Who Owns A Grown Woman’s Happiness

We walk through the details you need to weigh this with a clear head. Mom is 49, divorced after repeated infidelity, raising four kids into adulthood, and now building an online business that funds a Bora Bora trip. No partners on camera, no chaos at home, just a woman steering her own life. We dig into the ethics of autonomy, the realities of online safety, and the generational double standard that says young people can explore while parents must age quietly. Along the way, we unpack the dad dynamic—guilt, nostalgia, and what it means when an ex is your top fan—and why bringing siblings or grandkids into the drama almost never helps.

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Transcript

Live Setup And Warm-Up

SPEAKER_01 2:47

Is the name of the children?

Show Intro And Host’s Week

Introducing Maria’s Letter

The Family Backstory And Divorce

The OnlyFans Discovery

Dad’s Reaction And Confession

Is Mom Wrong Or Just Grown

Safety, Stigma, And Boundaries

Double Standards And Generational Views

What To Say To Mom

Could The Parents Reconcile

Support Without Shame

Host’s Reflections And Humor

Closing Advice To Maria

SPEAKER_00 3:40

Oh, we're gonna get started in a minute, y'all. Let y'all groove with this for a little bit. Just getting my shit together. Oh, what a day. All right. How's everybody doing out there? Y'all good? I know I am. Hopefully y'all had a good week. Your week is going well. Oh boy, I tell ya. It's all good, isn't it? Wanna thank my peeps for Buzzcast on Buzzcast here joining me. We're currently live streaming on Facebook. See how this is gonna go. Still trying to cross-platform this shit, but so much shit you gotta do. But in any event, I am the icon. Welcome to the show. The show is called Let's Talk About It. Oh well. It's been a good week for me. Short week, but good week. No, I didn't get fired. You know, it's a holiday week. Pretty sure y'all are aware of. But it's all good. So in any event, hopefully everybody's doing good out there. We got another letter coming in from Miss Maria. She is from uh from New Mexico. She's a little concerned about her mom doing some uh some uh some extra activities on the side, if you know what I mean. I don't know how I feel about it, but you know, we're gonna get into this letter. And uh Yeah, let's uh I tell you the letter these people write me is just so freaking comical that it's not really hard to believe that these people are actually going through some stuff and that they're emailing me, but I just try to get the best sarcastic advice I could give. And like I said, sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. But you know, if it works for you, works for me. So um Maria is concerned about her mom because her mom is uh doing some things that she doesn't think is appropriate, and we're gonna get into this letter and we're going to try to figure out uh how I can help Miss Maria or if I can help her at all. Because let's be real clear about something. If you're grown and your parents are grown, you're grown, then I think that your parents have done they've done for you, and it's time to live their life. I could be right and I could be wrong, but most times I mean you're right because you want your parents to live your life, live their life, not your life, and you go on living your life. So, without further ado, let's uh let's get off into this letter. I got my tea, I got my vape, let's do it. Oh, that red diamond tea is some good ass tea. Any event, without further ado, here we go. Alright. Hello icon. Hey Miss Ree, how you doing? Good. My name is Ree. I'm from New Mexico and I'm 24 years old. I honestly don't know where to begin. I'm either embarrassed or ashamed. I sent you a picture my mom, and though I have to ask you that you don't share this pic of her, because yes, this is currently what she looks like. By the way, the pic that I have of Miss Maria's mom. Wow, holy crap, jeez. You know, back in my day, as you got older, or maybe around your 40s or your early 50s, you start to age really quickly. I don't know what that's due to, but I know the things that shit has changed since uh since I've grown up, and I have to say, Miss Maria's mom is pretty damn hot. But anyway, so I will start by saying that my mom is an amazing woman that has always been there for me and my siblings. There are four of us. But she has always maintained a suitable household throughout my life with my father, which is a white man, was married to my mom, and I wanted to stay for about 20 plus years. Not sure any defendant race out there, but it's cool, whatever. They married straight out of high school. I was so happy throughout our childhood, and so I thought. But they recently got a divorce over two years ago, though I still think it's kind of fresh to me. To me, well, my dad moved on, or so I thought. My mom is 49 years old, and my dad is 53. And one day it was discovered that my dad had cheated on my mom, but she forgave him. Now, keep in mind, Miss Maria is 49 years old. The picture that they gave me that she sent me, wow, she is stunning to be 49 years old. But the problem is that my dad didn't stop because he thought that he could continue to cheat and he would be forgiven. But damn was he wrong. So the third time was unforgivable, because he not only cheated on my mom, but he followed a child with the same woman he had been cheating on my mom with at the first time. That child is now three years old, and though he did this, I forgave him and moved on. But my mom also did. And they have a respectful relationship, not like as tacky as drama as you see on social media sites. But that's not the reason for this email. I discovered something no kids should discover about their parents. And icon, keep in mind the pics I sent you to my mom. My mom has an OnlyFans account. Oh my god, Icon. It was a bit disturbed because though she has been dating, she hasn't she hasn't been dating anyone, she would always tell me that she was at work and when I called her. But in the past she's told me she works from home doing customer service. She's doing customer service, alright. Let's be clear about one thing. So I discovered this page. Well, not me, but a family doctor would always ask me about my mom and if she's doing okay. But