Pop The Balloon Or Find Love

Britney is off enjoying a well-deserved vacation, leaving us to keep the conversation lively and engaging.

Ever wondered why potential alone isn’t enough to sustain a relationship? We’ve got some eye-opening revelations based on personal experiences and societal expectations. As we reflect on past relationships and our own growth, we discuss the dangers of dating someone who only shows potential without having their life together. We dive into how social media sets unrealistic standards and why it’s crucial to find a partner who is equally motivated and responsible. From codependency to the allure of superficial qualities, we explore the many facets of modern romance and what truly matters in a partnership.

But that's not all—we venture into some intriguing and risqué territories, discussing the quirks of dating games and the dynamics of public and private humiliation kinks in the internet age. From heated kitchen exchanges to the "balloon game" dating concept, we cover it all with our unique blend of humor and serious insights. And to wrap things up, we passionately critique the current state of American politics, calling for younger leadership and fresh perspectives. This episode promises a rollercoaster of emotions, thought-provoking discussions, and plenty of laughs to keep you entertained and engaged from start to finish.

Transcript

Fourth of July Podcast Celebration

Speaker 3 0:29

The fuck you were , he was .

Speaker 4 0:30

Everybody that I knew from the go . I know I was right , I knew they was Like it .

Speaker 5 0:35

You sounded like a game show .

Speaker 2 0:41

This is the minority plus one podcast . Yeah , yeah , plus One Podcast , yeah .

Speaker 2 0:50

What's going on , everybody , and welcome to the show . It's the King of the Heffries , it's Oreo . We are back once again podcasting to you and , as always to my left , we got my co-host , donlan , tell him who are you . It's Sam sam crystal , and I'm your host , steve , and this is the minority plus one podcast . So , uh , first we apologize for last week , um life be life , and it was a ? Um . It was a very , very hellacious , hectic , crazy week um britney's on vacation for , like britney's , on vacation for like two or three weeks .

Speaker 5 1:32

You won't see her for almost a month just um just fyi . She's out having fun . She's in mexico right now and then next she's got a trip with her family . So she'll be gone for a little while , but we , we're going to hold it down . Privilege , privilege .

Speaker 2 1:46

That's what's up . We hope she's having fun . Guarantee you she's not watching this , so we can say whatever .

Speaker 5 1:54

So you watch us on vacation .

Speaker 2 1:55

I absolutely do .

Speaker 5 1:57

Well , yeah , you do , because you'll text . Thanks for holding it down , ladies , I'm on vacation , thank you Exactly .

Speaker 2 2:05

I on the down ladies , I'm on vacation . Thank you exactly . I know I bang my own shit heavy . Don't get it twisted . If you ain't gonna bump your own shit , how can you ask other people too ? True , true , true true but , um , yeah , crazy weeks , though it's been a crazy , uh , it's been crazy . We've been hella busy . I know you've been busy first , let me just start off by asking sam , how was your fourth ?

Speaker 5 2:24

it was cool , um , so a couple . So , as you guys know , I do the cosplaying thing and it was it's hard to find like the community of cosplayers in albany because we're such a small city and I'll I met a few , you know like , at you know comic-con in saratoga . But I met this one girl at comic-con saratoga and that's where I went to her fayday thing and she's local . She's actually like kind of , almost kind of my neighbor . She doesn't live too far from me , and so we start .

Speaker 5 2:55

So I , after I did the pokemon ball , I told you about the pokemon theme ball room at waterworks , which is a gay bar . I went where . I met her there with her and her friend , and then after that she's like oh , I have this group chat , I'm trying to start . So she started this group chat and you know they're I love it . I wish I could make everything that they do , like they're always doing something roller skating or going to this art show , but I'd be so tired y'all and , like you know , just be being home with my man , it's just like it's hard . So she was like , oh , let's do like a fourth . Uh , you know , like picnic or whatever . So we did and we said she has so many little guys . She had 10 other types of shit , but it was also a water gun fight . Nice , I haven't done that shit since I was a fucking kid nice sadly , the fucking water guns that I fucking ordered from amazon amazon y'all .

Speaker 5 3:45

You got two packages of mines that are just in the fucking wind . That should have been here today , prime , but anyway it's still not here , those I ordered some water guns . It's just still not here , so I had to use somebody else's water guns . But it was fun . We did . We , you know we all middle aged here , so we only did it for a little while .

Speaker 2 4:06

Y'all probably ran like all of four minutes Like yo chill .

Speaker 5 4:10

Maybe like a good 10 minutes , and we was fucking tired and we just just chilled ate . Everybody cooked a dish and I watched the fireworks and you know , I , I , um , I watched the fireworks at Lincoln Park , which is kind of a popular area to watch the fireworks . There wasn't a lot of people out this year . I didn't see a lot of traffic . It wasn't a lot of people Like . I remember Morton , the entire block of Morton would be filled with people .

Speaker 5 4:37

Nope , nothing like that . Everybody kind of stayed in for the fourth this year , really , or at least they didn't make their way down to the plaza to watch the fireworks . So it was really nice , it was fun . It was fun Nice .

Speaker 2 4:48

Nice , I didn't do anything .

Speaker 5 4:51

Yeah , I know , I think I texted you .

Speaker 2 4:53

I was like yo , I'm out of it . I was like I had to just stay home and relax . I've been burning the candle at both ends with work and I just I was like you know what ? I'm just going to rest . I slept all day , friday as well .

Speaker 5 5:08

That's lovely , I'm like . So you slept for like two days .

Speaker 2 5:11

I basically well , see , the thing is all right . So , thursday so first thing that happened on Thursday , I had worked that morning . I worked from 2 am to 11 am . I was gung ho right up until 1 . 2 am to 11 am . I was gung-ho right up until one 2 am to 11 am , shit . So I was gung-ho . I was like , yeah , I'm ready . Woo , man , uncle me . Uh , it's like , dude , we're having something at the house . Man , come on over , food , drinks , whatever .

Speaker 2 5:40

I'm like yo saying , first off , all you gotta do is tell me free food , steven's there . Sam knows that better than anybody . Yo , I got a plate . Say no more , I'm there . Um , yeah , anything that'll get me out the house every time . Yeah , free food , facts . Um , but once like two o'clock hit , eyes got heavy . I'm just like yo , dude , I can't make it . He's like , oh , it's okay , man , we'll be going till about seven ish . I'm like all right . So I'm just like laying there , but I can't fall asleep and I have no energy and I just , but I just cannot sleep so I'm just were you watching tv ?

Speaker 2 6:17

I think so , I think I was like playing a game , okay , and I was just like I couldn't , I couldn't get myself to sleep , but fast forward , you know , uh , yeah , I just , I didn't really do anything , but everybody looked like I had fun . There was no bullshit , so that was always good , was there ? Yeah , why you gotta ? Actually you can't leave me , just have my delusions here in albany . Oh god , yeah it was . It was all over the news .

Speaker 5 6:43

I don't watch , so in like the god , the , I would say the college ghetto , like , so like I think it might have been quail and either hudson or like quail , over closer to like maybe western or washington . If it was on quail , though , right four kids . Four kids got shot . Jesus christ , but it but it wasn't intended for them . Maybe somebody was . They don't know what happened . It sounds like maybe somebody was shooting at somebody else before people got hit and they were all teenagers like 16 , 17 . The fuck is wrong with you , people , it was huge .

Speaker 5 7:16

Yeah , I'm surprised you didn't hear about that .

Speaker 2 7:18

No .

Speaker 5 7:18

They made like a little , you know .

Speaker 2 7:19

I didn't even see it on Facebook . Yo , what the fuck is wrong with y'all ? Yo , I'm telling y'all the mental issues that most I I'm not you know what , sam . We just wish a speedy recovery on those . Uh , effect that that and you know now we nothing we can say we we ? Yeah , you should have told me that . Now I'm mad .

Speaker 5 7:43

Yeah , I'm sorry , it's we don't operate like that , so we don't know why a person would do something like that . You know , it's all about being tough .

Speaker 2 7:52

It's all about ego , it's probably over something fucking .

Speaker 5 7:56

Yeah , but it's like it's all about ego being tough . Who , who the fuck knows there's some fire . It was really nutty ass . We know there's some fucking nutcases out in this bitch sam , I was like really celebrating .

