The Guides With Intuitive India Leigh

Your Sweet Spot: Equalizing Your Inner Energies

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We all have internal "equalizer controls" for our masculine and feminine energies, and finding the sweet spot between extremes creates flow and harmony in our lives and relationships. In this episode, we explore with the Guides how to find this point of divine power within each of us. 

• The space between sleeping and waking mirrors our spiritual journey between unconsciousness and consciousness
• Like an audio equalizer, we each have two controllers inside – one for yin energy (feminine, receptive) and one for yang energy (masculine, active)
• When either energy moves to extremes, we experience suffering – shadow feminine becomes neediness and depression; shadow masculine becomes burnout and control
• The "sweet spot" near the middle represents divine/healed expressions of both energies
• We can only control our own equalizer settings, not anyone else's
• Our energy settings create our experiences – like a musician playing notes that manifest physically
• In relationships, harmony comes when each person adjusts their own energy balance consciously
• Small, intentional adjustments to our internal energies can completely transform our experience
• Spirit is creating something new through us when we operate from this balanced sweet spot

Trust your inner knowing and balance your energies. New doors are opening that align with your destiny, and spirit is providing all the support you need – you don't have to do everything yourself.


Learn more about, book a session with or contact India Leigh at indialeigh.com

Speaker 1:

Hi, I'm Intuitive India Lee, and this is the Guides Podcast. I'm going to use this episode to bounce some things off. You relay some things that my guides gave me last night. You know, probably like you, I get a lot of clarity in the middle of the night when I wake up, and it can also be a time of a lot of confusion. I feel like that is because, you know, we talk about the veil being thin between this world and the other world and when we are sleeping we are really. Really that veil is just lifted up for us, really, because we're just not in our bodies at all, we're not connecting with our bodies energetically, we're just sort of letting our bodies, you know, just take over. We're not managing anything consciously, of course, because we're unconscious, and it feels like when you wake up from that, if it's a night where you know you're receiving a lot of clarity, it just comes through so clear. And that's what happened to me last night with this particular thing we're going to explore today.

Speaker 1:

And then the challenge is well, how do I take that and bring it to you know, conscious life? Because, as you know, sometimes you write down that dream or that message or whatever it is and it just won't come out. Or you try to talk about it, it just won't come out coherently, or maybe it does, but then you read it or listen to it and you're like, all right, that doesn't didn't translate, you know. And of course it's the same. I'm talking about receiving those enlightening and amazing downloads and messages. Of course it's the same with the other side of the spectrum, with, you know, nightmares and that just awful, sticky, fearful energy. We wake up in that, we wake up in that and then that, uh, you know, kind of holds us there in that, in that in-between state, until we're fully, fully awake. So I feel like there's so much to explore in that, in that time, in that um, it's not even time in that space between sleeping, unconsciousness and being fully conscious and awake, literally right. So then, wow, if that's literal into the metaphorical of that or the, you know the symbolic of that, what if there's a space between being unconscious and being conscious spiritually, and how long? I mean, I know there is, you know there is. How long do we spend in that space and do we visit it often, like we do between sleeping and waking, between night and day? Ooh, I love it. Do we kind of flip-flop, do we, you know? Oh, I was feeling fully conscious, I was feeling fully like almost enlightened, you know, for a while. And then I slipped back into this unconsciousness, this painful kind of, you know, human ego triggeredness, and then I, and then I kind of spent some time in between trying to navigate, trying to find my way back to that point of consciousness. Yeah, it is really like day and night, isn't it? Yeah? So, wow, you know, I knew that just speaking with you in this format would open up a lot.

Speaker 1:

In doing this podcast for years now, I, in various under various titles and in various forms, I have always I've done a couple episodes here and there, by myself, technically, but just with you. But in most of them I'm talking to someone else and having a conversation on the episode. But my guides lately have been moving me toward more of this. And now I see why. Now I see why Because in talking with you, knowing that you're connecting with me, it opens up this portal of exploration for us that can be very open, that spirit can just flow through.

Speaker 1:

And I remember experiencing this really strongly with my YouTube videos when I first started relaying the messages that were coming through me from Spirit, started relaying them and using the card, using tarot cards, but relaying them on YouTube like many people do. And I remember, as I was filming those videos, I don't guess we filmed, filming those videos. I don't guess we film, as I was video phoning, phoning those videos which would be, you know, anywhere and at any time, and I bring my cards with me, which I do have my cards right here. So I'm really doing the same thing and I would just connect a spirit and flow through those messages on video, and I still do that, but it's different spirit and flow through those messages on video. And I still do that, but it's different. It's different because the video format you know what I'm talking about was a decade ago, it was almost a full decade ago, and so the video aspect was not what it is now.