I never he never really hinted at the fact that he subscribed to her OnlyFans account. He'd always be so coy about asking if she's seen anyone or that she's she that she's definitely a beautiful woman. But the fact that she has this account is so shameful, so I decided to do a little more research and log on to OnlyFans. And sure enough, there she was, but the name But her name her name is different, and it's a beautiful picture of her like wow, she looks like she is heavy to do this. And though there are more risque stuff is a bit more pricey, uh no, hold on. And though there the more risque stuff is a bit more pricey, I didn't know whether I should be mad or be happy. So I wanted to know more about more about it, but didn't want to let my mom know that I knew. So I waited for her to leave and I'm sorry and I went to do some investigating. But I knew my dad was paying alimony, but damn I come, my mom has already been living like a queen, but she's not into the finer things in life. She just has a great life. I mean that's good. So I looked into her income on her on her profile pick and oh my god, she has done quite well since she started OnlyFans account. And I'm talking about really well. So well that she's planning a vacation to Bora Bora. Okay, first let me tell you something. If you have an OnlyFans and you're planning a trip to Bora Bora, Jesus, you are doing way better than what I thought. Or way better than me. But she's planning a vacation for Bora Bora for me and my siblings, and I felt so bad and I didn't understand why she was doing this. So I reached out to my dad, and his response was shocking. And I was like, what the hell? So when I talked to him, he said he knew about the OnlyFans account, but he's been secretly subscribing to her content, and I was like, Really? Really dad? What the hell? Well what are you doing? He said he felt guilty on cheating on her, but man, your mom was the best thing in including everything extra, including everything extra marital things in our bedroom. I was like, oh my god, TMI dad. Why the hell are you telling me this? He was like, you asked, and then he was like, you asked, and then he asked me if I was mad, and I said a little. He asked why you kids are grown, that your mom's a grown woman, and that I screwed up, but not by not paying much more attention to her because I cheated on her. So he said if I wanted to talk to my mother, I should and that I should keep an open mind because she's not harming anyone and that she makes and that this makes her happy. I also asked him, does she know how much she was making in a month? And he said it's none of his business. Icon. It's like I'm a bad person and need to know from a stranger's perspective, what would you do? Because I'm clearly still confused. I know that she's my mom, but how could she do that to me? I mean she's a comp she's an accomplished she's an accomplished woman. She has grandkids, and I honestly don't understand how she could subject herself to this foreign site. So icon, please share with me your advice with me, and I will try to understand whose side you're on. Sign Maria from New Mexico. Well let's start with this, Miss Maria. I think you're wrong. Um, just like your father said. Your mom's a grown woman. She's 49 years old, and she is a stunning 49-year-old woman. Oh my god, she is so beautiful. I wish I could show you the picture, but against her wishes, she didn't even leave me the screen name on the OnlyFans account. Not that I have an OnlyFans account because I don't. Well, I kind of do, but I don't really pay attention to it, because But I think that the first thing you said is that you said the doctor, which I was kinda a little bit baffled about because you said the doctor said he had an OnlyFans account. Well, how would you know that? Because you maybe left that part out. But your mom is a grown 49-year-old woman. You are a 24-year-old woman. It's not a bad thing. It's not like she's doing hardcore porn, she's not with somebody, she's doing this for herself. And if you're saying that she's the risk case stuff is a little bit more pricey, well, I want to know what the hell she's doing. I mean, just for my own absolution, I just want to check it out, you know, get a feel for it. I don't know. I just want to see the page. I I think I deserve to know, as somebody who's giving you advice, what you should do. But I'm gonna tell you. I'm gonna tell you. So I don't think I don't know why you're so hurt behind this. Um, your mom has raised her kids. There are people in this world that have kids and are doing this side, and I'm talking about like younger kids, like fresh out the womb, or you know, maybe five or six, or maybe even ten. So that I would kind of understand. The fact that you have mentioned that she has grandkids. I mean, what are you looking at this with the grandkids? Because clearly, they don't know unless you tell them. Now, if your mom is doing something that clearly makes her happy, let her be. Let her be happy. She's not hurting anyone, she's not getting any um stalking calls or stalking people stalking her. This is what makes her happy. I mean, clearly your dad realized that he screwed up a good thing and he went and found another woman and had a kid, but he has since subscribed to the content. I wonder if his wife knows that. I mean, sometimes people don't realize a good thing until it's gone. So, what can you do, right? But it's not all bad as what you're making it out to be, Miss Maria. I think your mom is a very beautiful woman. And I'm just trying to figure out why you're so bothered by this, because you're a grown woman. It wouldn't be no different if you started an OnlyFans account and your mom found out about that. I mean, how would she react to you? I mean, the problem with you young people today. You young people today, when y'all do shit, y'all think that's it's justified. But when somebody older does it, y'all think it's not justified because why they're older. Well, I gotta say, your mother doesn't look a day over 49. She looks like she's still in her damn 20s. And I gotta say, though, um, I think you said they're Mexican. Oh, he's married to a well, I'm gonna say I'm gonna assume that you're Mexican. Because X Mexicans and most people I know, most races I know, black