeah , you talk a really good game . I'm not buying it , but you do talk . Well , what's what's the game that she's been talking ? Wifey talk cook and clean all the good all the good stuff you get me , yeah yeah , it's just .

Speaker 3 1:58

It's just that I haven't found the right one oh , it's the right one yeah , I . Oh , it's the right one . Yeah , I keep doing it for us feminine men probably .

Speaker 2 2:06

Yeah , yeah , I can back on that what ?

Speaker 1 2:08

makes it work . Okay , this is the thing . You not made them like that .

Speaker 3 2:14

You not you know what . I can't really have this argument with you now , but I personally didn't make them like that , so that's not you know . We can't really put our problem as other people you did .

Speaker 1 2:26

You wanted them . You wanted them to be more vulnerable , emotional .

Speaker 3 2:29

I didn't ask for that .

Speaker 1 2:30

That's not me okay , wait there , so all right then . So what's the what's the right one to you , then , in your opinion ?

Speaker 3 2:38

I would say and this is where it's quite difficult , because you wouldn't know until we've kind of tried , you know what I mean . So someone you might meet someone and how they look , and the first initial conversation things might seem okay , but until you really get into the nitty gritty you wouldn't know .

Speaker 1 2:56

You mean after you sleep ? You don't ?

Speaker 3 2:57

No , no , Because you know what things can be okay .

Speaker 2 2:59

Why are you lying , bro ?

Speaker 3 3:02

Like , for example , I'll give an example . This is when you like , for example , I'll give an example . This is me chatting the business . I feel like I met someone and I was in quite low vibration in myself you know so .

Speaker 1 3:09

I wasn't really what does that mean ? Because I don't speak speed like women low vibration .

Speaker 3 3:14

I felt like I wasn't in the best of foods . What do you mean ?

Speaker 1 3:18

low women .

Speaker 3 3:19

I'm feeling trolly today you know what I mean by low vibration in yourself . Do you know what that ?

Speaker 1 3:24

means what ? As in like self-esteem kind of low , okay depressed , but low vibration overall .

Speaker 3 3:28

But he qualified it so that means he didn't know you knew what I meant . And low vibration . Would you have to stop me ? To say yeah , carry on and I think when I met that person I was in low vibration and we really got along , which was quite strange . But now I don't know that was in low vibration and we really got along , which was quite strange , but now I don't know that I'm higher vibration , now we don't get along .

Speaker 1 3:48

So what does that look like ? I need to know what . What's a low vibration ? What does that ?

Speaker 3 3:51

look like , so define low vibration For me define low vibration .

Speaker 3 3:57

Yeah , so just okay , everybody could be where you're not in the best point in life , like things are not always going well . You've probably got low self-esteem because things in life are not going well . You've probably had a recent breakup , this , that you don't like your job , anything , just things in life . I wouldn't say depressed , because for me I think depressed is quite a strong word , but just low vibrations , because I wouldn't say I was in bed every day and really sad , but things going how I wanted to when I met this person .

Speaker 1 4:22

That's going to happen again .

Speaker 3 4:24

That's like the point is , I'm not in the , I'm not in those low vibrations right now , and for some reason we cannot get along together . All right then .

Speaker 1 4:32

So you know how you said waiting for the right one . Do you feel like in your experience you've had the right one ? No , because it's like what be comparing it to if you get one trying to say it's just what feels right .

Speaker 3 4:43

You can't compare it .

Speaker 1 4:43

That doesn't make sense so you haven't found the right one yet no , probably not no how do you ?

Speaker 3 4:58

me 27 . You must have a couple of others .

Speaker 1 4:59

I've been in a long relationship , yeah , but that doesn't mean that was the right one , you know , because obviously to say the right one , yeah , we could all be idealistic about it , but you have to kind of go off , you kind of have to have the experience to kind of compare , to kind of gauge what would be the right one , otherwise you're never really gonna know , like now yeah , 100 , but at the same time it's the other way around as well .

Speaker 1 5:22

You need to know what you do like . Do you want me to try and translate what I think she's saying ? Go on , I think I can simplify it . Watch this .

Speaker 3 5:29

She ain't met anyone who's making enough money I knew you was gonna say something slick , but I'm a runnable money is definitely important . No , catch it , bitch you're not over morality , though you are kind of wrong , because how much is you , how much does the one need to make ? See , I don't have a specific amount . This is why , when you ask this question , I don't have an amount £250 a month . Wouldn't that be silly .

Speaker 1 5:54

I should have stopped the cap and tabbed it , wouldn't nobody live off that you could , you could . You could .

Speaker 2 6:00

Who .

Speaker 1 6:01

Couldn't get to her stores .

Speaker 2 6:03

I feel like saying £250 a month is like quite drastic £1,500 .

Speaker 1 6:07

You can leave off most people . Average people are living off £1,500 . £1,500 ?

Speaker 3 6:11

Minimum wage is more than £1,500 .

Speaker 1 6:13

That's the average wage , so who Alright ? Let's say two grand . Okay , two grand .

Speaker 3 6:19

That .

Speaker 1 6:19

I'm right , so let's move on . Why are you single ? You're saying two grand a month ? Yeah , yeah , yeah , yeah , you can live off that . Of course you can . Yeah , I know people who live off that .

Speaker 2 6:27

Of course that's the average way . One second , one second . I did not expect you to be .

Speaker 1 6:32

Scouse . Mr Sick , I'm not Scouse , I'm Scouse , it's from what is it you . Everyone thinks I'm Scouse .

Speaker 3 6:41

I fucking love the accent , though , see do you say ?

Speaker 1 6:44

do you just say you're from Liverpool , because no one really knows . I know there but no one really knows . Sometimes , like if I went to London and they were like , are you Scouse ?

Speaker 2 6:50

I'd be like yeah just to put the question .

Speaker 1 6:52

It's just easier , because if I say no , I'm from the Wimbledon , it's just a long conversation , alright . Why ? And he told us something before the show , we'll get on to that why are you single ? Tell us why you're single first . So I'm saying I just think I work too hard , man . I'm focused on money , like I'm money minded . You know what I'm saying . I'm trying to get money . I think for the first 30 years of my life I should just work hard , man . I should just do what I want to do , do what , see , because you're a man , you can do that exactly . I want to go through the struggle , all the pain now , and then for the next 30 years , I can enjoy it on it , y'all . I'm about it . I'm answering . You know what I'm saying . How old are you bro ? 19 , 19 , yeah , yeah , see , that's mad that you're saying that at 19 . You know , like , where did ?

Speaker 3 7:39

you where did , but there's a lot of people online that talk like this now , though I don't think man had that .

Speaker 1 7:44

Yeah , we definitely didn't .

Speaker 3 7:45

Man weren't really saying that before . Yeah it's true .

Speaker 2 7:48

I feel like there's more people saying to do that now this generation's either really fucked or really driven .

Speaker 1 7:52

Man yeah , 100% .

Speaker 3 7:54

In regards to relationships .

Speaker 1 7:55

I over fucked .

Speaker 3 7:57

Yeah , 100% yeah .

Speaker 1 7:59

I have . Can I Say it now ? Yeah , I don't think you're chatting shit with me . I'll say both of them , because there's two things One , I've never had a girlfriend , and two , I'm a virgin but I'm proud of her , like that's something .

Speaker 3 8:12

See , this is the thing .

Speaker 1 8:13

See , I was waiting to see the reaction . You know , and this is why I know girls are cap here when I talk about this body count thing with you , get me . He just said that and then she made some mad face .

Speaker 3 8:23

I don't believe him , not because it's not .

Speaker 1 8:25

I won't believe you . It's a problem , I just don't believe him . Would you date a virgin ?

Speaker 3 8:29

I don't know , I haven't , I don't . You could ask random questions . I'm not sure .

Speaker 1 8:33

I play in the snow anyway , mum . Huh , I play in the snow anyway . You know what ?

Speaker 3 8:37

I mean Should I know ?

Speaker 1 8:41

what that means . Well , I just Nah , oh fuck , okay , you know what , what , what , what you say , he plays in the snow . So he's , I just yeah , yeah .

Speaker 2 8:50

I like rain and all that I buy all the you like .

Speaker 1 8:52

what what ?

Speaker 3 8:53

What did you say ? I'm not saying anything .

Speaker 1 9:00

Is it ? Is it he ?

Speaker 3 9:01

What does that mean ? He likes women . Oh , he likes white girl . I don't think he was interested , were you interested ? I'm 22 .

Speaker 1 9:06

What does that mean ?

Speaker 3 9:07

That would make me like a kiddie fiddler To me , that's a bit .

Speaker 1 9:10

Why wouldn't that have been the right ?

Speaker 3 9:12

Not 19 . Really 20? . Yeah .

Speaker 1 9:15

What's the age ? 25? , 24? , even that's , he needs to be older .

Speaker 3 9:20

But 26 , 25 would be the youngest . I'd probably .

Speaker 1 9:25

Yeah , I don't think girls really do do the younger , the younger man's things , though unless he's got , unless he's got bread , yeah , yeah , unless he's got big dough . Yeah , like if I was a millionaire , what would ?

Speaker 3 9:35

you tell ?

Speaker 1 9:35

me no , no , just because of the age .

Speaker 3 9:38

Yeah , yeah .

Speaker 1 9:40

Yeah , it's not right His head , though there's not many men that will say what he said .

Speaker 3 9:45

That's true , yeah man , that's what I've been .

Speaker 1 9:48

Saying to my sons , like all my mates , yeah , go clubbing , do this , do that , sleep with loads of guys Sleep around . I'm not on that man , so that's why I stopped talking to them . Like after school I ghosted everyone . Yeah , but right , don't worry , what's that even mean ? So you can wait till you're 30 , you could , oh yeah , yeah , wants to sleep with someone ? No , not to . I mean to have kids and settle down , you're nice oh , yeah , yeah , I want one boy , one girl steve's like that after all right , but yeah did you feel like no , no , I was just gonna say like did you feel like a like , a sense of like ?

Speaker 2 10:21

rejection when she said she wanted , say like did you feel like a sense of like rejection ? When she said she wanted date a virgin , did you feel like a sense of rejection or something ? Nah , nah nah , so why did you sling that comment ?

Speaker 1 10:32

what comment ?

Speaker 2 10:32

the comment that you made . Yeah , it took me a minute to come up with that . Yeah , no same while playing the snow yeah , but you , you said it to her almost like like a dick , do you ?

Speaker 3 10:42

know what .

Speaker 1 10:43

I'm saying why do women take men's preferences ?

Speaker 3 10:47

Hold on , hold on .

Speaker 2 10:47

Never finish talking , hold on . Because she said no , no , I want to date a virgin , and he literally turned and goes I'll play in the snow anyway .

Speaker 3 10:55

Are you telling me that ? I mean you're going to say hold on , I feel like you just gave up .

Speaker 2 10:59

I feel a bit or something stuck in you in order for you to make that comment ?

Speaker 3 11:03

No , I don't care why , but I'm saying how can your first response to what she's saying be ? Why do women always take offence when someone's referenced ? No , no , no .

Speaker 2 11:12

If no one's taken offence to his preference he could have at least said about what he does but it's the timing of it and when it was said so , no one .

Speaker 1 11:19

I'll tell you why . Wait , wait , wait .

Speaker 3 11:22

No , no , I'll tell you why .

Speaker 1 11:23

No one's recapping what actually happened , because I said you looked , because I said virgin and I was like you know it's cat , because we're talking about body counting and you made a face and that's why I said it .

Speaker 3 11:33

No , I made a face , I don't give an asshole and I said yeah because I don't believe that you're a virgin . That has nothing to do with me , like making a hint or and also . You said the comment straight up , it's not a comment to you Like I just don't believe you're a virgin .

Speaker 1 11:51

I think it's because . I think it's because .

Speaker 3 12:02

I said you made a face .

Speaker 1 12:03

I think that's why I said it yeah , I don't know .

Speaker 2 12:06

Yeah he was quick with it .

Speaker 1 12:07

In response to the when she said to you one day a virgin , it plays in the snow . I'm just saying the way he said it just came across a bit like I don't know , because he didn't disrespect you on it like that . He just says that he plays in the snow .

Speaker 3 12:24

Okay , so think about it . I play in the snow anyway . It's almost like you're saying that to me , like I said something , like I dissed you Like , oh , I wouldn't , I don't want you , and you say , oh , I don't want you either , we did basically .

Speaker 1 12:35

Okay , okay , okay .

Speaker 2 12:38

No , no , no , no no .

Speaker 1 12:39

I can understand why you would think that . I think he was just quick with it because I said you made a face . I think that's what it is . I'm just straight to the point . I'm honest .

Speaker 3 12:47

Well , unnecessary though , because sometimes you should slow down and think that that was a weird comment . Unnecessary though .

Speaker 1 12:51

Do you feel some kind of way ? I feel like you're offended by that . I said I'm even , yeah , yeah .

Speaker 2 12:59

Yeah that you're rejected , because that's why it came off to me .

Speaker 1 13:02

You see the account's good anyways , and he pays in the snow , so you're good , yeah yeah makes no difference to me oh yeah why , are you single ?

Speaker 2 13:10

if I'm answering , you're answering .

Speaker 1 13:12

I'll answer . Okay , right , I'll answer after you .

Speaker 2 13:15

I'm single because it's not my focus right now . I could be in a relationship if I wanted to , but I'm trying to elevate myself right now and elevate my relationship with God to be in Wellington right now .

Speaker 3 13:27

Fair enough .

Speaker 1 13:27

Key back to you .

Speaker 2 13:30

Now answer your little question , man . What do you think this is ? Why aren't you answering the question ? I'll answer the question .

Speaker 1 13:37

There's a lot of holes out there . Facts .

Speaker 2 13:40

So you ain't got to choose one .

