The Tea App Just Killed Dating! The New Gender War! | CC Pod EP 164

The Tea App Just Killed Dating! The New Gender War! | CC Pod EP 164
The Cancel Culture Podcast is back to tackle a new front in the ancient gender wars. A viral app called Tea App is forcing men to confront a digital "cancel culture" where they can’t defend themselves. Is this a fun new way to vet potential partners, or a weaponized tool that’s ruining men’s reputations and lives? We dive into who holds the real power in modern dating and expose the lies that are ruining relationships and families.

This episode confronts the uncomfortable truths about male and female dynamics, from the "two categories" men place women into the belief that women have more to lose in relationships. We also unpack the idea of sexual capital, why men are called "Jezebel makers," and if modern mothers are "ruining society," all through the lens of the Tea App phenomenon. This is a raw, unfiltered conversation that challenges everything you think you know about dating today.
It's time to stop accepting the social contracts you've been handed and start thinking for yourself. 

Do you really know who holds the cards in your relationships? We dare you to listen, question everything, and form your own conclusions. This is the conversation the mainstream media is too afraid to have.

Time stamps:
00:00:00 - PREVIEW
00:00:55 - Intro / The Tea App
00:03:00 - App Safety & Verification Issues
00:06:00 - Dating Categories: "Sex" vs "Wifey"
00:09:00 - Waiting for Sex / Hookup Stories
00:12:00 - Sl*t-Shaming & Double Standards
00:15:30 - Relationship Power Dynamics
00:18:30 - Guest Intros & First Impressions
00:21:30 - Celebrity Dating & Publicity Stunts
00:29:30 - Adult-Content Ethics
00:32:30 - Celibacy & "Body Count"
00:36:00 - Dating Outside Your Race
00:40:30 - Race, Culture & the N-Word Debate
00:44:00 - Education vs. Reaction
00:47:00 - Gender Dynamics in Dating
00:51:00 - Women’s Pay / WNBA Economics
00:55:30 - Women’s Sports & Sexualization
00:59:00 - Starting a Podcast
01:03:00 - Influence vs. 9–5 Careers
01:07:00 - Creator Burnout
01:11:00 - Age Gaps & Attractiveness
01:14:30 - Monetization Ethics
01:18:30 - Business Growth & Delegation
01:24:00 - Everyday Pet-Peeves (Pajamas in Public)
01:34:00 - Creator Boundaries
01:37:30 - Practical Tips for Content Creators
01:40:00 - Sexual Responsibilities of Women
01:44:00 - Parenting & Societal Shifts
01:47:30 - Closing Remarks and Social Plugs

Transcript

Women Have More at Stake in Sex

Speaker 1 0:00

women have more to lose when having sex . You should be the more cautious one .

Speaker 2 0:04

We have less to lose are you having sex with everyone that you date ? I don't have sex with people that I date never had a one night stand , no comment .

Speaker 1 0:12

White people rapping the n-word it's offensive why the hell ?

Speaker 4 0:16

should we be still persecuted by a word that was used by not even our ancestors ? How many hundreds of years ?

Speaker 1 0:22

ago I looked at the list of most famous women and how they got their money . The top 10 are like through divorce yeah , through marriage . Wnba right because they've been protesting about equal pay . The t-shirts are saying pay us what you owe the league's in 50 million minus you owe them if it's not snowing .

Speaker 2 0:36

I ain't got it , so my preference is white men . I can't . I never even slept with one . I think if you did , your relationship would last longer .

Speaker 4 0:44

Jasmine is like you would never go back there's a certain about that deep chocolate .

Speaker 2 0:47

No , that deep .

Speaker 1 0:49

I know you like that . I know you like that you hear about this tea app , beaks welcome back , by the way .

Speaker 4 0:58

Well , thank you . Thank you , my good sir , and I have heard about this tea app actually , yes , should we get the opinions ?

Speaker 1 1:02

of the ladies . Yes , I think we should , my good fellow . So I think who knows what the tea app is ?

Speaker 2 1:07

I don't roughly .

Speaker 1 1:08

I've seen it like on do you want to explain what it is so that these like no ?

Speaker 2 1:11

it's basically an app in america where it's a bit like are we dating the same guy , but an american version , and it's actually an app and girls can leave comments on photos of men uh-huh , what do you think ?

Speaker 1 1:26

so obviously you know what are we dating . The same guy is right I'm famous on there me , yeah , yeah , she likes , because she likes the she's on there weekly please , what do you think about it , man ?

Speaker 2 1:37

I don't even know what to say . It's , it's bizarre , because why is everyone just telling everybody ?

Speaker 1 1:44

I don't understand you know what it is . For me , the reason I have an issue with it , yeah , and the issue with the t app is because I I actually agree that . You know , I do think there is a lot of weird guys out there . I agree with that . Not as much as people make out . I would say it's the small minority of the men , but they are out there . And if it was being used for that reason , for actual safety , then I'm all for it , 100% .

Speaker 2 2:13

So safety , not like cheating allegations .

Speaker 1 2:15

Because I'm saying the same thing cheating allegations .

Speaker 2 2:17

You understand ? Yeah , yeah , I don't .

Speaker 1 2:18

The way I see it is just women just basically highlighting their hours . Yeah , he slept with you and didn't really want to take you seriously , and now you're pissed off and there's no way to verify any of this information . So it's like anyone can say anything . Anyone can say anything , and that's why I don't like it . Yeah , you know what I mean .

Speaker 4 2:31

Like you can't even defend yourself , no , and especially when it comes to actually there is ways of defending , defend you . So the way people get taken down because I've seen it rotation you get taken down when people come and say good , good comments , like oh no , I know this person , they're a good person and then the app actually takes it down because it's like well , why are you on there ?

Speaker 3 2:52

but as soon as any yeah it is , but it doesn't it doesn't exactly .

Speaker 4 2:56

And on top of that it doesn't it doesn't take away the fact that if people wanted to , they could just comment bad comments .

Speaker 2 3:02

Yeah , of course they could , or if they're bitter .

Speaker 4 3:05

You know , just for the sake of probably getting turned down now , all of a sudden you're on the app .

Speaker 1 3:09

And the thing is , as a woman , you're going to get treated differently from the guy depending on what category you're in . So there's two categories . If you didn't know , Go on . So the two categories that men put you in is sex or wifey ?

Speaker 1 3:27

there's only two , so if you're in this category , you ain't gonna get treated as well that that is what it is . It is unfortunately which I don't know if you do know this , but unfortunately you start off in this category anyway . So it's like so you have to actually get your way out of this you have to work out of that category .

Speaker 1 3:41

Well , no no , you don't , you don't , you don't agree , I'm gonna I'm gonna hear your opinion , you don't know or you don't know I'm just letting you know , I'm gonna hear what you're gonna say now , but I probably I know that probably a lot of women think like how you're gonna say now and that's the reason why you stay in the sex category , but but tell me why you think you shouldn't have been .

Speaker 3 4:05

Because I've always been in relationships , so I've never been in the sex category you started in it . No , because I was in a relationship from when I was 13 and I never slept with him until I was 16 for three years , stayed with him until after that , until I was 18 , so there was no sex category .

Speaker 1 4:26

It was girlfriend , boyfriend . So not every guy's the same . Yeah , no , no , she done it . That's the way . If you want to not ever be in this category , that's the only way to do it back in the day , that's how it was done . She found the loophole y'all it's not the loophole , it's how it's supposed to be . Yeah , it's marry me like you need to wait pussy is power , like that's the truth , truth .

Speaker 3 4:44

So you need to wait for it . You can't just give it out . If you're going to give it out , then they're not going to want you again because you're giving it away that easy . So it's like why would they come back ?

Speaker 1 4:54

we adapt to the market , if you make them wait , though they'll come , they'll keep coming minute changing she's on the cusp . She's on the cusp the reason I'll disagree is that minute changes she's on the cusp . She's on the cusp , she's just yeah the reason I disagree is that because there's so many freeing it up , get them . Man ain't waiting , get them . And especially , I don't know your situation .

Speaker 3 5:15

I don't know you personally . If you ever have .

Speaker 1 5:17

you said that you've only been in relationships when you have . That's fine . But for me , from a male's point of view , if I know that other man ain't waited in the past , I'm not waiting . I'm sorry , get him , get him . It only took him a shot . It took him one shot . Yeah , I'm not waiting , I'm sorry . He didn't even have the tequila , he just turned up . I promise you , a month is the longest I'm waiting , that's been a long time .

Speaker 2 5:43

Four .

Speaker 4 5:43

I promise you a month is the longest I'm waiting , that's been a long time Four weeks .

Speaker 3 5:45

That's not for you , because you can go on like three , four days of it . From that time you can be reaching out .

Speaker 4 5:48

I see myself as a high tier man , so I ain't waiting that long .

Speaker 3 5:53

You didn't let me land . But you're never going to get away from no , but you didn't let me , you didn't let me .

Speaker 1 6:05

You didn . I wasn't finished . We'll let him learn . The longest I'll wait Is a month , but that's the longest I'm waiting for you . I'm not saying I'm not doing anything else , I'm just saying the longest I'll wait Is a month , just letting you know .

Speaker 3 6:15

That's why the apps are fun .

Speaker 1 6:20

This is the thing . If that was to go on the app . Let's say he was Dating multiple women . What is wrong with that ? What's ?

Speaker 4 6:26

wrong with that ?

Speaker 2 6:26

Nothing .

Speaker 3 6:27

You're dating you can go to the club . He's a single man . You can go to the club .

Speaker 4 6:31

He's condom .

Speaker 2 6:31

Yeah , but are you having sex with everyone that you date ? I know have sex with people that I date ? I don't know . Is that bougie ? I don't know what's changed , but in my eyes I just see , as we're dating , so like I don't text you straight away , you don't phone me unless I'm expecting you to phone me and we're going out for something to eat and then I go home . You go home because I've got work in the morning that's dating to me .

Speaker 1 6:57

Just to get this , just to get this clear can you clear it up , just for the people at home ? I I just want to make sure that .

Speaker 4 7:03

I'm Go into a safe space because I wonder that we're going to need a safe space for this . Let's clear this up . Let's clear this one up , just to be clear . I was a bit confused .

Speaker 1 7:10

Are you saying to me that you're like her , that you've only slept with people that you're in a relationship with , because if you're not in a relationship , you're dating ?

Speaker 2 7:18

No , obviously , but to me .

Speaker 1 7:21

I date one person , so it's just freedom .

Speaker 2 7:24

If I feel like , okay , we're going somewhere , then yeah , I'm going to , but if it's like we're not , then it's like no .

Speaker 4 7:32

Every single man that you've been with has had to work for everyone . There's never been a you know , a quick .

Speaker 2 7:40

I don't miss you , honestly and still working , so what .

Speaker 4 7:43

I will take her word for it . I don't need to tell him honestly , and still working , so alright so what's up ? Yeah , just don't need to tell him cool , cool , I will take her word for it .

Speaker 1 7:48

People , yeah so what's time limits then ? Do you have a time limit or is it just like a vibe ? I think it's a vibe .

Speaker 2 7:56

Yeah , it's a vibe , yeah it depends on how , what place we're going at like how his treat oh how he's treating me , how respectful he is as well .

Speaker 2 8:06

Like , if you're gonna be forceful with it , then obviously I'm gonna back the fuck up and be like , no , you're definitely not getting it . Now you know what I mean , but it's , I feel like it's also a very intimate thing . I think in now's generation it's just very normalized to have one night stands and just get with this person and this person . But , like , I think it should still be intimate and sacred to someone that you're actually with . But some people just love sex .

Speaker 1 8:28

So there is . There is that we have a phenomenon on this uh yeah , we show we have the the unicorn reason . Yeah , I don't know what it is , I have no idea . Every time you get guests , they are unicorns . Yeah , they . They are different to everything .

Speaker 4 8:42

They are fairy tale . I just I don't get it , man . They've never freed it , never freed up the team , never freed up the team , it's always worked for I never said They've never freed up the team .

Speaker 2 8:50

You know , guys have always had to work for it . They've never freed it up On the first date . They're just terms of conditions , no . I think when I was younger I had my and I grew out of it and I think I've and that's why they pay for the food now Because of them boy there , I'm not paying .

Speaker 4 9:09

Them boy didn't have to pay . Listen listen Sorry sorry . I apologise for that outburst . It's been a long two days .

Speaker 1 9:17

Obviously , we want to get clips and stuff here , so I'm just going to ask you all Never had a one night stand , no , never had a one night stand no , have you ever had a one night ?

Speaker 2 9:24

stand , you're messing up our buttons man one , but it was .

Speaker 4 9:30

It turned into continuous nights , so like oh shit , I could triple nights to him we knew each other , so it wasn't really like you know .

Speaker 2 9:40

Does that count as a one night stand ? I don't know , but it's getting juicy keep going anyway , like we gelled from the jump , it was like a friend of a friend , whatever . And then from that moment I was a bit wasted . I'm not blaming the liquor , I'm actually not one of those girls , but you know , there was a vibe going on , he was quite horrible , whatever , whatever . And then , from that moment , like he just kept coming back for more , so all right , so only once no , what do you mean ?

Speaker 2 10:03

once , like slept with him once you can't do that .

Speaker 1 10:05

I'm bloomed sorry . I know you've been away for a while .

Speaker 4 10:07

I have been away for a while , alright like we slept together multiple times because she's , because she blamed on the juice initially , but sorry no , I wasn't blaming on that , but like that was yeah , when I got out a relationship my five year relationship and I done it and then I regretted it after it .

Speaker 3 10:25

So , yeah , like , so I kinda know , but already like it was my friend's big bra , so it was like no mad .

Speaker 2 10:35

No comment . I should have said that I'm not gonna lie you know why ?

Speaker 1 10:39

you know why ?

Speaker 4 10:40

yeah , because we're on the internet people leave comments , people leave comments , people leave comments .

Speaker 2 10:46

That's all I'm saying digital footprint is real as well , and another thing as well .

Speaker 1 10:52

I like to say that obviously it's different for men , so we can do it , but you can't , unfortunately we are the slug makers .

Speaker 3 10:58

I agree with that , because men can go home and wash it , women can't . Sorry , I missed that she's bad , I think um so they kind of they agree on like a certain aspect , but then it's like women shouldn't get slut shamed if men are out of there . But then it's like girls can go home and wash it but you can't , because men can be Jezebels too , you know yeah 100% .