Speaker 2 8:06

so I was like , yeah , nothing happened . You know what yo fucking hominy do better

Relationship Expectations and Codependency

Speaker 2 8:10

? Yeah , um , before we get into anything , sam , I do have a little bit of a public service announcement and , uh , it was something that I have realized about myself over the past couple of weeks , and I want to say this for all the ladies For the ladies To all the women who have loved me and who have been with me .

Speaker 5 8:40

And everything .

Speaker 2 8:42

You are all correct . I think it might wipe To turn me down wait what I'm dead serious all the women you've been with like in terms of like romantic relationship , wanting to be in a relationship like a girlfriend .

Speaker 5 8:54

Yeah , who's last time you had a ?

Speaker 2 8:55

girlfriend long time ago no , no , no .

Speaker 5 8:58

I need a date .

Speaker 2 8:59

I really don't know , no no , sam , I really don't know .

Speaker 5 9:02

But hold on , sam okay so 10 years sam .

Speaker 2 9:07

So , going into that , the reason why I came up with that is simply because y'all were right . I'll tell you why because I never knew what I wanted ever in my life . And let's just be honest Once you hit a certain age , potential can only take you so far in a relationship , if you know what I'm saying , which means at a certain age , you shouldn't be looking for somebody to see the potential in you without giving anything . If you're in your mid-30s and you're just like , oh , these people don't see the potential in me , it's probably because you don't have one or don't have any , or it's because you're definitely not living up to the potential that is within you . So , therefore , that's why nobody takes you seriously and that is why I just want to tell you all the ladies I promise y'all you will never hear a man say this , ever . Women . I'all . This is why I'm a fucking unicorn . They were right to turn me down okay .

Speaker 5 10:11

So potential in the sense of like you meet a guy and he doesn't have all his shit together and I should still date him , even though he doesn't have all .

Speaker 2 10:17

Even if he had all this stuff together , I wouldn't date him because he's a him .

Speaker 5 10:21

I like girls you know what the fuck I ?

Speaker 2 10:24

What do ?

Speaker 5 10:25

you mean by potential , though ? Like , like , if I , let's say , I was thinking when I was dating somebody and you're saying I'd be wrong to give a guy a , a a chance , because he doesn't have , because he's just providing potential , he doesn't have a shit together , he's telling me the potential yeah , correct , 100% correct the potential .

Speaker 2 10:42

yeah , I correct 100 .

Speaker 5 10:43

Well , as a former bum picker bum dater I used to I bums was all I dated . Yeah , don't do that . It's fucking it's . It gets you nowhere because it may . I think it makes them complacent not to get .

Speaker 5 10:56

Thank you , and that was my problem they're with a woman who got her shit together , who isn't judging them , who isn't nagging them to get their shit together , then they just get lazy and complacent okay , see , the girl , see , I don't know I , I always dated go-getters and they always nag me do better , steven , do better , do better see , I was more in this .

Speaker 5 11:17

In my mind frame was more like obviously nobody wants to live like this , so I'm sure they're getting their shit , like , like trusting that the person's getting their shit together , which is also that was stupid . But in my mind I'm like it's stupid for you want to live in these conditions or this way . Well , but there is people in the world we talked about , who loved who , who doesn't mind living like a bomb , they don't mind couch surfing , they don't mind being on you ain't see old pretty boy who went , who went viral , all like , hey , I'm pretty and I need a place to stay .

Speaker 2 11:49

I just got out . You didn't see that ? No , and he probably got a place to stay .

Speaker 5 11:54

Oh , dude there was thousands of women saying he could stay with me because , because the race , we all know , the ratio between men and women is like one to two and like no , five to one is honestly five women to one man . So we're all like that's why there's so many infidelities , of bitches taking women's husbands and boyfriends , like there's not enough men in the world . It really isn't enough men in the world for these women . Two , there's not enough quality men and just people are fucking lonely , bro . I feel like the pandemic showed how lonely and desperate people can become .

Speaker 2 12:27

I have to disagree with you and the only reason why I will is because I think I personally think it's the expectations that we put on one . Another idea of um . I think men have an unrealistic expectation of how freaky and what the woman needs to bring , and women are too picky in terms of finance I have to disagree .

Speaker 5 13:03

See , I see more women with more women . Okay , I see more women with bums . Okay , then we know money . Well , can I ? Men with money ? And I just want to say this most of my friends , including myself , have been the breadwinners , had the art shit together and then the guy moves in and either you know they , he builds himself up or he just does it .

Speaker 2 13:25

Most of my friends like okay , so they with bones all right , so then let me rephrase it .

Speaker 5 13:30

Respectfully , I'm gonna rephrase it and these are some beautiful go-getting women too I'm gonna hold on the fact of loneliness , bro , it's codependency .

Speaker 2 13:37

I don't think so , because all the way I I I'm not gonna go with that , just because I just don't see it that way .

Speaker 5 13:46

Codependency . You may not have a need for codependency , but the average person does . I have met way too many times not just my friends , I mean co-workers , that and women and it's always women that are with men , that's beneath them and stick beside them . These dudes be having kids on them . These dudes infidelity issues and they don't leave this dude . All right , and it's a codependency

Relationship Expectations and Realities

Speaker 5 14:09

I'm not .

Speaker 2 14:09

I'm not talking about those kind of . I'm talking about the women who live life with an un . I'm talking about delusion .

Speaker 5 14:16

I'm talking about those bitches , those bitches , those is delusional , that's a different type of delusion .

Speaker 2 14:21

again , I I still think they think potential , they think he's going to change .

Speaker 5 14:27

Thank you , that's delusion , exactly , but they're in love with potential .

Speaker 2 14:31

They're not in love with what he possibly could do .

Speaker 5 14:35

With the idea of the person .

Speaker 2 14:36

Yes , Thank you . So that's the reason why I say that .

Speaker 5 14:45

Now , yeah , we're talking about the same women .

Speaker 2 14:47

see , we are well , no , no , no , no . I'm talking about the women who , all right , this is again . This is a different type of woman , but these , seems these seem to be the one that be permeating , or I'm saying that word wrong permeating thank you , um , at least in terms of what I see all over social media , all over .

Speaker 2 15:08

You know , whatever you know , my man , he need to have xyz , this , this and that . And it seriously got me thinking , sam , I'm just like yo . What if I ? What if I'm an amazing dude ? Right , I'm an amazing guy out here trying to sling dick to every bitch , tom Dick and Harry , trying to fucking come across my way . Let's just say you do all this , you do all that , right .

Speaker 5 15:35

I try to sling dick to Tom Dick and Harry . You met . You met Sally , jan and Janet . Is that the female version of that ? I just made that one up .

Speaker 2 15:46

Sally Janet , Janet . I actually like that . Thank you , Sam , that's actually really good .

Speaker 5 15:49

That's a female version of that .

Speaker 2 15:52

But hold that thought , because we gotta take a break and we're back .

Speaker 5 16:12

so , sam , if there was a guy , just you . If you see yourself because you're not so , but hold on , sam .

Speaker 2 16:18

Before I get off track . Before I get off track , crap , I got off track well , I want to say this I knew you about .

Speaker 5 16:24

If those kind of women who are , who are expecting all these you know these guys to be in a certain tax bracket , be lavish to have this , that , and if they met a guy like you , just a regular degilus regular guy from like I am the true definition of regular and it's not wrong .

Speaker 5 16:38

But he's a great . You're good , like you said . You're not just here slinging dick to sally jane and janet , thank you . You know what I'm . You're not just here slinging dick to Sally Jane and Janet , thank you . You know what I'm saying . You're just a regular guy . I don't think you would want that kind of woman anyway .

Speaker 2 16:49

So what does it matter if they don't want you , no , no , no , that's not my point and I'm fine with them not wanting me , okay , but it's the effect that it's having on the guys trying to attract that , and so I'm more like talking to them as opposed to them . They will find out in short order that what it is that they were looking for will not be achieved by 98% of them , because that's just numbers . That's just how it is . When you hear women say I want a man who makes a hundred thousand , you really don't know how many men in life actually really make that kind of money and , the truth be told , it's not a lot .

Speaker 2 17:31

Well , I I but hold on , sam . But let's just say this Is it so fucking bad that let's say you're with somebody and let's just say the max they make it to is a two bedroom bed and one bath , or one and a half baths ?

Speaker 5 17:51

That's nice .

Speaker 2 17:52

A couple of cars to get here and there . Nothing fancy , nothing crazy , you know . But you're a homeowner , Got a couple of cars .

