Steve Vs Sam

Ever wondered why Nickelback gets such a bad rap? Join us as we rock out to the memories of our emo days and unpack the layers of love and loathing for those power chord heroes. Sam, Brittany, and your host Steve share a laugh and maybe a few eye-rolls, reflecting on the bands like Staind and Evanescence that defined our angsty youth. Brittany's guitar-strumming stories will take you back to the days of checkerboard Vans and studded belts, while we also confront the cultural storm that Dipset's fashion unleashed.

Strap in for a wild ride through the spiritual echoes of Christian rock, where Creed and Skillet strike a chord, and dive into our current fervor for rock over rap. Female powerhouses in the rock scene steal the spotlight, as we pay homage to the fierce Fireflight, the iconic Heart, and Gwen Stefani's ever-evolving allure. The venues may have changed, but the exhilarating pulse of live music—and our debate over it—remains as spirited as ever.

But it's not all throwbacks and head-banging; we get real about the serious undertones of substance use and the importance of accountability. Personal stories of transformation and growth remind us that the music we love can also be a mirror to our own lives. Join us as we navigate the intricate dance of communication, where every word counts, and where active listening can be the key to understanding and change. This episode is more than a playlist of nostalgia—it's a journey through the growing pains and gains of life's rock anthem.

Transcript

Nickelback Hate and Music Memories

Speaker 1 0:28

The fuck you were . You was Everybody that I knew from the go . I know , hoes , that was right .

Speaker 3 0:33

But they knew they was wrong . Like it , you sounded like a game show host .

Speaker 1 0:42

This is the .

Speaker 3 0:43

Minority .

Speaker 1 0:43

Plus One Podcast .

Speaker 2 0:50

Chill Plus One Podcast Cheer . What's going on , everybody , and welcome to the show . It's the King of the Hefferies . It's Oreo we are back once again podcasting to you and , as always , we got the ladies . Yes , always we got the ladies . That's your friend Darlings . Tell them who are you . It's Sam Crystal , it's Brittany and I'm your host , steve . And this is the Minority Plus One Podcast , chill , chill , so .

Speaker 3 1:31

Zin , zin , zin zin , so Hold on hold on . It was great , but let's get back to what's important .

Speaker 2 1:38

Go ahead .

Speaker 3 1:39

What is the Nickelback hate ? All right .

Speaker 2 1:45

So while we were waiting for you to come here , you and you were separately um we , um , I was showing Sam , uh , the there's a rock festival . Cause she's like oh , there's no good rock festivals , there ain't no good slappers . And I was like you have no idea , trust me . So then I found it . What Trust me ? So then I found it was one of the ones that I saw . But then I was like so I was like he was sitting here and she's like oh shit .

Speaker 3 2:07

Mad people are in there . Yo when ?

Speaker 1 2:10

Well , you know how sad it is . You know , like a lover's , what was the line out .

Speaker 2 2:13

There's a lot .

Speaker 3 2:14

There's a lot Like stained evanescent , oh shit . Red kind Lip , it's in ohio oh I know exactly , but it was like a lovers and friends where it was mad it's only eight hours , that's too , much . But you know , I don't know what got us into talking about . So that's how we got on to the topic of nickelback .

Speaker 2 2:39

I don't know what no , so I'll tell you exactly how what happened .

Speaker 1 2:42

I know why .

Speaker 3 2:43

I know why we got there because I heard of Breaking Benjamin , but I don't know any of their music at all .

Speaker 2 2:49

I was thoroughly shocked .

Speaker 3 2:50

So Steve was like playing all these songs . I'm like I have no idea . I'm getting Three Doors Down mixed up with Three Days Grace , which I don't know how that happens at all . I don't know either , because they're totally two different bands , it's three because , they're totally two different people , it's three .

Speaker 2 3:06

They both got three . Fair enough , but one has the number three and one spells out three .

Speaker 1 3:08

Yeah , exactly I think you don't fucking know . I actually do know . I went through a very heavy give me a three days . Grace wasn't my shit , but I do love some stained I love fucking .

Speaker 2 3:18

Give me a state phone bitch my shit .

Speaker 1 3:21

I used to play my very first guitar song okay , I'm leaving my very first guitar song I'm so sick of this shit every you're making the same mistake again .

Speaker 2 3:35

Every you , always . You are doing it now you are like give me a song you have to know at least one song so Far .

Speaker 1 3:43

Away was the song . If you guys would let me fucking tell the motherfucking story . You guys always do this shit Cause you follow the shit , that's more like her . Everybody knows , I went through an emo phase , a skateboard phase , a fucking .

Speaker 2 3:56

I wore fucking at me's . I wore the fucking UFO pants .

Speaker 3 4:00

I dated a skater boy . Did you skateboard um ? Did you later boy ?

Speaker 1 4:04

I said I yes , bitch I did all of that shit , I was at roller rama every friday , saturday night . I was like that weird kid that like for a little bit . Yes , I was . I had a very deep emo phase and you know what I don't regret it . My , my ex , was the manager of hot topic . Oh , you was really with I emo life .

Speaker 3 4:23

I was really in it . I was in the mall with you know in the arcade and shit with the weirdos for a little bit , Like I went through emo shirts . Were you wearing the fingerless gloves With the stripes ? Nah , he was bad .

Speaker 2 4:36

I'm really shocked with that .

Speaker 1 4:38

look the cute look was the UFOs with the cute little tank and shit definitely a couple pairs of dcs and every chick had the belt chain .

Speaker 3 4:52

But I did it , I did it like the reason why I wore the belt chains , because dip set was wearing the belt chain .

Speaker 2 4:59

Remember they had , remember they had the the rockstar outfits for a minute , because Dipset are a bunch of appropriators .

Speaker 1 5:09

They made that shit .

Speaker 2 5:10

fire , they made that shit fire and don't stop it from appropriating , don't get it twisted , don't get on Dipset . They are fashion icons . I'm not denying it . Two things can be true . You can be a fashion icon and a vulture .

Speaker 3 5:29

They're fashion icons . Icons . Okay , let's get back . So you gotta have some . So brady was out here , emo and I was . I was out here , they weren't even called my first .

Speaker 1 5:33

like I said , I really wanted to play the guitar so I got into , uh , my dad had bought an acoustic guitar and I learned staying so far away and I'm like the beginning and the intro and that shit was like so fucking fire . But yeah , yeah , you know , I had a deep , um deep emo alternative phase for a little bit .

Speaker 3 5:51

So I want to say it was a phase , cause I actually still love the music , like I still really enjoy it .

Speaker 1 5:55

I mean it isn't my shuffle , but I don't find myself listening . You know , the one song I like , feel like I will go back to every now and then , is um I hate everything .

Speaker 3 6:05

That's three days grace that's three days grace and you ain't know what y'all see I helped you with one song .

Speaker 1 6:10

One song , all right , give me another , one more stain song um . This is an easy one I'm not gonna lie , I don't even know one more , one more memory is not good , you know , my memory is not good , so I don't know , why you've been trying to . Oh yeah , that wasn't one of my good ones .

Speaker 3 6:28

That wasn't one of my favorite ones , though , um tell me why I listened to that song in middle school , thinking I had my life was so rough . I'm over here hawthorne heights .

Speaker 1 6:41

I love some hawthorne heights , yeah , okay , okay , fucking . Who else was really good back then ?

Speaker 2 6:48

mad people , yeah , it was a good time it was a great time that was a great era type of music , like I feel like nowadays what the kids have now like remember oh yes and the reason is yes , the reason .

Speaker 3 7:04

Like I loved incubus , remember incubus we went through this before yeah I wish you . I had such a crush on the lead singer . I had such a crush on him I wish you were here .

Speaker 1 7:20

That was my shit , I had such a crush on the least thing .

Speaker 2 7:24

I thought he was so fine yo , that's back when you had to be creative and good , so good no , real honestly .

Speaker 2 7:33

Yeah , they put their soul in that music honestly let's get back on track , because we went on a tangent , but we so I was showing her the lineup he was showing me the lineup and then he's playing some breaking bedroom and then , uh , I don't know how we End Really ended up there , but I was like , oh , we were talking about Stain and I was , and then she had mentioned this one song and then I was like , wait , no , that was , that was Nickelback , featuring the lead singer From I mean that was the lead singer , because I couldn't remember another song for them .