Speaker 2 11:22

Jezebel's spirit is just a spirit .

Speaker 4 11:23

There's no gender you complained about a girl being a . Just have you complained about it ? What do you mean ? Like in a in a moany way , because I know that women will say that a man is being a jezebel , but men don't sit here and confer how much of a jezebel basically yeah yeah , okay , no , but the thing we don't consider these things .

Speaker 1 11:44

This is the thing .

Speaker 2 11:45

Men are good at it though . No , no , no .

Speaker 1 11:50

Men are the Jezebel makers .

Speaker 4 11:51

Exactly , we're not the Jezebels . Wow , that's good .

Speaker 1 11:53

That is good . It's true . We introduced that . I don't know why you like it . This is the thing I can sit here and accept the differences between the sexes Easily . Okay , I've had to accept it . As men , we've had to accept it our whole life .

Speaker 1 12:05

We don't argue that We've had to accept that we're not getting to you , John . We ain't getting that . We've had to accept that we're not getting the club we ain't getting that . We've had to accept that we ain't getting no free dinner . None of that . We've had to accept all these things .

Speaker 4 12:22

Why can't you accept , while we're here , finish ? We've had to accept that we have to go to work and earn

White People and Racial Slurs

Speaker 4 12:27

that money . We've had to accept that we have to go out and make sure that we look good every day . You're making me personal now . It's too personal .

Speaker 1 12:33

I'm not ready . We've had to accept Not me personally , but we've had to accept that listen , if you get her pregnant , she chooses if she keeps the baby she chooses .

Speaker 3 12:42

if she keeps that baby , we accept that .

Speaker 1 12:43

if you want to kill the baby . There's nothing we can do . We have to accept all these things . We have to accept it all . We have to . Why can't you accept that if you sleep with loads of men , it's looked at differently , oh right .

Speaker 2 12:54

No , but that's true . I can't , that's true . I can't accept that I'm just saying it as like it's just one of those ones where it happens both sides , but what you're saying is very valid , though . Do you know what I'm saying ?

Speaker 1 13:06

But how can a man be a vegetable ?

Speaker 2 13:08

Because you know , imagine like you're there at one woman's house and you've got a child there and you're like , oh , she's at work , I'm going to go to this one's house and you go to there and you Valentine's Day presents for that woman . Are you saying that he's got multiple kids , multiple ?

Speaker 1 13:25

multiple women multiple families multiple women .

Speaker 2 13:27

You sound like he's got multiple families but men can do that , though men can camouflage pretty well . Do you know what I'm saying ?

Speaker 4 13:32

but it's true no , no , no , but shit line . Men can have the choice they can to procreate with you or go up the road and procreate with someone else what your job ? Is is to make me believe why the hell I should stay here and not go and procreate up the road that's not down to me you've already given me the key .

Speaker 4 13:49

You can sit there . Oh no , but you've already given me the key because you've already given me the flaps . But for me , that's down to you to prove to me why I should stay around you with me . And I'm sorry , it's just reality .

Speaker 2 14:01

Any man like that Keeps them far away , I hear the point .

Speaker 3 14:06

It sounds misogyny , but it's fact it's true no , I've got a boyfriend that I need some reason .

Speaker 1 14:11

You got a boyfriend ? No , you do . Mmhmm , mmhmm . Do you think he cheats ?

Speaker 3 14:17

No , he's with me Every single day , and then he goes to work , he goes in business .

Speaker 1 14:21

So oh , he goes to work , he goes in business . So , oh no , he goes to work , he does business , he does business , okay , do you think ? Do you think he'd be able to cheat ?

Speaker 3 14:31

no , because I've got life 360 on him . Life 360 whoa , that's like tracker yeah , dang , is there any ?

Speaker 4 14:41

is there any point where like he doesn't ? He doesn't move for like two days straight .

Speaker 3 14:46

No , he's always with me . He's with me everywhere . See , if I go to London to go do my modelling shoots or anything like that , he comes with me . He chures these to pack . Yeah , he's here . He was down the stair . Where is he ? He was down the stair with him .

Speaker 1 14:59

Is he in reception ?

Speaker 5 15:00

No , no , he's gone to do his business .

Speaker 2 15:02

Yeah , no , he's gone to do his business yeah , ah , no , he's my cousin . Good for you , man . You guys are locked in .

Speaker 1 15:06

Yeah , he's my cousin correct me if I'm wrong then they're like hey , they're like yeah he's 14 .

Speaker 4 15:12

He's a boy they're like totally focal . Yo yo correct me if .

Speaker 1 15:17

I'm wrong , then , and I always know the answer based on the reaction of the lady , right ? So , based on all you just said , who wears the trousers in relationship me ? Okay , that's the thing , that's the issue . That's the thing , that's the problem .

Speaker 3 15:30

Okay , cool but if he does say something like , I'll respect what he says . So it's like both is respect what each other says you'll respect what he says if he agrees with you no , no , like I think , does they feel comfortable , or if it doesn't want to do something like that , I would respect what he says .

Speaker 1 15:46

All right , let's go into the safe space , let's test this logic , let's test the pillars of this logic . All right , you get a business opportunity . Yeah , in here , good old England , you're from Scotland , right ? Yeah , that's a good old England . You want to move he ? Good old England , do you want to move he ?

Speaker 3 16:06

doesn't want to move , uh huh , who has the final say ? Well , we've already kind of spoken about that you didn't answer my question .

Speaker 1 16:10

Who has the final say ?

Speaker 3 16:11

me , but then it would be , oh , and then you'll be in charge no , no , no , no , because then it would be , he would stay back home for his business .

Speaker 1 16:17

So then we would split up but the point is that you're in charge .

Speaker 3 16:21

No , it's not , because it would just be done at that point Unless he moved with me . But you're in charge and would you still go ? Yeah , I would still go . If I had a good opportunity , yeah , I would still go . I've told him that , yeah , but why would you take down a good opportunity ? Exactly .

Speaker 2 16:36

And a man that you're with should want to support that or at least try and meet you in the middle .

Speaker 3 16:41

Because he has his own business . It's hard for him to do that Do you have to work . Me . Yeah Well , no , he gets me at 8am and I'm on , so , no , I don't need to work , but I want to .

Speaker 2 16:53

She's with Valencia , she doesn't need to work .

Speaker 1 16:57

Fair enough If everyone's happy . Who ?

Speaker 3 16:59

am I ? He said to me if I stopped working and told him how much I wanted a week , he would just give it to me instead of me working .

Speaker 2 17:06

That's a good guy . It's a good man .

Speaker 1 17:10

And then you'd still be in charge if that happened . Because that's crazy to me , to hell , if I'm paying everything and I'm not in charge .

Speaker 3 17:16

That's mad , but I would say it's like more 50-50 than me being in charge , or like 60-40 .

Speaker 1 17:21

Every time I hit 50 50 . Every time I hit 50 50 , the woman's in charge . That is it's code , for I'm in charge . Listen , you're it's fine . It's fine , you're in charge , it's okay . You know , not my kind of thing , but you know you're in charge . Okay , she wears the joggers , she wears the joggers . All right , listen , we'll do some introductions and then we'll get into the other topics . Yeah , but tea at good or bad , starting with you I'm in there , I'm neutral okay , tea-nap good or bad , I don't know what that is so so it's like are we dating the same guy ?

Speaker 1 17:46

we can talk about men , etc .

Speaker 3 17:49

I don't think it's good because if I went on that and I see my boyfriend was dating another assy the same I would kill him .

Speaker 1 17:55

So no , I don't think it's good do you think that he had the opportunity to cheat ? He would .

Speaker 2 18:04

No , you think so . No , no , this one's crazy . I can see .

Speaker 1 18:08

This one's mad Fear aside .

Speaker 3 18:10

And poor Saga . I've never written a need , so why would I have to cheat ?

Speaker 1 18:12

There you go , you do Okay .

Speaker 2 18:14

Everything , yeah .

Speaker 1 18:17

Ladies , listen , she got it down . Listen , guys . Oh God , here we go . I know it's hard , it's hard to accept . I'm sorry , ladies , the chances are , if he gets the opportunity , he probably is gonna really I'm just letting you know not 95 percent of guys if , given the opportunity , they're gonna do the problem words , but what does the ?

Speaker 2 18:39

opportunity look like nasty paint that picture for me .

Speaker 1 18:43

You don't want to see that you've had your any men , any man that you've been with ? Do you think you've had a man luck like yo ? I've got him .

Speaker 2 18:50

That's me now I can imagine some of them have done something oh yeah , yeah , yeah , yeah absolutely okay , I'm not stupid .

Speaker 1 18:58

So , ladies on the sofa , then I'm gonna name some of the what people would consider the top echelon of women in this world . Yeah , and we're going to play a game . It's called did they get cheated ? On , alright , so let's start , let's start , let's start some of the few , so I'm going to name a few . Yeah , who I would say people would consider the top women . I know who . The first one is going for Beyonce . So the gay people I'd say hey , we love you . B , you gotta say yeah , beyonce , yeah okay .

Speaker 1 19:32

Megan Fox . Yeah , who else BK ?

Speaker 2 19:35

help me out here .

Speaker 1 19:36

Megan Good , don't know she ain't good , you don't know her probably back in the day , yeah who else ? What's her name ? Maya Jammer .

Speaker 4 19:44

Yeah , yup , I don't know this situation . Summer Walker , stormzy , cheeky Donna .

Speaker 2 19:48

Yeah , oh , he did yeah .

Speaker 4 19:50

Yeah , Maya .

Speaker 3 19:52

Yeah , then they got back .

Speaker 1 19:54

Georgia .

Speaker 3 19:55

They got back after that , didn't they ? Yeah ?

Speaker 2 19:57

Yeah , I'm really living under a rock .

Speaker 1 20:01

So basically , I've just named , named . They broke up again .

Speaker 2 20:03

Sorry , yeah , because we've liked some football or something now .

Speaker 1 20:06

But I can tell you why they broke up . Why , okay , educated , guess he cheated . Because this is what happens he cheated , he done everything in his power To get her back , which is it's A weird dynamic With women . Because you can't do that , you should never have done that , your woman has to think that you're better than that she has to Because you're hypergamous . Do you know what hypergamous means ? No , so hypergamy is that women want something better . Yeah , okay .

Speaker 1 20:32

So they want a man who's better than them . So if you're begging her back , she believes that she's better than him . Yeah , it can't work . So that's why I think that eventually they broke up , because I hear that yeah , and as well she's got a lot of clout . She it's very , because she's very popular yeah , she's got a bear man yeah , you got a bear man , the hypergamy .

Speaker 1 20:58

She's still doing love island , yeah yeah , and like you know she's , she's a pretty so after and when you're in that position , it's . You know , I don't think you can actually handle it , because grass is always , you're always going to fit , the grass is always green and there's always going to be someone as good , if not better , Cause you got a lot of options as women . No , no , can we ? I don't think so . I don't think so , but let's get into it .

Speaker 2 21:24

I'm trying to keep my straight face down .

Speaker 4 21:28

I'm trying to keep my straight face down them . Dms are crazy . All unanswered as well . All unanswered all unanswered .

Speaker 1 21:37

The thing is , though , you don't even need to be like a bad B , you don't you can be average average girl gets more DMs than the top men . You go average B 100% . But anyways , let's move on . I'm going to do some introductions . Been a while back in the show . Back again . Name age what do you feel ? Relationship status single , single you know what ? You see single . You see I'm loving it . How long have you been single ? For Long time . I've got a bit of concern .

Speaker 2 22:02

I've got a concern no no , I swear , because I was thinking this you know Because you're a pretty girl . I choose to be single . I don't know if that's true . I swear down , I do , you know ? No , honestly , you know what .

Speaker 4 22:15

No , you know what it is Long time ago dropped the whole bars , everything like .

Speaker 2 22:27

I don't want to trip up . I don't want to . I can't be asked to be distracted . Relationships can distract me because I want to love . Do you know what I'm saying ? So if I can't love , then I'm just .

Speaker 1 22:30

I'm good , I'm loving myself let me just go into the safe space because I want to test the pillars of this logic . You know me , I like to test , test the pillars . Let's test it , test it , see , go on , who's your favourite celebrity man ?

Speaker 2 22:43

My favourite celebrity man at the moment is Babyface Ray . And I said that last time I was here . Oh , you did , yeah , yeah , yeah , you didn't remember your answer last time I was here , yeah yeah , yeah .

Speaker 1 22:53

So to be honest , oh , okay , you don't remember your answer .

Speaker 2 22:55

I don't but go on .

Speaker 1 22:56

Okay .

Speaker 2 22:57

Can't remember .

Speaker 1 23:06

Babyface Ray DMs you out , you go out . You go like , oh shit , yeah , I remember this , pre-fall dates . Now he wants to be in you . You're the girl , right , you're the one right . He wants you to be the girl . Are you being the girl or not ? Or are you gonna say , oh no , I'm distracted at the minute . I don't want to be distracted and I'm choosing to be signal . What would you say ?

Speaker 2 23:19

if I'm honest with you . Yeah , I would be such a fool to think he wants me to be the one wants me to be the girl .

Speaker 4 23:24

I would be such a fool that if Babyface Ray is choosing me , babyface Ray is choosing you .

Speaker 2 23:31

He is choosing me this guy is flying off to Florida , miami , everywhere , and there's some big booty bitches after that .

Speaker 1 23:39

Let's just make this clear I'm going to make this very crystal damn fool . I'm going to make it crystal . I'm not saying he's not going to sleep with other women .

Speaker 4 23:46

There's going to be a few big booty bitches , but you want me to play fool . You're the main . We always have a main .

Speaker 1 23:53

That's how it is . Are you saying no , listen , I'm 100% saying .

Speaker 2 24:00

I know I'm not the only one . However , I will continue our relationship for it to grow further .

Speaker 4 24:09

So , yes , yeah , it's basically the answer to that , basically .

Speaker 2 24:13

But what does it mean , though ? He wants me to be the one who wants me to settle down with him .

Speaker 1 24:16

Yeah , you never left him . Nah , he wouldn't say that . No , I'm not saying that .

Speaker 3 24:19

You know what it is . I think it's hard to answer hypothetically .

Speaker 1 24:22

It should be a genuine , normal person maybe Hypothetically , he wants to settle down with you . Answer the question .

Speaker 2 24:28

Not the same calibre . Hypothetically , I'm not the same calibre . What do you mean ?