Speaker 5 17:59

You're talking about those particular women , though . Well , I'm talking about the desperate bitches that I was just explaining to you .

Speaker 2 18:08

Sam , I don't care about that . I want you to understand this . I'm not talking about the desperate ones and I'm not talking about the pie in the sky ones . What are you talking about ? I'm talking about everyone in between we focus no sam hold on that's what I'm trying to tell you . We focus too much on the stupid bitches and the the know nothings can I be honest , it's only , really only , two options no , that's not true there's .

Speaker 5 18:28

Well , you're right there's , I don't know . I I feel like I've been all in between . You're talking to a woman , right ?

Speaker 2 18:33

some woman , don't forget but you don't know every woman I feel like I've been in all those women at one point . What I'm saying is it's like I think but sam , is it so bad that if a person's max is a two-bedroom house and that's their max , is it so wrong ? Is why should that be looked at as a failure ?

Speaker 5 18:55

let's say they came looking at as a failure a lot of people would I don't think anybody would , unless those , those women who are looking for the super elite , those women we yeah , that's what I'm saying , what women we talk about ?

Speaker 2 19:06

because I think a regular person- you're trying to be so too specific because it matters .

Speaker 5 19:11

Who would think that the average person wouldn't think that they would think you're doing good for yourself . The average person just wants to be comfortable , that's it I disagree , sam , I'd be listening that's him .

Speaker 2 19:23

When I'm walking and I'm like walking around and I'm listening to people and shit . I listen , sam . I heard . All right , I was astounded at this conversation and into and honestly entertained she , her and her man were going at it a little bit and she kept calling him a fucking bum . You ain't got no car , you ain't got this and I go . But honey , you're walking with him , true ?

Speaker 5 19:53

what you ? I think she's what you . She's trying to make it a point that she can get a nigga that got what he don't got okay , she was throwing it in his face , but if that was the case , why aren't you there ?

Speaker 2 20:02

if that she don't love that that dude okay , then she loves , so then why not focus on sam ?

Speaker 5 20:07

so then sam , he needs to act . His no , his no , no , no status all right , he not . So he needs to act right . He needs to chill like don't talk to the guy who knows what he said to everybody to call her a bum , like like he got a lot of fucking nerve to be calling somebody about well , again , you weren't there , I was .

Speaker 2 20:28

That's not what was said . He just kept saying he's like yo I'm giving him my damnedest , like I don't know what else you want oh like I really don't know , and that's my point you shouldn't be with him no , but see , that's my point , sam this chick . Yeah , her shoes were busted . She was busted . She didn't have the right to demand the things that she was demanding of some . Here's my thing you at least need to have no sam no hold on one sec .

Speaker 2 20:59

This goes for men and women . I am not picking on either gender . I think both y'all are two stupid motherfuckers . The way that men are like oh yo , I need my bitch to have this and this , she better do this and this . Fuck you . You ain't worth it . A lot of young motherfuckers ain't even worth half the shit you ask .

Speaker 2 21:16

So what I'm trying to say is I think we need to fucking , really , really , really be done with like the shit , like pop the balloon . We need to be done . Can we expand on that Hold on , hold on .

Speaker 2 21:31

We need to be done with those kinds of shows . We need to be done with the fresh and fit shit . We need to be done with the fresh and fit shit . We need to be done with fucking , um , these , these , these stupid ass gits , these stupid ass shows that are just there to show the goddamn worst of men and women , and it just shows the , the lack of maturity , the lack of understanding and really the fucking lack of any any like . Let's you know what . We are gonna fucking knock this shit out together . When was the last time you walked about I said man , that's a great looking couple right there . When was the fucking last time you said that ?

Speaker 5 22:19

I don't think I pay enough attention .

Speaker 2 22:21

We used to . We used to .

Speaker 5 22:24

Yeah , but I don't think I have anything to do with those .

Speaker 2 22:27

I disagree with you , Sam . Check this out . And societal impact for me personally . But , sam , I pay attention to it , I'm just saying for me personally , some people .

Speaker 5 22:35

Just sam , I pay attention to it . I'm just saying for me , person . Some people personally . We'd be so in our own heads . You know , I have so much shit in my head right , I'm thinking about a million . It's rare that something will stop me from being inside my head to be like , oh you know , so that's just me . But you're saying those society inputs that you just explained is the reason why we don't look at couples the same 100 .

Speaker 2 22:58

Okay , 110 being a couple ain't cool , no more .

Speaker 5 23:03

It's always about it's all about I did me for me .

Speaker 2 23:07

No , it's that too , but it's all . No , I I think it's more about . It's all about the look what I did , I did and I want us to get . I , I I want people to fucking like really get back and just finding somebody who works best for you , like the person that can we talk about the balloon popping ? Yes , sam , since you don't want to get into something deep oh sorry no , it's too late no , it's not , it is now go ahead , no steve go ahead , man , go

Dating Deal Breakers and Pros

Speaker 2 23:40

off , let's .

Speaker 2 23:40

Let's talk about the balloon cook . So then , why do ?

Speaker 5 23:42

you touch my hand when I'm stirring look how , first and foremost , look how , you said all right , we'll talk about like a fucking six , like cook , nigga cook I can't you keep taking my fucking spatula .

Speaker 2 23:56

No , I haven't at all .

Speaker 5 23:56

you actually have every . Can't you keep taking my fucking spatula ? No , I haven't at all .

Speaker 2 23:58

You actually have . Every time you interrupt , that's you taking my hand and saying stop cooking . I have not interrupted .

Speaker 5 24:02

I have inputted something when you had a Well , okay , how long am I supposed to let you pause ? For I was just curious because I'm clearing it up for the audience when you get my shit off .

Speaker 2 24:12

You don't have to . I'm very good at projecting at what I want to say . Okay , I'm very good at it , all right , that's why people get mad when I speak , because I'm very clear okay , too late , now go ahead . No , let's go , let's go , balloons it's just now um . What's up with the balloons ?

Speaker 5 24:30

did you watch . I did watch that uh , producer bae , could you on youtube look up um balloon game turtle ?

Speaker 2 24:39

oh no , I already know that whole situation .

Speaker 5 24:42

I just want to . I just want to expand on that why , but what do you all right , what is ? How do you feel about ? Would you ever participate in the balloon I ? Absolutely would never now , that has nothing to do with status . That mostly has to do with appearance . Like the person walks in , you don't know anything about them , you're just looking at them , so that's right , and then somebody immediately fucking pops the balloon and well , because that's not what their jam is fair enough but you know , can I be honest like I ?

Speaker 5 25:08

I felt like this for a long time . I don't want anyone who don't want me . I'm okay with you not being attracted to .

Speaker 2 25:14

I'm cool with that . But here's the thing , I'm okay with that . There's no see , here's the thing . There's because what if I was interested ? You know , and I get it , it's a two-way street , but yeah , this isn't like you're meeting somebody in the street . You're going , I'm being judged , you're going to be judged . I don't know that shit . You're no say if I was single . You're going to be judged , I don't . It's not like you're going to like you're literally going there for them to judge you that's .

Speaker 5 25:41

I feel like I get judged as soon as I walk out the door . But what I'm saying ?

Speaker 2 25:47

is . Why would you purposely so ? Why would you sign ? Why would you sign up ? You know what that is ? That right , there is just a dumbed down version of speed dating .

Speaker 5 25:57

Yeah , that's all that is I don't know , it was like plumber maybe .

Speaker 2 26:01

I know exactly who you're talking about .

Speaker 5 26:02

Balloon pop plumber yeah , he was a fraud .

Speaker 2 26:06

Yeah , no , that shit no it got bad , sam , I've paid attention to that entire thing .

Speaker 5 26:13

I know all about that guy . Yes , sam , real fast . But so while while producer bae's looking for that , um , I don't know if I I would do it for fun if I was single and I wouldn't really trip . I know what you're , I get what you're saying . If there was someone there that I was attracted to and they popped their balloon , would I be hurt ? No , I mean , I'd be like damn , I wish they liked me , but I wouldn't really be again . I don't want anybody who doesn't want me , right ?

Speaker 2 26:35

so to me . It's just so , here's my thing . So here's my thing . The fact is like I've heard some shit was like I'm not really digging their fit .