people, don't really age uh in time. They age like when they're damn near 90 or 80 or something. I don't know what it is they're putting in the water these days, but they age beautifully. So you can't really be mad at your mother for going out there and exploring her sexuality, for going out there and exploring what's out there on the internet. I'd be more concerned if she was going to bingo halls and going to bed at 3 o'clock in the afternoon. Let your mom live, let her have a good life. It seems like she's having a good life. I mean, if she's not dating, well, you didn't say she was no, she's not dating. So if this makes her happy, I don't think she's really doing this to seek a date. I just think she's doing it because this is what probably makes her happy. And if your father, your dad said that she was an amazing woman in bed, or with the extramarital affair uh activities, now I'm trying to figure out why the hell he left her. Because clearly, clearly, you should be back with this woman. I mean, she's 49, he's 53. I mean, I don't know what he looks like, said he's a white guy, I don't know. But it's not the fact of taking sides, it's the fact of who's happier. And I think that your mom is way more happier than um than just being some old grandma that's just cooped up and driving around in a Buick or she has a shawl on or she's old people today are just living their life, they want to live their life, and if she's making that kind of money on OnlyFans that she can afford a trip to Bora Bora, which I understand that you know your father's fair alimony, but and if she's doing customer service work, hey, she's doing customer service work. So the only difference is they don't know where she's at. I'm pretty sure your mom is a very smart woman. I don't really see the issue with this letter. I just think you see an issue with your mom doing something that you think she has. But come on, she's a grown woman. I think here's the thing. As we get older and our parents take care of us when we're younger, we feel a kind of sense of responsibility to take care of them as they get older. But the sense of responsibility is that she's doing um how can I put this? She's doing something that's that's making her happy. She's not doing anything that's bad. And I know you care for your mother, but I don't think your mom's life is even in jeopardy. Because clearly, if you seen her stats or whatever how much money she's making, these are men that are from all over the world. It's just not in your home state, it could be men from across the globe. Now, I know that your mom is a very smart woman because she probably has a VPN set up on her uh on her system, so it can't be traced. For those of y'all don't know what a VPN is, a virtual private network that hides your router information so people can't find you or get to you. So I'm not sure what your mom did or what your father did, but clearly she's been doing this for a while since she's been divorced. And I don't know, she may have took divorce hard and she may have felt some kind of way to say that. Did he not think I was too beautiful enough? Did he not think I was just why did he leave? So I don't know if this is a ploy to try to get your father back. Clearly, I don't know, but obviously it's working. Um I feel like I'm missing a page or something. Because I don't know, give me just a second. I think I'm missing a page. I don't know. In any event, I think that as we get older, we want to see our parents be happy. We want to see our parents live a good life. And if she's raised you and the other three of your siblings, I think she's doing a damn good job. And I think she's doing a damn good job that she's keeping it away from you guys because this is why she didn't probably want you to probably want you to know because you're gonna throw, you're gonna flip a lid, you're gonna crash out. And for what? She's a grown-ass woman. She you didn't say if she lives with anybody, so I'm assuming all her kids are grown and they're out of the house as well as you are. So let your mom live, let her have a good life, let her be who she wants to be. And if she's not hurting anybody, or if no harm is coming to her, hey, who are you to sit back and say, well, I don't think it's right. You may not feel that it's right, but it's an OnlyFans account. Only Fans is filled with so much. It's not really like a well, I don't know what kind of site it is. It's just an adult site that adults tend to go on and fantasize about what they can who they can be with or what they can do. Yes, you said she has a subscription, she has two subscriptions, so I'm assuming that the second subscription is a little bit more risque involving what she does on OnlyFans. I don't know, I'm not speculating, I can't guess, I don't know, you know, but you gotta let your mom live. You know, it would be no different if you found out one of your siblings was doing it, or if you were doing it again. Why is it that when younger people can do it and the parents be okay with it, but when older people do it, your parents are doing it, it's a problem. It's not a problem. Let it go. Let this woman live. God, this woman is beautiful. I wish I could show y'all the picture, but against yeah, I know I don't do that, but I wish I could show y'all that this woman is oh man, she don't even look like she's 49. Do you hear me? She's like she's still in her damn 20s. Jesus. I'm thinking about trying to get back. I mean, not looking, you got me stomping on my words. But it's okay to have concerns about your mother. It's okay for you to be a little bit worried about her. But I don't think there's nothing to worry about. I think she's doing what she wants to do. I think she's living a happy life. And again, if she's planning a trip to Borabora, I don't even know where the hell Borabora's at. I mean, I hear about it on TV or in the movies, but I don't even know where the hell that's at. It sounds like a really god, it sounds like a really good trip. Huh. Can't should look that up. Anyways, I'm getting sidetracked to here. So I want to know, Miss Maria, what are you really mad about? Are you mad at the fact that you found out that she was doing this, or are you mad at the fact that she's making so much money? Because it doesn't sound like any of you guys in the