The Best News About Love

What do you think about love? Do you think its out there somewhere and you have to go get it? Can people take it? What if I said no to all of that? What if I told you that ALL of the love you experience comes from you? Don't believe it? Too good to be true?  Check out this episode and maybe you will think of love in a whole new way! 

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Transcript

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Hi. Welcome to the Soul Streaker Podcast. I'm your host, Jenna. Jake, are you ready to feel all lit up and excited like you just run through a field naked? I am. So drop that baggage and let your soul go streaking. Hi. Welcome to the show today. I am your host, Jenna. Jake. We talk about love, spirituality, and freedom. Well, we're gonna talk about all three today because I have really gotten to it in my body that don't get love from other people. People don't give love and take their love away I experience all of So I get to decide how I feel about anybody at any given moment, no matter what they do. And it's very freeing because the love that we feel is generated from within us. Yes. So when you see a puppy or a baby or something beautiful, a rainbow, whatever it is. You feel a sense of love that came from you, the rainbow or the puppy or the baby or whatever it is that you decided to feel that way about just showed up and you generated the reaction. Just you could generate a reaction that's deleterious or distasteful or negative in some way. So when you know that and you own that power, that means that nobody can abandon you, nobody can reject you, and it doesn't matter what your relationship status is with anybody because you're worrying about the frame and not the picture. And the picture is just the love that you are. Just feeling that regardless of what is going on around you, which is a much more powerful and freeing way to be, and I'm not saying this is easy. this is something when you get that, it's like, oh, your confidence comes from you. Your sense of who you are, comes from you. How much you love yourself comes from you, how much you think you deserve, that you're worthy, that you are more than enough, that you are enough. Whatever the narrative is, it all comes from you. You're controlling it all, and it's really powerful and really exciting when you get this, which is why I wanted to share it today because it's, I want you to free yourself. So what would stop you from thinking this? This is really about the narrative that you're telling yourself, something that you decided probably when you were younger. I remember having a learning difference and having that affect me and thinking that everybody was better than me. Now I see that there's nothing wrong with me. Matter of fact, I think a lot of the things that happened to us in childhood was because people failed us then we have self abandoned. In the seventies, there was no other ways of learning. I'm an auditory learner. There wasn't a lot of auditory learning going on today. It would be completely different. So it was a book, a teacher, and a blackboard. That's all we had. sometimes of humiliation in school. You think, oh, something's wrong with me. I remember in that moment thinking that something's wrong with me and everyone else is normal. That was so detrimental to me because I never let go of it. I kept believing it and believing it, and believing it. It caused so much havoc. And it's such a. Fricking lie. These are lies that we make up about ourselves, either because other people put this onto us, our parents, society, our teachers, whatever it was, it's a lie. Once we can let go of the lie and start seeing who we really are, because it's just a. A change ownership Of who we are because who we and, and we're always searching, searching, and it's who we are. So you can't find it outside of you or anywhere else because it's who you are. So if you're identify as male or female or non-binary, you're not searching for that. It's just who you are. It's the same thing with this. You are love, you are light. It's not outside of you or in anybody else. It just is and it's, it's who you are. So once I could let go of the lies and started seeing, well, I control the way that I feel about everybody, that nobody could take anything away from me because it's all coming from me. It was really freeing.'cause then it led into, oh, this is how I feel about myself. Wow, that's controlled by me. How much confidence I have, what I think I deserve, all controlled by me because the universe doesn't care. It just is. And then it just goes, okay, whatever vibration you wanna feel or vibrate, then guess what? We're gonna mirror that. We're gonna give you what you want because we always say yes. So I deserve the best. I'm gonna claim it. My podcast has got all kinds of downloads. I've got all kinds of. amazing opportunities from this podcast. I am so grateful. Thank you universe, be grateful and bless the life before it is made manifest. So all the opportunities that are going to be made manifest through me, through my power, through my vibration, I am completely grateful for. So thank you universe. Thank you. Thank you. I am so looking forward to all these amazing opportunities that are now coming my way. Woo. I am excited. So what is it that you are excited about? What is it that you are grateful that you will make manifest before you actually see it? Because we are in a vibrational world, and like Bob Proctor says, if you can see it in your mind, you can hold it in your hand. So what are you grateful for? Get a journal, write it out. Say Thank you, universe. Thank you. Then now that I have this, now that I am this, because it's already here, you just have to match the frequency of it. It's everything that was ever created or ever will be created is already manifest in vibration. We just have to match that vibration to bring it home. So think about that. Think about all the lies that you have been telling yourself, all of the things you've been believing about yourself. It's not true. What if the opposite was true? Think about all the reasons you have that the opposite is true. Like I can think of all the ways that I'm smart, right? Like this podcast. Realizing all of this, if I was stupid, I would not know any of this. The universe has my back. The universe wants me to win. The universe wants me to be the best, the biggest, and the best version of myself. So the circumstances that you're in could be a choice, right? Think of it as a choice that you chose them all for your soul to grow, that this is a choice that you made, and we can always make another choice. To a better circumstance, a better life, and that is exciting because nothing is permanent. Everything is temporary, so you can always change the movie. It's all up to you, and you have that much power. You are that powerful because the life that you have now, you have completely manifested it. And you can manifest something else, which I'm excited to do with you on this journey in this podcast. So let me go in with this intention that not only am I going to continue to free myself more, but I'm now freeing you as well. So there's gonna be more, more energy, more free people, more high vibe, more abundance in the universe. That