Speaker 1 24:34

Not the same calibre . She's avoiding Because she knows the answer . You're saying yes , Of course she is . Now I would love to .

Speaker 2 24:39

I would love to get blown out . I can't lie . I would love to , but at the same time I need to know my location . I need to know my mum where I'm at .

Speaker 1 24:47

Everything needs to get tracked . Do you know what I'm saying ? He's flew in a helicopter and he's introduced to his mum . You're the one girl , You're the one His mumma .

Speaker 4 24:54

His mumma .

Speaker 5 24:59

What's the ?

Speaker 4 24:59

answer to mama ? That answer is yes , I guess so yeah .

Speaker 1 25:04

I'm going to translate everything she just said . Now , yeah , yeah , because this is the translation you've got to understand .

Speaker 3 25:08

Woman is the translation is break it down .

Speaker 1 25:11

She hasn't found it . She hasn't found it good enough for her in her eyes that's true , she's not choosing to be single she hasn't found the guy .

Speaker 2 25:19

Absolutely 100% right yeah , that's good .

Speaker 1 25:22

I'm glad you came to that . She wants the baby face . I agree she's single , because I've actually every time I just come on the show I'm like someone must have tried to wife you up by now . So I'm not trying . I don't want to hear the cat I hit . No , absolutely , there you go . Thank you . What'd you do for a living ? What'd you do for a living ? You didn't answer that um for a living .

Speaker 1 25:44

I yeah , I'm trying to be happy and I work at a college okay , yeah and I've seen your show you're actually quite for , for how can I put this without sounding yeah ?

Speaker 4 25:57

you had to . You had to double check from the females that I've seen online .

Speaker 1 26:00

You are actually actually funny . When I see the clips I'm like yo , that's kind of funny .

Speaker 4 26:04

Oh , thank you you know , it's fine you're actually funny she's the me of the podcast world .

Speaker 1 26:14

Why I'm saying that is because it's not like a lot of the ladies they just use like sex jokes as comedy where you're naturally just funny jokes . So I don't include the sex jokes . I don't . That's not , that's cheating , that's cheating . I hear you .

Speaker 2 26:30

Appreciate that and thank you for you guys , because you know it all started off by you giving me the space on your platform and you took me on , and then that's how I grew my confidence to do it and Good , continue the clips and you're welcome here any time of it .

Speaker 1 26:43

Thank you , cool . Same for you too . New face .

Speaker 3 26:46

Hi yeah .

Speaker 1 26:47

Introduce yourself name , age . What you do for a living relationship status .

Speaker 3 26:49

I'm Daniel , I'm 20 . I do ring girling , I do modelling and I do it all the way .

Speaker 1 26:55

Ring girling , ring girling she , I don't hear that . Brilliant , alright , cool , fair enough . Ring going , how's that going ?

Speaker 4 27:05

nice , good , good , yeah , like a man whistling at you and that , yeah , like it no just for context , you walk around the ring with the thing in the air , with the numbers , yeah , okay fair enough , she gets hit on a lot .

Speaker 3 27:20

Yeah , of course , do you say no to all of them yeah , yeah , of course , do you say no to all of them .

Speaker 1 27:24

Yeah , are you not around celebrities and things like that ?

Speaker 3 27:26

I've met a few people from Love Island , but not really that far on . They've been in Casa and stuff , but you wouldn't really know them .

Speaker 1 27:34

Have you got a favourite celebrity ?

Speaker 3 27:36

No , I can't even think of one , to be honest . Fair enough , adele . I love Adele , but she's just because she changed her like full life and like actual bettered herself . I love her , but I can't think of anybody else not afraid of , like male celebrity .

Speaker 1 27:51

No , chris Brown , no no .

Speaker 3 27:55

I like his songs um .

Speaker 4 27:57

I don't know you need to get um .

Speaker 1 27:59

I don't know , you need the Peaky Blinders guy .

Speaker 3 28:02

Tyson Fury no , no , tyson Fury , no , no , tyson Fury , no , tommy Fury . Tommy Fury

WNBA Pay Controversy

Speaker 3 28:07

is good , nice looking , but nah , oh yeah that's not good .

Speaker 1 28:11

It's too muscly . What's his , what's his what's his girl's name again Molly . No , molly , that's it . So I'm gonna add to the list of intro line women again Molly May , we're playing that game again that they've been cheated on Molly Mae yeah yeah , okay , last . Thank you for introducing .

Speaker 3 28:26

I think it was a publicity stunt for our documentary show . Oh yeah , I do . I see that angle to be fair yeah , guys , listen , listen to me obviously . I know like there was stuff posted and stuff , but I feel like it was like so much more for publicity and she's let him do that like so then she could . Because why would you get back with him like you've literally posted it everywhere , you've put it everywhere to then get back with him ?

Speaker 3 28:50

I don't understand that that's the smart thing to do yeah the smart thing no , the smart thing to do to get back with him no , the smart thing to do is to do that as a publicity stunt , so everybody's watching your thing and then that means more money , yeah , more money , yeah , exactly .

Speaker 1 29:04

That's probably the one that's been publicised , but I'm willing to bet that he's definitely cheated on her before yeah , probably , probably has . But I think that was like major for publicity definitely , but at the end of the day , if you've got a guy like Tommy Fury , if you've got a guy like Tommy Fury , popular , good looking makes a lot of money , far with your child , and you find him cheating .

Speaker 3 29:26

You're blind and just carry on yeah personally speaking of the family , it doesn't make any sense . He's a tough guy .

Speaker 1 29:34

The brokies are gonna cheat on you anyway the brokies are gonna cheat .

Speaker 4 29:36

Stay with Tommy . Stay with Tommy . That's my advice . Tommy's got gooey .

Speaker 3 29:40

Tommy's got gooey . Stay with the gooey .

Speaker 4 29:42

Yeah , they're back together yeah , she wouldn't leave in his head keep the family together she wouldn't leave in her head . Yeah , it was all over .

Speaker 3 29:47

It's like see our documentary like she put it in the documentary , like of her kissing him and all that and it was like you think she was gonna throw a check .

Speaker 4 29:53

You think she was gonna throw a check . I know I don't blame her .

Speaker 5 29:56

Yeah , oh , we missed that we were straight to ring her , so she's in charge .

Speaker 4 30:00

Listen moving on , she is the top dog . No , but I don't like I don't do like explicit stuff on OOF .

Speaker 1 30:05

I do my modelling stuff .

Speaker 3 30:10

Like I can literally actually get my phone and show you right now . It's basically the same stuff that's on my Instagram as what's on that . Like I feel like my agency and that run it for me as well .

Speaker 1 30:23

I don't run it like let's test the logic and you know I like testing logic , I like testing the pillars of the logic . You get an offer of a hundred thousand , a hundred thousand to do a solo video . Would you do it ? Yeah nah testing the logic . She's sold alright , fair enough , sold down the hill 200,000 . Name , age where do you live in ? Relationship status ?

Speaker 2 30:47

I'm Mimi , I'm 20 , 21 next week and I'm about to be a podcast host , coming for y'all from Really .

Speaker 4 30:54

Yeah .

Speaker 2 30:55

In Cambridge , no in London .

Speaker 4 30:57

In London . Yeah , what's it called .

Speaker 2 30:59

I'm not going to give anything out , but you're going to see , don't ?

Speaker 1 31:03

worry Any celebrities involved ?

Speaker 2 31:05

Well , again I've got some very good guests lines up some very special guests .

Speaker 4 31:11

Can't be out from us in London .

Speaker 1 31:13

From one podcaster to another . My advice it's very difficult . Yes , you have to be consistent . Some weeks you're not going to want to do it . Some weeks you definitely won't .

Speaker 2 31:28

I've already filmed 10 episodes and I only started a month ago , okay , so I'm making sure that I've got episodes that are back roll , so I'm not on a constant like content wheel and that will also help me with not having to burn out so quickly , but I'm already a little bit prepared for what's ahead are you doing one-to-one interviews ?

Speaker 1 31:41

yeah , one-to-one you can do it like because , like with us , we can't do that because we try and talk about , like , the relevance .

Speaker 2 31:46

Yeah , of course , but if you're doing interviews , yeah , interviews it's not as deep and I'm filming like multiple guests per day split oh , okay , okay , that's fair enough and I'm single because I'm focusing on me . No , you know what it is . No , I don't do . You know what you do . You know what it is no , I don't .

Speaker 1 32:05

You know what you do . I don't want to hear .

Speaker 4 32:10

Too many thousands , of hundreds of thousands Of women .

Speaker 1 32:15

You're always sleeping with someone . Stop that , I'm not you .

Speaker 4 32:21

She's like I'm really not . Don't say that .

Speaker 1 32:25

You're always banging someone ladies like , stop that alright .

Speaker 2 32:29

Even if you're not in a relationship , there's someone the ex , the Tyrone , the Dave she be on down love no , so we got unicorns again wow no , I can honestly , I can honestly tell you I ain't had sex since November nobody's whoa I'm good , just muffs coming out .

Speaker 4 32:44

But I can honestly tell you I ain't had sex since November . Nobody's whoa freaking out . Sound good , just muffs coming out of them trousers right now .

Speaker 2 32:49

Honestly , heart waves in this bitch . No , I can actually second that I've been celibate for a hot minute now .

Speaker 4 32:54

Are you Hot ? Minute ? Hot minute Over a year ?

Speaker 2 32:57

Nah , a few months . It's been a month like seven ish months , december , seven ish weeks yeah , when's december ?

Speaker 1 33:07

but the thing is like like six months yeah I actually think that , as a lady , that's the right thing to do , and the reason I'm saying that it's because you've got more to lose yeah yeah , that's why I say it but anyone could do a crb on me .

Speaker 2 33:18

They're not gonna find anything . I'll be so like that's my one flex , they're not going to find anything . I only had one relationship and that was like so no one can claim me To weeps . Yeah , I broke it up .

Speaker 3 33:32

Yeah , so it doesn't even count , that's not a relationship .

Speaker 4 33:37

How long ago was this ? How long ago was this relationship ?

Speaker 2 33:43

Like when I was 18 .

Speaker 4 33:46

And you're 20 now . Yeah , and you're , and that's the only relationship you've had no , that was like the one that I count .

Speaker 2 33:51

The other ones they don't count let me try , I don't wait . No , they really don't count one relationship one relationship and that was 18 times two years two years ago .

Speaker 4 34:00

Yeah , that was like two weeks and then and then there's been in between relations . You don't count them as relationships .

Speaker 2 34:05

They're situational ships no , I'd say like we're girlfriend and boyfriend , but like I just wouldn't count , like I'm yeah , no godly situation yes basically free up , the free up how many situationships no comment ?

Speaker 4 34:20

yeah , so yeah , quite a few free up .

Speaker 2 34:23

No , hold on .

Speaker 4 34:25

Can you round that off ? Yeah , so divide it by seven yeah , and then square root yeah , I got it .

Speaker 1 34:30

Yeah , she belongs to me , yeah , that was good too .

Speaker 4 34:37

No it just wasn't .

Speaker 2 34:38

It wasn't for me . I wasn't like emotionally there , like I just wasn't ready at that point .

Speaker 1 34:43

I understand , I hear it .

Speaker 2 34:45

I hear it , so I just took the last two years to travel , focus on me , so not men nothing yeah , pretty much two years , yeah , the whole two years I've been traveling . I've literally only been in the uk for like a short period of time so two years traveling like every month at one point two years , but eight .

Speaker 4 34:58

Months . Eight months , wait a minute , is it calculated ?

Speaker 1 35:01

No .

Speaker 4 35:08

Wait a minute . Wait a minute . The maps ain't mapping for me . The maps ain't mapping no they still are mapping .

Speaker 2 35:16

It just means I haven't . The last person I slept with Was obviously December .

Speaker 1 35:19

Okay , so let's work it out again , cause so yeah , so December it was 18 , that's two years ago , that's two years I've been celibate for nine years Nine months , so December .

Speaker 4 35:26

Okay , so let's work it out again . Yeah , so December , it was 18 .

Speaker 2 35:28

That's two years ago , that's two years .

Speaker 1 35:30

I've been a celibate for nine years Nine months so it was in the December . December is when I last you know .

Speaker 2 35:33

Yeah that's when the relationship and my body count didn't go up , because it was like the same person .

Speaker 1 35:37

Yeah , so you know . Yeah , so you can divide four . Yeah , yeah , okay , yes , fair enough . Okay , that makes more sense .

Speaker 4 35:52

Now the math is slightly math before . I'm just trying to work it out . Yeah , we're trying to .

Speaker 1 35:55

Yeah , yeah , go on , yeah , yeah , even though we divided by four , we had to then add four and yeah conclusions the same , but um , moving on to the next topic , anyway , I wanted to get you because I like to get the ladies opinions on certain things right , because you know , as a guy , there's certain things that I can't say . You know what I mean .

Speaker 2 36:09

No , so you want us to say it for you , but you're damn right .

Speaker 1 36:11

No , I think it's perceived differently when a when a lady gives a based opinion , you might not agree , but , um , all right , so we've done the t app . We're getting something else about the ladies a bit later . So dating outside of your

Dating Preferences and Race

Speaker 1 36:25

race , yeah , your name is it racist ?

Speaker 2 36:28

no , if it's not snowing , I ain't going you gotta say that clear no , I need to make it very clear if it's not snowing , I ain't going some people might not know what that means that is okay , so my preference is white men so you had to add the preference .

Speaker 1 36:43

Yeah , this is smart , I know , right , fair enough . I don't see nothing wrong with that , exactly neither do I . I don't think it's a bad thing .

Speaker 2 36:49

I mean , my preference just isn't black men , and that's okay , yeah that's cool .

Speaker 1 36:53

now the reason I'm saying is because , um , a guy came on the show a couple of weeks ago and he was basically saying that he's not he's not into black women dating , right , and everyone went into , went into a frenzy , like the comments were mad . It's crazy .

Speaker 2 37:06

Yeah , but everyone has a preference . You're lying if you don't .

Speaker 3 37:09

Yeah , definitely .

Speaker 1 37:11

What's your preference ? White , white .

Speaker 2 37:14

Yeah , yeah , I don't think I have one . You know , honestly , I've been on a date with a Chinese dude . Really , yeah , I'm surprised to hear that now you seem like a , like a nerd , like anime person very very yeah that's why I said that yeah . I get that .