family are struggling because it sounds like she had a good life, and it doesn't sound like she really needed the money, but she's doing this for fun. She's not hurting anybody, she's not doing porn, she's not screwing some guy on screen, she's just doing it because it's fun. And though your family doctor, which apparently now knows about her, which I'm sure she doesn't even go to anymore, because he's asking you about your mother. But even with that in mind, I don't think there's anything gonna come of it because I don't know how the site works, I just know that you subscribe to content and they do a bunch of risque stuff. I mean, I'm not a frequent flyer on OnlyFans, so I don't know anything about it. If you guys know a lot about it, then that's your guys. But I mean I've used sites, but I haven't used a site like that. Yes, I'm not completely blameless in this, so I'm a male, so I do look at sites like that, and I only look at it because I'm bored, you know. You want to be entertained and you want to look and you want to feel a certain type of way. Well, damn it, I deserve to feel a certain type of way. No, I'm just joking. But I mean, let's be really honest here. If my listeners, if you found out that your parents or your mom was doing in OnlyFans, would you be mad or would you just say, hey, she's grown, she's out the house, she's not hurting anybody. I mean, let that sink in for a minute. I mean, I can't really say what I would do if I found out my mom was doing OnlyFans. I mean, I wouldn't want to go look it up, I can tell you that much. I mean, I would just probably be like, oh, okay, you know, mom, be careful, you know, it's kind of a doggy dog world out there, you know, people are kind of crazy. But if she's happy with doing it, let her do it. I mean, who am I to judge? Because let's be honest, though our parents have done things that they probably haven't told us in back in the day, well, we probably did those say that same shit, but the only difference is our generation kind of now tells our parents what we do. I mean, I know my kids tell me their sexual experience, I ain't sure why, but because I don't really want to know about it, but it's what it is. But I'm excuse me. I'm more I guess wondering about your dad because your dad, he's a subscriber on her OnlyFans account, and I gotta be honest with you. I don't even know if his his current his wife know well, I don't think they're even married. Are they married? Did I say that they were married? Well, I don't think they're married, I just think they're um oh, I think they're just dating. So there's definitely room for a possibility for a re-up. I'm just saying, you know, they can get back together, you know, because like I said, sometimes we don't realize a good thing until it's gone. And if he didn't pay, I think the bet for the better part of maybe 17 years of marriage was good for them. But I think at the ending, um, when they got a divorce, I think he kind of realized what he was kind of missing. Because let's face it, when you get with somebody new, you don't know what that is going to be like, you don't know what that's gonna entail. But if somebody, if you want somebody to do something that your previous mate did to you and they don't do it the right way, well you're like, uh, and then you're in the bed, you think like, well, hold on, she didn't do it like this. Wait, she, who, who you talking about she? But that's what it is, it's what it is. So, I mean, I don't know. I mean, how can I do say this? Because I'm probably gonna put my foot in my mouth. When I was excuse me, when I was married before, and I stepped out on my wife. I stepped out on my wife. I kind of felt uh I felt different because the girls that I uh stuff around with on my first wife, she they didn't do what she did. And I guess it's kind of how we kept going back to each other because we separated and then we would like secretly sneak off and have sex with each other even though we're still married. Make that make sense. How's that you get separated from your wife, but you want to go back to your wife, but you want to sneak around, but you're cheating on her with the side piece? Make that make sense, right? But it's what it is though. I mean, when I did that, then part of me felt actually more of me felt like a little bit guilty. I felt a little bit down because though I wanted something different, I'd always end up back, me and my wife would always end up back together. Now, I don't know if this is gonna be the way for your father and your mother. Something tells me that it's going to probably happen, but there's a kid in play now. Um, and though that you said that she's planning a trip for um her kids, and everybody is like, yeah. So, what can you do? You know, what can you say? I mean, it's gonna be a tough sell. It's gonna be a tough sell on you because your parents got divorced and you just found out that your dad is a subscriber to your mom's only fans account. So is he technically cheating on his girl? I don't know. I don't know how you define cheating because if you're with somebody and you need to look at these sites for some kind of uh vindication or absolution, then I don't know if you'd actually call it cheating. Who knows? Is it called cheating? I don't know, huh? Let's sink in for a minute. But I know that your dad still loves your mom. I know that for a fact, and I know that you don't want to cause a rift between the family by just breeding this out or this trip that your mom is gonna set up for you guys going to Bora Bora. You don't want to bring that out. If I was you, I would sit down, talk to your mother, let her know that you know about the account, kind of talk about it, see where this goes, and don't get mad at her because really you don't have a reason to get mad at her, you don't. You should just be supportive because I'm sure as you kids were growing up, she was very supportive of you guys. So you said that she was a woman that maintained a household. I mean, she did everything that she possibly could do for her children. You know, if this is her way of being happy, let her live. Let this woman live, let her cook, let her do whatever she wants is gonna keep her happy. Because you can't, you shouldn't be able, it would be selfish of you to say, well, mom, you