Speaker 1:

We were not. I mean, we really were not as saturated as we were as we are now In the past decade. I don't know if you realize I didn't until I thought about this how saturated our eyeballs have gotten, like, like there was no TikTok, there was no. You know, there was social media, of course, but it was not. It just was not as video heavy as it is now, and I love videos, but your eyeballs get tired and they can only take in so much.

Speaker 1:

And it's the same with listening. You know, video requires both, you know, and when we're connecting with spirit and we're listening, but we're allowing ourselves to see something else, like right now I'm at a park, I'm in nature, I'm, um, I can see nature. And while you're listening to this, you can see what you're saying. And, by the way, please tell me what that is, please, please, message me and tell me what you're seeing as you listen to this. I would so love to hear that. You can message me on my website, indialicom, or message me on any of the social media where we're connected, but let me know, because I would love to hear what you're looking at and sort of immersed in while you're listening, because that is the advantage of just listening, right, rather than having to watch too. And, yeah, yeah, interesting.

Speaker 1:

So, that said, I suddenly have my tarot cards in my hand, which I didn't plan on taking out, and, um, let me go ahead and see what spirit wants to say, because really those guides are the guests, and you know that's so cool. So, oh, the artist, six of cups and the knight of cups, nice, with the six of wands and the ten of cups. So, you know, it feels like a weaning process in a way. It feels like, um, when we talk about watching things or taking in information, or this is how we're connecting, you know, and it's beautiful because we're sparking these remembrances in each other. I mean when I'm able to, you know, talk with you, and when you're listening, and when we're connecting with spirit, and you probably do this in the ways that you relay everything to the people, that you're relaying things to that you're experiencing from spirit in your purest self. It's like it's a reconnection, it's a remembering, and we're activating each other. We are activating each other to be able to give and receive in a higher way. Oh, nice.

Speaker 1:

So they're showing this as cups, right, and cups are neither earthly nor spirit. Spirit is wands. Earth is pinnacles in the tarot, it's cups, and cups are emotions. They are the flow, the flow of being on earth and letting everything flow through us. Ah, and living in it. You know kind of living in it, letting that that river carry us. You know kind of living it? Letting that river carry us, carry us in the flow, ooh, tingles, I love it. So that's what we're doing when we do this. That's what we're doing when we connect in these ways.

Speaker 1:

And whatever ways you go out and connect, whether you're writing, whether you are just having conversations with people that are elevated, or whether you're just silently being in your own presence, spirit's presence, or silent presence around other people, it's all those cups, it's all. We're letting things flow through us and, most importantly, we're letting go of how it has to look, how it has to, and the Lord knows we're letting go of the outcome. Right, because these things, these, this living in the flow, it doesn't make sense. If you're going to attach to outcome, it doesn't. You know Whether I'm doing this or whether it was 10 years ago with that video or any of the many things that we've explored. You know, all together, as a collective, we couldn't have predicted the results. And the more we kind of go I want it to be this, I want it to have this effect, I want it to produce this the weaker it gets.

Speaker 1:

And yet, when we let go, when we're in that flow, then the Knight of Cups represents all those gifts that can come in, all of that abundance, and also they showed the Ten of Cups, which is just all of the abundance, beautiful, love it. So the thing, the thing that they showed me last night that I woke up wanting to share with you, was so much of my work and the messages that come through me. Maybe this is because I'm a Libra, so Libras are very much about the scale. On one end of the scale there's masculine. On one end of the scale there's masculine. On one end of the scale there's feminine, or maybe there's dark and light, or maybe there's yin and yang, and yin, by the way, is that feminine, and yang being the masculine energy, but also yin is the darkness and yang is the light.

Speaker 1:

So they're all different ways of saying these two sides of the scale and in my work, a lot of it is about that balance, to the point where you know I have a tattoo on each wrist kind of symbolizing that, and everything seems to come back to that, without it being this, you know, pursuit. Again, we're not focusing on the outcome of no, we're perfectly balanced. Balanced, you know, that's not the point. The point is not to be living every moment being perfectly balanced, being perfectly, perfectly. No, the point is to start noticing and being aware of wow, look at all these tiny little details and how playing with these tiny little details changes what we receive, what we get to connect with, what we get to experience.

