S1:E1 Abigail Rebecca: Authenticity Leads to Your Greatest Abundance

"I'm me, I'm weird, I'm different and I'm not going to  cover that up anymore to try to fit in. By me holding back or keeping back something, I have been blocking all the abundance that is waiting to  come into my life."

In today’s episode,  Visibility Coach, Stylist, Femme Boss, and Founder of Illuminated Leaders, Abigail Rebecca shares how she empowers visionary entrepreneurial women to be highly visible in the Aquarian Age.

Raised as a Jehovah's witness, Abby shares her experience of being deeply conditioned to be a mother and a wife and trying to fit in early on in life. Then at 16 she left it all to explore the world and define herself as her own person.  Later on, she found herself in the corporate world and again tried to "fit in" to the corporate male-centric leadership roles.

"What I love about this whole Age of Aquarius movement and building business in the new paradigm is that it's about building business where we all win. We all have a piece of it. We all have the abundance. We all have the wealth. We all have the happiness. There is enough to go around!"

Key Takeaways:

[4:56] How holding back  blocks abundance from coming to you

[7:27] How stepping up and living in your truth lights the way for other women to do the same

[18:13] Kundalini Yoga:  Wealth, Riches, and Abundance

[23:41] Why we should not put limitations on ourselves and be open to any possibility

[25:03] Women get to have gatherings when the pandemic is over

[30:57] Taking the Badass Bitch and the Spiritual Divine Goddess within You

[32:30] Women’s visibility and stance to become leaders in this new world

[36:24] The Age  of Aquarius Stands for Equality between Men and Women

[40:07] What you feel inside will manifest outside 

Links:

website: https://www.abigailrebecca.com/

Linktr.ee:

https://linktr.ee/illuminated_leaders

Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:01):

Hello lovelies, where are my bitches at?  Today's going to be epic. All right. So I have to just preface this. This is the first interview that I'm recording with my beautiful dear bad friend, who I will introduce you to in a moment. But it's the first interview that I'm recording as sacred AF, sacred as fuck. And so you'll, you will already have known by listening to a couple of the other earlier episodes that I started out this podcast, naming it, the, the, and the princess. And I interviewed, I don't know, seven women around that kind of theme in that title. And what came through was that was going to be a limited conversation. And what really was the conversation that was wanting to come through was the sacredness of women in all their iterations, from the pious to the irreverent, from the bold and the audacious to the quiet and the soft and my guests today, if we're just going to have so much fun, cause I love her.

Speaker 1 (01:15):

So let me just get to it because she's my first sacred af guest. And you get to know who she is and why she is brilliant. Abigail, Rebecca is a visibility coach, stylist and speaker, and she's also the founder of illuminated leaders. So in her work, what she does is empower visionary entrepreneurial women to be highly visible in the Aquarian age. If you don't know what that is, you do know what that is because you're listening to this podcast. So I'm going to leave it at that. And if it needs to come up later, it will. I'm just going to keep reading because it's remarkable. She believes that women are the natural leaders in this, in this new world. So do I, and we must be seen in order to make an impact and fulfill our higher purpose. So do I, however she says, we're often held back because we feel different and not good enough, exactly what we're talking about. We doubt our natural talent and worry about being judged or criticized. She created the aluminate method, which is based on her experience of leading coaching and developing women at the upper level for over 25 years and designed to it's designed to empower you to be more confident and highly visible in your business to lead a happier, healthier wealthier life. Abigail, Rebecca Abby, welcome to sacred as.

Speaker 2 (02:38):

Hi, I'm very, I feel very privileged that I'm part of this new movement. Well like an extension, a continuation got a fit. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (02:50):

Yeah. And when I invited you, I invited you as the, the slit in the princess. Hmm. Well,

Speaker 2 (02:55):

I, you know, I was like, well, I'm all, I'm all three of those

Speaker 1 (03:01):

Check, check, check. Which is why you were at home. Yes. I know that. And also, and also the, the, the core of what this is, is the sacredness of all parts, good, bad, ugly indifferent of women. So we get to have just a brilliant conversation today. And I know that you just recently changed this, the wording and the essence of your bio and the work that you do. So can just say a little bit more about, about that. What, what trends, like what instigated the, the rewrite.

