Can you sell N*des and still claim to be a Christian? | CC EP 167

Can someone really claim Christianity while selling n*des on OnlyFans? In this fiery exchange, the panel exposes the contradiction of women posting Bible verses in their bios while sending explicit content in DMs. Is this freedom of faith in the modern world, or blatant hypocrisy that mocks religion? Some argue that faith is personal and everyone falls short, while others insist that mixing scripture with sex work is proof of how far culture has fallen. The debate hits on morals, money, and whether anything sacred still exists in the digital age.

The episode doesn’t stop there. The panel also dives head-on into the world of stereotypes asking whether the most offensive generalizations actually come from a place of truth. From the blunt claim that “Indians stink” to other cultural labels people whisper but rarely admit publicly, the discussion challenges whether stereotypes should always be dismissed as prejudice, or whether some of them reflect patterns people don’t want to acknowledge. The clash between honesty and offense pushes the debate into raw, uncomfortable territory.

At its core, this episode is about double standards and contradictions. Whether it’s women quoting scripture while selling n*des, or communities denying stereotypes that might carry a grain of truth, the conversation forces viewers to confront hypocrisy in all its forms. Are we living in an age where anything goes, no matter the contradictions? Or is it time to bring back accountability, honesty, and consistency in faith, culture, and identity?

Transcript

Cold Open: Faith, Sex, and Hypocrisy

SPEAKER_01 0:00

They make movies and you see Jesus being gay. They don't do that with Muhammad. White girls shouldn't wear braids on it. I don't see a problem with it. Black girls wear wigs.

SPEAKER_02 0:08

Can you men learn to handle your rejection better?

SPEAKER_01 0:10

Like if a girl says no, just leave him. Every guy a woman sleeps with, parts of his DNA stays with her for life.

SPEAKER_10 0:17

No wonder I'm retarded.

SPEAKER_01 0:19

I don't think men should cheat. I think it's being a coward and you show the girl that you're scared of her in a way. Just tell her straight up. I'm not gonna just fuck you. Sometimes they'll be talking too much. And I'm like, yo, chill.

unknown 0:30

Shh.

SPEAKER_01 0:30

Be quiet. And then I'll say, yo, shut the fuck up. And then suicide for men is very, very high. You need to stop listening to women. When you listen to women and you let them lead, women lead you to hell. I think racism can make relationships stronger. I got an Indian friend, and sometimes I say to him, bro, you sting. You think you mother f you man sting, man?

SPEAKER_07 0:49

I don't get that.

SPEAKER_05 0:55

I'm Christian, I believe in that. Yeah. Imagine walking up to him and you know, you've done OnlyFans for most of your life, and he's looking at you, and you're like, Lord, I I wanna I wanna go on to the next, to the holy land, I want to go onto the plane. And he's just got this look on his face. And you know what I mean? He's not serious, he's just like, Are you serious? Like, what? I do you know the blasphemies that you have committed in one day, let alone through your life. Like, that's crazy for me. You can't you can't try and hide your your um your questionable past. I was gonna say something worse, but let's keep it PC. Your questionable past by just saying all of a sudden, I believe in the Lord, it don't work like that. It puts, I think that takes the mick out of the real people that believe in in their in their faith, basically, because you're just trying to use it now as a cover. You get it?

SPEAKER_06 1:46

Yeah, but I'm gonna be honest though, the Christians fall for that the most. No, of course. Muslims don't really know because accept you in. We'll accept you in, but you gotta prove for a little bit.

SPEAKER_05 1:55

Because Christian um faith is very much, you know, forgiven, you know. We we forgive you, you know. God loves everybody, you know. Uh that's the problem.

SPEAKER_01 2:04

Everybody and all of them. That's the problem, bro. I think Christians now, a lot of them, not all, but they're they're too weak. Yeah, very weak. They're quick to just say, oh, forgive, and then and I'm like, bruv, yeah, forgive. But don't forget. This is a problem. Every bad thing someone says or does it just forgive, forgive, forgive. This is why now they make movies or TV series, and you see Jesus being gay and shit like that. Mad things. Or people taking the piss out of Jesus, and everybody's just like cool. Like, we're they don't do that with Muhammad.

SPEAKER_06 2:36

Nah, nah, they're not cool, they're not cool, but they just won't do, they won't turn up like the Muslims will.

SPEAKER_05 2:40

Basically, that's that's it. You know what the problem is?

SPEAKER_07 2:46

Try, try, try, try, try, make a move about Muhammad. So I'm not sure.

SPEAKER_05 2:49

I'm trying to, I'm trying to see more protest about that though. This is what I mean. I feel like because of because of the the relaxed state of it, we just let everything go. And this is what I mean for for somebody to be at the pinnacle of their OnlyFans career. I mean at the top of the top, one of the the top percenters, yeah. For you to do I'm not saying that you can't change who you are and you can't try and make better, but don't you ever in your life come and preach to me the gospel words after you've been using that mouth for other things, yeah? Because that's been proactively doing different things. Now, big man thing, but I'm gonna say it to you on a level, bruh. Yeah, don't ever, I don't look into the camera to ever come and think you could preach to me the gospel words of the Lord after you've been doing proactive things with that mouth.

SPEAKER_06 3:35

Nah, but you know what though? Never it the women are not supposed to preach. It says in the Bible they're not they're not supposed to preach anyway. That's very true. So you're not meant to have the certain life.

SPEAKER_05 3:44

So wait, so wait there. When they when they put what's the what's the main one on Instagram when they put it in their bio? Yeah, psalms and all that.

SPEAKER_06 3:50

Oh my gosh, you might have seen that as well. Yeah, yeah. What's the main bro? I forgot how it is, bro. Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_01 3:55

It's that it's that I know what you're talking about. It's that uh God is within her, she will not fall or such a lot of things.

SPEAKER_06 4:00

Oh no, oh no, no, no, no. Only judge God can judge me. That one, that's that's like one of the most famous man. Like there's the I've seen psalms and I've seen literally literal ass, bro.

SPEAKER_01 4:10

Mixed to it, literally in the pinned photo, bro. They're Snapchat public profile. They have this psalms verse that says God is within her, she will not fail, or something.

SPEAKER_05 4:18

Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_01 4:19

I look at the cover photo and her tits are all crazy, it's like her and her friends all showing their ass off in their bikini.

SPEAKER_06 4:26

But yeah, if that if there aren't only fans, there's a reason why, though, you know. Because it's like a there's like a these one OnlyFans girls.

SPEAKER_01 4:32

They like to support.

SPEAKER_05 4:33

Yeah, these are normal girls. So I mean it doesn't even mean it's not it's not just only's, you know.

SPEAKER_06 4:37

But anyways, listen, we're gonna get into it. Welcome back to the counts of culture. Yeah, today. Listen, I actually had some stuff to talk about today. You know what I mean? Like we've had a few, we've had a few controversial clips right over the last week. Oh, you're gonna touch on those, yeah. Yeah, I'm gonna touch on them because you know it's been a little bit, and people have

Braids, Wigs, and Cultural Lines

SPEAKER_06 4:56

been at me, they've been coming at me. Shaky. Right, I they don't know it's me, but they've been coming at counts of culture, you know what I mean? But the most recent one in the last show, I was talking about stereotypes, right? You know, and then they didn't like that. Welcome, because people think it's racist. Now, me personally, I'm gonna get the guests here to um tell me what they think, but for me, in my opinion, stereotype is there's elements of truth to it, right? And for me, I think that if you can stereotype someone, I think you actually are quite intelligent because what you're doing is recognizing patterns. But I'll see what you like. I actually want to go straight to you because I went on your YouTube channel, you're talking about stereotypes, right? Um, what do you think about stereotypes?

SPEAKER_01 5:35

I think uh stereotypes exist for a reason. The reason why is because to some degree they are true. In some cases, they are exaggerated, but most of the time they are true. However, people like to disguise it as oh you're racist. Like, fuck off, bruv. It's all it's all bullshit, like they exist for a reason. Yeah, and I think when people learn to understand that and take accountability, that's when you can see different things happening. Yeah, of course. But that's my stance on stereotypes. What about what you what about you?

SPEAKER_02 6:11

Bullshit, isn't it?

SPEAKER_06 6:12

What you don't believe that they exist or no, I feel like they do. Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 6:16

But yeah, I don't really know where I stand on stereotypes, because I probably am one. Do you know what I mean?

SPEAKER_06 6:23

Why are you I wanna know why why are you stereotypes?

SPEAKER_02 6:26

I don't even know. I just know that someone out there would be like, yeah, she's a stereotypical white girl.

SPEAKER_07 6:31

Like, I mean, red hair is that stereotypical? I don't know. Not sure.

SPEAKER_02 6:36

Maybe I'm outside the box.

SPEAKER_10 6:38

How about you? Um well they're they're there for a reason, aren't they? They've stuck around for that long. They're clearly, I think. Um everyone stereotypes everyone.

SPEAKER_06 6:48

Yeah, I know it's it's people try to pretend that they don't.

SPEAKER_10 6:50

No, they do, and you just gotta own it. Oh yeah.

SPEAKER_05 6:53

You know what? I I I feel like uh being a stereotype and being judgmental are in the same lane. I think to stereotype someone is actually just judging somebody. You're you're making a yeah, you don't actually know someone, you're just making a sput judgment on that person. Now, I feel like good judgment is what carries us through life anyway. You judging the person next to you is what sometimes keeps you a you know walking through the day or stop you getting into trouble with the wrong person or making the wrong decision at work or good judgment. You know what I mean? So I I feel like there when you say stereotype, I feel like it's a it's just a hidden way of saying I'm judging you blatantly, I'm looking at you and I'm judging you for your characteristics or how you're acting or the way you're moving. Be honest about it.

SPEAKER_10 7:39

I don't think it's a bad thing, though. Like I think it's just the way that you do it, it's the way that you carry it and the way that you do it, or the way that you say things. I think if you're mindful of someone else, be judgmental, be stereotypical.

SPEAKER_06 7:50

Yeah, well, how can you? I don't know, how would you even say it in a positive way though? That stereotypes for some white stereotypes, right? Go on, don't season their food, can't dance.

SPEAKER_10 8:00

Hey, uh I'm just I can't I don't season my food, but I can dance.

SPEAKER_06 8:04

But this is the thing, and this is the thing, like there's gonna be people that it doesn't. I mean it was a whole movie, but do you you don't season your food?

SPEAKER_02 8:10

No, no, but there you go. Yeah, not really. Should we go? I haven't heard that in a very long time.

SPEAKER_06 8:18

So uh do

Show Start: Why Stereotypes Stick

SPEAKER_06 8:19

you season your chicken?

SPEAKER_02 8:20

Of course I do.

SPEAKER_06 8:20

Did he season the chicken? Yeah, but you're kind of seasoned, but do you know what it is?

SPEAKER_10 8:24

I buy my food already seasoned, like I don't season it.

SPEAKER_05 8:28

Oh no, don't do that.

SPEAKER_10 8:29

I just buy it. Don't do that. That's the worst friend.

SPEAKER_05 8:32

Also, yeah, that's another one. No, that's the worst type of meat. That's the worst type of meat to get, you know. Because what they do is the older meat that's like going off in the store, what they do is then they season it up and then put it back on the on for sale. But then obviously they seasoned up now, you don't smell it. That amusement give build, yeah. No, trust me. Yo, come for me, come for me, supermarket. This is like I told the truth. Come for me.

SPEAKER_06 8:57

Um yeah, but that's another stereotype that white people can't cook. Is that true?

SPEAKER_10 9:02

Well, I think there's probably more white chefs than there are any other like famous chefs. Alright, it's more like white women, I guess. Yeah, but we've been through this. The white men, white men are the best chefs.

SPEAKER_02 9:16

Oh, I don't know about that one, you know. I'm not sure about that either. The only white men I've dealt with is turkey dinosaurs.

unknown 9:24

Okay.

SPEAKER_06 9:24

Put that in.

SPEAKER_02 9:25

But any other cultures I've been with, banging. No, no, no. But so like turkey dinosaurs to like turkey dinosaurs is the only meal I've got with the white men. I love a turkey dinosaur, I'm not complaining. Give me the turkey dinosaurs every day of the week, but at the same time, I feel like you want some jet chicken sometimes.

SPEAKER_06 9:41

You want some jerk, you know?

SPEAKER_02 9:42

I need some spice in my life.

SPEAKER_06 9:44

So is your like is your chicken just like pale and that then?

SPEAKER_10 9:47

Like, no, I just buy it as it comes. You can get you can get like the pre-season in it.

SPEAKER_06 9:52

Oh, okay. Oh, yeah.

SPEAKER_10 9:53

Like the chicken bones.

SPEAKER_05 9:55

Yeah, yeah, yeah. So you never no, no, no, hold on. So you never have the season chicken, like not even a salt of pepper, just straight, just you buy it as it comes.

SPEAKER_10 10:03

No, I do sometimes, but I'd rather buy it as it comes. Okay. Okay. I'm just lazy.

SPEAKER_05 10:08

That's that's that is really lazy. I'm gonna lie to you. That's that's not the pinnacle that is.

SPEAKER_04 10:13

Not even a salt, a little, not even a white pepper.

SPEAKER_06 10:16

I swear the last time you came on the show, like you was in like a relationship. Wow, you're like you said you was in a long relationship, right?

SPEAKER_10 10:21

No, I haven't been in a relationship.

SPEAKER_06 10:23

No, no, before the show, yeah, yeah, yeah. So you you never seasoned any chicken then, no?

SPEAKER_10 10:26

No, because he cooked.

SPEAKER_06 10:28

Oh, he done the cooking, yeah. That makes sense. Okay, I think I said last time, I think that's probably why it's simple to be fair. I mean, it lasted a while, but yeah, then boy was hungry. She had it, she had another talent about it.

SPEAKER_05 10:41

He came home and it was hind suited.

SPEAKER_06 10:44

We're all talking about the other talent she was talking about.

SPEAKER_05 10:46

Yeah, like stereotype.

SPEAKER_06 10:49

Like, because me, I'm gonna be honest. I I'm I I do judge people, and I think it's an intelligent thing to do because I can kind of you can kind of work out what this person's gonna do. I could be wrong, and I'm happy to you know be proven wrong, but you know, if you're black, I'm gonna assume you're gonna be late. You might not be late, you might be early and all on time 80% of the time. They are late, though. I'm just gonna put it out.

SPEAKER_02 11:10

Why is that a thing? Could someone explain that to you?

SPEAKER_06 11:12

Black man's I means because I I actually don't know, it just is. I I personally went out of my way to make sure that I I wasn't that stereotype, but yeah, it's a stereotype. I mean BK is late every week.

SPEAKER_02 11:22

I mean, I'm bad with my puncts right now. You know what it is?

SPEAKER_05 11:24

I'll be honest, I think it's just organizational. I feel like we you know, for speaking on my own, my own laurels, we sometimes leave things to the last minute that aren't directly imperative. So it's like, you know, every last minute there's something to do. You remember shit, like I do that. I do that before.

SPEAKER_02 11:43

Before I leave the house, I gotta do that one little time.

SPEAKER_05 11:48

And then it's like, ah, that's eating 10 minutes into my travel time. And another thing we do is underestimate traffic.

SPEAKER_02 11:53

I do that all the time.

SPEAKER_05 11:55

That's true. I do that. We underestimate traffic. We in our heads, because I know everyone does it, you sit when you know where you're going, you paint a picture in your mind of your route, and then it's clear and you say to yourself, This is how long it takes me on a clear day. You forget that there's a whole heap of traffic outside. Now I could do that at nine o'clock in the morning when traffic's building, like, oh yeah, it takes me 10 minutes to get to work. But in traffic times, that's like half an hour, 45 minutes, no. So I feel like we do probably underestimate traffic more where um the Caucasians tend to um organize themselves a bit better. You know, they may look in the map the night before, make sure the travel times are the right trip traffic.

SPEAKER_02 12:35

Did you know that Apple Maps has now got a new feature where you can change the time of your travel? Yeah, yeah, yeah. That is saved me so many times. What? You can go on the thing on your maps, and then it says leave now. If you click on that and put the time that you want to leave on which day, because there's a little calendar and everything. Yeah, you pick the day that you want to leave and the time you want to leave, and it says estimated on that sort of time of that day.

SPEAKER_05 12:55

So hold on, hold on. Can we just because you've just turned this into a madness? So you're gonna tell me that Apple have just come out with this. This just and just about for all of my Samsung Real Android people out there. So you've got one of them for the decades that we have had this capability in our phone. I I applaud you because that's ridiculous. This is another reason why I would never touch that Apple device, it's terrible.

SPEAKER_02 13:16

Sorry, I genuinely just feel like I saved you day, and I'll just yeah, you plummeted it.

SPEAKER_05 13:20

You plummeted it. So now there's no excuse.

unknown 13:22

No excuse.

SPEAKER_06 13:23

I mean, like for me, like it's true. Whatever been late, then the only stereotype that's definitely not true, and I just rebuke it all completely together is that black men cheat and Mitri Sky's

Judgement vs. Pattern Recognition

SPEAKER_06 13:35

cheat because we we don't do that. I rebuke that. Loyal? We are so loyal. We're loving it. We're not cheating. I rebuke that.