Speaker 1 37:29

Yeah , well , I thought you was a gunman person , to be honest .

Speaker 2 37:31

I like that too . She does carry that . You know what I'm saying she does carry that gunman swagger . How you going from Naruto to . It's all just vibes innit . Give me that vibe and I'm gonna mash that vibe .

Speaker 1 37:43

Where's the Chinese guy now , though ?

Speaker 2 37:45

Doing his thing , working , and all he travels a lot . He does anyway .

Speaker 4 37:48

so Okay , she's like a Nice girl . Yeah , she's like an anime role . Yeah , like All mixed up into one big big trifecta .

Speaker 1 37:58

Yeah , did he give you the bedroom jutsu or not ?

Speaker 2 38:02

Bedroom what .

Speaker 1 38:02

Jutsu . You know , oh , bedroom jutsu no .

Speaker 4 38:07

He ain't in the bedroom .

Speaker 1 38:08

jutsu All right , fair enough , and he be traveling , so yeah , so you don't think it's racist dating outside of your race ?

Speaker 1 38:14

No , the reason I is because recently we had a what some people would consider a legend hulk hogan passed away , right , and there's been a lot of negative , uh , media , I would say . But if you're gonna say that you don't know about the whole brother , this is the thing , sorry . So , because there was a clip of him saying that he didn't want his daughter to date black men , right , well , I don't necessarily think he's racist just because he said that I don't get I it . I think that's valid .

Speaker 2 38:39

Yeah , like what's up with that ? Like to be honest , maybe he's been around a lot of black people , that he's just been a bit about .

Speaker 1 38:46

You know what I mean .

Speaker 2 38:47

I'm going to say something right .

Speaker 4 38:48

But didn't he used to wrestle with , like Bocatier now ?

Speaker 1 38:56

I'll be honest . I mean young . You don't know who Hogan is . I know who Hogan is .

Speaker 2 39:00

I don't know , it depends and it's weird saying that because you don't know what his background and experience is was he bullied , or is it a thing where his parents were racist and he's just carrying it ? Or was it a thing when that's his opinion or preference ? I don't know it . Dating a chinese boy ? You're not gonna say that really , actually , to be fair , when I dated a white guy . But obviously we're in a new gen now and it's different but now sorry , I'm still on that .

Speaker 2 39:36

I can't believe you never dated a black guy before . Who me ? Yeah ? No , I never . I never even slept with one . I think if you did , your relationships would last longer . I have this feeling .

Speaker 4 39:45

Jasmine is like you would never go back .

Speaker 2 39:47

I'm telling you it's just no , it's just it's just not my cup of tea .

Speaker 1 39:52

Is that true , though I feel like you did discern about that , that deep chocolate ?

Speaker 4 40:08

no , I'm not . I would say my preferences kind of changed now like oh yeah I think the dominicans kind of changed me .

Speaker 1 40:11

You know , yeah , because you used to look at it .

Speaker 4 40:12

It's looking all right , he used to be . He used to be like . You want to pull it down ?

Speaker 1 40:15

yeah , basically yeah , a little bit we used to have fights about this . To be fair , no , not entirely , because mixed race was alright yeah , you used to like .

Speaker 4 40:23

Yeah , you did like a like but you wanted them .

Speaker 1 40:25

On that side of the line you come home you come home . I'm so proud of you , the Latinas have brought me home .

Speaker 4 40:32

I gotta lie you know what I'm saying . Decent to the Latinas . I've been preaching for years by talking to Latinas that's black Latinas as well , I'm guessing yeah they're black , they're golden , decent , they look great .

Speaker 1 40:43

So the answer is you don't think it's racist ?

Speaker 2 40:46

you don't think it's racist ? I don't think it's racist . Alright , fair enough , let's race this stuff , what about ?

Speaker 1 40:51

white people rapping the n-word . Can we say it ? We can't'll get we'll get keys out to as well . In my opinion . In my opinion , if it's in the lyrics , I don't say it . Why not ?

Speaker 3 41:06

I think if you're like your family and stuff , like if you had family that was in that culture , then you could , but if not , then no . So why can't you repeat the lyrics though ? Because it's it's offensive . Obviously I know it's not offensive to them because they call each other , but it's offensive for us to say it's offensive calling them them than anything .

Speaker 1 41:29

The logic is not for me . That's what I'm saying .

Speaker 3 41:32

It doesn't make sense in my head . It's like cultural , though I think .

Speaker 4 41:35

You know , the difference is that I feel like we'll say that now , but I know , I've seen it . I've pulled up in my car , yeah , and I've been sitting next to a white guy in the car and then , boy , I'm listening to Mist . Yeah , and you know how Mist is nigger and my man's on there and I see him writing the lyrics and it's getting to the point , and I'm just looking at him and I'm just but did I care ? Hell , no , hell , did I give a crap ? Because is he racist ?

Speaker 3 42:05

no , is he just ?

Speaker 4 42:06

right ? Is he reciting his favorite lyric ? Yes , is the guy ? Is the artist black ? Yes , so what is it what I want to do ? Sit here behave .

Speaker 2 42:14

Really . I feel like the music industry should have been beeping at the n-word in songs years ago to prevent this from happening in days like this , do you get what I'm saying ? They allowed it to be said in music in order for us to have this situation .

Speaker 4 42:31

No , that's not true . They allowed it in music because music is a freedom of speech act . It is you telling what you want to tell speech act .

Speaker 4 42:41

It is you that is true , telling what you want to tell . And another thing about it is why the hell should we be still persecuted by a word that was used by by not even our ancestors how many hundreds of years ago ? We should not be still sitting here saying , no , we shouldn't use this word and they shouldn't use this word . We should understand that this word should not mean a derogatory term to us . No more it .

Speaker 2 42:56

It doesn't hold us back . Words have meaning .

Speaker 4 42:59

Words have meaning , but sticks and stones , bub , like , really it don't make no difference to our lives , it really doesn't . You not liking me because I'm black does not stop me from being great in my life , it doesn't stop me at all .

Speaker 2 43:12

I just don't know if it suits . I don't know if it suits .

Speaker 3 43:16

I just think it's a bit Cringed . I don't know .

Speaker 2 43:18

Yeah , I just can't Like if a white person says it . I feel like I'm just a bit Like you know Whatever call , like I'm not gonna you know , maybe yeah .

Speaker 3 43:27

Like , have the families Like maybe .

Speaker 4 43:28

You know , if a white person Just sits there and just says it randomly , I'm just like mad with you . I'm about to educate you . I'm just going to educate you with some fear . You get it , but in a music sense I am never , ever going to feel a way .

Speaker 2 43:46

So sticks and stones ? What happened to sticks and stones ?

Speaker 1 43:48

Not the differences , context matters though . Uh-huh , but he still does . Okay , that's true .

Speaker 2 43:53

If you're sitting and saying that word , you'd be like what the ?

Speaker 3 43:55

fuck Six of stones . But if it's in a song and they're singing their song , then that's behind closed doors . So it's like a bit , but then you can't just go and say it to everybody else . Do you know what I mean ?

Speaker 4 44:11

For me , simply , it's education .

Speaker 3 44:14

If .

Speaker 4 44:14

I hear somebody saying something like that around me . I don't think we , as a black , and we do , as a black community , get something like that around me . I don't think like we , as a black , and we do , as a black community , get ignorance straight away . What do you mean ? What are you saying ? No , relax that a second and just educate for a minute , because sometimes that's all it needs to be .

Speaker 2 44:29

Don't be the the stereotype . Yeah , yeah , yeah do not be the stereotype .

Speaker 4 44:31

That's one thing you will never catch me being . I'm not trying to be the stereotype . I've played into that . You get it , so I'm not .

Speaker 2 44:36

Don't be the weak person either that don't defend . So if you explain , it's good that you explain . That's my point you get people who just to be like , it's easy not to say nothing yeah , and actually going back to that stereotype . I feel like that's a very important reason why it's not always what you say . It's how you're saying uh-huh .

Speaker 3 44:51

See , when I was younger I was like 13 I think , or maybe younger , and I was in high school and my friend she was black and she said to me , like she said that to me and I said it back , not knowing , not like whatever , and she's obviously went off or not and she's like that's offensive . Whatever else explains what the words has meant . And I was like but you just said that to me . Do you know what I mean ?

Speaker 4 45:10

so it's like kinda yeah that's what I mean about a simple , really quick . That's what I mean about education you got your education and from there you was like , yeah , this is wrong , you understand what it is , but you understand not to do it yeah , that's why I say don't get ignorant people , just educate . We're in 2025 , we're not held back by slavery , no more , so just allow it isn't .

Speaker 1 45:28

Isn't because this is the thing . What's the , what's the equivalent name for a white person ? Because I would say I would argue right . And who ? What do I know ? I'm so light-skinned brother you just a light-skinned brother . What do you know ? When the way um black people call people like , say like , oh , white boy , I would say that's equivalent yeah I think the history is not the same . Don't get me wrong , the history is not the same , but that's , that is equivalent what's the h word ?

Speaker 2 45:55

what's the h word ?

Speaker 5 45:56

the equivalent is the , the snack crack Cracker .

Speaker 1 45:59

That's the equivalent I thought it was a H word . People can say crack all the time .

Speaker 2 46:04

No , Crack , yeah , but for some reason that didn't stick .

Speaker 1 46:08

Yeah , white boy did .

Speaker 2 46:09

That's what I'm saying . White boy did . Yeah , it's stuck in the new generation .

Speaker 1 46:15

The cracker word didn't like the N word did . There's a lot of history behind that , but there's a lot of media in the N word With crackhead .

Speaker 2 46:22

it got like silenced ? No , it didn't .

Speaker 1 46:25

I don't hear no one say that word . Me neither .

Speaker 3 46:31

It's because white people don't care , they don't even know what it is .

Speaker 1 46:33

They don't basically care they don't it was , but that's what I'm saying . That's how you . You'd call him white , whatever white boy .

Speaker 2 46:40

I'm telling you which generation it is now what you're saying white boy , like that's , for me that's . But most white boys like that , like I'm . White boy , nice to meet you and it depends .

Speaker 4 46:48

I don't think it's a thing it depends .

Speaker 1 46:53

It depends your background .

Speaker 4 46:55

It depends on your background . We had a kid on our area called white boy and he loved it . He was one of them and he didn't care because he was around us , a group of of black people , and he was the only guy in , in that out of us that was white and he would be white boy and , I'll be honest , he used to throw a little slur , a little racist slur , in there every now and again and nobody , not one of us as a group , took any offense , because he grew up with us yeah , you kind of had that pass .

Speaker 1 47:26

But you see , if anyone else did that we would have , we would have been uproar about it . Not not really , but imagine . But imagine that though be naive about it you're right about there's a guy that would be called white boy yeah , imagine , I'm not sure imagine the guy . Imagine a group of white guys nicknaming a guy the N-word .

Speaker 4 47:41

Not even that .

Speaker 3 47:42

Just black boy , just black boy , just black boy , just black boy . I know that is not .

Speaker 1 47:48

Come on now . You know that ain't running .

Speaker 2 47:51

I know that ain't running Middle of Scotland .

Speaker 4 47:53

Middle of Scotland , One black guy and everyone look at blackie damn , and this is what I said .

Speaker 3 47:59

No , that wouldn't happen , it just it wouldn't , it would never .

Speaker 1 48:01

No , let's talk about the women .

Speaker 4 48:03

Basketball , right , basketball , yeah the w m b a exactly I'm going basketball .

Speaker 1 48:10

Don't even know racist played basketball exactly , okay now , yeah , before we go , how you think the show went and plug social media , you know oh , um , mimimoneyz on tiktok and instagram , all socials , and I think the conversation went well .

Speaker 2 48:26

I wish I could stay for longer , you guys , and really get into it , but it's okay , it's okay , we're gonna get you back nice to meet you , mimi . Nice to meet you guys . You guys are gonna kill it , okay .

Speaker 1 48:41

WNBA right , because they've been protesting about equal pay . Uh-huh , what do you think ?

Speaker 4 48:45

they were .

Speaker 1 48:48

I actually looked into it because a lot of people were saying it . I was like , nah , that can't be true and the footballers as well . The footballers were not .

Speaker 3 48:53

I'm gonna get onto the footballers is like nurses , paramedics and stuff no woman yeah , in an ideal world , I agree with you yeah but does health care and that bringing enough money to be able to pay . Yeah , I know so but they have like hundreds of adverts and stuff and plus we pay loads of tax as well . So yeah , I hear like thinking the amount of people in the world that pays tax , where people pay tax and what they are for a football ticket yeah , you're right .

Speaker 1 49:29

Well , I still don't think you would bring in .

Speaker 3 49:31

I don't know maybe I'll look at that all but we didn't end up the the wmba right .

Speaker 1 49:36

I looked into because people were saying oh no , they don't make . No , no , that can't be true . Every year it's minus , 50 million Minus , so they're losing money . So they're .

Speaker 4 49:49

They owe the NBA money .

Speaker 3 49:50

So why are they keeping it going then ?

Speaker 1 49:52

Because basically , the NBA is what's funding the WNBA . Funding the nba , oh yeah but they keep it . It's the men's sport , that's without the men's sport there's no yeah so they're in the . Basically they're in a red . So when I'm seeing them , like same with women's football as well I do think women's football is less than a lot . They do make a bit more money , I'd say , because football is like a very big sport .

Speaker 4 50:14

Yeah but not just that they win , they football is bigger because they they get .

Speaker 3 50:18

Championships

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Speaker 3 50:19

and stuff , not just that .

Speaker 4 50:19

yeah for the competitions and actually the women's . They do really well in their competitions .

Speaker 3 50:24

Yeah , they do .

Speaker 1 50:25

Yeah , england won like two years in a row , didn't they and to be fair , because a lot of the games that I watched before because I didn't really used to watch it yet , but I did I recently watched the women's England . Obviously it's not as good as the men's , but it's better than what I thought . The school football they've got better .

Speaker 2 50:43

It's slower but , it's good With football .

Speaker 3 50:46

I think maybe , yeah , yeah yeah , but not basketball , because I don't know , I don't watch football . Yeah , I mean .

Speaker 4 50:56

I think it's the same across most women disciplines is that the skill base is very much spread women disciplines is that the skill base is very much spread , yeah , where in the men's discipline it's very . It's a very close-knit skill base , you know . I mean like he may be able to do the same skills that I may be able to do , but you know , we have similar .

