'I love my child but I find it hard to like them a lot of the time'. On an extreme day, this is what parents with Oppositional Defiant Disorder children often think, but dare not say. Join me as we flesh out what is going on with children and teenagers who are really tough to parent due to their defiance and their different way of thinking. Common sense parenting doesn't cut it here, you need to have specialised parenting skills or you won't survive with an intact sane family. You can't just know this stuff, you have to learn it. Join me.