SPEAKER_02 13:44

I don't want it even. I want to rebuke you for saying that. Like, are you insane? No, we're loving the boy. We might be the most loving people in the world and absolutely fantastic. It's absolute bullshit.

SPEAKER_05 13:56

No, no, no, no. I feel like that's up to a stage. I feel like after a stage, the black man is one of the highest pinnacles of trustworthy men you could find out there, honestly.

SPEAKER_02 14:04

My blood's boiling.

SPEAKER_05 14:06

See, I didn't see this is maybe you just had bad experiences.

SPEAKER_01 14:10

Do you date black dudes? Yeah, you see Akanda knew just from the red hair, because that's a stereotype. Ah, or the women with red hair. I didn't think to date black dudes or mixed-race dudes. It's true.

SPEAKER_02 14:22

Is that actually a thing?

SPEAKER_01 14:23

And then when you get to me, if you go to Jamaica, you see loads of them. Yeah, loads of them, bro.

SPEAKER_05 14:29

But the fact is, and sometimes when you get to 50, you may get the short hair, you know, the short. I'm just saying it tends to be, it tends to be the the bob cut tends to be I like the black men.

SPEAKER_01 14:41

I don't know what it is. Some of them do the braids as well. On the braids?

SPEAKER_05 14:46

This one never. Yeah, yeah. I had another clip.

SPEAKER_06 14:47

That's what I'm saying.

SPEAKER_02 14:50

Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_06 14:50

I had another clip, right? Someone I made a clip and and it went viral because um Inks, Inks was saying that you know, um, people get judged for wearing braids and things like that, right? No, no, it weren't inks, it was that other girl forgot her name. Anyway, she's talking about braids and that it's it's that white girls shouldn't wear braids and it. I don't know. I don't I don't agree.

SPEAKER_05 15:10

Ninja, shot, ninja.

SPEAKER_06 15:11

I don't agree. I don't agree with that.

SPEAKER_01 15:13

I think when girls say that, wait, is she black? No, she's white. She's a bit crazy. Yeah, but she's spicy though, as well. She's bad guys. What does that mean? Oh, yeah, okay. So she said black meat, black girls. Whoops. Yeah, so white girls shouldn't wear braids. White girl, why?

SPEAKER_02 15:31

Because it's they're saying it's cultural approach appropriation. There we go.

SPEAKER_01 15:36

I don't see a problem with it. Neither do I. Black girls wear wigs. Oh, he said it. I date big. He fucking said it. I tell black women. Ginger J part two. No, no, no, I date black women, and sometimes when I'm chilling with them, they'll say the same shit, like, why white girl, you know, why is she wearing braids? Blah blah blah. And I say, You're wearing a fucking wig, bruv. It's not even your hair. I know, and this is the thing. Some Brazilian thing, some Indian thing, who knows, bruv? You're wearing her hair. Yeah. And then they go quiet. Yeah.

SPEAKER_06 16:04

And I'm like, no, but whenever I've asked about it, they've kind of like said, like, there's always this like hidden reason why. I've I've never actually figured it out. Like I say, why, like, why is it okay for them to not why is it not okay for them to have braids, but you're okay to wear basically European hair? Because that's that's what it is, right? And it's like they never actually give me an answer. One of the answers I've got is that they used to get bullied in school, which is fair, which is fair, trauma. I get it, fine, cool. But then it's still the same thing, no.

SPEAKER_02 16:33

Wasn't it something about like professionalism as well?

SPEAKER_06 16:35

Yeah, like in schools and stuff, they was just to ask people to change their hair, which is fair. That that that's fair. You think so? I could okay, when I hear that, I can understand why they might say that, but at the same time, it's still hypocritical, no matter how you spin it, like you can't say that. I think anyone should just wear whatever. Like, especially to a certain degree, especially sorry, especially black people ain't gonna lie. I'm gonna come for them because I think they're the most racist right now. I ain't gonna lie, I think that's true. Because, right, they can say right what they want really now. I know where you're going. If a white person says some some shit, yeah, it's you cancelled straight away. We ain't racist, but black people can say what they want.

SPEAKER_05 17:12

We ain't racist. White people have been able to say what they want for years.

SPEAKER_06 17:16

No, they haven't. Yeah, they have last 10 years, therefore not.

SPEAKER_05 17:18

Maybe oh the last 10 years, yeah. Uh the millions of years that we've been on the planet.

SPEAKER_06 17:23

Yeah, back in the day, but we're gonna stick in the future.

SPEAKER_05 17:25

The last 10 years we're allowed freedom of speech. Once upon a time, you would have got whooped for saying, Oh, no, Massa. What y'all about?

SPEAKER_01 17:31

I think racism can make relationships stronger.

SPEAKER_06 17:33

Correct, I agree.

SPEAKER_01 17:34

Me and my friends can be racist. The thing is, for real, we have a good time, we have a good laugh. But racism, yeah, it's we're all different fucking flavors. But it's also racism. I got an Indian friend, and sometimes I say to him, bro, you stink. You think motherfuckers, you man, stink, bro? Wow, yeah, but that's just that sometimes he'll say, Oh, you know,

Cooking, Punctuality, and Everyday Tropes

SPEAKER_01 17:55

you lot black people, yeah, you lot always smoking weed. So man, it's funny, yeah. Ain't that the truth? People who take it to heart too much, it's like live a little. Yeah, just live. You've been hypnotized by the system to just take everything personal and be a victim. If you keep being a victim, you're gonna live a miserable life. I I actually said that last week, though. Like we spoke about it.

SPEAKER_05 18:18

I ain't gonna lie, and this we had a friend, we had a friend that white white boy. Oh, yeah, shout him out. Man like Andrew, he knows who he is. You watch the show, you know who he is. He's proud, and he used to throw some words at man. I'm not gonna lie, but I'm not gonna repeat them right now because we're older and proper. But we used to throw words back. We had uh an Asian guy, um, Chris Bally shout him out. Next man, I'll shout out all the man them because it's true. In your friend group, racism never ever existed. I don't even know what that was.

SPEAKER_10 18:49

That's the thing, I wouldn't class that as racism. To me, racism is when someone gets offended.

SPEAKER_05 18:55

Well, if everyone gets offended, the problem is if if if you had what passed at the time that we was having this banter, you may get offended.

SPEAKER_06 19:03

Black who is my point though.

SPEAKER_05 19:04

What?

SPEAKER_06 19:05

Because you I know who you're talking about, and you had a friend called White Boy. Imagine, imagine, imagine if a white group had a had a friend called Black Boy, that would not run. Everyone knows it, it just would not run, and that's what I'm saying. No, no, no, no.

SPEAKER_05 19:18

It would in the group, it would in the group. That's my point. In the group, it wouldn't be a problem because that's you just be the black yo, that's you might take the name black boy. What did Pablo call his boy? Pablo had a black guy, and what was he called? Blackie?

SPEAKER_04 19:30

Blackie, famous as hell? What was his name? Blackie. Blackie was Pablo. There was his dog. Yeah, but Blackie was about to roll out.

SPEAKER_06 19:38

If they made a film about it, they'd be cancelled in 2025.

SPEAKER_05 19:40

Yeah, but he didn't care. My point is that this was always a thing, and in your friend group and in your close group, it didn't matter because Blackie didn't sit there and say, Oh, Pablo be racist to me.

SPEAKER_06 19:50

I think I think racism. Blackie was getting paid. I think racism is also just recognizing patterns as well, if I'm honest with you. Yeah, that's all it is. And it might not be true to that specific individual, but you can most things are generalized, like we generalise at everything, you know. We have you know certain-handed writing pens or or keyboards or mouses and shit like that, because most people in general are right-handed, unfortunately, for the left-handers. Do you know what I mean? Well, anyways, we're getting to the introductions, we'll get past that. Hopefully, the the video is not demonetized for the uh comments that we've made. But hey, fuck it. No, why not? Cancer culture podcast. Cancer culture podcast. Um we'll start with yourself, name age, what you do for living, relationship status.

SPEAKER_10 20:33

So I'm Megan, I'm 30. Um, and I work for a construction distribution, and I'm single. Kitty girl.

SPEAKER_06 20:42

Do you do construction? I can't remember from last time.

SPEAKER_10 20:44

So, like it's a distributor. Oh, so we're like the middleman. Oh, so you just get cat cord all day. No, I'm in an office.

SPEAKER_05 20:52

Oh, okay. She don't she don't go out and do the sales.

SPEAKER_10 20:54

I'm not in the hard hat and the high vis.

SPEAKER_05 20:56

No, she ain't going out. You know, she's inside getting the I'm in the office.

SPEAKER_10 21:01

Oh, okay. But last time I'm typing away. She said that she likes getting cord anyway.

SPEAKER_05 21:05

I think it was.

SPEAKER_10 21:05

Yeah, that's just on the street.

SPEAKER_07 21:07

Oh that's just on the street.

SPEAKER_05 21:10

Well, you said you were single.

SPEAKER_07 21:11

Yes. She belongs to the streets.

SPEAKER_05 21:13

Yeah, because she did say she's she's on the street tradition, you know what I mean? Yeah. Um next. Back again.

SPEAKER_06 21:19

It's been a while.

SPEAKER_02 21:20

I know, yeah, it's been a very long time.

SPEAKER_06 21:22

Back on YouTube. Um L E. Do you want to uh introduce yourself? Name, age, what you do for living relationship status?

SPEAKER_02 21:29

Right, that was too quick for one. Emily, 27. What was the next one?

SPEAKER_06 21:34

Relationship status.

SPEAKER_02 21:35

Single.

SPEAKER_06 21:36

Oh see, this is the thing. She should get a button. She's not gonna she's gonna what she's not gonna get a button. I'm gonna tie her. No, no, this is why I'm not gonna press the button. It is shaky. It's only there's only one reason. She's gonna get one pass. That's all. This is the only reason I'm not gonna press the button. It's because we started YouTube together. That's all. Just out of respect for that. I was part of the creation. That's it.

SPEAKER_07 21:58

That's it.

SPEAKER_06 21:58

But next time she comes back on, I'm gonna have it pressed. Yeah, yeah. But I'm gonna give her a pass for the first show back. I hear it. You get one pass. Yeah, okay. Just one. So I'm being nice today.

SPEAKER_02 22:08

You're welcome.

SPEAKER_06 22:08

Um you may get one later, but that was the pass. No, there's definitely one coming later. Oh, yeah, later, 100%. Oh, catch your bitch. But what do you what do you do? I didn't hear what you said.

SPEAKER_02 22:16

Um, mum pretty for a living, actually. You know, I never know that. I've never known that. It's okay. You like, don't even know.

SPEAKER_06 22:23

She makes money.

SPEAKER_02 22:24

She's I make money. Yeah. I'm not. Oh no, you know what? It's alright.

SPEAKER_05 22:28

Yeah, you're not.

SPEAKER_02 22:29

I was gonna make myself sound really like yeah, sus for a second.

SPEAKER_05 22:33

I think you should do it. Yeah, I think you should do it.

SPEAKER_02 22:34

No, it's all right, don't worry about it. Alright.

SPEAKER_05 22:36

And on the end, I'll be honest, that's still.

SPEAKER_02 22:40

Okay. That's one thing.

SPEAKER_05 22:42

Okay, yeah. She's a trap star. Why? Didn't say I won't press the line button.

SPEAKER_02 22:46

I'm a mom. I can't do that shit. I'm a mom.

SPEAKER_05 22:48

I know a lot of mom is that trap it too.

SPEAKER_06 22:50

That's it.

SPEAKER_01 22:51

On the end, first time on the show? Yeah, first time.

SPEAKER_06 22:54

Name age? What do you follow of your relationship?

SPEAKER_01 22:56

My name is Jay Yomaz Silgin. I am 27 years old. Jay What? Huh? Jay what? Yeah, run that one more time for the map.

SPEAKER_06 23:02

Yeah, run that back.

SPEAKER_01 23:03

Okay. First name Jay, middle name Yomaz. Last name Silgen. Okay. Yeah. Right. So African. No, I'm half Jamaican, half Kurdish. Oh, it's not a Jamaican. It's a weird mix.

SPEAKER_08 23:17

Yeah.

SPEAKER_06 23:18

But yeah. Because if it was if it was Jamaican middle name, it'd be like Brown.

unknown 23:22

Yeah.

SPEAKER_06 23:22

Or your name is Brown. No, this is true. Your name would be like Le Rai or Nathaniel. You know what I'm saying? Yeah, that's some real stereotypical feeling. It's true, though. The other side got the name. But yeah, sorry. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 23:37

I'm 27 years old. For a living, I sell supplements, electronics, and do social media talking about self-improvement and masculinity. Oh, right, because that's our next topic, so that's good. Let's go. Right. Masculinity, right?

SPEAKER_06 23:50

So I'm a I am a big fan of self-improvement. Okay. I believe that no one's perfect. I know. I feel like everyone has their thing that they're really good at. And it's hard to get all of them. You know. So specifically for men, I would say the three things that they want, they want to be able to make money, to be fit, in shape, and to get loads

Masculinity, Self-Improvement, Suicide Rates

SPEAKER_06 24:14

of women. I know ladies, it it's just the truth. I'm sorry. But they're the main three things. And um, if you do self-improvement, I'm sure maybe people might DM you about any of those three things. But yeah, I would say they're the main things, but as of recent, and I made a we did speak about this on a on a separate show. You know, suicide for men is very, very high. So I don't know if you've had messages from I don't know from people since you do that kind of thing. But um what what do you think the reason is, like why do you think it's so high, especially in 2025. Last couple of years been a bit mad.

SPEAKER_01 24:42

So I think there's uh there's many reasons, but I think the Western world in particular doesn't give a fuck about them anymore. I think it's trying to replace them, and you see in real time a lot of men are becoming feminine as well, and a lot of women are becoming masculine, and the roles are switching in reverse, and you see a lot of depressed guys, they're not making any progress with themselves, and other shit happens, and it just leads to a lot of them just offing themselves, and I think it's growing. Um, but I do think a lot of guys, especially because of certain people in recent years, are making improvements and doing better, but yeah, I think it's um it's growing, but at the same time, guys are improving.

SPEAKER_06 25:30

Yeah, I think the reason why I think guys are like starting to improve a lot these days is because of certain influencers, but those said influencers are under attack though, yeah. Yeah, they always get conscious. So I would say Andrew Tate's probably the biggest person who and he says some crazy things, like I don't agree with everything that he says. You think so? Like what most of the stuff I agree with, but he's he said some mad stuff like where I'm like, yo, you've gone, you pull up, you've gone two left. Say one, say one. So I watched him by the let's go to safe space.

SPEAKER_05 26:00

I know we're gonna need this. Let's go to safe space.

SPEAKER_06 26:02

So I watched him on Piers Morgan, the most recent Piers Morgan, right? And I just think he lost his head. Like, I get what he's trying to say, yeah, but in other words, he's basically trying to say that um he wouldn't want his daughter to do anything in life, pretty much. I didn't watch that episode, so I'm not sure. It was the most recent one. Now I he's justifying I understand what because he was talking about the recent um Ukrainian girl that the black guy who killed her, yeah, yeah. And she's crazy because you know, if that was uh you know George Lloyd, um, it would be everywhere in the news. It's mad how no one knows about it because she's about it, and that's why I'm talking about racism because she's white, no one knows nothing about it. But if it was a black girl, so it was he was basically saying that because she is basically having to go out and work and make ends meet because she's basically by herself, because she's got away from um thinking and she works in a pizza parlor basically. So she ain't really probably ain't making that much money, and she's that way, and he's just like you know, he wouldn't want that for his daughters, he'd rather his daughters be married or with a guy and be make sure that they're protected and looked after, so that she wouldn't even of being on the train in the first place to get that. So I understand what he's trying to say. I get that though, I get what he's trying to say, but nothing though, and I'm an advocate of that to be fair. I I agree that men should be the providers, but the thing about it is that for specifically for myself, I'm only gonna be a provider if you're a woman. Oh, yeah, feminine.

SPEAKER_01 27:29

If you're a woman, I'm being a provider.

SPEAKER_06 27:30

You can do 50-50, I don't care.

SPEAKER_01 27:32

I agree with what you're saying. Um I also agree with what Andrew said in regards to he wouldn't have her in that situation anyway. Yeah, he'd want her to be either married or just well looked after, you know. But I agree with you with what you're saying about, you know, if you get a woman into your life, you know, in order for you to provide, protect, and direct, right? Because that's what I think men should do, anyways, they also need to provide value. Like this is not all the way back in Bible times where you just swoop them off and you're there.

SPEAKER_05 28:07

It's done, yeah.

SPEAKER_01 28:08

This is a Western world now, 2025, where you have social media and AI and a load of other stuff. So it's new compromise. So now women have to provide a value, not just

Providers, Feminine Energy, and Roles

SPEAKER_01 28:17

cook, clean, wash. It's beyond that now. Yeah, but the thing is though, and then when they provide the value, that's when you you know provide what you say.

SPEAKER_06 28:25

Well, I'm actually just happy with that, to be honest with you. Yeah, like cook clean, and uh, I'm I'm alright with that. Like and that's basically sounds bad. I just basically want a PA. I swear that it sounds crazy, but I actually just want I want a PA. That's what I want.