Speaker 2 (03:46):

So I guess probably the best way to describe it is that I haven't actually changed the work that I do, but I've changed the way that I describe it. And I think for the first time ever in my life, I am fully showing up as me a hundred percent me, no apologies, no trying to hold back. I am absolutely over trying to be like trying to fit in to a certain type or trying to be something that people expect me to be trying to be. I put a post actually on Facebook the other day saying I'm just like, I'm just surrendering to the fact that I just, you know, fed up with being, trying to be one of the cool girls and just like, I'm, I'm may, I'm weird, I'm different. And I'm not going to cover that up anymore to try and fit in. And I realized that, no, obviously this is what I teach. Of course it is. So we teach what we most need to learn. And I also realized that by me, holding back, keeping back some Fang, I believe that I have been blocking all the abundance, like the hundred percent abundance that is waiting to come into my life. I've censored myself. So therefore I'm censoring the flow I'm blocking the flow and it just feels so amazing. It feels so liberating. And so I just wanted to tweak my bio really to reflect that

Speaker 1 (05:24):

Well, and you send something, you know, you're blocking the flow when you're not coming out of the freak weirdo, spiritual woo complete Abbey closet. Like here's who I am. Here's all, all of me. And it's it's it's one of the most courageous things we can do, but you're not only blocking the flow because this is what came through. When you said that you're not only blocking the flow back to you, but you're blocking it for other women. Like I got, I got real clear that, you know, some people I've been having conversations with people in my life about, well, isn't it selfish or, or isn't it selfish for me to want all these things? Aren't I taking away from other people and I'm like, gosh, you know, we've been, the conditioning is so deep. The lack, the, the scarcity, the not enoughness.

Speaker 1 (06:20):

You talk about it in your bio, the not good enough, the, the it, the imperfections. And that is, that is part of our conditioning. That is part of patriarchal conditioning that we get to stay in our lane. We get to stay in our pen. This is where it's safe. This is what you can, here's where you can express yourself. And so I had this kind of realization in a group retreat that I was in this past weekend where I was the subject of some really deep spiritual healing work. And for a moment, I was like, am I, am I being like a hog here? Like, am I being selfish? Raising my hand saying, I'll, I'll go. And, and in an instant, I knew that that wasn't the case, but that was my conditioning. My conditioning is to say, sit down, young lady, sit down, young lady, keep quiet when it's your turn, someone will call on you.

Speaker 1 (07:16):

And I have done just like you. I have done so much work to decondition myself from those just up archaic belief systems. And so, and I know that when I do the work, when I go first, when I lead, even in the face of, should I be saying this right now, even in the face of any of the self doubt that that's going to creep up, I light the way for other women. I just liked the way. And so that's, you know, that's what I see the deepening of, of you in the essence of the work that you do, the depth of the work that you do. Cause I know you, I know what you do. I know the, the, the magic that you bring, that is the, that is the, the, the ripple effect that you get to see is the abundance that gets rippled out to the women you work with to the women who follow you, the women who listened to this. So I just want to acknowledge you because it's a courageous act to come out of whatever closet you're, you've been in spiritual closet, free closet, weirdo, closet pious. But I swear, I'm, I'm a sailor, I'm a. I'm a. And I'm a princess, right? It's like, this is the conversation that we get to have.

Speaker 2 (08:27):

Yeah, yeah. All of that. And I think adding to that as well, if you think about traditionally, the way that business has always been built in the past, in a patriarchal society, a hierarchial way, you know, traditionally run by men, normally white with suits and you know, similar haircuts. And they all look the same.

Speaker 1 (08:55):

Sorry. The visual that, that just came through was, or no hair, I mean, home over whatever.

Speaker 2 (09:02):

Can you remind me about those businesses traditionally were built on, we build something and we take it away from somebody has to be like the one that suffers. We are taking it off someone. And what I love about our community and this whole movement and building business and the new paradigm in the age of Aquarius, new world. However you want to describe it. It's about building business where we all win. We all have a piece of it. We all have the abundance. We all have the wealth. We all have the happiness. That is enough to go around. So this worry about if I take it, I'm going to be like, if it's taken, because it's taking off, somebody else know like that doesn't exist anymore. It it's all shared. So like, and everyone's has the right to be happy, healthy, wealthy. Full-Stop regardless of whether they're a sailor, they're a princess, they're a slur. They're a, I don't know what else

Speaker 1 (10:12):

Could there be? There's so many

Speaker 3 (10:14):

Things. So

Speaker 1 (10:16):

