Parenting Collective
Hey beautiful parents, welcome to the Parenting Collective Podcast! I am your host, Donna Moala and around here we believe it takes a village, so I have brought to you a village of experts who give you all the tools around anything parenting and beyond.
Each episode, I invite brilliant minds in parenting, health, relationships, and beyond to share their knowledge and support you in creating calmer homes, stronger connections and more rested nights. Think of this as your weekly coffee date with people who really get it and who can give you the tools to thrive, not just survive.
I am Certified Secure Sleep and Conscious Parenting Coach, certified with the incredible Dr Shefali Institute, wife & mother of 3 teenage girls. Empowering and supporting families throughout the WORLD with my 1:1 guidance, via in home consults or zoom.
Nurturing & supportive and NEVER Cry It Out. Working with expectant parents through to children 10 years old. I am the founder @parentingcollective.au
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Parenting Teens Through Mental Health Challenges
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⚠️ Trigger Warning: This episode discusses teen self-harm and suicidal thoughts.
Teen mental health is in crisis. Many parents feel overwhelmed and unsure how to respond when their teen is struggling with self-harm, suicidal ideation, anxiety, or intense emotions.
On this episode of The Parenting Collective Podcast, Donna speaks with licensed therapist and author Katie K. May, who works with high-risk teens and their families.
They explore:
- Why teens self-harm
- The real function of self-destructive behavior
- What “big emotions” actually mean
- How validation calms the nervous system
- The difference between emotion and behavior
- Setting boundaries without losing connection
- Breaking generational parenting patterns
- Becoming a safe place for your teen
If your teen is dealing with depression, anxiety, emotional dysregulation, or suicidal thoughts, this conversation will help you understand what’s happening beneath the surface—and how to respond in ways that build trust, safety, and resilience.
⏱️ Chapters
00:00 Why This Matters
01:17 Meet Katie
03:48 Hidden Anxiety
05:19 Fire Feelers
07:43 Decode Behavior
09:36 Validation
10:56 Good-Enough Parenting
12:57 Break Cycles
15:11 Trust the Data
16:47 Self-Harm
17:47 Emotion vs Behavior
18:21 Nature + Nurture
19:34 Invalidation
20:32 Repair
22:06 Boundaries + Connection
24:43 Letting Go
27:23 Parenting Grief
28:16 Resources
If you or your teen is in immediate danger, contact local emergency services or a suicide prevention hotline in your country.
Follow Katie K. May:
Website: https://katiekmay.com/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/katiekmay/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/creativehealingphilly
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/katiekmay
Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@katiekmay
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Donna Moala
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