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Growing Up In An African Boarding School | AEM #127 David Farrell | Piers Cross
David Farrell was born in Africa. His writing reflects his life experiences on three continents in his favourite genres of literary fiction, coming of age sagas, and non-fiction.
Having led for over half a century, he now possesses a deep fascination for human behaviours.
He lives in New Zealand, with his lifelong partner where he is writing his third and fourth novels.
- I would love to hear some of your life story. What drew you to writing, Chameleon?
- What was growing up in Africa like?
- Could you please talk about your boarding school experiences in Rhodesia?
- It sounds like Southern Africa was not very safe at that time. How was being in a boarding school?
- How did you cope with boarding school?
- In what ways do you feel British boarding schools are similar or not from Southern African ones?
- Other areas to talk about:
- Colonialism
- Fagging P.61
- Bullying
- Punishment for breaking the rules P.76
- Soccer Vs Rugby at BS
- Food “odd hunk of indistinguishable gristle.” P.28/ No food for the end of the table P.38
- The first night - “horrors” P.31
- Emotions “I dashed away a tear and pulled myself together.” P.38
- “The English PS system envied the world over.” P49
- Themba “You shouldn't be away from home.” P67
- “Sense of patriotism and cameraderie with these boys who had done nothing but insult and abuse us.” P.83
- “I learnt to melt into the collective. Somehow it didn't seem so bad. My mind glossed over the hardships.” P.85
- Split between sibling who stays at home. “I'm a visitor in my home.” P.88
- Butterflies before going back to school. P.95
- Lifelong games of burying the self P.118
- “Those who control and restrict are themselves controlled and restricted.” P119
- Always moving - 6th town age 13. P.143
- Members of the opposite sex viewed as “curious sect with strange behaviours and ideals.” P160
For more information please visit: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/davemfarrell/
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Piers is an author and a men's transformational coach and therapist who works mainly with trauma, boarding school issues, addictions and relationship problems.
He also runs online men's groups for ex-boarders, retreats and a podcast called An Evolving Man.
He is also the author of How to Survive and Thrive in Challenging Times. To purchase Piers first book: https://www.amazon.co.uk/How-Survive-Thrive-Challenging-Times/dp/B088T5L251/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=piers+cross&qid=1609869608&sr=8-1
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Many blessings,
Piers Cross
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