Speaker 4 51:10

We have we have slightly different ranges in our skill , where women now you'll have once in the football you'll have one really great keeper and another keeper that's very much an amateur still , you know , I mean she's getting buried from miles away .

Speaker 1 51:23

So the skill base is the problem and I see that in most women's disciplines it's like not everything's quite fair across the board and the thing is , though , for me it's like obviously I know , you know , I don't know if I know women were either either were allowed to play football or just didn't want to . But let's go off , let's say it wasn't allowed . Obviously , it's only recently started , innit , so you have to do what the men done and build up the game like football yeah , I know , but I'm just saying , like football , like men's football , wasn't always been in all this money .

Speaker 1 51:55

The world cup wasn't always being all this money . It's been built up over a long period of time .

Speaker 3 51:58

Celtic too , Celtic wasn't big at all , and now Celtic is like worldwide .

Speaker 1 52:06

But even if you use that as an example in your league , people ain't getting paid as much as the men in the Premier League , because the league doesn't make as much money it's a Premier League .

Speaker 3 52:16

Celtic plays Scottish . Premier Champion yeah they play a lot like we've won I don't know if it's the Premier League or the Scottish Championship we've won that like five years in a row .

Speaker 1 52:28

Yeah because they are the best . It's Celtic . And what's the other team ? There's another team , that's Rangers , rangers yeah , they're shit because that's the beef and it yeah , but yeah South , they dominate top teams dominate they dominate for years .

Speaker 4 52:42

But the money they generate , money , so they get . They then invest more of that money back into the team and they put it to charities as well .

Speaker 3 52:48

A lot of the money they put it to charities and stuff as well to help people .

Speaker 1 52:52

That's good yeah , what I'm . Ladies , you've got to build up like what the men do oh , definitely , and it is growing , yeah , it is growing slowly but it's , but it's growing .

Speaker 3 53:01

In 10 , 15 years , maybe 20 , they'll get the same pay , yeah , but like until you've you know that you can't expect to get the same , do you know ?

Speaker 1 53:08

I mean the thing is I don't think they're ever going to get the same pay as the men , because I don't . I don't think the ceiling is as high as the men , like I don't think they're taught what they can yeah , like people want to watch it and stuff . Yeah , it's not really gonna there needs to be another factor .

Speaker 4 53:20

There needs to be another layer to it . It can't be just exactly the same as what we're doing yeah , women don't really like because there's been such a dominating male game for so many years .

Speaker 3 53:30

Women aren't really like interested in football , like they won't shout over the like tv about women's football it's not you're not really getting a lot of viewers that are interested in women's football unless it's males watching it . Do you know what I mean ?

Speaker 1 53:43

I'm going to say something controversial . Here we go massaging . It's not because for me , right because , like you said , I don't think women are really that interested in football .

Speaker 3 53:53

Some are , some are yeah , I am , but I wouldn't go out of my way to go and watch a women's match . Do you know what I mean ?

Speaker 1 53:58

there you go then you have to get the men to watch . Uh huh , how do you think you're going to get the men to watch ?

Speaker 4 54:04

I don't know the game has to be more entertaining . Yeah , what do you mean ?

Speaker 1 54:08

I'm saying how do you think you can get more men to watch women's football ?

Speaker 3 54:14

I know exactly if they're watching .

Speaker 2 54:15

Change the football kit yeah , yeah , yeah basically because like American football for females yeah , that's mad that's why they got more .

Speaker 1 54:25

They got some tied up trousers or something like that yeah , the ladies are not going to want to hear this , but I'm telling you change up the boy there ain't seen buns in basketball and trust me , man , I'm going to watch that ain't seen buns in basketball I just think it's on a different spectrum as well like is interested in football is a mailer , so they're not going to have a lot of supporters behind them as much the men are but you can get the men to watch , is what ?

Speaker 2 54:51

I'm saying yeah men definitely , but it shouldn't have to be like that though that's the world we live in , and if it goes like that , then I reckon it's not going to happen .

Speaker 1 54:59

Yeah , exactly , I have this feeling it's just not going to happen what do you mean if it starts being sexual ?

Speaker 2 55:03

yeah , yeah , because most of the players look like they're lesbians . You know what I'm saying . So they don't look like they're going to go for a million . Yeah , they are quite , quite butch , yeah the reason I'm saying it .

Speaker 1 55:15

What's her name ? Alicia she's got blonde hair , I mean Alicia , yeah . I know Alicia and she wears dead tight shorts . Alicia Layman . Yeah , alicia Layman talking about , she's the most popular .

Speaker 4 55:27

Yeah , she , she's for Juventus now , yeah yeah , but she's been taking some model pictures yeah , we know why she's the most popular footballer .

Speaker 1 55:34

Yeah , okay she wears tight ass shorts like you can literally see her full ass yeah , she's like yeah , you can and the reason why I'm saying it is because it's kind of an equaliser , because the skill level isn't as high as the men . So you need to bring in something else , because even men and women like , as I say , two humans we want to watch the best . Yeah , so if you've got an option to watch the best , why would you watch the not so good Do you get ?

Speaker 1 55:59

what I'm saying so you need something else . But I hear what you're saying . Maybe it ends the game because it's too sick . Do you know what I mean ?

Speaker 3 56:06

It might do If women could become better than men ? Obviously I know there's no chance , but if that could happen then men would watch it because they're doing better games , like like when the women won the english championship like they feel .

Speaker 1 56:23

I kind of remember what it was when they won .

Speaker 3 56:24

They made a lot of money and a lot of views because it was like the the male ones never won it , you know I mean so if they kept like pushing it and kept pushing it and then became better than what the male football teams are doing , then maybe it would do better , but then that's like that's the only way that you then maybe it would do better , but then it's like that's the only way that you would do it without sexualising it .

Speaker 1 56:43

No , but this is the thing . If they did get better . I'm all for it . Yeah , Of course You're better than us now . Yeah , definitely , Just because obviously I know that the women are doing better as in like winning the England team .

Speaker 2 56:54

They're winning more than the men's team . Yeah , yeah .

Speaker 1 56:57

But they're not better than us , so that's why people are watching it as much , I mean even the competitions just don't generate as much money .

Speaker 3 57:03

The competitions know the same for them , like whether it's the men's teams got a lot , a lot of competition , that they're having a competition with and like it's the prize money I mean it's easier to play . Do you know what I mean ? Like it's easier to get through the matches than what is with the men's league . Like it's a lot harder .

Speaker 4 57:22

It's the prize money I mean I mean for the women's game , say they get like 50 grand For the men's game . You get in mills for the win . You know what I mean . There's a mad difference in just prize money . So even even the women if they win five tournaments it still doesn't equivalent to two of the men's tournaments . You know what I mean ? Like there's still the money that's generated in the competition to be able to pay out , it still doesn't equivalent .

Speaker 4 57:44

So even though they're winning loads , it still isn't generating enough for them to keep floating .

Speaker 2 57:49

It's just they're on the same page and until it does , yeah yeah , but then don't complain , it's only been a long time .

Speaker 1 57:56

I was just making a suggestion for the views now . Over time it will build up .

Speaker 2 58:01

Yeah , I see that it will build up over time .

Speaker 1 58:04

It won't reach the lengths of the men . I don't think . Of course it will build up , but even the end of the WNBA right . It's like I even watched the All-Star game . So did the women's version . I watched it . You can't be missing layups like you can't .

Speaker 4 58:26

It's the it's the way it just falls in front of the basket like there's , just like it's , like it's hitting the rim it literally , just so say at the rim , and you're throwing it and the boys are doing that like just getting that just getting

Speaker 1 58:40

and you lot are saying that you're doing as good . No , the men are hitting three pointers from everywhere . And this is the thing . This is how I know that competition at times for women makes them eat themselves , and I'll tell you why . Caitlin Clark .

Speaker 3 58:55

I don't think women are good at basketball at all . Caitlin Clark yeah , she's a WNBA . She is sick . I don't think women are good at basketball at all .

Speaker 1 58:59

I'm not saying that , no , no , he's doing so bad . Caitlin Clark yeah , she's a WNBA , she is sick , she's savage , she's a baller , yeah .

Speaker 4 59:06

Real baller , promise you , like she's hitting .

Speaker 1 59:08

You know the three points I'm talking about . Yeah , she's hitting them Dang From far though . So like so most people are shooting right on the three point line . Bro , she can hit three from like here .

Speaker 3 59:19

Yeah .

Speaker 1 59:20

She's sick and all the women are attacking her . It's crazy .

Speaker 3 59:23

You joking ? All the women are attacking her because she's a white girl .

Speaker 1 59:27

Jealous , yeah , literally . The car is not true , nah , for me now , if I'm a woman , I'm like yo listen , we need to eat , yeah , you , we need to push , because you Iron sharpens iron .

Speaker 2 59:39

I want you to teach me .

Speaker 1 59:42

You're making the men want to watch . She's making the men want to watch . I'm watching it . She's a baller , I watch her play yeah . So you lot here should be all around , but no , you're all attacking a white girl .

Speaker 2 59:55

It's crazy Because they're scared and the moose scares sometimes when that happens , but once they open it probably because they want to be like her and they can't be and they're just jealous .

Speaker 3 1:00:03

Do you know what I mean ? But then ask her help for her help , and she'll like , instead of being hateful towards her she is a little bit arrogant , but what best like ?

Speaker 1 1:00:12

in every sport , even in English football , the best Is what it is . Well , yeah , I just think for the women's sport I don't you like should be all rallying behind her .

Speaker 2 1:00:23

But it's competitive though , isn't it ? So it's going to be like that . It's probably not even about the fact of no , no like it's so , for instance right , oh , you white girl .

Speaker 1 1:00:35

Or you stupid white girl or something like that . So it's more than like a competition within the team . It's like it's a bit iffy that competition against the girl . It's more like and all that is is exactly what I was saying the skill gap .

Speaker 4 1:00:52

Don't hate others just because their skill gap is not higher than the rest of the skill gap because at one stage there was a level and everyone was at this level . Now she's exceeded that level . Now there's hate . Now there's hate .

Speaker 2 1:01:03

Where in the ?

Speaker 4 1:01:03

men's game you get relished for that . In the women's game , you get knocked for that . They don't want a bigger skill gap .

Speaker 1 1:01:11

I'll give an example . For years , the best players were Cristiano Ronaldo .

Speaker 3 1:01:24

Lionel Messi messy . Everyone lauded them .

Speaker 1 1:01:25

They weren't getting that in the men's team and they and I mean , the gap was very big between professionals and then them like yeah , but they wasn't getting that after every game man want their tops , man , like they're the best . Yeah , we want to be as good as them . Yeah , but kate and clark is basically the messy and the christian ronaldo , now that the gap is , yeah , yeah , yeah , she's sick . I need to watch her just put some highlights on .

Speaker 4 1:01:41

She's a Steph Curry man . She's a Steph Curry of the women .

Speaker 1 1:01:42

Man , she's sick and the thing is in basketball , normally the taller people are not the ones that are doing the freeze . They're doing the layups and the donks in it . She's very tall , she's hitting them freeze . Is there a problem ? Is there a problem ?

Speaker 4 1:01:55

Because she can defend . She can defend everything . She can guard the rim . She gets picked up .

Speaker 1 1:02:01

Yeah , she gets these nasty fouls that are just unnecessary .

Speaker 4 1:02:04

I'm telling you it's bad , but so did my light Corey this is my point so does Cristiano Ronaldo , and so did Lionel Messi . They used to get stabbed at that . Man hated man two-footed challenge Because men would hate in the game , but then after the game they would want to beat them . They knew the construction would want to beat them .

Speaker 1 1:02:21

I know . But this is the difference , though I'll tell you what the difference was . You see , with the men they were doing that because that was the only way to stop him . Yeah , it was the only way . It wasn't like malicious , it was yo , we have to put this guy down . Five man , I've got to just take him out . Yeah , it was more of that . I can't stop him . So this is the only way I can stop him , rather than with her .

Speaker 1 1:02:44

It's not , it's more like elbows when unnecessarily and it's just like she's getting it it's not , it's not needed , but anyways , I'm not in the wmba , so because at least she's getting high paying at the wmba she gets paid a lot because she has , and that's another thing that the women can look at as well . What you need to look at is like external sponsorships and things like that , because that's how she's making a lot of her money , because people want to sponsor , because she's good and it's not about looks , I would say she's not that good looking no , it's just , she's good skill .

Speaker 4 1:03:09

Yeah , her skill base is good and people buy into it . Of course , I would say the second best player more , so uses her looks .

Speaker 1 1:03:17

This is like mixed , like mixed race Angel Reese , whatever her name is oh , yeah , yeah , yeah she , more so , uses her looks . She's a baller though , nah , but Caitlyn Clark , she's made a social profile Reese Reese , angela Reese . Angel Reese or something like that . Yeah , yeah , yeah , she more so uses her , looks she a baddie , yeah , yeah yeah .

Speaker 1 1:03:36

I'm not saying she is or she isn't , I'm just saying , like the skill level between them two is . It just shows that if you've got talent , people won't . If you're if you've got talent and you're a woman , people won't necessarily look at you on the sexual side . Yeah , We'll be like yo . She's a baller . Yeah , and we want to sponsor her because she's a baller , so we end it on more pay for the women or the need to build it up .

Speaker 3 1:03:59

Build up , build it up .

Speaker 4 1:04:02

Pay the women Pay them .

Speaker 1 1:04:05

It's funny the t-shirts are saying pay us what you owe , but the league's in 50 million minus you owe them .

Speaker 4 1:04:13

So you pay them what you owe .

Speaker 3 1:04:15

Pay back what you owe . Give me the money now , exactly you in debt .

Speaker 4 1:04:19

You in the red .

Speaker 1 1:04:22

Card chopped Questions Quickly . How many questions have we got ?

Speaker 5 1:04:25

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Speaker 3 1:04:29

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Speaker 1 1:04:32

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Speaker 3 1:04:36

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Speaker 1 1:04:39

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Speaker 3 1:04:43

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Speaker 1 1:05:11

You can , yeah , yeah , social media marketing . You still have to kind of build your brand , uh-huh and you need to get that's money .

Speaker 4 1:05:16

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Speaker 3 1:05:18

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Speaker 1 1:05:24

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Speaker 3 1:05:27

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Speaker 1 1:05:56

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Speaker 3 1:06:03

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Speaker 1 1:06:06

so it's like you need to be different what's the male equivalent to OnlyFans and modeling ?