Speaker 1 13:41

I know , but it's like .

Speaker 2 13:43

I think Mike Tyson said it once right ?

Speaker 1 13:45

No , it was Mohammed Ali who was saying that If you're in a hallway , you see bear snakes coming towards you , right ? You don't know which one's good or bad , so you just close the door . I hear it Makes sense . You understand the logic .

Speaker 2 13:54

You don't want to find out the hard way , because where they're more traditional want to be looked after .

Speaker 1 13:57

I'd rather that than the bus babes that are over it , if I find one great there's a whole world

Do Men Lack Emotional Intelligence?

Speaker 1 14:11

, so you don't have to .

Speaker 3 14:11

Yeah , I know .

Speaker 1 14:13

I can fly in planes , so I'll just go nah just go to the gym go to the gym really all the good girls are in the gym even in the gym , bro , like all I ever see is videos that they don't want to get moved to in the gym . So I'm just not trying to move to Gal in the gym . I've moved to Gal in the gym . Yeah , that's fine , you what ?

Speaker 3 14:32

it's Russian roulette , bro , like .

Speaker 1 14:33

I don't know how , I don't know if I'm going to end up on a TikTok video or in prison you understand what I'm saying . So , huh oh , crystal underage ? No , because it's just , that's that to me , that's the , that's the kind of thing I get , like they just don't want to move to the gym yeah , all right , you see .

Speaker 1 14:48

You see how you said like the holes thing and use the snake analogy oh yeah , there's holes in different countries as well . No , of course you can't . You can't really escape them in it . Yeah , but I've ever got somewhere . It's the least likely . Oh okay , yeah , yeah , yeah , yeah , yeah , yeah , yeah , yeah , yeah . You know what I'm saying . Yeah , yeah , yeah . Then , like him , yeah , let's be honest like come on , guys .

Speaker 3 15:06

Like but UK , or what you say country to the west .

Speaker 1 15:10

I'm just yeah , that's what I'm saying country to the west . Nah , yeah , yeah , fair play yeah so I'm assuming there's some good people . Maybe they're just not outside and that's why I ain't seen them . Nah , sure you know they , so you just don't see them . Maybe that's the reason I don't know .

Speaker 3 15:22

No , it's true . Yeah , that's why .

Speaker 1 15:23

Pause . I'm all for face-to-face interaction and that . Anyway , man , I feel like all that Instagram stuff and that it's just dead bro .

Speaker 2 15:30

Yeah you can get me online .

Speaker 1 15:31

It's a popularity contest bro , one day , you know what . I'm saying Online .

Speaker 2 15:39

Yeah , I'm saying like I've like when I was like really young , I've definitely like talked to a guy like online or on Snap or something and then you link them , and then you're like you can vibe in for like three weeks solidly . And then you meet up and you're like what the ? You never speak to them again , like bear catfishes as well no , it's real , both ways it's real .

Speaker 1 15:59

I don think men are using filters and maybe hype fish and a cat fish 100% , not as much , but it does happen .

Speaker 2 16:07

Yeah , I know , but not to the same severity .

Speaker 1 16:13

Well , at the same time , though , can you blame the man then , though ? Because girls are always not , obviously not all , but most girls are always like , oh , they don't want to be creeped out and all of these things , by men talking to them face to face , and that , exactly so we can't , just , don't , just don't talk to us in a creepy way .

Speaker 2 16:28

You're only gonna be creeped out if someone's approaching you in a creepy like you get approached all the time , disagree okay , okay , but for me . I can only speak on my experience yeah you can get loads of people that can talk to you and it's friendly and you don't think anything of it . When you get someone and I'm not saying that they have to be attractive for you to engage in conversation , and that's yeah but , that's different for me , because I will see people that recognize me like it's . You know , I'm saying like I'm .

Speaker 1 16:51

That's the benchmark for most women , and that's why it's dangerous for us , because how do you do you actually get determines on the attractiveness ?

Speaker 2 16:58

yeah , yeah , yeah . As soon as you say , as soon as you approach her , her face is like then just walk away in it like yeah .

Speaker 1 17:04

I think you should . But that's my point like , okay , do you move to man ? No , all right . So you don't know what it's like to just walk into a random stranger that you don't know .

Speaker 2 17:15

I do that all the time , like if I need a lighter or something like have you got ?

Speaker 1 17:21

and you're a gal , get some kind of details or something .

Speaker 2 17:26

Anyone's approaching you for like , and you don't know what someone's approaching you for until they open their mouth . You know what I'm saying .

Speaker 1 17:31

Nah , I think it's different for men , though , cause like I feel like I'm saying it probably is , but I also okay but I also to just like not be like a creep , like I interact with loads of people all the time .

Speaker 2 17:44

That is not creepy . The only time where you're like , oh my god , don't talk to me creepy is when someone is fucking off the chart weird . Do you know what I'm ?

Speaker 1 17:50

saying you know what the thing is , though , when you're attractive , you can say what you want , and that's the point well , thank you , I was talking about guys all I heard was you . You're attractive .

Speaker 2 18:01

I know I was talking in general .

Speaker 1 18:02

I was talking about guys . I forgot to stop the cap on . What are you ?

Speaker 2 18:07

lying for . Let me ask you a question . So when does .

Speaker 1 18:10

When does an interaction start ? When does the interaction get creepy ?

Speaker 2 18:15

I can't really give like a blanket answer to that , because I've only had certain things where things have been creepy . Eg I've seen someone and they immediately try to pick me up or put hands on me . I'm like whoa , that's weird yeah , that's a lot , yeah , yeah um , but other than that , they can be people that you meet and they move to approach you and I'm just like no , like I'm not interested . Sorry , like it's not it's not a thing .

Speaker 2 18:39

They're not being weird . You know I'm saying I'm not creeped out by it . The only time're creeped out is when someone's creepy .

Speaker 1 18:44

Do you think that you get more experience than guys do as in like that social experience ? Because what I mean by that is that like for us to learn . We have to move to you . We have to have the courage to move to you .

Speaker 2 18:56

Okay , who are you moving to ?

Speaker 1 18:58

So women .

Speaker 2 18:59

So the women are going to experience all the men that are moving to them , so I would say that we probably have about the same amount of social interactions . Given that you're moving to women and I'm a woman do you get what ?

Speaker 1 19:07

I'm saying that's a logical fantasy , because if you're the one being moved to , yeah , it's only you have to count the ones that are moving to you . So most men are not moving to girl .

Speaker 2 19:21

So you're basing your thing off what ?

Speaker 1 19:24

Yeah , so not the women that you do approach . Yeah , of course , but that's the only way you can get experiences by moving to gal . But most women are not moving to gal . Do you know what I'm saying ? I ?

Speaker 2 19:34

get what you're saying , but from what I understand , you're getting experience from men moving to you .

Speaker 1 19:36

Do you know what I'm saying ?

Speaker 2 19:44

Yeah , and then you're saying is valid because it's based off your experience .

Speaker 1 19:46

But I'm saying , that's no , I'm talking in general , not my experience . I'm saying in general . I'm saying most men don't move to moscow , but moscow you're giving their main reason is just because women are being creeped out .

Speaker 1 19:56

I assure you it's probably not that it's probably a fucking fairy . No , no , the point I was trying to make is that you have to learn social cues and like how to deal with women to not be a creep , and the only way you're going to do that is have experience by moving to women . Yeah , trial and error . Do you know what ? I'm trying to say Whereas you can get experience from , you can get experience rejecting men just by being to be sitting there . Really do you understand ? So I'm saying like the average .

Speaker 3 20:23

We were saying it earlier .

Speaker 1 20:24

The average 20 year old girl has more experience than the average 20 year old man when it comes to the opposite sex yeah , yeah yeah because from like 16 you're being moved to yeah yeah you know what I'm gonna say . They have to learn and actually move to a girl , which most men don't , because most women are not interested in that . You know yeah .

Speaker 2 20:41

Yeah , Like I'm not discrediting anything you're saying , but my point still stands up . I don't think it's that hard to navigate yourself in a way that isn't very , very weird . Do you get what I'm saying ?

Speaker 1 20:51

Very creepy . I think women have better social cues than men do . What I'm saying is like Socially you lot are better , Like it's easier for you to socialise ?

Speaker 2 21:00

you reckon than guys yeah , I think .

Speaker 1 21:02

I think women are definitely more social creatures than men .

Speaker 2 21:04

I don't know , man , because I feel like you've never heard of the girls bathroom . Yeah , there's all that's evidence there .

Speaker 1 21:09

There's all of that , but that's one example , though . Man , I feel like men more get on when it's strangers , and that more than women , I feel like women are more , a little bit more , from your perspective . I hear what , okay , I hear what you're saying .

Speaker 3 21:23

I'm saying without alcohol or anything like that involved in front of each other .

Speaker 1 21:27

They're nice . They'll be catty behind their back maybe . What I mean is that normally , guys right , we'll have a group of friends , maybe from school and that's our friend group yeah like women , are always interchanging with friends , meeting them in the bathroom and all meeting them , all different places , new friends . I've seen that a lot . I don't know if anyone understands what I'm saying , but we just normally have our friends from school and that's our group , that's it .

Speaker 1 21:47

We don't really get other we might do . I'm not saying you never do , but I'm saying generally , yeah , but I'm saying , put in a situation where it's a social , it's a social setting and the man and them don't necessarily know each other . Where to be cool man , then we're going to be stuck in our fish , man women will strike a conversation more than a man to a stranger . Definitely one more . I've seen it , bro , like you're just back and forth for hours .

Speaker 2 22:11

Yeah , hold on I was literally just sat downstairs and another lady that works in the building come and sat downstairs and he come down and interrupted us while we was like bonding literally over our mental , our mental like diagnosis . Yeah , but that was , that was the same that was the same with us , though , and then and then , literally , she gets on , walks in , and then you come in and sit down . We've never met , and we were just back and forth straight away , like .

Speaker 1 22:33

I think it's , I think we're , because you have a podcast , I have a podcast , you and BK and me , was it ? Me and Trey ? Yeah , but it's in the setting where we have to talk , so we're going to talk .

Speaker 3 22:46

Yeah , but it's .

Speaker 1 22:47

They'll do it in a setting that don't have to talk like just now . It still could have been awkward though . Yeah , okay , cool , but I think because we've got podcasts , yeah .

Speaker 3 22:57

We can talk to people , it's the common .

Speaker 1 22:59

Let me do some introductions first . Obviously , today , coles Inks , we'll need to introduce ourselves .

Speaker 2 23:05

Hey , I'm Inks All Things Creative here in my rightful spot in place of BK today . Yourself , sir , Name age .

Speaker 1 23:13

What do you do for a living relationship status ? You know my people . It's LS Life . I'm 19 years of age and I make content on YouTube and I'm also a model back again hi , I'm Mariah .

Speaker 3 23:24

I'm 27 and I work for the NHL Labani Labani . I've been science research I ain't gonna lie , mariah .

Speaker 1 23:34

You sound like you don't want to be here , yeah .

Speaker 2 23:36

I know she's just a chill girl , what do you mean ?

Speaker 1 23:40

shout out some of that , that essence , that's pain is the essence , yeah yeah , yeah , shout out some of that essence . That is not fair . Pain is the essence . Yeah , yeah , yeah , it's here , it's here .

Speaker 3 23:47

Relationship status . Single .

Speaker 1 23:49

Relationship status Taken . Nah , that's a single cycle .

Speaker 3 23:53

I'll give you both she belongs to the street .

Speaker 1 23:55

She belongs to the street . Yo , yo , yo , yo yo . Me myself , rimi met the gal them . Can you say that now ? I don't even keep saying that . Now you know you get me . Me myself . Rimi met the gal them Krimi . You get me the one and only from Rimi's In the Room pod . Obviously , it's just me representing today , but it's three other guys . So I'm holding the flag today , man , and that's what I do . I'm on my little podcast , man , is that ?

Speaker 3 24:24

what you do for a living .

Speaker 1 24:26

Oh nah , I work in hazardous materials in what hazardous materials ?

Speaker 2 24:30

yeah dude , what do you mean like ?

Speaker 1 24:33

I work in the dispatch department for shipping , and what is it ? Shipping and inbounding hazardous materials and that so like chemicals yeah like solvents and all them things . Yeah , will bounding hazardous materials and that sort of chemist like solvents and all them things . Relationship status taken okay , no streets for you there . Yeah , all right questions .

Speaker 2 24:55

Yeah , I got a few , you know I've got a few . Um , I was like I just don't always say taken rather than a relationship . It's just like pbm days or something like that , showing my age , isn't it taken this ?

Speaker 1 25:05

is a nice and easy one .

Speaker 2 25:06

It's in your bio , so go on , definitely taken in the bio .

Speaker 1 25:09

It's cheating always a bad thing . We'll start with Reeves . Yeah elaborate . Go on yeah it is , bro , you get me , because think of it . Think of it like this like if you , if you still want to do certain things , then why get into a relationship ? No one's holding a gun to your head saying to get into a relationship , it's your choice and that you get me . So if you still want to be carrying on with certain things , then just don't get tied up in relationships , bro . That's it .

Speaker 3 25:39

Since you wanted me to elaborate .

Speaker 1 25:41

Thank , you , what to me to elaborate .

Speaker 3 25:43

Thank you .

Speaker 1 25:44

What do you think define cheating ? I would define it as you're doing it in the door yeah .

Speaker 3 25:50

So like oh cool . Well then , yeah , you know , I would say yeah because like I really hate .

Speaker 1 25:57

You know my views about you don't mind , you don't mind cheating uh , it's not .