shouldn't be doing this because of your age. I don't really see a problem with age. You know, as I said before, older people in this generation now, they're not driving the traditional Buicks, they're not driving the traditional um old people car, they're driving like sports cars, they're driving like I mean convertibles or Porsches or whatever. I mean, so this is her way of living, this is her way of being happy. And I honestly don't know. I I don't I don't I don't know. But I think you should just go in there with uh with your mind with an open mind, and I think you should just sit there and talk to her. But you can't be too upset about this because it's not hurting anybody that you know. I mean, it's not hurting the grandkids, it's not hurting his damn sure, not hurting your father. I mean, god it's not hurting him. And again, I don't understand why you would feel so hurt behind this because she's a grown woman, so let her do what she has to do and just keep it moving, keep it pushing. So it'd be different if uh let's say that she was on the other foot and your mom found out that you were doing this. What do you think your mom would say? But you're 24 years old now. What do you think she's gonna say? You think she's gonna be mad at you or she's gonna support you? She might give you the do's and the don'ts of it, but clearly I think your mom sounds like she's really in tune with the world of the internet because clearly she's got a whole setup and a whole probably damn good looking setup. Man, this woman in this picture, y'all. I can't show you, but oh my gosh. As I keep looking at this picture, I'm like, whoa, holy crap! Oh my goodness. You didn't say if you brought it to your siblings' attention, and I don't really think you should do that. I really think you should just let this go and you you and your mom have a one-on-one talk about it. Don't be mad about, don't be mad at her. And whatever she has to say, keep an open mind. Because this is what's gonna make her happy. Now, I'm not saying she's gonna do this forever. I mean, I don't know how long she's gonna do it, but you gotta let your mom live. You gotta let her mom do her. She's raised her kids, she's raised her family, she's taking care of a damn good household. Who are you to stand in the way of her being happy? And if you try to take that happiness away from her, that's just gonna crush her even more. And what I mean by crushing her, let's say that you don't approve of this, and you tell that you don't approve of it. Well, who are you to sit there and judge her and say what you're doing don't approve of? Because I'm sure when you were growing up, there were a lot of things that that she didn't approve of you doing. Now, you sound like a reasonable young woman, you really do. You sound like a woman that's got it all together, you're just a little bit too overprotective, and you didn't say if you had a troubled past growing up in the home that your parents got divorced two years ago. So if your parents got divorced two years ago, so I'm assuming you were either 21 or 22, by that time you guys were all kids. You didn't say if who's the older sibling or who's the younger sibling, but I'm sure that she has lived and done a very good life. So don't let your emotions cloud your judgment and say something that you're gonna regret. Because keep in mind, if your mom has given y'all a good household along with your father, she they did a lot to keep you guys happy for the four of y'all, and doesn't sound like anybody's in trouble, doesn't sound like anybody's doing anything bad. It just sounds like your mom wants to be happy. I mean, she's got this house and she's living this house by herself. I mean, who the hell wants to go out and play bingo all damn weekend? I don't. But Miss Maria, be real serious about this, be real understanding about this because there's a lot of things you can't come back from. And I think that if your dad is telling you that he wants to stay out of her business, I mean, truth be told, you're right. This is maybe one of the well, I think you're right about one thing. I think that their divorce was like respectfully, and it's not like all over social media, not like you see the people on social media going crazy, but I think that's the way they want their life. You know, I think that they're respectful of each other. I think he's respecting of her and she's respectful of him, even though she forgave him like three times or two times, third time. So she forgave him two times, and he kept cheating with her with the same damn woman. So, and I'm pretty sure, hold on, let me look at something. So the fact that your father followed a kid at um 53 is just holy crap, amazing. Okay, so you felt guilty for cheating on her. But man, your mom was the very best in everything, including the extramarital things in our bedroom. I mean, at some point, he's got to be kicking himself in the ass and being like, what the hell did I do? I mean, he's obviously kicking himself in the ass if he's subscribed to her OnlyFans account. He's probably a loyal customer, a very loyal customer. Because you don't really say if they talk or if they chat, but if you say they're very respectful of each other, then one has to believe where as soon as they do talk. And again, I don't know if this is a way for her to get him back because it doesn't sound like that's something that she's trying to do. It just sounds like something that she wants to do and that she's having a good time doing it. Now, if she's 49 years old, I don't know if she's retired or what job or what work you said she did. But clearly this OnlyFans account is making her some serious bankroll. I mean she's making her so much bankroll. I'm trying to figure out how I can start an OnlyFans account. But men don't really have a lot to do on OnlyFans besides sit there and play on the bed and look stupid and I mean women have the most women have it all. Women have the looks, they have the body, they have the gift of doing any and everything. Men, we shoot our load, and that's it. We're ready to go to bed and we gonna get it. We're ready to go to bed. I mean, God, why? Why can't we be more like women, you know? But women can do so much on these sites that men can't do. I mean, men can just lay there, maybe look a