Speaker 3 1:06:11

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Speaker 1 1:06:37

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Speaker 4 1:06:40

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Speaker 1 1:06:42

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Speaker 3 1:06:48

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Speaker 1 1:07:21

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Speaker 3 1:07:28

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Speaker 1 1:07:46

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Speaker 3 1:07:49

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Speaker 3 1:08:06

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Speaker 1 1:08:25

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Speaker 3 1:08:31

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Speaker 1 1:08:41

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Speaker 3 1:08:50

I think if you're pushing yourself hard enough , oh yeah , and like , keep pushing yourself , it's easy because you've got that drive and you know what you want , so you're never going to stop until you have that . But if you're just kind of , if you're just kind of sitting on your arse and doing fuck all , then you're not going to make money . No , it's not easy 100 .

Speaker 5 1:09:08

I agree with that , yeah patrick , yeah , so this is from socialrisecom

The Unicorn Effect: Women's Dating Standards

Speaker 5 1:09:13

, so that's the source , only one source I'm using today , and they say it's 21 percent of all um 21 ? No way .

Speaker 3 1:09:24

I actually never thought that either , until one of my friends . He does that Subscribed .

Speaker 1 1:09:30

The content .

Speaker 3 1:09:31

Subscribed . I know a boy who does better than me .

Speaker 1 1:09:38

And it's women buying it .

Speaker 3 1:09:40

Yeah .

Speaker 4 1:09:41

He must have that whole 21% A lot of the subs are girls .

Speaker 5 1:09:46

We don't know why they're buying , yeah .

Speaker 1 1:09:48

What do you mean ?

Speaker 5 1:09:50

Some people might sub to see if they see their man .

Speaker 3 1:09:52

Okay , or they're subbing to support a friend , or they're subbing because they don't want to go out , and stuff like that .

Speaker 1 1:10:00

I just don't see women buying sex . They don't really need to buy sex .

Speaker 3 1:10:04

Some girls like obviously don't want to go out and don't want to like be in there , yeah , but Paul Friedel as well .

Speaker 3 1:10:09

I know that's what see . To be honest , that's what I actually thought . See , when I started making money . See , when I started making money on OnlyFans , that's what I thought I actually buying stuff over OnlyFans when you get Polhub . So I thought Polhub was shut down . I was away and searching on my phone and all that , right , it's Polhub shut down and it's like no the thing is for the men though , because this is the thing we've had a lot of OnlyFans girls on .

Speaker 1 1:10:31

It's different for the men , so like because they feel like more adoration yeah , like they , they want or don't interact with women . That's why they're buying it , whereas the women ?

Speaker 2 1:10:42

it's not .

Speaker 1 1:10:43

It can go out man , you're going to get attention , you're going to get DMs .

Speaker 3 1:10:46

You know what I'm saying ? Yeah , so I don't know , but yeah , maybe Maybe you just have a really , really big crush on them or fancy them and you just want to sub to the only fans you could DM them . You have that fear of getting rejected .

Speaker 1 1:11:01

Do women get that ? You don't get rejected .

Speaker 3 1:11:03

Yeah , women can get rejected . You get rejected for relationships yeah . No , you get rejected point blank . Any lass that can get rejected . If a boy doesn't like what he sees , he can reject you .

Speaker 1 1:11:12

What's the percentage of a woman saying I want to give you a blowjob and they're going to say no . What's that ?

Speaker 3 1:11:18

percentage they would probably just put a bag out your head . They would probably just put a bag out your head and be like that , or tell you it's on the range .

Speaker 1 1:11:25

Listen , women don't get rejected like that . Never Listen . Men will fuck a hole in the wall .

Speaker 2 1:11:30

A hole in the wall . Come on , they will you know , they will you lot are not getting rejected .

Speaker 1 1:11:37

I'm going to make it clear again you might get rejected for a relationship . Yes , maybe Because you know the two guys well , not for nash for not , but what's the ?

Speaker 2 1:11:45

difference of a man fucking a hole and a woman putting a dildo on the wall . What's the I'm just saying what's the difference ?

Speaker 4 1:11:53

because women do that too it's the way she stuck it as well she's like don't you like ?

Speaker 1 1:11:59

prefer the real thing , like absolutely there you go .

Speaker 2 1:12:01

so then it's maybe the same thing , though Women and men can possibly do the same thing .

Speaker 1 1:12:06

Okay , let me ask you how many women are sticking it on the wall .

Speaker 2 1:12:09

I don't know if that's , I don't know because .

Speaker 1 1:12:10

Because you can get the real thing easily .

Speaker 2 1:12:13

Not every woman .

Speaker 1 1:12:14

Why does she do that ? Not every ?

Speaker 2 1:12:15

Wow , not every woman I swear down , especially as they reach a certain age and they become less age you know what I mean . Like and men ain't looking at them no more for some reason . They go younger , you know what I'm saying . Then you get into that bracket of I can't find nobody . That's what happens to women .

Speaker 1 1:12:31

You know I'm saying that's when you're older though , yeah , yeah , in your prime between like 20 , yeah , it's different .

Speaker 2 1:12:37

Different for me when you get older , it gets probably difficult for women , doesn't it a little ?

Speaker 1 1:12:41

bit . But then the younger men go for you because they want to . That's true . That's why they always say that because men want to date younger women yeah , it goes yeah , but the younger men , they don't mind having a little excursion .

Speaker 2 1:12:55

That's why that's why all the women get younger men .

Speaker 1 1:12:57

Yeah yeah because , the older men ain't really looking at you like that .

Speaker 4 1:13:00

Now it sounds like there's a lot of marks on that mirror .

Speaker 2 1:13:06

That mirror . I wish I had one . I wish I had one .

Speaker 1 1:13:13

Mad , yeah , that's crazy . Come on , you lot don't need to .

Speaker 4 1:13:18

Don't need that .

Speaker 2 1:13:18

No , definitely not .

Speaker 4 1:13:19

You don't need the wall sticker .

Speaker 2 1:13:22

You know the wall stickerer .

Speaker 4 1:13:23

You don't need One of them , boy there , but anyways .

Speaker 1 1:13:27

Yeah , I'm surprised about that , but you know what , now it makes sense in my head , because my head actually like Was baffled by .

Speaker 5 1:13:31

I can't lie . John hasn't answered the question .

Speaker 1 1:13:33

Huh , he's what . What was the question ?

Speaker 3 1:13:36

If it was you saying me money .

Speaker 1 1:13:37

Oh yeah , just to clarify now . People said that it could be that they were checking on . If they managed to , you know if that makes sense , or support , because I actually could wrap my head around that . I was like , nah , I can't be .

Speaker 2 1:13:49

But I do think , though , easy money , yeah , nah , it just depends on the person man yeah , definitely bright , she's not wrong , she's correct no my opinion , not easy to make money .

Speaker 1 1:14:03

Yeah , depends on it . Oh , depends if you go and I make a lot . I'm joking . I'm joking .

Speaker 4 1:14:08

You care what you're saying nah , you know it's hard to make money . It's hard of course it's hard .

Speaker 5 1:14:15

We've heard it many times , we don't need to hear it again . Alright cool , 9 to 5 or influence content creation . Which one would you rather do Both ?

Speaker 2 1:14:26

Can I answer ?

Speaker 5 1:14:26

that If you had a choice and it made you the same amount of money , what would you do ?

Speaker 2 1:14:33

The one that gives you more freedom .

Speaker 1 1:14:34

Wait , hold on when you say content creation Nine to five , or content creation , what kind of content ?

Speaker 4 1:14:39

creation Only fans .

Speaker 5 1:14:40

Yeah , not only fans , it's only fans , no Only fans .

Speaker 2 1:14:42

What kind of content ?

Speaker 1 1:14:42

yeah , it doesn't matter anything , it's fine .

Speaker 5 1:14:43

OnlyFans , no , onlyfans yeah , yeah , okay , we'll go with OnlyFans no , personally I wouldn't .

Speaker 2 1:14:50

But if it was one of those things where it's like yo , brendan Butter's low , I got shit to pay for , I might just , would you would you do like ?

Speaker 1 1:15:00

would you sell bikini pics um ? Could you post them anyway ? Did you post them anyway ?

Speaker 2 1:15:05

yeah , I put them on my story because they go in 24 hours , don't they ?

Speaker 1 1:15:08

that's like it's not on your page .

Speaker 2 1:15:09

You should be teasing well , could be on my page .

Speaker 3 1:15:11

Actually , she be teasing she be teasing , but like I feel like if I was an .

Speaker 2 1:15:16

OnlyFans .

Speaker 3 1:15:17

I would want to go in .

Speaker 2 1:15:18

I would want to go so , in that I know my bread is just doubling up . Why did we win ? Yeah , huh .

Speaker 5 1:15:23

Trying to fool . Why did we win ?

Speaker 2 1:15:25

Okay , nah , I like that , but I think , if you have OnlyFans .

Speaker 3 1:15:28

There's certain ways that you can do that , and then you don't need to be explicit . Yeah , ruby Rose yeah like mine's , isn't explicit at all .

Speaker 5 1:15:37

Like mine's is literally just all I'm wanting . Nah , nah , she's just got everything . Page free .

Speaker 3 1:15:41

An agency . Like see your agency as well . Like see if you work with an agency , they'll tell you as well . Like they won't take you on if you've got explicit stuff on your feed , so they won't take you on . So if you've got any like pictures of yourself naked , anything like that you won't get took on by an agency .

Speaker 2 1:15:57

So like , and they tell you Because you're doing it for free .

Speaker 3 1:16:04

Yeah , free , yeah , and they also tell you that , um , it's better to keep keep more of your clothes on than take more of the room off , because the rest you show , the more they're going to want to be interested and the more they're going to keep buying . So , like with mine , I keep it to like the extent because I know that I don't want to be doing only fans forever . I'm literally doing it to build my business and that's it . Like that is as soon as I have that money . That's a dungeon , I mean . So I wouldn't want to put something out there that I could never get back . Like because I want to have a family , I want to have kids and I don't want my kids to see that .

Speaker 3 1:16:32

Like , obviously , my modeling pictures they're on my instagram , so everybody's seen that anyway . Do you know I mean ? So there's like , there's certain ways where you could manage it and you could pull an okay amount of money . You're not going to get the amount that everybody's getting when they're doing that explicit stuff . Do you know what I mean ? But you still get that good amount to build like with .

Speaker 3 1:16:52

Do you know what I mean ? And you can still keep your respect like intact , like your self respect without having to do something that you don't feel comfortable with doing or don't want to do . Because I always thought , like before I done only fans , it was more like my modeling agency that told it was more my modeling agency that told me to go and do only fans because they like my modeling , and they said , if I posted my modeling pictures that I would just make a subscription fee and that's it , then I wouldn't have to do anything else . And that's just what I've done and you can literally just base it off that and not have to do anything where you don't feel uncomfortable .

Speaker 1 1:17:24

Makes sense . You paid your debt . Not bad to be fair yeah . So you would do it If the bills were due .

Speaker 2 1:17:31

The bills were due . Swinging that ass on that camera , I mean it .

Speaker 5 1:17:39

Fair enough . Next question what is the biggest challenge you're currently facing and how are you going to overcome this ? No , we'll start with you .

Speaker 2 1:17:47

Don't you answer these questions either ? Kind ?

Speaker 4 1:17:49

of Sometimes .

Speaker 2 1:17:51

So what is the biggest challenge I'm currently facing and how am I overcoming this ? I think taking advice of people who are contradictive Is that the word to use , right , god ? And I have to remember to look past the fact that we're all just humans , so we all are living a life , whether it's mistakes made , lessons learned , whatever it is , it's theirs and it's not everyone takes their advice , but it's hard to like take someone's advice and I'm looking at them and I'm like no you know what I'm saying .

Speaker 1 1:18:25

I think that's what it is for someone's advice , and I'm looking at them and I'm like no , because it's you know what I'm saying , I think that's what it is for me , the advice they're giving is not the life you're living Basically , but then sometimes the advice they're giving is not just for me , it's for them too .

Speaker 2 1:18:33

They just need to hear it come from their mouth .

Speaker 1 1:18:40

But I need to allow myself to think that and not be like I don't want to hear that from you because I think that's healthy to do , though , like why am I taking advice from a broke ?

Speaker 2 1:18:46

person like that's one point . Yep , in that sense yeah , but then sometimes people need to hear it from themselves because they won't say it to themselves but they're quick to say to other people .

Speaker 1 1:18:52

Oh yeah , okay , do you know what I'm saying ?

Speaker 2 1:18:54

so when you say it yourself , it kind of sounds different , because then you gotta look at yourself like , wow , how am I saying that ? You know what I'm saying . That's it for me .

Speaker 3 1:19:06

Well , I'm currently doing my insurance for my business and doing all my qualifications , so it's really hard trying to balance everything . So I need to get a signal in life and just balance everything out and stop stressing , because I'm always stressed all the time .

Speaker 1 1:19:25

Balance , life balance . Yeah , how ?

Speaker 4 1:19:27

about you , me , my biggest struggle at the moment is my yeah , my work-life balance . So I have three circles that I draw and there's me , there's work and there's family . And right now work is very big , me is very small and family is like kind of mid over here , and what I need to do is get them all in one circle where they're all just nice and feng shui and all similar size circles yeah so I think that's .

Speaker 4 1:19:58

My biggest issue at the moment is just trying to get my career to a a point where I have a bit more time for myself , but at the moment , while I'm building , the resin all time . So it is what it is . Even five minutes , no , five minutes right now .

Speaker 4 1:20:13

Fair enough , it's hard to get timing yourself there will be five minutes , but there has to be the . You need to do the overtime to get the five minutes first . You know you need to understand how you make the five minutes by putting in the hard work yeah I think that's normal to be fair .

Speaker 3 1:20:29

You need to work hard . Stuff doesn't come at you enough late , doesn't get handy to you , so biggest challenge delegating .

Speaker 1 1:20:38

Delegating because the business has got very big but I don't trust people to run the shit . So delegating to other people , putting that trust to delegate some things to other people , but the only way it can grow is by doing that . Right now it's too big for me to be there all the time , so I have to do that , but I don't trust people .

Speaker 1 1:21:01

It's hard , though , when it's like your own as well to trust people yeah that's the thing , but once you start doing it , it gets better it will go . It will go a lot more . I have to anyway now because I'm open in another place , so I have to delegate . I can't be everywhere , so but I'd say that's the biggest challenge , right ?