Speaker 3 26:01

I would say it depends if it's classed as cheating , isn't it ? Because I feel like , like I said , I've wasted a lot of time trying to argue with a man about not talking to other girls . I just feel like they're going to do it anyway . So that's just my opinion

The Modern Dating Dynamic

Speaker 3 26:13

to your eye it's happy if you know . But you see , it's weird if they don't know , if everybody in the party , if there's someone in this party that doesn't know about it , but then yeah , it's wrong because you're deceiving them , they don't know about it .

Speaker 1 26:25

So can they come to you and say it's on them ?

Speaker 3 26:28

yeah , because I might say yes , I might say no , but you have to tell me , is it the ?

Speaker 1 26:32

tax bracket that defines revenue so that they'll come . No , I feel like that's like the market . Wait , let me ask a question . Are Like are you okay being cheated on or are you answering it if you're doing the cheating ?

Speaker 3 26:47

I don't know if I'm cheated on . Actually , if I should have cheated on , yeah , because technically , I've already said , it's so long to go into this again .

Speaker 1 26:55

Oh , you've already had all of this . I know you , so you don't mind .

Speaker 3 26:59

No , we don't mind don't we ? Tax bracket determines it To an extent , extent but no , to an extent that's part of it so when you hit that six figure , you're right but I didn't say that he likes to add things .

Speaker 1 27:12

That's not what I said okay , so , so what are you saying ?

Speaker 3 27:15

I've been through this . I'll give you the thing , so , like I've said , in multiple cultures men like in multiple cultures .

Speaker 3 27:24

Men can have multiple wives . You know , I've said like a woman can only carry one child for a minute at a time and a man can be pregnant multiple times . I just think there's a reason why things are a certain way . So I've decided to not be like jealous over those things or take it in , because I just feel like again , I could waste the rest of my time fighting this man or arguing about other women . But it's probably gonna . It's better to accept it . That's just in my opinion , and if I'm comfortable , then but six figures though , so it's kind of it's kind of like better than you know , kind of kind of kind of thing .

Speaker 3 27:57

If I , yeah , really hurt my feelings . Obviously I'm not saying that oh , there's not people out there who would be happy with just one . There is probably people out there like that , but if there's not , like I haven't seen it so I'll say enough , fair enough .

Speaker 1 28:12

I heard someone say this once . Right , I don't know , I think it's true . I feel like men are old . I think men are only as faithful as options , what's the example elaborate soaborate . So if they have the option to cheat , they're probably going to yell on them . They're probably going to . If they can't cheat , they're not going to cheat .

Speaker 3 28:30

No , no , no .

Speaker 1 28:32

I don't object to that . Huh , no , no , no , no , it makes sense . No it's not , it does not make sense . How can you cheat ? No , no , no , no , no , no .

Speaker 3 28:43

Go on go on , go on , right , do you need the same ?

Speaker 1 28:46

space . I need the same space . Give me the same space . Give me the same space . Yes , men who don't have options and who've lacked options may cheat if they have the actual option itself . But a man who's got self-discipline and sexual discipline , regardless of whether they got choice or not well , this is why we love Key everybody .

Speaker 2 29:11

No , no , let me book you down , sorry , I need to book you down because you know , what I'm a little bit .

Speaker 1 29:15

I understand , yeah , why people would not be happy with their man . With other women , I get it , but I just find it interesting because what would you say , like I'll talk to you directly yeah , the gender's mating strategy , yeah , yeah , what would you say ? That the female mating strategy is what's their ?

Speaker 3 29:37

objective ?

Speaker 1 29:38

We know no no , you tell me because you tried it .

Speaker 3 29:41

Security yeah .

Speaker 1 29:42

And making sure , yeah , that they can look after their home . Yeah , that's their main strategy . They need to be secure . So , mating someone , a man with resources , basically Okay . The man's mating strategy Breed , it's to breed , all right . So , I find it interesting that the men are required to have discipline when it comes to their mating strategy , but the women are not . It's a bit , don't you think that's a bit crazy ? Why don't you date a broke man ? So I'm you . Have discipline , have financial discipline , date a broke man . Forget about your mating strategy .

Speaker 1 30:16

I can't talk about me because I'm not a dating man . Yeah , but you joked it . Why don't you , why don't you have some financial discipline and date someone who doesn't have enough money ? And you do . That's a bit strange to say that some people do , though , but that's your main no , but they don't have the option . It's like the man cheating . No , it's like the man cheating . They don't have the . If they have the option , they'll date up , bro , I'll tell you that .

Speaker 1 30:38

I'm not disagreeing . Sometimes you have to look within yourself and you have to say , all right , yeah , I need to find someone who actually cares for me , rather than someone who makes me feel secure . And I'll make my environment secure by making that man feel secure , by making what sorry , making that man feel secure . The man feel secure . What do you mean ? Some men don't have that mentality to feel secure in themselves until they meet a woman . I'm not listen you probably what do you mean by ? I need you to explain what you mean .

Speaker 1 31:04

Okay , so a man is lost , sometimes doesn't have purpose , blah , blah , blah , blah blah . And then he meets a woman and she breathes that little seed of purpose in him .

Speaker 3 31:13

That is true , and then from that they then blossom .

Speaker 1 31:16

Excellent support mechanisms , I won't disagree , not all , but some are who do you think would be happier in general ? Do you want to save space before I say this ?

Speaker 2 31:29

I'll save space , I'll get to you so who do you think would be happier ?

Speaker 1 31:35

There's two men . You've got one man who's got his wife and his kids and he has the freedom to explore options , should he wish . Should he wish to , you don't have to . But should , you don't have to , but should you wish to , you can , and there's no repercussions , I'm already going to pick that man already . Then let's move on . Then , no , no , no , no . So we have to , we have to compromise our happiness .

Speaker 2 31:56

Then no , no , no , I'm saying no , no , no , because that would be the most happiest man sometimes as a man you have to look within yourself and you have to see do you know what is this woman ?

Speaker 1 32:06

or do I need to get multiple women to have that same ? What was our mating strategy ? Again , no , no , no . Okay , you can have all those things and still do that . Some men don't want more children . I know men that have got a slip because they're done finished . Do you think men want a bang ? I don't know .

Speaker 3 32:22

Do you think most men want a bang Most of the time ?

Speaker 1 32:24

Average men of course they , they want to bang most man yeah , where does that come from ? Where does the need to want to bang ? Come from it comes within you . No , no . Where does it come from ? What's it for ? Why do we ?

Speaker 3 32:35

want to bang . Survival , pure survival . To breed , to reproduce it's pure survival , it's survival it's our need to reproduce breedage no survival .

Speaker 1 32:45

If you don't produce , you don't survive . Yeah . I understand what you're saying , but I'm saying the need to want to bang is to reproduce . No , no , no . The need to bang is pure survival .

Speaker 3 32:54

This is I'm saying we're saying the same thing yeah , I'm saying , it is literally pure survival .

Speaker 1 33:01

That's why a man knows when a woman is not , can't procreate properly so they move on to the temperature and stuff . So sometimes when you're with someone and you get a chemical imbalance with them .

Speaker 3 33:14

I've heard that no , no , it's real . No , you don't often . No , you mean sexually .

Speaker 1 33:18

See , in this instance we wouldn't know that . Because we haven't been talking about that , I've gone a bit deeper . Wait there . Chemical imbalance sounds like a chemical .

Speaker 3 33:25

Are you all sexually or physically with your partner ? You're , sexually or physically , everything everything .

Speaker 1 33:30

So you know when you meet someone and they're nice , but your first attraction's nice . What can't get it open at all ?

Speaker 2 33:37

Yeah , it's just off .

Speaker 1 33:38

You're just off .

Speaker 2 33:39

The vibe is just off , like there's a study . Yeah , so they sent women into a room . They've been men , they've been working out and they're told no deodorant , work out into the top , put it in a bag . The women are told choose a sexual partner um to breed with , based off the scent of these . Every single one that picks a man whose dna um would make their child very , very strong , like um , with genetics and everything . Because of the chemical balance that they both had . They were very chemically compatible , the same way as like um .

Speaker 2 34:10

If you someone's natural like odor , like smells to you and like isn't , you're not attracted to them . Because if you're attracted to them , their natural scent is to like will literally turn you on because that's that's what it's supposed to do to us . So if you're not attracted to someone's natural scent and stuff , it's literally because your body isn't compatible with them . And women take stuff like the pill , the contraceptive pill . This alters our sense of smell , our scent , and it literally changes our body , puts in a different state . So we're choosing the wrong men because our hormones are imbalanced and so we're choosing wrong men because it changes our sense of smell . So we're choosing men that we're not fully compatible with . We're not going off our natural instincts as women . Okay , so this might sound childish , but so you're saying we're choosing men ?

Speaker 1 34:49

that we're not fully compatible with , we're not going off our natural instincts as women . Okay , so this might sound childish . So you're saying we're not getting our right partners because men are not walking around and stinking of beer ?

Speaker 3 34:58

Well , isn't that like I'm not being sure ?

Speaker 1 35:00

No , I'm saying she's saying that there's a natural Not concerned of beer , but there's a natural connection between .

Speaker 3 35:06

Yeah , I know that .

Speaker 1 35:07

But obviously when you're not going to get that natural scent from a man , so to speak , because obviously all these things no , when you're around them , you can .

Speaker 2 35:16

You can be attracted to someone , but you can , like he said , you can feel it's off and it's because that chemical , that energy , you're not compatible .

Speaker 1 35:24

Okay , beyond the scent of the scent , yeah , it goes beyond just the scent of things like have you guys not ever been around someone ?

Speaker 3 35:30

and you ?

Speaker 2 35:31

you just love the smell of that person like if I have a man , I could lick their armpits straight up and it's a turn on like it's . It's amazing , because you're supposed to feel . You're supposed to feel like that .

Speaker 3 35:41

I've never had it but I've never found it , the other way around .

Speaker 1 35:51

I understand that , yeah , but obviously I didn't know it was a chemical situation . But there's a lot of things I've heard of . We have perfumes and deodorants . That's my point . That's what I'm saying . We're not in the natural . That's why there's bare single moms , isn't it ?

Speaker 2 36:10

everyone's fucking up and not connecting . That is real . To an extent , that is an element of it . Yeah , anyway , we digress and also like when you look at children have a lot more problems . You were saying that men shouldn't do their on average .

Speaker 1 36:23

I'm saying men are going to cheat , yes , but there is a particular type of man that won't cheat .

Speaker 2 36:29

Okay , I wanted to add to this yeah , I was sat with a guy that owns a business today and I was talking to him and he said how he was at like a work strings and one of his employees had confessed that they were seeing somebody else and he automatically was like red flag because if you can do that to your partner , you can definitely do that to me as a business partner , partner , betray me in some sort of way , and I have in . You might say no , but I've met quite a few men who have said the same thing to me . Like another guy said , if one of his brethren's treats on his girl and he's literally is like sees , I'll be like you know , I love you , and then goes fuck someone else , he automatically has him as a guy that will betray him at betray him at some point you might not understand , but I feel like that falls in the category of men that Key is talking about , and the fact that you don't understand it .

Speaker 1 37:13

Well , no , no , I think some men are like that , but I would actually say generally , generally men are more low anyway , and I'm not talking sexual , I'm not talking sexual .

Speaker 3 37:24

Yeah .

Speaker 1 37:25

We'll stay with the same friends for the rest of our lives . You know , or We'll stay with the same friends for the rest of our lives . You lot will fall out over fucking some next stuff , not all , but most Make new friends . We'll just stick with our friends till we die . That's it . We'll fight to the death for you if we care about you . Yeah , I don't have a choice . The other way around , I think women will more adapt . This has happened in wars .

Speaker 1 37:44

I've heard about people saying this where you know your man's got killed , you're just the next man . You know what I mean . So I don't know . I think we're more loyal than that . Not sexually , I'll give us that .

Speaker 3 37:54

We're not low sexually , yeah , because girls will fall out over there , but you're telling them that their dress ain't nice and all of that . I feel like this is the type of women I don't do that with my friends , because we sit in this room , okay , multiple times and you cannot understand like .

Speaker 2 38:12

you're like , no , like everything I say , you're like nah . Okay , and you guys as men you'll all be like I cannot respond to it . And we'll listen to what you say and we're like we're thinking of the fuck . Why are you talking ?

Speaker 1 38:24

about . Yeah , you're both narcissists . I'll tell you why you're both narcissists , Because I'll tell you why . I'll tell you why Because when you're having a conversation , in general , you have to be able to have a conversation and look outside of yourself .

Speaker 3 38:39

So what I ?

Speaker 1 38:39

mean is you ? You might not do that with your friends , so you're good .

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Speaker 1 38:44

You might not do that with your friends . I understand that you're talking , even if I was to do a poll , a poll , yeah , no , no , no , I'm telling you now . Women rotate friends more than men do . I know that's to be true .

Speaker 3 38:55

You're not listening you can make a best friend in the toilet on a night out . Listen , I'm not denying , it's your language .

Speaker 1 39:00

It is your language so your tone , please no , no , no not your tone are saying oh , all girls , no , you need to .

Speaker 3 39:07

I'm talking in general no , I don't want to hear .

Speaker 1 39:09

In general , I always say in general so when we say , well , we don't do that , narcissism it's not narcissism you're thinking about yourself , we're not saying that , haven't you witnessed some girls do that ?

Speaker 3 39:20

but the point is , you make it out like oh , women are just like that no , because we're not , and you're also making it out like we don't see that .

Speaker 2 39:27

Can I ask you a question ? Women like to separate ourselves . You're also making it out like we don't see , or we don't acknowledge , that other women are like that , and you just made that your point , as that's what makes us narcissists .

Speaker 1 39:35

Okay , cool , Cool so okay , I'm going to do two things In general would you ? Say what I'm saying is true .

Speaker 3 39:42

No .

Speaker 1 39:43

Yeah , yeah , yeah yeah , another friend .