Speaker 5 26:43

No , I'm not really doing a lot of them are just being corny and they could just easily just say she's just not my type , because that's what I would say if I popped it like he's just not my type , but he looks very nice . I'm more of a . You know me , I like to compliment people , I'm nice . So I'd be more along the lines of hey , oh , his outfit was really great , but you know , I just he's just not my type of , like someone a little bigger , taller , whatever . But , um , yes , this is it , it's a , it's it's fine , I know aaron the plumber .

Speaker 5 27:07

I watched this whole thing producer bae , can you put it all the way to the beginning first , so everybody turn and tune into our youtube to watch this ? Why are we watching this ? But it says it's the pop balloon or fine love aaron the plumber . Look how he walks in is what cracks me up the most . You could put this audio on it .

Speaker 6 27:23

Uh , producer man , oh man all right if we can have your name uh my name is aaron aaron , how old are you ?

Speaker 4 27:31

I'm 29 . I did want to talk about this , but then I thought about doing it and I , I was like no . And now , what do you look for in a woman ? He looks so much older than 29 .

Speaker 7 27:40

I look for a woman that's not promiscuous and has a career going for herself . Yes , ma'am .

Speaker 4 27:48

And now , what are some of your deal breakers ?

Speaker 7 27:50

Deal breaker being promiscuous .

Speaker 5 27:54

He said that shit twice , like we get it nigga . You don't want to hoe . He said he's looking for a woman who's not .

Speaker 2 28:00

I know that .

Speaker 5 28:01

I know I watch this substance like okay , and we're fucking , we're fucking reacting to it obviously we had to watch it , to react to it .

Speaker 2 28:10

How can you have substance in a what ?

Speaker 5 28:13

but isn't it easy ? Just a nine minute video wait , hold on , but isn't it ? No , they cut it down to nine minutes . You could see where they cut it . But what I'm saying ? I'm sure it was way longer , but what I'm saying is , when you go to something , when you have like a pros and cons listing your fucking head , you have right now what's , what's one of your cons with the ?

Speaker 2 28:30

woman . Oh , the eyelashes , but I can work past that . The fucking eyelashes , I'm sorry talk about .

Speaker 5 28:37

You know emotionally , financially , what is a con for you , for a woman , not just her appearance . We know you don't like them fat okay , you said that .

Speaker 2 28:46

Again , you put things in my mouth .

Speaker 5 28:48

That's fine , no pun intended . Which one is it ? I just told you no , what's your fucking con ? They're just the eyelashes eyelashes .

Speaker 2 28:55

A fucking stank ass attitude for no goddamn reason bad attitude , um , unable to take fucking criticism . That's a big one okay , you don't want no woman , who's just somebody who , um , just a fucking somebody who's emotionally stunted , can't fucking produce their fuck or can't express their emotions correctly okay , so you want somebody who has good communication skills , someone who isn't isn't emotionally sensitive , and she has to have her own natural eyelashes .

Speaker 5 29:23

That's a good little list there . What's your . What's your pros ?

Speaker 2 29:27

oh man , pros , that's easy , man , wait , wait . What do you mean ? Like something that I look for in a girl ? Yeah , oh man , you know , just a fucking I don't give a fuck . What kind of job you got .

Speaker 5 29:37

You would be terrible On this fucking show .

Speaker 2 29:39

I don't give a fuck . I don't give a fuck . Yo , that's a bad thing .

Speaker 5 29:43

Wait , no , because the way you're just expressing yourself Is just funny . It's like You're like job , all right , okay . So you would say something like you know a woman who's hard she don't got .

Speaker 2 29:56

She don't got a shit . Ton of hole friends why does that matter ?

Speaker 5 29:59

it matters it doesn't .

Speaker 2 30:01

Yes , she does . Oh , it does . Okay , do I not ?

Speaker 5 30:05

okay , I'm just saying , I'm not saying you no I'm saying do I not have friends , you would consider a hoe yeah , what is what does that ? What does that even mean ? How is that affecting my relationship with my life ?

Speaker 2 30:18

uh , first off , we're not talking about you , we're talking about me .

Speaker 5 30:20

I'll give you an example , because I have friends that you would consider hoes sam I am only speaking from experience . It's funny how , when the right , when the example ?

Speaker 2 30:29

no , not at all , actually , because I have fucking had friends who had friends or who were dating somebody and they had a whole friends and they and they kept going out with their fucking whole friends , getting into shit and then wondering why the relationship ?

Speaker 6 30:42

didn't work out because you can't stay away from your home , and I got into an argument with the whole friend okay , do you see the other side of that ?

Speaker 5 30:49

sure , where it doesn't affect a voice , of course . So it depends on the person I understand that so it shouldn't matter what her friends do .

Speaker 2 30:58

You need to worry about her I don't have enough time to worry about that at this particular moment okay , so you want a hard-working girl ? Give me another , another pro I mean yo a decent cook , a good cook . I said decent , I didn't say she , she doesn't have to be fucking the best . Honestly , yo just somebody and honestly , somebody's gonna be a good mom , like that's really maternal .

Speaker 5 31:21

So you want , uh , a maternal , a bitch who don't mind fucking . I don't know she can cook , she , she's um sam , that is a nice little homemaker yeah , that's it that's all I need that's it that's all . I said the same thing twice and you came up with more things .

Speaker 2 31:37

That's fucking loser I mean , does that go ? It goes without saying who doesn't want that . But some .

Speaker 5 31:43

But we're gonna ask that because some men want a woman who's fun , who's exciting , she likes to go places . She , he doesn't care if she cooks . Everybody's different , obviously , everybody's different . Some guys don't give a fuck if she cooks , some guys like the eyelashes , like nobody cares . Some guys want her friends to be hoes . I don't know , everybody's different .

Speaker 2 32:03

I'm just saying show me the man and I'll fucking and I'll tell him he's a fucking retard what ?

Speaker 5 32:10

why are you gonna get mad at his , his , what his option like , what his provocative product is like ?

Speaker 2 32:16

because that motherfucker is gonna be raising kids how is that gonna bother you ? All right , cool all right , exactly all right cool , all right . All right , let his daughter come home . Let his fucking daughter come home with them . Big ass , fucking eyelashes . Bet you that nigga flip and I bet you . Bet you that nigga flips . All right , the right bitch came at you .

Speaker 5 32:33

I bet you and she put the right bitch , came at you . She had them eyelashes . She was fine as fuck . You wouldn't be like girl . No , oh , I'll look past it exactly . Oh , but oh , but , hold on , don't get it twisted . No , no , don't get it now . Fuck that , don't get it twisted .

Speaker 2 32:46

Nope , nope , nope . We gotta take a break . Nah , fuck that . Don't get it twisted . Do not get it twisted . We are not breaking yet . Do not get it twisted . Those shits will come off at some point . If we start digging each other , they are gone .

Speaker 5 32:59

We gotta take a break Now we can .

Speaker 2 33:14

And we are back Anywho . So all right , but I just wanted to , you know , just get that shit off . And then Sam wanted to go and fucking piss on my parade .

Speaker 5 33:22

All right , producer , can you bring back the video Again ?

Speaker 2 33:25

y'all tune into our youtube we're not gonna watch the whole thing oh you already .

Speaker 5 33:30

You already clicked out of it . Oh , never mind , never mind , never mind y'all . But if y'all haven't watched that , you gotta go watch it . It's pop balloon or something , everybody has seen it aaron the plumber .

Speaker 5 33:44

He just starts roasting the girls . It was very rude because none of them were rude to him . They all said this , like something anybody would say like you're not really my type . That's all he said . Oh , you know , you're not my type . He's like feelings mutual and I'm like , oh , capital y shaped ass nigga has the fucking audacity . And then , like you said , so what came out about him ?

Speaker 2 34:05

if you heard everything that came out about aaron , um that a lot , um his exes had um press charges against him for stalking that . He still hasn't been um that , yeah he yeah , he was a he's a fucking he .

Speaker 5 34:22

He did time yeah , but but in the video and the reason why his face looks like it's because he was shot , not cleanly .

Speaker 7 34:29

What do you mean ?

Speaker 2 34:29

Yeah .

Speaker 5 34:30

He was shot in the face .

Speaker 7 34:31

Don't have a career or nothing really going for yourself ? What's wrong with his face ?

Speaker 2 34:33

It just looks like All right , no but he , yeah , but people were making fun of him . Oh , he just looks like a jacked up greasy bart simpson I was trying to tell you , sam , I watched other people who uh broke all this shit down too , and that all that shit came out yeah , so it came out that this dude wasn't even because he said he had like 10 g's in the bank or 100 000 , 100 000 in the bank and then he went and did a go fund me , yeah .