Speaker 3 8:13

And no , you , saliva , you were talking about saliva yes , I'm sorry , you're right I never heard their music either , but I know who they are and you said they were . He was like . I don't know them either , but they was on that song with nickelback that no , I know the song .

Speaker 2 8:24

No , I know the song . I know their song . I couldn't think of it off the top of my head , but I knew him from singing that song with Nickelback the .

Speaker 3 8:33

Spider-Man song . I hold on to the wings of a hero .

Speaker 1 8:38

Watching , they all fly away .

Speaker 2 8:42

That song is so hot , and then I was like , and then I was and then I was like , and then I was asking her . I was like yo , why the fuck do people really hate nickelback ?

Speaker 3 8:52

no , seriously , there's like a genuine hatred for nickelback people hate , they hate them I don't know why I don't know why . Uh , listen , I fucks with nickelback matter of fact , ste Steve , it wasn't Nickelback that was coming up here , it was Creed . Oh I , I don't really . I only know that one Creed song .

Speaker 2 9:15

They had a couple .

Speaker 3 9:16

I just know .

Speaker 2 9:20

No , they have other ones .

Speaker 1 9:21

To a place where I had a couple .

Speaker 2 9:23

I actually had two creed CDs .

Speaker 1 9:25

Really , yeah , wait can you give me another creed song , because they were supposed to be a Christian man .

Speaker 2 9:32

Yes , you're absolutely right . That was like a lot of like You're right they were .

Speaker 1 9:34

Yeah , so my parents didn't mind me .

Speaker 3 9:44

Not that I was like was on a couple of shows bugging out drunk as hell , like yeah , like this is early 2000s , but wait , give me another yeah but I'm like sitting there and I'm just like yo , yo , but I always put Creed and Nickelback in the same kind of category . So that's why I said Creed , but nah , man , nickelback . You know , this is how you remind me . Yeah , that was our show .

Speaker 1 10:13

I really am . Yeah , yeah , yeah , not like you to destroy me .

Christian Rock Music and Female Singers

Speaker 2 10:18

My sacrifice , arms wide open .

Speaker 1 10:21

Oh , arms wide open , yeah , how can we forget that one ?

Speaker 3 10:25

We take them to this place .

Speaker 2 10:28

I'll show you where we're from Higher , can you take them ? We just , we did Wait , wait .

Speaker 3 10:34

So arms wide open , I know that . So I think it's the only two songs I know .

Speaker 2 10:37

No , then you know my sacrifice , my sacrifice .

Speaker 3 10:42

I can't play it on you , obviously , but you know what ? I'll play it after now I'm starting to realize all those songs are about god it's definitely about going to heaven in the golden streets , and so is arms wide open , yeah , so they also get a lot of heat too , of being like people just don't like their music .

Speaker 1 11:04

A lot , lot of rock .

Speaker 2 11:05

Christian bands I liked .

Speaker 1 11:06

Yeah .

Speaker 2 11:07

All right Now . This is where I have to call her out .

Speaker 1 11:09

Why so you say ?

Speaker 2 11:11

you like a lot of rock , christian bands .

Speaker 1 11:12

Yeah , like .

Speaker 2 11:13

Skillet Thousand Foot Crutch .

Speaker 1 11:16

More like like come on . You got to give me something like dc talk okay , okay , that's very old school , very yes , that's very old school that's actually what that I actually uh , that's , that's jesus , yes , jesus on my way to summer school , like the lead singer from him uh , toby , uh , what the hell's his name ?

Speaker 2 11:50

toby mack , yes , yo no that motherfucker son . Contrary to like , that dude is huge . Yeah , I saw him while he was up here with him and , uh , there was another one . Um , oh , what is there ? Oh , oh , my God , I have their fucking songs too . What the fuck are they called again ? But they came up here and they were playing at the palace .

Speaker 1 12:11

Yeah , fantastic , no Fantastic , I believe it .

Speaker 3 12:15

The palace , be having some shit there , like if you really that's crazy , people sleep on the palace . You could get some really good concerts there they should have better shows there .

Speaker 2 12:23

They should , they really should .

Speaker 3 12:25

It's a good place for a concert and I like how they keep the uh , the original architecture looks like an old movie theater looks like a really old movie theater I don't I like it , but yo there was there's .

Speaker 2 12:37

There's a lot of good bands . Man , I just all right I , I'm just . I'm just done with rap . Like I said last week . I'm just done with rap . Like I said , I'll do that .

Speaker 3 12:42

I'm just done with rap right now , like I can't listen to the horse rock . Still , who ? What female lead singer rock band do you like the most female lead singer ?

Speaker 2 12:52

so , all right , you're not gonna know this band , but I really , oh fuck , I can't . Uh , they're called fire flight . I think it's two lead singers . The two lead singers are female .

Speaker 1 13:04

Who you about to say , paramore .

Speaker 2 13:06

And I really like Her voice . You're gonna kill me for who I'm about to say , if I had to pick one , I would pick the lead singer from Heart Heart .

Speaker 3 13:17

Okay , y'all gonna kill me , but just bring it back to the old days . I did , no doubt no old . Does that count as old nude , no doubt . I guess I'm talking tragic kingdom , no doubt . Don't speak her news like tragic kingdom , spider webs , you know I do like girlfriend too . So gwen stefani comes still saying she actually , she actually , she's one of the faces . She's one of the only blondes that I think are attractive .

Speaker 2 13:51

Really her shit yeah she's one of the only blondes that I find attractive .

Speaker 3 13:54

I'm dead serious I do not find blondes attractive in any way , shape or form but for some reason I think she is sexy even now , with the stretched face , it looked like they put they foot on the back of her head and went like this and pulled all the skin back yes , just like every other , aging I thought she was , I thought she looked good .

Speaker 3 14:16

Yeah , she looks good to me when she did the concert I was like , oh , that thing tight

Managing Substance Use and Accountability

Speaker 3 14:22

it was on . It was actually on tick . She did like a tick , so it's for superbowl , so it's old , and she did like a pre-superbowl tiktok concert or whatever . And she looked tight but she still sounded great . And it's weird because a lot of people in the audience you could tell they were like gen z or something . They didn't know nothing and she's like come on , guys , put your hands together . You know they're gonna see you blah , blah . And I'm like , bitch , you needed us in there , the millennials , because we went away . So she fucking did all the slappers she did holla bad girl , like even her hip-hop shit I ain't gonna front yo , that's my shit .

Speaker 2 14:53

Yeah , I told you that's my white girl song yeah , like if I was a girl , like if I was a white girl , that'd be my song .

Speaker 3 14:59

Her and um whole courtney courtney love that bitch because she could rock out , yeah , yeah , yeah , you're right , court . But old courtney loves like when she looked like a dirty , uh , like rag doll . Yeah , I love that one she says I have white rage . I ain't got no man , you want a female , female rock lead singer you know she only fucks with the dude .

Speaker 2 15:27

Yeah , I know that but shit can we make an exception , like I don't listen to no pussy amy lee evanescence .

Speaker 1 15:36

Oh yeah , but I said besides evanescence no , you said paramore I said paramore and then I said evan . When you said who else , I said evanescence and then I said Paramore . I said Paramore , and then I said when you said who else , I said Evanescence and then I said Paramore .

Speaker 2 15:47

And then I said Cranberries is another one .

Speaker 1 15:49

And then I said fucking , you know , but I was , I was more into , like you know , cranberries is a good one . Not so much rock . Yeah , more of that like emo Alternative Alternative .

Speaker 3 15:59

Yeah , um , not so much rock no , she was also supposed to be a christian rock band too . Evanescence yeah , because she went back to christianity . She actually went back to christianity for a little while , I think . Yeah , she did . I don't know if she's still in it , but she left the group to . You know , stop to practice her christian christianity . And then I don't know if she's she's back now because clearly they're on that tour , so yeah , I don't know if she's back now because clearly they're on that tour . So yeah , I don't know . Yeah .

Speaker 2 16:26

Hold that thought , cuz we gotta take a break and we're back . So now that we got that out the way first off , ladies , how's everybody's week ? It was great , awesome .