SPEAKER_05 28:40

But that's that's this generation now. That's why, because you're no longer you what you wanted was past generation. We can't get that no more. Nah, no, I know that's done. It's not no, it's not okay. In the West, it's done. Okay, in the West, it's done in the West. Yeah, I mean, because there is yes matters, but yeah, that's what athlete Dominican, but yeah, yeah, anyway. Here Dominican, yeah, yeah, yeah. That's right.

SPEAKER_06 29:02

Have you been there?

SPEAKER_05 29:03

Not yet. Yeah, go Dominican. Yeah, go, yeah, yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_06 29:07

Anyways, I'm gonna let's see what the game is see what the ladies feel. I don't know. Like, okay, because I'm sure the ladies have their gripes. I'm sure they and I'm gonna say a few before you go. Oh I 100% agree, so I'm gonna pink it piggyback off what you said. Pink it. Pink. Yeah, I know you a bit racist. Um about uh men are very feminine. I've got a thing, I've got a theory, though.

SPEAKER_01 29:28

Bro, that's pissing me off. I know, but bro, I'm tired of seeing this shit. Nah, I know, I know, I know. Bro, it's getting worse. It is, but I've got a theory, though.

SPEAKER_06 29:36

Pick them out on the street, yeah. I've got a fear and you just get frustrated. I've got a theory though. Go ahead. I'm gonna piss some of the ladies up, but I'll get to that afterwards. Yeah. You already know. I want to hear the um ready to do always. Yeah, I want to hear the ladies' gripes, because I'm sure you is a lot of men are feminine. They are, I agree with that. They don't want to be providers, I also agree with that. But are they not just listening to you though? Like, in what sense? In a sense of like, because And there's another reason why I also think, and I might piss people out, but like you know, you wanted us to be more emotional, and what comes along with that is being feminine. To be emotional, you have to be somewhat feminine. And most of the feminine guys, in my opinion, they're in prison anyway. Because someone stepped on their trainer and then they stabbed them up or something. Because they can't control their emotions. Yeah. Yeah. Are we not just listening to what you want? I don't get it. And also, as well, you're all strong and independent.

SPEAKER_02 30:26

Yeah.

SPEAKER_06 30:27

So why so why do you need the sending? Like, why do you want to you can't be strong and independent and want a provider? To pay for things. So also you want a bang.

SPEAKER_02 30:34

Well, you want a man that's going to pay for things, or is it are we more independent women because we want to pay for things, or the fact that you want a masculine man to pay for things? We just need someone to pay for things. I don't know.

SPEAKER_05 30:45

We're gonna come into it, wait, wait. I'm gonna start with you need a MasterCard. Because I love it.

SPEAKER_10 30:50

He needs a PA or I need a bang.

SPEAKER_05 30:52

No, no, no. But the thing is she's got a point.

SPEAKER_06 30:54

No, no, no, no, she ain't got a point. No, no, no, she ain't done no, no, she dumbed it. No, no, no, no. You said no, she's saying a bank. I'm gonna this is the thing though. Let me let me explain to you why. Let me tell you.

unknown 31:05

Okay.

SPEAKER_07 31:06

Let me tell you something. Let me tell you something. So let me tell you something.

SPEAKER_06 31:09

Yes, I want a PA, but in exchange for that, you don't pay no bills, you get money, you get protection, you get provision, you get masculinity. People might have the opinion. I mean, if I am on that, I'm on a YouTube tab uh channel, gossiping, fair enough. But generally, when I'm in a relationship, I don't really argue with people. Like I'm not gonna get emotional like you're gonna get, which is inevitable. So you that's what you get for being the PA.

SPEAKER_10 31:37

Yeah.

SPEAKER_06 31:37

And all you really gotta do is just cook clean, remind me of some shit, and that's it.

SPEAKER_10 31:42

Yeah, so you've provided the bank.

SPEAKER_06 31:44

Yeah, I know. Cool. No, no, but you I'm I'm getting something in return.

SPEAKER_10 31:48

Yeah.

SPEAKER_06 31:49

So if he's gonna be your bank, what's he getting in return? No, but I think you just said you can't cook, so that's out the window.

SPEAKER_10 31:53

I can cook, I just choose not to.

SPEAKER_06 31:55

You can't seiz it.

SPEAKER_05 31:56

I don't want any of that old meat.

SPEAKER_06 31:57

Yeah, so I mean, I don't want no pale meat, so that's out the window, I clean, obviously. Okay, sorry. But so what else is like what else is there? Can you clean?

SPEAKER_00 32:05

I don't know.

SPEAKER_10 32:06

I can. Good. It's out of choice. This is what I think. So if you're with a guy and he's doing all of that for you, you will naturally want to do that too, like as well. You will obviously compliment each other and you will naturally want to provide for the man, the man provides for the woman. That is just when you're in a relationship. So you're following his lead. Yeah.

SPEAKER_06 32:26

If he pays, so he has to pay you to follow his lead. Shouldn't it be that you follow his lead and then in exchange for following his lead, then you get the money.

SPEAKER_10 32:34

No, but he's gotta give you a little slight sound first.

SPEAKER_06 32:36

No, but then you're an escort, then is paying you to be compliant. Is he paying you to be compliant?

SPEAKER_10 32:40

No, because he's just gotta, for instance, like a pay when you go out for food. I'm not saying like pay for the oh yeah, of course, food. Yeah, but that's all payment, isn't it?

SPEAKER_06 32:47

Are you a are you an independent woman?

SPEAKER_10 32:50

I can be.

SPEAKER_06 32:51

No, are you right now? Well you would would you are you do you champion the independent woman?

SPEAKER_10 32:57

Right now I am an independent woman because I

Hookup Culture, Cheating, and Honesty

SPEAKER_10 33:00

don't have a man. All right, so I have to be, I have to step up.

SPEAKER_06 33:03

That's a different topic because I know if someone's championing independent women, you can't turn it off. I've done this dance with people, they can't turn it off.

SPEAKER_10 33:11

If you've got a masculine enough man, they can put it on.

SPEAKER_01 33:15

So they have to outmasculine you. Yes. That's crazy. That feminism, independent woman, energy. You can actually turn it off. But the problem is they can't put it on the problem is hold on, hold on. The problem is to turn that off, you have to be hyper masculine more than you already are. Yeah, why that's the big problem. The problem is because you have to be more masculine than on a daily basis, so you're wasting your energy. So just to be forcing the energy for a relationship that's not gonna work. You need the natural energy, yeah. You don't want to have to have to keep forcing daily, that's a lot of people have to be hyper masculine, extra testosterone. But that's not turning it off though. That's my point.

SPEAKER_06 33:53

That's not turning it off then. Uh I just turns it off. No, what's it's doing what's it's doing is it's staying on and you're just overpowering it, it's still there though. No, because women, but if you turn it off, if you bring it down, it will come back. How do you bring it down? I feel like if you bring down your energy, her no, but sometimes I'm tired from work. I don't want to come back and after outmasculining you. I just I just I just want you to be quiet. That's the problem. Yeah, that's what I want. I just want you to be quiet sometimes. Yeah, yeah, you talk a lot.

SPEAKER_01 34:20

This is this is the problem with the UK, the US, Canada, and Australia. Canada's terrible. All you guys, or most of you, listen to women too much. Yeah. Number one, you need to stop listening to women. The reason why the Western world is fucked is because guys listen to women. That's the problem. I went back to Jamaica for two weeks. Best time of my life. No guy listens to women where I went, anyways. I'm not talking about the whole island. Where I went, no guy listens to women. There was some women who didn't know what Instagram, TikTok, or AI was. And I looked at them and said, I'm gonna breed you when I come back. That's the problem. Guys listen to women. When you listen to women and you let them lead, women lead you to hell. And that's not because they're bad people, right? That's not because they're all bad because they're not. But the problem is women are not built to lead, women are built to nurture and to soften up everything. Comfort. So when you have a woman lead, you're gonna be miserable. Every guy I know who's married, and some of you are watching this, every guy I know who's married has said the same shit. How's marriage, bro? Oh Jay, don't get married.

SPEAKER_06 35:26

That's if they're letting them leave.

SPEAKER_01 35:27

Every single one. That's if they're letting them lead, though.

SPEAKER_06 35:30

No, even the ones who don't. You don't let them lead.

SPEAKER_05 35:32

Yeah, because then, bro.

SPEAKER_06 35:33

The ones who don't. Well, why wouldn't you like it if I think it's okay?

SPEAKER_05 35:36

What do you mean?

SPEAKER_06 35:36

Like if it's alright, like to follow in your lead and all that, the feminine. What did the issue?

SPEAKER_01 35:42

I think marriage is a scam now.

SPEAKER_06 35:43

Yeah, it is, but we'll get onto that after that. You wanted to go, you told, you know, um women are leading us into how I mean, listen, the Bible told us, like, let's be honest, the Bible did tell us, you know.

SPEAKER_02 35:53

We did eat that apple, yeah.

SPEAKER_06 35:54

No, Adam and Eve, Adam and Eve. What can I say? That's what I'm saying. So, you know, is he wrong? Is he right?

SPEAKER_05 35:59

Like, couldn't just leave it alone, could you?

SPEAKER_02 36:02

Well, the apple.

SPEAKER_05 36:04

Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_02 36:04

It's juicy, me. See?

SPEAKER_05 36:06

You see where we get into these problems.

SPEAKER_02 36:11

Masculine energy. I've been in my masculine energy a very long time, and when it comes, that's obviously because I've had to. But when go on, Lee, is that what you want to say?

SPEAKER_06 36:23

What I want to say is that I get I I just want to put some logic into it, right? I hear what the women are saying, I get it. Look, listen, I started this show, right? And I was very much on what you're on. I'm still on what you're on, yeah, but I can I'm trying to sympathize with women a little bit more now. Just a little bit to understand what they're saying. And funny enough, the reason why I'm like that is because of the OnlyFans girls, and I'll tell you why. The OnlyFans girls, right? The things that they used to tell me that guys are doing for them and and doing or asking for, like fit and things like that, yeah. I was just baffled by the music, right? And then it just made me understand that these like there's a lot of weird guys out here who are not masculine, you know what I'm saying. But the thing with the ladies, imagine let's switch it around. Let's switch it around. Let's go. A lot of the ladies say, and I agree it to an extent that they've had to be masculine. They probably had to be. But imagine if a guy said that. Imagine if a guy said, Look, I'm gonna be feminine until I walk until you come around and make me masculine. That's crazy, yeah. When you think like if you when we flip it around, because this is how I make the women understand what we're trying to say, it don't make sense.

SPEAKER_01 37:38

Imagine if a guy said I'm strong and independent.

SPEAKER_06 37:40

You stupid as far gay. I don't know if you can say that, but yeah, it's just it's very feminine, bro. It's very feminine, like, and the thing is we don't care if you get like we don't actually care that you're strong and independent.

SPEAKER_02 37:54

That's fine.

SPEAKER_06 37:55

You know why? Because your money is not our money anyway. No, never has never will be.

SPEAKER_02 38:00

But I feel like with the whole masculine oh hello.

SPEAKER_04 38:03

Um that's that masculine slam bang!

SPEAKER_02 38:06

Um the masculine energy and the feminine energy, men are very feminine nowadays, 100%. But for me, like being a single mum, I've had to be masculine because I've had to do the nurturing side and the father side of it. So for me, when it

Female Selectivity and “Delusion Calculator”

SPEAKER_02 38:22

comes to having a man, I find it difficult to get out of the masculine energy because I've been used to it for so long. But then when it I feel I think it depends on the person and the connection that you have with the person. Because if it's just the then we're gonna clash. But if they're a person that can bring me down back into my feminine energy, yeah, and I want the nurturing too.

SPEAKER_06 38:44

Yeah, but that's hard though. And this is the thing, even when women are in the masculine, right, they still want to be treated like children anyway.

SPEAKER_02 38:51

Children? Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_06 38:52

So I'll get what I'll explain.

SPEAKER_02 38:54

I feel like it's the way around.

SPEAKER_06 38:55

Nah, wow. Obviously, you're with the feminine guys, but I'm just saying it depends on the guy.

SPEAKER_02 39:00

I've definitely been with a lot of princesses, yeah.

SPEAKER_06 39:02

That's what I mean. So, but I'm saying, like, this is the thing. I've dated women that have been masculine, right? And they're doing a madness. And you can just easily stop them by treating them like a child. Treat them like try it. If you don't believe me, try it, guys. When you still treat them like a child, start talking to them like they're a child, yeah. And treat them like a child, like they're just doing a madness. Just do this, watch it. Try this. And if I'm wrong, try this. And and when I say it, they're gonna laugh because it's true. Watch. So they're doing a madness arguing, uh you start doing the baby voice and you just hug them. No, just hug them like this, yeah, and just say, stop that. Just hug them. No, you know what I'm saying. Just stop sometimes, and they might even start crying, to be honest with you.

SPEAKER_01 39:39

Sometimes they'll be talking too much, and I'm like, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, chill.

unknown 39:44

Shh.

SPEAKER_01 39:45

Be quiet. And then I'll say, Yo, shut the fuck up. And then what I'll do is I'll flip it, I'll grab their head, kiss their forehead. Yeah, done. Done. Forehead kiss start smiling and cheesing.

SPEAKER_06 39:56

Yeah, done.

SPEAKER_01 39:57

Done.

SPEAKER_02 39:58

Tell me to shut the fuck up. I'm getting out of the house.

SPEAKER_06 40:01

Shut the fuck up's wild. I I hear with not. But a kiss on the forehead ends most in the moment.

SPEAKER_05 40:07

95% in the moment. You've been you've been rubber- at him, he's rubber and he's like, shut the fuck up. You're telling me just walking over here.

SPEAKER_02 40:14

Shut the fuck up, kiss me on the forehead. I'll be like, Are you all right? Are you okay?

SPEAKER_05 40:19

Shut the fuck up's wild.

SPEAKER_02 40:20

I can't lie.

SPEAKER_05 40:21

In the moment, I don't think it's wild. Are you okay?

SPEAKER_10 40:23

I would say in the moment, he wouldn't even be getting close enough to you baby to be thinking to kiss me on the forehead. If I see them, it's like no, but this is the thing.

SPEAKER_06 40:31

YouTube might not like that, but this is the thing. That's real masculine energy, bro. No, but 95% of women that turns them on.

SPEAKER_02 40:40

Oh no, is it no? But it depends on yeah.

SPEAKER_06 40:43

There you go. So stop the night. This is what I mean. You're on your phone, you're right, bro. No, no. Stop listening to the women, they don't know what the fuck we're talking about, bro.

SPEAKER_01 40:49

They don't know what even when it comes to sex, women love being degraded, bro. Of course. They fucking love it, mate. They love it.

SPEAKER_06 40:56

And this is the thing. You know what's actually mad? Wow, it sounds crazy. I'm just realizing that now.

SPEAKER_07 41:01

What that we'd have been degraded.

SPEAKER_06 41:03

Yes, bro, which is crazy. I'm they love that, bro. I'm 32. I'm realizing it now. I know beaks, listen. It's actually mad. Yeah, I know. Because you know why? Do you know why? Do you know why I'm only just realizing it now? It's because, in a way, right? I used to listen to what they're saying. And they're saying they want the love, they don't want that, they want to be. That Netflix bullshit is fake. They don't want that, man. Because those films are all made by nerds. No, but 25% of the time you don't want that. Most of the time, you just want to anyway. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 41:36

They want to get spanked, they want their hair pulled, they want to get uh recorded, all of it, right?

SPEAKER_05 41:42

I feel like initially you do. Initially, you want the romantic, but by the end of it, you want to be panty.

SPEAKER_02 41:48

I like the day of romance, and then this goal, but you want it to start off somewhere.

SPEAKER_06 41:54

That's my point. It starts like the like the fantasy, it's a fantasy that starts the fantasy, all that shit afterwards, and then it can't be asked for that if I'm honest.

SPEAKER_05 42:03

I'm getting too old, bro.

SPEAKER_02 42:04

What for the Disney fantasies? Yeah, but for the love, no, the pandemic, all right.

SPEAKER_06 42:08

The lovey dovey bit, you know, like the bill. I don't actually like the bit, it's just long. Like the one it can do it. I've been told a few times, like I rush a little bit, but I just I can't I just I think it's certainly it's certain days for me.

SPEAKER_05 42:19

Yeah, I think it's certain days. You see, midweek it's gonna be kind of hard for me to be doing doing Disney, but like you get me weekends and that catch me on a Saturday, Sunday.

SPEAKER_04 42:28

I can I can roleplay certain, I can give you a little, you know, Saturday or Sunday. No, no, no, no. If I have a good nap on a Friday, bro, I'm back. You get me, I'm back on a Saturday, Sunday. I can give you some of that, but I'll work hard in the week, bro.

SPEAKER_02 42:41

Like it's a thing anymore. Nah, it doesn't matter. It's literally this whole generation is just run bisex. 100%.

SPEAKER_01 42:46

It's a monetized society.

SPEAKER_06 42:47

But can I ask something? Because I say this a lot, and I actually think it's the women's um fault. It's the women's fault. Everything's the women's fault. I can explain, I can actually explain why.

SPEAKER_10 42:58

What's the women's fault?

SPEAKER_05 42:59

Just surviving. Sorry.

SPEAKER_06 43:01

No, sorry, that was about all this hookup culture and all that. It's it's you lot's fault.