Speaker 2 35:01

And then he got mad money for yeah , no , but they blocked it oh , so they froze froze it , yeah , because he's a fucking scammer . And then he was like oh how y'all gonna tell me how to spend my money ? Fucking fraud . Yeah , because he was outside . He was fucking in the club throwing money Fraud . That's what he is , he's a fucking fraud ?

Speaker 5 35:16

Yeah , he's a fucking fraud , of course .

Speaker 2 35:21

But he , this is just bad entertainment . This is just bad entertainment .

Speaker 7 35:23

What's going on , yeah ?

Speaker 5 35:24

it's just , it's humiliation . Kink in my opinion .

Speaker 4 35:27

All right if we can have your name and age and why you . Hi , my name is Karma , I'm 24 . Oh , sorry , I'm supposed to say the pop in the balloon popper Got you For me . It just did not work . I didn't feel like I had chemistry .

Speaker 5 35:48

I wasn't fully attracted through a dating show , you know , really sweet , really nice , very nice . So uh that's okay , thank you did me a favor . You know , absolutely okay again , yeah , there , like he was , so his , his ego was so hurt he had to be like , yeah , you did me a favor but is that not what this show is for ?

Speaker 2 36:01

aren't they supposed to ? I ?

Speaker 5 36:02

agree . Didn't I tell you ? I didn't . I say , I said I feel like we were talking about

Humiliation Kink in the Internet Age

Speaker 5 36:06

something else . There's another kind of balloon popping thing where , where all these the girls will come up to them . They'd be like go left , go right , you've seen it in a white room , or whatever . I never saying it's the same idea . The girls come up and it's , it's a thing .

Speaker 2 36:26

A humiliation . Kink Explain .

Speaker 5 36:31

Like when ? All right , so like SNM or dominatrix . You fucking stupid little slut .

Speaker 2 36:39

That's different . That's in the privacy of your home .

Speaker 5 36:41

Yeah , but now what ? What is even private anymore , Steve ? You got bitches on the internet talking talking about they fart on niggas for money . Bitches talking about they get shit on in Dubai . There was a video years ago I think I talked about it on here . Our girl said she sucked this dude's dick with his mother , his birth mother . We've talked about it on here .

Speaker 2 37:02

We never talked about that .

Speaker 5 37:04

Yeah we did . It was a really long time ago .

Speaker 2 37:06

Sam , I wouldn't have about that . Yeah , we did . It was a while , it was a really long time ago , sam , I wouldn't have forgot that yeah . We never talked about that .

Speaker 5 37:10

She said it was his birth mother and it was like that , that kind yeah . And she , she sucked his dick with his birth Like nothing is what about the girl ? This white girl's going viral Cause she's talking about hot too . Oh , the hot dude thing . Yeah , I think it's just how she did it . It was funny . Yeah , no , don't get me wrong . Like certain things it's funny , certain things it's just wow . Like there's nothing secret on the internet , no more . No one carries shame anymore .

Speaker 2 37:35

So I actually disagree with that and you're mistaking . If I'm with somebody and we're doing some bonded shit in the house that is completely private . Now , just because somebody decides to not make it private , it doesn't mean it wasn't private .

Speaker 5 37:49

We talked about last week about the kid I went to school with who got who was walking two bitches on fucking dog leashes . My point is yes , there's things that will always stay in the bedroom . You don't have to disclose anything that you do me neither right , but it doesn't stop anybody else from doing it . My point is that you may not understand , but the internet is for everybody and nobody has no shame anymore like this humiliation . Kick is just something that's been going on a long ass time that we ain't interested in , but is a thing all right , I mean I guess , yeah , you guys have you never seen it in movies , where people be like you , fucking , fat , disgusting , and the guy's like it's true , like uh , what's it ?

Speaker 2 38:31

coking , coking you mean cucking , cucking that's humiliation , kink .

Speaker 5 38:36

How humiliating is it to see some big , big black dick man dig down your white wife in front of you .

Speaker 2 38:43

That's the only way to cuckold though I okay , hold on , let's expound on this , let's expound on this . Yeah , is it only cuckling if he's massive ? Like what if he's a shrimp ?

Speaker 5 38:57

I think it's only cuckling when they're massive , because it's the humiliation that you don't , you don't possess what they have . You're not equal to him , yeah that's what I mean .

Speaker 2 39:06

But okay , wait , wait , okay , okay , what if she finds somebody who's of equal measure to you but just happens to knock ?

Speaker 5 39:14

it out better . Yeah , it just all boils down to this person's better than you and it's humiliating dicking in your ego why do people do this to themselves ? Or like for example , there's a point out there where there's dudes with small penises and the woman is like making fun of it , like his little ass fucking dick okay , yeah , that's right , but that's a humiliation king .

Speaker 2 39:33

All right , fair enough yeah , all right , I don't get it , but all right , you ain't supposed to ain't for us .

Speaker 5 39:38

I don't get that . You ain't gonna be like oh you fat ass fucking bitch like ugly bitch , come here . No , I'm not we . It's not for us to get fair enough . I honestly did not know I mean , but it's a thing and that's what I think this is . It's a new age form of a humiliation kink , because people are watching it , is watching it for the .

Speaker 2 40:00

I'm trying to think . I never thought of it that way . Maybe I'll be able to enjoy it now that I know .

Speaker 5 40:05

It's just that because that's all it is . Because people are waiting for a nigga like this to , or a girl , one of the bitches to roast each other all right , fair enough .

Speaker 2 40:14

All right , all right , sam , you convinced me . Yeah , all right , it's just mind-numbing , retardation fun for some people .

Speaker 5 40:20

I don't . You know what's crazy . I've never I've scrolled past it until this came out , because this went , went viral . I tried to watch .

Speaker 2 40:27

I watched like this one . I watched something else . I was like yo , this is so fucking stupid .

Speaker 5 40:31

Yeah , it's not my thing .

Speaker 2 40:33

Speed dating with balloons .

Speaker 5 40:34

Right , it's just mean it's not my thing . But when I seen this I was like oh yeah , no , this is humiliating watching this , but go ahead . Producer look at the host face when he said that okay , she even said like look , it was me yeah , we gotta pop over here .

Speaker 4 40:54

If we could have your name first off , she would have been my pick . My name is jara , I'm 22 the girl's talking her it would have been a pop in our balloon with the white dress .

Speaker 1 41:01

She's so pretty she's awesome with the white dress , yeah I'd like a more humble person .

Speaker 4 41:06

Yeah , that's the one .

Speaker 2 41:07

That's my kind of girl right there .

Speaker 4 41:08

Responds to a defensive-ish See yeah .

Speaker 6 41:11

That's all right . I didn't really necessarily like how you responded hey , I could .

Speaker 7 41:15

Just . All I can do is be honest , you know .

Speaker 4 41:18

Yeah , be honest , be authentic self . That's okay .

Speaker 7 41:19

I came over here to find a match that wasn't that's all queen .

Speaker 2 41:24

I don't know . I'm sorry . Yes , ma'am , he bugs me , is she ?

Speaker 4 41:27

someone that's your type she alright you know you're not really my type .

Speaker 7 41:32

I don't mean to be disrespectful , you know , but if I seen you in public I wouldn't reach out totally fine , what you see his face he was getting tight .

Speaker 6 41:40

They was popping them balloons . You need to get a pop balloon over here , your name is Asian , but you ended up popping your balloon . Yeah , I'm .

Speaker 2 41:46

Lex and I'm 23 .

Speaker 6 41:48

And I popped my balloon because I feel like you could be a tad bit disrespectful , Just a tad . How you like , I don't know , arrogant a little bit .

Speaker 7 41:59

Yes , yeah , just that Well voice , in my opinion , is not arrogant . You know , she asked me if she would be a good fit for me , if I like what I see , you know , uh , it's contrary to the truth . So that's all I can do is just stay .

Speaker 5 42:13

He's the type of nigga that I , that I've experienced , where they try to holler at you and you don't listen you , you walk by , you ignoring them like yes , well , you ugly . Anyways , bitch , that's him , that's him you're right because let me tell you something if that girl , or any of these girls , didn't pop their balloons , he'd be all for it because they're all fucking beautiful and , yes , he could have his own opinion , but it's clear he'd take whatever . This nigga ain't got no type . Okay , if she liked him .