Speaker 2 16:49

Good times Awesome . As everybody can see , I am not Cranky , steve , today . I am not Sad Panda and there's a reason for it , sad Panda . So the reason why I turned down your vape is because I am just I'm done smoking and drinking . Your vape is because I am just I'm done smoking and drinking . So I'm just , I am strictly focused . Yeah , for for a while . Um , I'm only gonna do it if it's like I have .

Speaker 2 17:18

so here's how I'm breaking it down occasion type shit very special occasion and if I don't have to work the next day , okay so , since I have to work tomorrow , I'm not doing anything that is going to bring my just my energy down because , like the past like three months , you know , I've been overly doing it and I just do not have the tolerance to function while doing it , are you ?

Speaker 3 17:49

using it as a coping mechanism 185 million percent I think I said this to you before , both of y'all before , when I was really into having really bad panic attacks , anxiety , and I was drinking a box of wine , like one box of wine , like every every day , and it was . It was like by myself at home . This was COVID , um , and I started to realize a lot of things , like I was using it as a coping mechanism one . And then I was using it , um , as a coping mechanism for my social anxiety , so I had to be kind of drunk before I showed up somewhere . You know what I mean . So I think it's fine to party , I think it's fine to drink socially , I think it's fine to smoke socially , but if you're using it as a coping mechanism , it's a slippery slope to addiction . So I'm glad that you saw that Well the other thing as well .

Speaker 3 18:35

You know , I don't drink as much as I used to .

Speaker 2 18:37

I would keep wine in the house , but well , so my whole , my whole reason behind it is is because financially it's not feasible for me , Right , like I think it's irresponsible to be a pothead and a bum and broke which I am right now .

Speaker 3 18:56

Which is most people ? No , I understand that Hold on .

Speaker 1 18:58

I understand that Hold on .

Speaker 2 19:00

Sam . That's the reason why I'm saying it . I do not agree with that lifestyle at all . I don't agree with being a bum .

Speaker 3 19:06

Hold on .

Speaker 2 19:07

I just , I think I share all the time all these things , steven , I want to do this , I want to do this , I want to do this , I want to do this . And when you're spending , you know hundreds of dollars a week on your habit , that and and I will tell you my breaking point , I swear to God , right , I swear to God Right . So , having money issues , I went and I asked my mom for help . Right , she gave . So I gave her money for her birthday . The money that she lent me was the money that I fucking gave her .

Speaker 3 19:47

Oh yeah , that's a rude awakening right there .

Speaker 2 19:49

That's fucking embarrassing . It's it , and and I honestly I felt like the world's biggest piece of shit , like which I should be . I should feel that way , and that's another thing I want hold on hold on I don't want anybody talking you like your pity party .

Speaker 3 20:10

You know what I mean like .

Speaker 2 20:12

This is what I don't . This is why I don't like sharing shit on here , because you two don't shut the fuck up . I'm being dead ass serious . I hate the fact that y'all Do not think that a person should not feel bad For the actions that they so then what the fuck ? You think I'm having a pity party ?

Speaker 3 20:30

I'm taking . That's exactly what she said . I'm a fucking bum . Yes , I'm not a man . I'm less than a man . I'm a piece of shit Like . Who would want to hear the person I do ? Who would want to hear ?

Speaker 1 20:45

Their friends speak about themselves . I need to hear that . Alright , I need to hear that you know how Sam is . I don't know .

Speaker 2 20:50

I know , and I think I think it's honestly , I think that's , I think , with all my friends bad about themselves , and you know what ? You should . You should if your friend keeps making the same fucking stupid mistakes over over over , over over .

Speaker 3 21:02

Some of my friends is dumb . Okay , that's what you don't say , that's what they shit . I can only , I can only be there . I can only be there , give advice , and you know what you should do , that's , I can only just be there .

Speaker 2 21:13

I'm not telling you not to support . You're not picking up any pieces . There's no pieces to pick up .

Speaker 3 21:18

I'm picking up the pieces myself . I'm talking about any other friends , all my other friends .

Speaker 2 21:22

I should be shamed for what I am doing . I know better .

Speaker 3 21:28

Yeah , yeah I mean , I shaved you a little bit , but you told me your financial situation .

Speaker 1 21:33

I come on , see , you should have been saving while you were , you know , I had you on the vapes and shit .

Speaker 2 21:38

It doesn't matter , like no , no , that helps . But you got to understand .

Speaker 3 21:42

I go through shit fast , steve , you should have been saving money when you were at home .

Speaker 2 21:45

No , shit Sam .

Speaker 3 21:47

So I did . It's not shame you , but I reminded you that's what you should have been doing . Why did you do that ? I know why I'm not just a people pleaser , like you're trying to say you are you are .

Speaker 2 22:00

You very much are , sam . You don't like confrontation . You do not . It's not about no , no , I don't want to hurt you feelings .

Speaker 3 22:07

Feelings need to be hurt . I sam not feeling needs to be hurt . Not everybody can take that shit then then sam , then sam .

Speaker 2 22:16

That's something that those people have .

Speaker 1 22:18

Those people have to work on and I understand that sam , not everybody , not every .

Speaker 2 22:22

You can't talk . You can talk to me a certain type of way because I am . I am self-aware no , I'm self-aware of my actions and how bad they are when you have other people who those are the motherfuckers who throw pity parties where it's oh , we gotta understand everything . I know life is hard . I fucking get it , sam . It doesn't get easier when you're fucking spending fucking five , six hundred dollars a month on shit . That does absolutely nothing for me .

Speaker 1 23:01

It does nothing well , what are you mad at sam for ? Because this is not because talking about her approach to things .

Speaker 2 23:06

No , because because the reason why I get so mad at sam is simply because she thinks that I'm trying to be saying you're like oh yeah , stupid steven . Yeah , it should be stupid steven , it should be sam . With all due respect , I'll give you a perfect example , sam when I was staying at my uncle's house for two years and I did not save a fucking nickel , I didn't do any of that . Was that smart or stupid ? It was stupid when I fucked walt when I so , sam , remember what I told you hold on listen listen , listen .

Speaker 2 23:36

I'll show you why I'm stupid I'll tell you exactly why I'm stupid . Sam , remember me telling you that if I ever end up in a position like that again , I'm not gonna squander it , I'm not gonna fuck , I'm gonna say , I'm gonna do that . What the fuck did I do at ?

Speaker 3 23:50

my mom's , with all due respect .

Speaker 2 23:52

What the fuck is that ?

Speaker 3 23:53

what , as a friend , could I even do ?

Speaker 2 23:55

Call me stupid .

Speaker 1 23:57

Maybe not stupid , but I question your decisions .

Speaker 3 24:00

You need to be like nope , it's like you want me to talk shit to you .

Speaker 2 24:04

It's like you want me to be shitty towards you .

Speaker 1 24:07

That's not how a friend approaches things .

Speaker 2 24:10

You two don't know how to give constructive criticism .

Speaker 3 24:15

It's just not how you approach people that you care about you . Don't be like you , stupid motherfucker . You'd be like I could easily be like steve , come on you . What the fuck , bro ? You know I talk like bro , like you should have been saving , yeah . Like what are you doing ? No , no , you made the same mistake you did a couple years ago . Like what are you doing ?

Speaker 2 24:26

you should be like . No , why are you asking why ? Why are you doing like yo ? Why are you being stupid motherfucker ? No , no , just like yo . Why are you ? Do you continue acting stupid ? You know better . I do say that to you .

Speaker 3 24:35

See , no , use the word stupid why , wait hold on hold on back up because I don't . I I say that without using the word stupid . Now it doesn't work .

Speaker 2 24:45

The same is what ? No , because stupid hits harder okay , now you sound stupid .

Speaker 1 24:51

All right , I don't think so . I really don't think so . All right , I I don't think so . I really don't think so . All right , I'll give you an example .

Speaker 2 24:57

Back when I was growing up I constantly said nigga , and I mean every other word was nigga . Like I understand that . And I remember one time my uncle fucking cut to me . He goes you know what ? You sound real stupid right now .