Let's talk a little bit about your background. I know you were in corporate for a really long time selling your soul to the devil. That's how I, that those are my words. It's not in your bio, but that's my word, because I know, I know. So that, and I was listening to a Wayne Dyer podcast about when we, when we don't listen to that soul, the soul whispers that are coming through, like, is there, isn't there more than this? Like, am I sub aren't I supposed to be making an impact or I feel unfulfilled like those whispers when we, when we shove those away. And that is, that is what I believe we've been doing for really, really long time. When we do that, we die a little bit inside, you know, we die a little bit inside, so those are all, that's all my, that's my story about what corporate America is. But what was your experience in corporate America? Corporate, I'm sorry, you're not in America.

Speaker 2 (11:12):

Corporate world corporate United Kingdom

Speaker 1 (11:15):

For corporate UK for sorry. So, so

Speaker 2 (11:20):

No, it's the same thing. Now I do love that term, actually corporate. I love the fact that we say like corporate and you guys got corporate America. I'm like, well, my conditioning was that ran very, very deep because I was actually brought up as a Jehovah's witness. And even though my parents love me very, very much and had the best intentions for me, I was very much raised in a patriarchal world. Those men that we were talking about, the men that run the show, women didn't have a voice. So I was raised really in essence, to be a housewife and a mother. And there is nothing wrong with that amazing roles that we are, that many of us are blessed to have as women, but there was no other option. Like literally I was not encouraged to do anything else. And I really felt like I was, I just didn't fit in.

Speaker 2 (12:16):

They try to reign me in. They could see that I was different. I stood out, they tried very unsuccessfully to reign me in. And, and at school, I, again, I stood out, so I just didn't feel like I fit in anywhere. And at school I really try to fit in. So I try to be, you know, act like a popular girl. So I could be one of the in-crowd when I was 16, I'd had enough, I couldn't deal with it anymore. I laughed. I trained to be a chef. I trained to be a nanny. I went and lived in the states. And then when I was in America I really caught the travel bug and then went traveling for the next 10 years, really trying to find myself again, kind of slipping into a role that people would find me acceptable. So this time the role was the party girl, the good time girl.

Speaker 2 (13:08):

You know, and it just didn't feel like an act anymore. It just felt like I had morphed into this character, but still, I didn't feel that I fit in. And then guess what? Of course the whole, it, you know, it was a continuous circle. It was a pattern. So I came back from this, from working overseas and went and worked in corporate, worked my way up very, very quickly to be a senior leader. I was good at my job. And again, just trying to fit in trying to conform this time, taking on real male leadership attributes, because we all freaking do it. Let's not beat around the Bush. Most women who work in corporate will not, will not express their divine feminine leadership style because it's seen as soft. And we, you know, we can all of that. So yeah, of course we have to act like men so that we keep our jobs and you know, where respect it.

Speaker 2 (14:12):

So, so it was just this real continuous cycle. And then when I left corporate and set up my own business, it just continued. It really did. And I just felt like I was really suffocating stacks, sat stagnant. I was playing the comparison game. And it was only when I really started to look at other ways that how can I fully express myself? How can I be me? How can I overcome all these blocks that were really holding me back? Being afraid to show the real me, because the real meme might not be accepted. You know, it's very easy to put on a mask because if you are then rejected, then people aren't actually rejecting me. They're rejecting my persona. And of course the work continues because as I've just mentioned, you know, the same issue on your retreat this weekend, you know, I was on an immersive event a couple of weeks ago and it was like a, an epiphany, you know, it's like, what, what am I doing?

Speaker 2 (15:15):

Like what, w what am I really creating? And, and, and how am I coming across? Am I really relatable? You know, I've always had this idea of perfection. I have to, you know, I've always presented on stages and presented to camera and I'm really good at it. But I, I looked at myself really critically the other week, and I watched a video, a Facebook live of myself, and I have to say that it was, you know, it was perfect, but it was ju it was too perfect. And I just thought, oh, like, I'm not, it's not me. It's just like some girl, you know, with a light ring going and talking to camera. And I was like, I'm not actually being relatable or personable. And, you know, when people come work with me, it's completely different experience. You know, it's like, we, we laugh, we cry and it's so human, and it just it just didn't feel like that when I was watching myself on video. So I just think it's a continuous process that we're all going on, like peeling back the layers, peeling back the onion skin, and just, you know, really like, just keeping, like, stopping the fear of showing up as one self and just going out there and just, you know, doing the things that really, that if we allowed ourselves to do, would attract everything in that we wanted to attract him.