Speaker 2 42:39

Well , he left with one of them .

Speaker 5 42:41

Yeah , that I'll never understand . Well , because she , because she immediately asked for money smart girl , because she heard him say the , the hundred she's like , she's like . Yeah , she's apparently she's like yo , so you're gonna hook a brother I told you sam , I want , I , I yeah I went deep into this , yeah , yeah , because , honestly , if that girl , that one he tried to play , wanted him , he'd be down talking about shit like this , sam , that makes it so hard just in regular life People .

Speaker 2 43:09

This is why All right , so , sam , it's like stuff like this is what I'm saying that makes life difficult for the other 90% of people just out here living . It's these kinds of shows , absolutely .

Speaker 5 43:21

I think this shows that I think maybe you're right , because to me , from the little clips I've seen , I just makes me feel like damn , it's hard for my single folks out there . That's all . That's all it makes me .

Speaker 2 43:31

That's what I'm saying , man , you need to just

Communication and Tone in Relationships

Speaker 2 43:33

count your blessings .

Speaker 6 43:33

You found him , god thank , or that he found you whatever you know each other , you forget ?

Speaker 2 43:38

I mean no , we did .

Speaker 5 43:39

We found each other . We did . I already told you how we met well it almost didn't happen because the way anyway we'll talk about I'll . I'll give you guys like the story of how me and producer bae met and that'll be on a day I'm not here anyway , go ahead let's see , I don't that's not a good look for me but uh , thank you , you did me a favor as well yeah , to me he just looks like a capital y like capital it's not what you say .

Speaker 6 44:10

This is what I mean by what I said . It's not what you say . It's how you say it . A lot of the things that you yeah , that's what everybody says about me yeah , it's true it is tone .

Speaker 2 44:21

Tone is very , very important because I told you I realized that at the fucking alive at five . Yeah , I didn't , I don't , I don't know I'm so loud . Yeah , like I don't know that I'm yelling .

Speaker 5 44:33

The one person we was talking about , that mother fucking . I was like did you not see our friend ? She was talking about our friend , she was talking about her man and she was so loud that the people were looking . Everybody was looking at us . You , you must not pay attention , because she was just like I'm so sick of this nigga . Wait , where was this ? This was at a live at five you must have not been paying attention .

Speaker 2 45:00

I was in my zone , but oh oh okay , do you remember ? Now , you must have been in the zone . I was really zoned out . I love her to death . Vanessa carlton was kind of killing it .

Speaker 5 45:12

Yeah , I love her to death . But I was looking like keep it down , but she was like my second asshole anyway , yo , because that's what you had to do to me . She's like steven , I'm like , I'm yelling I'm just as loud as you , so I don't know my tone . But tone in general , tone is very important , even in text messages . That's why I'd rather call somebody , because in text it gets so convoluted and like you don't , you can't gauge the person's tone right . So yeah , tone is very , very , very important . Fair enough .

Speaker 2 45:39

She's right , it's not what he says , how you say it but you know , if these damn cameras are on , she'd be like yeah , I don't know who the fuck you talking to . That's like that . I know she would .

Speaker 5 45:49

She's not that some people might just really be that nice , like what's the point of giving all that energy for a clown like that ? Like you know , I'm saying because you don't want it , you don't want to seem bothered to that , because that's what he wants . Like clowns , like that love getting a rise out of you , positively or negatively , like they , they want to feel your energy surge up and down . He's a narcissist . So what if I talked about narcissism ? What's their number one thing that they hate being ignored ? Fair enough . So if you ignore that shit , you don't let it bother you . You're not their power source anymore . So they they're just like upset , they're not getting under your skin , they don't want to fuck with you . It's a whole thing , bro . Like I'm telling you , I could tell he's a fucking nurse , he's a , he's a fraud and nurse , he's a nurse , nurse , he's a nurse , nurse , yeah , nurse , anywho , go ahead .

Speaker 6 46:35

Producer I've been saying to me as well as the other girls differently , but that's all I have to say but one thing about me is I'm not going to change who I am to fit somebody else's liking .

Speaker 1 46:57

I feel like you can barely talk if you're not it , that's not it .

Speaker 7 47:01

The one that is it , I'm going to let it be known , for surely , yes respectful your name and age and why you ended up popping your balloons let it be known .

Speaker 4 47:07

Okay , you know for surely . Yes , respectful , all right , your name and age and why you ended up popping your creep , Brianna 26 .

Speaker 6 47:14

My eyes are up here , baby . Are you looking at this ?

Speaker 7 47:18

No , I'm looking at the hair on your arm . You know okay . They don't have hair on .

Speaker 4 47:24

Don't do too much .

Speaker 7 47:28

I'm just being honest .

Speaker 5 47:29

You know I don't like that . That's so fucking petty and dumb , like if she had an excessive amount of hair on her arm . See , we would see it through the camera , through the video . She doesn't , she , I have no , sam look I have hair on my arm , not really yeah , no , it's there . That's what I'm saying . Her shit was blonde because if it was crazy we would see it through the video , like he was , just cause she caught his ass looking at her , I could look past that .

Speaker 2 47:52

Yeah , anybody could Come bring them fussy ass arms around here .

Speaker 5 47:57

Come here , peach fuzz Like . Come here .

Speaker 2 47:59

Like clearly , like yo , we can braid this .

Speaker 5 48:02

He was looking , looking at her titties and got caught looking at her titties and nothing wrong with her , so he had to come at her fucking hair on her arms . That's just stupid I mean .

Speaker 2 48:08

Well she's .

Speaker 5 48:08

I'm sorry , I would look at her titties too she's not mad , that she's like hello , look at my face , nigga , like any of them guys .

Speaker 7 48:16

Producer that's all I was looking at you trying to say if I'm looking at particular body anyways she asked me the question .

Speaker 5 48:29

I like her though .

Speaker 6 48:31

Yeah , I'm in heels and you ain't tall enough . Don't do too much though Pause .

Speaker 7 48:35

See , I get it right there .

Speaker 2 48:37

Bang . Hold on Sam , I'm not mad at it . Hold on Sam , I'm not mad at it .

Speaker 5 48:47

I'm not mad at her clapping back because it was deserved , but that right there , hold on okay . So what I'm not sure I'm fucking , what I'm not fucking sure . So what ?

Speaker 2 48:52

first off , I'm probably taller than he is real fast before you say something .

Speaker 5 48:57

There was another , not a popping video . There was a podcast of this dude who was like I , I feel like women's problems , they're too worried about height . Uh , all these women is hold on , all these women is giving up a good dude because of height , and they're like wait , wait , wait . And the guys in the podcast said wait , you mean the women you like , the women you don't like , don't want niggas with height , then you need to like different kind of women and that's a fact . Oh no , I agree .

Speaker 5 49:20

I agree , just because the bitches that you want don't like .

Speaker 2 49:23

You don't mean that every bitch feel the same way , but there's a lot he's like I need him to be six , two and up . I even hear chicks say six , four , like it's just normal . What's wrong ?

Speaker 5 49:36

with the preference though you have . I don't have . You don't like big girls and you want a girl who can kind of cook and who at least has a job , like what's wrong , and can hold the conversation and make me laugh a little bit . You know who's the nurturer , who wants to be ?

Speaker 2 49:44

a mother like what's wrong with having a friend and can hold the conversation and make me laugh a little bit , you know who's the nurturer , who wants to be a mother , like ?

Speaker 5 49:51

what's wrong with having a preference , it's just , I don't have . I don't have any problem with that , sam , I'm having your preference , but getting offended by people , hold on , I'm gonna tell you this right now , sam .

Speaker 2 50:00

Let's just say an individual has nine out of the fucking ten , but he , he just happens to be short . You gonna sell yourself short because he's short .

Speaker 5 50:10

I think most of the time , steve , a lot of people just say shit for shock value or just be talking Fair enough . I think yes , if the predicament is that they have nine out of ten , they're gonna date you ? I would hope so Honestly . A real woman , a real chick .

Speaker 2 50:23

ain't gonna really care about height if they have everything else all right , I can accept that , but hold that thought cuz we gotta take a break .

Speaker 5 50:36

And we're back Right back to Turtleback , back to Turtleback . Again y'all Minority , plus One YouTube so you can watch it .