SPEAKER_02 43:04

Why is it our fault? I'll tell you why.

SPEAKER_06 43:07

Should we go into a safe space?

SPEAKER_05 43:08

Thanks for asking.

SPEAKER_02 43:09

You're welcome. I'd just like to set it up.

SPEAKER_05 43:11

Yeah, I think

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SPEAKER_05 43:12

we should go into a safe space now.

SPEAKER_06 43:13

So, because this noise, right? Frequencies can't be down. I don't know if any, so I'm trying to calm it down. I hear it. I use this analogy a lot, yeah. Right? So I think women's main like uh issue with men is like cheating. They always want other women, blah blah blah blah blah blah. But I always say if who who I or I use Beyonce a lot of the time, right? She's like the if she she was if she was the yeah, because she you know she was the president of women, right? And she announced to the ladies, and they all listened, it's hard, but she did she announced it. Ladies, no sex without a ring, none. That's her announcement, right? Everything stops straight away. No, but she kinda did. No, she just said too late, though. No, she didn't say you can't do it. I was saying if she did do it, didn't she say if you want cheating? What's that? But didn't she say if you want to? Or if it all stops who got culture would stop straight away.

SPEAKER_01 44:10

I don't think cheating will stop.

SPEAKER_06 44:12

It would not remember what the rule is. What's the rule? What do you mean? No sex without a ring. Well, she said if you want it, you gotta put a ring.

SPEAKER_01 44:18

But she don't mean this is a thing. No sex without a ring. Yeah, that's the rule coming from the woman.

SPEAKER_00 44:23

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 44:24

Now, if you follow that, you're giving in. Now you've given her power. No, no, no.

SPEAKER_02 44:28

Not he's saying like this is all hypothetical. Don't give women power.

SPEAKER_06 44:31

No, no, no, no, no, no, no. This is hypothetical. What I'm saying is because no, because this is the thing. Back in the day, that was the rule. Yeah, but that's why eight that's that was fine because they were virgins. Yeah, but that's what being honest. See, we're we're talking past each other. I'm agreeing with you. But what I'm saying is that was their rule back in the day. 80% of brides were virgin on their wedding. Yeah, so if I'm gonna have to do that, that was a rule.

SPEAKER_05 44:50

So they were basically saying if I wanted, I can put a ring on it. Put a ring on it. All right, yeah.

SPEAKER_06 44:54

Right. So if that was the rule in 2025, hook up culture's gone. Yeah, it's true. Cheating's gone. Stunned for. Because remember what the rule is? The rule is if you don't have a ring on me, there's no sex.

SPEAKER_02 45:04

Yeah, but if you got a ring on, yeah. What about if you go after someone else after you've got a ring on it? Like, oh, can I have sex now? I've got a ring on it, here, her or him? Him.

SPEAKER_06 45:12

What's the rule?

SPEAKER_02 45:13

No sex until you've got a ring on it.

SPEAKER_06 45:15

Only the person who's giving you the ring can have the sex.

SPEAKER_02 45:17

So what about when you're married? You both got a ring on there?

SPEAKER_06 45:20

Yeah, forget the men. I'm talking about just the women, because they're the ones who control sex. If they're engaged.

SPEAKER_02 45:24

I thought when you were married.

SPEAKER_06 45:25

Married, actual married.

SPEAKER_02 45:26

Yeah. So when you both got a ring.

SPEAKER_06 45:28

Remember what the rules are to the for the women. The rules for the women are.

SPEAKER_05 45:32

So if every woman follows that rule and they're only sleeping with their man, then how is the other man cheating? There ain't no pumps to cheat with. I think every society needs holes. They do, but we'll get to that though.

SPEAKER_06 45:43

So you okay, I'm gonna break it down again.

SPEAKER_02 45:44

Please do.

SPEAKER_06 45:45

The rule is for the women, yeah, only the person who gives me a ring can have sex with me. That's it. Okay.

SPEAKER_02 45:51

So why can't he go anywhere?

SPEAKER_06 45:53

Because the rule is if you put a ring on it, unless he has multiple right wives, that's cool.

SPEAKER_02 45:59

But if he has but the way I'm seeing it in my brain, right?

SPEAKER_05 46:01

Here we go. I could see there was jigsaw puzzles and all sorts of explosions.

SPEAKER_02 46:06

At the moment, okay, so no sex until there's a ring on it. She's saying this, yeah, right. Yeah, she's now got a ring on it. Yeah. So he's got sex.

SPEAKER_00 46:16

From her, yeah. From her. Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 46:18

But she's the only one that's saying sex when we've got a ring on it. Alright. So he's waiting for her. So let me walk. He's had sex with her, but why can't he go to another person? I'm gonna put it on, I'm gonna walk in.

SPEAKER_05 46:27

I'm gonna walk you through it. I'm gonna walk you through the conversations I'll put another ring on it to have more sex. All right, so look.

SPEAKER_02 46:31

Why is there now another ring? Because he's already got she's already got the ring.

SPEAKER_06 46:34

No, I'm gonna tell you, she's got the ring. Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 46:36

Oh, we're talking about every woman needs a ring. Oh, okay. It clicks. It clicked. Stupid, stupid, stupid.

SPEAKER_06 46:43

Yeah, the light bulb went off.

SPEAKER_11 46:44

It clicked.

SPEAKER_06 46:45

So, as I'm saying, you only the person who gives you the ring can have sex with you. If you if you're not having sex without the ring, no one can cheat. There's no cheating. The men can't go to anybody else. The reason men are doing what we're doing because we can do it.

SPEAKER_07 47:02

Not the more.

SPEAKER_01 47:03

I'd argue with you on that one. I think from the beginning of time, men have always fucked multiple women. They have. Most of them, many.

SPEAKER_06 47:10

No, but I'm talking about I'm talking about the women's gripes, though. Remember, their gripes is men cheat and hook up coach.

SPEAKER_01 47:15

Yeah, but this is the thing though.

SPEAKER_00 47:16

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 47:16

Women don't understand. Men need multiple women. I agree. Most of them. Because from the dawn of time, men have had that. Now we live in a society where the government and the elites try to come out with this cheating bullshit. Oh, don't cheat. No, no, no. But they monetize it. So men won't

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SPEAKER_01 47:34

cheat sometimes. But the ones who do, what do they do? They get prostitutes, they get escorts, only fans, girls, monetize. Cheat in a different way. It's monetized. 100%. And it's gonna last, in my opinion, until 2030. Why? Before you see a shift. It's gonna get worse. Because it's only now when men have started to realise, oh shit, we need to kind of change the way we move. That's not the majority. I think some people like Andrew Tate, who's not gonna be able to do that. That's not the mind, that's the mind, that's the minority. That's the minority. It's growing though.

SPEAKER_05 48:04

No, the problem is. Yeah, that marriage is a scam.

SPEAKER_06 48:07

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_05 48:07

You know, I feel like it only changes when the cor the way of currency changes, I think. But you know what that was. Once you're forced to only be able to pay certain things in a certain way, I think that's the only way. You have to take take the take it away, basically, for it to stop. Otherwise, I think as you say, it will always be a commodity. Yeah, but let me know. Maybe just sex in general, it sells.

SPEAKER_01 48:31

I don't think men should cheat. I think it's being a coward, and you show the girl that you're scared of her in a way. I think if you wanna just do your thing with multiple women, just tell her straight up. I told a girl once, I said, yo, listen, I'm not gonna just fuck you, right? I will love you and I'll do whatever to, you know, give you the best relationship with me possible. But I'm not just gonna fuck you, no way. Fuck that. You know what? But I will dive and dabble here and there, but you will be the main chick. I won't give a fuck about them. But you will be the main chick. Do you know what's funny though? And she actually looked at me and said, she couldn't believe it because no one has spoken to her like that. And she was like, you know what? I actually respect it. You know what it is? Just be honest, guys.

SPEAKER_06 49:15

I just used to need to cheat. I can't lie, I used to just don't be a coward. I used to just lie and do it anyway, right? But most recently, I did actually do the same thing. You used to cheat. You're nah, of course not. No, but you'd be surprised right when you say that, the reaction that you get, yeah, especially if they like you a lot as well. It's because most guys are pussies. No, I couldn't believe it. I actually said it and I couldn't reaction, but I couldn't believe it. Yeah, the same thing. But just basically they was like, cool.

SPEAKER_01 49:38

Yeah, now this won't work on every single thing. A lot of them will just leave. Yeah, but the ones who it works with, you can build something good with that. No, but you can't. No, it just determines it. You gotta be that guy. It determines where you are.

SPEAKER_05 49:54

It determines it determines where you are. If you're a six and she's uh five, it will work. If she sees you as a five, and it's never going to happen. That's all it comes down to is the scales and balances.

SPEAKER_06 50:06

No, she has to, she has to think you're better than that.

SPEAKER_05 50:08

Yeah, that's it. As long as she sees you here, of course, then it doesn't really matter how you break that down to it. She's gonna deal with it, she's gonna try and find a way to work it.

SPEAKER_06 50:17

But the truth is, ladies, 95% of men are gonna cheat anyway. Just find the best guy and ignore it. I'm gonna Do you know what I think it is though?

SPEAKER_10 50:23

You know what you said earlier, like what women want? Women want communication, and like you've just said, if you communicate it in the right kind of way, women can accept that.

SPEAKER_06 50:34

See, I'll I'm gonna I don't I just want to bounce off your point, right? Oh, yeah, because I I've I've recently started thinking differently. I ain't gonna lie. No, do you know what though? Because I don't what you just said, it does work with some people, yeah. But I'm actually starting to realize that they want to be lied to. It's crazy. Like I don't know, they love it. Like they would actually prefer that you lie. So for instance, right, say you don't like, I don't know, the nails that they've got, right?

SPEAKER_02 51:01

It's a bit different to entering someone else, though.

SPEAKER_06 51:03

No, no, but I'm just I'm just telling you like of the lies that like like say you don't like the nails. Breaking entering or the nails. Nah, but I'm saying, like, say the you don't like their nails. They would prefer you just say, Oh yeah, they're all right. I can't do it. No, no, I can't, and that's my issue now because I'm saying I stuck it pisses them off that I'm just like, nah, I don't like them. Yeah, no, but they would rather you say you do like them or that you're they're okay. I can't, I can't.

SPEAKER_07 51:27

I know I can't leave that.

SPEAKER_06 51:28

Do you know the best thing to do?

SPEAKER_10 51:30

What? Flip it round on them and say, Do you like your nails?

SPEAKER_06 51:34

See now, see this is what I mean by your children. This is what I'm saying, yeah.

SPEAKER_10 51:37

So flip it round and just if I said to my boyfriend, do you like my nails? And he actually didn't, and he went, Do you like your nails? And I go, Yeah, actually. And I go, That's all that matters then.

SPEAKER_07 51:46

No, but that's me.

SPEAKER_06 51:48

You're contradicting yourself though? No, you are you just said women want communication, but now you're basically saying that you want to be told what you want to be.

SPEAKER_10 51:55

Communication, you can lie.

SPEAKER_06 51:57

You want me to communicate what you want to do?

SPEAKER_05 51:58

Oh, so you want us to lie to you? No, you want us to communicate what you want to hear, basically. No, it's not. No, bro, you're right.

SPEAKER_06 52:03

Don't fucking

Dating Apps: Logistics and Filters

SPEAKER_06 52:04

listen to these now. They don't know what the fuck they're wanting, bro. Don't listen to these things. I agree, bro.

SPEAKER_07 52:08

They don't know what the fuck they want, bro. They don't here we go.

SPEAKER_06 52:10

Go on and jump in.

SPEAKER_05 52:12

Um, do you want to be lied to?

SPEAKER_02 52:14

No, yeah, you do. I don't want to be lied to.

SPEAKER_05 52:16

Do you want us to tell you what you want to hear?

SPEAKER_02 52:18

No.

SPEAKER_05 52:18

It sounds like it.

SPEAKER_02 52:19

So if you don't like your nails, would you prefer that it's if I said to you, oh, do you like my nails? No, alright, then cool.

SPEAKER_06 52:24

Yeah, but you've professed that you're quite masculine.

SPEAKER_02 52:26

I've paid for them. They're my nails. Fuck it.

SPEAKER_06 52:30

Nah, but you know what though, you don't like him like that though, because I'm telling you, I'm gonna tell you. Listen, listen, when a girl loves a guy, bro, everything she does, she wants you to fucking basically pick it. I swear down. She wants you to back it. Have you never felt like that? She wants to back it.

SPEAKER_02 52:41

I've been in love. And I just no.

SPEAKER_06 52:45

You didn't want him to pick your nails, to like the children.

SPEAKER_02 52:47

I've never really asked. I don't think I don't know how I'd feel about that. If I said to my boyfriend, oh, here's a load of nails. You choose which ones you like and which one you think's best.

SPEAKER_06 52:58

Everyone I've been with have done that. I'm just like they want the one I want.

SPEAKER_02 53:02

No.

SPEAKER_06 53:02

They won't even get food if I don't want to get food. If I don't want to get food, if they say they're hungry and I say no, I'm not even hungry, they'll say, Oh, well, if you're not getting food, I'm not getting food.

SPEAKER_02 53:10

But I'm hungry, like yeah, if I'm genuinely hungry, I'm not hungry.

SPEAKER_06 53:14

Yeah, but these could you two are saying that you're independent, so that's cool. But I'm saying No, but some girls are like that.

SPEAKER_02 53:20

They are, most are. And I'd like, I'm I think I've just come to the point now where I'm like, well, I like it. I like me, you know what I mean? But as what I was gonna ask is if with the whole um like you saying to that girl, like, I'm gonna live on you, but I'm gonna see it with other women, how would you feel if the table was turned? And she said to you, like, oh, I'm living on you, but I'm gonna go see it with other men.

SPEAKER_01 53:42

She won't be there. I'll tell her to walk with Grace.

SPEAKER_02 53:44

This is what annoys me.

SPEAKER_01 53:45

But this is the difference, though. Double standards, men's natural biological.

SPEAKER_06 53:51

Bro, I'm gonna let you finish. And then I've got to go.

SPEAKER_01 53:53

Go ahead. Men have a natural biological urge to conquer.

SPEAKER_08 53:57

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 53:57

And that applies to health, wealth, relationships, all of it. Right? So when it comes to women, I'm telling you, men can have a girl who they really love and would do anything for and would die for, but I promise you, they'll still want to dibble and dabble. If they go out on a night out, they'll still want to fuck some chick with a big ass or big tits, but they'll still go home to that woman that they really love, and they'll bring her some food, they'll have a good night's sleep and all of that, all of that. That's just the way men are. Women, it's a bit different though. Now, not all of them, because obviously you have OnlyFans, models, and prostitutes, but with a lot of women, they can't like emotionally get attached to multiple men and dibble and dabble with multiple men at the same time. It doesn't work.

SPEAKER_05 54:44

But the difference is that's our only hormonal range. Yeah is our testosterone, realistically. A testosterone is the one thing where you women have a thousand different hormones just going off and chemicals blowing off in their body. The one hardest um control point for us is our testosterone. So a bimbo walks past, I'm walking down the road with my girl, and this big titty, big batty girl walks past. Instantly, my eyes are gonna follow her, my mind's gonna be sexually aroused by her. Yeah, I could even want to go and sleep with her if she gave me the opportunity. I most likely would. But you see, at the end of that, you see, once all of that clarity has come out of my head, I'm instantly repulsed by this woman because I'm no longer looking at her in the same way I did. The testosterone is what is driving me to want to release that energy, which is true. After that happens, the clarity comes back, and I'm no longer interested. Why?

SPEAKER_01 55:40

Because you slept with her, so you conquered her. Yeah, it's done.

SPEAKER_05 55:45

That's why you that feeling comes. I've had it, but the woman that is giving me her feminine, I'm still wanting to battle and go to battle instantly. My mind is back to my reality, which is my everydays, my security, making sure that she's financially sound, making sure that she's looked after and loved in a completely different way. But you see, for this bimbo,

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SPEAKER_05 56:05

we wouldn't even need to talk, I wouldn't need to know your name, I wouldn't need to speak at all. We could just fuck and that's it.

SPEAKER_01 56:11

I would have when you have a main chick and you go and fuck someone else, you miss your main chick even more. 100%. You miss her more because you're just thinking, you got that post knock clarity, yeah, and you're thinking, oh shit, where's where's so-and-so more? Yeah, man. What am I doing here? Right now, we'd be watching this, eating this, with Shea.

SPEAKER_06 56:29

You know what the thing is?

SPEAKER_01 56:29

You just miss her more.

SPEAKER_02 56:31

Is that actually a thing?

SPEAKER_01 56:32

It's actually true. You miss her more if he really cares about you. Because there is no difference in the other thing.

SPEAKER_06 56:36

This is the thing as well. 100%. If like you said, and you even you just said it as well. You couldn't sleep with someone next to you. I couldn't. Right, could you?

SPEAKER_10 56:45

What was the question?

SPEAKER_06 56:46

Can you sleep with someone if you don't like them?

SPEAKER_10 56:48

What do you mean by don't like them?

SPEAKER_06 56:50

If you're not attracted to them, no, you don't like them. Then however you put the category of life, no, because if I find them attractive, you like them. That's how women think.

SPEAKER_10 56:58

Well, yeah, then no. No, because there's gotta be like physical attraction to at least sleep with them.