Speaker 1 (16:42):

Okay. So tell me what some of your freaky Deak qualities are. This is a, this is a testing ground for you. This is a way for you to really just question open up that closet, show us your freak, show us your what's in there.

Speaker 2 (17:03):

Well, I suppose, I suppose if you were to put it on a scale of freakiness might not be that freaky weirdo special. But you know, I, I guess in, in if you compare it to me being a corporate leader and, you know, being in the very often been the face of people that I've worked in corporate, where, you know, if you were to compare it on that scale, it's not really freaky, but I love Kundalini yoga. I absolutely love it. And I've never really used to kind of like express it or talk about it. I used to refer to it, but I always used to feel a little bit afraid about like going and demonstrating it, because I just thought that people think it's a bit weird or, you know, it's a bit too spiritual or whatever. What's the essence

Speaker 1 (17:54):

Of Kundalini yoga? What is it about it

Speaker 2 (17:58):

Come to Leni really is. It's what I love. You know, what I really love about Kundalini 

Speaker 3 (18:11):

Is that it was

Speaker 2 (18:13):

A yoga. That was a yoga practice that was really kind of reserved for the Kings and the S the, the holy men and the women actually cause it seek. And you know, the reason why six word term turbans, oh, forgive me. If there's any sexless now I've got this completely wrong, but I think I'm right. One of the reasons why six, where turbines is to show equality between men and women, men, and women wear turbans. So women are really respected within that culture. So, so anyway, the, the, the Kundalini practice was reserved for those people because it was all about wealth and richness and abundance. So I love the fact that it mixes the spirituality with the well, and, you know, there's a very, even though I do teach like wealth creation and abundance and prosperity, there is still a certain part of me that still has like this Britishness with it. And I know that is within us, all of us about, oh, talking about money, but oh my God, the British

Speaker 1 (19:18):

No taboo. Oh, you do not, not, no, it's very, it's very, very vulgar.

Speaker 2 (19:24):

We did not talk about money. You know, nobody knows who anybody I'm that don't even know how much my PA my father used to earn. He would never have spoken about it. So I think that that's coming out now. And I dunno, just know things like, I guess, like really expressing the way through my drafts. You know, I started to become a bit more flamboyant, I guess, in the way that I dress and dressing in more color. I don't, I don't know. Like, I don't think anything really that I do is like major, major freakiness.

Speaker 1 (19:59):

What did you just do? The lights just went on behind you.

Speaker 2 (20:02):

Oh my my fairy lights just came on.

Speaker 1 (20:09):

Okay. So what were you doing with your hand on this? I was playing with my, okay. So you were playing with that and the lights went on behind you. So this is okay. So this is why I want to talk about this, because I don't know if it's on a timer, but I, I say that spirit

Speaker 2 (20:24):

It's on a timer, but let's just say,

Speaker 1 (20:31):

I thought you were flipping taro cards over there. I was like, oh, she's good. We're going,

Speaker 2 (20:37):

You know, like this stuff, like, I think that all of you know, this within us, all of us, like, I've got a re my mum died like three years ago. My dad died seven years ago, but I would say that I've got the best connection with them. Now that they're with me, my mom's with me now, I've been this, my mom's been with me a lot. I think I'm about to go through the menopause. I think that that's happening. And I've been getting really, really upset because my mom's not here physically with me, you know, like, just to ask her the questions about what happened with her, so that it's relatable for me and that I can expect it, but like, I feel her. And again, you know, there's certain people that I would perhaps hold back from sharing that with, because I think, oh, they think I'm a bit weird or, and this, yeah. It's just, I, I guess what I've decided to do is just show all parts of me. My humor, you know, again, that's something that I held back in corporate, you know, I used to try and just have a laugh in meetings and I was always given a dirty look, you know, like a little flippant remark, you know, it's like, oh, Hey, she is, she's not taking it seriously. That's why you'll never be on the board. Abigail. You'll never be on the board with an attitude like that. Well, it. But keyboard,

Speaker 1 (22:03):

It's not

Speaker 2 (22:03):

Serious. It's all fricking made up. Anyway. We all live. We're all living in the matrix. It's all an illusion we might as well just have a laugh. So, you know, like I think that I've dropped the professional facade, seriousness