Speaker 2 25:09

Yeah , I can see that that's ignorant and I'm like , okay , it's like I can go for it . Sam , yeah , that hurt my damn feelings , but he was right . That's true , he was 100 and 50 . I think he

Communication and Accountability Issues

Speaker 2 25:22

was right . There's a time and a place for everything . I understand , I want you to understand everywhere .

Speaker 3 25:25

If you're trying to order something yo nigga , can you give me that ?

Speaker 2 25:28

fucking . That's what I was doing . What ?

Speaker 3 25:29

was it three , three and two , like if you were doing that with the coffee or something . You're like going to dunkin don'ts . You were ordering that way , let me get a three and two extra ice . That would nigga , that would sound crazy . Yes , I would think you were ignorant too .

Speaker 2 25:41

So but see , you just said ignorant instead of stupid that's the same thing .

Speaker 3 25:45

It's actually . I think it sounds nicer no , it doesn't more no , it doesn't , it's like you have no education .

Speaker 2 25:50

So so , sam , for me , if I only , so again , there's only a very few people that I listen to and I and you want , I want you to understand this . Britney and uh producer can attest to this . I said , sam , I was going to share something . What I need you to do is shut your face . You know she can't fucking make it hold on but sam , with all due respect , hold on , but sam , with all due respect that is I can take accountability about this , she this .

Speaker 2 26:17

No , you don't take accountability because you don't listen , because you don't . You continue to make the same mistakes every time true true , true , true .

Speaker 3 26:25

So when I'm telling you something because it's not okay . This is my problem and I'm a .

Speaker 2 26:29

This is a problem that I have . Yeah , this is the true problem .

Speaker 3 26:33

Let's go I don't understand why it's that serious now . Now that's just like bring it back to me , bring it back to me , bring it back before you guys , and this is why I don't tell you , it's not like I'm fucking murdering kittens out here or fucking stealing from you .

Speaker 3 26:50

I'm just not listening . Okay , it's a , it's it's . I have adhd . I got all types of issues . I'm fucking crazy . I'm bugged out . Adhd don't mean you can't keep your beak shut . My thing is , though , it's not that , did I , did you die ? This is how I feel . It's not that serious . Who gives a shit ? It's not . You gotta think about it when you go to bed tonight .

Speaker 2 27:07

Yes , yes , that's the problem , sam . That's the problem with you . For you , you do not understand this . I go to bed thinking about this every single night . Freak , I got a man . Good for you . You do not understand this .

Speaker 3 27:15

I go to bed thinking about this every single night . Well , you shouldn't you , freak ? I got a man . Good for you .

Speaker 2 27:20

I'm just kidding . I'm just kidding , good for you , and that's why I don't tell you shit , yeah same .

Speaker 1 27:25

That's the exact reason I do not tell you shit , because I don't listen .

Speaker 2 27:28

No , Sam , you pretend to listen .

Speaker 3 27:37

You pretend a lot , can I be okay ? I don't like sam , I would prefer I do listen .

Speaker 2 27:38

No , you don't how many times are you gonna say the same thing , sam , when I ask you to please let me get my shit off , you wouldn't interrupt .

Speaker 3 27:42

So if you were good at listening , you'd shut your beak the reason why I interrupted is because you're bashing yourself and I don't like to see that now , if you get your shit off in other ways in a more positive there's no positive .

Speaker 2 27:54

Sam , I didn't do anything positive .

Speaker 3 27:55

You're over here like I'm a piece of fucking shit . I didn't grab . My mom had to build me out . She looked at me like I'm not a man , like come on , bro , all right so so .

Speaker 2 28:07

So , with all due respect , see , that's the problem , sam , because that's crazy . With all due respect all , right all right because I'm gonna get all right because I'm gonna I don't want to say nothing , that's gonna come off mean you can say whatever you want , but with all due respect you just found a good man .

Speaker 2 28:22

Yeah , you damn right . You're so used to dealing with the fucking bums and all the other shit . Yes , that's right . You've gotten so comfortable being like oh no , you'll find your way . You'll find your way there , guy . You said that to her before . You'll do .

Speaker 1 28:35

You'll do better , it's okay , because I'm happy for you . I always I love you . I want you to be happy and taken care of that's what a man is supposed to be doing . You're not in my position for you definitely what do you mean ?

Speaker 3 28:49

I know more than anybody girl . I've said that so many times . I said dating . You'd be thinking that I'm like yo .

Speaker 2 28:54

You guys don't get it no like , no girl like I talk about self-love with both of you two , and when you love myself , you need to love yourself more than you can try to love somebody else . But sam , you can't love nobody if you don't love , I'm not in love with anybody right now I'm just saying in general , this is a general statement I understand that what I'm saying is I never forgot where I came from , I listen I , I . If you really love yourself , hold on . If you really love yourself , sam , you would . That's how you should treat yourself . You . Nobody should be harder on you than you .

Speaker 3 29:23

Yeah , that's a fact so then , with all the respect , yeah , how ?

Speaker 2 29:27

how can you sit there like you have to ? Let me do this right look , I let you guys yes , okay fine , fine , go ahead , go in start . Start number one I'm so serious with it I was talking to my uncle about it and um , because we had worked out something yeah I told him , if he sees me being irresponsible , if I'm like yo , I'm about to go on this trip , he is immediately to check me . Okay , it's immediate now . If you , how much ? How much ? You ?

Speaker 3 30:10

still do it ? Are you still gonna be blaming him as a as a influence in your life ? Uh , bad influence in your life , no right you're gonna do what you want you're . You're your own person , you're an adult nope and I can only tell you my experiences and show you be supportive .

Speaker 2 30:26

That's all I can really do what he should . I cannot bring you out of that place . What I ? I didn't ask you to bring me out . I'm not asking nobody to bring me out . You think I'm asking you to bring me out of something .

Speaker 1 30:35

yeah , no , I know , sam , I'm not asking nobody to bring me up you think I'm asking you to bring me out of something .

Speaker 2 30:37

Yeah , no , no , sam , I did not want to ask you to bring me out of anything . What I asked you was hold me fucking accountable , and I no , sam , you can handle it .

Speaker 3 30:46

I can .

Speaker 2 30:47

Other people cannot handle that I don't give a fuck about everybody else . I'm talking about me . Fuck the world , fuck every me .

Speaker 3 30:58

Fuck the world , fuck every I think I hold you accountable , steve . No , you don't . Yes , I do , I promise you , you don't . When I , how do , how couldn't I ? When I'm like yo , steve , you didn't say , you didn't blah , blah . That's holding you accountable . No , you just asked him , steve , did you say ?

Speaker 2 31:06

and then , sam , what did you just get done , saying you even spend it . I was like yo , I can't go , I this just happened .

Speaker 3 31:13

I said this this is what I'm saying .

Speaker 1 31:15

She's foolish this is what I'm saying , I'm not full of shit .

Speaker 2 31:17

Don't be full of shit on here , but this is Brittany , this is him being like I'm not going to , don't say stuff behind the scenes and then , when we get on here , say something different or put gas in my car .

Speaker 3 31:29

Because he doesn't want to even enjoy . When I I tagged y'all in the in the uh , the thing in the fat joe , fat joe's supposed to be coming up here y'all on on facebook I tagged them both , steve's . Like I can't I can't go I'm like it's probably like 40 bucks .

Speaker 1 31:41

I'm like steve that's something you're running the fuck out because , let me tell you , you need to you have to still enjoy your life .

Speaker 3 31:50

There's one life . Okay , can I say something to you ?

Speaker 2 31:53

don't be over here , punishing , acting like you can't live a little bit you do need to get out .

Speaker 1 31:58

It's healthy for your mental health . It's healthy for you to be .

Speaker 3 32:02

Producer , they don't get it . No , you don't get it . Look at me right now . Look at me for a second .

Speaker 2 32:07

Honestly , I'm going to end this conversation because you guys just don't get it . I want you to understand something you have . No , what I'm trying to do , and I'm gonna say something . This is what I'm trying to do all right , can I say something ?

Speaker 3 32:16

you're gonna die soon , probably real fast . No , no , real talk , we're all in this room everything in this room is gonna die , you understand what I'm saying you need to live your fucking life you have to live , sam .

Speaker 1 32:29

What's living life ? You tell me .