little bit sexy and say, oh yeah, this is me, yeah. And you know, maybe we'll get a few hundred dollars, maybe we do, maybe we don't. But it's crazy that women can make so much more money than men on basically any and everything that they can possibly think of. Now I'm just not just not talking about the OnlyFans site, but they can do a lot more than what men can't do. See, men are limited. You know, we're limited in so much of everything, but women have the gift of everything, they have the gift of taking care of kids, having kids. And I know you guys are probably saying, well, that's not fair. Well, you're right, it's probably not fair, but women put up with a lot more shit than men do, so that's why I feel that they should be paid a higher wage than anybody. Because they do a lot more shit than what men do. I'm just saying, they do. But think about this. If you found out your dad was doing an OnlyFans account, how would that make you feel? Because I gotta tell you, I I don't even know if I can stomach doing an OnlyFans account because I get one. One hit and I'm out. Y'all gonna see me sleeping for the rest of the night. It's gonna be over. They like, man, we we logged on, and only and then just 10 seconds later, he's already out. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, that's me, that's me. That's it. That's it. I'm done. I'm rap that's a rap. But women, y'all can go on for like forever and for all, and like, oh my god, how is this even possible? I mean, geez Louise. I mean, like I said, that's the beauty of women, because women can pleasure men in so many ways that they don't even think they knew what they have. Well, your mom damn sure knows, and your dad damn sure knows, but your dad is the one that's screwed up because he left this, left this beautiful, oh my god, this beautiful senorita. Oh, for somebody who I'm sure he is not gonna be well, I'm not gonna say that because I'm gonna not gonna wish anything bad on the relationship. Maybe he is happy, maybe he's not. I don't know. But if you're watching your uh if you're watching your ex on OnlyFans, um maybe you're not too happy with the current situation that you're in right now. But it didn't say if you guys got married, it just says that it's a girl that he followed a kid with. So I wonder how that's going for him. I really hope, Miss Maria, that you just keep an open mind because man, your mom is just beautiful. Don't take that away from her. Don't say anything that's just gonna get you guys into an argument and she's gonna end up canceling that trip to Borough Bora for you. I mean, I'm pretty sure the other kids are gonna go. You're gonna be sitting at the house watching either YouTube live or TikTok live where they over there flying on the plane to Borough Bora. You know, I gotta see where that's at. Oh, I don't even know where that's at. But whatever. In any event, I think that just godly. I'm just going back to this OnlyFans thing because I don't know. It's it's it's crazy because you don't only hear that, you know, just moms that are doing it, but you hear that it that teachers are doing it and stuff like that. But you know, I would expect that because the way of the world is just different now. You know, back then we didn't have this shit. We had Polaroids and a VHS camera. That's how we made form. Well, that's how they made porn. I didn't make porn. But we had pictures and VHS camera, and then and then you have to be lucky to get the tracking just right because if you didn't get the tracking right, then you're like, oh, you're watching Fuzz, and you're like, what the hell is this? Then they had the hair and the big bangs and things, but I'm just saying, I'm just saying it's it's it's it's it's weird, it's it's different, but oh, but let me be for real for a minute. Alright, so I think that I don't know, I'm not gonna say you're jealous. I'm just gonna say you're more concerned because it's your mother and you don't want nothing to happen to her. That's fine, that's good. Talk to her, be respectful, tell her that you're just concerned for her safety, but she's probably gonna reassure you that there's no need to be concerned because she's probably gonna take through everything that she's completely done to the system to make sure that she's safe. And the crazy thing is you don't really say if there's anybody that's like actually like really known her except for the family doctor, which I'm sure, like I said before, she does not even visit anymore. So I think that your mom is a very good woman. I think she's a strong woman. I think that she's done her time with her kids, I think she's done her time with her husband, even though I'm sure the ex-husband's probably gonna want her back after this. But I'm just saying, I think you should let her live, let her continue to do her life because she's taking care of her, she's taking care of her grandkids. I mean, she's paying for a whole damn trip for y'all to Bora Bora. I wish I knew what that was like. I clearly I don't. So, and if you've seen the money that she's making, clearly she's not suffering for anything. Maybe she's just setting it up a nest aid, you know. Maybe she's wanting to make sure all her grandkids and all her kids are taken care of, you know, and maybe she's just doing this because, like you said, she doesn't really need to because your dad pays her alimony. So, clearly it ain't about the money. So, I think this is a way for her to be happy and that she wants to be happy. And if she wants to be happy, who are you to stand in her way of happiness? Let this woman be happy, and I'm gonna keep saying again, let her be let her be happy, let her cook, let her do whatever she wants to do. Because you should not become trying to become between her and her happiness. If you're that so concerned about it, you shouldn't be. And I'm pretty sure that your dad still has some kind of feelings toward her, like feelings of love that he's probably overprotect with as well, but he's not gonna say anything to her because, like he said before, it's none of his business, it's his life. He's moved on, she's moved on. Do I think there's a chance of rekindling? Oh, yeah, yeah, there's definitely gonna be a re-up on this. Yeah, yeah, well, huh. But in any event, that's what it is, Miss Maria. I mean, you