Speaker 1 (22:16):

Of it. Yeah. The rigidity of it. I get it. Yeah. All right. So, so when I say freak flag, I'm like, what's in the closet, like your spirituality. And, and, and I get it because as an entrepreneur, there is this, there is this thing, like, what are people gonna think? And am I going to people off? And they think the older I get, the more in the, I don't give a what people think. And, and, and I think that that's a really healthy place to come from simply because that's what we're all doing. We're all walking around, putting our fake face forward. Our, our best face forward, our most acceptable are please don't judge me. I mean, inherently, that's just, that's just what, what we do. And again, we were talking about this before we hit record when we cut off even the tiniest parts of ourselves.

Speaker 1 (23:22):

But mostly when we cut off the parts of ourselves that are like that, this really is who I am. Like, I really believe that, like I pointed out that those lights came on. Cause I was like, that's divine, intervention like that. That's your mom. As you were talking, you started talking about your mom and that your lights came on. And I was like, I believe in that. I believe in all of it. I believe anything is possible. I believe anything is possible. And when we don't allow ourselves to have that kind of a canvas for life, we are painting with three colors instead of infinite colors. Right. So, so we're, we're cutting ourselves off, we're cutting off our own power. And as you were talking about, you know, your parents have, have, have passed and that you feel closer to them. I'm, I'm like, I, my dad is with me more than he ever was when he was alive.

Speaker 1 (24:15):

He's literally here with me all the time and I feel him. And as someone who is an online presence, you have an online business and you're out there and you're, you're, you know, you're speaking and you're, you're putting your wisdom. And you know, you're putting it all out there. Where is that piece of your spirituality, your beliefs about spirit and divinity and what's sacred and the things that we can't see, where does that, where do you feel like that gets to be blown open that people actually, you know, you bring that to your business and you bring that to like, what's the next, what's that next level for you?

Speaker 2 (24:58):

Yeah. Well, I mean, it's fully expressed in ID not at the moment because as we're recording, this were still in locked down in the UK and probably won't be traveling for a while, but, you know hopefully in the future there'll be more in-person retreats. And that is fully expressed in those retreats. So that really gives a space for me and the beautiful women that come and play in those spaces to be able to explore. And for them also to have permission, to be able to open that within themselves as well, because I do attract a lot of, I do, you know, we, we very often attract ourselves don't we at different stages within our journeys. So I do attract a lot of women into my community that have been in corporate and, you know very much on a spiritual journey as we all are.

Speaker 2 (26:02):

And they might be at a different stage to, to where I am. I also attract women at the completely, the different Fs side of the spectrum, the well, and truly playing in that five D world, bringing them into the 3d. So it's almost like I'm kind of like, you know, relatable to both, to both sides and to kind of bring them in and play in either energy or both energy. So, yeah, I mean, I don't know. I feel, I don't know, like our business is a light breathing and growing entities, aren't they? So I'm sure that things will start to evolve and my big vision and what I really want to create next and something that's been in the pipeline for so long is I really want to create a festival. I want to create a festival for entrepreneurial women to come together and play and dance and explore and learn and saying, and connect and collaborate and beautiful spaces.

Speaker 2 (27:06):

I wanna create a gorgeous space in the woods, you know, with fairy lights and bell 10 send fires, and bring the most incredible speakers on stages Baffert to share their knowledge. And I just, w what I've really loved to do is I love to bring women together. And I know that I'm really good at, I'm almost like a matchmaker for entrepreneur women. Like they come and come into a space for what they think is their own personal development. And of course it is, but there's always something bigger, you know, like, ah, that's my next business partner. That's my next client. That's someone who's going to finance my next venture. So I'm really excited about that, about creating that. I, I also want to create a clothing line as well. I want to create a clothing line for the modern entrepreneurial Aquarian woman, you know, is, who is in that boss power, but that boss spiritual power. I

Speaker 1 (28:13):

See. So, so this for me is tapping into your superpower. So it is that, you know, you had, you had a foot planted in this corporate world and you got a lot of great stuff from that. You know, you, you just did. And now it's like, I'm going to bring my spirituality. I'm going to bring essence. I'm going to bring the divine feminine in because you see what didn't work in that realm. I mean, we see, we see it when we experience it, you experienced it for 20 plus years and you experienced the, the, the, the pieces of yourself that don't get to come to the, to the conference room. You experienced those pieces of yourself to get the hand slapped. When you bring a little humor and levity, and this is what women are brilliant at. And these little micro, like micro, I want to call them like, it's like micro conditioning.