Speaker 1:

That is the power of the magician in the tarot Right, that is the power of the magician in the tarot right. A magician knows how to use all of these wonderful gifts we have here on earth and here in our bodies and here with spirit and here in our minds and in our hearts, to create anything through awareness. And that is, you know, we want to get to the end product. As humans, we're like well, let me create it, let me create everything, anything. Well, as a collective, we have done that and we're approaching the point of exhaustion, the point of going oh, we've fully saturated that concept. Like, I think that I want to make it.

Speaker 1:

Now Spirit's inviting us, the higher awareness is inviting us to create on an elevated level, kind of that in-between level. We're not on the other side and yet we're not confined to the limitations of survival earth. It's that in-between level, the in-between level, the middle, the moderation, the. You know the sweet spot, that same sweet spot you wake up in and you get everything, Download it to you, you get it crystal clear. And how much of that can we carry? How can we carry more of that into our conscious lives in a way that where we're not just floating around being disconnected from physical life, we're, you know, experiencing it? We're experiencing the spiritual plane on the physical plane. They're not two different things. So this is what they showed me. They showed me last night, the, you know, the bar on an old school stereo, or equalizer is the word they're showing me.

Speaker 1:

So equalizer, and I want you to imagine a sliding controller just slides from left to right. And then imagine there is two of them, two little, maybe rectangle, two little rectangles. You can slide one over to the left, you can slide one all the way over to the right, and these two represent the yin and the yang within you. So on the left you have this yin rectangle that you can slide all the way over and you can picture this spectrum as big as you want to, this equalizer bar, as big as you want to. You can slide that left rectangle of the yin energy, the feminine energy, all the way over as far as you want, to the very extreme of that yin energy. And then you can do the same with the yang. You can slide that rectangle all the way over to the right, as far as your arm can reach, and at that end is the extreme yang energy, the extreme masculine energy, the extreme light, that yin energy. On the other extreme is the extreme dark.

Speaker 1:

Okay, and within each of us we have both of these rectangles that can slide all the way this way, slide all the way that way, and then they come together in the middle. And when they come together in the middle, they each still hold the yin and the yang, the masculine, the feminine, the dark and the light, or I should say I had those, I didn't name those consistently. You know what we're talking about and we each have those, and we are always at different times of our lives, at different times of our different relationships we're in. We're always moving those little rectangular controllers, you know, sliding them, sliding them this way, sliding them that way, and when we are connected with somebody, when we're connected with another soul, and that soul, it's a balancing connection, it's a healing connection, even if that healing connection and especially if it's really, you know, difficult and painful.

Speaker 1:

Well then, what we're doing is one of us in the connection will slide that rectangle over to an extreme and then the other one's going to slide theirs over to the opposite extreme and then that's why we see all that discord in connection. It's all distorted, you know, because imagine if that was an equalizer and you're listening to something and somebody slid the the left one all the way left and the right one all the way the right. That would, you would definitely hear that, right, you would hear that in your stereo. If you're younger and yeah, you may have to look at a picture of what that stereo looked like, because it was way different than what we have now and it was all fancy had all these controllers on it just to listen to something you know in your living room, so in the 1900s, so inside of ourselves, we're always moving that lever back and forth and then what we get to do is or those two levers, and then we get to do is see how that adjustment, how that equalization, shows up in our connections.

Speaker 1:

And it's fascinating once we can let go of wanting it to show up a certain way, right? So if you're in a soul connection, you want it to be romantic, let's say, and you, or that's what you're connecting with about it, that's what you're like, it's got to be this and therefore, in your ego mind, in your human mind, you you're like and I'm attaching to how that looks, I want it to look like this and I want us to be, you know, living like this. And then you are adjusting your level, levels on your equalizer bar, expecting them to just mirror that, you know, in a way that you want. You know, come, come on, let's both slide over here, let's both slide up.

Speaker 1:

The issue is, with free will, you only get to control your knob, you don't get to move theirs. Now, what actually does happen is when you shift yours where you want it. If you are in a connection that's in love, that's divine, that is going to rise and heal with you, naturally, that other, that person on the other end of the connection, if they're aware and conscious, will adjust their levels too for themselves, and then those will balance and harmonize and that's the miracle of divine connection. But what happens when we get involved and don't surrender to that miracle? That's happening, you know, and this can be with any relationship. It can also be parent-child, siblings, friends, whatever.

Speaker 1:

But what we do is we say, no, I want you to put your knob here, we try to move it for them. And then they're like get your hands off my knob, and then we just have a whole different struggle, you know. And then they're like I need to go over here so you don't mess with my knobs anymore and I need you know. And then that's fine because we focus back in on our own, which is all we can control anyway. Right, but you have two inside of you.