Speaker 3 32:30

You tell me what is living , life doing , the things that make you happy .

Speaker 1 32:35

This makes me happy do you know what I ?

Speaker 2 32:37

said . I just said I didn't want to go to the concert because I didn't want to spend 40 on the ticket .

Speaker 3 32:41

So when I said but you said you wanted to go , it'd be different . No , I never said that , yes , you did . You said , damn , I want to go , but I don't have the money to go , but I don't want exactly it'd be different if you was like no , I'm just not interested . I wouldn't even be getting on your ass like that , I don't want to spend $40 on it .

Speaker 2 32:54

Sam , you want to go , and that's okay that you want to go . I don't want to spend $40 on it . I don't want to . I don't want to At this particular second . If it was to come down to it , no , no . That's fair , but you're kind of missing . The point is what ?

Speaker 3 33:14

I hang out with my friends , you've come in here cranky or upset or something . Yeah like , come see most of the time you're debbie downer , yes , and I'm usually high and drunk all that time .

Speaker 2 33:24

I keep trying to fucking tell you that , I keep trying to explain this you do not understand , sam .

Speaker 1 33:30

You really don't . And you don't want to get high ? Then at least enjoy your life and do things you guys .

Speaker 2 33:36

I'm trying to tell you I do enjoy myself . You don't accept it , all right if you say so , and I'm sorry . Life is actually not about enjoyment , sam . It's about purpose and goals and drive . It's about that . You know what , sam ? There's a ton of people . Hold on , sam . I'm sorry , I do not think .

Speaker 3 33:56

I was pushed out of vagina and born and God created me to just be working my ass off , pay some bills and fucking pay my bills and da , da , da and the next thing , and make sure everything's taken care of with my bill , my credit , like you know .

Speaker 1 34:08

Yes , those things are important , but when it comes to like living your life we have one life to live it goes by so fucking fast .

Speaker 2 34:17

It doesn't blink about . We could die . We could walk out right now and fucking die . It didn't go by that fast .

Speaker 1 34:21

You had 40 years and you got hit and we're like , damn Steve , we're pouring out Casamigos .

Speaker 3 34:26

We're not heading for Steve .

Speaker 1 34:27

No , no , no , o-e , o-e It'd honestly forgot Steve , but that's what I'm talking about . Like anything can happen , steve , no shit . And this is what we're trying to tell you Enjoy , live your life .

Speaker 2 34:40

But hold that thought because we gotta take a break yeah .

Speaker 1 34:58

Yeah , you Yo , I go for it .

Speaker 2 35:00

And we're back . I didn't even know how we ended up like this , but Before you speak again . Again , go ahead girl . I do enjoy my time . I am not telling you that I will not go to an amusement park . I am not telling you that I will not go to an amusement park . I will not go to a concert . I am not what I'm telling you , Steve .

Speaker 3 35:21

you said you weren't doing none of that .

Speaker 2 35:23

You said you're not doing any of that . Now you're changing it up .

Speaker 1 35:27

Hold on it's beyond the problem .

Speaker 2 35:29

Alright .

Speaker 1 35:29

Sam , we're just going to go back .

Speaker 2 35:32

We're going to go past this . That's the problem here . Look at that Me and you are never going to have . And then , sam , when I tell you , this is the reason why I just lie to you , because it's fucking easier . You think it's supposed to be my brother and he's lying to me .

Speaker 1 35:45

And with all due respect , sam you when it comes to me Because I'm calling you no , sam , when it comes to me , you have the emotional intelligence of a fucking toddler .

Speaker 2 35:55

I don't call you niggas out , because look how y'all get . Look , you didn't call me out .

Speaker 3 35:59

He said you don't like that effect , never mind like , you just did it just now , I just called you out .

Speaker 2 36:05

No , what I'm getting frustrated is , every time I'm trying to explain something , you hop right in and you start fucking talking all right you really cannot keep your mouth shut for more than 10 seconds . You can't . It's like an impossibility . So that's the reason why I don't tell you shit like this , is the reason why I just keep the shit to my goddamn self . You do not understand me in this aspect . You do not know what it is that I need to get fucking motivated to get fucking motivated .

Speaker 2 36:33

And that works and all that positive shit works for all these motherfuckers out here fucking , faking and pretending like they're actually going to do something with their fucking self .

Speaker 1 36:42

And that's all what they fucking do .

Speaker 2 36:44

Yo , I'm about to go out there and do this . How many times do you hear this a day ? How many times ? Yo , I'm about to get out there and get shit popping , and then yo , yeah , but yo , we getting lit tonight though , right , get the fuck out of here . No successful person has ever , ever , ever , ever , fucking , ever Popped off With a whole bunch of bum shit . It just doesn't fucking work . So I'm sorry that I don't need you . I don't need Positive shit right now . What I fucking need is People to be like yo you are better than this . You fucking do fucking right , or don't fuck with me that's constructive .

Speaker 3 37:21

I'm cool with shit like that , right . That's positive . When you felt better if sam was like you , bum ass nigga yeah I don't like , like that . I would never talk to you .

Speaker 2 37:34

Like that's crazy sam , if you all right . Sam , if you were me , I promise you right now I would call you a fucking idiot motivation is not just you , it's a lot of people it is america , me included . Me too I'm not talking about y'all , it's about me . Do you guys not get this ? I don't , I'm not talking , I'll just say this I'm the one who wanted to share . You said you don't want positive .

Speaker 3 38:02

You say you didn't want positive reinforcement , which is the most wildest thing .

Speaker 2 38:06

You want people to tell you how it is in the most meanest way sam , only the people motivate you , only the people whose opinion count , like if you tell me and britney all the time , our opinions don't count . All the fucking time , all the time sam , I do listen to y'all too , if y'all have some constructive criticism . That's why I said sam , hold on sam . That's why I actually came to you , sam . That's why I actually came to you he really does actually care probably .

Speaker 3 38:31

But thank you , but you I swear anybody on this podcast to tell you fucking , act like you , don't like us , you don't all the time .

Speaker 2 38:39

No , no , no , no , no this is for entertainment and when I do that kind of shit but when I'm talking about these , like these little fucking scumbags out here , not the fans , but I'm talking about some of these other fucking idiots who try to give me life advice and don't know .

Speaker 3 38:50

The fucking shit like get the fuck out of here , stupid well , like I'm not talking about anybody , if you don't know me , how the fuck can you tell me what's ? That's ?

Speaker 2 38:56

the point .

Speaker 3 38:57

Some people you know they have their own opinions right . People can have opinions right and I don't mind , everybody can have the opinion .

Speaker 2 39:02

Have the opinion do you thug , this , I am at it . But all I'm trying to say is for me , I've always because everybody has treated me with fucking kid gloves where it's like , oh , you can't . I was like yo , guys , I need you , have I ? I never had structure right . I never in my entire life . Yeah , I've never fucking had it . Were you sensitive growing up ? Of course I was sensitive okay so that explains .

Speaker 3 39:28

Hold on , let me just say this as a kid that grew up what I'm saying is , if you're a sensitive kid , right , people are going to tiptoe around you and be a little softer with you . Well , they even hold on , even as you grow up right , because they're like . You'll always be little sensitive , steve . You know what I'm saying , what ? That's what I think it is like for me . I didn't grow up like that . My mom was very mean , very hard . You know what I'm saying . So I get really very much so , and I give it to her now .

Speaker 3 39:57

She's sensitive and soft as she's you know she's not soft to her old age so when I give her the kind of the same energy , I talked to her in the same manner . Is that why you ? Give that off with your relationships uh , probably , yeah , yeah , yeah , absolutely , um , yeah , and the funny thing is , I was in a great fucking mood today I was .

Speaker 2 40:21

I . I was honestly in a fantastic mood today . I was dead . I woke up , so we I'm actually not .

Speaker 3 40:32

No , I told you , sam , really pissed me off I didn't even say anything , steve , when I was really trying to like get it and explain it .

Speaker 2 40:39

When you kept interrupting . I really I barely interrupted you . You left space for commentary .

Speaker 3 40:46

No , I didn't .