Speaker 1 (29:12):

Like I can see it like a grid. I can see it. Like, it's instant, the conditioning it's just instant. Well, it shouldn't do that. How many times in a day does the, does do women think should shouldn't, should shouldn't that's that's a conditioned, it's a conditioned word who says you should, or you shouldn't. But I, what I love, what you just said is like, cause you, you, I don't know if you know this, but you kind of got into this. Like you started move and grind up a little bit because Rebecca and I are sorry, Rebecca, Abby and I are on video with each other. So we can see each other. I love this woman. I want to like crawl through the camera and to squeeze you and kiss you even in COVID. I would kiss you and, and I could see it and feel it and sense it, because that corporate experience, you got a taste of some things that worked, but a lot of things that didn't, and now here, here you are Abby, as this is the way business gets to be built, nurtured co-created.

Speaker 1 (30:19):

And that's a magic. Like I saw that visual of this festival out in the forest with the frickin fairy lights and the tents and fires and women dancing. And like, that's where we have that. Like, that's where our, our, our brilliance is in those soft places, in those places where we're moving the places where we're speaking and singing and dancing and communing with the elements and nature. Like, those are the things that get to come in to the age of Aquarius. Right? So let's just talk about age of Aquarius, because I am, I have like fricking goosebumps right now, because this is the essence of sacred is. The essence of sacred is podcast is taking the bad-ass and the spiritual divine goddess. And she is one. So she gets to merge and come and play full out in every aspect of her life. So age of Aquarius, you, and I've talked about this on other interviews, because this is not the first time we've done this jam as we love each other. For those of you, like, what do you see as next? Because you just started to speak to it. Like if you had a magic wand and you could create how the world work worked, what would it look like? And you can do this from business, you know, business perspective. Cause this is your, this is your realm. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (31:41):

Well, well, I guess one of the reasons that I work with, I mean, the women that come and work with me learn many things, but I, but the way that I attract the man and what I really speak to is visibility. So it's confidence and visibility because obviously if you've got a message to share with the world, there's so many things that can hold us back from sharing that message. I'm not good enough. I, you know, doubting our skills and abilities, being worried about judged, being worried about criticized. I was spoken about this before, you know, that it comes from deep rooted conditioning, generational scars passed from mother to mother, to mother, to mother, to daughter, mother to daughter. So so for me, what I'm so passionate about is really helping women be highly visible so they can stand up and be the leaders that we need in this new world.

Speaker 2 (32:38):

So women are being handed the power. We are being handed over the power by conscious man and the man who are enabled to hand over the power at the moment are in that death rows, kicking and screaming. And we all know who they are, right. So we can spot them a mile off all over the world. What I love about the age of Aquarius is that first of all, you know, women, we've always been really good at doing many, many different things, wearing many different hats. It's our natural talents, some natural abilities we are multifaceted. So if I look at, you know, my entrepreneurial journey, before I left, I left corporate, I tried to be a personal stylist. And I was like, oh, I'm a presentation coach. I couldn't be a personal stylist and a present co-citation coach. I was one or the other.

Speaker 2 (33:32):

So I was like, oh, I'll be a presentation coach. Then I left with how women leave corporate. Then I did this. Then I did that and I've transitioned quite a lot. And I think one of the things that I'm really owning now is that I can be everything. I've only just put personal stylists back into my title because I was like, well, it confused everyone. One note, won't like, it's just one of the things that I do. And it's all to do with being visible anyway. So acquiring leadership is about it is about it's about men and women coming together, but really women sort of leading the way because of our natural leadership qualities. It's, it's playing in a world where there are no secrets. Everything is shared. There is no way to hide. We can't be visible anymore. Everything that we do could potentially show up, you know, if we decided that we were going to kick off some wife, we were going to like, I don't know, like get angry, potentially somebody could be filming it and it'd be straight onto social media.