Speaker 3 39:46

Another friend .

Speaker 1 39:48

So let me just confirm what I tried to say Are you saying to me in general that women don't rotate friends more than men ? Is that what we're trying to say ? Because I have literally been out with women . You go to the bathroom and you've got a new best friend . You come back out .

Speaker 3 40:04

Another best friend . Okay , that is dramatic because Wait there , take it away from yourself , then you don't know girls out there that you've seen , that you associate yourself and they've got like five or six friend groups . I have never seen and you know what it's . Maybe I am too- .

Speaker 1 40:19

Narcissist . You see , I , I me , you know what let me finish this .

Speaker 3 40:22

Maybe I am too- .

Speaker 1 40:24

What are you ?

Speaker 2 40:24

talking about Listen to what she's saying . Let her fucking laugh . Hold on .

Speaker 1 40:28

Because I need you to forget yourself . I was literally just no , no , no , I don't need to forget myself .

Speaker 3 40:33

I was literally saying something . Literally , I'm saying I've never seen you're talking about girls come out of the bathroom . I've never seen two girls come out of the bathroom and be best friends . Anyone I meet , we meet in the bathrooms and we probably don't talk after that .

Speaker 2 40:46

We might act like we're best friends , but we'll never talk again . You follow each other on Instagram and just watch each other from afar , and that's it .

Speaker 3 40:51

So you pretend it . If that , if it even gets that far , so you pretend it .

Speaker 2 40:54

No , it's more like you can just talk to anyone . You can instantly vibe and have fun with anyone . That's all .

Speaker 1 40:59

Let's move on because when we're talking about things , forget yourself . Yeah , all right , think outside of yourself . Okay , we're talking in general . So that's like me saying you know , I've never experienced starvation , so it doesn't exist . We know that there's starvation everywhere else .

Speaker 3 41:20

We didn't say it doesn't exist . It was an example .

Speaker 2 41:22

I'm giving you an example , you're not killing me , I'm saying Just because you don't do that doesn't mean it ain't true . We didn't say it wasn't true , though did we ?

Speaker 3 41:32

We did not say that women do not do this . We didn't say that You're acting like it doesn't exist . We're saying , no , this doesn't exist . We've never said that .

Speaker 2 41:43

You're acting like women with an other mindset other than what you're talking about doesn't exist . That's the way that you talk about it .

Speaker 2 41:54

Let me ask you a question and I feel like it's important for us , for us to put in our insight as women who are not like that yeah , to give hope to men that not all , because when you were here going all men , all women , all women , all women you got two women who were saying we are not like that , so we're trying to give our point of view , and then you just are women out there you're like oh , you're not acknowledging , you're just talking about yourself .

Speaker 2 42:08

Yeah , because we're different , so we're trying to we're trying to highlight .

Speaker 3 42:11

Why can't we separate ourselves ? Why are we not unable , as soon as we separate ?

Speaker 2 42:14

ourselves . You're a narcissist . A narcissist as soon as we separate ourselves Crazy . Oh , all men are like this Tonight . We're cancelling this . Ladies and gentlemen , I normally agree with you , ladies and gentlemen , Now I know they agree with you Not .

Speaker 1 42:26

Always You've come on the show and said oh my cheek , I didn't go . Well , I don't cheat , so I don't know .

Speaker 3 42:31

I'm just saying they're damn skippy , Damn skippy , they do the boy .

Speaker 1 42:36

Yeah , she's come on this show . She's come on this show and said , yeah , most men are broke . You know what I said ? I don't go in that water .

Speaker 2 42:44

I'm not broke .

Speaker 1 42:44

So that means no one else is broke .

Speaker 2 42:50

Yeah , but do you see how you just said most and most You're talking about direct things .

Speaker 1 42:52

You've come on and said things about men in general and I haven't gone with a fucking sword and shield to ride in there and say no , no , it's not true , because I don't do it , I just say you know what ? Yes , it's true , you're right .

Speaker 2 43:05

you're right , mate so what we're saying is we're allowed to give our personal insight . Because you don't want to give your personal , your person as who you are , okay that's , that's fair enough if you don't want to display and you want to talk on just general , but we're talking on us as well .

Speaker 1 43:18

We're not just talking on general statistics but sometimes I will be myself into it and it will , or something to why I'm saying it . It's like you don't just want to clarify that . You're not like that and that's why I'm saying it's narcissism . That's what narcissism is .

Speaker 2 43:33

I feel like an hypocrite .

Speaker 3 43:34

No , otherwise we'd be sat there and talking about things we say , saying that's not me , that's not me . Now , this is what we're going to get to . Okay , all right , king .

Speaker 1 43:44

Hey , we're going to chill narcissist .

Speaker 2 43:47

Good points what I don't give a fuck if you think I'm a narcissist , like I really don't . That's not even a diss to me , so thanks .

Speaker 1 43:54

I'm a narcissist too , so not one can't we all let's leave it narcissist is the trigger word , man . Let's ban it let's leave it nah nah , nah , definitely not banning it what's the next question ?

Speaker 2 44:04

use it wisely , you're .

Speaker 1 44:05

We need to move on we'll come back to this on an extra part . Right , so this is just a scenario . So if you had the choice , would you take a billion pounds but never have the ability to ever have pleasure in sex ? Basically , you can't have . You know , like in Game of Thrones for the men , you're unsolid never watched it , it's gone . And for women it's stitched up yeah , that's what it's like in a game of thrones Crazy .

Speaker 2 44:26

And people still be falling in love Rym .

Speaker 1 44:28

What are we saying ? A billion pounds , or Say the options again , so A billion pounds on , so you take a billion pounds . Or , no , none , no , none , no , none .

Speaker 2 44:38

I don't no , no , you can have the none , you just feel nothing .

Speaker 1 44:43

No pleasure , no , no , no and your hands can't feel every time , every time , every time you try and do something , it's gone .

Speaker 3 44:49

Yeah , it's gone you can't experience it .

Speaker 1 44:51

I can't talk , you can't , can't experience sex . He didn't say that , though he didn't say that he didn't say that , so I can still .

Speaker 3 44:58

I don't know what that means .

Speaker 1 44:59

Well , you're competitive Game of Thrones , even though I ain't watching it , so I can't talk , or nothing like . So you got a billion pounds and you live your life without sex . No , bro , it's how it's how . It's how a crooker get boarded a billion bro .

Speaker 2 45:12

Yeah , yeah , that's the vision You're right .

Speaker 1 45:14

That should be an easy answer , though , man . That should be easy . I'm just taking money , you're just taking the money For real . Yeah .

Speaker 3 45:21

Wait , wait . You've never had sex or the age shows in that answer You're right though

Speaker 1 45:24

he's got to choose money because he's .

Speaker 3 45:30

Because , you know , he just said oh , what's it ? Money , you know what it is . I've immediately thought about like you want to reproduce .

Speaker 2 45:39

How are you ?

Speaker 1 45:40

going to do that . Yeah , that's what I was going to do . That was my next question Is it going to work ?

Speaker 3 45:49

Is there a ? Yeah , you can reproduce . Oh , yeah , money . Okay , I'll donate the money .

Speaker 1 45:51

then I've got the money , the money if you can reproduce . So now you're all agreeing with me , but the age is showing .

Speaker 3 45:55

You say the money . It's the way you say it . You know what I mean . Yeah , but it's because of the reproducing thing . He didn't even like . Question in the middle .

Speaker 1 46:00

I'll kill every single girl for money . You'd what I would eliminate every single guy for a billion .

Speaker 2 46:07

Are you saying that you can be bought ?

Speaker 1 46:10

No , wait , wait , Just for the record . Yeah , I thought you can be bought .

Speaker 2 46:15

Wait , wait , how much do you ?

Speaker 1 46:16

The opinions of my man is the Of my man only . Yeah , the opinions of him is a reflection , not a reflection of the Count's . Coach podcast , thank you . Thank you . You need to do the qualifiers , man . I was coach podcast .

Speaker 3 46:28

thank you you need to do the qualifiers . We're just about to do it . You know , we're just talking what about you ? Oh well , if we can reproduce the money we already know you .

Speaker 1 46:36

You see you on there , so so genocide . I think , all right , I'm not gonna ask you all right , I would annoy , I cannot be bored . Nothing makes sense makes sense . Yeah to the world .

Speaker 2 46:47

I cannot be bored nothing makes sense , makes sense .

Speaker 1 46:51

I was checking , just doing a little check . You know what I'm saying . Alright , cool , back to you . Next one should abortion be normalised ?

Speaker 3 46:57

yes , absolutely .

Speaker 2 47:02

I say no , I say yes . What are you saying ? Normalised , normalised ? No , I don't think it should be normalised Should be .

Speaker 3 47:12

Sorry , you're allowed to think that there's a difference .

Speaker 1 47:15

Are you thinking like ?

Speaker 2 47:16

normalised or legal . That's what I'm saying . Normalised , I'm saying normalised , should it be normalised ? I don't think it should be normalised . I think it can lead to it can be detrimental when it's when it's normalised . I feel like you just normalise getting it . Some people don't take into consideration the emotional weight that it carries .

Speaker 1 47:34

Especially , I feel like she's not separating the normalised to their option to do it . She's thinking it's the same thing . That's what . That's what I asked .

Speaker 3 47:44

Yeah , so normalise , I think it should be normalised , because there's a lot of people who , because it's not normalised , they're actually they won't do it , like I have like some friends or people that actually don't want kids and they really , really don't want kids but they're going to do it because they don't believe in abortion so you think deleting children is like should be normalised ? You know it is . Sometimes it's worse when these people that don't really want kids or shit that's worse sometimes .

Speaker 1 48:10

I agree , especially if you're young . At a young age , murder's better .

Speaker 3 48:14

I don't believe it's murder . They're not living yet I don't believe , I don't really .

Speaker 2 48:19

You can have an abortion up to 24 weeks actually , which I actually think that's where it gets a bit disgusting , because if you give birth prematurely at 24 weeks , they're going to do everything that they can to save that baby's life , and they can live , and babies do live . But I know a baby that's lived , that was born at like 23 weeks and weighed less than a pound , and you know , today they're an adult that walks around and I just think it's crazy that up to 24 weeks no , no , pass that .

Speaker 1 48:46

Is it ? Do you support that ? Up to 36 weeks you can do you support that ?

Speaker 2 48:52

and I thought that was only abroad . Is it in the UK ?

Speaker 3 48:54

yes , in the UK in the UK do you support 24 weeks um , I support what everyone wants to do . It's her choice , that's my .

Speaker 2 49:01

I know it's crazy , but I just feel like so you still have an opinion on , on the act or something , without being a business ?

Speaker 3 49:09

Yeah , absolutely not , wouldn't do that , let me , let me let me .

Speaker 1 49:12

Let me put this into perspective . So the other day , on um one of the blogs on Instagram , they basically put um something like Lily Allen said yeah , I said it . Yeah , oh , you said it . I'm going to repeat because I don't know the debate and what she said in it . So basically , it wasn't in this instance . It was kind of just the way she was kind of playing it down and like it's no , no big deal , yeah , but she's normalising it .

Speaker 2 49:40

Yeah . She basically said , like she had so many abortions she didn't .

Speaker 1 49:42

She's had five .

Speaker 2 49:55

In fact , she first said know how many she's had ? Yeah , that's what , that's all that I had heard . And then she said I've had five . Now that's it being normalized ? Do you think that's like that's ? And there were a lot of people who agree with abortion but were upset with how she said it . Because you can , I can like . What I say is like you can understand . You know you , anyone can understand why someone might make a decision to do something . That doesn't mean that what they do isn't bad . I can still be sad about it . I still think it's , you know , an act that I personally don't agree with . That the act of it is a devastating thing , even if I can understand why you've done it . Do you know what I'm saying ?

Speaker 1 50:21

Yeah , because to normalise it , you've raised irresponsibility . Yeah , and I know women that literally use it as a contraception . I feel like your answer was a bit emotional . I'm going to try and explain what I think , why you gave the answer right . I think you gave the answer because you're thinking about someone who's either young or even great , even though that's like a very small grape and pregnancy is a very small percentage , right , but even just you're thinking about people that really only doing it because they can't care for the child . Is that the thought process you have or are you just saying , for any reason , you just , I was .

Speaker 3 51:00

You are correct to an extent , like that's absolutely what I was thinking about , but I was also thinking about the fact that , again like I said , I had a friend who had a child and they literally did not want a baby because of this religious thing or believing in like , not believing in abortion they've gone and had a child that they how is she ? Now how a while , um , um , but I don't speak to you , so um yeah , no , I don't circle .

Speaker 3 51:25

You know , I can tell you like you know but you know what it is , how I'm with my friends . We will speak . It's just that during our pregnancy it was just some hormonal stuff .

Speaker 1 51:33

You said I rest my , I rest my shit .

Speaker 3 51:35

What case would you rest ? You could easily have a if someone's pregnant . I'm not going to nitpick at them and argue with them . Do ?

Speaker 2 51:45

you know what I mean ? Yeah , but you know what I genuinely didn't have one . I know everyone else had that my sister's was me , Like it was Pete .

Speaker 1 51:52

So you had a friend that you no longer talk to now ?

Speaker 2 51:54

No that goes back to the point before he's just trying to pull you up on the earlier point .

Speaker 3 52:01

So you have not one friend that you don't speak to anymore , not one person in your whole life that you've ever had to drop out or my friends from school in a group chat . So you have not one . I didn't ask about your friends from school , so there's not one person in your life that you've had to drop out ever .

Speaker 2 52:13

Hold on , men , just let disrespect slide in their friendship group like crazy . Like I think that men , I think the men's friendship group , they like obviously women are more emotive , so like it is literally like a logical act thing that I'm saying Women are more emotive so obviously like we take things deeper and everything . But I think like sometimes I witness stuff in all right , it's not , why do I mind ?

