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Ep. 20 - Ego with Maureen Kafkis

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“We have to accept reality, take responsibility for our emotions, and you will suffer way less when you stop blaming everybody else for everything, and you'll understand the power of your mind.” - Maureen Kafkis

What if we told you we have the solution to all your pain and suffering? 

Your first thought may be, there is no one solution to ALL suffering, or that this is impossible. However, the solution is quite simple, but without awareness, we create blind spots for ourselves, which is why we continue to suffer. 

The solution is, living consciously aware of your ego and how it manifests in your day to day life and your thoughts. The thoughts that infiltrate the mind, that have been placed there as a protection mechanism, are the cause of most human suffering. Most of the thoughts we think in a day have nothing to do with reality, but are just a perception created to protect our egos. 

So what happens when you can see your thought pattern as an outsider looking in, could you find how you have been filtering your reality in a way that has created suffering for you? This question requires a lot of contemplation, but what we can safely say is that it probably has. The ‘how’ is up to you to find out. 

The ego gets a bad rep but it's not all bad, the difference is just our awareness of it. The ego helps us in many ways, but can cause great suffering if we choose to stay in the dark. 

What we want to help you uncover in today’s episode is that the ego can be used as a tool to help evolve and propel yourself forward to become a better version of yourself. 

To help unpack the ego, we have invited Maureen Kafkis. Maureen is a life coach whose focus is to help others live consciously, and she joins us to discuss how our subconscious thought patterns manifest in our lives, where they come from, and how we can become aware of them to change our reality.

Tune in to hear more about how you can change your thoughts and be on your way to harnessing your ego for your benefit!

Topics discussed in this episode:

  • Why Maureen picked ego as a topic for today’s episode
  • A thought filter Maureen created for herself at a young age
  • How Eckhart Tolle changed Maureen’s life
  • What triggered Maureen’s sense of awareness
  • How thought filters lead to ego
  • How the ego manifests in our lives
  • Why the ego has a bad rep
  • Where the ego comes from
  • How brain filters aren’t so bad and cannot be avoided
  • What does it mean to live consciously
  • How to use the ego to improve ourselves

Head to Apple Podcasts to listen to Maureen’s podcast, ‘The Brain BS Podcast’, to learn more on how you can learn how to live consciously!

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