Speaker 2 (34:40):

Like there is no way to hide. So actually we it's important for us to embrace every part of ourselves and to be totally blissed out and happy. So that, that is like, we are coming, we are operating from that natural state. And and there are the 70 shifts and 70 changes in this world. I'm just really excited to be a part of that. And anything that I can bring to the table, I will do, you know, like I said, like you've rightly pointed out, you know, I've got many things that I've brought from corporate. I could see what was working in corporate, not working in corporate. Then I've kind of dabbled in the spiritual world. And again, I can see what's working and what's not working in that. And, and, and just bringing the two together is it's just a real honor to be able to just explore that and, you know, to experience it myself and to allow other women to experience it. And that's why I love retreats. That's why I love festivals because wealth and abundance is an experience it has to be experienced. So even if you're not actually quite there yet, you are you all there. So just stop being it.

Speaker 1 (36:07):

It's so great. It's such an energy. It's abundance is such an energy. There's an energy of abundance. And you know, this whole age of Aquarius for me, that's what it feels like right. There is no, there, there, the age of Aquarius is let's leveling out of the playing field because information is available to all information is available to all. So there isn't a someone out there at the top who has the information that, that the rest of us don't have, which is what I, which is what I love that love about that. And that is abundant information for everyone. That's abundance. I had a question and I want to, oh, so as, and I don't know why this has been coming through for me just in the last few days, talk about beauty. So, so as someone who is really committed to women being fully, self-expressed I, the term fully, self-expressed the term self-expression for me means all of me gets to show up all of me.

Speaker 1 (37:18):

And as I, as I've been going through, you know, looking for people to interview for this podcast and diving into this, like, what does this look like? The, the, the phrase has just been coming in of about beauty and beauty from the standpoint, not beauty for beauty sake, but beauty of the stamp from the standpoint of has a self-expression. So as an expression of our divinity, our divine gifts, our femininity, our, our sacred masculinity, all of that. So all of the ways that we get to show up, when you say I'm a stylist, and I've commented on multiple outfits that you have worn on some of your social media Facebook or social media lives or posts. And I'm like, where did you get that sweater? And like, it's fantastic because, because clothing is a self-expression, is it not as is beauty as is how we claim our own beauty.

Speaker 1 (38:23):

And as a woman for me, I just want to talk about this kind of like our, our appearance. So you talk about visibility, you talk about confidence, you talk about the styling. So it's kind of like, how are we showing up in the world and not for other people, but how are we showing up in the world? So that it's an expression of our own, the claiming of our own reverence, the claiming of our own divinity, our own sacredness, like, what is it about styling and beauty? And you've put a picture up the other day, you did a Facebook live, or put a picture up of yourself in this mirror. I was like, where'd that give me a picture of that mirror. I don't even know what it's made of, but it's gorgeous. It's this I'm attracted to beauty. I'm attracted to it. I'm attracted to these beautiful things where I never had been before.

Speaker 1 (39:15):

It was almost like that made me shallow. Like this is my conditioning, right. So can you speak to this whole thing about showing up being beautiful? And I mean, beauty, like the inner, the inner essence that I think of this, like adornment, like how a queen would be adorned, do you know her, her beautiful garb and her beautiful jewels and her beautiful, like face paint or makeup. So I want to do, I want it to bring that up because it's been coming through for me so strong. What do you give me your take on this? Yeah, it's

Speaker 2 (39:50):

A great subject. So, so for me, aquarium leadership is about us being our most abundant, empowered, aligned a blissful selves. And for me, clothing accessories, like what I wear, how I adorn my body is me being fully expressed. It's a physical manifestation of how I'm feeling inside. And it doesn't, it's not about whether I've got eyelash extensions on or whether I've paid to my nails or not is how I want to show up in that energy. And, you know, we, we w we, we recognize this every day. You know, if we're feeling a bit, it's not a great day. Guests will show up like that. If we're feeling really amazing and happy and, you know, we feel good, we're going to show up like that. So I, I, I truly believe that expressing ourselves through our clothes is the biggest expression of self-love.

Speaker 2 (41:04):

It's honoring ourselves. It's like, Hey, hello, like more like, and it's also making a statement. Like, I love a statement. I love a statement. T-Shirt I love that. I just love expressing my opinions to the world on a t-shirt on my. I, I just, it's amazing. And, and and I love to see how I've really loved to watch really empowered self express women show up. And I love to see their style, what statements they make Ang like for me, style is the language, it's the language in itself. So I don't think that it's being Charlotte self-important shallow, superficial, none of that. Oh, I'm sorry. That's coming from a place of scarcity, you know, come over here into the world of abundance and, you know, put your statement, jewelry, jewelry on and come on, let's have a conversation. I love it. I love it. And I also, what I love about it is that it's play. It's like, it's like, you know, as a little girl going and, or a little boy going into, you know, a dressing up box and putting on your clothes and adorning yourself and, you know, prancing around. And it's just, it's just part of the, the experience of life. We were given colors. We were giving textures of material, you know, to, to experience it. And it's pure, raw pleasure. We must experience that.