Speaker 1 52:36

I'm sorry man , I'm really trolling man . I'm sorry God Now you've thrown me off . I don't know what I was saying .

Speaker 2 52:44

You're saying I've seen you know like male friendship groups and I'm like what you're still speaking up Like , wait , like they go like and you just keep it moving . And I think , snakes , we all fucking like half of you barely even like each other , and that can be the same in females as well .

Speaker 1 53:06

But I do say I'm not saying for all , but I see it . It's just the honesty and I feel like that's the difference in terms of friendships . Yeah , in this example that you're giving between men and women and that no .

Speaker 2 53:17

I know the point you're trying to make there . I'm saying like I've seen

What Makes a Good Man?

Speaker 2 53:24

deception , male friendship groups and I feel like they'll keep it moving or like brush it off , whereas women we're going to .

Speaker 1 53:31

Nah , there's always bad people in friendship groups .

Speaker 2 53:33

Yeah , it happens .

Speaker 1 53:34

You dust it off and then you move on . Yeah , but back to the I shouldn't really say abortion , but I don't think that I would even like it .

Speaker 3 53:41

I just need to clarify because people like to fact check .

Speaker 1 53:45

So the UK has passed the law . So then , after 24 weeks , you can then end the pregnancy up to 36 weeks , that's crazy so it's passed . They've passed the law , but it hasn't changed because it has to go to the next stage . So it's still 25 .

Speaker 2 54:00

However , it's due to be released , so I'm just saying soon 2025 you can end the pregnancy , so our living baby can actually just be and they will literally just like leave it to die on the table like it's you know abroad anyway , like I've , I've seen , like it's , it's wild .

Speaker 1 54:15

I just think that if that option wasn't there , people would be more responsible .

Speaker 3 54:20

So yeah it shouldn't be , not absolutely . Probably should it be normalized . Well then , like I said , I feel like it's still sound . There needs to be something put in place so people understand that it's actually okay . Some people are really be riveted in their lives and kids' lives . I don't believe in that .

Speaker 1 54:36

Wouldn't you say this is a better approach , though ? The option is there if you want to do it . Well , I think we can universally agree that murder is wrong .

Speaker 3 54:45

I don't think it's murder . Cool , cool , you don't think it's murder .

Speaker 1 54:47

Cool , cool , you don't think it's murder . I'm just saying after five weeks is a heartbeat , that's all I'm saying . So you take it as you want if you don't think it's murder . But okay , can we agree at least that it's not a positive thing absolutely , it's not okay , so we can . We can put in the box that abortion bad yeah it's Abortion bad .

Speaker 3 55:07

Yeah , it's not a nice thing to put . Yeah , so abortion bad .

Speaker 1 55:10

Reason for abortion may not be bad . You understand what I'm saying . Yeah , I agree .

Speaker 3 55:14

So can we separate Because I'm black and white . Abortion is always bad .

Speaker 1 55:17

I'm a black and white guy . I don't want no grey areas . You can say that's bad . Well , I had to do it because of whatever reason . Yeah , I come to that . My guy has a little . Nah , you don't want me to have my say man , I say it bro , I do see , is it bad ? Though , is it , is it bad ? If you're like if you're so young , yeah , and you can't take care of a kid , and then you obviously have an abortion , is that a bad thing ?

Speaker 1 55:43

you can still go and live the best of your life but the reason for it might not be bad , yeah , but the action , it's the action , it's bad . Five weeks , that's bad . And this one people have actually said after a certain amount and even at early , early stages where they've had one , it's very more , it's a lot more developed than they thought it would have been yeah at the time period that they said . I just if you can't have a baby and if you don't want to have a baby , then don't you know what ?

Speaker 3 56:11

I mean it's nice and what I get yeah , yeah , yeah , yeah , yeah , yeah .

Speaker 1 56:14

But he would he would ? You're saying that he would , yeah , yeah , I know he's getting dark , yeah , like yeah .

Speaker 2 56:20

Yeah , it's kind of a little shorter than you do you expect .

Speaker 3 56:24

Yeah , just pull out one time , man all right .

Speaker 1 56:26

So this is a nice easy scenario . All you need to do is say yeah , I don't know . Would you rather lose the ability to speak and hear and save world hunger so no one in the world will go hungry or have a house ? Or would you rather play Thanos and just absolutely delete everyone ? Half the world and its existence ?

Speaker 3 56:45

What , what the fuck ? You said hear and speak .

Speaker 1 56:48

Yeah , so you're going to give up your ability to speak and to hear to make sure everyone in the world is peaceful . So you lose that ability , or you , you genocide half the world .

Speaker 2 56:59

That is like , basically like a lose-lose situation .

Speaker 3 57:02

I would rather keep my stuff .

Speaker 2 57:04

Whatever helps me , I'll do that that must have do we get to select who we kill ?

Speaker 1 57:09

No , you don't get to select . No , there's no selection . Half the world is immediately deleted . I'm clicking .

Speaker 2 57:16

What if it's your mum ? Isn't that hard ? It's hard .

Speaker 1 57:19

It's not going to feel no pain though it's not like it's going to be like .

Speaker 2 57:21

So you're happy to kill your mum .

Speaker 3 57:26

Everyone's random , we don't know . But then I would not be able to see my son or hear my son .

Speaker 2 57:30

Exactly Like it could be my son . Yeah , like then I'm going to have to Most people are clicking yeah , but then if you're clicking , it could be your son that goes .

Speaker 3 57:41

That's what I'm saying , but you don't know that , you don't ? That's .

Speaker 2 57:45

Yeah , fuck that . I ain't living like that . This is a moon .

Speaker 1 57:48

Boom .

Speaker 2 57:48

Humans are I literally am a musician , like , as a Like , that's my whole gig . You know what ? I'm saying what would I do ?

Speaker 3 57:57

I would just exist .

Speaker 2 57:59

I'm asking what you'd do . Oh , click and roll . I'm using Be existing in that little place . Are we able to do ?

Speaker 1 58:04

that Next ? Next , can your friend sleep with your mum Are ?

Speaker 2 58:09

you what ? Who wrote that ? You obviously 19-year-old guys .

Speaker 1 58:18

I did not write that . I did not write that . It don't matter who wrote it . Answer the question , Listen it's a universal . No , let's move on . Fuck . No , wait , wait . Universal no from the normals . What about you ? It depends so your mum .

Speaker 3 58:33

Wait , are you the friend or ?

Speaker 1 58:34

your mum ? No , no , no , not my mum , no you need to ask I would give it to my friend's mum .

Speaker 2 58:38

We're talking about your mum To someone's mum . Yeah , yeah , yeah , someone else's mum . What about your mum ?

Speaker 1 58:43

Nah , that come mum .

Speaker 3 58:45

Yeah , back back to you , kate .

Speaker 2 58:48

Good job , nice and quick he was writing that question , thinking a pocket tool was my big dream .

Speaker 1 58:52

Yeah what is the most expensive gift you have given and received ?

Speaker 2 58:59

fucking hell . A child , yeah , priceless from priceless from your significant other .

Speaker 1 59:07

So what you've given to them , yeah , a child , a child , a child both ways don't cop out with that . I don't want no cop outs . Don't say that I don't even know . Yeah , I don't even know , I've bought some .

Speaker 2 59:20

I would probably say weed was the most expensive because of the amount that I got would probably trump everything else .

Speaker 1 59:27

Weed my dad did me like a bouquet of flowers with a bouquet of weed of the amount that I got would probably trump everything else . Weed , or was it like a ?

Speaker 2 59:31

box of that . It was like a my dad did me like a bouquet of flowers with a bouquet of weed for , like my birthday , like when I was like 21 or something 22 .

Speaker 1 59:36

So your partner gave you a bouquet of weed oh partner . No , that was my dad , sorry , oh , no , no your .

Speaker 2 59:50

What kind of dad is that ? The coolest dad that ever fucking existed is my dad the greatest sorry , the greatest dad in the world . That's a good reminder of weed so um other than that . I'm trying to think what's the greatest gift ? Probably just like jewelry or something . I don't know the price , but just like like a necklace or something , bro , I don't .

Speaker 1 1:00:08

I'm trying to think , bro , we don't get gifts , bro , it's kind of well .

Speaker 2 1:00:11

I've I've gifted like expensive trainers or like clothes tracksuits or shit like that .

Speaker 1 1:00:15

Just give the gift that keeps up .

Speaker 2 1:00:16

Give it her or , like I said , a child . I have .

Speaker 3 1:00:19

I've done a nice gift , like there was a series of stuff how much ? A baby dad , I've probably spent nearly a bag , nearly a grand , not a grand on a man .

Speaker 2 1:00:32

I was with her for a long time listen when a girl loves a guy , yeah , your birthday .

Speaker 3 1:00:36

She's going crazy and if she doesn't like women love like food , yeah , but you know what , I'm not gonna lie I didn't actually . When we got to the restaurant he's got a thing , so I didn't pay anyway at the restaurant . But the stuff that was pre-booked I already paid for it . So he can't control that . But when we got to the restaurant , why are you rolling your eyes ?

Speaker 2 1:00:54

Let a man be a man .

Speaker 3 1:00:56

He paid for it , like every year on his birthday , he would pay for the food and . I respect that he would still pay .

Speaker 1 1:01:02

God forbid the man wants . Oh my god it's , I'm dying man . God forbid . A man wants a free meal on his birthday .

Speaker 2 1:01:10

Well , he obviously didn't want it , did he ?

Speaker 3 1:01:12

I would pay .

Speaker 1 1:01:14

So I'm back .

Speaker 3 1:01:15

Just under close to .

Speaker 1 1:01:17

For one meal .

Speaker 3 1:01:18

Not for a meal .

Speaker 1 1:01:23

Not for just a meal . You don't buy shit . You don't buy shit . I bought a galnando's and , yes , ex that's cute .

Speaker 3 1:01:29

Yeah , yeah , would be enough . You don't buy shit .

Speaker 1 1:01:30

I bought a galnando in year six . Yeah , that's cute £14 . Yeah , yeah .

Speaker 3 1:01:33

Dave , did your mum pay ? Give you the little change to go out and have a drink .

Speaker 1 1:01:36

No , I was like I had to do like chores around the house .

Speaker 3 1:01:39

Yeah , yeah , oh no , he earned it my little brothers do that they used to do that , yeah , but .

Speaker 1 1:01:45

I worked hard for that and then spent it on her . Is that where ? The trauma comes from the way you look on a date .

Speaker 2 1:01:51

She didn't say thank you did she . My little brother when he's 30 , he'd be doing chores , getting money , and I'd drop him off at his girlfriend's house with flowers and chocolates and some stuff and he'd work for it . Yeah .

Speaker 1 1:02:00

I'd never do that again . No , It'd be good .

Speaker 2 1:02:03

So what did the girl do she ?

Speaker 1 1:02:04

broke . Yeah , yeah , navragan .

Speaker 2 1:02:05

And you know what how come ? Okay , that's right , why ?

Speaker 3 1:02:07

does it get their heart broken One time , one time when they're like 12 . And that's it now . That's it for the rest of us .

Speaker 1 1:02:14

You can probably answer to you , because we love super hard . That's why .

Speaker 3 1:02:18

Too hard , absolutely , I agree . Word of romantic .

Speaker 1 1:02:24

Word of romantic , and I feel like a man's love is stronger than a woman's okay , now see this is where you lost different . Yeah , but they love differently yeah , yeah , yeah , definitely different , but if he loves you , he'll die for you yeah , okay maybe you , like haven't experienced that . I'm just saying no no , no like . I will never go in a relationship ever again , just because , no , no , just because that one experience .

Speaker 2 1:02:48

No , no , no , you will .

Speaker 1 1:02:52

I promise you Like , okay , you know what ?

Speaker 2 1:02:53

Let's make this an annual thing . Okay , we can quote this , we can clip this .

Speaker 1 1:02:57

I swear to God , unless I see like a 10 out of 10 , I'm never going back to like an 80 .

Speaker 3 1:03:03

Well , you're using the eye of the beholder , so what do you think is a 10 out of 10 ?

Speaker 1 1:03:10

Last question Nice and easy Beauty is genuine .

Speaker 3 1:03:13

It is in the eye of the beholder .

Speaker 1 1:03:14

Nah , it's genuine , can't .

Speaker 2 1:03:15

Yeah , but someone that you like , you you can . There's a difference between finding people attractive I can register when someone is an attractive person versus when I am really attracted to them . It's a different thing . I can look at someone and be like , yeah , I can see how they'd be a 10 out of 10 to someone they're really attractive versus just someone that I find is a 10 out of 10 just to me .

Speaker 3 1:03:35

You know that . You know that Keita girl that used to date Fingal on Instagram . Who , what that Keita girl ? And she's just a really pretty girl . What are they ? Terrible , terrible , terrible , terrible .

Speaker 1 1:03:46

Terrible , terrible , terrible , terrible , terrible , terrible , terrible , terrible , terrible , terrible , terrible , terrible yeah .

Speaker 3 1:03:49

I think she's really really pretty .

Speaker 1 1:03:51

Now , for some reason she's just always like fucking exist in 2025 . There's too much . There's too much Instagram , there's too much validation . That's impossible . Back in the day it could happen . It can't happen now they know . If you got asked , you know , yeah , beauty is the currency . You know , come on , she's probably capping on the internet , mate , just to make it seem humble yeah , fake humble .

Speaker 2 1:04:24

Yeah , she's fair enough , but come on , no , no , no enough men in her life . Most girls have their self esteem issues and don't see , yeah , it's because of Instagram and validation . Yeah , that's what I'm saying , so you're thinking like oh , because of Instagram , they all think this . Well , actually , then I've gone to Instagram , I'm talking about to other men , though .