Speaker 2 40:46

I have to think through my thoughts sometimes . Sam , Just because I pause for two seconds , it doesn't mean interrupt . Not two seconds , sam , all right . All right when you watch it back , just honestly , really watch it back , see how much you interrupt . Okay , all you do is interrupt . All right , I'm telling you . People always tell me , steven , she always interrupts you . You sometimes , sam , people just want you to shut up , but no , and I keep trying to tell people . Okay , can you guys please put it in the comment ?

Speaker 3 41:10

hey guys , please tell her to let her what , what , what you gonna do , can you get back ?

Speaker 1 41:18

where you can share what you know to share . No , I , honestly , I'm being , I'm being very fucking serious I do not feel comfortable .

Speaker 2 41:25

I don't like . I'm not sharing anymore here .

Speaker 1 41:28

I'm really not when it comes to that , when it comes to shit like that , I'm keeping the shit to myself .

Speaker 2 41:33

Oh , stop it . All right , cut it out . I know because I tried this twice . This is the second fucking time I've tried this , sam , and every and every time you answer fucking rough shit .

Speaker 3 41:42

I can't believe that you're killing me because I stopped you from bashing yourself , Sam do that shit on your . Why would you , why would I , what kind of friend would I be , to stay here and let you fucking ?

Speaker 2 41:53

bash yourself . What kind of fucking friend won't let their friend explain themselves ? You could vent , you could be upset , I couldn . Could explain themselves . I couldn't bet , sam , I was trying to bash yourself .

Speaker 3 42:01

It's like why would I ? What kind of friend would I ?

Speaker 2 42:03

be . Oh , my god yeah , you is a piece of shit let me let my friend call themselves a piece of shit , that's you don't have any pieces of shit friends , all your friends are just golden geese no I mean they ?

Speaker 3 42:12

I think everybody in this room has done a piece of shit thing or can be a piece of shit , or has been a piece of shit nobody's perfect , you don't got habitual fuck-ups in your life I do have habitual fuck-up friends . Yes , absolutely , yeah , absolutely . I'm trying to let them be , with all due respect , sam .

Speaker 2 42:32

I'm not telling you to save anybody . What I'm asking you to do is I'm trying to stop myself from being habitual fuck up .

Speaker 3 42:39

yeah , I know that you've been like that . You've never been rock bottom to the point I think we understand .

Speaker 1 42:45

Let me say this Maybe we're not supporting him in the way he needs with what we're saying , yeah , but what are you talking about ?

Speaker 3 42:52

Having hit rock bottom , what ? I'm saying is you have a level head , you have maybe hit rock , but you're not out here having multiple kids and and wives and girlfriends and owing this person money and this person money , stealing and robbing and doing all types of crazy drugs . You're not that bad . Relax dog . Yes , you want to be a better position than you are now . Absolutely . We all do in this room . We all have goals . We all want to be better than what we are today but you aren't that fucking ?

Speaker 2 43:20

I know I am but , sam , you think I'm here , it's true . See , you're expecting me like oh Steven , this is where you think you are . This is actually where I believe I'm at . I don't think you're low . No .

Speaker 3 43:33

You just said , I thought you're low .

Speaker 2 43:34

Well , no , no , no is lows here . This is , this is still high my expect . Oh , I'm sorry , I should have said expectations , your expectations for me are here right , high medium . You know we expect better , you my . Okay , I'll say what my expectations are . You say good ?

Speaker 3 43:49

I , my views and my expectations are very high for the people that I love and care about . Yes , I view all of you on a stand on a high totem . You're my family and I care about you . And , steve , I'm really telling you you're not that bad .

Speaker 2 44:04

To you , okay , not to me .

Speaker 3 44:07

Even societal wise , even financially wise , I don't care what society fucking thinks .

Speaker 1 44:12

You're really not that bad dog I don't care , sam , you listen to what I'm telling you . You gotta appreciate what you got . Already , too , I do Listen to what I am speaking .

Speaker 2 44:21

I know I can do better no there's a different .

Speaker 1 44:28

All right , so knowing and doing are two totally different things so since everybody here knows we don't have , with all due respect if everybody is in the same position that they are right now , I'm considering you all fuck .

Speaker 2 44:38

Or by the end of the year , I'm considering you all failures . Just fyi , okay . If you don't have more money in the bank by the end of the year , you're a failure . If you don't have a fucking better , I don't know if you're not healthier you're . If you're not doing any of that shit , I'm gonna think if I do not achieve what I have the goal set for this year , I'm a motherfucking failure and there's no excuses for it .

Speaker 3 45:01

Yeah , unless it's something like emergency but the argument is you're getting mad at us see what brady's doing steve steve . The argument is that you're getting upset with me personally , that I don't can't wait for your fuck up to happen to tell you .

Speaker 1 45:16

I told you so no like , no , no , no , no , no I'm saying if you wake up and you bring your ass to work every day , that's , that's doing more than most right I'm better than most who cares if I'm doing what most than what everybody is .

Speaker 2 45:29

I'm better than most motherfuckers . You're putting too much pressure on yourself I'm sorry .

Speaker 1 45:33

I do have a higher standard for myself . That's fine , have a standard , but don't fucking bash yourself . That's my , oh , my god it's criticism .

Speaker 3 45:41

I'm tired of the word bashing . It's not bashing . I'm not .

Speaker 2 45:45

You call yourself a piece of shit . That , sam , with all due respect , the money that I took from my mom that I gave her for her birthday . Yes , sam , you're a piece of shit . I'm sorry and I told other people that and you know what they all said . You're right , it is a piece of shit .

Speaker 3 46:04

Move , sam In my opinion , you're just in a fucked up position . I wouldn't call you a piece of shit . You could have robbed the little old lady for that . You could have Sold your asshole on the street for that , like you could have done a lot worse . I'm just saying you could have did a lot worse . You know what I'm saying . It could have been a lot worse .

Speaker 2 46:21

You could have did a lot worse . You know what I'm saying .

Speaker 3 46:23

It could have been a lot worse .

Speaker 2 46:25

You could have been given out BJs . Honestly , sam , I really honestly , sam , you just me and you are just at different levels of where we see ourselves and where we want to be in life . That's not true , we're in two totally different head spaces , Sam I just don't kill myself about it . What I need , the things that I want to do and the things that I need require very , very strong discipline , very strong , all right .

Speaker 3 46:48

I'll just say this I have goals too and expectations . Where I want to be . It's a little different for me , because I have a chronic illness and I could die and I don't look sick , but I have a chronic illness that I've had since I was 16 . So things will start to fail as I get older . So I try not to think and bash myself , like I'm doing the best that I can in the circumstances that I have .

Speaker 2 47:11

But do you ever feel like you could be doing better ?

Speaker 3 47:13

Absolutely . But I'm not gonna bash myself , I'm not .

Speaker 2 47:16

But if you don't put some kind , of pressure on you , sam . How do you better yourself ? That's true . So that's all I'm doing . You're taking it as me bashing , sam . I really felt like a piece of shit for it . I did , and that's on me now . Did she care ? No , absolutely not . She goes fuck . You needed help , go ahead , but I felt like a piece of shit I should feel that way . Okay , that was my gift to her .

Speaker 3 47:43

Yeah , okay for her enjoyment , but I understand that and sam , do you know ?

Speaker 2 47:47

hold on sam do you know why I needed the money ? Why , because I fucking spent it on weed and liquor .

Speaker 3 47:53

Oh , did you get more , that's hold on wait . Did you get more weed and liquor ?

Speaker 1 47:56

no , I didn't but , sam , that doesn't make me a piece of shit . That's why you're have a stance okay , that's fair I was trying to explain this in the argument .

Speaker 3 48:03

No , because you didn't let me , you didn't let me . Finish , not that part . I'm saying the , the , the getting upset with me being , you know , sam , the main reason to bash yourself like that . I don't understand why you're angry with me if you had just let me get the story out . I would have brung it back full circle yeah , but I still wanted to call you a piece of shit .

Speaker 2 48:23

I wasn't asking you to call me a piece of shit , or I felt like a piece of shit .

Speaker 3 48:26

You're expecting me to feel like you're a piece of shit , like you feel about yourself you're putting the expectation .