SPEAKER_06 57:02

Guess what? We can see a girl, I don't know these like agree. We'll see a girl, she's a three in the face, she's she's a three in the body, but she's got a big ass. Yeah, we'll still fall. We'll take that, yeah. We'll still fight. And we'll never taught to, and we'll never if she could get hit by a boss the next day, and we don't care. Wild, yeah, no, but I'm just that's the no literally, doggy, paper bag, don't care. We don't care.

SPEAKER_05 57:29

Like you got so-called trap starts. You got so-called trap stars beating knees right now, right now, right now, right now, but happy about it, happy, don't care, pulling up their trousers and they're doing their about and going out and actually don't care, like, no problem at all. They don't see nothing wrong with it, not an issue, not a pride issue.

SPEAKER_06 57:46

And you're not even you're not even built to have multiple men, to be honest.

SPEAKER_01 57:50

That's why virginity is so important because be with one dude only. That thing down there, a girl slept with five or six dudes. She takes on she takes them on.

SPEAKER_06 57:58

The ability to pair bond with a guy just goes, though people have argued against that, but I believe it's true. And but the thing down there, it's a self-cleaner, you can't clean that with soap. You can't clean it with soap. We can clean, we can clean it. We can get out, go in the shower, take off the thing, go in the shower. But we're nice. We'd have to wait like a week.

SPEAKER_05 58:16

They in they invented a stuff.

SPEAKER_06 58:18

And then even then, I heard that it's in your DNA as well. I don't know if it's true, but I heard it goes with the city. That's what he's just saying.

SPEAKER_01 58:24

It does because you take a piece of them. Every guy a woman sleeps with, right? Especially if they're not inside her, parts of his DNA stays with her, stays with her for life or for a good number of years. That's what I'm saying. I wonder some women will have kids that look like their ex. Yeah. Their kids will behave or look like their exes. I've seen it.

SPEAKER_06 58:45

I'm like, I'm in trouble. And definitely, I see the not thing. People, I've read certain like studies, and people have countries do it, and I somewhat believe it, but definitely if you have their child, you've got some of their DNA in them. That it never goes. 100%. Yeah, it never goes.

SPEAKER_01 59:03

Yeah, that's where you're just. I thought some women's kids will be acting retarded, and her her family's cool, she's cool, even the dad is cool. And it's like, where did this retardation come from? I don't think some ex the last five guys, some ex who's like crazy, tapped in the head, yeah, or it could be just a mixture of all those clusterfucks of niggas, but you're not but then it can be a good thing in a weird way because if she's fucked some smart, intelligent dude, uh kid takes on that, no, but and she's dumb as fuck, but the kid comes out a bit like whoa, yeah, Einstein.

SPEAKER_05 59:37

And once upon a time once upon a time, though, women used to look for in very high hierarchy and um what's the word? What's the word? Um what do you mean?

SPEAKER_06 59:46

High value.

SPEAKER_05 59:47

Um basically high value. People like Beethoven, you know, they were getting ass back in the day, you know. Einstein was getting ass. Because women wanted to procreate with them because that was smart. They want the genes, they want the smart baby coming out of them. Literally, that's how they used to look. It weren't like they're sleeping with your ushers and your rappers and your drakes and shit.

SPEAKER_02 1:00:04

Well, it used to come out with rhythm.

SPEAKER_05 1:00:06

Nah, but the thing is if you think about it with rhythm, baby, you may eat the.

SPEAKER_06 1:00:13

If you think about it though, it's

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SPEAKER_06 1:00:15

kind of dumb if when you think about it. Let's let's be honest. What do you mean? Because I think a lot of women now, their mating strategies change to the same as the men, which is actually stupid, and I'll tell you why. Like he said. So now I think a lot of women will accept if he's good looking. They don't care if he's stupid or whatever. Yeah, like as long as he's like good looking. But previously, you'd look for other things. Is he successful? Yeah. Is he good looking? I mean, can it be a good one? A lot of people would marry people that are not good looking if he was like intelligent and had to be a good thing.

SPEAKER_05 1:00:45

If you could build a house, that was it. Once upon a time, all you had to do was be able to use your hands and know how to look after your family. You go and walk into the world somewhere and build your house with you and your woman and make a family.

SPEAKER_01 1:00:56

But then I this is where I kind of you know give women their credit here because a lot of guys just genuinely don't try. They don't try hard enough. Now they don't try. And then you got these attractive. This is why you see some attractive women, some bummy guys, bro. Why would they try though? It's a social circle. So you got these nice women, attractive, some are even kind of smart, right? But then they're surrounded by bombs. All they see is bombs. Facts. They don't see the the alphas. So it's like, oh shit. This is all we have to pick from. Why would they try though?

SPEAKER_06 1:01:28

You know they why would you try? Well, okay. Men. Yeah. What's the biggest motivator for men? Well, it's women. Women, right? It's females. And this is the thing. Now, now, be honest, it it's difficult for a lot of men to get women. But what I'm saying is it's not that hard to get sex anymore. No, it's not. For the guys who can get it. What are you saying? The motivation's gone. Back in the day, they they women ain't marrying you if you're a bomb, so you have to go with them.

SPEAKER_01 1:01:56

Nowadays it's different. Women are in business, men are in love. Yeah, okay. A lot of men for the wedding. Yeah. Yeah, that's fine. Oh, a lot of women they will marry someone they don't like. Yeah. To get divorced. Yeah. Did you know that they will marry someone they don't like?

SPEAKER_06 1:02:10

Do you know that the top five women billionaires got it all from divorce? Yeah. Crazy when I read that, I was like, mate, that's mad. The richest woman in the world now is um Jeff Bezos' uh ex-wife. Crazy, you know. Crazy. But it's all from divorce, though.

SPEAKER_10 1:02:26

You see, look I missed a trick there.

SPEAKER_05 1:02:28

Look at them. Look at them. Do you see how the pattern then just gets passed on to each person? Look, every older girl, I'm like, oh my god, you managed to bag Jeff. Well done, girl. I don't mind.

SPEAKER_06 1:02:40

Feminism plays a part in this. I don't mind women doing that, though. It does, Honda. I think there should be more picky. Well, to Rosalie. I agree. I think they're three up to everyone these days. I think you should be more like picky as in like, you know, I'm trying to shoot for a Jeff Bezos. Like, not everyone's on that level, but you get what I'm trying to say.

SPEAKER_01 1:02:56

Like, no, I agree with you. I think there should be. Because if women aim to just be with bombs, it's a bit weird, right? That's why but I agree they should be picky.

SPEAKER_06 1:03:03

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:03:04

But it's like at the same time, most guys they don't try, bro.

SPEAKER_06 1:03:08

They don't, but they don't need to. Well, they should. Because if you're good looking, you can get bums. So that's what I'm saying, they don't care.

SPEAKER_10 1:03:14

Do you know what image? I get told that I'm too picky and that I should just go off vibes. And if you connect with someone, you connect with them. It shouldn't matter, all of this. But I have a checklist, and if you don't meet 90% of that checklist, no.

SPEAKER_06 1:03:27

The thing is, what I'll say to you is that I get what you're saying. But you can I can't go on. I would say the mindset's not correct. And I'll tell you why. I'll tell you why. Whose mindset? I'll tell you. Of course, because I because a lot of women do have your mindset, but what you don't understand, yeah, is that the guy that's gonna tick all these boxes, and I'm gonna ask you what they are in a minute. The guy that would tick all them boxes, what you need to understand a lot of women need to show him why he should pick you. It's not the other way around. I get that. You have to show him why he's picking you because all the women want him, and I'm gonna ask you the list in a minute. Yeah. And I guarantee it's a top one percenter.

Wrap-Up, Takeaways, and Plugs

SPEAKER_06 1:04:10

So we're gonna go. I'm gonna ask you. Okay, I know the statistics, so that I'm gonna tell you, right? And I'm also gonna ask you how much the one that you need them to earn as well. Okay. That will that will automatically put them in the butt anyways, we'll get to that. Well, I'm saying is what you need to understand is the guy that you want with all this, you need to show him why he's picking you. Yeah. Because he's probably a top guy. So let's see your list. Let's go into a safe space first. In fact, I'm gonna ask you some questions.

SPEAKER_10 1:04:36

Go on, far away.

SPEAKER_06 1:04:37

How tall could it does it need to be? Minimum six foot. Minimum six foot, top 10% already. All right, how much does he need to earn? Over 35k. 35k, all right, is in the top not that much. I think the top 5% is 80,000 a year. Top 1%. In the UK. In the UK, yeah, yeah, yeah. Other places different. In the UK, it's about 80,000, it's like top. I think it's between 10 and 5%. And I think the top 1% is 180,000 a year.

SPEAKER_10 1:05:02

Yeah, like I'm being realistic with the money.

SPEAKER_06 1:05:04

So 35, but that's still high. The average earnings in the UK, I think it's 28,000, 27,000. And they're high, they're high earning jobs. You know, you registered managers, your um the doctors earn more than that, but like they're high paying jobs, right? So he's already in a high paying job if you're a high-paying job.

SPEAKER_05 1:05:21

I think that's regular.

SPEAKER_06 1:05:22

No, no, no. The average, remember, the average person, and this is average that from the high earnings, is like 27,000, 28,000. I thought it was 24. It might even be a bit less. I think the last time I checked, I swear it was like 20. Yeah, minimum wage. But either way, 35,000 is high for most people. Maybe a lifestyle not fulfilled. I know, but what I'm trying to tell you is that the first thing is six foot. If it's six foot or over, I think it's the top 10%. Most men are below six foot. So you've eliminated most people, right? Right 35%. I think it's that must be the top um 40%, I would say. Okay. Yeah. Because the average is like 27 or below. I would say most people are broke. Yeah. Most people don't even have a thousand pounds in savings. Yeah, most people in the middle of the year.

SPEAKER_05 1:06:11

Most of the UK's credit's terrible, yeah. Their credit is absolutely in the bin.

SPEAKER_06 1:06:15

So you've already down to like 5%.

SPEAKER_10 1:06:17

Okay, next question.

SPEAKER_06 1:06:18

Then you need him to be masculine, I'm assuming. Yeah. There's not a lot of those guys around, mate. So now you're going into four. This is why I'm single. You're going into four, but that's my point. But I'm saying if you're going into a guy who's four per top four percent in the UK, you need to show him why he's picking you. Not the other way around. Do that. Not here's my list. And if you don't no, no, no, no, no. It's find out what that four percent guy wants and be that.

SPEAKER_07 1:06:45

Maybe that's where I've gone wrong. It's where you I'm telling you, that's where you've gone wrong. Well, how do I find this out? And you just said you can't cook because you're eliminating it. I can cook. You don't season.

SPEAKER_06 1:06:55

Do you just find it from my guy who's top 4% wants the guy who's top 4% wants his woman to cook? It sounds like you heat up meat. And be quiet when he tells you to be quiet.

SPEAKER_07 1:07:07

That's what they want. Yeah, but if that can you do that? I can be quiet. Alright, what?

SPEAKER_06 1:07:16

But it's only because I just spit game to weather. What else do you want? You want six foot, 35k, masculine is four percent. What else do you want? Um do you want it to be not married? Ideally, right? Then you're in one percent already. You're already in one percent now. So that means you want to be not a side chick, above six foot, yeah, over 35,000 a year. Yeah, you this is very low right now.

SPEAKER_07 1:07:44

It's a dating puddle. Yeah, yeah, it's a dating puddle.

SPEAKER_06 1:07:46

She's right, it's a puddle. Alright, so what else? Um you want so do you want him to be obese? Not obese.

SPEAKER_07 1:07:55

No, like athletic.

SPEAKER_06 1:07:59

Now you're now because let me just get it out.

SPEAKER_10 1:08:03

Yeah, not like ripped, but like it looks after themselves.

SPEAKER_06 1:08:07

0.1% now. Oh god. If you don't believe me, I'm gonna show it now. I'm gonna show it. I ain't gonna lie, they are, but yeah, but yeah, it's I think it's hard to get all three.

SPEAKER_10 1:08:20

But do you know what it is? Okay, they don't need to be necessarily like athletic built, but they need I like a sporty guy, so naturally they would have top zero percent. What's a sportier body?

SPEAKER_02 1:08:32

Are you a sporty girl?

SPEAKER_10 1:08:33

Yeah, that's why I'll need a sporty guy. It's lifestyle, innit?

SPEAKER_05 1:08:37

Yeah, what kind of sports are you into?

SPEAKER_10 1:08:39

I go to the gym every day. That's good, yeah. I go to the gym every day, I go on walks every day.

SPEAKER_06 1:08:44

So, what I've done, right? I like that. Which is funny, yeah. You probably don't know about this. Someone created the female delusion calculator.

SPEAKER_10 1:08:50

Of course they did.

SPEAKER_06 1:08:51

Of course they did. So I'm gonna put in what you tell me, and then the app will tell you what the percentage is.

SPEAKER_10 1:08:58

I don't need an app to tell me. And guess what?

SPEAKER_06 1:09:00

And guess what? And guess what? How it measures it is cat bags, which is quite funny.

SPEAKER_02 1:09:04

What the hell's cat bags?

SPEAKER_06 1:09:05

I know cat food bags.

SPEAKER_02 1:09:07

Oh what, because you're on your own.

SPEAKER_06 1:09:08

Yeah, yeah. So you get between one. Yeah, yeah, so you get between one and five cat bags. Okay.

SPEAKER_10 1:09:14

Off the road.

SPEAKER_06 1:09:14

Well, okay, so how old does he need to be? Like uh age range.

SPEAKER_10 1:09:17

Um, 25 to 32.

SPEAKER_06 1:09:20

25 to 32, yeah.

SPEAKER_10 1:09:22

Yeah. How old are you?

SPEAKER_06 1:09:23

32 is close to it.

SPEAKER_10 1:09:24

I quite like a younger guy.

SPEAKER_06 1:09:26

I ain't gonna lie, I think you should push that age up, but it's fine. Uh okay, 34. Do you want him to not be?

SPEAKER_10 1:09:30

Do 34. 34? Yeah, we'll go 34.

SPEAKER_06 1:09:33

We go 35 round.

SPEAKER_10 1:09:34

No.

SPEAKER_06 1:09:34

You know what? No, I'm gonna go with your first thing. Fuck me. Don't mess up at scale. Don't mess up at scale because it's early. Married? Married or not married? No, I'm not no side chick? No. Why would I be called guys have been curved? Most of them have been coughed. Anyways, what colour? White, black, or Asian? I don't mind. Any, okay, cool.

SPEAKER_01 1:09:54

Even if it's Indian. Six foot?

SPEAKER_07 1:09:56

Yeah, six foot. Six foot? So even if it's Indian, Indian's alright? Yeah. Chinese alright? Yeah. Love you Lang Tai.

SPEAKER_10 1:10:04

I'm not fussy about that.

SPEAKER_06 1:10:06

Obese or not obese?

SPEAKER_10 1:10:08

And income is how much? 35. 35.

SPEAKER_06 1:10:12

35k.

SPEAKER_02 1:10:12

Maybe you would lose.

SPEAKER_06 1:10:14

Just go down. Now I I suspect it won't be that much because of the pay. Just because of the pay, though. Let's see. And because you don't care what race it is, that's a big one. Let's see. Alright, so she got three out of five cat bags, and you got a 3.0% chance of finding this guy.

SPEAKER_01 1:10:29

Fucking amazing.

SPEAKER_06 1:10:30

That's the highest I've ever seen on that. That's actually quite high. And the reason the reason I'm saying it's quite high is because she put 35k. If she had put 50 to 80, that's gone into ridiculous.

SPEAKER_10 1:10:42

Um I understand that like it's hard to hit the higher ones. So well, 35k is actually not that much. No, I know. I thought you just said it was a lot.

SPEAKER_01 1:10:51

Tomorrow speed. I think it's decent for the UK.

SPEAKER_10 1:10:54

Yeah, for the UK. If it was the US, it would be a good one. I feel like realistically, if a guy's got a decent job, he should be earning about 35k. Yeah, that is true. Like a normal, decent goes to work every like Monday to Friday vibes.

SPEAKER_06 1:11:08

But he's a three-point, he's a basically a three percent now. Why still three percent? Why should he pick you?

unknown 1:11:15

Look at me.

SPEAKER_05 1:11:16

And you're not allowed to use the skills that you told us about last time.

SPEAKER_06 1:11:19

The thing is, I know that doesn't even count. That don't you can get it from anyone, but the thing is, look at your blood. No, you can't get it from it. What you don't understand? No, I guarantee you. See?

SPEAKER_05 1:11:26

Do you think that that's the only bloody skill? No. What you don't get. No, it's not the only skill. Let me tell you. What you don't the only skill that you thought that was.

SPEAKER_06 1:11:33

Got many a trick in my back. What you don't get is a guy, yeah, will marry like a five or a six.

SPEAKER_10 1:11:40

Well, that's alright, because you like rated me a five last time. We did.

SPEAKER_05 1:11:43

We did. Well, it was actually me. I made sure.

SPEAKER_06 1:11:46

I'll ask you in a minute. But what I'm saying, because that video got beautiful, I just gotta ask you. But anyways, right. I'm saying a man will like marry a five. If she's a good woman, he'll marry a five or a six.