Speaker 1 1:04:38

To each other , that's where your insecurities come from . But to men Not you too not you too not you too . See that going train . Last question Nice and easy who are you getting rid of ? Drug dealers or OnlyFans ?

Speaker 2 1:04:53

girls , onlyfans girls , onlyfans girls , onlyfans girls . I was only going to say my buzzer .

Speaker 3 1:04:58

Because , drug dealers actually provide some value .

Speaker 1 1:05:01

What is it Drug dealers provide value ?

Speaker 3 1:05:05

Oh yeah , drug dealers provide value . Yeah , yeah , yeah To an extent , to an extent no , I don't know .

Speaker 1 1:05:08

Because I had a thought In the last show . Yeah , I was actually kind of Thinking about this . I like defending it , but I was . I'll talk to you and see what you think . Yeah , imagine if , like , all corn and all , like , all of it was all gone . Yeah , I think the world Would go to shit If it was all gone . Yeah , so so there's no more . No more passion , nothing . There's no more sex , sex work , it's all gone oh no , they've got to use their left hand .

Speaker 2 1:05:32

What are they gonna do ?

Speaker 1 1:05:33

I don't know about that but , like most needs , you need something . I feel like you know , like I am legend , I feel like the men will turn like that because think about it , remember it's always been there it's always been there . I feel like we'll be okay , you see . You see where we are in society in terms of the inventions and all of that . I feel like we would have gotten there sooner without all of that stuff . Nah .

Speaker 3 1:05:54

I feel like that's .

Speaker 1 1:05:55

That was . That's a distraction , bro . Listen , a big distraction . I talk shit about women , yeah , I know , even though it's true , but I do talk a lot , but men do a lot because of women . Let's be real .

Speaker 3 1:06:07

Yeah 100% .

Speaker 1 1:06:09

Most of the shit men do is to get women . Yeah 100% , but there's levels though , and the OF team .

Speaker 3 1:06:15

Even most of these inventions mate .

Speaker 1 1:06:16

I guarantee you someone trying to invest , trying to impress somebody else yeah , agreed , he built a car so he can go and pick her up .

Speaker 2 1:06:22

Oh , that's so cute that the only issue that I have I'm going to flip it now .

Speaker 3 1:06:28

The only issue that I had Back in the day .

Speaker 1 1:06:30

I actually believe that women were the trophy Back then . I just don't think it's true now . So back in the day , you know there was a little bit more Within themselves . They would just go Sleep with everyone on the street , not saying you , not , you too , not you too , but women in general . So I think there was a prize back there .

Speaker 2 1:06:47

Can you make sure I do that every time ? Can you keep that up ? We like that Every time .

Speaker 1 1:06:52

They're not , even they're not even like calibrating the narcissism they're not understanding that it's a semi-physic ?

Speaker 2 1:07:01

Of course we are , do you not ? I'm literally , we're literally playing your game . What do you ?

Speaker 3 1:07:04

mean it's worrying if you're not a narcissist .

Speaker 1 1:07:06

I know , but I'm kind of I'm using the narcissism that's there do you not think we are fully aware of that .

Speaker 2 1:07:10

What do you think like ?

Speaker 1 1:07:10

do you think that we're just being genuinely serious , like will you ? Oh , I don't know . I feel like she was . Her face was quite genuine but yeah so maybe she's got a genuine face . I feel like that's how well yeah anyways , yeah , back in the day .

Speaker 3 1:07:24

Women , you know not disaster as a whole , women .

Speaker 2 1:07:28

Are you a ?

Speaker 3 1:07:29

pro . I'm kind of like um no , but why would this little boy ? I hate the troll .

Speaker 2 1:07:39

I need to get one .

Speaker 1 1:07:41

This guy's a fucking troll . You know , I don't do anything . I don't do anything . Why would he's a troll , bro ? He's a troll . I need to get him out . Proper troll .

Speaker 3 1:07:54

Now , what do you think ? You literally poured him down . I know , I know , it's hot in here .

Speaker 1 1:07:58

Composure .

Speaker 2 1:07:59

Composure .

Speaker 1 1:08:01

Let's not switch attention to me . No , we are the question is for you because you did that . He's a wild and angry gem . That was quite funny though .

Speaker 3 1:08:08

Gallivanting about .

Speaker 2 1:08:08

I didn't even see what happened .

Speaker 1 1:08:09

Can you answer the question ?

Speaker 2 1:08:10

All I saw was you rolling , though . Yeah , oh , you didn't see what he did .

Speaker 1 1:08:14

I do that at least once a show , are you ?

Speaker 3 1:08:16

looking at me right now . We're looking at you right now there .

Speaker 2 1:08:19

I've done it once , a show .

Speaker 3 1:08:19

Oh , when you said when it depends what you yes or no . You can't ask someone that that's stupid , that's a stupid question and then it's unfair for you . Then it's unfair for you to try and close that question , so I'm not going to answer it .

Speaker 1 1:08:39

All right , cool , Fair enough . Key can we get the definition of prize ? What ?

Speaker 3 1:08:42

Prize . I'm not going to answer it .

Speaker 1 1:08:43

No you don't need to answer it I I want to get the definition .

Speaker 2 1:08:46

One sec Prizes vary because you can get a prize out of like a claw grabber when it's like in a system there's a dictionary Definition of prize A thing given as a reward to the winner of a competition or in recognition of an outstanding achiever .

Speaker 3 1:09:01

See , I don't know what I want to do with that .

Speaker 1 1:09:04

Get it , man , Back in the day . You don't want it to be prizes when you're in the ring now . Of course you should want it .

Speaker 3 1:09:09

You should want it so basically a man .

Speaker 1 1:09:10

Securing you would be like an outstanding achievement

Friends With Benefits: Who Benefits?

Speaker 1 1:09:14

.

Speaker 3 1:09:14

This is why I didn't want to ask the question because to some people it might be a yes , to others it could be a no .

Speaker 1 1:09:20

It's what you think , though . But , it doesn't matter what I think , I hear what you're saying , because like you can find like a chocolate bar , like outside , like I was explaining , and someone will be like that's good there's a guy that keeps trying to talk to me and he's younger and he doesn't have any kids , and I keep telling him to go away and like why shouldn't he have kids ?

Speaker 3 1:09:44

because I'm saying to him as a guy that's a little bit younger , like just go and like find a woman that does that and the kids doesn't really have that extra baggage . You're young , you have a good career . I just feel like he should go and do that . Do you have a child ? I do , yeah .

Speaker 1 1:09:58

I didn't know that you might have said it like every time no , she said it with a fan-off , with a fan-off example . Oh yeah , I didn't cut that , that's true , okay .

Speaker 3 1:10:07

Yeah , like for me , that's how I would put that to that young man Like you should probably like just go and find your own .

Speaker 1 1:10:15

Go and find a better prize .

Speaker 3 1:10:17

Yeah , because what ? Whereas a guy who has kids like that , you know you did the same shit as me . It's a bit different . Equals equals it's a bit different .

Speaker 1 1:10:28

I've got a dog , you've got a dog it's a bit different . It's a bit different . Yeah , yeah , and you've got some face , you know , and I yeah , yeah , she's got you there . That's a compliment , that's a compliment . That's a compliment , that's a compliment .

Speaker 2 1:10:40

That's a compliment . That's a compliment . That's a compliment . That's a compliment .

Speaker 1 1:10:40

That's a compliment , that's a compliment , that's a compliment that's a compliment , that's a this is the thing , guys I have my hair straightened today when do you think it's weird that a man doesn't like how did it get ?

Speaker 2 1:10:53

I would say 30 . I would say 40 , no , no , no , 40 . After 35 , I was going to say 35 , but I thought with the way things are going , I'd probably say more . It's not weird you're both right .

Speaker 1 1:11:04

I gotta lie .

Speaker 2 1:11:06

I would say round about between 35 to 40 , 100% After 35 , I start to question Okay , yes , why don't you ?

Speaker 3 1:11:11

As soon as it hits 40 , I'm like okay , that's fair .

Speaker 1 1:11:14

Because that's the thought process I have here . Well , you know , people ask me .

Speaker 2 1:11:19

Was that ? How old Was that ? How old are you 32 . Okay , okay .

Speaker 1 1:11:22

But like when they ask me , I'm like . I'm like who Like who . Like literally who . Who Like who ? Who Owl , like literally who . You fear of being a weapon being weaponised against you for why ? And number two , you might get with some ex-Lilly Phillips thousand man train runner .

Speaker 2 1:11:42

So I'm going to say like , well , how about don't do that ?

Speaker 1 1:11:44

then you don't know because you're not going to tell the truth , yeah , but I feel like most men want to make sure that they're in a position where that's also true they can properly take care of that child and that and the situation , how they want their child to grow up . So some men probably don't want their child to go on nursery and all these things , want their missus to take time off , work , you know , for two years , three years , while they provide well , yeah , in your case , forever , isn't it ?

Speaker 1 1:12:16

No one really wants to do that , though what men , then ? Women don't really want to do that . What ? Stop working . It's crazy .

Speaker 3 1:12:24

It's almost a fight to want to work .

Speaker 1 1:12:27

I feel like some women say they don't want it but then , when they're put in a situation , they see the good side . That happens , though , that's true . They see the good side .

Speaker 2 1:12:37

A lot of women are just in survival mode and they're literally just like boom , we'll let it do . And they don't know that that's what they want . Yet that was me once upon a time . Upon a time , I used to say like you . Like you , I used to say I'm never having a relationship but I mean it though , like I'm , and that's exactly what .

Speaker 2 1:12:51

I used to say , and that's exactly what I used to say I never want love again . I'm never like even going to entertain somebody , all this type of shit with all of it , just to heal , just to heal .

Speaker 3 1:13:02

it's nothing personal , it's just something about teenagers .

Speaker 1 1:13:05

I'm so sorry , no but it's because the reason you said something earlier and I was going to touch on it you don't understand is that when we're younger , we believe what you are saying , so we do what we think that you want us to do , and then the heart gets broken . That's what happens . That's like literally everyone's anime , yeah . And then we realise Wait the dickheads are fucking , so why not just be a dickhead ?

Speaker 3 1:13:30

Sure , it's true , it's true .

Speaker 1 1:13:33

If you can't be .

Speaker 3 1:13:33

I'm sorry Like we calculate .

Speaker 1 1:13:34

You know what I mean . We calculate because we're very logical , so we just do the equation Dickhead equals vagina , so it's like it's simple to keep them , keen and fuck a whole scene and they treat them like a top of the hill . Like the nice guys never went . That's bullshit . Nice guys never went they always finish last .

Speaker 2 1:13:50

Nice guys finish last , but good men don't finish last , there's a difference between a nice guy and a good man .

Speaker 1 1:13:57

I think there's a big difference . The good men are getting absolutely ruined in divorce court .

Speaker 2 1:14:01

Wait , a nice guy that's kind of just like a yes man . Do you know what I'm saying ? A yes man isn't always a good man . Is gonna check you . A good man is gonna do you know what I'm saying is gonna lead you , is gonna have a healthy balance of masculine and feminine relations it's not always gonna say yes yeah , like , just because a man is like so nice , that's not always healthy . Do you know what I'm saying ?

Speaker 1 1:14:24

I'll check you with the feminine thing , but I'll say you'll have some some type of emotional can't find the word emotional intelligence . Yeah , now you have to be emotionally intelligent in this world because emotions are run wild . Why everything's hypersensitive ? He's just not emotionally intelligent at all it's just all these fucking feminine words , man , I'm just fucking sick of it emotions , emotions , emotional .

Speaker 2 1:14:47

Listen , this is what concerns me . Yes , every time someone brings up emotion , I'll be like women are emotional how are you ever gonna ? How are you ever gonna love a woman that is full of emotion , if just the word emotion just absolutely fucking puts ?

Speaker 1 1:15:00

you off ? No , no , no are you emotionally attracted to a female .

Speaker 2 1:15:03

Let me respond do you actually like women ?

Speaker 3 1:15:06

for what they are . Let me respond . I feel like , because it's like you're emotionally not attracted to women . Let me respond .

Speaker 1 1:15:12

I'm talking about the men . You was talking about men , not women . Yeah , I was talking about men .

Speaker 2 1:15:15

If she was talking about women .

Speaker 1 1:15:17

I'd give her the most grace on the show . I'd give her literally the most grace . I say you're emotional so you probably should be in a workplace .

Speaker 3 1:15:24

But you're doing it in the wrong way again . No , but yeah but you're just how about you take .

Speaker 1 1:15:28

I'm not sensitive , so I don't care how about you just take in the information and forget about how I'm saying it how about now ? Yeah , you've heard my point . Emotional , yeah , but we're not saying we're not emotional we're quick one . Do you think men should have emotional intelligence ?

Speaker 2 1:15:45

than women .

Speaker 1 1:15:46

No no , yeah , but we do have emotional intelligence , though to a degree , yeah , so no emotional intelligence it's like the way you're asking the question , it's like we don't have it , but we do have it listen , hold on the men that have dads . Have emotional intelligence , no emotional intelligence is just the ability to be able to control your emotions no , it's not there's a second , there's a second part to it , there's also to be able to , but that's the main part , to understand other people's emotions and to understand the knock-on effects of emotions .

Speaker 1 1:16:12

That's part two , though , yeah , part one is being able to control your emotions , like recognize , well , no , it's just the whole thing .

Speaker 2 1:16:21

Okay , it's not part one . Okay , it's just different elements . So You're just meeting an element of emotional intelligence so then ,

Speaker 1 1:16:26

you just don't use that . You can be emotionally aware . No , you just don't use that .