Speaker 5 1:21:18

right now . Okay , is it disrespectful to wear pyjamas in public ?

Speaker 4 1:21:22

Yes , don't wear them outside . I don't want to see PJs in Sainsbury's . I don't want to see you walking around the aisles in your PJs getting it . No , get dressed , put something on . I don't want to see you on the school run in your pyjamas like you just got out of bed . You haven Go change yourself .

Speaker 3 1:21:39

Go change yourself .

Speaker 1 1:21:40

Go change yourself . I think that people that do that should be ostracised from society .

Speaker 3 1:21:47

Shame I just think it's amazing .

Speaker 1 1:21:48

Shame you can't be blown out to another island and you just drop them there .

Speaker 3 1:21:53

Yeah , in pyjamas the only time I go out and smoke in my pyjamas is if I need to go outside to smoke . That's fair . That's fair enough . Outside running that's fair . That's fair enough .

Speaker 4 1:22:00

Outside running through your house is completely fine but if you have to go any further than that , you are the worst organizer in life .

Speaker 3 1:22:07

I can't see the point five minutes from your house , you're organizing you're organizing .

Speaker 4 1:22:12

Say the word you're organizing . Your skills are terrible yeah , they're terrible because you can't organize to set your alarm for a certain time to get ready to put your shit on and then , even if , if and if I see you at two and three o'clock in the afternoon doing that shit , oh my goodness I might pull over I'm all see it like early mornings yeah , yeah , I do see in the mornings , as I say , school runs and that , but that's just bad . How is your kid dress in ?

Speaker 5 1:22:40

glas quite a lot in Glasgow yeah , it is bad yeah so you kick that off .

Speaker 3 1:22:45

I'm like I just , I just walked past him thinking like what are you doing ?

Speaker 1 1:22:49

you kick that like it's a white thing . Still , you kick that . I'm not saying black people don't do it , but I do see it's mental , but like maybe a snoody right , fair enough walking about with a snoody on , like over your clothes maybe , but no , pyjamas , no you know , what I can't take is the combination .

Speaker 4 1:23:04

You see , I don't mind . I don't mind uggs , but you see pyjamas and uggs oh yeah , yeah , that I was literally .

Speaker 1 1:23:10

That's horrible , that's ugly .

Speaker 3 1:23:12

See the ugg slippers .

Speaker 4 1:23:13

The ugg slippers with the ones that the actual back the ones that fall to the side , the ones with the back and they're fluffy yeah , they're nice , they go with pyjamas , but no the ones at the back , I don't exactly remember what you're talking about . Nah , you're turning up to the school in them and it's raining . It's crazy . If it's raining , you're disgraced . It's raining , they're all falling to one side . Shit from out , man .

Speaker 3 1:23:32

Yeah , it's not a trend at all .

Speaker 4 1:23:34

Remember when old boots are like Are women still trying to ?

Speaker 3 1:23:40

They've got trainers .

Speaker 4 1:23:42

Are you still trying to wear them in the snow , or have you given up on that now ? I saw a lot of people falling .

Speaker 3 1:23:47

I think hunter wellies are really good for snow , which are Hunter wellies .

Speaker 2 1:23:52

Oh okay , yeah , they are . Hunter wellies are so good .

Speaker 4 1:23:55

Have they got good tread yeah ?

Speaker 2 1:23:56

Yeah .

Speaker 3 1:23:58

And you get socks for them as well . They keep your feet so warm .

Speaker 4 1:24:02

I saw a lot of damp Uggs yeah , they're horrible .

Speaker 3 1:24:05

The Uggs are only made for the like snow or wetness , so I don't know why they're shoes because it looks like it looks like a snow shoe .

Speaker 1 1:24:12

Yeah , I know well , it's just not a snow shoe yeah , it's not made for that yeah , they're branded are they used in a thing then ?

Speaker 2 1:24:17

yeah , I think , so are they they .

Speaker 3 1:24:18

They're quite baggy , like they're trainers of them , yeah yeah , they're nice Trainers are heavy fluffing .

Speaker 4 1:24:23

It was the ones with the little two tassels at the end . Yeah , yeah , I'm telling you , mate . You just see them . Lean to one side , ain't they the fake ones ? Though ? Yeah , but you don't know , you don't know .

Speaker 3 1:24:36

The primal lean . See , because of the platform with them . They're like a cheap made sort of platform . So once the water gets into them they start like weighing down . So they like , after what , too much water is getting to one side , it's going to start weighing down . It's like yeah , it's going to start dipping . You look like you're dipping off the side .

Speaker 4 1:24:55

The hogs were leaning .

Speaker 1 1:24:56

Yeah , so they were leaning , they were walking in the rain and it basically , yeah , the fat joe hogs , yeah , cancles , yeah , literally .

Speaker 5 1:25:06

Question Is it shady to stay close friends with an ex while in a new relationship ?

Speaker 2 1:25:13

Yeah , if you've got children .

Speaker 1 1:25:15

Friends , though that's because co-parenting is not the same as friends .

Speaker 2 1:25:19

How many ? Of us have them Can't be friends .

Speaker 4 1:25:24

You get me turning up oh hi , yeah , that's wild . You want some food , you want some food . Yeah , niggas walk behind you and they're like what ?

Speaker 2 1:25:31

Yeah , yeah , yeah , we're supposed to be going out . Yeah , that's crazy . Why is he ?

Speaker 4 1:25:35

offering you food , disrespectful . You two are way too happy . Are you even broke up up ?

Speaker 2 1:25:39

you're single in a new relationship single what do you mean ?

Speaker 4 1:25:44

no , he's basically saying , you would be single from oh gotcha oh yeah , I would let them walk with grace . Expeditions can privilege ever be , earned , or is it always ?

Speaker 1 1:26:00

inherited expeditions ? Yeah , definitely would I date a single ?

Speaker 5 1:26:02

man . This is I , like this one . Can privilege ever be earned , or is it always inherited ? Inherited ? There's layers to privilege , to be honest .

Speaker 3 1:26:10

I think most it's inherited , like big , big , big people have inherited it . But I think if you work hard enough you could earn it , but just depends because most of the richest people in the world have inherited that . But then again kyla jenner , like she never inherited it and she made like kyla jenner she's like yeah , she never inherited money . Obviously she gave money to start , that's the same thing . But she never like and she's the first like made woman , made millionaire and stuff like she's not woman made me she just slept with the right people , I'll be just no , that was off .

Speaker 3 1:26:48

Sister can't get no , listen .

Speaker 1 1:26:51

Her mom did a great job turning three holes into famous people I know her mom doing a . I definitely think a lawyer has inherited . Like I have to listen .

Speaker 4 1:26:58

Rothschilds , it was my man that got the money , did that in it in the first place .

Speaker 3 1:27:07

Yeah , the Rothschilds are the most like the most richest family in the entire world . The Rothschilds and they've inherited all the money , so of course , like most of it has inherited .

Speaker 1 1:27:17

Yeah , but what I'm saying is most of the time , if you look like because I even looked at this because it's actually quite magic if you look into the roots , right it started and again , south texas , it started with a father somewhere . You understand , because even when I looked , I looked at the list of um fingy , because I try to give the benefit of the doubt everyone thinks I'm sexy but I'm not . So I I looked at the list of like the most famous women and how they got their money . I think like the top 10 are like through divorce yeah through marriage .

Speaker 1 1:27:45

Yeah , they are which is absolutely crazy to me . And then I looked at history of , like other other people don't get me wrong there's a lot of men who have inherited as

Is Privilege Earned or Inherited?

Speaker 1 1:27:53

well . But , like , when you look through it , it was a guy somewhere that started something and then obviously it got passed down to like generations on it because what's the question again can you inherit ?

Speaker 5 1:28:03

inherit . Is privilege earned or is it inherited ?

Speaker 1 1:28:08

because can you even earn privilege no you can't because I know , because if you get what's the definition , I don't think you can I think it's like maybe money , like privilege , because you can walk in , I feel like you can uh , and I still privilege is something that you didn't earn . I mean , if you've not got a privilege to that .

Speaker 5 1:28:26

That's not yours , that's not your privilege , something like that you can pay for privilege though Oxford Dictionary , a special right , advantage or immunity granted or available only to a particular person or group okay , so that's a good person , yeah stature money yeah , I believe , I do believe you can uh , you can earn it yeah , you can't on that . If you want to , like I said , there's layers yeah , there is different layers yeah , can I say this , prince andrew ?

Speaker 1 1:28:59

yeah , yeah , no , you know what ? You can't earn it . I'm thinking about it because if you're say like you're not a celebrity , but then you become a celebrity you'll start getting free shit and fit so yeah yeah so you definitely can earn it yeah thinking about it most of it is inherited , more yeah yeah , it's

Speaker 5 1:29:19

definitely inherited .

Speaker 3 1:29:20

More has social media done , more harm than good oh yes , it's done , it's destroyed oh yeah , I think it's crazy like a lot of people have killed themselves and all that on social media , and I just don't think that that would have happened years ago . What like people killing themselves over social media ?

Speaker 4 1:29:38

yes , it's crazy social media needs to fuck off joking .

Speaker 2 1:29:50

I think everyone should just have a break there should be some annual holiday every year of a social media break for the new generation to actually like maybe like when it first came out the way it was then I think big as it is now .

Speaker 1 1:30:03

I think that what's happened is that all these problems that social media is highlighting , they were always there , but what social media has done is just brought it to life . Fuel on it .

Speaker 2 1:30:12

They've just put fuel on it no , but something social media has created , yeah , exactly like people .

Speaker 3 1:30:17

like people bullying people and stuff like that . That's like that's like miles away , no , but like people that's like half countries away from you would never be able to believe it's become too personal .

Speaker 4 1:30:28

You didn't have an MSN did you ? You didn't have Messenger , did you ?

Speaker 3 1:30:32

Yeah , I had Messenger , I had BBM .

Speaker 1 1:30:34

But this is what I'm saying , like bullying was always there you can put it on in another country , but all the like , I'd like to hear what you think it's just accessibility , I feel like I think it's just too accessible now .

Speaker 2 1:30:46

I feel like that's the , I think .

Speaker 1 1:30:48

I need more . I need what do you mean ?

Speaker 2 1:30:51

Dating and things like that . I don't know . I just feel like I feel accessible for the kids to access sorry , the parent lucks aren't good enough . Parental advisory guidance thing . I just don't know . I feel like it's too infiltrated . Like you know , my niece and nephew want to play Roblox but , like you know , you get this advert that comes up .

Speaker 5 1:31:10

That's weird and I'm like all right , listen , no child to play Roblox .

Speaker 2 1:31:23

There's a and like OnlyFans , girls will go on there and all sorts . Yeah , yeah , yeah . Thanks because I was going to watch this and you're going to send it over to this part .

Speaker 5 1:31:27

They love it . So there's layers to Roblox . It's basically like a server and then you can do roleplay on there . So people go in there and start roleplaying certain significant things . It's something that you should really investigate properly .

Speaker 2 1:31:42

Thanks for that , roblox is .

Speaker 3 1:31:44

Dead . It's bad . Nah , it's really bad . It's really bad Because Kim K's sex tape was on it . Oh shoot , it was good . Wait , what is this ?

Speaker 2 1:31:53

I've heard of it yeah .

Speaker 3 1:31:54

On an episode , the game . It's basically like Minecraft . Yeah , yeah .

Speaker 4 1:31:59

So how is the sex tape on there ? I don't You've got creators that can just make something Basically you make a cinema .

Speaker 5 1:32:04

You can build a cinema on Roblox and you can play whatever you want if you know how to do that . And people are now doing that , where they build a house and they make a haram and all that kind of stuff and they start dating and blah , blah blah .

Speaker 2 1:32:16

But that's what I mean about social got too big it's too much .

Speaker 3 1:32:20

Like kids , like nowadays , like kids don't even go out and play . They won't go and play , but there's they're just playing that ipad or playing their phone , like master , you know , because he picks up his phone and literally plays with it . Like phones people , facetimes , people and everything . I'm like that's mad . Yeah , you know what I mean . Like you know , it's really funny how it works .

Speaker 3 1:32:36

It's definitely made people more self-conscious yeah it's made people um image conscious as well and constantly , always checking your phone and always checking to see what's going on and whatever else . Like people kind of just stay in the world .

Speaker 4 1:32:48

Yeah , we was never so plugged in . Now we're up to minute , day to day .

Speaker 1 1:32:53

It's definitely making people grow up faster and stuff like that . Yeah , like kids definitely .

Speaker 3 1:32:57

Because kids can see like stuff from a young age and then like grow up so much faster and then start doing stuff like faster . I never heard the bullying in primary school ever , until social media and now , like wins in primary school , are bullying each other it's like just wasn't as bad , but I think that bullying's always been there yeah , I believe , but never done like I was for . Like see high school .

Speaker 4 1:33:19

I just see the 10 year olds . The 10 year olds of today were not the 10 year olds of us at age 10 .

Speaker 3 1:33:26

I think bullying's always been for me . When I was in primary school I never seen anybody get bullied . High school yeah , that's like a big thing it was . When you go into high school you're going like there's a chance that you're going to get bullied With primary school . I've never seen that . Now I see it lot like a lot . It's really bad it depends what you'd say .

Speaker 1 1:33:44

Bullying is , though , in it , because there's always been like name calling and yeah , like that . You know , I mean , yeah , maybe it's just worse now .

Speaker 3 1:33:49

Yeah definitely because kids know , kids know a lot more now , yeah , yeah wait .

Speaker 1 1:33:55

Sometimes I see some stuff I'm like why would like , why would you even want to do that ? Because watch it like this . This is like slightly unrelated . Yeah , is it on . Watch like avatar 2 yeah , no , the way it's like the hangman , the blue guy no , I haven't watched that one , sorry , sorry basically in there .

Speaker 1 1:34:16

Yeah , the kids are like being horrible to each other . Yeah , yeah , but do you know what ? And there's a tie , there's a bit , yeah , where he takes um the kid he don't like like deep out into the ocean and there's like sharks and stuff there . And I'm saying it , yeah , I'm just like that is a little bit how I did , a bit like they'll go too far , to the extent where someone can actually get killed and they just think it's a joke yeah why would you even yeah ?

Speaker 2 1:34:40

why would ?