SPEAKER_08 1:11:59

Yeah.

SPEAKER_06 1:11:59

To be honest with you, you don't the eights, nines, and they're super delusional. You probably don't you probably want to stay away from them. Because they're they they they don't live in the real world. Yeah. What what do you think you are? Right, I won't get that. You we're not getting into the can you rate her out of ten?

SPEAKER_01 1:12:16

Can we not? What is this with looks or just give me a five?

SPEAKER_06 1:12:21

Wait, do you like if I want to be? Do you really don't want him to rate? No, go on.

SPEAKER_10 1:12:25

Let's have a laugh. Are you sure? Based on looks, right? Just have a laugh.

SPEAKER_01 1:12:29

Um, looks, you know, she's uh come here, she looks really presentable, she's made an effort.

SPEAKER_10 1:12:35

You don't need to be so nice. Thank you though.

SPEAKER_01 1:12:37

No, but he knows we mean it's fine, can't you?

SPEAKER_05 1:12:38

See, now we know now we're getting a bit of your personality, it's a good job, it's just looks. It's a good job it's just looks. That's all I'm saying. I know she started talking.

SPEAKER_01 1:12:46

No, based on looks, um, she came here making good effort, yeah, right? Presentable. I would give her a six point five.

SPEAKER_05 1:12:55

Six point five?

SPEAKER_01 1:12:56

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_05 1:12:57

It's a solid six women. It's been nice. But your personality now, because you keep trashing on yourself, would have put you down.

SPEAKER_06 1:13:03

All right, 6.5, that's fair. You can't do 0.5, though, actually. So why not? Uh we don't do points. Yeah, really? You're trying to soften the blow, and you can't say seven. No, no, no. Yeah, this is this is how you getting humbled last time. So you just want me to say six.

SPEAKER_07 1:13:15

No, no, whatever you want. No, no, but honestly, I don't know.

SPEAKER_05 1:13:19

You just gotta round it up to the higher or a lower, it's either a seven or a six. Oh, he said I can't say. No, you can't say seven, so it's either an eight or a six.

SPEAKER_07 1:13:25

And this is why last time I had to pick myself as an eight. All right, six, five. That's fair, that's fair.

SPEAKER_05 1:13:29

I think that's fair.

SPEAKER_07 1:13:29

All right, cool, moving on.

SPEAKER_05 1:13:30

You're not allowed to be an eight, it's a trick question.

SPEAKER_07 1:13:33

Yeah, well, I am, or are you?

SPEAKER_06 1:13:36

No, but the thing is though, and it's not even a like I don't know. A lot of women do take it as a diss, but like who okay, who would you say is an eight as a celebrity? Like, who would you say is an eight?

SPEAKER_09 1:13:45

Oh, I don't know.

SPEAKER_06 1:13:46

Is this men or women? Men women, sorry. No, like guy, okay. Who would you say is an eight? Like eight nines.

SPEAKER_01 1:13:52

Any celeb?

SPEAKER_06 1:13:53

Any, any, yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:13:54

Eight or nines?

SPEAKER_06 1:13:55

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:13:56

Carol Voldeman. I don't know who that is.

SPEAKER_06 1:13:58

I'd say, like, I'd say like it depends what you tell me. I'd say like Megan Fucks in her prime. She's like an eight-nine.

SPEAKER_01 1:14:03

I'll I'll tell you who's a solid.

SPEAKER_06 1:14:06

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:14:06

You're gonna say someone I don't know now, eh? No, you know her. What's her name? She's from Black Panther. Black Panther. Black Panther.

SPEAKER_07 1:14:13

Oh, his mom.

SPEAKER_05 1:14:16

She was alright to be fair, but I guess it's she's alright to be fair. She had that little push-up thing going on, still kind of crazy.

SPEAKER_06 1:14:25

But um, all right, cool. But like who would you say is an eight?

SPEAKER_02 1:14:28

It depends on what you type is.

SPEAKER_06 1:14:30

Nah, I don't think it does.

SPEAKER_02 1:14:31

I think Eddie's because I I don't really go for oh me and this thing are gonna fight. Um, I don't really go for that.

SPEAKER_05 1:14:38

That's that masculine coming out of you again, you see.

SPEAKER_02 1:14:41

Someone needs to take it away from me. Um, Tom Hardy. Yeah, I find him very attractive, but he's not my usual type. Exactly.

SPEAKER_06 1:14:48

So you can appreciate someone who's good looking. Yeah, so I don't think that's what I'm saying.

SPEAKER_01 1:14:51

I don't think it matters about the the lady who played uh Barbie.

SPEAKER_06 1:14:55

Oh Margaret, yeah, yeah. That's what I mean. Like that's eight nines, I would say. Geez B. Yeah, and that and that's without us as well, may I add? You know what I'm saying? She's just in the face is in. I'd never decide.

SPEAKER_05 1:15:08

So what he's basically saying is you put yourself near that scale. You're you would say if she's a nine and eight, you would be up there with the case.

SPEAKER_10 1:15:15

She's no, because it's a different, it's a different table, it's a different league, that is, isn't it? How is it? No, it's not actual normal people.

SPEAKER_05 1:15:22

Remember, what the way women save face is by making new categories, you know, curvy models, all of that stuff. We all know the script, yeah.

SPEAKER_06 1:15:31

And this is the thing, I'm not trying to like this shit. I'm the reason I'm I like to think of things like proper logical. So, like when I hear eight or nines, I'm thinking of like celebrities.

SPEAKER_10 1:15:40

No, because they're in their own other league table. Yeah, that's their own other character.

SPEAKER_02 1:15:46

Is there not like six, five, six celebrities? Who's yeah, but I feel like I can't think of one right now. What about like Billie Eilish? Where's she on the yeah?

SPEAKER_06 1:15:55

I would say she's like to like a she's not that, she's probably like a four, maybe. Yeah, he was looking at me. I can't lie, she's probably like a four still. So, yeah, but that's what I'm saying. That's what I'm saying. The scale applies to everybody.

SPEAKER_10 1:16:07

I just feel like celebrities automatically look better than what they are because they're a celebrity. Nah, that's not true. And you got people on social media, you never really see them in.

SPEAKER_01 1:16:16

I understand where she's coming. I understand where she's coming from. Because look at uh call that black. You know how many girls I've seen say, Oh, he's sold this and that. You know, this nigga's not because he's good looking though. Come on. No, but she's why women say the status.

SPEAKER_06 1:16:31

Yeah, yeah. No, no, for men, yeah. But men men don't men don't care about women's status.

SPEAKER_00 1:16:36

Yeah, women care about men's status.

SPEAKER_06 1:16:37

Oh, is that we're trying to do that? Yeah, so so obviously call that black because he's rich, women will go for him. Yeah, they'll say we know he's ugly though. Yeah, there's no woman calling Coldat Black good looking.

SPEAKER_01 1:16:45

Ah, so you're saying guys don't do that with female selection? Of course they don't, yeah, no, mate, mate.

SPEAKER_06 1:16:50

A guy, a guy like could fly to Brazil, see a homeless Brazilian with green eyes and ass, and he'll take her. You ain't doing that. That's true. We will do that though. Depends how good looking they are.

SPEAKER_10 1:17:03

Women we women if I could mould them, and then it goes to a goals on the date and saying that you have to pay for it. I can pay for a date, you're gonna have to, ain't you?

SPEAKER_06 1:17:13

Well, that's what you're you're dating homeless man. If it was really good looking, no, that's quite you know what I find hilarious, bro. Well, I'll tell you what I find there, and I said this like go ahead last year.

SPEAKER_05 1:17:23

They say this. But you put them in a scenario and it'll never happen.

SPEAKER_06 1:17:28

No, no, no, no, but in no, they won't, bro. In no history ever, I've never ever seen right a woman sleep with a homeless. I'm on about on the street. I've never seen though, yeah, but memo bang and me.

SPEAKER_07 1:17:44

We're sleeping with a knee. Okay, yeah. You understand what I'm saying? You know, ain't that a man with no teeth and that you don't know?

SPEAKER_05 1:17:51

You'll see it because it's better for the that's why that's why you would never date underneath what you would see as your range target. I don't know. You see yourself as a six, you would never date a six or two.

SPEAKER_02 1:18:03

Yeah, no, I agree with that. I mean, I don't know, you know.

SPEAKER_05 1:18:06

What happened? You date down.

SPEAKER_02 1:18:07

I feel like the thing is though, I feel like I've dated down, but that's me looking at them now.

SPEAKER_05 1:18:11

No, but you're about personality and even that looks like that. But at the time, just looks no, but my point is at the time you didn't know that. You obviously afterwards by getting to know them personalities or all of that, whatever you're doing.

SPEAKER_02 1:18:23

Probably on the same level, but then you're the same. Oh, yeah, you'll date the same old. Yeah, yeah, that's what I mean. But the same old hair is fine. But like when I look back now and I think, yeah, no.

SPEAKER_06 1:18:34

Oh, so you think you're better now than that? Yeah, but that um at the time though was.

SPEAKER_02 1:18:38

No, no, but I mean, like, I look at photos now and I think I actually weren't as bad as I thought I was.

SPEAKER_06 1:18:41

Oh, so you did date that?

SPEAKER_02 1:18:43

Yeah. Sorry, guys.

SPEAKER_06 1:18:45

To be no but I that's that's an un that's unusual if that's true.

SPEAKER_05 1:18:49

I feel like say mentally you still didn't subconsciously you didn't know that.

SPEAKER_02 1:18:52

But I think it's also like what you think of yourself as well, though. Like me personally, I don't think see myself as high. Yeah, but that's that's so I think we go for people that I think are more.

SPEAKER_06 1:19:04

Yeah, but that's it, yeah.

SPEAKER_02 1:19:05

Like I've had situations where people have been like, oh, like he's punching, and I'm like, No, he's not.

SPEAKER_06 1:19:10

Yeah, but it matters what you think. That's the point, though.

SPEAKER_02 1:19:12

Yeah, true. You put them on a pedestal anyway, don't you?

SPEAKER_06 1:19:14

Yeah, it matters what you think, so but if you actively think that they're not better than you, but we'll sleep with them though. Men will sleep with them. Not not me, but men will.

SPEAKER_02 1:19:23

Gummy bears.

SPEAKER_06 1:19:24

I mean they will sleep with nittties, the gummy bears, the gummies.

SPEAKER_05 1:19:27

That's wild. You lot are fucking weird. Them no-teeth bitches.

SPEAKER_02 1:19:32

No, there's certain guys.

SPEAKER_06 1:19:34

I mean, I can't lie, I don't think I could do a nitty stuff. But I'm just saying men will do that, innit? I don't think. Oh, yeah, loads of them will.

SPEAKER_05 1:19:40

You know, the problem is that as much as you would say that men probably wouldn't, you wouldn't do a nitty. Knitties come in all different ways, shapes, and sizes. We're sitting here and being very judgmental. Um, the fact that nitties are probably homeless. You're thinking about the big issue nitties. I've seen some very well established nitties, to be honest. Yeah, there's very functioning nittties out there.

SPEAKER_06 1:20:01

But when we say nitty, we know we're talking like naughty. That's my point. You're going to the point. That's what I can mental.

SPEAKER_04 1:20:08

No, but I'm just saying you just said that off the back, and I'm like, nah, you may you may change that with some bitches out there.

SPEAKER_02 1:20:14

Like a girl that's just like doing keys in the corner of the club and it is doing keys.

SPEAKER_06 1:20:18

Doing keys, what's keys? What's that? Oh, oh, maybe maybe sleep, but not like I wouldn't wipe anyone that does drugs, to be fair.

SPEAKER_05 1:20:26

Yeah, we're not cultured to know what the hell keys are. I thought she meant like car keys. I'm like, was she throwing car keys at each other? I'm in the corner checking. You know, that was a thing.

SPEAKER_06 1:20:36

Nah, yeah, to for recreational, maybe, but I wouldn't wife anyone.

SPEAKER_02 1:20:40

But would you class that as a knitty?

SPEAKER_01 1:20:41

Yeah, no, no, I wouldn't. But as keys in the corner, would you?

SPEAKER_06 1:20:44

Yeah, I wouldn't know.

SPEAKER_01 1:20:45

Yeah, especially if they do it often.

SPEAKER_02 1:20:47

You could you're just a glorified nitty. Yeah, okay.

SPEAKER_00 1:20:50

All right, very good.

SPEAKER_05 1:20:51

It's true though, because I you know, there's been like I know some girl that had like, you know, the uh um nitrous oxide balloons. Oh, yeah, yeah, and the canisters and that just everywhere. Like, you know, the car's just full of open door now, it's just bears just falling out of the car and that. Oh god, yeah, and that's a nitty. That's weird that's semi-nitty. That's a nitty, very functioning, but very much a nitty, bruv. Like, that's you can't do nothing without the nitrous oxide now. That's crazy to me. Especially something like that, literally cut cut side.

SPEAKER_06 1:21:19

I got some quick fire questions, one of you guys think, right? We kind of touched on it earlier, yeah. So I'm saying the question is do women actually want masculine men? And I would argue they don't. Or they think they don't. But they really do. And I'll tell you why. You're not gonna be able to tell a masculine man what to do.

SPEAKER_02 1:21:36

I don't want to tell a man to what do what to do.

SPEAKER_06 1:21:38

No, I don't. No, I know, but a lot of women want to tell them what to do. And you're not gonna be able to. So what I mean by that, he's gonna want to tell you what to do, but you can't tell him what to do.

SPEAKER_10 1:21:45

Do you know what I think is? I think it's like I said, communication. I think women don't women want a masculine man, but want a masculine man who can communicate.

SPEAKER_06 1:21:55

Yeah, but you're going into the fantasy world again. That's what I'm saying. I'm trying to I'm trying to I'm trying to take you out.

SPEAKER_01 1:21:59

And I'll tell you what, I think it depends on what kind of scenario. I think for example, if I'm talking to a girl, right, and then I got some shit to do, I'll say to her, look, I gotta go do some stuff, right? But later on, I'm gonna give you a call sometime.

SPEAKER_10 1:22:15

That's fair.

SPEAKER_01 1:22:16

Just leave it there.

SPEAKER_10 1:22:16

Communication, but no, bro.

SPEAKER_01 1:22:18

A lot of guys they they don't even do it. I can't even lie, I've seen it.

SPEAKER_10 1:22:22

Yeah, it's true, yeah.

SPEAKER_06 1:22:23

That doesn't mean that they're masculine, though. There's there's feminine, I'm masculine guys that do that.

SPEAKER_02 1:22:27

I just want someone, yeah, because you know, right. If I tell you if I just say, like, oh, what do you want to eat? Oh, it's up to you. Yeah, can you not just say come on, babe, let's just go Mackeys.

SPEAKER_01 1:22:43

So many men in the UK do that shit. You might need to stop doing that shit. I agree with that though.

SPEAKER_02 1:22:48

Well, it's up to you.

SPEAKER_01 1:22:49

Oh, when a woman asks you a question, stop saying, I don't know, you decide this is dumb, bro. I agree. They shouldn't do it.

SPEAKER_10 1:22:57

If we knew what we wanted to within, you need to leave. I'm confused in my own brain, man.

SPEAKER_06 1:23:01

I on I get it, but what I'm saying is that they're listening to the gal. That's that's the problem. Yeah, we're listening to we think that's what you want. Not me. Don't I try to win but women, they they think that you just want to you want, yeah? So they're trying to just make you happy, which is impossible.

SPEAKER_02 1:23:18

I get that, but that's what they're trying to do. I get that, but I just just I just choose, man. Tell me some direction.

SPEAKER_06 1:23:24

But you see that I understand her on that. I get I agree, I agree with you. But I'm saying, you see that guy, yeah, that guy, you can't, you're not gonna be able to tell him what to do.

SPEAKER_04 1:23:33

Never.

SPEAKER_06 1:23:34

That's an assertive guy that said you're the leader. So you have to pick your boys. You either want the guy that's gonna say, Oh no, whatever you want, or you want the guy to say, shh, bro, that's a good that's a good test.

SPEAKER_01 1:23:44

That's what he wants. That's a good test for a first day. But then that's a good test for a first day. That's a fatal test.

SPEAKER_02 1:23:49

So shut up.

SPEAKER_01 1:23:51

No, no, no. Shut up's wild. If you're if you're organizing something with a girl, right, and you say to her, Look, we're going out on this day, wear this, oh yeah, and then the day before, I'm gonna tell you what we're doing, right? Yeah, now that's a good test because if she now says, Well, I wanna wear this, or why can't we go here? Yeah, then that tells you a lot already. She don't listen. Yeah, there's no point in even going ahead with that. She doesn't listen.

SPEAKER_06 1:24:17

You can because I don't know, it depends. And this is the thing, this is the thing I I I'm gonna say something to you lot as well. A lot of you, right, women, you set yourself up to fail, and you don't even know that you've set yourself up to fail. So I'll give you an example with guys, right? When we fail with you, like we know, yeah, because you're heiros, or like say we tried to go and get your number, you're not on it, so you're not gonna get a number. Keep it moving. So we know we've been rejected. It's a bit peaked for you because you might not necessarily know that you've been rejected. So, for example, he might still sleep with you, and you think that means you're like, Yeah, but no, that's only kind of he's he's only just sleeping with you. Yeah, you're never gonna be wifey, and he'll continue to sleep with you. Yeah, you don't even you don't even know you've been rejected. Yeah, so what he just said, they're they're the thing, but they're the things that like what he just said. We say that, we say, Oh, this girl don't listen. I'm just gonna I'm just gonna I'm just gonna smash in and leave it.