Speaker 4 50:58

Let's move on . Let's move on , okay , so .

Speaker 2 51:01

Yeah , he left with her , we do still have three .

Speaker 4 51:04

And pop , but she looking like she about to . Yeah , they both do . Okay , alright , if we

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Speaker 4 51:06

can have .

Speaker 5 51:06

Your name and age and why you ended up . He left with her . We do still have three .

Speaker 4 51:07

But she looking like she about to . Yeah , they both do . I want to pop .

Speaker 6 51:09

Okay , all right , if we can have your name and age and why you ended up popping . My name is Jacqueline , I'm 25 . I popped because I have hair on my arms .

Speaker 7 51:19

Hey , just because you got hair on your arms , that's okay though , queen , you look phenomenal though , thank you . Okay though , queen , you look phenomenal though , thank you . You know , she ain't fit to my liking . She ain't fit to my . Excuse me , queen , I'm talking to this woman right here well I could look anyway I could look anyway hold on , I could look anywhere I want . This is great this is . This is so crazy yeah , can y'all give her her balloon back though ?

Speaker 3 51:45

we're not talking to you sweetheart .

Speaker 7 51:48

You already been , I already let you know . Wait , can you pause it real quick ?

Speaker 2 51:52

this is what's all right so I understand why ladies , I love the term sweetheart honey it's condescending . No , but it doesn't have to be like when I say it you say it , kind of saying no , I do not .

Speaker 5 52:03

Yes , you do . No , I do not . There's been multiple times me and you have had disagreements , arguments it's sweet , hey , it's honey cakes .

Speaker 2 52:10

You're being condescending , oh yeah , no to you , To you , oh no , don't get it twisted .

Speaker 5 52:21

I'm being very condescending to you , so you use it in a condescending way and a loving .

Speaker 2 52:24

Are you serious ? If I'm like with my girl , whatever you know , let's just say she's somewhere you know , smack her in the ass . Hey , honey bun , how you doing babe ? Something Like that's what I'm saying . I don't look , I do not ever call the girl by her name . She's going to have a nickname , that's true .

Speaker 5 52:40

She's going to get called a pet name . Don't say my name .

Speaker 2 52:51

Exactly . Isn't that like that's supposed to be ? Like the dope shit about being in a relationship is that you get to call each other real dumb shit and only you guys can say it to one another . So it's shit like this .

Speaker 5 52:55

You know what , sir aaron ?

Speaker 2 52:56

aaron the plumber stop calling them queen and queen and sweetheart and sweetheart , because you're making it harder for me . Look at how this is it gets shaved . All right , you can . Start it harder for me . Look at how this thing is shaped , all right . No , turn it up , all right , you can start it , Yo .

Speaker 5 53:09

he looks like they like squeezed the bottom of a balloon and the top gets puffy , so he's saying get the balloon back , but how are you feeling , hon ?

Speaker 6 53:16

I'm not going to get my balloon back .

Speaker 4 53:17

Oh , okay , all right , no problem .

Speaker 7 53:24

He'd just be staring . Yes .

Speaker 4 53:26

Do we still have two balloons ? She was weird . Let's go over here . I saw you hesitate , that's why I had to ask she was actually okay with the way you were talking to the girls . So if we have your name , and age and why you ended up popping .

Speaker 3 53:36

My name is Kayla , I'm 23 . Originally I was not going to pop my balloon because I know a lot of them popped it because he was being , I guess , arrogant . But to me I like my man , that's not gonna sit in every girl's face and you know complimenting them , you know . So I didn't find that offensive to me . But when they started that what was going on , I'm very like .

Speaker 2 53:55

I don't want to say I'm argumentative , but I don't want my man to argue back with me because then I feel like it's not going to be a problem . You know what that means .

Speaker 3 54:02

She don't want to be told about herself um , but then with me you kind of got a little bit catty , with me you a little sassy , just a little bit and she's trying so hard to hold together .

Speaker 2 54:13

I'm gonna get that . She's trying so hard . You kind of look like the chief . I don't say , if I see it , you , you need to relax .

Speaker 3 54:19

Trying real hard you stocky as hell and I was trying to be respectful , but like you , was coming out real quick I didn't like I'm from the South and I can handle a lot of criticism and stuff like that , but the way you was coming , you just acting like you got it all , like that . And I guarantee you probably got a roommate at home .

Speaker 5 54:36

And it's just not good anymore . Pause Okay , I get it .

Speaker 2 54:38

Pause , right there , he deserves it . Steve , I didn't say he didn't deserve it . I did not say you didn't deserve it . It may not be true .

Speaker 5 54:44

It may be true , we don't know . But , sam , but don't come at people and don't expect them not to say nothing back to you . You do look like a nigga that got a roommate . You look like a bum ass bouncer . They don't make a lot of fucking money Like come on , dog , okay .

Speaker 2 55:00

Well , first off Sam . So what if he did have a roommate ?

Speaker 5 55:02

it's not like he's a bum , but the way he's coming at them is like he . He's like I'm good , I got this , I got that . You know , she , she , you could tell they kind of cut some stuff out , because she's like the way you came at me . I'm like when did that happen ?

Speaker 2 55:12

because we didn't see it oh , yeah , yeah , yeah , they definitely cut it out yeah , he must have said that's what I'm saying .

Speaker 5 55:17

She didn't come out of the woodworks , out of that , nowhere , so she definitely shout out to whoever does their editing .

Speaker 2 55:22

That's , that's a clean cut .

Speaker 5 55:23

Yeah , she didn't come out of nowhere with that , so he must have said something like I got . You know how , corny , I got more money than you like , corny shit . Yeah , even though he said that anyway yeah , that's probably why she said that you know what I'm saying but all right , you could uh play , please .

Speaker 2 55:43

So she looks like she fight dudes . She looks like she's a queen . I'm a licensed plumber .

Speaker 3 55:49

I live downtown . I live downtown .

Speaker 7 55:51

I stay by myself , queen , and you're not even qualified to be .

Speaker 5 55:57

He keeps saying you're not qualified , You're definitely not . All right , producer Bay , you can pause it .

Speaker 7 56:04

I wasn't even looking .

Speaker 2 56:05

Your way , if y'all watching this , he left with the first one , the black dress and you say come to find out come to find out , she immediately started asking him for money . Like it was like I don't even think they made it past the fucking door .

Speaker 5 56:19

Good , he don't deserve nobody with that kind of attitude . But uh , as we're wrapping up , uh , I know I'm gonna do the segment that you and britney hate so much .

Speaker 2 56:31

But I don't dislike it for the culture .

Speaker 5 56:33

I don't dislike it . Um , I was . I did have a nasty notice this week , but I'm gonna do it for next week . Like I said , I'll do nasty notice . Like you know , every once in a while . It's just like too much to do every episode , but I got some rips this week look , I told you , they all know we back to podding .

Speaker 2 56:46

Yeah , that's how we use it unfortunately , producer may .

Speaker 5 56:48

Could you pull up the wait ? First one , why is that unfortunate ? No rip , oh , other than that pass away . So fortunately they pass away gee steve , I'm sensitive about my podcast , the first one is donald sutherland rest in peace legend yeah , the longtime actor known for roles in hunger games , president snow , more films and television is dead .

Speaker 2 57:09

He was 88 years old dude you want to know ? Yeah , one of the movies for , and I don't know why he always sticks out , like anytime , I think of him .

Speaker 2 57:19

I think of this one movie yeah and I know he's played in a shit ton of others but space cowboys I've never seen space cowboys uh with him . Uh , it's , it's a bad movie . Okay , uh , it's , it's hit , it's a bunch of old guys . Him uh , oh , my god , what's his name ? I cannot believe I'm forgetting his name . He's so fucking popping . So , tommy , tommy lee jones and um and there's a couple other people too , but he was like I don't know like he .

Speaker 5 57:48

Oh , he reminds me of like it's gonna sound weird , just hear me out yeah like a white Morgan Freeman oh yeah , he , he definitely has the voice of God , kind of thing he plays himself but playing other like he's always the same .

Speaker 2 58:07

It's always the same mannerisms . Yeah , it's never like I don't know .

Speaker 5 58:11

Margaret freeman's up there too . I think margaret freeman gotta be in his eight , 90s , 90s . I don't think he's 90s . No , he's up there no he's margaret freeman , been old forever for that .

Speaker 2 58:20

You know that is true I'm a fucker's been old since 12 yeah , all right uh but damn .

