Badass Basic Bitch
Brianna was born in New York and raised by a single mom of 5 kids. Through her struggles with self-worth and battling an eating disorder for over a decade, Brianna found herself packing everything in her Honda Civic and moving 3,000 miles to California where she knew no one, to chase an entrepreneur dream.
She found her passion, voice, and used her scrappiness and hardships to achieve something no one ever thought she could; creating a multi-million dollar company, which she sold. But then she found herself in the middle of her own divorce leaving her a single mom of 3. Now, remarried, Brianna lives in Austin with her husband and four children, as she continues to build companies and empower women to see they are enough.
So, what is a Badass Basic Bitch? It all started at an event, in a deep debate when another woman called Brianna a “basic bitch”. Quick off the mark, she replied with, “I’m a badass basic bitch”. We are often quick to judge and quicker to jump to our own conclusions. This woman knew very little about me. She judged me simply on our few interactions with each other. She coined me how she felt I fit into her view.
These Baddie Bs are everywhere. They’re our neighbors, women at church, soccer moms, or single women at the bar. These women are all of different religions and races, they are poor and rich, married, divorced or single. But they all have one thing in common; they are ordinary women doing extraordinary things. And now, it’s time their stories are told.
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Badass Basic Bitch
Modern Marriage Is Broken… Or Is It? With Allison Raskin
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In this thoughtful and surprisingly funny episode of Badass Basic Bitch, Brianna sits down with New York Times bestselling author, relationship coach, and mental health advocate Allison Raskin to unpack what healthy relationships actually look like in today’s world.
From modern marriage and dating culture to anxiety, OCD, and the unrealistic expectations we place on our partners, Allison shares why relationships aren’t something we’re simply born knowing how to navigate—they’re skills we learn over time.
The conversation also dives into Allison’s upcoming romantic comedy, Compulsively Yours, which offers an authentic portrayal of OCD through the lens of love. Together, Brianna and Allison discuss the difference between Hollywood romance and real relationships, why reassurance can become addictive, and how understanding your own mental health is one of the greatest gifts you can give your partner.
If you’ve ever questioned whether you’re “doing relationships right,” struggled with anxiety in love, or wondered if modern dating has made finding a healthy partnership more difficult, this episode is one you won’t want to miss.
In This Episode, We Discuss:
✨ How modern marriage has evolved—and why that’s actually a good thing
✨ Why healthy relationships are built through skills, not luck
✨ The unrealistic expectations we place on romantic partners
✨ Why “If they wanted to, they would” isn’t always healthy relationship advice
✨ How anxiety and OCD show up differently inside relationships
✨ The truth about relationship OCD and constant reassurance seeking
✨ Why communication matters more than mind-reading
✨ How dating apps and social media shape today’s relationships
✨ The inspiration behind Allison’s new rom-com, Compulsively Yours
✨ Why learning your own attachment patterns can change your relationships forever
Memorable Quote
“Being a partner is a skill, and we can get better at it.” — Allison Raskin
Key Takeaways
Modern Marriage Is Built on Choice, Not Necessity
Unlike previous generations, today’s marriages are increasingly formed because people genuinely want to build a life together—not because society expects them to. That shift has created opportunities for healthier, more intentional relationships.
Healthy Relationships Require Communication
The right partner isn’t someone who magically knows exactly what you need. The healthiest relationships are built when both people communicate openly, listen to each other, and continue learning how to love one another well.
Anxiety Can Change the Way We Experience Love
For people living with anxiety or OCD, relationships can become filled with uncertainty, intrusive thoughts, and the constant search for reassurance. Understanding these patterns helps reduce shame and creates space for healthier connections.
Comparison Is One of the Biggest Relationship Traps
Whether it’s dating apps creating endless options or social media showcasing curated relationships, comparison often distracts us from appreciating what’s actually in front of us. Real relationships are built behind closed doors—not on highlight reels.
Great Relationships Are Built by Two People Willing to Grow
No partnership is effortless. The strongest relationships happen when both people are committed to learning, improving, and working through challenges together rather than expecting perfection.
Connect with Allison Raskin
📱 Instagram:
@allisonraskin
🎵 TikTok:
@allisonraskinbaby
🌐 Website:
www.allisonraskin.com
📚 Books:
Compulsively Yours (coming soon) and Save the Date—available wherever books are sold.
🎙 Podcast:
Starter Marriage
Connect with Badass Basic Bitch
📱 Instagram:
@badassbasicbitchpodcast
🎙 Hosted by:
Brianna Dunbar-DeMike