can't be mad at her. So, if don't nobody know but you, then if she's got grandkids, well, her grandkids don't even need to know. Why do they need to know something like that? I mean, clearly, I think your mom's being much more careful because these are adults that are on these sites, they're not kids or they're not, well, they could be younger adults, but they're not neither they're not kids or teenagers on the site. So I'm pretty sure your mom has a restriction or a filter or some kind of block on this thing that's saying that you know, subscribe to my content, you gotta be this, that, and the other. I don't know enough about OnlyFans accounts. I just know that it's a site that you can go to, you can see pretty much any and everything. You pay a month's subscription, they give you content and all this other stuff. I'm not an OnlyFans subscriber, I'm much more of a strip chat, chatterbang. I'm kidding, I'm kidding, I'm kidding. Okay, I'm not kidding. No, I'm just kidding, I'm kidding. I don't subscribe to those sites, but like I said, I do love I do watch them. I mean, listen, I'm a male, so I like to be curious and just try to figure out because sometimes TV just ain't working for me, you know. Sometimes I like to sit and just watch and just I mean, I'm an adult, shooting. I got kids. I mean, I'm not sure what the kids gotta do with the site, but it's whatever. You know what I'm trying to say, damn it. Don't even confuse. So I think that you should just be happy for your mother. I think that she is just living her best life, and I couldn't be more happy for her because that's what some of these older parents need to do these days. Because let's be honest, if your mom is 49 years old, she could be sitting in a rocking chair either knitting or getting ready to go to bed at 3 o'clock in the afternoon. I mean, these older folks these days, they ain't trying to stay at home and watch nobody's damn kids. They want to see their grandkids, but they want their grandkids to come over and then they get the hell out because they have things to do after dark. Like they say, the freaks come out at night. I'm pretty sure this is when she's doing all this. But it's all good, Miss Maria. Just don't take everything I say to don't take it in a bad way, take it in a positive way. Because it's a positive thing, you know. Be happy for what your mom is doing, you know. I mean, I'm not sure. Well, you didn't say they go to church and it's like, you know, the pastor throwing, you know, dollar bills that are like, hey, Miss, uh, I need to talk to you after service for a minute. But I'm pretty sure she's being careful in every kind of possible way not to let you guys know that this happened. Now, what you probably shouldn't have done was probably snoop around because she's probably gonna get on you about that, as well as most parents should. Because I'm pretty sure once you talk to her and you find out and you tell that she's been making this kind of money and that her income is not only not double, probably tripled in a month's time. God, I don't want to know how much she's making, really. Jeez, I'm definitely in the wrong business. Again, but you probably shouldn't have been snooping. I would have just probably asked her instead of just snooping or going through her things, but uh you did it. You did it, so whatever. I don't know. It's what it is. Oh my gosh. But I think you're gonna be okay. I don't think this is a thing you need to drag out. I don't think this is a thing you need to kind of just like keep letting go on and on. I don't think everybody in the family needs to know. Just keep this between you and your mom. And if your mom decides to tell everybody in the family, then hey, that's her business, not yours. See you stumbled on this, which I'm still kind of baffled that you said the doctor, um, the family doctor said this, but there's gotta be another way because uh there's something in this letter that's missing, but I'm not gonna go back and revisit that because I've already said what I had to say. So how you stumbled upon this again, maybe you left that part out, but I don't think it was just the doctor. So maybe there's something you're telling me, maybe there's something that is something that you aren't that you're not telling me, but it is what it is. So, in any event, all I know is that when you bring this to her attention, keep an open mind because she's the parent, you're the child, she's lived her life. You didn't say if you have kids, or I'm pretty sure it's the other siblings because you didn't mention that. But I think what you should continue to do is continue to support your mom in any way that you possibly can. She's not doing nothing wrong, she's not having random guys come over to service her or giving out good quality quality grade A customer service. So don't crash out and don't kind of take everything that you see and kind of drag this thing out for years on end. Because I think what she's doing is just living her life, her best damn life. I mean, one can only dream or imagine how back in my day that these parents, that these parents, as you got older, I think when you turned 45, then that's when life started changing for you. You started becoming your parents and you started growing up and you know, cutting the grass, or you would eat dinner at 3 30 and you're in the bed by 4. I mean, what the hell? Make that make sense. But I think this is gonna pass. I'm more curious about what your father and how he's gonna do this because I'm pretty sure that he either talks to your mom on a regular basis or maybe not as much as that I'm thinking about. But if he's seeing this, then he's definitely, definitely regretting what he's done. I mean, real talk. I'm pretty sure he is. But I mean, if that was me, I would. But I mean he made a mistake and he owned up to it. So in any event, uh, as we get ready to close the show out. Oh my gosh, Mr. Rhea, that was a good letter. Um I still have a co-host coming. Um, hopefully we'll get her here in the next coming weeks. Um, she goes by the name Queen. Um, she does a lot of giveaways. Um I'm also starting to do giveaways. Um excuse me. But I'm gearing it more towards the um my Filipino people. Because I want to see how many chime in and listen to the show. Because as I was