is my intention. And that if you are listening to this, you are meant to. This is your sign, your permission slip to free yourself and I, my intention is to inspire you to do that. So what does freedom look like to you? Where are your constraints? What are the lies that you're telling yourself? What are you thinking about right now that like, wow, if I didn't have that, I would be free. And what would life be like if that wasn't a thing? Who do you need to be for that to be the case? If you knew X, Y, or Z? You would be free. What is that? Write it all out. Write it all down. Take a look at it because it's just words. It's just a lie that you made up, that you keep believing. And chances are you made up that lie when you were like five or six or in elementary school. I mean, if a five or 6-year-old told you anything today, would you take it as gospel and spend the rest of your life thinking that no, you wouldn't. So why are you doing that now? Because it's a program, it's a paradigm. It's an automatic automation that's going off in your system, that's running your life that is, could be ruining your life. So it's time to really put a stop to that, get conscious about it, and then make a conscious choice every day over and over, and keep choosing it and choosing the new programming.'cause that's how we're gonna get rid of the paradigm with repetition, because that's how you got into this paradigm. So listen to somebody that inspires you. Listen to Lead the Field with Earl Nightingale. He's great. Listen to Bob Proctor. I've been listening to Born Rich. It's amazing. Find something to listen to over and over again that will change your paradigm. Listen to this podcast over and over and over again because having a good attitude, a healthy expecting attitude, expecting to win, knowing that you are amazing, you are just like everybody else. The law of gravity applies to you just like it applies to everybody else. We are all the same and we are not less than. are all the same. We are all the universe. We are all the world. So drop that one'cause that's not out serving you. And think about, what else. Think about, what would be, what would that life be like and what is it this lie costing you? Because when I think about me. Well, what is this like costing me? It's costing me a lot, everything. It's cost me my relationships. It's cost me money. It's cost me time, anxiety, frustration, everything. This freaking lie has cost me everything and it's not happening anymore and is not going to run the show. I run the show, my adult self runs the show, and I am not going to stop until I have changed, and that's just going to be the way it is. So please join me in this. Because I would hope to inspire you and I and we can inspire each other. That would be amazing. Leave me a comment. Let me know what you're going through. Be very careful about what you tell yourself, what you think to yourself, because there's the language that you use, which is the language that you speak, and as Peter Cron says, it's the language that uses you. So is the language using you? Is the language making you feel worse? Is it you putting yourself down? Are you spelling yourself ever? Then evidently, abracadabra means as I speak, so shall it be. So whatever you are saying, you're literally spelling yourself. So be very careful about the language that you use. it's much more destructive to say I am something that something could be bad. That's a very destructive pattern. Don't use those patterns. So be very careful about your language and just know that you know what, nobody decides for you. It's all your power, all your choice, and you get to decide how you feel about people. You get to decide. How you feel about yourself, your self-esteem, what you're worth. These are all choices that you are making. And if you are not happy with those choices or you feel less than, it's because you have an old program running that is not serving you anymore. And if the more conscious you become of it, because you can't change what you're not conscious of, the more conscious you are, the more you're going to change it. And I have every faith that you will. So I hope this was a podcast because this is what I'm doing. I'm working on myself, I'm changing my old patterns. I had some very dependent patterns, codependent patterns, and never putting myself, always putting myself on the shelf, self abandoning, and always people pleasing. And these were all survival things that I did when I was a kid because this is how I had to survive in my house when I was younger. I had to people please my way through. And that what I did to survive and that's what I did in school and things like that. And it is not working for me now and people pleasing is and accommodating everybody is just a disaster. It's not good for me, it's not good for the people around me. Boundaries are healthy because it gives you a sense of self and it shows people where their limits are with you and it increases your self-worth. Boundaries are for you, not for the other people. And having a stand, what do you stand for? Like until recently, I didn't stand for, I didn't even know I didn't have a stand. I didn't even stand for anything. But now I wanna be heart led. I wanna put myself first, put myself on the list because I'm important and I matter. And you know what? I'm worthy. I'm enough. I'm more than enough. I get to decide how I feel about people. I get to decide that I love everybody or I don't love everybody, but I'm deciding to love everybody and just letting them be them because I got me. I'm in charge of me. I'm a hundred percent in charge of me and my life, and my choices are a hundred percent mine. And nobody else has to like them. Only I have to approve of myself and of my choices. And if I don't, I can always choose something else. And I, you know what? I'm allowed to take up space and stand in my power. And again, nobody else has to like that. But you have to give yourself permission for this. You're the only one that can give you permission. So this is really a you with you. This is really a you with you thing. So blaming anybody else and this and that, it's not gonna work'cause it's not them, it's you and the way you think about yourself. That is what this is about. So I've hope I've given everybody some food for thought and check out my book The Purpose. I was so excited. Thank you, Corinne. You are the, you're amazing. I hope you enjoyed it. And everybody else hit me up for the book. The Purpose, I only have a limited supply and once they're gone, they're gone. And, also my check out my journal on Amazon. I'll leave the link in the show notes, and if you need coaching, you're ready to move the needle in your life, reach out to me on my website, ww dot jenna jake.com. Look forward to hearing from you. Thanks for being a great audience. I appreciate you so much. Thank you for listening to this episode of the Soul Streaker podcast. If you liked it, press that subscribe button, leave me a rating, and if you leave a comment, I'll mention you in the next episode. Please share this podcast with anybody you think might benefit from it. I'll be so grateful if you did, and don't forget to watch me on lunchtime live. On Instagram at Jenna Jake, and check out my website, www.jennajake.com.