Speaker 2 1:16:28

No . If you are saying yeah , that is being in control of your own emotions , I would say that you're emotionally aware or you're emotionally disciplined . But to be emotionally intelligent is you need to master that .

Speaker 3 1:16:38

No , but hold on a minute . All points no , so hold on a minute , let's .

Speaker 1 1:16:43

The definition is being able to control your emotions and also understanding other people's emotions , right ?

Speaker 3 1:16:49

And you guys Hold on a second .

Speaker 1 1:16:51

So I would say that men are better at the top bit and women are better at the bottom bit . So we're both not motion intelligent . We're better at controlling our emotions and you're better at reading other emotions and reacting to them . So none of us have both .

Speaker 2 1:17:03

So none of us have the emotional intelligence .

Speaker 1 1:17:04

That's why , when we come together , we're the most effective . I agree .

Speaker 2 1:17:07

When you come together , it's a perfect balance . I agree with that too .

Speaker 1 1:17:10

And this is why I say a good man has emotional intelligence , so he has both of them .

Speaker 2 1:17:14

No , no , no . Yeah , there are men that do possess both . You just missed everything that you just said . You know ? No , I heard what you said .

Speaker 1 1:17:23

However , there are men that hold emotional intelligence of both sides without being I don't think men are strong in that area Not every man , but there is but most . Or can we talk in general ?

Speaker 3 1:17:35

No , no , she said a good man .

Speaker 2 1:17:37

I just said a good man .

Speaker 1 1:17:38

Yeah , but I'm a good man and I wouldn't say I had that .

Speaker 2 1:17:40

No , you're just a very Well , you're just a very nice man . Alpha romantic man , so I want to wait , okay , so can you do me a favour ? No , no , no , no , he is not a nice guy . No , no , no , no , you don't want an alpha male .

Speaker 3 1:17:53

Apparently you want an alpha bet beta .

Speaker 1 1:17:56

Guess what ? Yeah , not an alpha male . Guess what ? Alpha males are not emotionally intelligent , mate .

Speaker 3 1:18:01

No , no , no , that's not what I'm saying . Apparently we've been like that's probably not going to work . What ?

Speaker 1 1:18:06

they're saying is like men have emotional intelligence . So I'm . I'm just part one going big part one and part two basically and that's a good man .

Speaker 3 1:18:15

I don't think men are very good at reading other people's emotions .

Speaker 2 1:18:18

In general , some men are some men are yeah , but most are not , though , yeah , yeah , I'm not saying that , I'm just saying good men we're not talking about all men . I said a good man and you said define a nice man and that's what we're trying to define right now is a good man , I would say and you just keep saying all men , we're not talking about all men .

Speaker 1 1:18:34

We're talking about a good man . Can you list out some traits that a good man should have ? Emotional intelligence is one I Disciplines that other men don't have .

Speaker 2 1:18:45

They don't fold on their morality . They don't fold on their word . They stand for something . They stand for good cause . Stick into what they're saying yeah , they move with good intention and they stand by that . They don't fold on it because of temptation , they don't fold on it because of this . Do you know what I'm saying ? They stand and they remain true to their discipline .

Speaker 1 1:19:00

That's what a good man is man though that goes by all of them things here , and because you don't like it or the female in question don't like it , all of a sudden he's not a good man whatever standard and morals are , I would say , having good morals is having good morals if his morals don't align with yours , because morals are not linear yeah , but good and bad is what I'm moving on .

Speaker 2 1:19:26

good and bad is what I'm moving on . Good and bad , yeah , but what's morally bad ?

Speaker 1 1:19:29

or good to you might not be morally bad or good to the other person .

Speaker 2 1:19:32

I understand what you're saying , but then that's just a compatibility thing , isn't it ?

Speaker 1 1:19:37

So a good man to you then , yeah , basically .

Speaker 2 1:19:40

That's the same as men are going to find a good woman and a different type of woman .

Speaker 1 1:19:44

See , that's where I disagree . I a different type of woman . What's subjected to them ? That's why I disagree . I think generally , our list of a good woman is exactly the same for most of us .

Speaker 3 1:19:52

It's more .

Speaker 1 1:19:53

For most of us .

Speaker 3 1:19:54

I think men are more the same than women are . We have like a random discrepancy .

Speaker 1 1:19:59

Nah , women are the same . I think men and women are generally the same . You're the same , yeah .

Speaker 2 1:20:09

No , I think women are different . I think women are different because I just go off more energy and it's like you can tick box box , box , box box . But if I don't feel nothing , I don't feel that , then I'm trying to force some likeness .

Speaker 1 1:20:21

I'm either liking you or I'm not liking you , yeah , but you do all that and you're still single .

Speaker 3 1:20:25

This is what I said . I was wondering that .

Speaker 1 1:20:26

No , I think because which part don't you do to shut up ?

Speaker 3 1:20:31

Yeah , okay , yeah , I have tried , though the what To shut up .

Speaker 2 1:20:37

Yeah , it's so hard , but also you need to find a man that kind of allows you to shut up , because I want to shut up so real , because you meet a guy and you're like , oh my God , I would so shut the fuck up for you . I would shut up , all right then .

Speaker 1 1:20:54

No , you won't , you do . You know what happened , you lot are already loyal to your emotions , mate . If you're only me , it you like , it's not me , and it does that it's not me .

Speaker 3 1:21:14

It's not me , it's not you like people . I feel like people don't upkeep to what the initial agreements are and stuff like that so if you have an , initial agreement and and a party starts to catch more feelings so starts requesting more from the other party than they're meant to . That can cause an issue as well . Like there's lots of factors to why , because I'm quite Well , things can't change .

Speaker 3 1:21:35

Things can change but you need to make that person aware of the changes . Like I feel like men , their feelings change . So , seeing us as women , if our feelings change , we kind of let you know . Like you know we really like you . You guys don't do that . You would kind of start to like you would start to like us and just be like why are you wearing that ?

Speaker 1 1:21:51

why are you going there ? You never , ever told me that you like me , because we don't have the emotional intelligence bit at the bottom . You was just having .

Speaker 3 1:21:57

Before it was just this , like just that , and then now all of a sudden .

Speaker 1 1:22:03

Basically , you're sleeping with this guy and now he likes you and you don't want to go any further .

Speaker 3 1:22:07

No .

Speaker 1 1:22:08

I didn't say that .

Speaker 3 1:22:08

Are you on the air talking now ?

Speaker 1 1:22:11

I didn't say that this is the thing , okay .

Speaker 3 1:22:14

This is the thing .

Speaker 1 1:22:15

Okay , maybe I'm old school , yeah , but I just don't see any benefit of a woman doing that .

Speaker 3 1:22:23

I see the benefit of the guy doing it . But I didn't say that , no .

Speaker 1 1:22:26

I'm not saying that you are . I'm not talking about you , not talking about you , not talking about you in general friends with benefits for a woman , I just do not see no benefit 100% , if anything you're gonna get the short end of the stick , mate , and then you gotta go to the old , the old clinic . So it's like I I don't get the benefit .

Speaker 3 1:22:44

That's a bit dramatic , it's true .

Speaker 1 1:22:46

I just think for a man . No , no , I'm talking about the smush motion .

Speaker 2 1:22:52

I just think for a man , it's just that .

Speaker 1 1:22:55

Women . I just would not subscribe to that , and if I ever . God forbid physical . No , but yeah , If I ever have a daughter .

Speaker 3 1:23:03

You've gone in a different direction to what I was on .

Speaker 1 1:23:08

Because I wasn't even talking from a friend with benefits quite a bit .

Speaker 3 1:23:09

Were you saying that he didn't communicate you about liking you a bit more ? Yeah , like I get what you mean with friends , with benefits , but I'm just saying that sometimes it's just complicated .

Speaker 1 1:23:15

Why don't you just like each other , though You're sleeping with each other ? Why don't you like each other ?

Speaker 3 1:23:22

That's a bit . Oh okay , I was going to say no , no , basically for the internet , this person not you .

Speaker 1 1:23:28

This girl , yeah , is with this guy . She's not quite sure , because she thinks she can do better , so she's just hanging in there a little bit . If she finds better , then she might be no , you know what ?

Speaker 3 1:23:37

it is picky . Not me , though , and this is what I'm saying , like so you mean exactly what I just said it . It's not me who's picky . Oh , here , yeah , oh , he's not into you . He's not into you , right ? Yeah , yeah , yeah so he's not on it , no I don't think that , though he's not on it , though , but that's not what's being said .

Speaker 1 1:23:53

Yeah , but his actions he's not on it .

Speaker 3 1:23:54

Forget what he's saying .

Speaker 2 1:24:02

Never go by what they say .

Speaker 1 1:24:03

Never go by what I've got to make you understand . Most of them will just tell you anything forget that so if he's not , he's not on you , that's it , just move on he should be fit he's out of your league , that's not confusing whoever it is , I don't know who it is .

Speaker 3 1:24:19

Don't feel , no , no , no , I'm talking about you .

Speaker 1 1:24:21

Do you not feel the tum tum ? No more , yeah , you don't even know what's happening ?

Speaker 3 1:24:25

No , no , no . How are you guys saying this ? Lock the tum tum up . You don't even know half of the story , half of the bit . How ?

Speaker 1 1:24:30

can you say this he does . He's lying to you so you can get the tum Lock , the tum tum up . But , you don't even know what the scenario is .

Speaker 3 1:24:44

I'm telling you the scenario's not on it ? How do you know ? You don't even know what .

Speaker 1 1:24:48

I'm telling you , he's not on it because he's a man you , I'm lying to you .

Speaker 1 1:24:52

You don't

Cooking, Communication, and Relationship Expectations

Speaker 1 1:24:53

get it alright , so okay , this , okay , I don't know who this person is , but it sounds like whoever this person is , that the girl likes the guy more than he likes her and she's hoping that he's going to change , but he just wants to do that , so he's not going to change as long as he's getting that and he will tell you what you want to hear while he's getting that , and then yeah , I don't know who this person is , but that's what's up . Yeah , I don't know who that person is and basically the girl's going to be in that situation until she walks away .

Speaker 3 1:25:26

yeah , but I feel like you guys have just got it wrong no , because we don't friends on you .

Speaker 1 1:25:30

We don't friends on you . We don't friends on you .

Speaker 3 1:25:31

The person could just leave , like my friend alone . Oh , like they're just done is he getting the gg ?

Speaker 1 1:25:38

it's not about that . Just answer the question please . Yeah , is or not ? Is he getting the V card or not ? Yes or is don't lie on your friend's behalf . Don't lie on your friend's behalf , but it's not her fault . Is he getting the V ?

Speaker 3 1:25:53

card . It's not her fault . What do you mean ? It's not her fault . It's not her fault . Now listen to the story .

Speaker 1 1:25:59

So alright , let's go with . It's not her fault it . This is a very terrible situation for your friend , yeah .

Speaker 3 1:26:05

The person just wants more and more . You get it .

Speaker 1 1:26:09

The friend or the guy .

Speaker 3 1:26:10

The guy wants more from my friend all the time .

Speaker 1 1:26:12

So my friend , More , what , more , what .

Speaker 3 1:26:14

So , like I said , even if it was meant to just be having you know , the person would be like , oh , you don't cook for me . Then my friend would be like , okay , I'm going to make this effort , I she gonna put for you , and they do that . Oh , you don't do this . And then okay , let me do this for you . And then it's just like more , more , more , and then you're just moaning all right , you don't want to leave my friend alone I'll tell you .

Speaker 1 1:26:34

I'll tell you what . It don't make sense . I'm gonna try and help out your friend , right ? Yeah , so let's switch it around , then let's switch it up , let's see how you would feel in this situation . Yeah , so you ? So you're out , you're out , yeah , you're out clubbing . You're both out , you and , sorry , your friend and this guy they're out , yeah , and you're leaving the club or you're leaving a restaurant right .

Speaker 1 1:26:57

All of a sudden someone runs up , grabs your purse , runs off with your purse . How would you feel if you had to tell your man to go and get your purse back ?

Speaker 3 1:27:07

how would you feel ? How do you mean ? How would you feel , oh , if you had to tell your ? Man that he needed to go and chase down the wine that man doesn't um anything , because one , if we haven't discussed that you're my man he's your man he wasn't in that party .

Speaker 1 1:27:20

He's your man no , okay , so this is okay all right no , no , sorry , sorry , sorry , sorry , let me fix it .

Speaker 3 1:27:27

He's not your man yeah okay so what she just so , basically what she just said yeah , yeah .

Speaker 1 1:27:33

So I'm saying he wouldn't feel no way that he's not going to try and defend you .

Speaker 3 1:27:36

I would feel a way it's you like . We're just out now yeah , okay , and a man's such a person . He doesn't Any man Right , right , any man . What are you ?

Speaker 1 1:27:46

doing . That's my point , so I'm going to spin it back to you now , the friend , the friend , the friend sorry , I'm going to spin it back to the friend .

Speaker 3 1:27:52

yeah , yeah .

Speaker 1 1:27:53

So he's essentially saying to your friend the same thing . Why is he having to have to tell you what you should be ?

Speaker 3 1:28:09

okay , I agree with you to an extent , but this is where the problem is . So these things that you have said , my friend has also said okay , I agree with this now what ? The issue no , no you can't examine , to tell your friend no , but the challenge , the point is with me if you don't experience someone through certain parts , you will never get the best part of them . If you're not willing to go with someone and learn , then you just need to leave them alone you get it .

Speaker 3 1:28:31

If you feel like you have to keep talking to someone or keep doing that and it's not matching up with you , just leave that person alone don't keep nitpicking at the person that's cool , but then don't if he doesn't chase after I get what you're saying .

Speaker 2 1:28:45

I get what you're saying , I get the point that you're trying to make , but I feel like , yeah , that situation where , like it's just robbed a bag and whatever , like that's , I just feel like that's different to making dinner . I just feel like that's different . And then the problem would be why is it different ?