Speaker 2 48:31

I didn't expect you to feel anything . I just wanted you to hear the story . I just wanted you to hear what I wanted to say . You didn't give me the fucking shot to get it out . Okay , fair you , would . You steve , you're not a piece of shit . I didn't say it was . I said at that moment I felt like a piece of shit and I feel like a piece of shit now for it . Does that make me a piece of shit ? No , it just did . For that moment . That's all I was trying to say . I was getting to it .

Speaker 3 48:55

But you have to fucking just and let it happen , then that could be the argument , not me not letting you bash yourself , right you got you , sam , stop saying bashing .

Speaker 2 49:04

I didn't bash myself are criticizing .

Speaker 3 49:06

You just went on a whole tangent about that . So if the issue was that I just didn't let you finish , let that be the issue I told you , and what did you do ?

Speaker 2 49:13

you kept talking I did you .

Speaker 3 49:15

You just went in for like 15 minutes about how I wouldn't let you criticize yourself because because you think because I'm a people pleaser .

Speaker 2 49:24

Yes , because that's not even the issue , because you were saying oh well , steven , I'm not gonna let you bash yourself . I was like no , well , yes bring it back .

Speaker 3 49:31

If that's not even the issue the issues that I didn't let you finish , then that's the issue , not because I didn't let you bash yourself well , sam , with all due respect , that due respect , that was like it's a myriad of issues .

Speaker 2 49:41

It's a fucking it's a wide tapestry . It's you constantly cutting me off when I'm trying to speak . I'm fucking when I'm trying to tell the story you just like don't do that . Yeah , what else See ? And then she's doing it again , Like I said you can't , you can't .

Speaker 3 49:56

I'm saying what else ? Keep going , keep going . You got more fingers , let's go . Come on , get off your chest .

Speaker 2 50:06

No , no , no , keep going . What do I ?

Speaker 3 50:09

do to you so bad Like keep going Again my rationalization . Is it that deep , sam , once you ?

Speaker 2 50:18

fucking see it back . You're gonna see what I'm saying Once you see it back . If you actually watch these things , you're gonna see what I'm saying . Once you see it back . If you actually watch these things back , you'll see what the fuck I'm saying . There's no way you cannot see it . All right , but keep going .

Speaker 3 50:27

I'm good , no , you had like a couple more fingers to talk to sam I don't want to get nasty man , I really don't get nasty . I really don't want to get mean get nasty no , let's not get nasty , because I couldn't even imagine what he could get nasty from , because I don't do nothing to you for you to try to get . Are you serious like what sam ?

Speaker 2 50:47

you all , right , fucking say it . Yo britney say . And if you lie , sam , I swear to god , she cock blocked me one time .

Speaker 3 50:58

Right , we were at a miguel , we were at the miguel concert , right , I thought you were talking okay , go ahead and there was this girl there , right that was about seven to eight years ago , I thought I forgot , uh , what happened ?

Speaker 2 51:10

so check this out , right . So we're at this concert , right , and there's this chick , right , she's kind of eyeing me , right she's looking at me no , but sam knew her . She's looking at me no , she was . And I was over there all right actually she keeps saying that freaky , but and then I was like yo sam who , who such as such as she's like she's a hoe no , I didn't .

Speaker 3 51:31

Did I really , bro . Bro , this is eight years ago , maybe I did . She actually isn't a hoe , so maybe I was hating . I don't remember , like I don't fucking remember . Like that's so petty you give it up , say it . How does that even , uh , have any ?

Speaker 2 51:43

this is the person value into 2024 friendship britney .

Speaker 3 51:48

I'm a petty motherfucker I told you , man , if you're out here dating and spreading your legs to the world , you wouldn't even care check this out , right , I thought she was kind of fine all right , so this is from this , coming from the girl who , always bright , always says steven , you gets no pussy . And that was one of her shots to help her brother and what did she do same shit , I never said that .

Speaker 2 52:09

And then what'd she do you you talk about ?

Speaker 3 52:12

lying , like she's lying , to her fucking teeth cock blocking me talking about she never steve ? Has she ever said you don't get pussy , all the fucking time .

Speaker 2 52:18

Oh yeah , you say it all the time .

Speaker 3 52:19

Exactly More than I do now . I let it go .

Speaker 2 52:22

It is like a tag team .

Speaker 1 52:24

I didn't say you didn't get it . I don't know why you don't want it , but I never said I didn't want it .

Speaker 3 52:30

I just said it's overrated . So don't come at me bitch .

Speaker 1 52:34

This ain't no tag team on me bitch bitch . I thought you whatever , I'm just saying you want it or not ?

Speaker 2 52:40

I do look , I'm not begging for it , that's . I think you're mistaken , I think the thing .

Speaker 3 52:45

What britney's confused about is that she thinks it'll probably make you happier all right .

Speaker 2 52:50

So when I was getting pussy I wasn't happier . So you don't want to notice any difference . So pussy does not make me happy , that's true .

Speaker 1 52:55

Steve was still sad panda because he was over here telling girls they ate something you did fuck that up , bro .

Speaker 3 53:04

Now she's a 10 . I saw her recently .

Speaker 2 53:06

She said I'm a 10 hold that thought , cuz we gotta take a break and we're back . This was quite a contentious episode .

Speaker 3 53:30

You got it off your chest , since I know our friendship means nothing to you and you really don't fuck with me .

Speaker 2 53:35

And she says I fuck . Do you see what I'm saying ?

Speaker 1 53:38

That's what I got from this . That's not petty . I don't know why that's not petty . What's petty ? What you just did ? That's what I got from this . That's not petty .

Speaker 2 53:41

I don't know why that's not petty , what's petty , what you just did .

Speaker 1 53:43

That's what you've been saying the whole podcast .

Speaker 3 53:47

Here's some constructive criticism Sam .

Speaker 2 53:49

Sam , that's childish .

Speaker 3 53:51

Yeah , it is .

Speaker 2 53:53

Yeah it's downright fucking childish and is here you go , sam . And is hey , sam , sam , you know what kills me about what people say to me ?

Speaker 3 54:03

that I'm childish and immature and obnoxious .

Speaker 2 54:04

That shit doesn't none of that shit bothers me , but it should . Sometimes it doesn't , because there are certain times .

Speaker 3 54:07

I'm sorry it really doesn't but so how do you ?

Speaker 2 54:09

so then , how do you learn ? I'll just be like how do you learn anything ?

Speaker 3 54:13

because I know what I'm doing . I'm doing this on purpose , sam , you're not perfect . I don't think I'm perfect , so then I'm like the worst person . You're not perfect , I don't think I'm perfect , I'm like the worst person . See , don't talk to yourself like that You're beautiful .

Speaker 2 54:24

How dare you say that ?

Speaker 3 54:26

You're awesome .

Speaker 2 54:27

What are you doing ? Your hair have the locks of angels . It's as if the angels' heartstrings curled and then fell from the heavens through the sunlight and landed on your head and said let there be curls , that's right , that's all I'm saying .

Speaker 3 54:44

See , the thing is . I love myself in all aspects of myself , how shitty I can be , how funny I can be .

Speaker 2 54:53

You should have liked that you could be a shitty person .

Speaker 3 54:55

I like every fucking part of myself . I may not always like the way I appear , my appearance physically , who I am inside . I really fuck with me and I really love do you put appearance over perception ?

Speaker 2 55:08

no , no it kind of sounds like you do . Your biggest critique is sometimes you don't like the way you look my point is I don't think you got my point .

Speaker 3 55:20

My point is whatever you could say to me , I'm childish , I'm immature , all these things doesn't bother me . But , sam , I don't .

Speaker 2 55:26

I don't care do you respect my opinion in any way , shape or form ?

Speaker 3 55:29

yeah , I don't wanna , I don't want to those qualities that you don't like . I don't want to put them on you , so I won't do it as much with you . But that's still who I am , my personality . So , yes , I'm listening to you , like , yeah , I wouldn't keep being a fucking dickhead to you if I want to keep you as a friend , right , correct ? So I'm listening to you , but I like those parts of me too is what I'm saying . They're not . It may be coming , it's a . You're saying it negatively to me , right ?

Speaker 2 55:54

because there's certain times where it's negative it is negative , but I don't .