Speaker 1:

That other person we're talking about has two as well of you. That other person we're talking about has two as well, two little rectangles, because we all, every one of us, has the yin and the yang. We all have both has absolutely nothing to do at all with gender. It is every human. It's just a matter of what proportion, what equalization are those two little controllers yin and yang, light and dark, masculine, feminine at what proportions are they being shown? You might look at it as treble and bass on your thing in your car, your stereo in your car the treble and the bass, you know. So what I was being shown is you can, you can see, when we talk about the wounded feminine and the wounded masculine and the healed feminine, or healing feminine, divine feminine and the divine masculine, healing masculine, healed masculine. We can see that those, if we're looking at that equalizer bar, those are toward the middle. You know, those areas there is a sweet spot and it's not exactly in the middle, because that would just be boring.

Speaker 1:

We would all be again, we'd all be perfect, we'd all be running around just being. You know, that perfect balance, that perfect blalance, and we're not that. So I mean, we don't want to be that, but we also don't want to be, as we've learned, as a collective swinging, wildly, pinging and ponging, or even just staying in those extremes, because that just has become so painful. That is what creates suffering. You know, just like if you're listening to that music and your levels were all off and you'd be like, why doesn't this sound good? It sounds horrible, and this is now noise and it's painful. That's because you know there's all that distortion. We've got the. This one slid way too far over here. This one slid way too far over here. This one slid way too far over here and we're in those extremes. And that's where we get into the woundedness.

Speaker 1:

So you could change your perception and spirit was changing mine last night of wounded feminine, wounded masculine, to extreme yin or darkness, extreme yang or fire, you know, or just extreme extremes. And then we come into that sweet spot which might range. You know, maybe if you're looking at your equalizer it might range. You know, a few inches from that center, so there's a lot range. You know, a few inches from that center, so there's a lot, there's a lot to play with there.

Speaker 1:

But that sweet spot is the area of the divine or the healed yin and yang, the moderate, I'll say the, the um, the flow. Let's call it the flow, the flow yin and the flow yang, because when they're in their extremes they're not flowing, they're stuck and stuck and suffering. So the flow is that sweet spot and you can say, oh, I want to. You know what happens if I move light um controller a little more and I get a little more active, a little more young, a little more in my masculine, what if I show a little more confidence, what if I'm feeling more powerful? And then that gets moved a little bit over to the right, and then you know, you might say, well, in my feminine, in my yin, I want to honor the sacredness, I want to kind of go into the cool, restful place, I want to rest, I want to receive, and then we slide that left rectangular controller over a little bit. And this is how we get to experience that flow, because, as we're moving these things around within ourselves with consciousness, we are being that magician. We're saying, oh, look what this creates, look what this brings in.

Speaker 1:

Sometimes it is going to be painful because we're like, oh wow, I've never been in this range before and this it almost like. You know, my ears aren't used to hearing it and we have to kind of take that slowly and practice it and say, well, let me listen to it a little bit at a time. You know, let me, let me, let me play this one at a lower volume, you know. So it's when I'm recording this, it's virgo season. Virgo season is very much about paying attention to those details, to those daily habits, to those decisions and, most of all, how we feel, how we experience them in our bodies, in our human bodies and minds. Paying attention to those details.

Speaker 1:

And it just so happens that the body and mind represents inside of you, inside of your two knobs, represents your masculine and represents your young, and the heart and the soul, the heart and the spirit within you represents your Yin, your feminine, your sacred space, that sacred dark, you know, because there is a sacred space of dark. That's not shadow. When we get into shadow, we're getting into extremion, we're getting into depression, we're getting into now we've gone beyond receiving, into neediness. Now we've gone beyond rest, into, you know, I can't move Now, I'm rigid, and that's the extreme, or shadow aspect of that feminine, that yin, that darkness. And then we, you know, move that back a little bit, we pull it back from there a little bit, or a lot, and we can get into the sweet spot of restoration, divine feminine intuition, being able to know things from the inside. You know, it may be dark, dark, but it's sacred.