Speaker 3 1:29:00

You see , he was saying oh , I want you to do these things . Why am I doing that ? That's a problem .

Speaker 2 1:29:05

Because , if any man , because if any man , witnessed any woman , any woman , whether they knew them or not , getting like something happened . You'd hope that a man would step in .

Speaker 1 1:29:15

What are you doing ? What are you doing ?

Speaker 3 1:29:17

Keep me what are you doing no , this is the logic that you're basically this is the logic that I'm going off .

Speaker 2 1:29:23

Logic here .

Speaker 1 1:29:23

I heard that you were struck and independent . I don't know . I might have heard that . I don't know no .

Speaker 2 1:29:27

If something happened to a woman and there's an option where you can help and it's like a thing of distress , yeah , if it was your daughter and your daughter was out , yeah , and something happened and there was a man there , you'd be fucking hoping that that man had any dec , is ? It's not the case where you walk into a room with men and a woman automatically has to be cooking for every single man that she sees , even though it's not a man . So I'm saying it's a different .

Speaker 3 1:29:50

No no , no , it's a different thing .

Speaker 2 1:29:52

So basically no , no no , because I feel like that is socially , and I'm not saying , I feel like men . So basically I am bro I'm on your side if you , but men have more social expectations in general to protect women , even if it's not their woman . That's why I feel like that example doesn't work .

Speaker 1 1:30:12

But that doesn't prove me wrong . That's basically what I'm saying to her .

Speaker 2 1:30:15

So you should be saying to her friend , I'm reading off the back of what you said , but I'm saying the example that you gave I don't think is the greatest example , because I feel like men are held to a standard with all women of protection , regardless of if it's your woman or not .

Speaker 3 1:30:30

That's the point I'm making .

Speaker 2 1:30:31

That's the point . So I'm saying , if that's your point , I'm saying comparing that to cooking isn't the right sort of example .

Speaker 3 1:30:41

It is .

Speaker 2 1:30:41

More like what are you wearing ? Or overprotective over some sort of thing , because you're not going to be like that with every woman , but you are with your . Yeah , because things are subjective to a relationship . You don't expect your woman to be out there cooking for any man that she sees .

Speaker 1 1:30:57

I'm talking about for the person that you're seeing , because you're auditioning for the relationship .

Speaker 2 1:31:00

That's what I'm saying so say you're seeing a woman , you wouldn't expect her to be out there cooking for every man , but if I'm seeing a man , I would expect him to . If any sort of woman in public was in distress he'd be , he'd step in for protection .

Speaker 1 1:31:10

That's why I'm saying it's not a great um example that you're giving , because I'm saying it's things that are subjected to a relationship cooking for your man is subjective to a relationship but I would expect , I would expect humans in general to try and help if they can , though that is exactly what I'm saying , which is why I'm saying it's not a great example for things that are subjected to a relationship in comparison with man and woman . No , but I'm talking specifically about her friends man . Not any man . Yeah , Her friends in the situation that they're in .

Speaker 2 1:31:37

Am I speaking fucking Japanese ?

Speaker 1 1:31:38

Yeah , you must be . Are you understanding , are you ?

Speaker 2 1:31:42

understanding what I'm saying .

Speaker 1 1:31:43

I can't ask you stuff . Do you understand , do ?

Speaker 2 1:31:44

you know what ? Do you know what the listeners , the listeners can let us know ? Okay , cool , you know .

Speaker 1 1:31:51

I was speaking straight , facts there what I would say to ladies right , if you're dating to marry or dating to date , yeah , you should be showing why you should wife . You people think that you shouldn't be doing that , but that's what you should be doing . I'm just letting everybody know . Yeah , but should sex be included in that , though ? I don't like in 2025 . Yes , I don't like when you land historically and the reason I'm saying in 2025 is because you freed up to next man for a shot .

Speaker 1 1:32:17

So I'm not . But hear what I'm saying then . So if I'm getting all of that the sex and the food and the list and all of that without being in a relationship , why am I in a relationship ? Gonna go into a relationship ? No , but I've , I've , I'm already got got all of that without the title . That's what's , that's what's happened , and and and .

Speaker 3 1:32:35

But you've just said they've got to do all that to audition for the role that's what .

Speaker 1 1:32:38

That's what's happening with those guys that are getting that . They're not getting into relationships , they're move all of you . So how long , how long has your friend been in the situation that she's in ? Too long , niamh that long wait , she's still in now , like to the start excuse the car of the tum tum .

Speaker 3 1:32:55

That's it okay now , but you know , what it is , like I said it's a lot longer than that for her . So you can't really just say because , like you're saying , oh , you don't cook , then you do it , and then there's complaints like , oh , it should just be done , what yeah ?

Speaker 1 1:33:10

Because I ain't going to lie . The reason I'm saying it is because I ain't going to lie . That's what I would expect .

Speaker 3 1:33:14

No see , this is what it is with you . Like you're not all delusional , I can't do it , I'm going . But the point is it's men that okay in this economy , yeah , yeah , she's going there .

Speaker 1 1:33:30

Remember when I said it's about money in this economy go on .

Speaker 3 1:33:34

I am not cooking large amounts of food . Why is he covering his face ?

Speaker 2 1:33:40

large amounts of food every single day ?

Speaker 3 1:33:43

why ? Just in case someone might come for them . What if ? No , not in case you should know if your man's coming or not exactly . But this is the issue where the issues are arising . The more I talk , the more you should know that it's more , it's more complex so we just turn it up . I don't even care to go into that detail .

Speaker 2 1:34:00

I don't want to go into any further detail .

Speaker 3 1:34:01

I don't want you to land it , the it at a point like , oh wow , all women , this is what it is no , that's .

Speaker 2 1:34:08

I love how you did that . That was bang on , I'm just gonna . I'm just gonna .

Speaker 1 1:34:11

I'm just gonna try and give advice .

Speaker 2 1:34:12

I don't know who your friend is .

Speaker 1 1:34:14

I'll just give some general advice I would say if you are dating with that intent , that's what you should be doing yeah you should hope that you should be getting something from him also , as in like it doesn't necessarily mean money , but some kind of energy that he wants to be with you as well , yeah but you should definitely be doing that .

Speaker 1 1:34:32

Everyone's saying until you put a ring on it , you're just gonna die alone with a cap like it is what it is , because we want to know if you can cook all clean well , I think you should , if you like a guy and you see him you want to cook for them .

Speaker 2 1:34:44

You want like you should .

Speaker 3 1:34:45

You're fucking making excuses to fucking whip up a free course .

Speaker 1 1:34:49

You're not losing your blood what your tum tum has an expiry date , that's true too if a guy does not give you an inkling that he wants to be in a relationship after six weeks , you close off the tum tum and you say see you later . I don't necessarily disagree . No , the dating strategy should be I've got a daughter , so she ain't even gonna Feed up with some time .

Speaker 3 1:35:09

That's my point , though that's where it's all gone wrong , if you've already Feed up with some time .

Speaker 1 1:35:12

You've gotta have An expiry date for man , because you Absolutely Take the piss out of you .

Speaker 3 1:35:17

Yeah , this is what I'm saying . Man will drag it out .

Speaker 1 1:35:19

We don't friend zone you , we just sex zone you . Man will drag it out . If you're giving him everything already for a year , why change ?

Speaker 3 1:35:27

you've been sexed on . Sorry , your friend's been .

Speaker 1 1:35:29

I don't know that let's move on your friend's been sexed on . How do you think the show went and plugging in social media that you yeah , you were kind of funny , so oh , fuck , ls life across all socials . But I think the podcast went really well . I think it was really funny and the podcast went really well . I think it was really funny and , yeah , I disagree with all the guys . I'm just going to say that I know Every single one .

Speaker 3 1:35:51

That is a compliment . That is a compliment .

Speaker 1 1:35:54

I don't think you made one valid point . I thought yeah , I don't think there was one point that was like yeah , that was smart , you laughing at him .

Speaker 3 1:36:06

I hate the silverware no , no wait .

Speaker 1 1:36:08

Everyone in the room laughed as she said it's me , it's you .

Speaker 2 1:36:10

Everyone laughed Because everyone was like you'll be fucking falling on your heart like a piece of fucking paper , Because it's funny Bro key , key to the 360 .

Speaker 3 1:36:20

He's in a 360 . He's trolling , but it's you you ordered a 360 .

Speaker 2 1:36:25

You ordered a 360 over what he said . And then , when we addressed what he said , you're like no , no , no . He didn't say that .

Speaker 1 1:36:29

I'm just saying you all had a massive reaction . There you go .

Speaker 2 1:36:32

So you all knew what he was trying to say . Yeah , it was funny , point proved .

Speaker 1 1:36:35

It was funny . Anything else you want to land on , you don't ?

Speaker 3 1:36:38

think they made any money . Abortion should be normalised , oh wow , but then again he was talking about how much I know nah , but I'm gonna stick to my morals about not having a girlfriend .

Speaker 1 1:36:47

That's something I'll stand on , wherever you think that's because I'm young , because I'm 19 , I don't have to do that . I'm just gonna have different kids with different women . Nah , I'm not gonna have kids , I'll end my bloodline that just sounds really I'm not having that . Okay , enjoy your Pass , this Pass , this Pass some of the Advice onto your friend as well . And how do you think Kermit went ?

Speaker 3 1:37:11

I think the podcast Was good . Again . Young man Beside me . Very Lively , nice , funny . But yeah , it's a good podcast , it's always good , isn't it guys ?

Speaker 2 1:37:24

I always enjoy it .

Speaker 3 1:37:25

So yeah , oh , instagram . This bitch Correct is always good , isn't ?

Speaker 1 1:37:30

it guys , I always enjoy it . So yeah , oh .

Speaker 3 1:37:31

Instagram . This bitch correct , I just want .

Speaker 2 1:37:35

I just want the guys to absorb that as well .

Speaker 1 1:37:38

Just absorb the Instagram name .

Speaker 2 1:37:40

You let me down with that Instagram name .

Speaker 1 1:37:42

Sorry .

Speaker 3 1:37:43

I've had it since I was 15 .

Speaker 1 1:37:44

I was saying you know , she said that she wants to be one with you and all that , but her Instagram name is that Bitch Crate .

Speaker 3 1:37:51

That Bitch Crate , this Bitch Crate , you know Bar . So Hardman won a family , that's kind of where I got it from when I was young .

Speaker 2 1:37:58

It's not my fault , it's .

Speaker 3 1:37:59

Paris .

Speaker 2 1:38:02

This Bitch Crate , bitch cake . Yeah , okay , yeah , yeah , yeah , I respect it yeah , man , the part was good .

Speaker 1 1:38:08

Man , yous up can argue , though man , flip it now . You're a fucking women . This shit gets in here , man , it's all fun . Yous up can find us at Rewi's living room , r-e-e-y-s living room erm , what else ? What else have we got to say ? That's it . Oh yeah , wait there . Despite everything that you used up , heard or seen , men need women and women need men .

Speaker 3 1:38:29

Oh yeah , that is true , we know that you should have said that . No , I didn't you , no , I actually agree with that .

Speaker 1 1:38:36

You see , I try and leave it on a good note , you know . Because , it's definitely true . I do agree with it . But I just think that sometimes I come out and I think how can we repair it ? Like I don't think we can . It's too big and the benefit for the guys at the top is too much , so why would they want to repair it ? And it's all . It's all a competition man who can outdo each other ? Yeah , we just clouted . Wow , the Dutch clouted everyone . So it's like why would they ? It doesn't make sense .

Speaker 2 1:39:04

Oh yeah , this young man .

Speaker 3 1:39:05

Oh yeah , again , I just think you're Absolutely right . You know what I ?

Speaker 2 1:39:08

actually think You're probably like the smartest person I've ever met in my life yeah .

Speaker 1 1:39:12

Thank you yeah .

Speaker 2 1:39:12

We're really thrilled , so inspiring Everything you said , just like really Planet-y .

Speaker 1 1:39:18

I feel like he's the type . Apart from that age , I feel like you're Kind of a foreign guy . Yes , what the fuck ? I'm from Barbados , and it dabbles in the snow as well , you're from where , barbados ?

Speaker 2 1:39:27

I don't know what the fucking snow means ? That's fucking cocaine to me . Shut the fuck up . No , which part Like if you're- .

Speaker 3 1:39:33

I don't , I don't Leave leave .

Speaker 2 1:39:36

I don't address . I'm kicking everyone out . I'm sorry .

Speaker 1 1:39:39

I don't reply to that .

Speaker 2 1:39:40

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Speaker 1 1:40:10

It's been a fun show . Well , I . What do you mean ?

Speaker 3 1:40:12

these are the best shows .

Speaker 2 1:40:15

These are the best shows like when people actually disagree .

Speaker 1 1:40:20

Before we end the show obviously , as we know , we've got the men's journal coming out . Don't be simple . Coming out very soon . I've actually done the all the design work and stuff right , just need to get them printed yourself yeah , just need to get them printed and it will be printed soon .

Speaker 2 1:40:34

It's basically a men's improvement journal , and there's also some tips on how to not listen to what these are saying so if you want to be , if you see this guy and you think , oh my God , I just wish I could be him , then buy the book . If not , then I understand .

Speaker 1 1:40:46

I'm going to buy the book Just buy the book anyway .

Speaker 3 1:40:49

Guys Buy the book , buy the book anyway .

Speaker 1 1:40:51

Yeah , man get the book . Man Get the book If you have been watching for almost two hours and you haven't subscribed to East Fucking Iron Ears .

Speaker 2 1:40:58

It's so long .

Speaker 1 1:41:01

And you haven't subscribed . Don't forget to subscribe too . Subscribe and don't listen to that body book .