Speaker 1 1:34:40

you even think about that . You know what I'm gonna say . Like once they're dead , they're dead . Like I don't I don't think you're deep in the consequences of what you're doing and the kind of bullying that you're doing I'm gonna say yeah , but that was a weird example , but it's because I watched it recently and I'm saying , yeah , well , yeah , that's where my brain went that's crazy .

Speaker 5 1:35:07

The way of the water , um good deal . One last question . This is this is this is crazy , um that's Mimi's question , isn't it ?

Speaker 2 1:35:16

yeah , yeah is it ?

Speaker 5 1:35:19

it's broke . People shouldn't reproduce . It's selfish , and baby moms need to take responsibility for their actions . What do you think about that ?

Speaker 1 1:35:31

Big old truth bomb there dropped .

Speaker 2 1:35:33

Well , I don't know , because you're not really broke . If you get child tax , benefit and income tax , it's very low , but if you compared it to american , you don't get nothing . I know , you know what I'm saying .

Speaker 1 1:35:48

Like yeah , do you know what ? That's some truth there . Oh , I just come back from the dominican and if you're broke , you're broke , you're broke . You know what I'm saying listen , it's actually mate . I've seen a guy here . He's lost an arm and a leg , yeah , and like he's hopping getting , I'm thinking to myself like , at least , like I'm not a man like Pablo . But why I'm saying it yeah is because , like , at least in the UK you might get a wheelchair . Yeah , yeah , yeah , it's got like it's nothing no wheelchair , just huddling .

Speaker 2 1:36:24

Just just yo , I gotta get this somehow .

Speaker 1 1:36:25

No , I'm not hse without you , man , and it's not even a guarantee , even kids , like if you've lost your parents , you're on the street , yeah , literally , I gave so much pesos out there , but yeah , the . Way I see it . Yeah , it's like them .

Speaker 4 1:36:36

Kids got parents , you got food , but they're . They took that straight home to mum and dad .

Speaker 1 1:36:40

Look , how much ?

Speaker 4 1:36:41

money I made today .

Speaker 1 1:36:42

Nah , I'm telling you these kids were orphans they don't have parents because I know one of them . I know the story . I think his parents died during Covid .

Speaker 2 1:36:54

I don't know .

Speaker 1 1:36:56

I don't know , but I just don't see there's not a lot of kids begging , so I just wouldn't see why these lot are the only ones . If it was a thing where you can make a lot of money , they all would be doing it . I'm saying , but this is the thing different , I'll tell you the difference . To the uk and them , though , at least they will try and work for the money . Though , yeah , they'll clean your shoes they'll . I didn't make them do , I just gave them the money anyway . But like , at least they will try .

Speaker 1 1:37:20

They'll try to offer a service , something yeah selling sweets , or like they'll do something to make the money . Like yeah , yeah , you know , but I suppose if you broke over there , you broken it here it's different yeah , you get a bit of help you get a bit of help .

Speaker 2 1:37:33

Man , you get a start start something .

Speaker 1 1:37:35

Yeah , even being an orphan in this country is actually terrible as well . I know it's actually shocking .

Speaker 2 1:37:40

I think the part that's the worst . So you're going to say something .

Speaker 3 1:37:42

I just think if you want to have wins or kids should be in a right , stable mind to have them yeah .

Speaker 1 1:37:50

I believe you should have to have a credit check . To be honest , a credit check I think you should have to do like some kind of affordability checker or some shit .

Speaker 3 1:37:58

I do understand , because my mum had me when she was 16 and then had my wee bra when she was 18 . So my mum had two kids by the age of 18 . And obviously because then she was young , she struggled . But once we got older and she was older when we were at school and stuff like that she was able to go to work and she gave us everything . Now she works like fuck all the time . Do you know what I mean ?

Speaker 4 1:38:21

So what you've just proved there ?

Speaker 1 1:38:27

that out . She walks like fuck all the time . Do you know what I mean ? So what you've just proved there that you don't actually need finances . Yeah , up to children , do you ? Yeah , exactly the bit of truth that I would say is that I don't . I don't think it's as expensive as some people make out . It's just that they want to live a certain lifestyle . Yeah , you can do it with less money , but people want to be in the big house and then yeah , you can't do it , but I do also think that there is people that you can't afford kids .

Speaker 1 1:38:49

Yeah , I'm going to say like and if ?

Speaker 3 1:38:50

you never had the government paying that little , you'd be finished . Yeah , I see , because I've seen like both ways of life , like I just think I would wait until I have everything like that I want , like driving house , good business , whatever else , until I have kids . But then if you're put in that situation and yet you you fall pregnant at that young age and you don't want to go and have an abortion , and you like are going to face the consequences of what you've done , you know I mean , then you're being more an adult in that situation than being broke and having a win .

Speaker 1 1:39:19

You know I mean yeah , I think that baby moms are ruining society . To be honest with you , yeah , like I feel like .

Speaker 3 1:39:26

No , it's just like you

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Speaker 3 1:39:27

pop it away and like basically just even with boys . But sometimes I feel like women , like they can try and like get you pregnant , to get you trapped , and then same with women , like a lot of women are just popping out babies so they can trap a man . It's like what the fuck is going on . And there was a difference there .

Speaker 4 1:39:42

It used to be the other way around yeah do you want me to explain why ?

Speaker 1 1:39:46

yes , please . This is why I think baby moms are ruining society . Now don't get me wrong . I don't completely admit the men from the responsibility , but the way I look at it is this we haven't been in a safe place for a while . Yeah , it's scary . I think we need a safe space . There's two ways to why I think they're ruining society now .

Speaker 1 1:40:09

The first side the reason why I don't put as much emphasis on the men is because , look at it like this , I've noticed I've got to explain certain things in a certain way so that people understand what I'm trying to say . So if I open a business , if I started a business right , so say me . And you started a business , I have funded 90 , 95 of the business and you've funded five percent of the business . Who do you think is going to be more cautious if we're making a big financial decision with the business , right ? So the reason I'm saying that is because you , like women , have more to lose when having sex . You should be the more cautious one . We have less to lose , right , and we can bounce . So you've got a lot to lose . So you should be the more cautious one making sure people are using condoms and all this stuff which a lot of people don't do that .

Speaker 2 1:40:57

I think I missed the question .

Speaker 1 1:40:58

We should be more cautious because you've got more to lose if , if you get pregnant .

Speaker 3 1:41:03

If you get pregnant , then you should be there .

Speaker 4 1:41:08

Wait a minute .

Speaker 3 1:41:09

I'm above 100% .

Speaker 4 1:41:10

You put your own 100% , that'd be 10% .

Speaker 1 1:41:13

So let me go again . We're equals . So the thing is , I'll put 95% of finances into the business . You've only put 5% , yeah yeah . So what I'm saying is isn't ?

Speaker 2 1:41:20

it , you've only put 5% , yeah , yeah .

Speaker 1 1:41:21

So what I'm saying is because I've put 95 , I've got more to lose , so I'm going to be more cautious .

Speaker 2 1:41:26

Yeah , you'll be more cautious . Yeah , yeah .

Speaker 1 1:41:28

So that's the same with sex ? Yeah , okay , because you've got more to lose . You should be the more cautious one .

Speaker 3 1:41:34

No .

Speaker 1 1:41:34

Yeah , yes , kind of a responsibility as well . Barely but the womb and let's be honest , you lot are the ones who decide you have sex as well . So you have that power .

Speaker 3 1:41:48

Yeah , but I think if you're having sex , then a man should ask you if you're on contraception or if not , then like a condom , yeah , but it can fail If he doesn't want to have a win .

Speaker 4 1:41:58

No , I don't think again . That's not his job .

Speaker 3 1:42:01

No , you are not taking , but if he doesn't want to have a wean , then that's his job .

Speaker 4 1:42:06

No , ma'am , you are not taking accountability for what grows in between your legs . No .

Speaker 3 1:42:12

I'm taking accountability . I would take every accountability . If a guy didn't want anything to do , I would still take accountability because that's my wean and I've done that . I've lay there and spread my legs and opened them and I'm dealing with that responsibility of that . Do you know what I mean ? But like it's like a man is doing the same thing .

Speaker 2 1:42:29

So if you don't want a man , then you shouldn't be doing it so is that why you reckon we have more baby mums than baby fathers ?

Speaker 1 1:42:35

is that why ?

Speaker 2 1:42:35

you reckon we have more baby mums than baby fathers ? Because we , we decide to do what we want to do rather than Do you know what I mean ?

Speaker 1 1:42:43

So let me add on to it as well . Let me add on to it as well Not only you've got more to lose , you have all the power in that decision also . So if you have all the power , you have more of the responsibility . I can't decide whether the baby's born or not . The woman decides that .

Speaker 3 1:42:59

I know , but it's like at the start start you should already both let's make it clear he's the one I mean , so that shouldn't happen .

Speaker 1 1:43:07

I understand , but as the man . So I'm talking about in instances where , like you know , he was on contraception and he failed . That happens a lot , yeah , but as a man the man just wanted to have sex . He didn't want a child aye , but neither did she . If she's unconscious well , she decides whether it lives or dies . That's what I'm saying .

Speaker 3 1:43:27

I know . But I just think if you're big enough to deal , you're big enough to deal with the responsibilities that come with it . Unless it's like anything that's happened , like in that instance , then I'm just going to finish with this , then I think you should wrap it up with the last yeah .

Speaker 4 1:43:43

Yeah , sorry , I think you should wrap it up with the last sentiment . I just wanted to use wrap up as a word .

Speaker 1 1:43:50

No , I was just going to say yeah , I was just going to say Sorry , wrap up words coming from the back end , the reason I talk like this is because this is the advice that I would give if I had a daughter .

Speaker 1 1:44:00

I would give if I had a daughter . I would say listen , if you don't see this person as a provider who's going to look after you , should you do for pregnant ? I don't think you should have been sex anyway , but if you are , if that goes wrong , is this guy going to stick around ? And for the baby moms , like you kind of knew deep down .

Speaker 3 1:44:19

No , I don't know what you're saying Like . You need to think it through .

Speaker 2 1:44:27

But down no , I know what you're saying .

Speaker 1 1:44:28

like you need to think it you need to think it through , but a lot of daughters haven't got fathers to give them the direction .

Speaker 2 1:44:31

So that's true , that's why baby moms are ruining society . So I want to lead up to it .

Speaker 1 1:44:35

So that's how I'm going to finish . This is why I'm saying they're ruining society , because it's a circle , and I'll tell you why I get what you're saying I understand what you're saying , but then I think it's just let me just explain . To have a functioning society with good leadership , you need men . Yeah right , and the only way you can but you need a woman to reproduce .

Speaker 3 1:44:55

You're not going to have anyone , yeah , of course , but let me get there .

Speaker 1 1:44:59

So you need men to lead society , right , yes , you do . Well , you can get into that debate now , but you need men to lead society and the only way you can grow up a man is with another man . Women cannot grow a man up . You will grow up a boy .

Speaker 1 1:45:13

You won't grow up a man that's true and because the baby moms are growing up boys , the boys are the ones that are getting into the power and now it's boys running the ship and that's why everything's going to shit . Yeah , you need men to run society , competent masculine leadership . Men you do . Women can't lead stuff because you're emotional and you don't . You make decisions . But I'm not sure that's quite , but that's you I could run stuff that's you .

Speaker 2 1:45:39

Technically . Men are emotional too , especially if they're born in the 2000 era , because two holes feminine energy in numerology .

Speaker 1 1:45:46

Why are they feminine ? Yeah , just saying why are they feminine in ?

Speaker 2 1:45:49

2021 , in anyone that's born in 2000 and over you , you hold a feminine energy because do you think there's more masculine men now , or was there more masculine ? Men in 1995 way more masculine men in the 19 why why ? A hundred times why .

Speaker 3 1:46:05

Because the cheap men better , no woman better .

Speaker 2 1:46:08

I think just society was just a lot different back then . Why ?

Speaker 1 1:46:11

Who was running shit ?

Speaker 2 1:46:13

Massively . Who run the world ? Guys , who run the world ?

Speaker 1 1:46:17

guys .

Speaker 4 1:46:17

This is the thing .

Speaker 1 1:46:19

This is the thing . I'm not even holding it against women .

Speaker 2 1:46:22

You did it's impossible you are by saying baby moms are ruined , yeah , society .

Speaker 1 1:46:26

When I say when I say holding it against you , I'm I mean it in a way of um like I'm not saying you shouldn't be emotional , there's no way for you not to be yeah , we're meant to be different because you're emotional because of the hormones which it takes to create a child .

Speaker 1 1:46:39

So there's no , you have to be emotional . So I'm not even holding that against you . But what I say is so you know us as guys , we already know , like some , we know there's a certain period of time of of of the month where we're gonna allow you because we understand , we understand right . The point I'm trying to make is I'm not even holding it against you , I'm just saying yeah , a lot . I think that the emphasis that people think now that you can be a boy mum , you can't be a boy mum , you can't grow a man up . You need men around you to grow up that guy and they will be the future of the leaders . And if they're all boys , the leadership's going to be fucked , which it is fucked . That's why everyone's out Got no anger management Out chinging Out signing this wasn , got no anger management out chinging out saying this wasn't going on . It's got worse because the discipline and the leadership is not there , no more we all know .

Speaker 3 1:47:28

We all know that women it's not just about women , because obviously if that leadership is not there , then why is that guy not there to give that leadership ? Then ?

Speaker 2 1:47:36

I said that though and I think we're past the baby mums now , because the whole society's changed so much . You don't ? Even have to be a one-parent household . You can be , the household can look funky these days . You know what I mean . Maybe it can just look funky , oh yeah . Okay , I hear what you're saying . That's the minority , though that's the minority .

Speaker 3 1:47:54

I'm talking about the , the , the there's a lot more fun functioning family .

Speaker 1 1:47:58

Yeah , like an almost the , the , the nuclear family . Yes , that's not there , no more . It's disappearing . Yeah , definitely , as everything is disappearing , and the reason I know that , yeah , is because you know I grew up with a single mum . Yeah , and there's nothing against . What are you kicking me for what ? We're trying to wrap it up . What was I kicking you for ? I'm going to get into it then . Basically , that's the reason I think they're really excited . Boys are already shit and there's no discipline and there's no yeah .

Speaker 3 1:48:27

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Speaker 1 1:48:29

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Speaker 2 1:48:35

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Speaker 3 1:48:56

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