Speaker 1:

And then we move into that yang. You know, on the yang side we can go the shadow of yang. I mean, that's like we go way, extreme, right we're, we're in too much, too much control, too much energy, too much exertion, this we move into addiction, we move into wanting to stay in one energy all the time and go, go, go and output and output, with with no stopping. You know we want to be able to consume and consume. This is all the extreme yang, the extreme of the light, the fire, the fire right, and the shadow of that looks like, you know, oh, I'm getting burnt. I'm getting burnt here. So you pull that into the sweet spot and you have that beautiful strength, that confidence, that centeredness, that decisive action, being able to be in that yang energy and that yin energy in ways that serve the flow, that open to the flow.

Speaker 1:

And oh, it's so interesting, it's so fascinating how we, you know, move about, we move in the world and we're like being those knobs, those controllers, always being kind of messed with, especially if we don't know our power, if we aren't aware. Hey, that's my equalizer, I get to decide from the inside where those settings are. You don't get to decide that for me. But there is an illusion, because in codependence, in you know the um, the systems or the, the conditions that we were kind of you know, in a survival way, in a fear, way from the know, just trying to figure things out as a collective. We got all up on each other's controllers and we're running around trying to control each other's or maybe trying to be like I only, I'm never going to let anybody near mine and therefore I'm not going to connect.

Speaker 1:

And now we're moving into a new way, and that new way of being is to just be aware and sure of it, accepting it as truth, that you know, these are mine, this equalizer is mine within myself and I get to choose with my free will what I do with it and to know the truth that and my choices there will be creating the experience, the outcome that I get. Not from a way of I get to control what it looks like, because that's the part where we surrender all that to spirit. We say, all right, I'm going to be responsible and aware and curious about my own levels here and, spirit, you show me what the reflections look like, because you know, I've never lived at this frequency before, I've never lived in the way of having these settings, you know, on my equalizer set here. So you're creating this new vibration or this new music through yourself and then you're letting spirit reflect to you what it sounds like, what it's received like, what it produces.

Speaker 1:

Wow, if you're a musician, it'd be like imagine playing an instrument, playing music, and then that music literally creates something physical in front of you, creates a physical experience, creates an object. You know, that's what we're talking about. It's just that our energy, that we live, that we are all the time embodying, being a body, you know, with this energy just coursing through us. We are the instrument and spirit is saying yeah. And when you are aware of those frequencies within you and what you can do to kind of finesse them, then you are going to see how that different music you're playing gets heard, how it, how it creates something completely different.

Speaker 1:

And you know that's bittersweet, because even though there was suffering, you know, even though there was suffering in, you know, even though there was suffering in the past from swinging from one extreme to the other or whatever it was, or staying in one extreme or staying right there in the middle saying I'm not going to move at all we got attached, you know, we all got attached to whatever that familiar vibration, whatever that familiar song was. And yeah, we would all get to where, like, if I hear this song one more time, I'm going to lose my mind. If I see this cycle one more time, I can't take it. But also, we don't know any other, you know. So now we're learning new, new creations through that and the challenge is trusting that what's flowing, what's what's where it's taking us, is a good place and it is just.

Speaker 1:

You can tell by the way it feels. Place and it is just. You can tell by the way it feels. You can tell because I mean for some, for some people it's, and for myself you can tell it's the right direction, because it's the only direction you can possibly move in.

Speaker 1:

If you try to move backwards, if you try to go where you've gone already, if you try to lean on what your ego mind says, you know you have to do or go back to those extremes. It hurts too much, it's not a viable option anymore and that's by design, because through us, spirit is creating something new, a whole new planet, a whole new way of living in the physical, and it's being literally created through us, the new way of um process. So I just really am grateful, grateful, um, to always be exploring everything that spirit sends through, exploring it with you, um, and with that amazing guide team, thank you. So, before we go, let me give you a little message for you. If you are listening to this, if you've listened to this up to this point, here is your message oh, seven of Cups, wheel of Fortune of fortune, high priestess, I love it. So that is spirit saying um.

Speaker 1:

When you trust, when you listen to your own knowing, your own inner balance, that's having both of those yin and yang equalizers in the sweet spot. Doors are opening to you New doors, new creations, new gifts, new things that are coming in, and that is lining you up for this place in your destiny, destiny in this lifetime that you've probably always sensed was coming, lifetime that you've probably always sensed was coming. I mean, if you're listening to this podcast, you definitely always have sensed your destiny. You know the, the bigness of it, the um, what you're stepping into. But remember, everything you're stepping into there comes with so much support when you're working with spirit and you're stepping into there comes with so much support when you're working with spirit and you're surrendering to that. It comes with so much, so much support and so many gifts. So please don't be trying to do everything yourself, okay, because that's not going to work. We have the guides for that and we will connect again soon. Send me that message, let me know. All right, bye.