Speaker 5 58:25

Rest in peace to donald sutherland this one was so sad um shifty shell . Shell shot crazy town front man and butterfly singer dies at 49 . Yeah , um his . I think it says his real name on here .

Speaker 2 58:38

I'm not sure yo , he hated that song no , they , they .

Speaker 5 58:43

That song was like the bane of their existence yeah , he's seth uh benzer . His name is Seth Binzer .

Speaker 2 58:48

I remember watching an interview .

Speaker 5 58:50

But his stage name was Shifty Shellshock Crazy Town . I don't know if you guys know Come come , my lady , come come my lady , you're my butterfly . Yeah , they hated that . Because that ? Was their breakout song , their one hit wonder . But , let me tell you that was I still , to this day , love it . But I was obsessed with that song in sixth grade I can't lie .

Speaker 2 59:08

I always hated that song . I never liked it .

Speaker 5 59:12

To this day that's the only song I know from them , you know what makes it sad , besides the fact you know he's a legend he's , you know he died so young legend . I'm sorry sam .

Speaker 2 59:20

I know he died , but legend .

Speaker 5 59:22

I mean , that's a legendary song legendary song okay fair enough say that okay , legendary song . I apologize I don't throw legend around easy drugs and alcohol for a very long time very long , I think he was on he was on um celebrity rehab . Yes , he was smoking crack yep , that's it yeah that's the . That's the other place . I remember him . Yes , he's from celebrity rehab and that's what he said .

Speaker 2 59:44

He hated that .

Speaker 5 59:45

He said I wish I never did that fucking song yeah all right , yeah , you're right when I seen that that was when I saw that I was like damn , that's again I talk about how music is just the closest thing to a time machine and just brought me back to being sixth grade , loving that song and it's just sad he's so .

Speaker 5 1:00:01

He was so young . But yeah , rip Next one producer Ray , this one really stuck . Bill Cobbs , an actor who appeared in over 120 television shows and movies since the 1970s . He died . He was 90 . If you guys don't know , I don't know if you guys ever seen the Bodyguard , he was , like I don't know , one of her managers or something . He was his manager in the movie .

Speaker 2 1:00:28

He acted more , acted more as like a caretaker than anything yeah , first of all 90 , god bless him , that is a long beautiful life and he's always .

Speaker 5 1:00:37

He's always in these like random movies , like you know what I'm saying . But that's what really hurt my heart , because even this picture he just looks like he could be my granddad . No , for real . Look at his sweater , this old man's sweater .

Speaker 2 1:00:49

He just looks so happy you know what he looks like ? He looks like he sat down for like a school picture right , he just looks .

Speaker 5 1:00:55

So he just looks like the typical you just look like he just sat down and just went . Yeah , or like his grandkids is like sit down , grandpa , we take a picture . He just looks . But I , I've seen , I can't think of everything .

Speaker 2 1:01:06

I can't either , but I know him over 120 television shows and movies . I know he's a phenomenal actor because I've seen him and stuff . He's a legend , yeah he's definitely a legend bill cops , oh yeah , but those are rips , y'all all right . So , sam , before we end up , before we end I know we don't talk about politics and I wanted to wait until after , um , towards the end of the show . But , sam , did you see that at all ? No , how did you ? Did you watch that fucking debate ?

Speaker 5 1:01:35

no , were they ? Were they really like ?

Speaker 2 1:01:37

see now , and bugging sam , he's saying sam , all right , can I just have a quick solo please , producer , just because I know we talk a lot about this .

Elderly Abuse in Politics

Speaker 2 1:01:49

So this country does not give a fuck about elderly or the kids . I'm done . I'm officially finished . I'm not listening to you fucks anymore . I'm not listening to anybody , no more , because there ain't a fucking shine hell that anybody could have watched that fucking debate and said that nigga is in his right fucking mind . This is elderly abuse at this particular moment .

Speaker 5 1:02:13

This is elder abuse right now he said it wasn't a good night .

Speaker 2 1:02:16

He said no , sam sam , I watched that whole fit . All right , you can um exit that out , but sam , no , they sam again . This is not me . Y'all vote for whoever the fuck you want , I don't care . You ain't got to tell me . It ain't none of our fucking business , that's yours . That motherfucker Sam . His wife came out and was like yay , you answered all the questions Like a child , sam . He looked fucking out there . He's 80 something , ain't he something ? Maybe , sam , he's gone yeah and they won't .

Speaker 5 1:02:54

They will not let this motherfucker . That's right , they could just gave it over to kamala guys , and she's the vice president .

Speaker 2 1:02:59

well , no , because , sam . So this is what I didn't know that anytime a new regime coming in , even if if it's Democratic , they bring a whole , they bring their team in . So that means other people are going to be out of jobs . So , the motherfucker , you got to think about it , sam . He's been running the country for four years Like that . He has not been making all the decisions we know this ?

Speaker 5 1:03:27

No , they never do , though .

Speaker 2 1:03:28

Okay , fair , no , okay . Well , this more than others . There is no shot . Anybody can watch that and go . I feel good about him .

Speaker 5 1:03:40

Yeah , Trump will probably win again .

Speaker 2 1:03:42

Son , this is .

Speaker 5 1:03:44

I thought he didn't do so well either .

Speaker 2 1:03:46

Sam , that's All right , so fair enough . But that's the point . You got this daughtering old man .

Speaker 5 1:03:51

We don't need two old fucking white men in the office anymore . Can we get somebody in their 40s at least ? Shit .

Speaker 2 1:03:56

Yeah , we had that , and he didn't do a good job either . Who Obama ?

Speaker 5 1:04:00

Was he in his ? No , he was no old man we need young .

Speaker 2 1:04:09

But that's just my thing , guys . I just wanted to end with that , just simply because I it that was hard to watch . I felt I feel so bad for that guy . I really really even ain't that bad , bro , I'm sorry . No , I just feel like let that man fucking just retire , rest , let him fucking chill , let him go , let him play with the fucking grandkids play with himself play with the fucking staff .

Speaker 2 1:04:25

Who gives a fuck ? Let that man fucking just retire . Let him fucking chill . Let him go . Let him play with the fucking grandkids , play with himself , play with the fucking staff who gives a fuck ? Let that man just walk around , look at birds , do something , knit Something . All right , something . Save this man Please .

Speaker 5 1:04:42

Save , joe Biden Save .

Speaker 2 1:04:43

Joe Biden , it's white America . Save Joe Biden , save Joe Biden .

Speaker 5 1:04:49

It's white America . Save Joe Biden from his own party , who will not let him fucking go Free . Joe Biden , free . Joe Biden , free . Joe Sorry , joe Free sleepy Joe .

Speaker 2 1:04:56

Let that nigga sleep . Oh , but if you like this , you know what I said . Nah , you do it better than me . I'm not . If you like this episode .

Speaker 5 1:05:05

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Speaker 2 1:05:16

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Speaker 2 1:05:38

I it and I'm . It is for youtube too , but it's so fucking complicated . I ain't gonna lie , I was . I was way too high to try it and attempt it because I was gonna fuck setting up , so but it seemed like a cool thing . Hopefully it'll bring more engagement in , but honestly though , in all seriousness , we miss minority support .

Speaker 5 1:05:57

Y'all , leo , always still be commenting yeah , it's still the Leo hour . Yeah , we still love you , leo . It's we be missing it , you know , but no , but Sam , you know what guy ?

Speaker 2 1:06:05

honestly , we just , I will always appreciate just anybody watching this fucking show and just anybody . Guys , honestly , you know , it is something that I just absolutely , that we just absolutely love to fucking do and I am not gonna stop , even though , guys , you guys didn't know , I was very close to calling this shit quits . It was about to be over a couple months ago . I was about to tell y'all that we're done , I was finished . No , I was no , sam , I was finished okay , it's fair .

Speaker 5 1:06:32

I feel you some days I don't want to do it . Until I do it , until we're here , sitting here like the , the lead up to I'd be so tired , I don't feel like it .

Speaker 2 1:06:39

And then , when we're here , we're doing it , I'm great , I feel good and it's always a good time yeah , all right , but in wrapping up , I'm your host , steven , I'm sam crystal and , as always , peace , y'all peace . Thank you for tuning in to this week's episode of the minority plus one podcast . Rock with us . Make sure you hit that like , hit that subscribe and , as always , make sure you stereotype responsibly .