watching, looking at my demographics on bus route, I have a nice little following in the Philippines. So, and I know I'm gonna you guys are gonna see some things on my site that's in their language, but don't feel bad. I'm not gonna leave everybody out. There's gonna be enough to go around. I just want to see how this is gonna go. So we're going to do that, and then also on the next coming on the coming show that's coming up, so remember this. Remember, okay, so I reposted not reposted, there's a second episode of Family Drama about the young lady that was dating her mom's ex. Well, there's another letter, and oh my gosh, I feel like this is becoming a regular thing with us, but oh hey, who am I to say? I mean, she just she's gonna keep writing and want to keep talking about it. So we're going to get off into that probably in the next episode. So as I get ready to close this thing out, I want to say thank you to my listeners, thank you to my followers. Uh, you guys are the best. Thank you for the feedback. Um, majority of the feedback is good, some not so good, but you know, you're gonna have haters along the way. So, like I said, I do this for fun, I don't do this for money, I don't do this for clout, but I do this because people feel that they can talk to me and I'm a stranger. A stranger. So, it's all good. So, I'm gonna continue to do what I do because I like doing it. But, Miss Maria, as we get ready to close this thing out, I just want to say keep an open mind, be respectful of your mother, because keep in mind what she has sacrificed for you and her family as you kids were coming up. And if this woman is a stable woman like you say she was, she deserves to be happy. Don't take this away from her, and don't make this all about you because it's not about you. I mean, truth be told, you would have never known. So, I think your mom is a very beautiful woman. I think she is just wow, really beautiful. And I think this is her way of just being happy. And whatever comes of it, as long as no harm is coming to her, I think you should just let it be. Let it be. So, as we get ready to close it out, I want to say thank y'all. D6Empire357 at gmail.com. You can follow me on all my socials, um, Facebook, Instagram, TikTok. Um, these shows go live every Wednesday. Um, unfortunately, for those of you who's listening on me on Facebook and Buzzcast, you're getting it right here, right now. But the shows are available. My downloads are going through the roof. I appreciate that. Um, and I like seeing the demographics of different like different cultures that are listening to the show. It's just not only in America, but I have some listens in Canada, the Philippines, hell, even Africa, which I thought was like wow, that's awesome. So I'm not even sure if they can understand me, but hey, it is what it is. So I want to say thank you for those you guys who show me love. However, oh, I did get a letter. I did get a letter in Russian. I don't know what it says because I'm trying to decode it. So I think when the person wrote me, um, I don't speak with one language, and that's English. So if you're writing me a letter in any other language for that, I don't understand it. So I'm trying to decode the letter and trying to get uh Google Translate to help me with that, but I don't know. So I'm not sure what this letter is about because it's all in Russian. Oh my god. It's either Russian or is Russia Ukraine, do they have the same? I don't know. I don't know. But if you write me a letter and English isn't your first language, just try to write it the best way you can. I'll try to cipher it the best way I can. This is the first letter I've gotten that's from a um from another country, which is Russian. Um, but I mean what they write is just I don't understand it, so I'm trying to like take line because I can't I can't translate the whole damn thing because I don't think Google works that fast, so I gotta do it by line by line or by paragraph by paragraph. In any event, I'm working on it, so all I got is the young lady's name is Sasha. So that's all I got. Sasha and hello icon. How are you? And that was it. But if you guys want to try to write me a letter from another country and you're from a different country, then I will try my best to cipher it. I will try my best to um try to get it out the best way I can because the letters that come to me are um are from America, um they're from America, and I know that I have people that's that listen to me overseas or in other countries. Hey, I'll do my best to try to um to get your letter out there. Um so in any event, like I said, D6 Empire. The show is called Let's Talk About It. I'm available on every streaming platform that you can think of: Amazon, Apple, uh Dietler, uh Spotify, whatever you want to listen to, I'm there. So as we get ready to close it out, I want to say thank you guys for listening again. Um tune in for me tomorrow, and I should have another letter we're gonna get through. We're gonna probably do this one from the family drama. It's gonna be entitled Family Drama Part Three. So, Miss Um Rachel really wants me to get this letter out, so I'm gonna get it out, and we're going to continue to talk. I mean, I feel like Miss Rachel, you're like a regular person on my show. You're the only person I got that's written me three letters. Three letters. So obviously I might be doing something right, I'm good with that, but you know, like I said, if I can help anybody out, I can try to help you out the best way I can. Now, I've been through some of these experiences, but not a lot of them, and I don't really tend to do a lot of research online because I try to take these as if if these situations were my situations, what would I do about it? So I try to give you guys the best reasonable advice that I can possibly give you because that's just who I am. So, and I know that I have a lot of sarcasm behind it, but that's just me. So, but in any event, it's all good. Um, we are gonna get ready to shut her down. I'm gonna let you guys probably wall out on this last track. It's called Good Time. TKee is the artist, so whatever. Any event, I'm gonna let y'all wall out. My name is Icon. Thank y'all for listening to the show, and we'll see y'all next time.

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