SPEAKER_01 1:25:10

I've had that before. So I was dating this chick a couple years ago. Bro, she was bad. Face, tits, ars, even other things. She was actually kind of small, not too smart to the point where it's unbearable, but you know what I mean. Yeah, right. Could have a decent combo, yeah. You know, right? Similar interests, we could cook, clean, one of the cleanest girls I've ever met. Right? It was great. I was looking at her thinking, yo, I might breathe this one, bro. Give her some shits. Yeah, I swear. But then it got to a stage where some shit happened, and then you start to see like real them, exactly, yeah, and then you start seeing like some feminist ways, and I was like, no, please, not this one. I know, absolutely. And then you see him come through and you're like, I can't even wife her anymore, bro. Disqualified.

SPEAKER_05 1:25:54

So I mean, if I just kept fucking. If you can make it past two and a half to three years, bruv, then yeah, 100% invest. Invest, bro.

SPEAKER_01 1:26:02

If you make it to three years, push the green button. You guys need to stop wifing up girls after. Ten minutes, yeah. Trust me. Don't believe that shit where girls say, Oh, you know, why can't we just do what white people do? I've seen this a lot. They'll say, Why can't we do what white people do and just become boyfriend and girlfriend after a month or two months? Don't do that shit. You need to analyze their behavior, how they move in certain environments, their life, their friends, their family. I got a cheat code.

SPEAKER_05 1:26:29

And that takes a couple years. Yeah, trust me to really analyze all that.

SPEAKER_02 1:26:32

You don't know someone for at least a year.

SPEAKER_06 1:26:34

Nah, nah, I got a cheat codes though. Go ahead. Piss them off. Yeah. Piss them off. No, no, that's good. You know why? Piss them off. They'll show you.

SPEAKER_01 1:26:42

You know how a woman is uh how she loves you or respects you, right? When she's pissed off at you, you see the rhythm. Doesn't shout, nope, doesn't swear, right? You can tell she's frustrated, you can feel the energy, but she's like just keeping it built up and a bit quiet. Yeah, you can tell she wants to say something, like but she's holding it. But I because she respects you. I give a bit of grace with it. I like that though.

SPEAKER_06 1:27:05

I do bit give a bit of grace with it though, as it like I'll give him a few times to do it. I'm not gonna shout, it's never happening, but like I'll allow them to vent and then I'll tell them to chill. Get me? I give him some grace, especially. No, no, no, no. So like damn, never heard of that. There's always been like one time in every relationship I've been in where they've just gone too far. With what what? Like with an argument, yeah, attempted to like call call me something or like shout and you get me. And I don't do that, so I'll give them the one one time to do that. Because obviously they've probably been with other people that they used to throw plates and would you not say those are shit tests?

SPEAKER_07 1:27:44

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_06 1:27:46

Of course, that's my but that's my point. That's of course they're going to. Yeah. Of course.

SPEAKER_01 1:27:49

Even your own, even the women in your own family will shit test you. Yeah, they will. When you grow up. Yeah, they will. It's crazy still.

SPEAKER_02 1:27:55

Um I have one question. Yeah. Well, not one question, one statement. Yeah. Can you men learn to handle your rejection better?

SPEAKER_01 1:28:03

I agree with you. I think in the UK that's a big problem. Yeah. A lot of you guys, you get rejected, yeah, and you can't take no for an answer. It's crazy. A lot of you guys, especially down south, crazy, right? You try to grab a girl to talk to her. And you think because you're being aggressive, it's sexy. Yeah. Right? Now, some girls do low-key like that, of course, but I don't know. For most of the time, you're just scaring her. You're just scaring her from the get-go.

SPEAKER_06 1:28:27

Even if they like it a bit at that time, they're not gonna say no. I don't know. They're not on it. Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:28:32

Like if a girl says no, just leave it.

SPEAKER_02 1:28:34

It's like it's the ones that come over to you and they're like, oh hi, da-da-da. Can I get your number? Oh, sorry, I'm not interested. Yeah, we're a fucking way.

SPEAKER_01 1:28:41

Yeah, that's such so bitch. Bitch, that's such a UK mandem mentality that you guys need to stop doing. If she rejects you, just leave it. Even if it's made hard to get fuck the games, bro. Yeah, there's four or five billion women in the world.

SPEAKER_06 1:28:55

Delete that. Delete it's crazy. That's funny. Because obviously, guys might you know, look at us and think, oh, yeah, but I'm actually I started doing like a men's improvement book, and I've got things like that in there. Like, bro, like just if it's a rejection, just is that move on with your life, man. I had someone, I agree. There's so much women out there, just move on.

SPEAKER_02 1:29:14

Just put leave with your head held out. I'd respect you more for like, okay, thank you. Thank you for your time anyway. Enjoy your evening. You enjoy your evening too, babes. And I'll respect you more for doing that. Yeah, but then it's like I had someone before and they were trying to talk to me, and I was like, listen, I've just come out of something. I'm not ready. I'm not ready to talk to anyone, I don't want to do this, da da da da da da. And then they kept pushing and pushing and pushing and pushing, and then I became the problem because it was like, you're not giving like I what I've just told you.

SPEAKER_01 1:29:39

See, those are emotional feminine dudes. And then it was like, and then it's like controller. They're in pen right now, bro.

SPEAKER_02 1:29:47

Well, I think I'd rather be lonely than have this 24 7. Are you crazy?

SPEAKER_06 1:29:50

Now listen, guys, like, okay. Because even if you get to the stage where, let's say, the encounter where you went to get the number, it worked. So you've got the number now, right? Even at that stage, like women do want you to chase a little bit, just a just a bit, just uh give a little bit of a chase, just a little bit. But if interest ain't being shown like after a period of time, just just stop messaging, just leave it there. And as well, along with what you said, hindsight affects women a lot, like the fear of missing out. So if he reacts like that, you'll probably like it more. Like if you if he was to move to yeah and then be like, you know what, cool, I appreciate it, carrying with you there. You might start thinking, oh shit, no, he's a respectable man. You know what I'm saying?

SPEAKER_01 1:30:28

You might as well think, oh wait, wow, bro. Whoa, that was so easy. One thing you like him a bit. One thing I've done before, I moved to a girl, she wasn't feeling it. So what I did was I just laughed a little bit, not too much, right? I was just like, okay. And she was like, I seen her at like a little event like in the future, and she was like, hi, I seen you on TikTok. And I was like, this girl don't remember. And it's like, you know, if you move like that, it kind of sticks with them. Like, yeah, why'd you laugh?

SPEAKER_02 1:31:01

I also feel like people's girls sometimes do give out their numbers just to keep the peace. Like, yeah, and I don't blame them. There's some crazy guys, yeah, and then you blacker blacka blacka. Yeah, but yeah, I agree.

SPEAKER_06 1:31:11

I don't I don't think you should, but I get why so I'm gonna defend the women with that. Yeah, guys, you gotta give rejection, man. Like, even if you do get the number and the nut messaging, just allow it, bro. Like the thing is, you should be focused on other things anyway. That's what I mean. So I've said it a million times on this show. Like, you should be focusing on making money, right? And then you might walk past and see someone you like, yeah, try and move to them. It's a nut on it, you just carry on about your day with your purpose that you've been doing in the first place.

SPEAKER_01 1:31:37

But not just money, I'd I'd argue health as lifestyle. Any person, anything else. These guys don't do it a lot.

SPEAKER_07 1:31:44

I agree.

SPEAKER_01 1:31:45

You know, they don't go to the gym every day, they don't train every day. I'd argue if you're under 36 year old years old, you should be training every day in some way. Cardio, cartenics, or weights, or sports. I would you should be. Yeah, you shouldn't be fat, you shouldn't look anorexic as a dude. I agree. You you should be training and moving your body every day to see how capable you are. And imagine if you have kids and they look at you and you're fat as fuck, yeah, they're gonna think, you know, why is dad look like that? But his dad looks like this.

SPEAKER_05 1:32:15

Not just that, but then it makes them think that it's okay to be unhealthy.

SPEAKER_01 1:32:18

Yeah, and when you train every day, the discipline you build with your mindset and your body, you apply that to business and making money. Because if you go to the gym every day, regardless of how you feel, right? You bring that into business. Now, when you start a business and shit gets hard, you have that mindset of uh push through. Okay, let's just let's just do it anyway. But most most guys, a lot of them, they don't train every day, you know. It's unacceptable if you're under 36 and you're you're not disabled, in my opinion. Yeah, I think I think you should train every day to be fair.

SPEAKER_06 1:32:49

I I agree with that. And I and I second your uh uh rejection thing. Yeah, yeah, definitely. Guys need to work on that.

SPEAKER_02 1:32:56

Work on that.

SPEAKER_01 1:32:57

Let it go, just let it go. So, where do you all see the dating scene going?

SPEAKER_02 1:33:05

Downhill. We're finished. Finished. I don't want to date anyone anymore.

SPEAKER_01 1:33:09

There you go.

SPEAKER_05 1:33:12

Okay. I don't want to date anybody.

SPEAKER_10 1:33:13

What about you just it's one of them I think you have to be very careful on who you're dating, and I think you shouldn't date too soon because I've gone into dates too soon and thought I have nothing in common with this guy and don't even like him. Like, we can't keep the conversation going. I think you need to speak to someone for like a good, I would say like a month before.

SPEAKER_02 1:33:36

Do you think? See, I'm uh I'm the opposite. I feel like I need to meet you because I feel like you can say anything you want to me over text, and I could either read it wrong or I'm yeah, I read too much. I'm like that. I read it.

SPEAKER_05 1:33:47

I'd rather bounce up each of us.

SPEAKER_10 1:33:49

I've been on some dates and I've not known the guy enough. And I've thought I've literally as soon as I've turned up five minutes, I've thought, why have I met this guy? Yeah, but leave?

SPEAKER_05 1:33:57

Yeah, but then but at least because what could have happened then? You could have been a pen pal for months, he could have been spitting you all this feel that you want to hear. The minute you physically meet that person, all of that now has just been wasted time and wasted effort between the two of you.

SPEAKER_06 1:34:11

Who's talking for a month before you meet someone? Okay, maybe not first. But that's what I'm trying to say. Like that I'm blaming I'm blaming the guys, like it's the I'm blaming the guys when it comes to that. Like, bro, why are you talking to a girl for a month before you meet? That's crazy to me.

SPEAKER_01 1:34:24

No, but the thing after about a week, bro, some some girls string them along, though.

SPEAKER_05 1:34:29

But then that's the guy again, but that's the guy's fault again, because you should have bruv, be higher, be high is here, man, and say to yourself, rah, I'm not dealing with this three, four days down the line, you're still playing with me and trying to drag me along when I'm talking about it. I'm actually trying to set something up, like I'm trying to set some sort of me. Let's be honest. If I'm if if we're talking and we're in a in a mode of trying to attract to each other, then at some point our goal is to physically be with one another. So if you're if I'm giving you those signs and you're giving me signs that you're not trying to meet those same goals, then why am I still here wasting my time? But at some point you should have to switch off.

SPEAKER_01 1:35:04

One of the best ways to see is you know, try organize a day with a girl, give her a day, give her a time, give her an outfit, right? If she can't make that day and doesn't try to reschedule, doesn't try to say, Hey, what about this day? Or I can't do them, but I can do this. Then you know she's not really on it. No, she's not she's not really on it. Just leave it.

SPEAKER_06 1:35:25

They'll change shit for you.

SPEAKER_01 1:35:26

Yeah, bro.

SPEAKER_06 1:35:26

They'll reschedule.

SPEAKER_01 1:35:27

If a girl really wants to see you, they want to make the time, they'll make the time. She'll either counsel her plans or she'll say, What about this day?

SPEAKER_06 1:35:32

Yeah, 100%. And so I've been in that situation though. Like I'll try once, yeah. Um, and then if I don't try and reschedule, I might try a second time because I do like a little bit of a chase, but then after that, I do that depending on how attractive. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Radio silence. Yeah, I might go back in down the line, down the line or more or something. But general, it's radio silence, like I'm done. All right, cool.

SPEAKER_10 1:35:54

Here's a question, right? So you run a date an app, you've swiped up a person, you know nothing about this person apart from what is on that profile.

SPEAKER_06 1:36:03

Yeah.

SPEAKER_10 1:36:05

How quick do you meet that person for a date then? I'm tapped like that. As a woman or a man. As a man?

SPEAKER_06 1:36:11

As a man, you should you should meet, you should try and meet as soon as possible.

SPEAKER_10 1:36:14

Yeah, but like what is as soon as like what's the time frame?

SPEAKER_06 1:36:17

Well, if I start talking to someone, I'm trying to meet you that week.

SPEAKER_10 1:36:19

Like, you know nothing about this person.

SPEAKER_05 1:36:23

How else do I get to know you through pen pals?

SPEAKER_10 1:36:26

No, but I just think a week. Yeah, I didn't know.

SPEAKER_01 1:36:29

Yeah, but what kind of should nothing? What kind of dates are you going on? It's got a week to be too soon. Coffee, bro.

SPEAKER_06 1:36:37

Coffee? But the ladies, what I would say to you, it's FaceTime.

SPEAKER_10 1:36:41

You can know with it.

SPEAKER_06 1:36:42

No, but you have to, but that means it might be must be hiding something. That's what I'm saying.

SPEAKER_10 1:36:46

Like, no, I just feel really awkward.

SPEAKER_06 1:36:48

Nah, but what I'm saying.

SPEAKER_02 1:36:50

Oh, my signal's gone though.

SPEAKER_06 1:36:52

No, but that's a good way.

SPEAKER_05 1:36:54

If you're attracted to that person though, how do you feel awkward? You're attracted.

SPEAKER_10 1:36:58

Yeah, but I literally I have to.

SPEAKER_05 1:36:59

I think it, you know, you feel shy. There's a bit of shyness, but you're attract you still like that person, so you're gonna they're gonna say certain things to you, you're gonna say certain things to them, but essentially you speaking to them over FaceTime is basically breaking that physical barrier in the case. I don't want a phone call.

SPEAKER_10 1:37:14

Phone calls I can do, but FaceTime I feel is a really awkward face FaceTime's work.

SPEAKER_06 1:37:18

FaceTime works every single day. But it's the only other way though, because think about it, you're saying.

SPEAKER_10 1:37:21

I think maybe once I meet someone, I can FaceTime.

SPEAKER_06 1:37:24

FaceTime, and that that's a red flag for me, anyway. Like, I got if I want to FaceTime me, you don't want to FaceTime. I'm like, yo, you must be a catfish.

SPEAKER_02 1:37:30

Catfish, yeah.

SPEAKER_06 1:37:31

Like, bro, because gal that no that I find, I don't give a fuck, bro. But I'll just feel like they'll FaceTime you in the fucking bonnet and shit. Yeah, you know what? They're good looking, you know what I'm saying? They don't need no makeup and all that shit. They're just natural, but for me, it's a well that that works every time. That can actually, like, even for guys as well, that can actually hire like interest. Once they see you can actually hold the conversation with them and talk to them, and you're quite funny, they'll probably meet you that week. Yeah, definitely. And for girls, to safeguard yourselves, because there's bare weirdo. I'm gonna have to put there's weird men out there, there is really. Since doing this show, I'm realizing weirdos. Yeah, there's bear weirdo. There's a lower. Yeah, yeah, yeah. So that's another thing as well that will also lower the percentage because even though it's three percent, yeah, for this guy, is he a weirdo? Is he socially awkward? Like, is he intelligent? You know what I'm gonna say?

SPEAKER_07 1:38:15

All those things are no hope really ever.

SPEAKER_01 1:38:17

And guys need to understand girls on dating apps, they get a lot of likes and swipes, right? So, on dating apps, you want to get their attention as quick as possible and get them off the app as quick as possible. So, if you match, you want to bring that conversation elsewhere FaceTime, iMessage, Snap, WhatsApp, and then you know, you get the date going on. So, I'll tell you what they should do.

SPEAKER_06 1:38:40

This is what I used to do. Go ahead. So if you match someone on there, yeah, I just put WhatsApp question mark, that's it. Done.

SPEAKER_02 1:38:48

Go straight down.

SPEAKER_06 1:38:49

Yeah, I'm just I just say WhatsApp and just leave a question mark.

SPEAKER_02 1:38:52

The thing is, you're means if they're interested, they'll they'll give you your number.

SPEAKER_06 1:38:55

If they're not, they'll wear it. See, anyway.

SPEAKER_10 1:38:57

Oh, I wouldn't give my number out that quickly.

SPEAKER_06 1:38:59

Who's your favourite celebrity?

SPEAKER_10 1:39:00

Listen, if Chris Brown's coming in, who's your favourite celebrity? He's not asking for my WhatsApp. Who's your favourite celebrity? But my celebrity.

SPEAKER_06 1:39:05

Who's your favourite celebrity?

SPEAKER_10 1:39:07

We know this one.

SPEAKER_06 1:39:09

We don't?

SPEAKER_10 1:39:09

Chris Hemsworth.