Speaker 1 (42:44):

And I feel like this has been coming through for me for the last couple of days, because I knew we were going to talk, meaning this, this was something that was, that was wanting to be, to be talked about, because this is reverence. Like I never, I never took it that way. Abby, for me, it was like, I don't care. I can show up in a t-shirt or I can show up in a fricking prom dress. And I'm still me. And at the same time, when I actually started investing in clothes that were, oh my gosh, that's so cute. And when I put it on, I'm like, sit up a little taller, feel a little bit more true, feel a little bit more authentic, feel a little bit more sacred. This really is when, when you said it, like you I'm, I'm seeing your clothing line, just FYI. Like I am seeing it, cause this is how I work. Like I see this it's there. It is. It is like the, I see the online, like world, the, you know, who we're talking about, people like you and I, this online, this online coaching, speaking influencer world, just, this is part of that. Self-Expression, it's so part of it and I never saw it before, just recently. Really just recently.

Speaker 3 (44:09):

It's brilliant.

Speaker 2 (44:11):

Really exciting. Okay.

Speaker 1 (44:14):

Oh my goodness. I could do this all day long with you and you know it all right. I want to talk about your free gift. You know, I always bring people in who, who I would love for you to connect with and find out more about their work in the work that they do. And Abby has free gift around unlocking the value and potential inside of you and fulfilling your higher purpose as a leader in the Aquarian age. So what is your free gifts?

Speaker 2 (44:41):

Yeah, so it's a, it's an ebook that I've created. And you know, before I was talking about experiences, I think that, you know, wealth, abundance, success, joy must speak experience. Too, that's the whole physical manifestation. It's the whole process. So I've created this beautiful book it's called eliminate from within. And you read it there's assignments in there there's spaces to journal there's things to do. There's ways that you can connect with people. You can just go and totally immerse and CA and play is a whole energy field go and play in that energy. And, you know, I believe that it's something that you can use to really start to explore and look at your own visibility and how you want to show up in this world, how you want to present yourself in this world using your beautiful gifts. Hmm.

Speaker 1 (45:38):

Well, thank you for using your beautiful gifts with me today, which are your spiritual bad-ass vis highly visible, influential illuminated leaders, your sassiness, your humor, your F bombs all over the place. Who is that? Was that Rudy? That was [inaudible]. So we, I love it. When was that an American accent? Do it again, or maybe Wiener, Rudy cutest Wiener, dog you've ever seen, but if, if it was in a British accent and be a Wiener dog,

Speaker 2 (46:15):

No, we call them a sausage dog.

Speaker 1 (46:25):

So key. So cute. Well thank you for being here always. And I just want to, I just want to say this, you know, I know because I've done this so many times that when conversations like this are created, there's, there's the input that you shared. And then there's the input that I shared. And then there's something that gets created here in the middle. That's the beauty of women coming together. The beauty of women, even just speaking and even just speaking is really, is really doesn't do that term any justice, because it's in the speaking that things get created. I can see this vision of the age of Aquarius, feminine, divine, feminine leaders, really transforming the planet. I mean, I've, I've been saying this for so long. Women are going to, women will transform the planet. And I really do believe it's in this, this kind of leadership. So thank you for coming through today. Thank you for having this sacred as, which is exactly what it is and being all of you on the sacred as podcast.

Speaker 2 (47:36):

You are very welcome and I love you. I love what you're creating. It's been so much fun hanging out with you and whoever is listening to this, I feel your energy.

Speaker 4 (47:51):

So just

Speaker 2 (47:51):

Rudy, the Wiener, it's just been really cool hanging out. Thank you so much. I love you so much.

Speaker 1 (48:00):

I love you too. I love you too. And this is, this is how women lead. We lead with love. So it's a find out about Abby's free gift and about her and find all her social media handles. You can look at the show description and or it will be on the website. So thank you so much. Thank you everybody for being here. Thank you everyone for listening, and we will see you next time. Bye bye.