Clarity of Comparison - EP43

What is comparison? Why we compare us with everyone else?

When this comparison started? And now how to avoid comparison? How to reduce it?

This is going to be a 6 episode series for life fulfilment and to escape from our own matrix. This I have taken from Gauranga Das ji which is delivered in Life Plugin summit in Apr’2019, I really loved this whole concept of ESCAPE - 6 alphabet - E S C A P E -
In which he shared 6 important points to manoeuvre this life , which is sometimes, tough, difficult, sometimes, challenging & difficult. This whole concept is Expectations Success Comparison Appreciation Principles & Endurance, I will be sharing these points one by one in this 6 episode series, after expectations & success, let's talk about comparison.

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Transcript

20 years ago, Jeff Bezos was sitting on a desk, he just started Amazon.com, and this pic of him working alone on his computer. And someone wrote a famous quote on that pic. Don't compare your chapter 1 with someone’s chapter 20. Even Amazon was started in a single room on a computer. Here the idea is everyone is at a different level of life game, don't compare yourselves with anyone. 

When we compare ourselves to others, we fall into another trap of life, that is comparison. If you want Life Fulfilment, the first thing which you have to remove from your life is Comparison, stop comparing yourself with others. Instead say “I am enough”, I am Enough”.

There is no need to compare ourselves with others. Everyone is having their own journey, own struggles, own circumstances, and our own reality, hence there should not be any comparison.

In this episode let's decode, what is the comparison, from where it started and what to do about it, how to stop comparing with others, let's jump in.

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This is the 3rd episode in the ESCAPE series, 6 episode series, This I have taken from Gauranga Das ji which was delivered in Life Plugin summit in Apr’2019, I really loved this whole concept of ESCAPE - 6 alphabet - E S C A P E - 

In which he shared 6 important points to manoeuvre this life , which is sometimes tough, difficult, & challenging. This whole concept is Expectations Success Comparison Appreciation Principles & Endurance, 

So after expectations & success, lets decode comparison, Our modern society forces us to believe that we lack something. We lack something as compared to others. Media, ads, school, college, social media, etc, everything wants to say it loud that you are not enough, you lack something, you should have a bigger car, bigger house, pro mobiles with 3-4 cameras, bigger pixels TV, you should take foreign vacation, even sharma’s son can do better than you. 

To take it further, We check how many followers, how many likes others have, and here comes the comparison at every turn of your life,  It started in our childhood, when teacher compared marks of students, than family members compared marks with neighbour child, 

However, no one told us that we are unique in our own ways, we are complete in our own way. No one told us to search for our true potential, instead of comparing ourselves with others, We should be absorbed in our own individual characteristics, our own hidden potential, we should be busy in our own pursuit. 

Our aspirations and desires should not be reflections of others, instead of noticing others achievements, we should be absorbed in our area of strengths. Lack of absorption, creates a tendency to compare. 

Never say I should be like him or her. The circumstances, techniques, solutions, paths or ideas, may have worked for someone. Whereas, it may not work for us. We have to search for our own way to become better. 

So let's move on to how to reduce comparison, I will provide you 3 action points to reduce comparison

First, Find out who are you, what is your purpose, what are your values, what you want to become in 5 years, 10 years, and than make action plan for your purpose and keep on doing it, instead of watching others achievement as instrument of comparison, use those as instrument of inspiration, if he or she can do, I can also do, 

Second, understand what is happiness, find out what is life fulfilment, understand that happiness is an inside job, it doesn't come from outside, it doesn't come from someone else, happiness is a state of mind on how you process your life events. Process the world around you, in which it does affect your happiness state. 

Third, Always be optimistic about future, work on making yourself better each day, work on making this society better everyday, work on saving this planet every year, and work with optimism that tomorrow is going to be amazing, and make tomorrow better, 

This is my abbreviation WHO - W H O - W is WHO, H is Happiness and O is optimism

Understand who are you

Understand what is happiness

Practice Optimism

By understanding this WHO, you can avoid comparison, always keep in your mind, you are unique, you are enough, you are unstoppable, and always have clarity of WHO are you. 

This is clarity of comparison, and what to do about it. Please Feel free to reach out to me if you are having any doubt or want any clarity on life, career, relationship, fulfilment And comparison.