Speaker 3 55:58

It doesn't bother me .

Speaker 2 55:59

All right , well , use that on the friends you don't like when .

Speaker 1 56:04

Steven's telling the story .

Speaker 2 56:05

When I asked for silence , I would respect silence , and let me get my shit off All right .

Speaker 3 56:11

That's fair . That's fair . My bad , I just could try to really honestly . That wasn't even on some cutting you off because I didn't want to hear you . I don't respect what you have to say . It wasn't even on some cutting you off because I didn't want to hear you . I don't respect what you have to say . It was cutting you off because you were . I felt in my opinion was that you were bashing yourself and I was stopping someone that I love and care about from bashing themselves that's what I was doing .

Speaker 2 56:29

I was you took it totally , you know because you don't get how I can get frustrated with you . And that's the again , sam . I wish you would watch it because you don't see it as a problem , but it's a problem when something , so when I'm telling you it's a problem and I've repeatedly told you sam sam , I just forget . So see , how the fuck did you forget ? I reminded you before we started .

Speaker 3 56:51

I forget , bro .

Speaker 1 56:52

I got bad memories I do , I do forget , I do forget .

Speaker 3 56:55

Nobody interrupt you know what ? It is said that I really have fucking mental issues . Like nobody believes me that .

Speaker 1 57:02

I'm fucking bugged out , I'm done .

Speaker 3 57:04

But I'm saying I don't remember , like , okay , when I'm talking I have to think about what I'm saying In just what you're telling me . And now I got to remember not to talk when you're talking . That's a lot . I can't multitask in my brain , can't multitask in my brain . I can't . There's no multitasking involved . It was sam , please be quiet . Also , I'm thinking about yo . I'm about to get some of that snapple with that oodles and noodles , like I'm thinking about multiple things while I'm talking to you right now . It's a lot .

Speaker 2 57:29

I need fucking adhd medication , but I'm trying , and you can do better than that . All you have to do is practice I'm trying oodles and noodles . Yeah , man some cup of soup is nice . I got some at the house . It's great great always always .

Speaker 1 57:43

I don't like that shit it always slaps great .

Speaker 3 57:45

It's always a great midnight midnight snack .

Speaker 2 57:47

It really is now , mind you guys , I understand that this I don't know what the fuck it was clearly a steve and samantha friendship fight therapy because I didn't know . This man didn't be crazy this is a very , this is a very old school episode I swear to god yeah , literally , this is a very old school episode . If y'all listen to some of our earlier shit , me and sam physically yell at each other let me just like yep , pretty much in the middle , just in the middle .

Speaker 2 58:17

We're sorry about that yeah , we just wanted to let you know that . And again , uh , producer , that this is only , we're only talking podcast terms .

Speaker 3 58:24

Uh , when mommy and daddy fight doesn't mean we don't love you you know , it's not about you , it's just you know , next time you and britney have a fucking therapy section , I'm done , I'm done , I think I got it out the way , I think steve , you don't think I respect you . I think that's the biggest part think .

Speaker 2 58:39

Steve , you don't think I respect you . I think that's the biggest part of what you said well , I just wish sometimes you would respect me in the moment when I'm asking you to please just let me really do be forgetting .

Speaker 3 58:51

And then I also because she does it with me .

Speaker 1 58:54

Yeah , I'd be forgetting .

Speaker 2 58:55

I know , but I'm not gonna keep it , I'm not gonna keep excusing the bad habit . No , you're right , you shouldn't I'm not , you definitely don't excuse it .

Speaker 1 59:02

I'm not asking you to excuse it I'm not asking you to excuse it .

Speaker 2 59:05

I don't think it's fair to you guys , but um I know , sam , but you have to work on it in the brain . I get that I get that . It just is what it is I understand that and that's why you know just not . Just is what it is . I'm just really not well , I understand that I see the wheels turn in your fucking head when I'm talking , so it's eyes like her head .

Speaker 2 59:23

Her face turns as red as her hair . Yeah , she's like what the fuck is going on , like . She's like honestly , I really think like two seconds to her feels like a minute longer like an half hour . Like shit is just like her head .

Speaker 3 59:35

Everything is sped up yeah , no , that's what I'm really trying to tell you . I'd be thinking about multiple shit , and that's how I am when I'm fucking high and sometimes I can ingest what you're telling me . And then some days I , I it's a blank . I didn't even what would you say , huh what ?

Speaker 3 59:47

and you said a whole thing yes so it's like yeah , I did it earlier at work when , when I was training , she said this whole thing and she was like you get me ? And I said yeah , and I'm like I didn't know what the fuck she said . I still don't know what she said . Oh , my god , you know you gotta work on that uh , yeah like actively maybe a therapist again . Go see my nigga genie you gotta do active practicing .

Speaker 2 1:00:12

You have to practice . So you know what ? Sam , we're gonna try this every week , all right ? No , we're not oh yes , we are next week podcast next week , you know what ?

Speaker 3 1:00:24

that wouldn't be crazy , because we are a podcast for friends by friend . This is that wouldn't be crazy that's not crazy , yeah oh , because you are you . You don't want to unpack is that what it is ?

Speaker 1 1:00:38

I'm gonna unpack in here ? This is . Is that what ? It is I'm gonna unpack in here this is not a safe place normally , when you want to unpack and unload , you want to vent and unload to somebody who has no say in the matter or not . You know what I mean ? Absolutely no horse in a race . Yeah , you know , and that's how you take it , like Steve , and you get so upset .

Speaker 2 1:01:00

Yeah , cause you took it like I was opposed to that personal If it's somebody that had be not known , it wouldn't have went .

Speaker 1 1:01:08

You know when you're trying to unpack and you might've been able to get out what you wanted to say and you know I I don't think it's necessary for us to have a mental . Of course our mental health is always important , but um , for us to have a mental , of course our mental health is always important .

Speaker 2 1:01:21

But , um , I think we have to say I don't want to and I'm sorry I cut you off . You know , um , I that works right . You know I apologize and I noticed it . Um , but say I also want to say I apologize for spazzing , uh , it just so , you know . You know I fuck with you . You know I rock with .

Speaker 3 1:01:36

You know I love you yeah , you know , my , you know , you're my dog for real , for real , you know .

Speaker 2 1:01:38

But there's a but you know I rock with you , know I love you . Yeah , you know my , you know you're my dog for real , for real , you know . But there's a but . You know , um , when I do , when I , when I get into these things , I really had that thought out and planned , I really did , I knew where I was gonna go with it turn at the same time as you're talking , so you kind of understand my .

Speaker 2 1:01:56

I have the basis of what I want to say , and then I fill in the blanks as I'm going , so sometimes I have to pause for a second in order to find the correct phrase .

Speaker 3 1:02:03

Okay , that's fair , so and my brain's like here the fuck up , I got something to say .

Speaker 2 1:02:08

Right , I know , and it's hard .

Speaker 3 1:02:10

And then I'll forget , and it's really hard to digest and listen Cause I'm trying to digest . It's just a lot . I'm working , I've been better . Okay , I have . Fuck you guys . Anyway , if you like this episode , make sure you like this episode . Make sure you subscribe . Everything is minority plus one . Make sure you guys comment down below any questions concerns anything .

Speaker 3 1:02:33

uh , next week we'll get back , until you know that's the friend , it is shame gang and stuff like that maybe we should call this one therapy session you do that we can do that but make sure you guys always tune into our youtube to watch us and the clips that we show on the show . So everything minority plus one and you can also still stream everywhere .

Speaker 2 1:02:50

Everything is still minority plus one google minority plus one podcast all right so , in wrapping up , I'm your host , steven , I'm sam crystal , it's bernie and , as always , so it wrapped up . I'm your host , steven , I'm Sam Crystal , it's Brittany and , as always , please stereotype responsibly , and we'll be back next week with another motherfucker happier episode . Actually , I don't even think this one was actually negative , but it wasn't it wasn't .

Speaker 2 1:03:16

It was good Peace , y'all Peace . It wasn't . It was good Peace , y'all Peace . Thank you for tuning in to this week's episode of the Minority Plus One Podcast . If you rock with us , make sure you hit that like , hit that subscribe and , as always , make sure you stereotype responsibly .