SPEAKER_06 1:39:10

Chris Hensworth, Quince Hensworth matches you on what? You're on you on a dating at right now?

SPEAKER_10 1:39:14

Yeah.

SPEAKER_06 1:39:15

What are you on? All of them. All of them. Okay, so let's say. Chris matches you on Hinge. He says WhatsApp question mark. Are you sending me what your number? No. You're not sending me your number. Oh mate.

SPEAKER_10 1:39:31

No, no, I'm not. I wouldn't. Because I wouldn't do it Chris Hensworth. No.

SPEAKER_06 1:39:37

Says WhatsApp question mark to you, and you're not gonna give him your number.

SPEAKER_10 1:39:40

No, straight on face. Not straight up. That's cool. I'm here for it.

SPEAKER_06 1:39:44

Crazy.

SPEAKER_10 1:39:45

Do you know what? Because it's not gonna happen. Let's be realistic.

SPEAKER_02 1:39:50

These people are on these days. No, no, no, no.

SPEAKER_06 1:39:52

This this I'm on Rayo, I've seen a few of them. No, no, no, no. This is a scenario. This is this is me testing. But that's not a real scenario. No, no, no. It could happen, you never know. Hypothetically. Hypothetical, hypotheticals are there to test your.

SPEAKER_10 1:40:04

What I'm saying is, I've had guys and I've gave my number to them, and then they'll be like belling your phone off when they're drunk and stuff like that. And like, no. I agree. There's weird guys out there. Yeah. I'm talking about Chris Hensworth.

SPEAKER_05 1:40:15

We're saying belling off your phone when it's drunk.

SPEAKER_06 1:40:17

And if he did, then you're gonna moan about it. I want an answer. I want an answer.

SPEAKER_10 1:40:22

What?

SPEAKER_06 1:40:23

Still no.

SPEAKER_10 1:40:24

Not not literally if that is how he answered What type of question mark? No, not if he opened my conversation like that.

SPEAKER_06 1:40:30

You've lost. Move on. Why? You've lost. Come on. Who believes that, bro? You've lost.

SPEAKER_10 1:40:34

Chris Hensworth, bro. I want a conversation first.

SPEAKER_06 1:40:38

He's a top 000000.1% girl you talk about.

SPEAKER_10 1:40:41

I want a conversation first, doesn't matter.

SPEAKER_06 1:40:43

Crazy. All right.

SPEAKER_02 1:40:44

I'm weird as well though. So like my weird old personality doesn't really come out of the chat. So I feel like you I could. I could paint a picture of me and then it's the same when you meet me.

SPEAKER_06 1:40:53

Yeah, probably not, but.

SPEAKER_02 1:40:54

Who's my idea? We all know mine. Chris Brown. Chris Brown messaged me. What's that? Babes, I'm coming.

SPEAKER_06 1:40:58

There you go, guys. That's Alicia's honesty. So this is coming. This is what I'm trying. This is and he's also trying to say to you guys, look, if she likes you, there's no rules. There's no only put rules on guys that don't like just man and the thing is WhatsApp question mark, that's it.

SPEAKER_01 1:41:13

When you experience girls who fully respect you, I've had threats and any girl gives you a little headache, gone. Man, you don't bother.

SPEAKER_06 1:41:21

Yeah, it's true. It is hard after that though. But you know what I'm talking though. I think most guys I've actually haven't been with a girl that really, really like no, they haven't. That that I'm clucking that though. No, that's facts. Like I've had like suicide threats and all sorts for that when I've left.

SPEAKER_02 1:41:35

That's crazy.

SPEAKER_06 1:41:36

Like literally.

SPEAKER_02 1:41:37

So like I changed the guy through.

SPEAKER_06 1:41:39

I would say my whole life there's been like maybe two or three that that really really liked me. Yeah. And if you don't experience that, you don't know what like we're talking about. No, for real.

SPEAKER_01 1:41:48

There is no rule type where you both move on. Yeah. She gets married, she'll come back to you no matter what. Of course, yeah.

SPEAKER_06 1:41:57

Yeah, you're the guy, yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:41:58

That's what I'm saying. That's love.

SPEAKER_06 1:42:00

And you know, that's all that scares me, though. I can't lie. Why? Because I'd never want to be that guy. And you're never gonna know to be like that. That's why I say modern marriage. You never want to be that guy. Modern marriage is a scam. Imagine you get married to someone and she's nah, I don't know.

SPEAKER_01 1:42:15

It's a scam, bro.

SPEAKER_06 1:42:16

Mad.

SPEAKER_01 1:42:17

I don't even think if you're a guy on your purpose and you want to achieve great successful things, you shouldn't live with your girlfriend until you get there. Oh bro. I think I think we're like friends in another night. If you live with a girl whilst you're on your purpose, it makes you weaker because you get so used to this Netflix, Disney, uh, Amazon Prime takeaway bullshit and then fucking and like, yeah, you can still get shit done, but most guys, if you give them a roof over their head, food and sex, finish, yes, dreams out the window. Gone. I know a guy like that. I had to cut him off.

SPEAKER_06 1:42:50

And his girl was mid. Yeah, she was mid. I'm alright with a mid girl if she does everything if she's basically a peer. I don't mind. I literally don't mind. But I bought I done that because I realized, and even now I'm realizing that yo, I don't think I can actually live with women. So I actually bought a house for my ex, right? Because I I had to not live with them. Oh right. I needed time apart at times for that reason, because it happened to me, but you get fed up of them, yeah. And they were all right, yeah. I did a break, so I had a house in Brooklyn. I had a house in a different city because yeah, like a different city, yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_02 1:43:21

Get out of my back.

SPEAKER_06 1:43:22

No, but that's where they're from. They was from there, and it so I bought the house all the time.

SPEAKER_01 1:43:25

And it's it's it worked, it's Western society that normalizes because even back in the days, like old, old, old times, men didn't live without women, yeah. Nah, no, or there was at war, so like yeah, they they like they had their own places, yeah, and they would go see each other. This whole thing of sleeping next to someone your whole life, yeah, and then you wonder why you're fed up with them, and you don't lie there anymore.

SPEAKER_06 1:43:48

I think that's why it used to last long back in the day because there was periods that you were part.

SPEAKER_01 1:43:51

You need that because they didn't agree in divorce, the energy to recharge, so you when you come back, you both exchange it properly. Yeah, I can't to the best of always live with women, I'll be honest.

SPEAKER_06 1:44:01

I feel like you know I've been saying this for time, but I have to have house. I like you have to have your house. Yeah, oh, I'll even get you the house, but yeah, I'm somewhere else for that.

SPEAKER_05 1:44:10

Yeah, I'm more into wings, he likes different houses. I'm more like wings. Wings might be lit, might be late around.

SPEAKER_02 1:44:16

You go on that, say, yeah, yeah. I go on that side.

SPEAKER_05 1:44:18

Nah, because I like accessibility. Like he's different, but I like accessibility, you get me. He like he don't mind the travel and that. I'm like, I like the I like to know that I'm not too far away, but we can still be separate if need be. You get it?

SPEAKER_06 1:44:30

Slight delusion there though, and I'll tell you why. Because I've looked, right? There's not many houses like that in the UK.

SPEAKER_05 1:44:37

No, there's not, but when I say build your own.

SPEAKER_06 1:44:40

Not just that's hard to do though, but I'm saying, like, in general, you see those houses. Well, it depends what it depends what you're segregating. You're better off just getting like three beds everywhere. There's no house with like wing in the UK like that.

SPEAKER_05 1:44:50

It's not yeah, there is, it just depends on it. Depends on how you how you set your house up.

SPEAKER_02 1:44:55

I'll take a wing.

SPEAKER_05 1:44:56

See it then, it depends how you set your house up. Well, I think most will take a wing up.

SPEAKER_02 1:45:00

But I feel like you like, you know, like if you just in that moon, haven't seen you for a while, fancy little cuddle and go.

SPEAKER_01 1:45:05

No, I mean then. But that you want them to miss you, though that's good. Going back to what you said about you know, you'd be happy with a PA, woman just cooking, cleaning, washing, right? Yeah, I don't know, man. Like, it's nice, but in this modern day and age, think about it. Doing all that shit now, it just takes one, two hours and they're done for the day.

SPEAKER_06 1:45:23

No, 100%. Obviously, I've got to like them though.

SPEAKER_01 1:45:25

I I would bring them into my business and say, Oh, you're gonna help me out with this. That too. Yeah, that too. Yeah, because when they do things for you, yeah, they like you more.

SPEAKER_05 1:45:33

It's crazy though, and they especially when they can see what you're doing to bring in our security, but that's why I'm saying PA.

SPEAKER_06 1:45:40

Yeah, because they're gonna work in my business and so you're probably gonna invoice, you're gonna do something. Oh, okay. You're gonna send to him that that person was doing invoicing and shit like that. You have to do something, yeah. It sounds about to provide value in something. Because they do get bored. I'm gonna lie, they do get bored, like you like they'll get bored. You gotta you do get bored, right? You don't really just want to sit at home and do you want to do something, yeah, you want to contribute in a way.

SPEAKER_11 1:46:00

Okay, because I'm bored.

SPEAKER_01 1:46:02

Yeah, I'm happy for people to I wouldn't want my girl working for you know another dude. Oh, nah, because when tells her what she has to wear, when she can bring food, what kind of food she can bring, when she can come and go. You don't want that, bro. Nah, and then you now try to tell her, hey, where wear this on a day. Oh no, don't tell me what to wear, but you do it for your boss at work, yeah. It's kind of magic, you know.

SPEAKER_06 1:46:22

Nah well, because I I like to travel as well. And like when I say yo, just pack, I just want to go and oh you like to travel abroad. Yeah, I'm not interested in you going to request annual leave. That's not our life, mate. So yeah, we're getting up and we're gonna I will pay you the wage and do my shit.

SPEAKER_02 1:46:38

You know, when you say that you like send a message and be like, oh, we're going out this time and we're wearing wear this. Is do you tell them like a genre of clothing or are you like jeans, t-shirt? No, no, no.

SPEAKER_01 1:46:51

So I don't I don't do that like every time we go out. It's more of in the beginning to just test that yeah to see like if they can actually listen or if they're gonna back chat with something, yeah. So I'll say, for example, okay, dress code for us, we're gonna wear black, look sexy. That's what I've dude.

SPEAKER_02 1:47:08

I can deal with that.

SPEAKER_05 1:47:09

I'm not gonna say that I want this one and then why have you not got that cause on that I bought you?

SPEAKER_06 1:47:17

Can I ask you, right? Because you seem to have the similar mindset. Like for me, I'll do that when we're dating. But I ain't gonna lie, when we're in a relationship, I can't lie, I don't want to plan this shit, I'm too busy. I I get them to plan it because they're on TikTok looking at the most in restaurants and shit. So I'm just like, yo, I hear that. You plan that because I'm I'm I can't I just busy. No, it's true. You plan this shit the whole even the plan the holidays, plan the restaurants. I don't want to do that. That's what I mean by PA though.

SPEAKER_01 1:47:43

I I do that most of the time, but then sometimes I'll still plan something just to show her like everyone's gonna be able to do it. Keep on keep on bored, but most of the time I do what you're doing. This is why I just can't be asked anymore, man. What do you mean? They just need the too much stimulation, it's just no, no, no.

SPEAKER_06 1:47:56

I think too much.

SPEAKER_11 1:47:57

But most of the time I'm almost overstimulating, so not much stimulating going on around here.

SPEAKER_06 1:48:02

I mean, because they do get bored. I don't what you get bored, they get bored. Me, I bro, I'm happy to do the same thing every day. I'll eat the same shit every day, I'll do the same the routines, everything's the same. Men love routines every day, yeah. Yeah, but women don't do that, and when I'm with someone, I have to do shit, and I don't particularly like go into restaurants or go because you want to go. I don't actually want to go.

SPEAKER_01 1:48:23

See, that's the thing though. I I had that feeling before, but then I thought, okay, how can I switch this into a positive? And whenever I go out, I just get them to take content of me. So I'm being productive whilst I go out, and I don't hate it. That's fair, especially if you go abroad. Yeah, you take that, tell them, yo, film this, film me doing this, take a picture of this, and you're being productive whilst you're enjoying at the same time.

SPEAKER_06 1:48:45

Fair you know, I don't really I do the podcast, but I don't really want um. You're depending on being life stuff. I don't like lifestyle. Yeah, I actually hate women that are just always on snap and always have to put shit on their story. I want to live in the moment. I don't want all the everything's on the fucking story. The food, the everything, just we're here. We're in a nice place. Let's just take it in. Yeah, allow social media and just it's were you with me?

SPEAKER_01 1:49:12

I would understand girls who use snap all the time, it's a red flag. Yeah, it's too much, bro. It's Snapchat has fucked up the game. You can't save chats sometimes if you want, right? You can send picture and video messages that expire. Yeah, you don't know what's going on, dude. Oh, yeah, of course.

SPEAKER_02 1:49:27

Let me WhatsApp though.

SPEAKER_01 1:49:28

Yeah, but I always have the password.

SPEAKER_05 1:49:29

Only WhatsApp recently, though.

SPEAKER_02 1:49:31

Yeah, I always have the password. I get triggered when I see that one.

SPEAKER_06 1:49:34

Would you give your man your password? Password if you phone.

unknown 1:49:37

Yeah.

SPEAKER_06 1:49:38

Yeah. Okay. You can't have his, but he can have yours.

SPEAKER_10 1:49:41

You see, let me see. You see?

SPEAKER_06 1:49:42

You see? That's what I was trying to say. See, they want they want equality until it's time for the bill. Then they don't want equality. Why?

SPEAKER_02 1:49:49

Why? How does that even make sense? If why can't why are you looking at mine?

SPEAKER_06 1:49:53

So do you want equality?

SPEAKER_01 1:49:56

Oh no, let's just say no, let's say it how it is. Let's say it how it is. Girls can't have their man's password and look because they're gonna find something of another girl in there. Why? Because most men cheat. Facts.

SPEAKER_02 1:50:07

That's uh most men won't tell you that you're having mine, but I'm not having yours.

SPEAKER_06 1:50:11

Because I want to make sure that I'll tell you why. This is my reason. You better tell me my reason I don't tell you my. Yeah, okay, we're gonna wrap it up. Sorry, big book right now. Uh my reason is this. Normally, with the with me, I'm providing everything for them. They don't have to worry about anything. I'm not doing that for someone who's fucking cheating. I might, I'm not saying I do, I'm just saying I might. Yeah, but I've I've pre-told you I'm gonna do that anyway. But if I'm doing that for you, I'm telling you right now, you better not go and get him to pay for your shit. I ain't paying for you. That's why. That's truth. Let's wrap it up. How do you think the show went on social media, please? Yeah, because we're telling me for age, you know. And he was here, you know, clubs, clubs.

SPEAKER_05 1:50:47

I know he would have it would have to be. He would have been like, let's go. You want to go home, you want to play some pro clubs and no, I'm I got shit to do.

SPEAKER_10 1:50:53

Fucking lied to me.

SPEAKER_06 1:50:54

Anyways, uh, social media and um how do you think the show went?

SPEAKER_10 1:50:56

Show went really good. Um covered quite a few good topics, got male and female versions of, and my social media is Megan Brody.

SPEAKER_06 1:51:03

Do you know anything today?

SPEAKER_10 1:51:05

Yeah, I've got to humble myself and accept on my five.

SPEAKER_06 1:51:10

No, last time you don't ever accept the UF.

SPEAKER_02 1:51:14

Then babe, channel it.

SPEAKER_01 1:51:16

Feminism.

SPEAKER_02 1:51:16

Channel it.

SPEAKER_01 1:51:17

Women lie to each other all the time. Feminism convinced women that they should work hard jobs instead of staying with a guy and raising a loving family. And women fell for it. Most of them.

SPEAKER_05 1:51:31

Well done for the fellow. Last thing to recommend. Well done for paying for taxes. This is why it's all so stupid. Well done for paying taxes, yo.

SPEAKER_06 1:51:36

They get the job, right? They don't want to cook and clean for a man, but they get the job and they have to cook and clean anyway. Feminism is a scam. So now you just got a job on top. It's actually stupid when you think about it. Anyways, uh, how do you think the show went? And uh social media.

SPEAKER_02 1:51:49

It's absolutely fantastic. It was brilliant being back gongs.

SPEAKER_06 1:51:53

Social media? Or you're low-key these days. Low-key.

SPEAKER_02 1:51:56

Always low-key, baby. Um, M-L-E Stan XO.

SPEAKER_01 1:52:01

I think the show went really well. First ever podcast. Hopefully, more to come. Hopefully. Yeah, definitely gonna have to get you. Socials are J Silgen, so J A I C I L G I N, everywhere, every platform. Look out for all Roselli here. Supplements coming out soon in a couple of weeks. So make note of that right now. Plug it.

SPEAKER_06 1:52:21

And thanks for having me on, guys. Yeah, yeah. Um, we're bringing out uh men's improvement journals well, so I'll probably DM you about that. Yeah, sure, bro. Yeah, all right, cool. If you enjoyed the show, make sure you subscribe to the channel. Press that subscribe button to subscribe to. Subscribe, yeah. I'm tired. That's the end of the show, people. Peace.

SPEAKER_01 1:52:37

Thank you.